Do Political Opinions Matter in a Relationship? | Tell My Story

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  • @aquemini154
    @aquemini154 7 років тому +4173

    It isn't a difference in politics, it's a difference in values.

    • @JesusLebtUndRettet
      @JesusLebtUndRettet 7 років тому +65

      you nailed it

    • @johnnyyip9404
      @johnnyyip9404 7 років тому +188

      lulu prince Those are extremely closely related. Values are tied to politics.

    • @cookiekhoala
      @cookiekhoala 7 років тому +129

      Your values influence your politics so I see it as interchangeable

    • @Beaneabean
      @Beaneabean 7 років тому +3

      Johnny Yip Nah.

    • @Peqqzqt
      @Peqqzqt 7 років тому +4

      THANK YOU!

  • @cindymadeira8736
    @cindymadeira8736 6 років тому +2783

    “I have been proposed to by eight different people.” ... I can’t even get a text back. 🙄
    February 22, 2021: It has been this long since I commented on this video?! Thank you for all the likes and replies! 😁

    • @TheCrazyPUNKIN
      @TheCrazyPUNKIN 6 років тому +31

      I’ll slide in the DMs I’m looking for a relationship atm😂

    • @adyp5176
      @adyp5176 6 років тому +37

      thirstworld population of 3
      drink some evian, fellahs FFS

    • @eduardoguillermo3156
      @eduardoguillermo3156 6 років тому

      😅

    • @FelixLopez-ok4qs
      @FelixLopez-ok4qs 5 років тому +2

      I would text you back. Lol

    • @himayalaputra4682
      @himayalaputra4682 5 років тому +10

      Its because that lady in this video has a fairly attractive face and has a good facial harmony overall! Why do you think she is getting multiple options from different people from variety of backgrounds???

  • @kelli7895
    @kelli7895 7 років тому +3619

    Still waiting for the day when one of them gets the name right. They were so close

    • @Participant
      @Participant  7 років тому +334

      Getting closer and closer every time!

    • @laraozcan3335
      @laraozcan3335 7 років тому +68

      I GUESSED HIS NAME WAS BRENDAN I WAS SO PROUD

    • @Jo-chilin
      @Jo-chilin 7 років тому +16

      That thought his name was mike haha

    • @jihanemoumni7742
      @jihanemoumni7742 7 років тому +9

      Lara Ozcan same and I freaked out

    • @jaydensmith6528
      @jaydensmith6528 7 років тому +1

      Jasmin me too like once

  • @Ingerstyle
    @Ingerstyle 6 років тому +2554

    She does not look 24 at all

    • @pettyx008
      @pettyx008 6 років тому +54

      exactly

    • @samihamir7017
      @samihamir7017 6 років тому +315

      I think he was just being nice. She looked 27 +/- 1 but he was smart and played it safe. He didn't know the girl and some people can get offended when they're assumed to be older than they are, even if it's still quite young.

    • @pettyx008
      @pettyx008 6 років тому +262

      @@samihamir7017 She looked more like 38 to me....

    • @pettyx008
      @pettyx008 6 років тому +24

      @@samihamir7017 I don't think it has anything to do with his guess or offending her. We basically saying she doesn't on her 20's more like mid 30's.

    • @samihamir7017
      @samihamir7017 6 років тому +22

      @@pettyx008 I agree that she doesn't look like any of the 27 year olds I know, but it's actually human nature for him to assume that he would be partnered with someone closer to his age, and as a man presumably with a younger woman. He seemed like a charismatic, nice enough guy, so I still stand with my original comment.

  • @ShamsaShakir
    @ShamsaShakir 7 років тому +6606

    It wasn't politics. At the end the marriage and kids thing was a deal breaker. They had different expectations. Glad they said no. Shows they are serious and smart individuals.

    • @AmyMujagic
      @AmyMujagic 7 років тому +85

      i guess we'll never know if they wouldve dated if they had the same views on marriage and kids, but considering this girl has lost friends and relationships/fiances then she probably wouldnt work out anyway with someone who doesnt feel as she does.

    • @Emperorerror
      @Emperorerror 7 років тому +99

      Amy Mujagic they totally would've dated had they had the same views on kids and marriage. They both talked a lot about how people shouldn't get so incensed about political differences, so they obviously both were okay with their political differences.

    • @rvk1522
      @rvk1522 7 років тому +8

      Shamsa Shakir I agree. But like always, people are making it about political views.

    • @ShamsaShakir
      @ShamsaShakir 7 років тому +28

      Emperorerror
      Yea exactly.
      And the guy said he couldn't care less about Politics. So even if the girl had strong views they couldnt have gotten into any sort of big arguments over it cause the guy was neutral

    • @foureyeswonder
      @foureyeswonder 7 років тому +1

      Shamsa Shakir True that

  • @alexanderherrera9827
    @alexanderherrera9827 7 років тому +939

    They lacked connection, but both of them seem to be mature and clear about what they want.

    • @joaquinc1303
      @joaquinc1303 6 років тому +2

      Alexander Herrera EXACTLY

    • @hislord1
      @hislord1 6 років тому

      She's a Trump supporter. She's trash.

  • @RhinoG5sneakerreview
    @RhinoG5sneakerreview 6 років тому +1055

    You telling me they found the chair with their eyes closed

    • @Pun1Sh3r_360
      @Pun1Sh3r_360 5 років тому +29

      Yup I smelled that too LOL it's some bullshit! 😂🤣

    • @kioraunny1351
      @kioraunny1351 5 років тому +20

      ryan they're not really closed their eyes, one time i see the guy said 'I'm scared when i see your red shoes at first' that's mean they're just looking down. Is just to not looking your partner's face

    • @katiegiles4874
      @katiegiles4874 5 років тому +5

      I never thought of that yooo

    • @gent0069
      @gent0069 4 роки тому +2

      @@Pun1Sh3r_360 Or someone helped them navigate to the chair...

    • @ericamlca
      @ericamlca 4 роки тому

      They told them how many steps

  • @oitnboitnb4524
    @oitnboitnb4524 5 років тому +431

    She looks like she came right out of the early 2000s

    • @Shokomycoco
      @Shokomycoco 4 роки тому +13

      Oitnb Oitnb 2000s women were the sexiest

    • @theduke6174
      @theduke6174 4 роки тому

      So does he

    • @angieruthw
      @angieruthw 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah that hair is not doing her any favors

    • @oitnboitnb4524
      @oitnboitnb4524 3 роки тому +7

      @@angieruthw she looks beautiful so does her hair just her style is very 2000

    • @persona7506
      @persona7506 3 роки тому

      EXACTLY

  • @aspebb
    @aspebb 7 років тому +2983

    Names were so close.

  • @chioosuna4839
    @chioosuna4839 7 років тому +2925

    I think he was pretty attracted to her in the beginning but as it went on he was like heeeell nah

    • @AndiLoveall
      @AndiLoveall 7 років тому +227

      This is why people shouldn't jump into relationships! lol Usually people find out they're incompatible when they've already been together a while.

    • @ilikewaffles889
      @ilikewaffles889 7 років тому +3

      Andi Loveall Hey there Andi, can you do the world a favor and shut your stupid mouth?

    • @AndiLoveall
      @AndiLoveall 7 років тому +56

      Nah my wise mouth will keep advising people to not make rash decisions in love. Thanks though. :)

    • @ExireHG
      @ExireHG 7 років тому +2

      ...Maybe just give out advice when it's asked for instead of making general proclamations about people you don't know Dr. Lady Love. ;)

    • @AndiLoveall
      @AndiLoveall 7 років тому +37

      Nah, I'm going to keep doing what I want, especially since it's annoying you guys so much. :)

  • @madim9931
    @madim9931 6 років тому +6996

    I think political opinions really do matter because it can cause a lot of arguing and could possibly end a relationship

    • @thisguy2678
      @thisguy2678 6 років тому +235

      It doesn't really come up. I'm more conservative and my girlfriend is more liberal. We actually have fun discussing it.

    • @unknowna8056
      @unknowna8056 6 років тому +36

      The ACE Family! I disagree with that

    • @RizzyMacguire
      @RizzyMacguire 6 років тому +104

      Unless it’s a good relationship

    • @madim9931
      @madim9931 6 років тому +5

      Unknown B why

    • @unknowna8056
      @unknowna8056 6 років тому +19

      The ACE Family! Because politics would not dictate someone relationship

  • @parkersnow929
    @parkersnow929 6 років тому +1068

    Your politics don't make you who you are, but they reflect your morals, values, and and everything you stand for. So it reflects what kind of person you are. So a couple with different politics and values functioning well is very difficult, but not impossible. I just wouldn't advise it.

  • @baileybabb2124
    @baileybabb2124 7 років тому +2402

    this lady been proposed to 8 times? go her. I can't even maintain eye contact with a guy for more than 15 seconds.

