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  • @melrhea12
    @melrhea12 Рік тому +10347

    “Who does your parents want you to bring home?”
    “Anybody at this point”
    Lmao same

  • @djmagx
    @djmagx Рік тому +8339

    Culture matters infinitely more than race.

    • @NO0MMM
      @NO0MMM Рік тому +528

      Exactly. I’m a Swedish woman in the US and could never date a white American man. It’s too different. Black , Latino and sometimes Asian men here I connect more with culturally, it’s like they are more grounded and/or expressive. Idk how to explain it

    • @isabelle5188
      @isabelle5188 Рік тому +28

      @@NO0MMM Samma här, inte svenskar/skandinavier eller amrikaner haha

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 Рік тому +233

      @@NO0MMM I think it depends on person, but wife (Cameroonian) and me (Croatian) often have more in common due to our shared immigrant life than we do with Americans of similar skin tones :D

    • @TreavorUnion
      @TreavorUnion Рік тому +10

      Big agree.

    • @ReasonableNotion
      @ReasonableNotion Рік тому +8

      So accurate

  • @gagetolinwrites6845
    @gagetolinwrites6845 Рік тому +2068

    I've never dated outside of my race, but I've also never dated anyone.

    • @nansysherry
      @nansysherry Рік тому +6

      Why?

    • @gagetolinwrites6845
      @gagetolinwrites6845 Рік тому +160

      @@nansysherry Because my parents gave me the ugly.
      And I'm not really interested

    • @BootsandUtes
      @BootsandUtes Рік тому +47

      @@gagetolinwrites6845 Dude, you aren't even ugly at all. I think you are way way too hard on yourself. But if you aren't interested in dating, that's probably a better explanation.

    • @jordanleiva5562
      @jordanleiva5562 Рік тому +3

      what you consider "dating" ? just having a beer with a girl that you've asked on a date is already a date

    • @Itsbeny_
      @Itsbeny_ Рік тому +14

      @@gagetolinwrites6845Bro, just get a nice haircut, get some decent clothes. And you will find a woman. You're not ugly brother💪🏼 stay up man. Just look groomed and you'll be good 👍🏼 someone is out there for everyone

  • @charliecannon351
    @charliecannon351 Рік тому +2265

    I’m African American and Filipino and my wife is Mexican. The clash of cultures is so beautiful. Not to mention that our daughter is the most beautiful thing on this planet. The goal is just to be with somebody that respects every aspect of your life and vise versa

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Рік тому +39

      Awwwww... 🥰🥰🥰😊 ikr had me at "most beautiful thing ever" a bit weird the way i smiled reading this, its cool being bi or multi racial or whatever to me i feel like it connects to different parts world/people, you guys seem like cool and amazing family 🥰🥰😍

    • @djmagx
      @djmagx Рік тому +51

      My wife is Black and Filipino too and I'm Egyptian. Love that we're all mixing and creating new fun mixes of cultures to share with the future generation. My daughter has so many wonderful histories to learn about.

    • @suukikang
      @suukikang Рік тому +13

      blasian gang

    • @MrClarkisgod
      @MrClarkisgod Рік тому +24

      Ah yes... the Puto conversation. Is it an insult.... or is it a delicious desert. lmao.

    • @catcabrera6448
      @catcabrera6448 Рік тому +1

      @@MrClarkisgod en serioo hahaha

  • @nuggie4huggie23pp
    @nuggie4huggie23pp Рік тому +5796

    I still to this day find it really weird that people intentionally choose a race to date. Whoever I fall for is who I fall for.

    • @Earthslastlegend
      @Earthslastlegend Рік тому +242

      Then you're normal😂!

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro Рік тому +86

      People are people they’re race don’t matter to me , I like there culture and Traditions and history

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 Рік тому +284

      How is it weird? Certain phenotypes just aren't attractive to some people.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li Рік тому +209

      It’s called “preferences”. Some dating apps have the option to include what “race” you’re attracted to.

    • @narutolikestoes9028
      @narutolikestoes9028 Рік тому

      Nah i find blacks gross, it matters

  • @Duckduckobtusegoose
    @Duckduckobtusegoose Рік тому +2406

    The girl who uses liking anime and Asian food as a reason that she’s attracted to Asian people💀💀

    • @officerkd6-3.76
      @officerkd6-3.76 Рік тому +76

      Why not?

    • @stanleyyelnats4524
      @stanleyyelnats4524 Рік тому +324

      painful

    • @bbygirlfifi
      @bbygirlfifi Рік тому +429

      yeaaa that was gross af

    • @joustingknight2088
      @joustingknight2088 Рік тому

      its always the whales saying this weirdo shit too

    • @Damkids012
      @Damkids012 Рік тому +362

      In her defense, she could've meant to say that she liked Asian culture so she fell in love with Asian men. To be honest, it would be hard to explain your attraction to someone of a different race in detail. You just kinda like what you like.

