3 Ways To Stay In The Honeymoon Phase Forever (ft. Ana Psychology)
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- The honeymoon phase will be defined through three main qualities: idealization, passion, and lack of fighting. Can all of these three qualities be prolonged forever and with the same intensity at which they are found in the early stages of a relationship? Today, we've partnered up with Ana from Ana Psychology to create this video! In this video, we're going to talk about how to keep a relationship in the honeymoon phase for as long as possible.
If you're interested to learn more about the different stages of dating, watch this: • The 8 Stages of Dating
Check out Ana Psychology's channel here: / @anapsychology
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In your experience or opinion, what's the reasonable timeframe honeymoon phrase lasts for?
Hello thanks for the video ❤
I won’t have honeymoon 😂
Welp... I’ll keep this for when I find someone........
Yup I’m keeping this until my grave
That one person who disliked is worse than a Karen
Thank u psych2go. Your animation is getting excellent
“If speaking kindly to plants helps them grow, imagine what speaking kindly to humans can do.” ✨🌱
That is why I talk to my plants at school
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My classmates think its weird
Actually I was talking to human suddenly there coconut tree on his head now I am here to blame you XD
Cute.
that doesn’t help them grow-
Usually gets kind people taken advantage of tbh.. plants are plants.. humans are (for starters) manipulative, murderous, antagonistic, narcissistic, stubborn, ignorant, abusive, genocidal maniacs.. should I continue the list of what a plant cannot do?..
My single ass watching this at 2am eating crackers:
Niceeeeeee!
Lol
I’ll just leave this Reply here :-)
@@Psych2go pfft this reply is so sarcastic
@@_fsg_ get over it. It's quite obvious psych2go is just being adorable.
Same..
Couples disagree, and it is possible to disagree with someone in a healthy way. Don’t speak over your partner, scream, interrupt or name call.
@~Pink Care Bear~ it's normal in the sense that you can disagree with your partner and sometimes based on emotions in that moment it can get heated BUT that is up to the 2 individuals in the argument or disagreement. It doesn't mean allow your partner to be abusive while having the disagreement because then your not really in a healthy relationship. Once that person crosses the line you enable them to continue.
Speaking from experience by being married for almost 5 years. My husband and I disagree allllll the time but we don't allow it to get out of hands and apologize to each other even if we haven't said anything offensive, but because we understand that it's not that serious we can move on and be crazy about each other anyways.
That requires an amazing amount of self consciousness and repression. NOt sure that can always be avoided. I mean the yelling part.
Exactly
Exactly
Me watching this after almost 8 years of marriage realizing we're still in the honeymoon phase
That’s good to know :) what’s your secret ?
@@Psych2go I haven't found just one secret. Taking time to know each other is key. What makes the other happy, angry, upset and making sure their emotional needs are met. A sink full of dishes is his biggest pet peeve for example- so I prioritize making sure dishes are done. I don't like socks on the floor, so he prioritizes making sure he puts them in the hamper. It's all about give and take. Not holding minor faults against the other is huge. Did he leave his socks on the floor? I put them in the hamper myself without making a big deal about it. Not nit picking the small stuff. Respect is huge, especially in a disagreement. Yelling and name calling never help the situation, but it's important to always find your way back to each other after an altercation. Forgive and Forget. There are no "Well that one time YOU..." in our arguments. We spend A LOT of time together, but it is nice to have a day away too- like your video said. What helps us the most I think, is being like minded- we want the same things in life, and have similar goals. It feels like we're working together for everything, instead of separately. Sorry for the long response, I couldn't think of just one thing that was important that I've learned in 8 years of marriage :D
@@laceystonerock6609 After studying (mainly man, women and dating)psychology by myself for some years, your explanation makes alot of sense. You have got yourself a high value man also. I hope everyone would be mentally that healthy that they can build rare relationship like yours. Hope you reach your goals.
@@laceystonerock6609 Thank you so much for sharing your story, Lacey! ❤️
@@laceystonerock6609 ty so much for sharing Lacey 🤍
My parents are in their 50s and they still act like teen-agers in love. So yeah it is possible for those people who are wondering
that’s adorable
Yay
How long have they been together? And when did they get together?