  • @amritatalukdar4112
    @amritatalukdar4112 5 років тому +335

    Both are mature, intelligent and strong-headed people with very different perspectives to life and love. Both are looking for different things and are unapologetic about it. Just bcoz 2 people are incompatible, doesnt mean we have to take sides (of our own gender) and bash the other.
    I liked both of them, and I am glad both stuck to their individuality in the end.

    • @jonathanallard2128
      @jonathanallard2128 5 років тому +3

      Finally.

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 5 років тому +2

      Awesome, insightful comment! We need more of your awareness and acceptance in the world!🌸

    • @themsmloveswar3985
      @themsmloveswar3985 4 роки тому +3

      He is immature. She is too sensible for him. To the point of intimidating him.

    • @TheRealJLion
      @TheRealJLion 2 роки тому

      @@themsmloveswar3985 you literally did what the comment said not to do, can you read grandma?

  • @ednagirl1
    @ednagirl1 7 років тому +886

    I think she seems sweet and he seems like a cool respectful guy. She was just raised very differently. I think I'd find it hard to date someone with such different views too. But then getting to know each other was nice.

    • @Grayk-ge5vo
      @Grayk-ge5vo 7 років тому +1

      ednagirl1 guy?????????????? Jk😂😂I know what you mean

    • @mthprfs
      @mthprfs 6 років тому +7

      She would do well with a conservative military man from Texas.

  • @serenakamdem6537
    @serenakamdem6537 6 років тому +868

    Does anyone else feel like that chair look so uncomfortable

    • @ellie_zabeth6843
      @ellie_zabeth6843 6 років тому +46

      Rena's Glamour I like how everyone is talking about politics or whatever and you’re talking about how the chair looks so uncomfortable haha

    • @elena7richie
      @elena7richie 6 років тому +9

      I actually have the same exact one and it's really comfortable lol

    • @serenakamdem6537
      @serenakamdem6537 6 років тому +8

      Ellie_zabeth lol yh
      I mean someone had to lighten up the mood

    • @leahwalker9151
      @leahwalker9151 5 років тому +1

      Rena's Glamour back problem squad over here

    • @reenaasmr8451
      @reenaasmr8451 5 років тому

      ya its like a normal chair i think they got it from ikea cus i saw it there

  • @miosnikzycia2913
    @miosnikzycia2913 7 років тому +1533

    Finally a representation with the man as a liberal and the woman as a conservative.

    • @Mynessly
      @Mynessly 7 років тому +15

      Hey i'm from France and i don't understand what is mean liberal and conservative ? İt's about religion or politics?

    • @EliM-fy4zs
      @EliM-fy4zs 7 років тому +13

      LemonEyes it's two kinds of politics

    • @miosnikzycia2913
      @miosnikzycia2913 7 років тому +16

      Liberal in general refers to an approach that is less restrained than conservative (emphasis on the conserve), but today, both words have political implications. Most Americans (if they know who those 2 are) would consider Macron a liberal and Le Pen a conservative.

    • @miosnikzycia2913
      @miosnikzycia2913 7 років тому +2

      Liberal implies less restraint than conservative (emphasis on the conserve), but today both words have political implications, mostly involving the power of the federal government. Most Americans, if they were familiar with both of them, would consider Macron a liberal, and Le Pen a conservative.

    • @iopdu92
      @iopdu92 7 років тому

      C'est quasiment comme la droite et la gauche en France d'où le "left-leaning" LemonEyes

  • @carrotcake6987
    @carrotcake6987 6 років тому +2822

    “You sure? You losing friends over it..” lmaooo king

    • @JesusChrist-ss1qg
      @JesusChrist-ss1qg 5 років тому

      lol

    • @user-nr2cg8hh5u
      @user-nr2cg8hh5u 5 років тому

      what did he mean? i didn't get it

    • @JesusChrist-ss1qg
      @JesusChrist-ss1qg 5 років тому +14

      @@user-nr2cg8hh5u The girl saying shea a Republican but not really into politics

    • @natemup
      @natemup 5 років тому +53

      @@JesusChrist-ss1qg She didn't say she was a Republican, did she?

    • @leahwalker9151
      @leahwalker9151 5 років тому +3

      carrotcake he’s not wrong

  • @Jeanine.mp4
    @Jeanine.mp4 5 років тому +555

    They were actually really nice to each other, don’t really understand all the comments in regards to her being mean to him

    • @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1
      @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1 5 років тому

      @Dion St. Michael maybe that's why she's been proposed to 8 times or however much it was. I guess it didn't end well for most other guys lol.

    • @bibliotecas69
      @bibliotecas69 4 роки тому +5

      It’s cuz she’s a conservative

    • @invisi6l339
      @invisi6l339 5 місяців тому

      i feel like he was more mean to her

  • @josiahhaas4067
    @josiahhaas4067 6 років тому +800

    She should date Wyatt from the other one

    • @mitsukifrancis.forever2617
      @mitsukifrancis.forever2617 5 років тому +107

      Not kidding here . I just saw that one before this and was thinking excatly the same thing . *_*

    • @iloveyouall277
      @iloveyouall277 5 років тому +1

      tayyaba shah I don’t believe you girl

    • @mitsukifrancis.forever2617
      @mitsukifrancis.forever2617 5 років тому +5

      @@iloveyouall277 well sista ya betta believe in coincidences.

    • @gpl992
      @gpl992 5 років тому +43

      Yup she even fitted his physical type description

    • @emmanuella4692
      @emmanuella4692 5 років тому +5

      @@mitsukifrancis.forever2617 same thing happened to me

  • @ariane7843
    @ariane7843 7 років тому +1857

    I thought I'd like the girl better but the guy is very down to earth and respectful, like him

    • @notusinganymore7477
      @notusinganymore7477 7 років тому +2

      Jack& Jude same

    • @MyENYO
      @MyENYO 7 років тому +1

      Jack& Jude same

    • @terryfang
      @terryfang 7 років тому +22

      true, really handsome and mature guy

    • @ArianaHyundai
      @ArianaHyundai 7 років тому +44

      Yeah I like him... she was boring

    • @milascave2
      @milascave2 7 років тому +31

      Meh. I don't really like either of them.
      If a woman has an open heart that you can see through her eyes, take her to an emergency room.

  • @aayushi2866
    @aayushi2866 7 років тому +1736

    I knew it.. there was just no chemistry at all..!

    • @valeriatg6067
      @valeriatg6067 7 років тому +106

      You could see that when she said it'd be perfect if she was a dog trainer and he was like nope, too weird

    • @nw9342
      @nw9342 7 років тому +139

      I felt a lot of chemistry, actually, until she mentioned that she was conservative and him mentioning that he didn't want to get married or have children.

    • @Verlassis
      @Verlassis 7 років тому +5

      Yeah that joke went way over is head :,D

    • @vinitnarula1
      @vinitnarula1 7 років тому +1

      Ava Meyers i

    • @vivrepleinementpassionne4409
      @vivrepleinementpassionne4409 7 років тому +5

      Ava Meyers same here no chemistry

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 6 років тому +1715

    They have different perspectives in life and I like them both because they still stand on their opinions. Even all these, they are very honest on each other, which is good.

    • @pyrolopez854
      @pyrolopez854 6 років тому

      LoveMe,com I think that is the key for both sides regarding politics today hardest thing for any politician to do is to suck up their pride spit it out and have the balls to look at certain ideas of the other sites party and really talk debate it and think about it people are too stuck-up regarding left and right and middle this is the 21st century it's a shame that we still can't agree on things that should be no-brainers things that touch on what makes us human which is having a heart a soul and a good head on their shoulders

    • @triana2618
      @triana2618 6 років тому

      666 likes lmao

  • @danielpedraza483
    @danielpedraza483 6 років тому +98

    I was like wtf when she said “ I’ve been proposed to 8 times” but then she said she was Mormon and it made sense.

  • @nnurad
    @nnurad 7 років тому +1236

    the guy is like really trying to be nice

    • @LouieDHF
      @LouieDHF 7 років тому +10

      I bet when he was 13 years old he would be the type of dude that would tell to not come to school tomorrow

    • @pokyposhy6716
      @pokyposhy6716 7 років тому

      pineapple ú

    • @isitbecauseimmexican7193
      @isitbecauseimmexican7193 7 років тому +22

      Yup, he tried. I got that feeling that he wanted to pull out a weapon, and destroy Hitler's spawn.