  • @yessica5231
    @yessica5231 Рік тому +802

    The cultural differences really play a big role because the first guy I dated really valued family and when he took me to meet his mom she was so rude. She was Chinese and I'm Mexican so basically she didnt want him to date a dirty Mexican. She didn't approve and he broke it off. I'm dating a Filipino now and our cultures are more similar plus his mom likes me too lol

    • @catcabrera6448
      @catcabrera6448 Рік тому +41

      my siblings and i are mexican/italian and german/irish but we're pretty connected to the mexican side. when my sister married a filipino man it was so cool to see the similarities and blend between cultures as both countries were ssettles by the spanish. just dont be offended when they offer you "puto" loll

    • @slothful2039
      @slothful2039 Рік тому +87

      No shade but I find Filipino people to be more tolerant than other Asian groups.

    • @FinancialClout
      @FinancialClout Рік тому +1

      Sounds like this had nothing to do with culture and his mom was just a shit bag

    • @jbp2264
      @jbp2264 Рік тому +9

      i don’t think this means you should necessarily avoid Chinese people then because there are still many chinese families who would accept other minority races. i think using a general negative stereotype to stay clear of a race is not the way to go about choosing a partner. (unless they start to show signs then obv make your decision)

    • @LovelyLittleLillies
      @LovelyLittleLillies Рік тому +15

      ​@@slothful2039 they're already mixed with the Spaniards that's why. East Asians are not as mixed. Mexicans, Filipinos that's two very diluted ethnicities.

  • @rebeccam5589
    @rebeccam5589 Рік тому +1026

    I love what the guy was saying at 5:35 .
    100% agree on it being okay to have a preference. What’s not okay is to make being a certain race a requirement for dating

    • @ShiLoveee
      @ShiLoveee Рік тому +154

      Nobody has to be open to dating every race. It’s OK to shut off a race from your dating pool. What matters is the reasoning for doing so.

    • @schu-ng4897
      @schu-ng4897 Рік тому +55

      You're right. However, what harm does it do to the general public if someone makes a requirement for themselves to date a certain race? I don't think it would cause any harmful discrimination. I think it only affects themselves.

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Рік тому +65

      It's okay to date whoever you want for whatever reason, no matter how ignorant or wrong headed.

    • @franvutmej5974
      @franvutmej5974 Рік тому

      Shut up Rebecca

    • @carrela1000
      @carrela1000 Рік тому +15

      ​@@Aaron-kj8dv Something can't be okay and wrong at the same time, like it's just not possible.

  • @1997mclarencongo
    @1997mclarencongo Рік тому +4222

    “have you ever dated outside of your race?”
    “yeah i have!”
    “what race is your partner?”
    “white cis man!”
    “and before that?”
    “he was a white cis man!”
    “and the one before that?”
    “he- ohhhh he was a white cis man!” BOY I CACKLED 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @please.dont.
      @please.dont. Рік тому +310

      that is indeed the exact beginning of the video, keen eye!

    • @franklinokeke7848
      @franklinokeke7848 Рік тому +493

      Bro this 'Cis' man thing just annoys me. I'm not a cis man, I am a "Man" and nothing else!!

    • @johannesg8959
      @johannesg8959 Рік тому +10

      Yeah wow I didn't know what they were talking about... thanks for typing it out 👍

    • @Sun-Tzu-
      @Sun-Tzu- Рік тому +57

      @@franklinokeke7848 Yeah. I mean if she's straight then she's probably into cis guys....

    • @jodexx8380
      @jodexx8380 Рік тому +8

      Would you mind telling me what cis is please?

  • @andrewsherry6460
    @andrewsherry6460 Рік тому +2405

    My girlfriend is black and I’m white. I love her more than anything, she is beautiful both inside and out. When you love the person, a cultural difference is merely a learning experience as opposed to a great obstacle.

    • @mr.long.shlong
      @mr.long.shlong Рік тому +70

      Good for u my boi

    • @gyosob7265
      @gyosob7265 Рік тому +43

      preach

    • @GoldenBoyDims
      @GoldenBoyDims Рік тому

      Good on you but I would never date a white woman as a Nigerian it’s just impossible to bring her home to my mother I would pretty much get disowned

    • @really8704
      @really8704 Рік тому +33

      She upgraded, she made it out of blackistani 😍

    • @afrolore7462
      @afrolore7462 Рік тому +244

      ​@@really8704 weirdo

  • @kadeembest164
    @kadeembest164 Рік тому +81

    Preference vs. Requirement, I loved that!!

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 3 місяці тому

      Either is perfectly fine, to be honest. We all have a right to date or not date people for any reason.

  • @lucasdick9019
    @lucasdick9019 Рік тому +781

    I would love to see a video on “Would you ever date someone with a different body type than you?” Or “Have you ever dated someone that’s fat?”

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 Рік тому +91

      and then ppl will get offended cuz reality trumps PC body positivity

    • @kimmie__kim
      @kimmie__kim Рік тому +3

      Thanks for your input Lucas, always looking forward to it buddy ☺️

    • @Katherine_xs
      @Katherine_xs Рік тому +1

      Yesss

    • @godofnothing428
      @godofnothing428 Рік тому +14

      Something like 70% of Americans are obese or overweight so most of them would have dated someone that falls into that category

    • @lilianacarrera7284
      @lilianacarrera7284 Рік тому +11

      ​@godofnothing428 or they date the 30% of people that aren't overweight or obese. I've never been with a person who was overweight or obese. I will say maybe being a bit overweight is okay if your bulking, muscular or your just chilling. Personally like someone who has drive and likes to take care of themselves.

