Should respect be earned or given and why? Bonus question: in your own opinion, whose responsibility is it to teach kids about respecting others: the kids themselves, parents, or teachers?
I'd rather give myself respect, because lately I've been mentally beating myself up because of my past and mistakes. So me respecting myself should come before anything else.
Timestamps 1). Unblurring the boundaries 0:27 2). My word is my bond 1:22 3). Head-to-toe confidence 2:08 4). My bad 3:11 5). Louder than anxiety 3:53 6). I got your back 4:43 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Another tip for getting respect that works for me: make sure people know that if they betray you, you’ll never talk to them again. But only if it’s something unforgivable. If it’s a little mistake, let them know that you don’t like it and forgive them. Just don’t give too many second chances or you’ll get taken advantage of.
Other points I can think of: - try to always treat others like you would want to be treated - reflect and think about people more than on the surface, show actual interest and genuinely give the benefit of the doubt - don't speak louder to make yourself heared. If possible show it with actions, or step away from the situation at first. Speak more silent and thoughtful instead of loud and emotionally. - admit to being imperfect and take responsability for mistakes - voice your opinion clearly: Don't say "you always...." but "I feel x when...". Do not exaggregate, use sarkasm or jokes or shift the blame to get your point across. There are subtle passive-aggressive strategies I've heared people use eg. "but if you have a better idea, then say it" / "but I'm just me" from people without bad intention. Just say "that's the best idea I have, please feel free to discuss, disagree or give your input", or simply "what do you think about that?".
These are really good points. In my opinion, I feel like you need to respect yourself because others do. Because it can give you a confidence boost and treat others like how you want them to to treat you.
For real, this video actually included something which I relate to my character a lot, and that's number 6: "I got your back". I'm glad you mentioned it in the video! Thank you! :D
I want to add the point, to stay humble. Like, in the last point at 05:15 the guy said'it was nothing.' Staying humble makes oneself more relatable and down to earth. If the guy responded with something like 'you owe me' the energy would have shifted to a more arrogant representation. with being humble the people see the actions oneself makes is easy for them and belongs to their personality. This way, people respect your being and the actions you have taken.
I got a couple things that got me respect in middle school and will still help me in the future, I think it could help some men so here are some things that made me respectable: 1. Know how to fight 2. Always be calm, no matter what (Even if someone is threatening to jump you) 3. Learn to communicate and have a deep voice 4. Be mistyrious (Im not joking) 5. Have friends. 6. Have a masculine body language 7. Dress good, no logos, no designs (preferably) 8. Fix your posture 9. Show you arent afraid of anything (I almost got jumped once and I showed I want afraid, they just gave up) 10. So sports, any one you like 11. be social 12. Hunter eyes 13. Be relaxed 14. Work on yourself, improve, workout, make money (if you can and know how) 15. Be yourself, no need to create a false identity just to be popular 16. Talk with girls, the more women talk to you, the more you seem attractive (This one can help you boost your confidence and make females more attracted to you) 17. Be confident. 18. The more handsome you are, the better 19. Be as peaceful as you can, avoid conflict Theres more and you can search if you want, but thats some things that made people respect me. Everything said in this video is valid ngl tho. Edit: Please ignore the spelling errors, english isnt my native language.
Call people out if you notice disrespect. Many people are getting into the trap of being too polite. You can be kind, polite and immediately call people out if they cross boundaries. Let’s try to make this a better world ❤
I've been demanding more respect from my peers. I hold people to their word, and if they disrespect me, it's hard for me to respect them from then on. It's difficult to feel encouraged when I do this, but am literally the only one who is going against this new norm everyone seems to be stuck in.
Step 1: I naturally do. Step 2: I take this to a dangerous level. Step 3: I do this constantly, I always monitor my physical language. Step 4: I never care if I'm wrong, I'm fine messing up, I can improve. Step 5: I prefer to be quiet but when I talk, I'm very clear, loud but a tad fast. Step 6: I always share my thoughts and always stand for what I believe in. I still don't feel respected.
Some people will never respect you. Sometimes you're so beaten down by society that you learn not to care what others think. It takes a while but you can learn this power.