    • @nakkisampyla4460
      @nakkisampyla4460 7 років тому

      pineapple he tryna get some tonight

    • @b.o.4469
      @b.o.4469 6 років тому

      who hurt you

  • @kaceface3277
    @kaceface3277 7 років тому +4261

    Every time she said something he didn't like, you could tell immediately. Lol

    • @harshpeter
      @harshpeter 6 років тому +140

      Actors are usually super transperant in their real lives :D

    • @katiegorman9648
      @katiegorman9648 6 років тому

      Kacie Lysne jessica

    • @graciejohnson2776
      @graciejohnson2776 6 років тому +2

      kind of sad though

    • @connierakhapu5976
      @connierakhapu5976 6 років тому +4

      I see that.But i also see that lady from party of five and the craft..forgot her name

    • @connierakhapu5976
      @connierakhapu5976 6 років тому

      haaaah sorry wrong comment

  • @alextalkey4304
    @alextalkey4304 7 років тому +1438

    the names are the closest yet no chemistry at all, also his face when she said messy marvin at 4:31 LMAO

    • @kauffee653
      @kauffee653 7 років тому +124

      Alex Talkey "uhhhhh" XD

    • @shayla6447
      @shayla6447 7 років тому +295

      that made me cringe so hard.. who tf says messy marvin lmfao

    • @andreamartin1458
      @andreamartin1458 7 років тому +48

      Alex Talkey yeeeah she's weird.

    • @Katspearl
      @Katspearl 7 років тому +11

      idk I thought it was cute and different that she said that

    • @onarionaa8359
      @onarionaa8359 7 років тому +16

      it was a little cringy i guess but also unique/quirky/cute. you guys act like she said something insane...i mean it's the nickname her parents gave her so she's just answering the question. >.>

  • @gnizz0021
    @gnizz0021 6 років тому +992

    Am I the only one who felt that she was almost scared of saying she was conservative...?

    • @tylaughlin8779
      @tylaughlin8779 5 років тому +271

      It is pretty scary to be conservative now a days

    • @laughtrack686
      @laughtrack686 5 років тому +179

      @@victoriamendez9006 yeah. In the modern day liberal driven educational istitutions, getting told you are a horrible person for your political beleifs by not just others but curriculum and teachers also is really messed up. In Canada, everyone is indoctrinated to hate the USA and Conservative values, with few if any of them having as so much as a clue to what they are saying past regurgitation.

    • @sherlockholmes1876
      @sherlockholmes1876 5 років тому +100

      gnizz00 because modern society pushes the idea that conservatives are the idiots when it’s the other way around...

    • @ferroboy
      @ferroboy 5 років тому +32

      Sure, fear of being attacked.

    • @hopearnold9100
      @hopearnold9100 5 років тому +118

      Yes because Liberals want everyone to accept themselves but they won’t accept anyone else’s ideas or beliefs.

  • @jebbifer9636
    @jebbifer9636 6 років тому +2345

    It sucks when people say they "aren't into" politics. Politics isn't a hobby, it's something that literally shapes the world we live in. For a lot of people, politics affects their livelihood and their day-to-day lives. The decisions of politicians and people in power affect the ability of people to get healthcare, how much money they make at their job, etc. If you're in the position where you can treat politics like a hobby or something that you're able to be detached from, you're living a privileged life.

    • @jackparker8759
      @jackparker8759 6 років тому +162

      I've found that people that don't follow politics are more hardworking and less stubborn than people whos lives revolve around what this or that politician did or said today. It's not a matter of privilege either, the most apolitical people I've met are working class while people who have the time to follow politics are generally middle to upper class.

    • @robertjazz3613
      @robertjazz3613 6 років тому +49

      Jebbifer I’m a centrist, and honestly I don’t care about politics that much cause all politics are is inconsistent arguments and issues that never find common ground, and to say someone like me who don’t care that much saying I have a privilege life Hon I come from a Mexican American working class background that has to pay they’re bills and keep a roof over my head I’m far from privileged.

    • @pranshuanand4560
      @pranshuanand4560 6 років тому +1

      Jebbifer thank you!

    • @morgankokic1223
      @morgankokic1223 6 років тому +33

      Not being into politics doesn’t mean you have no interest at all, it just means you don’t regularly follow it. Both people here clearly have stances, it’s just that they aren’t the type to go research or debate or campaign over it.

    • @the_creed7969
      @the_creed7969 6 років тому +26

      I’m with OP here. The United States’ voting numbers are shameful and the people who do vote are often very uneducated about the choice they’re making. We need to stop making excuses for why we’re ‘not into’ politics and start getting to voting booths. What sucks is that people with two jobs and twice as many kids, who stand to benefit perhaps the most from a candidate representing their interests, are the ones with the least amount of time to sit in a voting line for 3 hours.

  • @bellebreeze
    @bellebreeze 7 років тому +1031

    Yay! A man who doesn't want kids amd is honest about it! Respect!

    • @NamaiWalterHeins-re4nu
      @NamaiWalterHeins-re4nu 6 років тому +15

      Gemini Neils well yea, they should be. They'll only ruin their lives and the girls live if they don't share their feelings... 🤔

    • @ceesvanrijckevorsel8454
      @ceesvanrijckevorsel8454 6 років тому

      Namai Heins Obviously, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't respect it

    • @amylaraman
      @amylaraman 6 років тому +6

      Gemini Neils when I heard him say that I needed to high five him. I don't want kids so it's nice when you come across across other childfree people

    • @lunawolfheart336
      @lunawolfheart336 6 років тому

      I have mixed feelling about kids in the future

    • @noelhuerta8309
      @noelhuerta8309 6 років тому

      John cena doesn’t want kids

  • @jackmanne6238
    @jackmanne6238 6 років тому +542

    Who else is binge watching these right now?

  • @CryoCeII
    @CryoCeII 6 років тому +2877

    “A man with a weak handshake is out” “I’ve lost friends over politics” “8 engagements and 2 fiancés that didn’t work out” she needs to just gtfo never heard so many red flags in one sitting

    • @reesereeves5186
      @reesereeves5186 6 років тому +215

      Phillip no she seems like a nice person. Everybody has flaws. Don’t look at the negative, at least try to look at the good in people.

    • @ulrichgray5497
      @ulrichgray5497 5 років тому +59

      @The Objective Theist Traditional men (gentleman) is not suppose to give a woman a strong handshake, that is reserved for men. You can harm a woman doing that. With a woman you are gentle.

    • @skullj2872
      @skullj2872 5 років тому +47

      @@ulrichgray5497 I would just grab a woman's hand firmly with a strong arm and hand that isn't limp but I wouldn't squeeze her hand since I wouldn't want to hurt her.

    • @johnnymcjohnson1373
      @johnnymcjohnson1373 5 років тому +99

      The engagements is the only one I see as a red flag. The friends left her because she isn't a liberal NPC and I do agree that people shouldn't have weak ass handshakes.

    • @KnuckleHunkybuck
      @KnuckleHunkybuck 5 років тому +43

      A strong woman who knows what she believes in and won't settle for less than she deserves? Guys like you can go ahead and back away; let a real man go ahead and take a crack at it.

  • @courtno787
    @courtno787 7 років тому +1713

    I thought he was going to be the conservative one haha.

    • @lincolnkrizz
      @lincolnkrizz 6 років тому +77

      Courtny No no way you can tell she was

    • @courtno787
      @courtno787 6 років тому +4

      Right!

    • @temanbradley8505
      @temanbradley8505 6 років тому +65

      You can tell she was Mormon

    • @graceyim8593
      @graceyim8593 6 років тому +2

      same

    • @vanessam2848
      @vanessam2848 6 років тому +114

      Courtny No as soon as she said she was from Texas , I knew she was the conservative

  • @samaaali2258
    @samaaali2258 7 років тому +635

    Nooooooooooooooooooo chemistry

  • @kathleen4301
    @kathleen4301 6 років тому +2326

    I hate how she looks at him almost like he's her patient or something. :--(

    • @Kuraakka
      @Kuraakka 6 років тому +159

      She is a addiction specialist what do you expect, when you love your job and do it well you never stop doing that job ask any cop or doctor.

    • @xx2ol753
      @xx2ol753 6 років тому +108

      Kathleen right she acts pretty entitled it’s annoying lmao

    • @sharonmorales9520
      @sharonmorales9520 6 років тому +81

      shes the worst. I honestly dont know how anyone could stand her long enough to propose.

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed 6 років тому +50

      She seemed slightly guarded but this is a blind date. That hardly seems unusual. I think most people would find it a little harder to relax around someone they don't know and are supposed to be assessing as a potential significant other.

    • @sorrym8421
      @sorrym8421 6 років тому +10

      Kathleen i get what you mean, however sometimes it's just hard for people to keep an interested face when someone is talking to them. I do it myself, you just don't realize that you are making a face of disgust or disinterest.

  • @Chicha_Rrones
    @Chicha_Rrones 6 років тому +607

    Why are people hating on her? I didn’t get her being judgmental at all. She just has different values.