  • @bamcki991
    @bamcki991 Рік тому +452

    5:33 THIS!!! This is exactly what I've been thinking! "I don't have a racial requirement. [... ] people will miscontrued a preference over a requirement"

    • @Malhablada
      @Malhablada Рік тому +19

      Yes!! He said it so well. W

    • @ayeeitsluke
      @ayeeitsluke Рік тому

      tbh i would never date a black person unless she was beyoncé

    • @TJ-uc8bb
      @TJ-uc8bb Рік тому +3

      fr! had to replay it a couple times cause he hit the nail on the head!

    • @donm.2068
      @donm.2068 Рік тому

      I don’t really understand what he meant by that. Could someone explain?

    • @Savagebunmi
      @Savagebunmi Рік тому +22

      @@donm.2068 It means he has a preference but that doesn't mean he can't still date outside of that preference but people mistake preference with a "requirement" which means you have to be this certain race for them to date you and they don't date outside of that.

  • @fancytoxicsoda
    @fancytoxicsoda Рік тому +724

    Race and culture are different.

    • @Badd.G
      @Badd.G Рік тому +152

      Yes but are usually highly correlated

    • @sola_a
      @sola_a Рік тому +57

      ​@Baddy Kay honestly? Not really. These days with globalization, social media and all it's much more mixed up than a few years ago. Obviously some correlations remain but it's a bit absurd to completely write off an entire race of people because you assume they have a certain culture when people are so diverse even within their race

    • @gyosob7265
      @gyosob7265 Рік тому +7

      in America specifically because of the history race and culture have a huge overlap

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 Рік тому +1

      Milk74 has entered the chat 🤣

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 Рік тому +24

      @@Badd.G LMAO, compare African and African American in US or a European immigrant and White American and you'll find that to be pretty shaky :D

  • @95netta
    @95netta Рік тому +85

    @1:51 "Hes the sames mixed race as me" "Mexican, white, Chinese and native American" Wow, to find someone with all those aswell is pretty crazy lol

  • @melissab3217
    @melissab3217 Рік тому +219

    I remember being interested in a guy outside my race, and my dad told me if I dated him, I was out of the will. The guy later started dating my cousin's cousin, and my parents spoke of him fondly and would wave when they saw him. It's annoying how prejudiced people can be before they even get to know the person.

    • @thetricksterpill
      @thetricksterpill 7 місяців тому +2

      Brutal

    • @drecula25
      @drecula25 6 місяців тому +2

      Ahh man that sucks. At some point you gotta figure out who you are and what you want in this world because if you don't, every decision you make will be in fear of what your dad thinks.. and thats not a good way to live.. a girl I know was going through the same thing.. accept she ended up marrying this guy and her dad tried to pull that same tactic on her.. and she gave him a vicious ultimatum.. "you can either accept him or you will never see me or your future grand kids." Of course no father can handle not seeing their daughter again.. and now he absolutely loves her husband..

    • @FRANKONATOR123
      @FRANKONATOR123 3 місяці тому +2

      Your dad is based for that

  • @aadamkhan9956
    @aadamkhan9956 Рік тому +328

    When people say ‘Asian’ but you know they’re not referring to the ‘Asian’ that you are😅

    • @ayeshaaleena4949
      @ayeshaaleena4949 Рік тому +1

      Western people don't realize that people from the Indian subcontinent and Middle East are Asian too.

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Рік тому

      What do mean by that ?? 😏😏😅

    • @nusratchowdhury7239
      @nusratchowdhury7239 Рік тому +91

      @@scotthearts9634 southasians

    • @aadamkhan9956
      @aadamkhan9956 Рік тому +15

      @@nusratchowdhury7239 my guy knows the feeling😂

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Рік тому +42

      @@aadamkhan9956 😅😅😂 i feel like sometimes they people disassociate indians and asian like their not from there they mostly refer asians to people who are of chinese, japanese, korean etc decent 😅😅😂 forgettin' the south part of asia

  • @yannissapim4102
    @yannissapim4102 Рік тому +24

    That preference vs requirement is super interesting, I’ve never ever thought about it that way!!

  • @RNB_lovr
    @RNB_lovr 8 місяців тому +48

    no matter who you are, ignore society and go for whoever you love 🙏🏼

  • @franchottwoodjr6181
    @franchottwoodjr6181 Рік тому +46

    As long as they love me and treat me right I don't care what their race.

  • @jennaortegaandzendayaenthu9243
    @jennaortegaandzendayaenthu9243 6 місяців тому +15

    When she said "Generally people like to stick in their cultural groups because they want to feel accepted to the highest extent that they can be" at 3:10, I definitely understood 1000%

    • @rajeshdevika8827
      @rajeshdevika8827 5 місяців тому

      then why asian women marry out in millions?