So let's assume either one of these is true: 1) you messed up, and people don't tell you but treat you bad as a consequence. 2) They are for whatever reason shitty people who will not show respect. Maybe there's a third where you don't feel respected, but people don't intentionally meant to disrespect you. If that's possible I would try and ask someone who might give you a helpful, calm and reflected answer. Either someone who you feel doesn't respect you, or somebody who knows the situation and people well enough. So I would ask them if they think you've wronged someone, and if they think their behaviour is fair. Another option is to straight up go and say "I don't feel respected, can we talk about that please". Depending on the people, they might have trouble being confronted like that. But it can be the best way to solve this. Either way try to really understand their perspective, calmly ask questions about how they see things. Thank the person and let it sit for at least over night, reflect afterwards the next day with a calm mind. Hopefully you'll have some insight after that.
@@ann18o96What if it's in a work environment...? I left a job because of physical stuff concerning several employees and employer exposing himself in public place.
#4. My bad. I always try to admit my mistakes because my dad literally doesn't and keeps blaming everything but himself. But I sometimes fall into the same trap because I come from him. So I basically try not to be Dad, and instead try to be someone who's more deserving of respect. It's still a bit of a struggle with my communication skills...
Glad it was helpful! If you ever need help on learning to increase your self confidence. We have a few videos on the channel. You might need to search it up on our channel
For #4, one of my favorite UA-cam comments I've ever seen includes: "which tbh I don't really know how that works". So yeah. Admitting that stuff really works XD
You should respect everyone until they give you a reason not to. Everybody wants to and deserves to be treated with dignity and respect, hurt people hurt people so if those kids were bullying that kid in the beginning you grow up to understand that they were most likely getting it even worse else where and since they cant take it out on their abuser they take it out on somebody less smaller than them and so they cycle continues. Evil people arent born. They are made.
انا شخصية انطوائية كنت أهتم بنظرة الناس لي لدرجة أنني افكر في كلمة قالها أحدهم لمدة أسبوع او اكثر ... لكن مؤخرا زادت انطوائيتي و عزلتي حتى عن أهلي و لم أعد أهتم لكلام الناس عني لأنني اكتشفت ان لا احد رأى الجانب المضحك و الجميل مني لهذا لا احد يستحق أن اجعل كلامه امام عيناي كتهديد بالنسبة لي 😅.... لكل منا جانب خفي لا يعلمه احد غيره لأننا ببساطة لم نجد ذلك الشخص الذي نستطيع الوثوق به لرؤية جانبنا المرح ونتعامل معه بطبيعتنا ... اتمنى ان تكونو جميعكم بخير ❤
Persistance is another thing i would say. If you always change ur persona and personality, it will lead other people around you confused on their image which they have of you (even though they dont wanna say it) - maybe ur personality is to be inconsistent and variable. then so be it. but always stay true to yourself and do what YOU want. Thats one from me :)
The Bad thing would be, that some people can not relate to people beeing inconsistent. They just are who they are and they feel fine that way. But a few of us tend to be very volatile when it comes to personality. I mean i dont know either, since im a very uncommon, adaptable and understanding person for others but... i guess unempathic people see it like that? yeah :)@@ellakramar1931
"My bad" is totally deja vu while arguing with someone. Statistically you can't be wrong in all cases of arguing with someone, but saying "My bad" even you're 100% right it will create an image in their heads that they are ALWAYS right. And you're definitely not paid for boosting their ego
Sorry if I’m annoying you but can you do a video about how you know that your being used or a video abt how to handle a close friend moving away ,it’s ok if you don’t wanna do neither
I have problems to force bullies to respect me. Is there any psychological trick to let them stop bullying? I'm open to any solution. Also sorry for 💩 English.
As much as you may be attached to, and/or have been socialized to seek validation, it is not necessary! You don't need approval! Do you, be you... the opinions and rest is irrelevant!
Yes. This is a good video. But, not everyone will respect you or others. Some people don't respect others for what ever reason why. I've experienced both respect and disrespect. And I learned to avoid others who disrespect me. Don't waste your time with them. It isn't worth it.
Regarding 5:03, There is little if any "systemic racism" left in North America and Western Europe. There are still racist individuals, but name me just one racist law? Bet ya can't.
Should respect be earned or given and why? Bonus question: in your own opinion, whose responsibility is it to teach kids about respecting others: the kids themselves, parents, or teachers?
First
earned cause you never know what their gonna do.
Can you do a video on neurodiversity?
Earned, if it was only giving there wouldn’t be respect.