    • @eduardotorres7645
      @eduardotorres7645 5 років тому +13

      dude shes bland af

    • @Србомбоница86
      @Србомбоница86 5 років тому +4

      @@eduardotorres7645 so what if she is bland lol

    • @urska4769
      @urska4769 5 років тому +11

      @CanadianLoki76 nope, it's not that. In a another their video people were hating on a liberal girl. People just like to hate.

    • @thatpotato7166
      @thatpotato7166 5 років тому +2

      She didn’t seem that into him.

    • @hamedshirazi1372
      @hamedshirazi1372 5 років тому +5

      She lost me when conservative has family value after stormy Daniel and putting kids in cage

  • @maryamyusuf660
    @maryamyusuf660 7 років тому +2663

    They both give me weird vibes idk why lol

    • @zesalamel22
      @zesalamel22 6 років тому +501

      He comes off as slightly insecure and aloof, although a genuinely nice guy. She seems sweet up front, but has got that "I voted for Trump and I stand by that" vibe that usually carries a lot of... undertones. Also .. Texas.

    • @imtheamazingcallie
      @imtheamazingcallie 6 років тому +35

      this is exactly the type of feel I got

    • @klyrixx
      @klyrixx 6 років тому +6

      Maryam Yusuf very weird!

    • @tylerdelbaugh2394
      @tylerdelbaugh2394 6 років тому +6

      I’m pretty sure she did a crappy job of putting extensions in.

    • @janicerodriguez8171
      @janicerodriguez8171 6 років тому +19

      They're uptight lol

  • @kidpoloish
    @kidpoloish 6 років тому +2261

    Proposed 8 times ?!?!?! it’s not the guys you’re dating that are the problem, it’s you.

    • @ojogbaneamedu2501
      @ojogbaneamedu2501 6 років тому +66

      moody sighs This just isn’t how statistics and life works.

    • @Missydizzychick1
      @Missydizzychick1 6 років тому +56

      My mum got proposed to 6 times and said yes twice, to the first and to the last. Some people have al the luck

    • @stacyhigginson170
      @stacyhigginson170 6 років тому +106

      She only got proposed TO 8 times. (if anything it just shows what a catch she might be that that many men have wanted to marry her). She only said yes twice (which I think is a bit high BUT idk the particulars of those relationships and why they ended. Better to be single than with the wrong person.)

    • @callmegert2118
      @callmegert2118 6 років тому +59

      i’ve read over this comment many times and i still don’t understand... how is she the problem? lol

    • @stacyhigginson170
      @stacyhigginson170 6 років тому +4

      Matthew Jenkins 😂😂😂😂 No, we don't. There is no "arranged" anything. We are free to date and marry whoever we want. You must be thinking of the polygamists (it's important to note that they are NOT real Mormons and that we do not support or condone polygamy). I have heard that they sometimes have arranged marriages. But this girl isn't one of them.

  • @ei4480
    @ei4480 7 років тому +3364

    I just want to be on this to find out what name I look like!! someone please tell me 😭

    • @user-dn8pf2op5r
      @user-dn8pf2op5r 7 років тому +41

      fr same

    • @mikaylaheheheh1201
      @mikaylaheheheh1201 7 років тому +131

      [E&I] Jessica!!! You look like a Jessica. What's your actual name??

    • @ei4480
      @ei4480 7 років тому +31

      Mikayla Heheheh thank you!! haha my name is Erin :)

    • @bellaedwards9575
      @bellaedwards9575 7 років тому +25

      You look like a Miranda

    • @ei4480
      @ei4480 7 років тому +7

      omg thank u for the feedback 🙌🏼

  • @Feeluck
    @Feeluck 6 років тому +387

    24? she looks like in her mid 30s. no offense, she looks very grown up, like someone who can take responsibilities

    • @koobs_
      @koobs_ 5 років тому +3

      Same, I can’t believe she’s not in her mid-30s

    • @davidmajor1508
      @davidmajor1508 5 років тому +2

      I guessed her age anywhere from late 20's to early 30's.

    • @WreathStorm
      @WreathStorm 5 років тому +3

      The guy looked older too. That forehead crease made me think he was in his mid-30's too.

    • @rantstips9231
      @rantstips9231 5 років тому +2

      32 was my guess

  • @xxattackxx1235
    @xxattackxx1235 7 років тому +694

    You should make a video about how past couples have worked out after they met
    Like if you agree👍🏽

    • @Aria-rl4eg
      @Aria-rl4eg 6 років тому +2

      xxATTACKxx 123 they did but I didn't turn out good people were making fun of the lady

  • @rileyshowalter7963
    @rileyshowalter7963 6 років тому +595

    "I have been proposed to 8 DIFFERENT people. A couple of those people a few times." BISH WAT

    • @stacyhigginson170
      @stacyhigginson170 6 років тому +12

      Riley Xx right?! She's got game! Lol

    • @matts5247
      @matts5247 6 років тому +2

      Have you never been in a serious relationship? Or even had the homeless guy or your hopeless coworker propose to you?
      You’re either way too young or doin something wrong

    • @maryem8263
      @maryem8263 6 років тому

      Riley Xx Yeah my thoughts too

    • @sandypersaud95
      @sandypersaud95 6 років тому

      Riley Showalter right I didn’t like this .. like why

    • @_witherrs_
      @_witherrs_ 6 років тому

      Damn DAMNNNNN SUNNN.

  • @rightrepublicans133
    @rightrepublicans133 6 років тому +735

    Dam I thought the girl would be the liberal and they guy would be the conservative

    • @Andre_APM
      @Andre_APM 6 років тому +6

      It was sort of like that in an0ther video

    • @hey-ey6bl
      @hey-ey6bl 6 років тому +2

      I thought the opposite

    • @kat-yq3so
      @kat-yq3so 6 років тому +30

      oh no that haircut screams conservative

    • @gooner5703
      @gooner5703 6 років тому +21

      Nope. When he said he is an actor I knew he would be a liberal

    • @lepiee
      @lepiee 6 років тому +1

      Why because she looks Hispanic? Bigot exposed.

  • @Robert-om8qc
    @Robert-om8qc 6 років тому +150

    Haven't even watched the rest of the video yet:
    "I've been proposed to by 8 different people. A couple of those people a couple times."
    RED FLAG!
    "I've accepted two proposals. I've had two fiancés. And it didn't work out with either one."
    DOUBLE RED FLAG!
    "I'm at this point, I've told my friend, that if someone proposes to me again, they need to say 'do you want to get married like, tomorrow?'"
    A MILLION RED FLAGS!

    • @eduardotorres7645
      @eduardotorres7645 5 років тому +9

      the dude dodged a bullet

    • @Xerion1
      @Xerion1 5 років тому +1

      Agreed.

    • @risankati
      @risankati 5 років тому +7

      @@user-ln8xk5oc3t I think it is a little redflaggy that her solution to two failed engangements is to get married straight away with the next one.

  • @TaliaGoodness
    @TaliaGoodness 7 років тому +297

    right off the bat, there has to be something wrong with her if she's had 8 people propose to her and none of those relationships worked out, i mean....

    • @Beaneabean
      @Beaneabean 7 років тому +16

      taliaaa 8 people proposed, she said yes to 2

    • @mikaylajaber828
      @mikaylajaber828 7 років тому +31

      I think the strict military and Mormon house has more of a toll on her than she thinks. She seems very structured and specific about what she wants and demands so good luck to her.

    • @shaunfergus2476
      @shaunfergus2476 7 років тому +1

      And failed lol. They also asked more than once. So that would be at least of a total of 10 you idiot.

    • @shaunfergus2476
      @shaunfergus2476 7 років тому +1

      But said yes to 8 or more proposals dumb ass.

    • @armaanmodi
      @armaanmodi 7 років тому

      ... following

  • @YouVerseUSA
    @YouVerseUSA 7 років тому +1126

    His face when she said that she'd feel 'uncomfortable' when taking bout sex lmaoo 8:56

    • @Scoutn
      @Scoutn 7 років тому +117

      Naveen DTube when she said messy marvin he was probably like she can give sloppy top

    • @spicyboyclique6969
      @spicyboyclique6969 7 років тому +4

      Scout Deadass

    • @dessa4946
      @dessa4946 7 років тому +10

      IM CRYING

    • @FallMacedo
      @FallMacedo 7 років тому +71

      "Well she is consevative and sex boring. NOPE."

    • @gtb_greedy7208
      @gtb_greedy7208 7 років тому

      Naveen DTube y

  • @Participant
    @Participant  7 років тому +650

    "The funny thing about choosing sides is that you don't have to be all the way on one side or the other. It's okay to be feeling like 'this is the one I align with a little bit more, and it's not perfect, but at least there's stuff I can appreciate a little bit more on this side.'" - Allie

    • @artnergy4964
      @artnergy4964 7 років тому +22

      Yeah, I don't buy that. The minute lacigreen (a feminist) wants to start talking to the other side, she got so much backlash from the feminists and former friends on the left and she's not even a conservative.