  • @ishapurandare5685
    @ishapurandare5685 10 місяців тому +17

    "I am not sure what that fear is defined as." Racism. That's what it is, ma'am. Racism.

    • @Celestialdoing
      @Celestialdoing 7 місяців тому +1

      LMAO I literally said that out loud!

  • @BlacknBlueJ
    @BlacknBlueJ Рік тому +90

    Broooo that girl who said liking Asian food and anime translates to liking Asian features 💀 the bane of my existence

    • @croissant42-43
      @croissant42-43 Рік тому

      Right, at that point it’s just an Eastern Asian fetish and gross asf lmao

    • @FleshWizard69420
      @FleshWizard69420 Рік тому +28

      It's like saying "I like European architecture so I like White people"

    • @GOAT-rl2uq
      @GOAT-rl2uq Рік тому +11

      Whaat, are you telling me the Japanese don't actually have naturally blue hair and eyes the size of oranges?!

    • @bevs9995
      @bevs9995 Рік тому +1

      @@FleshWizard69420 there are plenty of people who fascinate over european fashion, tv, music, architecture, and lets be real - PNRO -- that causes fetishization.
      but ive never heard ove anyone include cuisine and cheese in that list

    • @kezziahhh
      @kezziahhh Рік тому +3

      yeah that was so strange

  • @Snarl_Marx
    @Snarl_Marx Рік тому +306

    That girl saying "white people just love being outside" is 100% true. Almost verbatim what my husband, who's Mexican, said the first time he met my family. We went camping, which he had never done before.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li Рік тому +38

      Not cool to generalize for “white people”, since now you’re making a general stereotype that doesn’t make much sense. I’m white and I don’t like being outside for long periods of time, it just really depends, and that goes for any race or ethnicity.

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads Рік тому +18

      Not THIS white woman!

    • @Snarl_Marx
      @Snarl_Marx Рік тому +65

      ​@@aus-li I mean, clearly it's hyperbole. Just a bit of banter. Are you okay?

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Рік тому +7

      @@Ceerads 😅😅😂 oh my, for some reason this seemed funny tho'😂 "not this white woman" yeep i couple of white friends of mine that don't like to be outslide a lot of the time.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li Рік тому +1

      @@Snarl_Marx I genuinely couldn’t tell from the way you wrote the comment?
      I’m better than okay, since I could tell you what you wrote sounded ignorant. It’s better to get things off your chest :)

  • @DimitriTechOfficial
    @DimitriTechOfficial Рік тому +96

    I love these videos because it just shows so many different types of peoples and situations.

    • @franvutmej5974
      @franvutmej5974 Рік тому

      Most people are virtue signaling and scared of telling the truth

  • @jayti6828
    @jayti6828 7 місяців тому +7

    8:20 😊 Her reply is my favorite. I really like that. You do get to experience a different culture from dating outside your race. It feels like discovering a new world. It's fun.

  • @OMGitsShrimp
    @OMGitsShrimp Рік тому +56

    I don’t have a race requirement for dating but I’d say that the person having a developed racial identity (meaning they’ve reflected and processed their own racial identity and have a strong self awareness about it personally and on a societal level) is something that would be important to me. Also, inherently valuing and respecting each others perspectives and cultures and having a positive curiosity toward each other’s points of views is valuable too.

    • @Senii2100
      @Senii2100 10 місяців тому +3

      That first thing applies when dating a person from the USA. There are countries where we don’t have to worry about racial awareness, we just identify with nacionality and culture.

    • @inigo9000
      @inigo9000 7 місяців тому

      Americans are truelly sick people, wtf a developed racial identity? that's having similar values to nazis who not coincidentally based their views on race on the views that were present in the U.S., and sadly believed to be normal and even viewed as something positive . Americans aren't even able to tell me what race i am but believe it's rational to build their identity on it. racial identity in the US issen't based on reality, my family has more african in it than half of people in the US who believe to be black racially when they clearly aren't, if a white lady can act as the black head of an organisation fighting for her people, it's maybe time to start questioning the rationality of how people are viewed.

  • @splitbrace3639
    @splitbrace3639 Рік тому +4

    6:33 "I mean no one says anything but you get the looks you know" that had me on the floor😹😹😹

  • @darryldavis6063
    @darryldavis6063 Рік тому +12

    Respect matters more. That also means respecting that you may just be a bystander.

  • @thegreatergood8081
    @thegreatergood8081 6 місяців тому +7

    Anyone who uses the word "cis" should be ignored.

  • @MyNameIsGhost
    @MyNameIsGhost Рік тому +6

    I'm sorry "hoot and a half" 🤣🤣 I canttttt

  • @zoyadean2884
    @zoyadean2884 Рік тому +326

    I’m Indo-Fijian and my husband is half Filipino, half Palestinian. There’s a lot of similarities with SE Asian and South Asian cultures, as well as middle eastern, so I feel like there wasn’t much culture clash or culture shock thankfully

    • @theonef570
      @theonef570 Рік тому +5

      There is more similarity between South Asian and Middle Eastern, South East Asia is more with East Asia.