@@kokokronch2922 they got together when they were 27 (they married almost immediately) so they've been together for more than 36 years now.
... You sure neither ever cheated???
damn... Your grandparents are lucky...
1. Don't be together 24/7
2. Keep putting effort in your relationship
3. Lower your voice when angry, say things in a nice way, speak from your perspective, use physical touch to calm, use validation
4. Keep a running list of green flags
5. Don't stop taking care of yourself and the relationship
6. It's a two-way street :)
Thank you 😊
It’s been a year and we’re not as naked as we used to be. 😆
We have a lot of quiet days and the transition makes me a little nervous.
This is my first healthy relationship. I hope I’m doing it right. 😬
We don’t fight. We had a couple of deep discussions but no raised voices or rolling eyes. I might shed some tears though.
I’m not sure if this hard or easy. I’m growing up that’s for sure.
@talori5417 It's been 2 months how's it going?
I think this youtube channel is the most safest place ever especially for an introvert❤️🦋
Definitely agree as an introvert
This!
Agreed
Yes!!
Yep
"The notion that all couples fight is somewhat toxic and sets a low standard for how romantic partners should treat each other." 👏👏👏👏👏 THIS RIGHT HERE!!! I'm so sick of seeing people settle for this very reason. Fighting all the time it's not normal!
While fighting all the isn't great, I don't think that's what people are saying. People can't agree on everything and it is normal to disagree with your partner. It's how the couple handles it that matters. If someone has a disagreement that's not a sign that the relationship is flawed.
@@CLAIRE-_-. Disagreements are bound to happen. I'm not denying that. But you can disagree with your partner in a respectable manor. How couples handle differences of opinion is important. I see fighting as a transition away from a discussion and into heated, angry, and disrespectful actions, including yelling. Your brain function is significantly impaired when you're angry so when fighting happens you're not getting anything productive out of those instances. It's better to take a break, cool down, and try to come back with a level head. Those are the times when you can actually discuss a problem with the intention of fixing it, instead of possibly playing the blame game and not listening to what your partner has to say.
@@allyson186 I agree with you whole heartedly on that!! :)
My partner made the choice to stop idealizing and consyantly haraung me, does that count
there's a difference between fighting and fighting all the time lmao
nuance is a thing
me, watching this, with no relationships ever happening and being possibly aro: *interesting*
S a m e
Relatable.
same
aro? Ur an arrow :D
Lmao,me too
Ok but why's no one talking about the art style? It's so damn satisfying.
IKRRR
Does the honeymoon phase have to end? ...
Get clear about what you're looking for - fast. ...
Make time for yourself. ...
Create some ground rules for arguing. ...
Plan monthly outings. ...
Learn each other's love language. ...
Make plans with friends and family. ...
Plan a trip.
This is exactly how my partner and I handled our relationship. Our only failing was actually getting each other to open up about our problems because we never wanted to bother each other with our 'small' problems.
It works beautifully, and after experiencing it I'm quite tired of romance movies that pay no homage to it, haha.
your comment is perfect it doesnt have to end and the points you came up to are 👏
@@RyuuRider wow lucky you
@@RyuuRider finding a girlfriend is like 1/million for me its sooo rare😥and even if i had one it wouldnt last forever🙁
@@Founderschannel123 This is just my own experience.
You can find people who will hold your hand just about anywhere, but finding someone who will do everything they can to support you through life isn't something I'd recommend you rush through.
Be honest with yourself about what you're looking for: A long-term, loving partnership or someone who you can enjoy the company of for just the time being.
Engage in things that make you feel fulfilled, and the people you meet while living an honest life will see that and want to come along for the ride.
Waiting to find someone who honors you as you would honor them, even if it takes a decade, isn't mandatory, but you're setting yourself up to be with someone that will make you truly happy and help you grow.
if I could bottle up the feelings you have during the honeymoon phase, I would. ITS SUCH A GREAT FEELING
Hmmmm...I kinda challenge that a bit. I believe in balance between all the qualities of the honeymoon phase.
That already exists, it’s called a bottle of Jack Daniels at 12 at night, when you should probably be going to sleep, but you know what fuck it, fuck work.