    • @phoenix9999
      @phoenix9999 7 років тому +8

      Can we get updates on all the people that went on dates?

    • @alejandrob6761
      @alejandrob6761 7 років тому +1

      SoulPancake thats a very centrist point of view and very ignorant just so you know.

    • @phoenix9999
      @phoenix9999 7 років тому +16

      @alejandro B How is it ignorant? When I took government class it is actually normal to be more central between both views. The majority of people are not far left or far right. Most of us have more layers and our views are not as straight forward.

    • @jamesgivens7132
      @jamesgivens7132 7 років тому +2

      SoulPancake I would love to be in one of your shows!

  • @DaDodo7
    @DaDodo7 6 років тому +206

    She looks like Melissa from pretty little liars

  • @luluhelen9142
    @luluhelen9142 7 років тому +512

    These videos give me the worst cringe sweats, but they're so captivating I can't look away

    • @Vesnicie
      @Vesnicie 7 років тому +5

      Laura Heffernan like a slow-motion car crash ha ha.

    • @bribrifunland8170
      @bribrifunland8170 7 років тому

      Laura Heffernan ikr

    • @monkfidelio
      @monkfidelio 7 років тому

      Wow you're even more sensitive about this than I am. I usually ff/skip through cringey parts of movies or videos, but I found this ok.

    • @ashwinraj9931
      @ashwinraj9931 7 років тому

      200th like

    • @nadiadimartino4935
      @nadiadimartino4935 6 років тому

      You just put words to my feelings!

  • @purpleclipse101
    @purpleclipse101 7 років тому +731

    I didn't like either of them off the bat honestly.

    • @quantumleap4023
      @quantumleap4023 6 років тому +20

      Oh, just realized he doesn't like kids. I totally thought him to be the type of guy who goes out in the park and throw a football with his kids lol.

    • @agil-j4n
      @agil-j4n 6 років тому +2

      Well I lile the guy for some part and I like the women for the look in her eyes, but that would be a bad couple tho

    • @xx2ol753
      @xx2ol753 6 років тому +2

      zadose smart and educated? Lady got proposed 8 times

    • @xx2ol753
      @xx2ol753 6 років тому +1

      Faye Massey what’s wrong with the guy

    • @chanbros6110
      @chanbros6110 6 років тому +9

      She came off a bit judgemental

  • @Sethclement96
    @Sethclement96 6 років тому +443

    He should've proposed to her at the end just to make it 9 hahahahaha

  • @fluorescenticon101
    @fluorescenticon101 6 років тому +406

    Unpopular opinion: She is beautiful! I will say, however, that she is quite intimidating.

    • @ElNegringoKreyolito
      @ElNegringoKreyolito 5 років тому +7

      I don't know how many people would disagree with that assessment

    • @sarfaraz.hosseini
      @sarfaraz.hosseini 5 років тому +7

      Spot on.

    • @omegachaos32
      @omegachaos32 5 років тому +14

      I highly doubt anyone thinks she is unattractive... The intimidating part I can see as maybe being disagreed upon.

    • @SWIFTzTrigger
      @SWIFTzTrigger 5 років тому +4

      Why intimidating?

    • @jonathan1391544
      @jonathan1391544 5 років тому +3

      I think this is a very popular opinion

  • @r.flatts3395
    @r.flatts3395 7 років тому +209

    This may just be the most uncomfortable one I've watched yet

  • @ZinahG
    @ZinahG 6 років тому +2286

    She low key looks like Rachel McAdams

  • @aribari2434
    @aribari2434 6 років тому +429

    This is so sad Alexa play "Despacito"

  • @paf2639
    @paf2639 5 років тому +56

    She's been proposed to by 8 different people?!
    And she's 27! WTF

  • @vada3046
    @vada3046 6 років тому +164

    Anyone think the girl looks like Melissa from pretty little liars?? No, just me? Mkay

  • @cowgrlbebop
    @cowgrlbebop 7 років тому +766

    He seemed pretty chill, but idk about her

  • @veracity-
    @veracity- 7 років тому +373

    It's so naive to think that political opinions shouldn't matter in a relationship. Especially in the US, politics often overlap with your personal morals and values. Knowing if someone's a Democrat/Republican or Liberal/Conservative can hint at their values. I'm not saying you should exclude/include people based solely on their political opinions, but it should be taken consideration.

    • @HaloFan117_
      @HaloFan117_ 7 років тому +7

      Veracity - yes to every thing ❤️

    • @senfnacken
      @senfnacken 7 років тому +16

      in many cases politics are just our moral values projected onto a countrie's laws

    • @JackGhent
      @JackGhent 7 років тому +2

      don't agree at all. if that were the case, then there would only be two cookie-cutter profiles of belief that apply to practically every american. people are way more diverse in opinion than the two-party system would have you believe.

    • @synchronium24
      @synchronium24 7 років тому +1

      @JackGhent "political beliefs" here is more than which political party someone is registered/aligned with. Even among people who are unafiliated with a political party, there is plenty of political disagreement.

    • @JackGhent
      @JackGhent 7 років тому

      that's literally the point that i'm making. knowing if someone is a democrat, republican, liberal, or conservative is not a good indicator of their actual belief system

  • @minishcat4756
    @minishcat4756 6 років тому +119

    Politics matter very much... Your political view don’t just say who you will vote for, it is a scale of your moral integrity, your thought process, how subject you are to change. You can have blossoming friendships with someone who doesn’t align with your views, but a relationship is different.

    • @nf4866
      @nf4866 6 років тому +18

      Not really. At the end of the day, everyone just wants the country to be free and fair. Politics is just disagreemnt on how you get there.

    • @youwild00
      @youwild00 5 років тому +14

      Minishcat I wholly agree with you. A lot of people don't understand that political views are so much more important than what meets the eye. Political views are also indicative of lifestyle choices.

    • @youwild00
      @youwild00 5 років тому +11

      @@nf4866 I beg to differ that everyone wants the country to be free and fair. Much more so with fairness. There are religions sects and groups who want an established religion in government which does not make it far to people of other religions views and atheistic views. There are groups the are anti-[type of lifestyle] who believe they should be put in jail or executed. There are groups who believe that people of different races should be killed or treated like slaves.

    • @nf4866
      @nf4866 5 років тому

      @@youwild00 there are also people who think their microwave is talking to them. But these people are so fringe and rare that it's not even worth talking about in the context of whether or not you should be dating them.

    • @theworstcatholic7247
      @theworstcatholic7247 5 років тому

      @@youwild00 There are also people who anarchy, or communism. The fact is, all those are in the great minority when it goes to either political side of the arguments. It's far more simple than people want to believe, Left and liberals are into Big Government, Right and Conservatives are into Small Government.

  • @KidbuuGODMODE
    @KidbuuGODMODE 7 років тому +912

    When the dude said the "I don't need church or paperwork, to look and say at the person I'm going to be with you for the rest of my life" gave me heart butter flies and I'm not even gay lmao

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 7 років тому +26

      Wilson Then yes you are

    • @JR-kv6ez
      @JR-kv6ez 6 років тому +49

      That's really a lazy-man's way of saying hey save me the trouble of all that and let's just say we're married.

    • @troy6646
      @troy6646 6 років тому +3

      Kwejeebo lol I'd be ok with that somehow

    • @honeyandlavender_
      @honeyandlavender_ 6 років тому +22

      Kwejeebo That's stupid. Everyone has a different view on marriage. A paper and a church won't make a marriage faithful nor it won't make it last forever.

    • @JR-kv6ez
      @JR-kv6ez 6 років тому +25

      Ronda METHFACE Rousey But it sure as hell makes it legally binding and harder to puss out from when things get rough.

  • @crosamond
    @crosamond 6 років тому +1813

    They hate each other lmfao

    • @KM-eb5yo
      @KM-eb5yo 6 років тому +34

      what makes you think that?

    • @Snektrain
      @Snektrain 6 років тому +4

      That's what I was thinking XD

    • @slvrangel22
      @slvrangel22 6 років тому +146

      I didn't get that vibe at all and actually thought they seemed to get along fairly well. They seem like they could easily have a good friendship.
      But the views on marriage and children was the dealbreaker and is a respectable deal breaker.

    • @slvrangel22
      @slvrangel22 6 років тому

      @Peteto Chibs that's exactly my thought

    • @jdtgfgvs1977
      @jdtgfgvs1977 6 років тому +21

      Right? 😂😂😂 he was being nice but he clearly checked out after she said conservative

  • @TheZenzen76
    @TheZenzen76 7 років тому +51

    I've never met a guy who doesn't want kids. It's so nice to hear my point of view coming from another person's mouth. Made me feel less alone. And he loves dogs. I would totally date him!!