    • @saeefa
      @saeefa Рік тому +30

      @@theonef570 Thats nonsense, South Asians are not as similar to middle eastern as much as u think, its more of a muslim thing than a south asians thing, for example an an indian hindu will feel more similarity to a thai buddhist than a syrian muslim

    • @theonef570
      @theonef570 Рік тому +8

      @@saeefa North Indians who are majority Hindu has more cultural influence from Iran. I can only assume you are South Indian.

    • @vi7husan
      @vi7husan Рік тому +15

      @@theonef570 not entirely true south india have a lot of links to south east asia that go back thousands of years, really depends on what part

    • @akhromyn
      @akhromyn Рік тому +7

      @@theonef570 Modern Southeast Asia derives culture not only from East Asia but also South Asia: architecture (Angkor Wat, Borobudur), mythology (nagas, garudas, devattas, Hanuman), names (Sorya, Chandra), cuisine (curry), and gestures (namaste). The religion of mainland Southeast Asia, like Sri Lanka, is mostly Theravadin Buddhist compared to East Asia being mostly Mahayana Buddhist.

  • @freakilybean
    @freakilybean Рік тому +9

    The few times I dated out side my race I was met with a lot looks and back lash. Against there friends, and it made it rather difficult to to try to fit in with them. And even strained the relationship, so I the relationships never lasted long. It was sad.

  • @tyward8141
    @tyward8141 Рік тому +7

    i love how they were all so honest why they haven’t dated race because these are literally my same reasons why i don’t date out my race 😂😂😂

  • @alexmarrs7762
    @alexmarrs7762 Рік тому +32

    I like Cut, but I think these questions need to be asked of a broader sample size-as in, I'm curious what the answers would be from other areas, such as maybe rural areas vs. urban areas in various states.

  • @morad9057
    @morad9057 Рік тому +4

    3:02 😭😭😭😭 she killing me, i love statics and everything related to it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Pancake3225
    @Pancake3225 10 місяців тому +21

    There’s been an instance or two where I highly suspect I was turned down because of race. It’s a bad feeling but I guess it’ll happen to almost everyone at one point.

    • @lexbusterz5883
      @lexbusterz5883 10 місяців тому +3

      Yeah it happens to everyone from all race. plus u can't really be mad people are attracted to what they attracted to it less of a choice.

  • @MrFLstyle
    @MrFLstyle 7 місяців тому +11

    I’m black man, I rather stick with my race. Not interested in anyone but my own. 😮‍💨

  • @jpatnew
    @jpatnew Рік тому +42

    I wish these keep it 100 videos had a pie graph of answers at the end

  • @SuperOGArchives
    @SuperOGArchives Рік тому +15

    It did mattered to me which race I dated but at the end It was all pointless. I ended being with someone out of my preference zone and it was better than I expected. The way you feel about someone is better than that.

  • @selmasaksberg6785
    @selmasaksberg6785 Рік тому +3

    3:28 LOVE her style!!!🫶

  • @arellytran
    @arellytran Рік тому +415

    My husband is Chinese and I’m Mexican. I love our mixed culture marriage. “Race” doesn’t matter… we are all the human race.

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 Рік тому +36

      I know a Chinese man who married a Mexican woman 😂 their baby looks Filipino he's a super cute kid

    • @arellytran
      @arellytran Рік тому +7

      @@Miss_Kisa94 Haha, our son looks Chinese. People don’t think I’m the adoptive mom. 😫

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 Рік тому +12

      @@arellytran awww haha your husband must have strong genes

    • @iBaMbAM_
      @iBaMbAM_ Рік тому

      How do the babies look?

    • @scj3188
      @scj3188 Рік тому +18

      Race matters. You're delusional to think otherwise

  • @edrisjoseph802
    @edrisjoseph802 Рік тому +5

    It would be cool if they made a video asking people if they would date outside of their ethnicity.

  • @ChuckleHoneybear
    @ChuckleHoneybear 4 місяці тому +1

    Preference vs requirement speech was good

  • @LL-fx9ur
    @LL-fx9ur Рік тому +50

    Preference over requirement! Preach it out to the world baby!! That requirement shit pisses me off too! 😂

    • @sakuralein1
      @sakuralein1 Рік тому

      I‘m form germany I didn’t really understand what he meant

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 3 місяці тому

      People are allowed to have dating requirements too. Nothing inherently wrong with that.

  • @batteryuser8942
    @batteryuser8942 Рік тому +4

    lol Cut knew what they were doing with that thumbnail 😂

  • @Trelznc
    @Trelznc Рік тому +14

    Let’s be real a lot of them were TOLD BY THEIR ELDERS ! Not to date outside their race. But we’re not ready for that conversation 🙃

  • @OwnD1
    @OwnD1 Рік тому

    4:58 ayyy yooo, it’s that cosplay girl from The Button series 😂😂😂

  • @flyicestormpluto
    @flyicestormpluto Рік тому +2

    Keep it 100 fron CUT is always so intresting!

