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“Relying on somebody else for something that we exclusively rely on each other for.” is THEE cleanest overall definition of cheating I’ve ever heard.
Same thought
ABSOLUTELY TERRIBLE EXPLANATION. TERRIBLE TERRIBLE TERRIBLE.
@@zacka161why do you say that?
@@zacka161 Oh, my dear human.….I imagine you feel this way because you skipped past a word I typed (“overall”). My comment was made with clear understanding that there’s nuance within each situation.
@@andreaus. It doesn't matter the situation. Cheating is cheating and never justified.
'it feels good, im a simple man' is ASTONISHING
Right?! I was shocked that he could easily say something like that. On camera too.
@@ashleigh6192 Let a woman say that openly and she'd be called out instantly
Well they asked him, why. It doesn't mean he's proud of it, just honest.
@@ZefParisoto how was he not proud when he smiled like that lmao. he was shameless about it not honest. he really thought that was a valid justification.
i was looking for this comment. was shocked by the openness, but i respect that he responded to the question truthfully
Alcohol is NOT an excuse lol.
Right?? The girl who said that she doesn't consider it cheating when it's done intentionally drove me crazy lol. People are assholes and will not admit they're in the wrong when they actually are. What a bitch.
What if they were drunk and did it by accident?
@@kittycutetastic you don’t kiss someone by accident.
@@kittycutetastic what if they were driving drunk and killed someone by accident?
It seemed for this specific persons experience she was interfering that it was non-consensual… non-consensual = r@pe
A similar thing happened to a family member in high school with their “best friend”. Family member and high school sweet heart broke up, but quickly got back together and have been together for 30 years.
cheating just because you want the relationship to end is the dumbest thing ever
It's such a shitty excuse fr. Like what would hurt more telling someone you want to break up with them or them learning you cheated on them. The obvious answer to cause the least hurt is just breaking up with them.
It sends a message apparently
It's not logical. But not all humans can be logical at all times. I have done things out of pure emotion, it was not pretty. Still not okay to cheat, period.
If someone cheats on me and I find out, I consider it now an open relationship. I would get even and then dump them afterwards.
True. I would just ruin their reputation. Instead of a clean breakup.
The way so many people said they would forgive their partner for cheating is insane to me.
You don't get to have an opinion on other people's relationships. There are valid reasons to do so and the people who chose to stay should not be judge by people who know nothing about the situation.
Most people cheat. Of course it's easy to say "I'd never ever forgive that, so horrible!" but in the end, when you're already in that situation and you're in each other's lives, it's different.
@@May04bwunope 😅 Other like you, some of us are full of self confidence, love and pride. And we know for a fact that were 2 Good 2 settle For a lying, deceitful chicken coward.... If you deserve the bare minimum, then just say that, but I've been in that situation. Engaged a month before marriage and I walked away and I have 0 regrets.!!!!! Stay up
honestly, I think it's probably because they've cheated themselves and would want to be forgiven. Or just an extremely low sense of self worth. Accepting cheating in a relationship is NOT normal. Let's not normalize it.
@@hypnoteapotthe person doesn’t respect you or care about you. And you lack self respect.
Nah, it’s never okay to cheat. I might be the bad guy here but I’ve dumped people over the mental realization that I’m attracted or fantasizing about someone else. That was enough for me to be like I need to be single. Sure they might feel blindsided at me just up and leaving but it’s better that way then betraying their trust and lying to them by cheating.
Nah, personally I’ve experienced both and I gotta say both hurt just as bad. Being ghosted with no explanation is even worse though because you’re left there with so many questions
I think it’s ok to experience attraction whilst in a relationship- like we’re only human ?? People experience attraction but the most important thing is that if you’re in a committed relationship, you don’t act on it( in regards to monogamy- ppl have different rules) overall it’s just about respecting your partner and communicating
@@lilbeanladdy5511 no
Being in a relationship doesn't make you BLIND. You can find other people attractive and be faithful. 😂
@@ESWilliams09 no
Cheating is never ok. That sick feeling and pain in the chest when you find out, suddenly your world just falls apart. You’ll never forget that feeling 💔
NOOOOO! Cheating is NEVER ok! Doesn't matter if it's relationships, taxes or board games. No one actually desires a cheater.