  • @mahekmaheshwari7585
    @mahekmaheshwari7585 6 років тому +554

    She looks similar to Rachel McAdams

    • @kanavsharma2840
      @kanavsharma2840 6 років тому +2

      More to Saina Nehwal I guess

    • @mitsukislife
      @mitsukislife 6 років тому +38

      Don't do Rachel like that 😂😂😂

    • @kai.09
      @kai.09 6 років тому +5

      or Rachel Bilson

    • @MicaelaLynnDelgadoV
      @MicaelaLynnDelgadoV 6 років тому +5

      I was thinking the same exact thing

    • @lolamoon7296
      @lolamoon7296 5 років тому +3

      Mahek Maheshwari
      Kinda like Racheal Ray the chef

  • @Idah.Waringa
    @Idah.Waringa 7 років тому +558

    She gives off a super weird vibe. The fact that it starts with her stating the fact that she's had 8 different guys propose to her like it's a badge of honor...he definitely dodged a bullet with this one. Glad they both said no & didn't waste each other's time.

    • @deehines5750
      @deehines5750 7 років тому +37

      She specifically said that it *wasn't* 8 different guys. It was a few guys that proposed multiple times. She said it more so to show that she's tired of guy's dicking around and she wants someone serious and ready.

    • @deehines5750
      @deehines5750 7 років тому +3

      jeppemichael no one was guy bashing, it's what she said seeing as she said "if another guy proposes he has to be ready to get married like tomorrow" and that she wants to be married with kids, so what are you on about?

    • @carolellamuch9571
      @carolellamuch9571 7 років тому +13

      She's just a trump supporter

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 7 років тому +3

      Dee Hines I'm no she said it was eight dif guys and from those eight some proposed a couple times get your facts straight and actually pay attention

    • @JR-kv6ez
      @JR-kv6ez 6 років тому

      I think she is the one who dodged a bullet. The guy seems like a bit of a bum to me. I highly doubt he has anything lined up with his "acting" career.

  • @deadlyNightshade789
    @deadlyNightshade789 7 років тому +2007

    I saw him and my first thought was that he's like 38 and she said he was 30 and I was like aww that's so polite when he's obviously older ... Then he says he's 28 oops 😂

    • @big_burr16
      @big_burr16 7 років тому

      deadlyNightshade789 fffffffgggfg

    • @big_burr16
      @big_burr16 7 років тому

      deadlyNightshade789 ddddddd

    • @big_burr16
      @big_burr16 7 років тому

      deadlyNightshade789 da

    • @big_burr16
      @big_burr16 7 років тому

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    • @big_burr16
      @big_burr16 7 років тому

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  • @irmamag8459
    @irmamag8459 7 років тому +821

    She said she doesn't get into a relationship that's not headed towards marriage... Girl but you had 8 going towards marriage... I'm confused

    • @qwer-tj5ob
      @qwer-tj5ob 7 років тому +16

      Irma Alexander maybe the wrong person.

    • @foureyeswonder
      @foureyeswonder 7 років тому

      qwer Yup

    • @rareads
      @rareads 7 років тому +9

      Took her long enough to find out. One thing I hate is people wasting your time

    • @SerenityReceiver
      @SerenityReceiver 7 років тому +8

      Well, maybe there is a very shallow pool of possible candidates were she lives and to even get some the guys had to propose.

    • @foureyeswonder
      @foureyeswonder 7 років тому

      That could be possible.

  • @christinacolville5739
    @christinacolville5739 5 років тому +46

    I love this, they are pretty much polar opposites but they are seem to respect each other. Very interesting to watch.

  • @HenriPlass
    @HenriPlass 7 років тому +770

    but doesn`t she kinda look like melissa from PLL?

    • @euphoriabyart2343
      @euphoriabyart2343 7 років тому +21

      Henriette Plass she does! I spent the whole video wondering who she reminded me of!

    • @vanessa-wz2bj
      @vanessa-wz2bj 7 років тому +4

      henri h AGREED

    • @j.j.225
      @j.j.225 7 років тому +4

      henri h literally why I clicked on the video I thought it was Torrey Devito 😂

    • @priscillao1064
      @priscillao1064 7 років тому +2

      YES!

    • @kaylahw6916
      @kaylahw6916 7 років тому +2

      YESSS

  • @jeromyxavierwenzelwashingt4625
    @jeromyxavierwenzelwashingt4625 7 років тому +235

    I only watch this to see people being akward

  • @lavenderclairy
    @lavenderclairy 6 років тому +102

    I’m liberal but I have many friends that are conservative and we get along fine. That being said, I could never be with someone romantically that didn’t share the same political values with me. It would cause conflict and tension in the relationship. I’m love politics and standing up for what I believe in so it would be a constant problem. I can understand how people who aren’t that into politics could date someone from the opposite side of the political spectrum, but for me it would be a deal breaker.

  • @sappydrez4559
    @sappydrez4559 6 років тому +176

    It's birds and bees because birds have EGGS and bees POLLINATE

    • @valentinelove9463
      @valentinelove9463 6 років тому +33

      SappyDrez Finally I get it now!

    • @omegachaos32
      @omegachaos32 5 років тому +3

      This doesn't help for me. Just because birds have eggs doesn't mean ALL birds have eggs... Bees are a slightly different story from what I understand. The vast majority pollinate, like 99.9%. There are still male birds...

    • @joshuagall7252
      @joshuagall7252 5 років тому +1

      Lol ok mate

    • @jinxedstray1823
      @jinxedstray1823 5 років тому

      😮

    • @koobs_
      @koobs_ 5 років тому +1

      Ohhhhh this is the first time I get it!

  • @hassibakaori7875
    @hassibakaori7875 6 років тому +170

    Girl = Rachel McAdams+ Eva Longoria

  • @jaydencierra6214
    @jaydencierra6214 7 років тому +518

    i don't really get how people can say political views don't matter? sure if you live under a rock and have no opinion or -- you know if there are slight differences on certain topics but a far left and a far right no way

    • @RespectedGamer72
      @RespectedGamer72 7 років тому +6

      THEY DON'T! At the end of the day, we live our lives the way we see fit. Unless you believe Trump will barge into your home and tell you how to live. It's when people drag politics into EVERYTHING that makes others more stand-offish about discussing their political views.

    • @gladiatortoast4599
      @gladiatortoast4599 7 років тому

      I'm a right leaning person and I try and surround myself with left leaning people.

    • @Sassycatxx
      @Sassycatxx 7 років тому +2

      It's a values matter to me

    • @shonnyboyy5284
      @shonnyboyy5284 7 років тому +1

      Wrong my parents have been married 20 years

    • @c.morganfree1970
      @c.morganfree1970 7 років тому +2

      Or you know you can learn to respect each other's opinions. My father is a far right and my mother is a far left more or less and they're happily married. They even have playful fights and arguments of who's right then make up if it gets too serious (to our dismay *shivers*). You learn to deal with it and even accept it when you're older I guess. You can't always hate people with differing views and still call yourself mature now can you...

  • @marissavera8895
    @marissavera8895 7 років тому +130

    "Pulling out a gerbil, like woah what are you doing!" He's the best. 😂

    • @Participant
      @Participant  7 років тому +2

      😉😉

    • @GenevieveThornton
      @GenevieveThornton 7 років тому +4

      marissa vera I'm sorry I found that really disgusting and a total turnoff of Brendan. I know it's a joke and referring to the Richard gere rumor, but anytime someone includes animals with intimacy and sexuality it's revolting. 😑

    • @GenevieveThornton
      @GenevieveThornton 7 років тому +2

      Posterior Pancakes that's your prerogative. Just like it was mine to find his comment distasteful. Ahhh, the joys of sharing your opinions on the internet.

  • @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1
    @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1 5 років тому +306

    *Answering Do Political Opinions Matter in a Relationship* ...Yes.
    The End

    • @reenaasmr8451
      @reenaasmr8451 5 років тому +14

      It really shouldnt and its sad we live in a world were when we hear a different opinion we block that person out. It shouldnt be that way, opinions about politics shouldnt ruin a relationship period

    • @twizzyflizzy5524
      @twizzyflizzy5524 5 років тому

      Its lame

    • @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1
      @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1 5 років тому +5

      @@reenaasmr8451 I do think that we should listen to eachother more, but I mean...a trump supporter and a antifa 'protester' are not going to get married okay lol

    • @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1
      @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1 5 років тому +8

      @Aaliyah 3 Actually about a quarter of hispanics voted for him so it wouldn't be that uncommon.