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps Рік тому +322

    Loved the discussions they brought about culture.
    I feel like that ends up playing a bigger factor than actual race (obviously excluding the cases where people's parents/themselves actually have a racial preference).
    Coz most people we are just a lot more comfortable within our cultures and so that culture can also have different races within it.
    All good convos nonetheless 🙏🏿

    • @mimosasseat9860
      @mimosasseat9860 Рік тому +5

      nah bad mindset

    • @tvbnine793
      @tvbnine793 Рік тому +11

      Yes, racial preference and cultural preference are quite different. As a white man, I'd probably have an easier time dating a woman of color who was born and raised in the US like me than a European exchange student

    • @LovelyLittleLillies
      @LovelyLittleLillies Рік тому

      ​@@tvbnine793 not necessarily whaat just bc White American culture is a little washed down and not as defined doesn't mean African American culture isn't. The fact that many Black Americans talk in AAEV is already a big cultural differences. Plus if your European was a Brit or Irishwoman would there really be strong cultural differences?

    • @gardennormie2859
      @gardennormie2859 Рік тому +8

      @@LovelyLittleLillies yes its the fact they're from the same country with the same culture.. a white American dating an erupeon from Britain or Australia is a big cultural different but s white American dating a black American is not really a big culture difference also speaking another language or a dialet isn't a BIG cultural differences...

    • @DrUmarJohnson1
      @DrUmarJohnson1 Рік тому +1

      Interracial dating is a DISGRACE!!!

  • @bliss_555
    @bliss_555 11 місяців тому

    that first girl and that last guy were so funny lmao. Love all of them, i don't discriminate either.

  • @ckamo10
    @ckamo10 Рік тому +1

    the last guy is just like me lmaooo

  • @couchpotato4295
    @couchpotato4295 Рік тому +5

    1:42 they got Michael Scofield on this show

  • @alainaballantyne4822
    @alainaballantyne4822 Рік тому +13

    Something I wish the video covered a bit more is the difference between race and culture… you can be the same general race as your partner but have completely different cultures (ie different countries from the same continent can look very different)

    • @danieljenkins7951
      @danieljenkins7951 Рік тому +1

      Why would they spend talking about outliers. You can spend all day pointing out outliers that dont apply to the majority.

    • @luka7678
      @luka7678 Рік тому +1

      @@danieljenkins7951 what outliers? Maybe in USA but not in the rest of the world

  • @FirefulXD
    @FirefulXD Рік тому

    one of my favorite intros previews XD

  • @SJ-xx1xj
    @SJ-xx1xj 11 місяців тому +3

    the guy i was dating broke up with me today because i'm not who he pictured himself ending up with - "a white, blonde-haired, blue-eyed girl." i was low-key curious what folks on the video would say. i'm glad it seems like a lot of folks don't share his limitations!

  • @RicoClout28
    @RicoClout28 Рік тому +6

    Women of color literally date only white men. The right question to ask women of color would have been "have you ever dated a guy that was not white?"

    • @joepatrick3092
      @joepatrick3092 10 місяців тому

      Yep but they love to cry about racism

  • @sleekproject9988
    @sleekproject9988 Рік тому +86

    imo upbringing, cultural values and world view are far more important in picking a partner than race. People of the same race can be vastly different depending on socioeconomic class, nationality etc., it's just that there tends to be more similarities in experiences for people of the same race but not all the time

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Рік тому +1

      Hmmmnnn.. valid point, vastly different people in character and upbringing but have experienced same situations and are of the same race.

    • @danieljenkins7951
      @danieljenkins7951 Рік тому +2

      You can bring up fringe corner cases to defy the norm in any situation. Doesn't make it applicable to the majority.

    • @theonlythingihavetosayis9333
      @theonlythingihavetosayis9333 Рік тому +1

      Very true. Culture and environment determines how a person acts, not race

  • @jrgonzalez741
    @jrgonzalez741 Рік тому +1

    My dude @2:58 rocking Elliot Smith 👏🏼🙌🏼

  • @whitneyHU2014
    @whitneyHU2014 7 місяців тому +1

    6:54 "My current wife" lol 😂

  • @tamarameakes2014
    @tamarameakes2014 Рік тому +5

    Cut keeping topic race alive one day at time

    • @swagdonor2357
      @swagdonor2357 Рік тому

      They’ll never let it go. It’s too profitable. Remember 2005 when nobody talked about it 😢

  • @javiervasquez8797
    @javiervasquez8797 Рік тому +5

    Anyone else fell like claiming to be a mix of white, Native American, and Mexican is unnecessarily redundant? Mathematically, that just sounds like a Mexican squared.