I'll buy ten of these. Sound better than gamergirl bathwater.
It's called MDA
It's called ecstasy. Try it.
ive been dating my girlfriend for 5 years. We never really left honey moon phase. have we had some tougher times? yes but the main thing that weve done is talk about everything, listen and put work into improving ourselves and the relationship. The hard work we put in to improve ends up giving us a very harmonious and wonderful relationship. we spend hours together and it doesnt even feel like it. I can agree that distance helps alot!
It’s important to have both a friendship and passion.
i'm honestly surprised my partner and I are applying this without us even knowing that it is actually backed by psychology HAHAHA I guess all that's left is for us to keep these up. We're at our 3rd year together now and we still feel like we're at the honeymoon phase although with the pandemic, our careers are giving us more headaches and so much stress. But we're pulling through.
Press onward !
hey, i would like to know your opinion about "sorry i have to focus on my college first" or such things because it's such a lazy reason for not maintaining relationships.
@@nabiwachouagred
Unfortunately my job has taken a major toll on my relationship to the point that my boyfriend and I separated recently. We've been together for nearly two years, and all of that consisted of us never physically meeting because we live in different countries with strict laws surrounding the pandemic. I can't quit my job because I need money, but I genuinely loved this man. I just needed a space to vent.
okay I'm both happy this topic is being covered AND the video being mesmerizing like I can't look away its so amazing
Thank you so much!!
Something else I noticed that helps with keeping the passion going in a relationship (that goes along w this video) is seeking your partner's attention/validation, and wanting to impress them, and wanting them to notice the things you do. My husband will do the dishes and if I don't notice he will point it out to me like ".. did you notice I did the dishes before you came home? 🙃" I think that's an important thing to have, because it motivates the other person to want to return the good deed. When you stop seeking that positive attention from them I think it's a sign you should value their attention more.
Still watching this despite being in a 13 years in a relationship and married for 9 years...and that PASSION really works💕 Stay flirty to your husband/wife no matter how old you are or how busy you are. Make it your daily PRIORITY to make time for TALKING, cuddling/kissing EVERYDAY!
THE ART IS JUST SO CUTEE I CAN'T
Here it is important to realize that you cannot change or improve another person. You cannot take someone who appears charming and talented, but who cannot seem to function very well, and turn them into a functioning person. Young women make this mistake all the time, particularly, thinking they are going to rehabilitate the young man. 'Oh, with her guidance, this young man will become productive and responsible and effective.' Do not make this mistake. It is an immense waste of your time. You cannot change or improve another person. That is what they must do for themselves.
This quote is from: *The New Message for Young People* by *Marshall Vian Summers*
Thank you, E K.
thank you
It's so true thanks to mentioning that. I wasted six years of my life like that and I wish (even if I don't regret this experience and the lessons I've learned overall) that someone told me that before...
To everyone who's reading this: you're cool and adorable stay safe
and ur the sweetest
@@sillycatsayshi tysm! 🤍
Awww thankyou so much. Your are cute 🧡
aww thanks
@@flamingaish tysm! 🤍
My case must be rare then. I've been in a long distance relationship for 9 years. We fought in the beginning, but things just healed as it went along. We're happy now, and can't wait to close the gap.
That can happen sometimes. I love that for you, BTW. 😊❤
How did you do ?
@@esma124 How did I do...? Well, if this answers your question, we are currently saving up to move in together. But first, vacation!
@@JazzTheChameleon congrats !! But i mean how did you do for keeping your relationship this way
@@esma124 You mean how...? Wow. Well. I'm not sure how to explain it. I think in the beginning we both suffered from anxiety & depression from our situation. We were in fear of trying, & failing. It would cause motivation issues with us both. But we loved each other. I also was still unstable from my last relationship (was also long distance, broke up after 5 years), so we'd get into arguments over dumb things, most of it cuz of my own mental state. I've had a few breakdowns...felt like I fell into a dark hole every time. A few years later, a friend of mine pushed me to try & get welfare, food stamps, & join a job program. Once I got a job, & he finished college with a job, I started recovering, & just like that, our fighting just came to an end.