"no one actually desires a cheater". Really? As far as I can see cheaters desire cheaters. It takes two to Tango.
The only time I excuse cheating is education and I'm talking about tests and stuff! ESPECIALLY if the teacher does a terrible job at teaching or actually doesn't teach at all! I would've agreed with you on all levels but high school made me run into some really "iffy" teachers
I will definitely cheat taxes, fuck taxes
Wasn't cheating because she was intoxicated? She needs to take responsibility for her actions, intoxicated or not.
I felt like she was talking about being sexually assaulted or raped .
It sounded like in this case she could have been taken advantage of. If someone is too intoxicated to consent, no one needs to be trying to hook up with them. That’s creepy!!
Ooo what about the guy who said “I like cheating, I am a simple man”
@@suhashareef6275 That's wrong imo. He's not recognising the impact he has and role he plays in disrespecting other people. That's selfishness and immaturity imo.
alcohol affects the hippocampus (memory center), which is why we black out; the motor cortex, which is why we stumble; and the prefrontal cortex. the part of the brain most responsible for reasoning and judgment, It does not simply tear down our inhibitions and let loose dormant desires. It is an active chemical process, counter-intuitively fitting the definitions of “stimulant” and “depressant.” It changes nearly every part of our brain. Since our brain is who we are, alcohol does not simply let out our true, unchanged selves. It changes who we are.
Alcohol makes us happy, woozy, enthusiastic, gregarious, and loud. In some cases, an affable friend may become a mean drunk. It is a complicated drug with all sorts of good and bad effects. But it does not make us genuine. It just makes us dumb.
6:18 ewwww both of these men 💀💀💀
any sort of cheating is a huge no, but personally I think emotional cheating is the worst.
1:30. I hate this girl
She's not only cheats, but then states "oh I wasn't even consenting" so how am I in the wrong? Alcohol is not an excuse, and beyond that you can't literally say you live in some fairy land world when drunk.. where reality doesn't still apply
your take is very unscientific alcohol affects the hippocampus (memory center), which is why we black out; the motor cortex, which is why we stumble; and the prefrontal cortex. the part of the brain most responsible for reasoning and judgment, It does not simply tear down our inhibitions and let loose dormant desires. It is an active chemical process, counter-intuitively fitting the definitions of “stimulant” and “depressant.” It changes nearly every part of our brain. Since our brain is who we are, alcohol does not simply let out our true, unchanged selves. It changes who we are.
Alcohol makes us happy, woozy, enthusiastic, gregarious, and loud. In some cases, an affable friend may become a mean drunk. It is a complicated drug with all sorts of good and bad effects. But it does not make us genuine. It just makes us dumb.
@@houseofactionthis was a great comment thanks 😊
@@houseofaction Mimimi
@@houseofaction i ain't reading all that ☠️️
For those that rather cheat than just tell your partner you don’t want to be with them. Just tell them you don’t want to be in the relationship anymore rather than cheat because getting cheated on is scaring and hurts way worst.
But if you successfully cheat and they never know, it can be quite a fun and exhilarating experience while also having a loyal partner. Not everyone has morals.
@@XHydroYGenZ i just physically recoiled at your comment. how disgusting
@@XHydroYGenZ yeah sadly we live in a world full of cheaters, grapest and edp’s just a bunch of weirdo out there 🤷🏾♂️
@@jadesampson9493 it's not disgusting lol I agree with them, depending on the conditions
@@divine555So? You're a nobody, why would anyone here care if you agree or not
I cheated and learned from it. And I’m a 25 year old male. Would never cheat again and would take it back if I could. One of the biggest lessons you learn as a young man.
Dumbass
A male taking accountability and not blaming women I seen it all well done 👏
@@missandry2669 hahaha thank you 🙏🏽
Most stand up men take accountability for all their actions. It's unfortunate if you've not met any men like that.