  • @David13579
    @David13579 Рік тому +1

    My ex gf is from Vietnam and was awesome. I learned that me and my family do stuff that’s so different to her own family

  • @sivan1127
    @sivan1127 Рік тому

    Opening was best😂

  • @cleohettori8725
    @cleohettori8725 Рік тому +114

    People's parents have a massive part to play in who people would or wouldn't date, most people that have parents they are close to (because not everybody has parents they are close to/like as people) will cave in to family pressures because it's less stressful
    Also, has anybody thought of WHY people decide they are not compatible with other races, the why is the thing that also makes me think
    We should all just meet somebody we like & hope for the best...in every sense of the word

    • @putinsgaytwin4272
      @putinsgaytwin4272 Рік тому +1

      I'm Irish living in Ireland so I didn't rly grow up focusing on race unlike Americans.
      My mum does not like a lot of ethnicities. But I know she doesn't like them for cultural reasons instead of "race" reasons.
      Her most hated ethnicity is the Irish travellers. They're very similar to gypsies in terms of culture. I honestly think if I brought home a traveller she would ring them up on the side and pay them not to date me. However, if I brought home a traveller who was educated and didn't practice the majority of traveller culture, she'd have a huge amount of respect for them and probablythink they were too good for me. Some of the people she admires most are travellers who are no longer travellers.
      Same goes for 90% of immigrants. She looks down on them unless they fully practice Irish culture. It can look like racism on the outside, but I know it's cultural discrimination since she would be happy to accept black people as long as they're Irish (and educated).
      Anyway. Its very hard to deal with my mum when she makes you feel like crap for having non-Irish friends. I definitely subconsciously choose partners she'd approve of.
      This affects what races I date since most Irish people are white.
      Fun fact:
      My mum doesn't discriminate against mixed kids (where one parent practices an Irish culture she approves of) because she knows the Irish parent will make sure their kid knows Irish culture.
      Second of all, she accepts some cultures like British, Indian, Estonian and pacific islanders. (Sorry to the Americans who thought they'd make this list, but my mum will immediately judge you negatively)

    • @mariahasmr9184
      @mariahasmr9184 11 місяців тому

      @@putinsgaytwin4272what do you mean by traveler, like a tourist?

    • @putinsgaytwin4272
      @putinsgaytwin4272 11 місяців тому

      @@mariahasmr9184 they're an ethnicty in Ireland. They're a protected cultural group in Ireland. They technically are genetically distinct from Irish people but they look fairly similar to us

  • @Eso_esta_malo
    @Eso_esta_malo Рік тому +80

    As long as he´s funny, good looking for me, a walking green flag and not a murderer, everything it´s fine for me, no matter the race

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 Рік тому +3

      Being a murderer isn't always a bad thing.

    • @Papi_21
      @Papi_21 Рік тому +27

      @@controlman7490 fr...like I murdered my mom one time but she was chill with it.

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 Рік тому +4

      @@Papi_21 How can she be chill with it when she's dead? Gotta use your brain, bro.

    • @talhacreates4944
      @talhacreates4944 Рік тому +5

      @@controlman7490 r/whooosh

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 Рік тому +4

      @@talhacreates4944 Nope, I knew it was a joke, but it made zero sense which was the point of my comment lmao. Read better.

  • @alexisway2541
    @alexisway2541 Рік тому

    the way it started hilarious good choice

  • @karinarodriguez3682
    @karinarodriguez3682 Рік тому +100

    Im Mexican and my husband is white. We love each other, understand each other and connect on a whole different level. We’ve had some really good laughs being different races. Our parents love each other and hangout together frequently. It was never an issue in my Mexican household my parents just wanted us to find a person who we loved and that would love and respect us in return.

    • @Valfrex
      @Valfrex Рік тому

      Mexican is not a race white, black, Asian Mexicans exists

    • @eddy9579
      @eddy9579 Рік тому

      Mexican is not a race

    • @olugboyeopeyemi2428
      @olugboyeopeyemi2428 Рік тому

      Mexican are white darling...
      You mean caucasian

    • @itdobelikedattho8112
      @itdobelikedattho8112 Рік тому +7

      Ah hell nah what a waste

    • @lana4127
      @lana4127 Рік тому +24

      Mexican isn't a race though

  • @TheRealCandyMan
    @TheRealCandyMan Рік тому +5

    5:19 she is so beautiful 😮
    Omg

  • @BUSSINJUSTIN10M
    @BUSSINJUSTIN10M Рік тому +5

    8:18 she’s speaking 1 2 buckle my shoe Facts

  • @spytung
    @spytung Рік тому +2

    I think it’s great that we all like different things, it keeps the gene pool mixed well.

  • @holdenslayer
    @holdenslayer Рік тому +2

    Antarctic Poison Ivy at 3:23, you are stunning

  • @walkinprogress88
    @walkinprogress88 8 місяців тому +5

    Good Manners and good values. How awesome would it be to love someone without seeing their race, nationality etc..

  • @katherine2000cl
    @katherine2000cl 11 місяців тому +4

    As a mixed girl (black mother, white father), it’s virtually impossible not to date outside my race. Interracial couples weren’t as common when I was born, so there aren’t as many mixed people from my generation. I’ve dated basically every race/ethnicity though. African, African-American, Caucasian (American), Indian, East Asian, Hispanic, etc. My current partner is a cishet white male (I am a cishet female). I am the first partner of color he has ever dated, but hopefully the last (4.5 years and counting now)! The key to longevity is embracing and acknowledging cultural differences instead of ignoring them! As long as mutual respect is there and AWARENESS, it will work out just fine and possibly be even better than a homo-ethnic relationship!