Sometimes, when you're struggling, all you have to do is push to change your situation, even something small, for it to get better.
My husband and I do everything together and most of our time is spent together, we work together and of course live and sleep together, we're best friends and most of the time people think we're siblings🤣 we adore each other though. We have been together for almost 6years. We have both changed alot since we were young but honestly I loved being able to grow up with and watch him change and mature and grow as an individual as well as blossoming our relationship:) were thinking about having children soon, but nothing is rushed. Take your time with your partner, if something is making you uncomfortable or upset, SAY SOMETHING!! if you feel unhappy, SAY SOMETHING!! Communication and trust is the most important thing in a relationship.
Hey Psych2Go-ers and remember just simply put - a healthy relationship is one where both partners are sharing something together - not a relationship where one partner is constantly extracting something from the other. Stay healthy and good luck 😊
I remember at the beginning of my relationship my boyfriend had extremely bad trust issues due to Ex’s cheating on them and thus always wanted to know what I was doing and wearing. (Which I told) because of this we ended up arguing a lot. When I told him I wanted to break up BECAUSE of the fighting. (Like asking what was the point of dating me if he didn’t trust ) He changed for the better. He trusted me more, opened up more. And now we are really happy together almost 1 1/2 years now 😁
Like I could Gush bout how amazing he is 😂😂
aww thats amazing💕
@@CrystalSkies_9 thank you 😂 I really couldn’t help myself his helped me a lot with me own mental struggles 😁
@@helloyoungones1678 that good to hear
I hope things will go even better than they already are for you!!!!
@@CrystalSkies_9 thank you and I hope you have a wonderful life as well 😁
@@helloyoungones1678 thanks🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
This video is just perfect, the topic, the great audio, her voice is so relaxing , the design is soooo pretty! One of my favourites
still don't know the person with the green leaf on their head but there my favorite person with flowers on their head
Chrysanthemum
Person with leaf on their head has gotten me through a lot
Hi time traveller
Me too
@@user-tr3jw1df6q thats the name of that person?
This channel has helped me greatly understand what went wrong in my 6 year relationship. Not only what I did wrong but what he did as well. Sometimes I wish he was still around so I could introduce him to this channel. Might help him to be a better person even if just a little bit. 👍
I love how you don't assign a particular gender to these little characters. Helps me, as a lesbian, see me and my girl
As a lesbian, i also call my girl... my girl lol
I feel the sake :)
That’s gross asf
@@o_KishiI don’t see how it’s gross
Yessss
I love the fact you guys broke the myth that every couple fight. Thank you!
honestly, i really needed this video. i’ve found myself to be getting complacent in my three year long relationship, and i admit i’ve been a bit cold to my boyfriend lately. i’m going to take this advice and revitalize our relationship and let him know how much he means to me. thank you so much!
The art is really cute :0
Thank you so much! Rina is amazing! One of our newest member on the team :) - Cindy
Agreed. I love all the insiders planted.
STUNNING ART STYLE WITH THIS ONE!
8 months in and we’re still in the honeymoon phase, we almost fought once but fixed it with communication
I heard that a lot but...1 year is still honeymoon phase
This animation was BEAUTIFUL and so adorable!!!!!!!!
Me, a high school student: Information is Information
The thumbnail and the first 19 seconds of the video makes the honeymoon phase very literal.😊
Put things back where you first looked for them, not where you found them.
That’s genius, thank you
THIS ANIMATOR HAS SUCH A CUTE ART STYLE AAA
I love my boyfriend very much, and he's been going through a hard time for a while. I understand it, and I'm trying my best to support him. I just wish he understood how awful I feel not getting compliments or random acts of affection from him. We've been together for 4 years and I feel he forgets too often. 😢
Then you should probably tell him how u feel he can’t know if u don’t say
Try talking to him and telling him how you feel might bring you guys closer
Hope it works out for u
I definitely would talk to him about your feelings, and if he still doesn’t make an effort, you may have to let him go. It’s sad, but we can’t change others. You deserve the best!
I understand this, however I'm an autistic girl in a relationship with an adhd boy. He's bound to forget. I'm bound to forget too. We both screw up a lot but still make it work because we both knew what we were getting ourselves into.