    • @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1
      @ReDsOxFaN4LiFe1 5 років тому +6

      @Aaliyah 3 Not necessarily harder. You're assuming all hispanics think like a monolith and that they all have to have the same political opinions.

  • @janetwelling372
    @janetwelling372 7 років тому +464

    She looks like Melissa Hastings for Pretty Little Liars

    • @erykapetshop
      @erykapetshop 7 років тому +9

      Jenny Schneider that's what i was thinking omg

    • @TheAvengerShadow
      @TheAvengerShadow 7 років тому

      Yeppp rachel mcadams
      Plus her name is allie,Same to McAdam's role in The Notebook

    • @gabrielleelkhoury180
      @gabrielleelkhoury180 7 років тому +1

      Eva longoria

    • @btzmttx
      @btzmttx 7 років тому +1

      She looks like Emas watson mother

    • @TheAvengerShadow
      @TheAvengerShadow 7 років тому +1

      Neida veid Bruh.😧

  • @aprilsalvy
    @aprilsalvy 7 років тому +296

    lmao im glad he said no to her, she comes off pretentious just because she's been asked to get married 8 times. but also props to brendan for being a gentleman.

    • @JR-kv6ez
      @JR-kv6ez 6 років тому +8

      I thought she was lovely. I can see why she has been proposed to 8 times.

  • @zarius6363
    @zarius6363 7 років тому +1185

    Her: I've had 2 fiancees
    Me: Hmm I wonder why it didn't work out for her...
    Her: I'm a conservative mormon from Texas
    Me: Ah, there it is

    • @Angedoescoversongs
      @Angedoescoversongs 7 років тому +6

      Carlos GC 😂😂😂😂hehehe

    • @evns7142
      @evns7142 6 років тому +7

      Lmao

    • @e.vvelasquez2220
      @e.vvelasquez2220 6 років тому +36

      Come on give us a break! I am a conservative mormon from Canada married to a Catholic and I would never try to change my husband just like he would never try to change me!

    • @Freckles.
      @Freckles. 6 років тому +4

      It’s only the Mormon part

    • @blove9415
      @blove9415 6 років тому +2

      E.V Velasquez you better shut it up in here

  • @nohahaggag
    @nohahaggag 5 років тому +17

    That kiss on the hand really melted my heart. She was really moved by it, too.

    • @chameleon1015
      @chameleon1015 3 роки тому +3

      Well of course, it's gentleman behavior, which matters a lot to conservatives

  • @mrmonsterhunter808
    @mrmonsterhunter808 6 років тому +1726

    That lady seems kind of rude. She seems like the kind of person who instantly judges people. She also has no sense of humor, I feel bad for that dude.

    • @swagkelly5867
      @swagkelly5867 6 років тому +106

      MrMonsterHunter 808 You got all of that when she said she’s conservative lol

    • @mrmonsterhunter808
      @mrmonsterhunter808 6 років тому +32

      +Aidan Henriksen Or mega liberal lol. People who base their lives on political views have no personality

    • @AkioWasRight
      @AkioWasRight 6 років тому +72

      You got from this video? You're rude and judgmental. You're totally the devil you see in her.

    • @desktop3d
      @desktop3d 6 років тому +74

      Did you watch this? She was funny and charming. I almost got confused at one point about which one was the actor.

    • @Milk-chan-san
      @Milk-chan-san 6 років тому +50

      the entire time she was making jokes and laughing wtf?

  • @dcuniversenew22
    @dcuniversenew22 6 років тому +1494

    24? Bish look 35 pushing 40

    • @nataliepelz7932
      @nataliepelz7932 6 років тому +58

      Chester Fong I'm older than her but if she's 27 I must be 19

    • @AFCA-vn9bl
      @AFCA-vn9bl 6 років тому +52

      Natalie P You look atleast 10 years older than her, what you mean? Lmao

    • @dcuniversenew22
      @dcuniversenew22 6 років тому +21

      Natalie P you look older than your age

    • @dcuniversenew22
      @dcuniversenew22 6 років тому +5

      Natalie P I mean I want to look older because I’m 34 but I look like a skinny 15 year old even though I have a deep voice and I’m over 6’3

    • @jayfarmakovski4704
      @jayfarmakovski4704 6 років тому +35

      thats what happens when you vote for trump

  • @gottas33
    @gottas33 6 років тому +339

    Political opinion is very important

    • @robertjazz3613
      @robertjazz3613 6 років тому +10

      gottas33 it ain’t

    • @TheHeroCrunchy
      @TheHeroCrunchy 6 років тому +4

      Not when the voting system is corrupted and presidents are just puppets acting a certain way in order to divide society. For real tho, this aint it chief. People out here need to learn bih

    • @jorgem1195
      @jorgem1195 6 років тому

      gottas33 it’s only important if you’re close minded

    • @berlinwall6674
      @berlinwall6674 6 років тому +1

      Robert J
      It is. If someone is against abortion and you would want one if mistakes/accidents happened, it makes sense to not want a partner that wouldn't support them

    • @berlinwall6674
      @berlinwall6674 6 років тому +6

      Jorge M
      It's important because it reflects values. If I'm pro-gun and the other isn't, how would they feel/act around my firearm? If someone is against abortion, an mistakes/accidents happened and I wanted an abortion, it would make sense to want a partner that would support that choice

  • @nemilperez5441
    @nemilperez5441 5 років тому +24

    The problem with politics is people jump to conclusions. I doubt either side wants bad things to happen to the other, they just disagree on how to go about handling the wellbeing of citizens.

    • @fratermus5502
      @fratermus5502 5 років тому +2

      > I doubt either side wants bad things to happen to the other
      Have you read the comment section? :-P

  • @MadeofMysteries
    @MadeofMysteries 7 років тому +233

    Disappointed in most of these comments tbh

    • @MadeofMysteries
      @MadeofMysteries 7 років тому +8

      anna sadly true.

    • @johnnyyip9404
      @johnnyyip9404 7 років тому +8

      MadeofMysteries It's not sad. UA-cam comment section is a cesspool of idiots, trolls with no consequences, and close minded people who think their opinion applies to everyone. It's expected and predictable.

    • @Mandy_Grace
      @Mandy_Grace 7 років тому

      Johnny Yip 100% agreed

    • @Beaneabean
      @Beaneabean 7 років тому

      Why.
      Edit: I see why, I had only read about 4 when I first commented lmao.

  • @madisonkeller3694
    @madisonkeller3694 7 років тому +52

    the both turned around at the end and looked back at each other.

  • @paigelinville4041
    @paigelinville4041 7 років тому +1789

    ugh! this feels so awkward!

    • @TijmenJanssen
      @TijmenJanssen 7 років тому +143

      yeah, she was too "conservative" imo... He was trying to be funny etc. but she was way too serious about almost everything..

    • @wge621
      @wge621 7 років тому +33

      she seems a lot more mature than her age, but at the same time, really sheltered. kind of a weird combo. would not date

    • @jattfitness3136
      @jattfitness3136 7 років тому +15

      she was conservative??? why cant she be more liberal! im triggered!!!111 REEEEEEEE

    • @Kariegoz
      @Kariegoz 7 років тому +3

      This is why you should make Jesus #1 in your life. When you make yourself #1 or some man-made political party #1, then you narrow your options on who you can be with. They both liked the look of each other, but after talking they both decided they didn't want the other. That's because they were both so focused on their own worldly views and desires and weren't attracted to the differences in the other person.

    • @NeWorldVision
      @NeWorldVision 7 років тому +7

      You know what, I disagree. I usually think these videos are awkward but I think the awkwardness comes from the fact that they are genuinely attracted to each other, are on camera and are put in a position where they actually need to get to know each other via the subject of opposing views. I think these two could work.

  • @name3626
    @name3626 5 років тому +81

    She’s extremely mature! Acts 40! But is only 27! Crazy! But a smart woman! She knows who she is and what she wants. You go girl!

  • @sparkle_jumprope_queen6097
    @sparkle_jumprope_queen6097 6 років тому +58

    The guy is definitely trying, but I don’t see a connection

  • @r0m47n
    @r0m47n 7 років тому +212

    IM SOOOO SHOOK BEFORE SHE EVEN SAID HIS NAME I WAS LIKE , “he looks like a Brian” THEN SHE JUST WOW-

    • @idonthaveone7576
      @idonthaveone7576 6 років тому

      stan xiumin LITERALLY SAME

    • @ABC-nj1jn
      @ABC-nj1jn 6 років тому

      stan xiumin I mistakenly read this as “Brain” and I thought you meant he looks smart😂😂

  • @tlockh20
    @tlockh20 7 років тому +516

    Would pass on her immediately, she comes off as kind of rude and possibly overbearing

    • @Patrickgerardmusic
      @Patrickgerardmusic 6 років тому +80

      Travis Lockhart i agree. She been engaged multiple times and it didnt work out. Im gonna assume its her.