Facts.
This guy cheated on me and wanted me back. I had him sit on my couch and tell me every detail about it while he cried his pathetic eyes out. He thought he would win me over but I kicked his blubbering arse out the door. It was so unbelievably satisfying.
Reading this was unbelievably satisfying as well lol. You absolutely deserve better
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Wow, who's more evil between you two?
Well, you are a rattlesnake after all, and rattlesnakes don't mess around!
"I'm just a simple man." Yeah, ok, if you want to sleep with a lot of people, that's completely fine, but then don't get into a relationship. Cause if simple men cheat, I don't want a simple man.
*into a monogamous and not open relationship
Simple good men don’t cheat that was just a bad guy
For those who see it as a very easy question not worth asking, consider this. A problem highlighted by many of these answers is that different people have different definitions of cheating, and different expectations for their partners. Often people enter into relationships assuming they are on the same page about what is acceptable. Sometimes you can clear up all the confusion by talking things out early on, and sometimes you realize down the line after making mistakes that the best option for you is to re-establish the terms of your relationship and the promises you are making to each other.
Nothing wrong with setting a zero tolerance boundary against cheating, far from it. But that's not for everyone, and it doesn't even mean the same thing to everyone.
Learn the difference between a monogamous and a polygamous relationship.
You set boundaries when you first start the relationship to know if you’re on the same page; should be common sense but it sadly isn’t to many.
This comment doesn’t make sense since you’re not referring to different relationship types, since you’re making up your own random opinion as if relationships don’t have structures and rules in the first place.
@@aus-li Relationship "types" are just generalizations. Labels like monogamous and polyamorous are useful shorthands, but partners can still have different understandings of what they mean and what's against the rules. Every relationship is a little bit unique and it's useful to discuss boundaries more specifically.
@@HenryZhaosTextbook I mean, those are the most common types, unless it gets into asexual or the hookup culture.
And that’s what I mean, that the best strategy is to talk about what you’re looking for in a relationship, or if you’re looking for a friend that’ll eventually turn into a relationship.
@@HenryZhaosTextbookI dont get how someone in a monogamous relationship can be okay with cheating, this video isn't about what is considered cheating, it's starting from the point that the cheating was taken place and if there is a justification.
So I don't get te point?
Cheating can be different from couple to couple, but this video isn't about that.
It's never ok to cheat Idc how badly your partner treats you if you don't wanna be with them break up with them/Divorce them. Never cheat on someone
Highly disagree with that because that partner could be highly abusive and toxic and could abuse you in so many different ways that leaves you traumatized for the rest of your life. There's also abusive relaionships where you cannot leave in fear of that person tracking you down and killing you
@@zaksharman ^agree 100% doesn’t make it necessary ok but makes it justifiable. Leaving an abusive relationship it a lot easier said than done
@@zaksharman True, but if your so scared that this person is gonna hurt you or something, why cheat? If they find out they will get even more angry, mad, and sad. Cheating hurts someone a lot. So if your scared they are gonns hurt you and you cheat? If they find out they are gonna hurt you even more. It's better to get out of there and then find someone else instead of finding someone else while with someone even if they are toxic/abusive
@@Tomboysksksk To me they would hurt you just as badly regardless of wether cheating occured or not. I know mutiple girls that were abused by a former partner that badly to the point where all of them cheated on him because that was the only way they could finally escape the hell they had been put through for years
I feel you on all that but also how the other comments are saying unless there abusive then that’s a whole other level!
There are few things more painful than finding out the person you trust the most in the world, the person you think has your back, the person you love more than anyone else cheats on you. It is never okay.
How is it easier to cheat rather than breaking up…they’re gonna be upset either way
There are tons of psychological studies that show how cheating negatively effects both people, unless you’re trapped in an abusive relationship there is zero justification for cheating.