Thanks for all the replies! I did talk to my boyfriend, it was a long and hard talk. In the end he decided he would make a schedule for affection. It's not ideal as random acts of affection are preferable, but he's making an effort. He genuinely wants to make me happy and scheduled or not I enjoy the affection. So in the end, it's all good ❤️
not to be cheesy, but i personally feel like all this gets easier the more you actually love someone and what the relationship means to you on a big scale, like compared to what has been going on in your life or what you dream about. i might not be the best example, since my partner and I are in a long distance relationship - we still see eachother every other to few weeks, since it's only two hours, but it's been almost one year and we're still pretty much in the honeymoon phase! actually, we are reuniting tomorrow and after watching this, I can't wait... thank you so much for your content!
Ive been with my husband for 4 years and we are still in the honey moon phase because of all of this. We dont even argue, we may disagree but we always talk it out and come to a middle ground💜
What a beautiful story! Thanks for sharing! - Cindy
That is really good to hear😊
Could you say please two things?
If the middle ground is accomplished imidiately, or might take sometimes a day or two. And if you ever experienced extreme emotions, as the video says, (obviously except happiness🤭) like anger, jealousy and so on
It would be really helpful. Thanks!
I wish my parents are like that because they somtimes argue and shouting horrible things at each other instead of talking things through
@@thetreatment498 when we have a disagreement, we will normally approach the other and say "Hey can we talk? Something happened to upset me and id like to straighten it out please." we will immediately both sit down, unless we're busy then we make time to talk later, and whoever has to speak, has the floor and we promised each other no matter how small something may seem to you, its always BIG to the other person so we listen and respect whatever it is the other person has to say and we correct the problem.
If the problem cannot be solved, which has not happened yet and i hope it never does 🤣, we agreed to not raise our voices at each other, give each other space as needed and revisit the situation. If a middle ground cannot be found we said we would just agree to disagree. But NEVER when it comes to my partners feelings💜 his peace of mind is my peace of mind and vice versa💜
We try to keep good vibes in the house at all times💜
@@thetreatment498 as for the extreme emotions, yes we both have experienced extreme anger but its always towards other people🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 its weird how well we get along, my husband is definitely my best friend, we're into the same things and we often feel the same about everything and it just makes everything so comfortable and happy💜 i know things cant be perfect 24/7 but when you have great open communication they often very close to it.
That's very interesting when you mention the part about not getting lazy, putting forth effort to continue to court and woo your partner throughout the relationship and likening that to other things in life.
It reminds me of an adage that I heard a lot in college, "If you don't use it, you will lose it." referencing things like mathematics, scripts, how the hell to find the hidden overflow parking lot....
Or like in that "Inside Out" movie where the names of all the ponies Riley had memorized turned gray because she stopped prioritizing her interactions with them.
me, growing up with several fights per week in our household, saying things as bluntly as possible for all my life, learning for the first time how to control my temper at 22 years old:
...yeah it's rough haha
like "would you say this to your boss?" yes i would lmao. i have a lot to learn 😂
I can relate to you so much, thank you for writing your thoughts so articulately. I hope you're doing well on your journey 💖
I NEEDED THIS in my last serious relationship. Oh my God. I'm still hurting so badly from being neglected... it hurts so much to be giving your all to an affection black hole.
I could only try so much to connect, communicate, and ask for things, before it simply became talking to a wall. Everything was more important than me and our relationship... his space in the room. Video games. His job, which was a closing business, and he wouldn't seek employment elsewhere and stayed til the last day the business was open. He was more loyal to his work and his games than he was to me. I ended up getting ignored most of the time or treated like an inconvenience. It hurts me even now. I don't like how I ended that relationship, but I had to go. I was stuck living with someone who didn't even want to marry me any more. He wanted to use our wedding money for a puppy and an arcade cabinet, and he fully expected me to continue living in a cramped house with his parents, his sister, and her baby. I wouldn't be able to have a child in that environment, and we decided we wouldn't have kids together even though that's something I've always wanted to do. It just sucked. I miss a lot of things about my ex, but he's no good as a romantic partner. If he was more mature, we could be friends. He was willing to be "friends" with me before I started dating again, but once he realized we were NOT getting back together, he hasn't spoken to me since.