    • @dr.johndoe1603
      @dr.johndoe1603 6 років тому +13

      Travis Lockhart
      The pass for me was that she was wearing sneakers.

    • @jennapark3095
      @jennapark3095 6 років тому +12

      Dr.John Doe what 😂

    • @quantumleap4023
      @quantumleap4023 6 років тому +34

      She seems like one of thoe people who come off as kind but have that side to thim that'd make the devil cringe. She's one of those people who would never stop until she feels she wins an argument.

    • @AbdullahMikalRodriguez
      @AbdullahMikalRodriguez 6 років тому +10

      Its her conservative upbringing.

  • @hihigh1196
    @hihigh1196 6 років тому +757

    she gives me SUCH an off vibe. something ain’t right with her.

    • @grasshopper832
      @grasshopper832 5 років тому +82

      seriously. like sociopath vibes. cold, super calculated in how she speaks, and it seemed like she was like 'acting' human emotions instead of experiencing them? like he said he was the actor, but she seemed like she was acting how she thought a human would. totally creepy

    • @berlinwall6674
      @berlinwall6674 5 років тому +112

      She's literally fine. They both acted the same

    • @IBelievenevermind
      @IBelievenevermind 5 років тому +1

      girl group central reply me lol

    • @morganstaker4928
      @morganstaker4928 5 років тому +56

      Is it because she’s conservative?

    • @rainingstorm4526
      @rainingstorm4526 5 років тому

      she need jusis

  • @sjhorton1184
    @sjhorton1184 7 років тому +416

    I thought they were both lovely people! She was pretty and had beliefs that she held to. She wanted a family and was a conservative. Nothing wrong with either of those. He was a cool chill guy who didn't want kids. Enough said. I thought they had great friend chemistry, but it just didn't fit. Good episode.

    • @bodyofhope
      @bodyofhope 7 років тому +14

      Agreed! So many ppl against the young woman because she's a conservative. She wasn't even a far right, extreme conservative.

    • @pacificnorthwesteq5966
      @pacificnorthwesteq5966 7 років тому +1

      if they are a trump supporter then aren't they all those things.

  • @poisondarts
    @poisondarts 7 років тому +240

    He says he doesn't care if the person he's talking to is liberal or conservative, but I'm catching vibes he does care...very much. He just didn't know it or feels pressured to play in the middle as a neutral party in order to get along with everyone. Also let's be real- just because 8 dudes proposed doesn't mean they were all good guys. They might be hardcore crazy and she has the right to say no and not feel pressured from the act.

    • @vondahe
      @vondahe 6 років тому +8

      Sauce In a society as polarised as the American, different views can be a big deal. I think political views are quite important but not for political reasons.
      If you’re a leftie, you think the state needs to take responsibility for peoples’ lives. If you’re to the right, you think people need to take responsibility for their own lives. I think it’s fairly evident which persuasion is more sustainable in an isolated situation, but in reality we need a little bit of both.
      The reason that is important is that if you have children, a leftie won’t teach their children to take responsibility for themselves, which would be essential for a rightie. Lefties preach tolerance but show none when their candidate loses as the world has seen recently.
      Righties may not necessarily be more tolerant but they’re also not pretending to be, nor do they assume they have some superiority like the lefties do. Such differences in perspective are fundamental to a person’s interactions with the world that you’d be best off with either a like-minded person or someone who is not interested in politics.

    • @troyknox9687
      @troyknox9687 6 років тому

      Sauce she said 8x not 8guys. But yet& still,.. that can be true that they possibly aren’t all good guys

    • @eamcbmsc
      @eamcbmsc 6 років тому +8

      vondahe righties preach family values and then ask their mistresses to have abortions. Righties also elect a man that's been married 3 times with 5 children. The difference between the right and left are lot deeper than personal responsibility.

    • @Kangaroofilet
      @Kangaroofilet 6 років тому +2

      eamcbmsc
      What are you on about 🤦🏻‍♂️ right sided views are Against abortion and believe every child has the right to life while the left believes it’s the woman’s body and it’s her decision on what she does with it

    • @eamcbmsc
      @eamcbmsc 6 років тому +6

      La Flame I understand each sides platform. I was acknowledging the fact that republicans are also hypocritical. Earlier this year a republican congressman told his mistress to get an abortion, because he didn’t want people to know he cheated on his wife.

  • @XGiirrll
    @XGiirrll 7 років тому +978

    He deserves someone better

    • @havenchicklinski4886
      @havenchicklinski4886 7 років тому +21

      Dilara disagree

    • @alexarkadios9108
      @alexarkadios9108 7 років тому +21

      Dilara he deserves someone better, that bitch is cold and scary

    • @Ra-hd5wy
      @Ra-hd5wy 7 років тому +10

      Dilara I do not know why you are saying that. She seems like a good gal

    • @LarryVasquez82
      @LarryVasquez82 7 років тому +26

      I don't know why people sees her as cold and scary.
      I saw her as a strong woman who know what she wants.

    • @carterlynn5124
      @carterlynn5124 7 років тому +25

      Dilara They both deserve to find someone who loves them.
      Both are great people, they just have different mindsets.

  • @Gid-J
    @Gid-J 5 років тому +79

    Left or right leg joke was good.

  • @autumnalexandra6586
    @autumnalexandra6586 6 років тому +44

    Before watching the video, I read the comments and I actually thought I wasn’t gonna stand the girl. But after watching I ended up really liking her, and not liking him lol. She seems to really just have a good awareness and view of the people and world around her.

  • @eliek.5611
    @eliek.5611 6 років тому +1108

    When she shook her head to the liberal thing I cringed... that poor guy just sucked it up and tried not to say anything.

    • @b__c7538
      @b__c7538 6 років тому +8

      Elie K. She nodded

    • @Miranda-ry4ob
      @Miranda-ry4ob 6 років тому

      He shouldnt have said anything

    • @marcd7332
      @marcd7332 6 років тому +44

      Lmao liberals

    • @itsatidead3178
      @itsatidead3178 6 років тому +11

      Elie K. She nodded. You know, like she understood?

    • @bettlergott
      @bettlergott 6 років тому +46

      I cringe when someone is left

  • @Cmarie3653
    @Cmarie3653 6 років тому +138

    nothing bothers me more than when people "stay out of politics". Politics, the law, and government are how everything is managed and controlled in our lives how can you not have an opinion or care about that

    • @robertjazz3613
      @robertjazz3613 6 років тому +2

      Cmarie3653 because politics are all the same it the people of a country that make a change when they put their differences to come together, that something politics never do to people it only brings the unholy side of everyone

    • @megakaren2160
      @megakaren2160 6 років тому +3

      I'm not into the bickering that goes along with politics, so I stay out.

    • @sean5431
      @sean5431 6 років тому +2

      Because politics is a shitshow of corruption, taking advantage of the people, senseless arguing and winning votes. In case you missed it I'm for the minimal amount of government intervention while remaining law and order, but I'm not clueless to realise that this ideal is not possible with people as we are animals and need leaders in our kingdom to tell us what to do.

    • @theholymackerel1066
      @theholymackerel1066 6 років тому +3

      I disagree. Politics, the government, and even the laws passed are REACTIONARY. That is, they do not dictate our lives... they react to the way our lives already are. They react to CULTURE.
      Think about it... what came first, the civil rights movement or the civil rights act?
      It was the movement.
      And why didnt the civil rights act happen immediately after slavery was abolished? Because the culture at large still supported slavery and assumed the inferiority of black people.
      Thus... segregation.
      And it took years for the people to change the culture into finally accepting the civil rights movement.
      Once the culture changed, THEN the political aspects fell into place.
      So, the politics are secondary. To have real political change, PEOPLE must change.
      It has NOTHING to do with politics.
      And THAT is the real reason that "nothing gets done"... its not bad politics or policy.. its bad PEOPLE.
      And these people all think that changing policies will actually change the country.
      No, it won't change a thing.
      So, they just ignorantly bicker and argue about why THEY are right and expressing their opinions as facts... whilst the only way they can ever achieve their desired end is to do the exact opposite... and CHANGE PEOPLES MINDS.
      And obviously... vilifying and name-calling your opponent is no way to change their mind. But that is all the "political process" is... trying to make the other side look worse. Not changing anything.
      And I want CHANGE.
      And the change is derived from the culture.. and the culture is derived from the people... NOT politics.
      And that is why I do not "care" about politics.

  • @caveira6449
    @caveira6449 6 років тому +74

    Anyone else get a Rachel McAdams vibe from the girl?

    • @cait2071
      @cait2071 5 років тому

      Ashley Marie yes! I just made a comment about that lmao

    • @Tiffxit
      @Tiffxit 3 роки тому

      I got Jessica Alba vibes