Earned for sure
I'd rather give myself respect, because lately I've been mentally beating myself up because of my past and mistakes. So me respecting myself should come before anything else.
yes!!
Well said!
I feel the same right now and I’m trying to respect myself but it can be hard sometimes
Other people won't respect you if you don't respect yourself. It goes hand in hand
@@serotonin5852very true
Timestamps
1). Unblurring the boundaries 0:27
2). My word is my bond 1:22
3). Head-to-toe confidence 2:08
4). My bad 3:11
5). Louder than anxiety 3:53
6). I got your back 4:43
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you❤️
@@bradleyevertsen4636 not a problem
Another tip for getting respect that works for me: make sure people know that if they betray you, you’ll never talk to them again. But only if it’s something unforgivable. If it’s a little mistake, let them know that you don’t like it and forgive them. Just don’t give too many second chances or you’ll get taken advantage of.
Other points I can think of:
- try to always treat others like you would want to be treated
- reflect and think about people more than on the surface, show actual interest and genuinely give the benefit of the doubt
- don't speak louder to make yourself heared. If possible show it with actions, or step away from the situation at first. Speak more silent and thoughtful instead of loud and emotionally.
- admit to being imperfect and take responsability for mistakes
- voice your opinion clearly: Don't say "you always...." but "I feel x when...". Do not exaggregate, use sarkasm or jokes or shift the blame to get your point across. There are subtle passive-aggressive strategies I've heared people use eg. "but if you have a better idea, then say it" / "but I'm just me" from people without bad intention. Just say "that's the best idea I have, please feel free to discuss, disagree or give your input", or simply "what do you think about that?".
Thanks 👍
These are really good points. In my opinion, I feel like you need to respect yourself because others do. Because it can give you a confidence boost and treat others like how you want them to to treat you.
For real, this video actually included something which I relate to my character a lot, and that's number 6: "I got your back". I'm glad you mentioned it in the video! Thank you! :D
I want to add the point, to stay humble. Like, in the last point at 05:15 the guy said'it was nothing.' Staying humble makes oneself more relatable and down to earth. If the guy responded with something like 'you owe me' the energy would have shifted to a more arrogant representation. with being humble the people see the actions oneself makes is easy for them and belongs to their personality. This way, people respect your being and the actions you have taken.
Yes and it hasn't been fair lately. 😡 I need this.
I got a couple things that got me respect in middle school and will still help me in the future, I think it could help some men so here are some things that made me respectable:
1. Know how to fight
2. Always be calm, no matter what (Even if someone is threatening to jump you)
3. Learn to communicate and have a deep voice
4. Be mistyrious (Im not joking)
5. Have friends.
6. Have a masculine body language
7. Dress good, no logos, no designs (preferably)
8. Fix your posture
9. Show you arent afraid of anything (I almost got jumped once and I showed I want afraid, they just gave up)
10. So sports, any one you like
11. be social
12. Hunter eyes
13. Be relaxed
14. Work on yourself, improve, workout, make money (if you can and know how)
15. Be yourself, no need to create a false identity just to be popular
16. Talk with girls, the more women talk to you, the more you seem attractive (This one can help you boost your confidence and make females more attracted to you)
17. Be confident.
18. The more handsome you are, the better
19. Be as peaceful as you can, avoid conflict
Theres more and you can search if you want, but thats some things that made people respect me. Everything said in this video is valid ngl tho.
Edit: Please ignore the spelling errors, english isnt my native language.
I already do most of these things, and im glad that this video taught me about how i gotta call people out on their BS. Thank you!
How to earn respect:
Flex every muscle in your body while simultaneously telling someone you're forklift certified.
Instant respect.
This is true! I did this and now everybody respects me.
@@encomiainks5144 See? Proof☝️
Word!
Tell people you own a gun.
Call people out if you notice disrespect. Many people are getting into the trap of being too polite. You can be kind, polite and immediately call people out if they cross boundaries.
Let’s try to make this a better world ❤
Thank you for this! The poses one really helped. I definitely have to look into them!
This takes a lot of work. Even when you have been emotionally abused as a child. Sometimes it's exhausting 😔
I've been demanding more respect from my peers. I hold people to their word, and if they disrespect me, it's hard for me to respect them from then on. It's difficult to feel encouraged when I do this, but am literally the only one who is going against this new norm everyone seems to be stuck in.