It sucks.
7:57 Good explained video + Kimetsu no Yaiba and One Punch Man reference = ⭐p e r f e c t i o n⭐
Same here 😁
We are a new couple, 7 months and not a single argument. We've had rough spots and we've struggled through negative emotions and habits and the like. But we never argued. We talked. And I would say we are 100% still in the honeymoon phase. Spent 3 hours just talking about our relationship and how much we love each other.
I've been with my fiance for almost 7 years and I still get butterflies around him and love spending time with him 💕
It's been more than 8 years and we are still and always going to be in a honeymoon phase 🤭iam grateful
Step 1: stop being single
It's not about perfection, it's about good vibes! Working on the relationship is a journey, where the magic is not in the destination like a shiny beach_but the excitement of the drive on the highway with the scenery with the speed and rush of the wind, etc, or stopping for a snack at a rest stop! The road Less travelled as you navigate with a map! It's energy whereby the good vibes takes teamwork✌️
"The notion that all couples fight is somewhat toxic and sets a low standard for how romantic partners should treat each other...it may be common but we should not simply accept it because it is common. We should be working to prevent it."
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thank you for finally putting captions on your videos! i dont have earbuds and now i can watch this in public or around friends and understand what im reading!!
also thank you for making this! i requested it a while ago and you hearted my comment. i almost forgot until now.
thank you!! ♡
I would say my current relationship is still in a honey moon phase we've been together for 4 years will be 5 in October
Samee, we celebrate our 5th anniversary in july🥺
Btw i'm happy for u two❤️
very nice video. i would add with 1. "assuming total responsibility for one's own actions" (if you do this, blaming game is out of the table), 2. learn to respect your own space, believes, mind, body, (by doing this you learn to respect the space of your partner, the idea of suffocation disappears ), 3. Learn what Ego is, characteristics, manifestation, and the impact of the Ego at the chemical level in the body.
Dang! The art is actually really good!
Thanks :D! - Cindy
The part of about fights hit home. There are fights, then there are being attacked but calling it a fight. I find most of our "fights" are attacks as she will resort to name-calling/labeling right out of the gate. Then it becomes a fight and we work through it. Be great to cover healthy/unhealthy fighting at some point.
This video is top notch quality 😲
Thank you so much! - Cindy
Her melodic voiceeee 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 so good
Never take your partner for granted. Once you do that, you relationship will start going down the hill.
Yes! So absolutely true! Thanks for sharing!
yes
are you KIDDING ME?? i love both you and ana so much 😩 now a COLLABBB ??????
Most helpful for me was using the "I" word more often when addressing an issue in a relationship.
The art style is ✨amazing✨
Having distance scares me. do i have separation anxiety? why am i so scared that they will lose interest, even though i know they love me so much?
@@liamrenaud2347 why 😳
I have the same issue.
It’s inevitable if they find someone they find more intriguing. That spark w someone doesnt come often but when it does, it’s magical.
@SweetChick10101 I’m so glad you mentioned anxious attachment style. I always struggled with that but after being in my first healthy relationship, it’s been really eye opening. My boyfriend lives in another state at the moment and there’s not a doubt in my mind about our relationship. It’s the best feeling ever 🥰
I would recommend individual counseling for yourself. Maybe there are some unresolved traumas in your past? Best of luck to you! 💕
This is a wonderful video, and I would also like to add that companionship helps as well. Being not only a lover but a companion to your partner deepens the bond and dynamic.
Been with my fiancé for 3 and a half years and lived together pretty much that whole time, we basically live a married life (share finances, live together, etc) and we are still in the “honeymoon” phase. People have said it’s weird how well we get along and how we rarely fight but I couldn’t image it any other way. 10/10 recommend putting in the effort to be in the honeymoon phase
Me and my girlfriend watched this together and im ready to put in all the effort they do uwu im so ready for the best relationship of my life
That’s so sweet 🥰
Bro said “uwu” you 100% got cheated on
I love this new artist y'all have
I always feel like the people I dated leave the honeymoon phase so fast. I never feel like I leave it. I cant wait to be with someone who experiences love the way I do.
same
3:14 is inspiring. The threshold for fighting is set too high by most. Passive aggressive behaviors can be an issue if eft unresolved.