I haven't cheated on a single girl that I've dated. Even if I no longer have any feelings for her, I'm still degrading myself by lying and going back on my word. All the breakups have been civil as well, sat down and discussed why I felt we were just not working together anymore, or vice versa. None of that ghosting/blocking/etc crap that is so popular these days.
advice to everyone--> if someone cheats on you... grab your bags and leave period. and don't look back.
yea yea its hard blah blah. easier said than done blah blah --> leave anyways. I promise you that you'll figure something out and you'll find someone who respects you and loves you more than that person ever has and will.
it doesn't matter if you guys got kids, if they provide everything for you blah blah., forget the excuses grab your bags and go.
Cheating is cheap and eazy to do thats why so many people doing it these days
Cheating shows weakness and insecurities about the human who is doing it...
Having the options to cheat but saying No in the temptation is so valuable/powerful
Wow a keep it 💯 video over 10min long!!🙌 I am here for this!! I like hearing longer explanations of answers
Probably the first time where everyone agrees. Maybe not concerning the nuances, but generally everyone agrees.
That's not really saying much. You'd have to be a sociopath to think cheating is okay.
Cheating is never okay but I always live by the rule that loyalty doesn't depend on the other person and you should be loyal because that's just who you are. It also shows inner strength and willingness to forgive and makes you a million times more attractive and strong(saying this as someone who's been cheated on). Also, shout out to the people in this video who are so forgiving. Stand-up people💯
1:36 you cheated, thats it dont go around it dont try to justify with stupid reasons, it is what it is, own it and let her heal.
Cheating is not a mistake its a choice. DONE PERIODT
My parents defined cheating as talking to someone of the opposite persuasion outside of a necessary business or social transaction.
By that standard I have cheated by having long time women friends without any romance or sex involved.
The decision to be not sober in a situation where a hookup is likely is a choice to likely have sex. That's cheating.
Cheating is never ok, as cheating is always defined by people as "the thing" that is unacceptable (whatever that may be) outside of the relationship... but I swear that way too many people in relationships are just terrified of their partner being happy with anything that doesn't come from them. When jealousy becomes more of a factor than love, you're losing the game and need to let that person go.
no tf
It amazes me what some people already call cheating and on the other hand some other people's "limits" for what is "still fine" for them. The difference is HUGE
Cut really had me wondering if this guy 7:10 was the legendary astronaut, plumber, doctor and mechanic.
Girl
@@oranjebeer6637 The guy after her
8:35 A very emotionally intelligent perspective (a 2nd chance, willingness to reconnect and reconcile)
It concerns me the amount of people who said they would stay if they were cheated on
I don't understand how anybody could do such a thing like cheating, it's incredibly immature.
Its evil
Ah yes, Adultery, the “get out of marriage” card. How to turn over the keys to the relationship by sending an ultimatum. The only true answer is “I’d have to look at the totality of the circumstances.” My wife never cheated on me, she died instead. If she were to show up alive recovering from a gang bang I’d welcome her and order takeout.
'If she were to show up alive recovering from a gang bang I'd welcome her and order takeout' That's.. Strangely wholesome 😭 Sorry about your wife!
And if she had wheels she'd be a bicycle. And if she never died, but instead cheated on you, instead of keeping her memory dead you'd despise her and want her out of your sight. She'd probably be a different person in that hypothetical though... you know, that's how hypotheticals go.
@@puntodelectura
You are right. My model was the Prodigal Son.
Best description about what cheating is I've heard from this channel earlier... It's everything you do/allow to be happen between you and someone other that hurts your partner feelings :)
No matter how messed or toxic a relationship is, you dont cheat. That’s no excuse: you end up cheating yourself and your word
My ex mentally cheated on me, i believe for the whole time in the relationship. He was still in love with his best friend (from what i hear a few months ago against my will they are in a relationship) He followed girls on social media and justified it with disgusting excuses. I could never trust him&i wanted to break up with him a couple of times before he did. I recognise the fact i should've just never given him a chance in the first place, however that doesnt excuse him crossing over my boundaries every chance he got. I am lucky to have such a strong foundation within myself because the mental games he played are insane and he obviously made me the bad guy in this whole thing. I am so so so so happy he is out of my life. I thank the gods every day. I don't feel the need to forgive him or any bs like that. I have absolutely no feelings for him, not even pity. But i will say this: him breaking up with me taught me some very valuable lessons i am glad i learned at 20 years old instead of later in life.