  • @nvaleyjoe
    @nvaleyjoe Рік тому

    The ending 😂

  • @kimnoir
    @kimnoir Рік тому +1

    6:33 This person needs to become a voice actor immediately.

  • @zanegraham9997
    @zanegraham9997 Рік тому +4

    Aint no way they got Johnny Sins on Cut 😮 2:50

  • @katxxjane
    @katxxjane Рік тому +7

    “White people just love the outdoors” STOP BAHAH THIS IS SO TRUE

  • @babsome
    @babsome Рік тому

    Always enjoying your video's 🥰

  • @milky1234123
    @milky1234123 4 місяці тому

    im taking that "its a hoot and a half" I like that

  • @JustMal07
    @JustMal07 Рік тому +9

    Nothing wrong with sticking with your own

    • @ralegade7710
      @ralegade7710 10 місяців тому

      Until you eventually bottleneck. The cheetahs are fucked.

  • @aspebb
    @aspebb Рік тому +11

    4:56 Wait was that the white girl who was in cosplay with an Asian fetish who got hugged?

    • @gigipo_
      @gigipo_ Рік тому +4

      I thought so too at first but no lol, the girl from the dating video is blonde

  • @Guarlaon
    @Guarlaon Рік тому +2

    8:06 finally i'm represented!!! haha

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 Рік тому

    Great video gives me something to think of 😊

  • @ashleyaldi3901
    @ashleyaldi3901 Рік тому +7

    7:47 This person reminds me of an asian and white Michael jackson!

  • @DurantSearcy
    @DurantSearcy 9 місяців тому +3

    A black girl saying “I like blonde hair” as a reason she prefers to date outside of her race is ridiculous. Honestly, stupid.

    • @MsLotusBlooms
      @MsLotusBlooms 4 місяці тому

      That's what she likes. It's natural to like traits you don't have.

  • @parkourguy4567
    @parkourguy4567 Рік тому

    3:00 the Elliott shirt omg

  • @user-gg9yk8hm7n
    @user-gg9yk8hm7n Рік тому +2

    1:39 LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE PRISON BREAK GUY

  • @bradleythompson3519
    @bradleythompson3519 Рік тому +16

    I think people make race matter more than it should in dating. When we talk about ethnic culture sure there are some considerations you have to make. Its understandable to want to be with someone who understands your culture, but are you saying no one outside your skin color has the capacity to relate? Are you saying that if someone checks off every box that you look for in a partner but they aren't x race then you won't date them no matter how good they look? That seems silly. Also it typically seems like people who wont date someone solely off of the color of their skin, it's often just based on negative stereotypes of the other person's culture. At the end of the day, when you put yourself in such small racial boxes you can miss out on great potential partners. Just my 2 cents.

  • @FluteCheerios
    @FluteCheerios Рік тому +4

    I know this video is some months old, but i appreciate the honesty of these answers, very diverse. I keep seeing a common term though, that "love is love ❤️ " & whilst true, cultural barriers & ethnicity + race still exist & i noticed that a few answers in the video 📹 were influenced by what their parents & family thought, so things like that can be an issue in terms of dating interracially & interculturally, its kind of superficial to make it based on love alone. If your family or friends do not respect me, + you not coming to my defense & or even gaslighting, that is a serious problem & I'd absolutely want no part in that kind of relationship, fetishization included as well.

  • @rarityd
    @rarityd Рік тому

    I’m from Spokane and I laughed with the “Montana.”

  • @SRHisntSilent
    @SRHisntSilent Рік тому

    Woah woah woah let's talk about the lady in the green hat
    STUNNIN
    Also the last guy at the end is a mood

  • @killlalia
    @killlalia 2 місяці тому +3

    Ya'll creeps if you date specific races purposely even if it's your own. How about you just fall in love with someone for who they are...

    • @devikavenki4673
      @devikavenki4673 2 місяці тому +1

      So your clling 60% of asian women in West as creep ?

  • @dnkbaker3363
    @dnkbaker3363 Рік тому +7

    Everyone needs love

  • @oliviareichenbach2033
    @oliviareichenbach2033 Рік тому

    I loved the hoot and a half comment😂

  • @Themidnightstorm1
    @Themidnightstorm1 6 місяців тому +1

    2:25 was respectfully honest

  • @user-tn6pj1ms9o
    @user-tn6pj1ms9o 8 місяців тому +3

    anyone else noticed how most people look below average? either they have weird looks, or weird bodies. very few have good facial features as well as attractive bodies.

  • @nicole6694
    @nicole6694 Рік тому +7

    5:27 LISTEN TO THEM!! preference and requierement is not the same and one is clearly discriminatory

    • @rianalee3138
      @rianalee3138 Рік тому +1

      both can be, the girl who likes asian men due to anime has a “preference”

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 3 місяці тому

      There's nothing inherently terrible about having a requirement. Many people have height, age, assigned sex, and income requirements, are those criteria descriminatory?

  • @LiquidSunshine22
    @LiquidSunshine22 Рік тому +1

    that’s a hoot and a half 😂

  • @cagedbutterfly93
    @cagedbutterfly93 Рік тому +1

    Shoutout to my boy at 3:00 with the Elliott Smith shirt