People say they can time travel in fact they just have a early access to time
This comment made my day.
Thx
I had been with my love for four years. Then we just got married last month. Even in my vows I mention, “It seems I haven’t left the honeymoon phase, and I’m convinced I’m never coming out of it.” I really meant it, and this can truly be possible. ♡ Even after four years, we don’t fight, we are always flirting with each other and hyping each other up. We do everything together, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Love takes work but true love will feel effortless. ♡
Why am I watching this 😭 It just makes me sad about being single
Ya know?
You should wait...
I’ve been waiting for 6 years for someone to come back
I promise you'll find yours
In the meantime, we wait
I know how you feel. But these videos help me get ready when my chance comes. Yours will come to.
Honestly, cherish your single years lol. I’m married and have a 2 year old and sometimes, I really want space lol 😂. I’m lucky if I get to go to the grocery store by myself in peace lol.
Your time will come, I promise! Just focus on now and cherish your time now! 💕
I would say my husband and I are still in this phase! We are almost 2 years this summer . The most important thing is to continue doing the things you did in the beginning! Good communication and loving each other in their love language!! Also lots of making love😘😘
Thank you for this collab! ☺️
No problem :) Thank you for collaborating with us!
The art is so cuuuute 😍
This is surely gonna help me and my girl to have an everlasting relationship like we always dream of ^w^
imagine being in a relationship
couldnt be me
Good Luck bud
@@flohwalzer you'll find that special someone eventually, it's just a matter of time ;3
@@Asgretalos thanks pal
I recommend learning your girl's love language. Knowing someone's love language can help a lot
The art is so good in this video!
ive never been in a relationship so the fact that there’s a moment where the butterflies go away is really sad to me
You will one day and when you do it will be the most wonderful feeling in the world
I love my man so much. We’ve been together 14 years and I still get butterflies when we kiss. He’s my best friend, my baby dad, my everything. There was a point when things got stagnant but I realized all these things you pointed out and I really put in the energy and work and now we’re just enjoying our best lives together. I love him bc he puts me and my family as a top priority rarely ever asking for anything for himself so for that I think he deserves the world. We rarely ever fight but when we have disagreements we talk it out calmly. If I can’t chill then I need some time to myself and that’s perfectly fine too. I also agree, never cancel girls night!!!!!!!
Wow, it's kind of been flipped for me. I didn't have any extreme idealization or crazy passion at first, just an interest in getting to know him better. About 6 months in is when I really started to think he was amazing-but nowhere near how wonderful he is now, 4 years later. We're very logical in disagreements by fighting the problem rather than each other so I guess I just got lucky!
As a person who has been in that honeymoon phase for the entirety of me and my partner's 3 year relationship, these things work. Not only have we kept passion going, and kept fights to a minimum we have had 0 actual fights even by the extended standards.
We both put a huge priority on communication from the get go. We both have some varrying anxiety about whether or not someone is upset with us. Or if what we did was uncomfortable or not attractive. So we made actually asking a priority so we could eliminate any worry that came with it.
We kept things passionate by making a game out of breaking the other person (making all thoughts stop and extreme blushing happen) and also I constantly flirt with them (of course stopping when told to)
Me watching this after my nearly decade long relationship just ended in flames: "ah this will be good info for 10 years down the line when I can trust again"
What happened mate?
@@shaunnathanson6905 Long story short my high school sweetheart and fiance ran off with my good friend. Now they live in my old apt together and are gonna be moving cities in a few months. Shits been rough but we do what we can to survive.
@@lousassle4704 sorry man no one desvies that kind of pain you will meet the right woman one day like I have never give up hope God bless you man!
I know it's grim and lonely right now, but I know that you will find someone who will love you, and treat you with the respect you deserve in a relationship. Focus on yourself, love yourself, and everything else will fall into place when you least expect it.
@@lousassle4704 i am so sorry that happened to you. That must be sp hard when you spent so long with someone.