In scenarios like "I just wanted something new, it was nothing", "I was lonely", "It was a mistake, I was drunk” I wouldn’t be able to forgive… In such scenarios a person deliberately chooses to harm someone who is good to them, who trusts them. But there are scenarios where a cheater would be not the first person to do harm. For example where husbands are extremely physically abusive and their wives can’t get out of relationships and they cheat on their husband with another man who they happened to meet who are nice to them for a change and who maybe even can give the strength and support to get out. Also another example where I can understand the cheating is a spiteful cheating. You cheat on me -> I cheat on you. Although people say it doesn’t work and doesn’t make pain any less. But I understand where it’s coming from.
if your partner is abusive then leave them, breakup or try and find help so you can leave them. cheating won’t solve anything so no, it is never okay
My father cheated and had a child as I was in my mother's womb... Married the other woman, moved to another area, and forgot about the planned child he was supposed to raise. Cheating is not okay in such situations.
My lord, these people are beyond insecure! "Micro-cheating"?! Like wtaf? People are so completely obsessed with controlling people!
I know I could never stay with someone who cheated on me. I can be very forgiving and patient so there are many things I could get over and work through, and it's not even about pain or humiliation for me, all those can be overcome. It's the contempt. I've only been cheated on once (that I know of) and I still have such contempt and disgust for my ex that I just couldn't stay together. I need a partner I can respect as a flawed but ultimately good, decent person, and I just have too much contempt for cheaters that I could never respect them at all. I just couldn't stay no matter how much I wanted to.
Cheating is escapism at its finest, it's fundamentally childish. It's actually incredible to me when I hear people jump straight to mental gymnastics on the topic.
Sadly, some people need to cheat to realize they need to grow the fuck up.
One of my ex's got real angry with me when she asked if I thought she might cheat on me and I said yup she might. When asked why I would think such a horrible thought I replied that she cheated on last boyfriend with me and then left him for me. No one said they was the person that the cheater cheated with, but that wasn't the question. If you fall heavy for someone then everything is forgivable. Sometimes common sense flys out of the window and you can't help yourself.
4:41 what? i think its easier to just say words in a few seconds vs sneaking around and cheating on your partner. I also don't agree of having to resort to cheating, to have someone "get the message" to leave you. Why compromise your integrity instead of just biting the bullet and speaking on your feelings versus making the situation even worse.
1:45 That shirt is off the hook! So gorgeous
what the F are those phenotypes. like 60% should not even be considered human.
being drunk isn't an excuse when i'm drunk i want no one else but my man and that's all i can think about, being drunk just gives someone confidence or courage to do something they probably would already do sober
The ones who cheat to get out of relationships are the worst.
Did anyone else notice the guy who was also in the 30 year old virgins answer the question or take a shit vid?
Cheating = selfish coward. If you want to have a partner like this - it is up to you. Would not recommend 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think everyone gets tempted by other people at some point in a long term relationship, but there's a big glaring line that you actively make a choice not to cross, if you have love and respect for your partner.
People who cheat are weak and pathetic. They lack any integrity.
I would never ever give someone a second chance if they cheated on me, unless I was unable to function due to a stroke or something, and in a vegetative state.
If my husband of 20 years cheated on me, I'd leave him tomorrow, and destroy his life. He knows this and accepts it. Lol. In saying that, I'm not a jealous person at all, I just would never put up with such a lack of respect. If I ever got cheated on, I think I'd become slightly psychotic. 💀💘
Fr!!! Who hasn’t had someone they find attractive while they’re drinking? You can STILL say no!! I don’t get it lol it’s such a cowardly thing to do and the people who don’t even feel bad about it are even worse
@@barbellandyogastuff Alcohol is one of the worst drugs in the world and people still drink it. Alcohol can cause a lot of problems. I don't drink alcohol and that's good.