I definetly needed this !!
Hope this video helps you! Did it help you?
@@Psych2go yes very much
❤ Thank you very much for these tips. I appreciate you!
Glad you like them!
Step 1: I naturally do.
Step 2: I take this to a dangerous level.
Step 3: I do this constantly, I always monitor my physical language.
Step 4: I never care if I'm wrong, I'm fine messing up, I can improve.
Step 5: I prefer to be quiet but when I talk, I'm very clear, loud but a tad fast.
Step 6: I always share my thoughts and always stand for what I believe in.
I still don't feel respected.
Some people just want to drag you down no matter what, they also need to earn your respect.
Some people will never respect you. Sometimes you're so beaten down by society that you learn not to care what others think. It takes a while but you can learn this power.
So let's assume either one of these is true: 1) you messed up, and people don't tell you but treat you bad as a consequence. 2) They are for whatever reason shitty people who will not show respect. Maybe there's a third where you don't feel respected, but people don't intentionally meant to disrespect you.
If that's possible I would try and ask someone who might give you a helpful, calm and reflected answer. Either someone who you feel doesn't respect you, or somebody who knows the situation and people well enough. So I would ask them if they think you've wronged someone, and if they think their behaviour is fair.
Another option is to straight up go and say "I don't feel respected, can we talk about that please". Depending on the people, they might have trouble being confronted like that. But it can be the best way to solve this.
Either way try to really understand their perspective, calmly ask questions about how they see things. Thank the person and let it sit for at least over night, reflect afterwards the next day with a calm mind. Hopefully you'll have some insight after that.
@@ann18o96What if it's in a work environment...? I left a job because of physical stuff concerning several employees and employer exposing himself in public place.
#4. My bad. I always try to admit my mistakes because my dad literally doesn't and keeps blaming everything but himself. But I sometimes fall into the same trap because I come from him. So I basically try not to be Dad, and instead try to be someone who's more deserving of respect. It's still a bit of a struggle with my communication skills...
The fact that you're aware of this and working to improve means a lot. Keep it up!
I'm not sure if people respect me
But no one bothers me so it's more than good for me
This is very helpful! I always had low level confidence. 😢 ❤❤😊
Glad it was helpful! If you ever need help on learning to increase your self confidence. We have a few videos on the channel. You might need to search it up on our channel
Wow early and first like:0, and this is so good!❤❤
Yay! Thank you!
For #4, one of my favorite UA-cam comments I've ever seen includes:
"which tbh I don't really know how that works".
So yeah. Admitting that stuff really works XD
You should respect everyone until they give you a reason not to. Everybody wants to and deserves to be treated with dignity and respect, hurt people hurt people so if those kids were bullying that kid in the beginning you grow up to understand that they were most likely getting it even worse else where and since they cant take it out on their abuser they take it out on somebody less smaller than them and so they cycle continues. Evil people arent born. They are made.
Shouldn't there be levels of respect? Like, common human respect and decency..?
انا شخصية انطوائية كنت أهتم بنظرة الناس لي لدرجة أنني افكر في كلمة قالها أحدهم لمدة أسبوع او اكثر ... لكن مؤخرا زادت انطوائيتي و عزلتي حتى عن أهلي و لم أعد أهتم لكلام الناس عني لأنني اكتشفت ان لا احد رأى الجانب المضحك و الجميل مني لهذا لا احد يستحق أن اجعل كلامه امام عيناي كتهديد بالنسبة لي 😅.... لكل منا جانب خفي لا يعلمه احد غيره لأننا ببساطة لم نجد ذلك الشخص الذي نستطيع الوثوق به لرؤية جانبنا المرح ونتعامل معه بطبيعتنا ... اتمنى ان تكونو جميعكم بخير ❤
Thank you for watching! شكرا لمشاهدتك!
@@Psych2go عفوا ... على الرحب ❤
Persistance is another thing i would say. If you always change ur persona and personality, it will lead other people around you confused on their image which they have of you (even though they dont wanna say it) - maybe ur personality is to be inconsistent and variable. then so be it. but always stay true to yourself and do what YOU want. Thats one from me :)
How is that a bad thing?
The Bad thing would be, that some people can not relate to people beeing inconsistent. They just are who they are and they feel fine that way. But a few of us tend to be very volatile when it comes to personality. I mean i dont know either, since im a very uncommon, adaptable and understanding person for others but... i guess unempathic people see it like that? yeah :)@@ellakramar1931
Yes I am pumped up!