I know I'm just some stranger on the internet, but i really do wish you all the healing and good going forward
These things always make me happy cry
I try to keep the passion going but it doesn’t help when the other person doesn’t want to do anything. You can’t even tell them about your day because they’re in their own world. You feel more lonely in a relationship like this than being single…
So me and my partner at the beginning of our relationship we would always send goodmorning texted and just a super nice message along with that morning text, and still we both do that. And for the lack of arguments segment, you must learn how to argue:you can listen when they are speaking, make sure you stay calm. Any argument can be turned into a conversation
1. Idealization 1:39
2. (if you want to it ain't a point) Devaluation 2:13
3. Passion 2:26
4. Lack of Arguments 3:19
There isn't any more points categorized as seperate sooo
This is my old account
Hi time travellers
thank you, time traveller
the animation on this is so pretty!!
It's normal with ANY KIND of relationship TO fight if there's a reason to be fighting. It's how you communicate during and after that matters!
Learning conflict management skills is important to every relationship, and everyone has had a different upbringing and has different ways they express bitter feelings. One needs to set clear boundaries while also listening with an open heart about how they've hurt others and plan ahead how to avoid similar situations in the future. Show you WANT to improve. Over time, any sort of early fighting will diminish as you get comfortable with one another and trust eachother to listen. Even so, there will always still be situations that are too niche or specific to learn anything from as they'll never come up again and all you can do in those situations is apologize.
Just don't let yourself fall into a relationship where you're the only one doing all of the work to smooth things over. If the other person is bottling instead of communicating, not apologizing, or not actively asking what they could improve on... you need to sit down and seriously question how long that relationship is going to last.
I moved into my boyfriends family house at 17 turning 18, i had nowhere else to go, and with covid we were and still are together 24/7 with not much to do
im 19 now, we definitely had an average 6 month honeymoon phase but it also has been over for what feels like a while now
some passion is gone due to my own issues and the idealization has definitely died down
when it comes to arguments (i have bpd), they used to be way worse though and ive been trying hard to make a change, it has gotten better :)
next week i'll be an inpatient, this will be the first time in 1.5 years being away from him for so long... i'm nervous, but i am also hopeful that it will bring back some lost passion due to the distance and most importantly the self improvement i hope on making :)
guess these couple years were the worst to be iscolated mentally ill young and in love lol, but we are both convinced its just a rough patch, and when i've gone through care and we eventually get our own place, since we both really dont feel comfortable or FREE with our living situation, thats when our relationship will finally get going.
honeymoon phase 2.0, 2023
Love the new animation style tho!!
Thank you! Glad to hear you liked this new style :) - Cindy
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Yes! This! Commitment is a choice! Relationships of all kinds take work!
As someone who is struggling now in a relationship and has to face sad facts and sad reality...thank you for this video❤Makes me feel that I deserve better.
So many singles watching this video! I am single too, but I have had a few relationships before. It is interesting seeing the things that I did right in my relationships, and seeing the things I didn’t try hard enough at. One thing I realize is that some of the times I didn’t work at the relationship were because I didn’t want the relationship. I stopped trying because I was ready to go. Which then makes me wonder why I lost my motivation. I need to think about it some more. I want my next relationship to last, which means I have to pursue quality partners, as well as work my ass off to keep them. Luckily, I love doing the things outlined in this video! It’s actually weird that someone wouldn’t try to do these things, because seeing your partner light up when you do them is such a thrill
My husband and I have been together for 11 years and have never had one fight. The relationship was extraordinary since the beginning, but I am even happier now that we have spent years together and know each other better. We are on the honeymoon phase and have been even through illness, unemployment, stressful situations like competitive exams and moving several times… empathy, patience, tolerance really go a long way. Explaining to your parnter why you are having a rough day and seeking some comfort (by cuddling for example) is way healthier than nagging at him/her BECAUSE you are having a rough day. Your relationship is a precious thing and you need to treat it and your partner as such.
10 years together, still get butterflies and giddy feelings, passion is very much alive if you also continue to be amazed and appreciative by your partner
19 months into a relationship and the honeymoon phase is still going strong. Distance has been a huge factor in it.
Take notes