I can imagine...if someone cheated on Cinders, she would cry and scream at her husband, and she might damage some of his property, or throw some of his stuff. My mum sometimes rips stuff and throws stuff lol. Yeah, infidelity/cheating is bad, I agree.
It’s okay to cheat if he’s an abuser and you have been tricked and manipulated so you’re able to leave by finding someone else
Report the abuser then, tell your friends or family about your situation instead of acting and being in the same level as your abuser/cheater. Cheating is never justifiable.
So many excuses from weak people. If you cheat because you are unable to break up with them, you're a weak person and need to work on it before you get into a relationship
Pretty sad for that gal who tells her mom it's OK to cheat on the dad. I wonder what kind of relationship it is with the dad to be that resentful.
the person at 7:23 is so unbelievably beautiful
LMAOOO “people make mistakes” bye “I would stay with them if I’m married” bye “I was drunk” bye
If you have genuine respect for yourself you’d never tolerate that behavior. STAND UP, get a grip, and find someone worth your time.
its not ok to cheat. end of discussion
The girl at 1:26 sounds like a huge cheater that does not want to admit it. Lmao you cheating while alcohol still means you cheated. I got faded and now i’m not a cheater, like wtf.
1:24 that is some respectable mental gymnastics to justify her cheating
Drake? 5:38
0:46 thats not cheating
Cheating is not okay, but people shouldn't judge others in abusive situations. Sometimes it's about survival.
People seem to be misunderstanding alcohol and consent. Drunk people can give consent. Making a decision while you are drunk that you regret when you sober up is not SA. When you are so drunk that you are no longer able make decisions at all, that's when you are incapable of consenting.
For me, alcohol is NOT an excuse, but if my man would be drunk and SOMEONE ELSE is "confusing" them, then i might/would forgive. It depends if yk what i mean
Perfect way to end the video, with my guy with the red bucket hat spittin fire.
im ngl the woman at 6:42 who said that its super common and could happen to everyone kinda scared me a bit
like i cant imagine my partner cheating but in all reality if he did i have no idea how id handle it
I cheated, and even I think that cheating is never ok.
Question for you: why did you cheat instead of leaving them beforehand? Just curious, not trying to argue at all!
@@Emily-ln5ko Well, we were working at the same place, while my partner wasn't. Consequently, I had more communication with my co worker than with my partner. I finally broke up with my partner, but by then, me and my co worker had already developed feelings for each other.
Like I said, I don't think cheating is ever OK. But usually, there's already a feeling of disatisfaction somehow but we're probably not sure yet to end the relationship or not.
And sometimes we try to find a replacement because we just have a feeling that our partner is about to leave us anyway.
It's the time gap for consideration until we finally decide to break up that is very prone to have cheating involved.
@@fubytv731 so u did the deed after breakup?
@@elenistars yes
@@fubytv731 eh atleast u had the balls to break up and not be lil puss lol. respect.
If someone wants someone else, or to be with someone else more than me I'm not going to be happy with them and they aren't happy with me. And will they likely keep looking. Fantasy is Fine. But feelings or contact aren't. I might be sad they don't love me anymore. But I cannot accept that disrespect. We can break up amicably if they have the hard conversation to end it first bc I can still respect them back. If they ask for forgiveness after and I give them a pass it's not a precedent I want, it's a slippery slope. And not the example I want to set for my two kids.
its crazy how pretty these people are and they still got cheated on i guesss it can happen to anyone
not the girl who said she doesn't consider it cheating if she was drunk. wow. being drunk is not an excuse.
5:07 i am stuck. i am manipulated into staying. told he will unalive himself if i leave & just making it seem like he won’t be okay. it’s even more complicated than just that. not saying cheating is the way but those relationships definitely exist.
1:28 And that's one of the reasons I don't date cheaters. We hold drunk drivers responsible even if they were too drunk to "consent" to drive. You are responsible for you actions while voluntarily intoxicated.