"My bad" is totally deja vu while arguing with someone. Statistically you can't be wrong in all cases of arguing with someone, but saying "My bad" even you're 100% right it will create an image in their heads that they are ALWAYS right. And you're definitely not paid for boosting their ego
This should be a PSA
I didnt rben realise this channels postes alot
Stand on business
i miss our cute little PSI ,.. i m not seeing him often in vids.... would love to see him back
Thank you very much 🌹🌷🌺
7) Rely on you vision and experience first and anything else (like youtube videos) - second
I actually like that one but still
Saw an ad of an RnB track I was beginning to wonder when psy2go evolved
Could you do a video on Selective Mutism if you haven't already?
Also my mom says im a celebrity because im an influence to the people around me so she forces me to look,act, and be perfect
Thanks for this message
yay thank you i needed this video
Hope this video helps you!
@@Psych2go it did since some kids in my school are pretty racists' and don't respect me
Respect is earned, not taken.
Sorry if I’m annoying you but can you do a video about how you know that your being used or a video abt how to handle a close friend moving away ,it’s ok if you don’t wanna do neither
Thanks a lot for this Video :)
Thank you❤
my real thoughts that I don't tell anyone is that life gives you small and big surprises which is unproductive
Love the art style
Thank for your the love in our work!
Wow nice amazing video 🎉🎉🎉
OMFG! IS THAT A JOJO REFERENCE?!
5:00 I love calling that stuff out XD
I had deja vu and then remembered I have really seen this video before. Why the old one taken down and released again now?
Thank u
Welcome!! Thanks for joining early!
@@Psych2goofc!
the josuke pose lmao
3:00 Is that a... IS THAT AA JOJO REFERENCE!?!?!
This channel made us believe we're mentally ill
I believe in you ❤(compliment) 😅
I need this video
Hope this video helps you!
@@Psych2go tyy i need my classmates' respect
You should sell a poster of that Gulp Gulp graphic
4:27
This advise reminding me of British culture for some reason
3:05 I see what you did there..
I don't like wasting people's time because I hate when people waste my time
You can count on me like 1 2 3-
"Everyone just wants to be liked and accepted." "Except for Tim." "Tim doesn't give a ****."
Hey MrBeast, how about if you find a way to send those feastables to other countries as well?
JOJO REFERENCE 3:02
I have problems to force bullies to respect me. Is there any psychological trick to let them stop bullying? I'm open to any solution. Also sorry for 💩 English.
As far as im concerned respect doesnt seem to exist seeing what people do
As much as you may be attached to, and/or have been socialized to seek validation, it is not necessary! You don't need approval! Do you, be you... the opinions and rest is irrelevant!
Ive always said respect yoyrself cause nobody will do it for you
I always failed at work and u feep like everyone beliitle me..what vid can you suggest me to watch regarding this
Hello😊
Hello 😊
I was scared they lost the voice actor! They have like the most relaxing voice 😭
3:03 jojo reference
Hello 🤗
Yes. This is a good video. But, not everyone will respect you or others. Some people don't respect others for what ever reason why. I've experienced both respect and disrespect. And I learned to avoid others who disrespect me. Don't waste your time with them. It isn't worth it.
No ever human being want ever respect me. I don't respect myself either not even my parent respect me.
Regarding 5:03, There is little if any "systemic racism" left in North America and Western Europe. There are still racist individuals, but name me just one racist law? Bet ya can't.
Lol my school is not like that
I do #6 to an unhealthy level -_-
❤️☀️🌙
Im sad because of a boy in my school 😢
I'm sorry about that, what did the boy do?
Nofap is everything
I can say I got first comment. One hour from now, nobody will know who’s telling the truth 👁️👁️
Early birds🖐️⬇️
YAY!!! Thanks for joining in early!
#CoyoteVsAcme
How are you my dear Sweet Sister may god bless you Long Life and with good health 🙏🏼🙏🏼
"instant respect"
Goes on to mention many habits that are built over time
🙄😆
Body language is total BS
Why do you think so?
Love it , thanks girl 🤍👏
I think i am in love now with this video 🥺🤍
Good job girl 👏
Yes and it hasn't been fair lately. 😡 I need this.