When I commit to someone as a partner or friend, I am willing to throw myself under the bus for that person. I demand that same loyalty in return. Cheating shows callous disregard for your partner and an escalated behavior like that indicates a baseline behavior of indifference. How does that "baseline behavior of indifference" manifest... you just saw one way: A failure to accept responsibility for your wrong doings
I don't expect my friends/partners to be perfect. Far from it. I do expect them to rectify harm they cause in a timely and effective manner
This girl that says she has too much respect for herself, then in the next sentence says she would accept her partner of 6 months drunk cheating? Girl no. Idc what the circumstances were, cheating is not forgivable. If you are able to leave a situation your unhappy in, THEN LEAVE don’t cheat! I don’t get the point of that
you must understand that alcohol affects the hippocampus (memory center), which is why we black out; the motor cortex, which is why we stumble; and the prefrontal cortex. the part of the brain most responsible for reasoning and judgment, It does not simply tear down our inhibitions and let loose dormant desires. It is an active chemical process, counter-intuitively fitting the definitions of “stimulant” and “depressant.” It changes nearly every part of our brain. Since our brain is who we are, alcohol does not simply let out our true, unchanged selves. It changes who we are.
Alcohol makes us happy, woozy, enthusiastic, gregarious, and loud. In some cases, an affable friend may become a mean drunk. It is a complicated drug with all sorts of good and bad effects. But it does not make us genuine. It just makes us dumb.
and this is why you can't consent while drunk, its also why drunk cheating can be an excuse.
like for example, lets say you rarely drink and your friends get you to go out drinking and ply you with alcohol and you end up banging someone when you were piss drunk, that is by definition NOT CHEATING.
Im surprised how many people said it was okay 🥲
Cheating is anything that puts you in a position for something more to happen, intoxicated or not.
3:24 is that Wentworth Miller?
Only thing I’ll excuse if someone is stuck in a relationship that they’ve tried multiple times to get out of and they cheated to get the person to finally break up with them instead. It’s definitely not a fun situation
The way he said 'do you regret it' - I heard the button right there! 😂
Nah if somebody cheats its over that love connection is broken and that person is plague. Off to the streets she goes back to I’m gone
I was cheated on 7 years ago and that person just reached out to me, apologized, and has been telling me that they've wondered what life could have been like if they hadn't... and I'd be lying if I said I don't still have feelings for them. And it disgusts me that I'm still even a little in love with them. I keep checking my phone to see if there's a text, and fantasizing about what life could've been like with them too. I wish I could just let that go.
I hope the best for you dude
hi so i need an outside perspective here
so basically i relied on another guy for emotional support and attention bc my boyfriend didn’t make time for me or communicate with me. and when he wasn’t leaving me feeling alone and unloved he was doing what felt like using me to meet his sexual needs without asking me for consent, even after i told him i didn’t like any of it and thought i may even be asexual. i was emotionally detached from him but was afraid to leave because i knew he was the type to manipulate me into staying by making me feel guilty for trying to get out (which he did, by threatening to off himself). and now he’s told a lot of people that i cheated so a lot of people at my school hate me now.
im not trying to say i’m completely innocent, but am i really as bad as the people at school think?
If they cheat, send them to the street!!!!
Cheating while drunk just means 2 too many problems to deal with because on top of being a cheater you have a drinking problem . Your drinking is causing problems!
0:00 now that is a.... risky shirt to wear to a cut video, and then still up load the content lol
Ah, the old I was so drunk I couldn't consent but still fully did it excuse. Try that excuse with drunk driving.
LOL seriously? The girl is saying she didn't cheat bc she was drunk? Isn't that the story of the century....
There's one case where i think cheating could be considered okay and that's if your partner is abusing you because to me why shouldn't you be entitled to feeling loved by someone else if the one who is supposed to be your loved one is a terrible human being.
That doesn’t make sense. Leave the relationship, if you can’t leave for whatever reason cheating will not resolve your issues only make things worse. This is like saying if your sad do crack so you won’t be sad anymore, just making more problems.
@@bojangles3518 Bullshit.
Also I don't understand why people are saying that breaking up is so hard if you find your significant other cheating I found mine trying to send messages and I told her to get her s*** and get out of my house end of story clean break and I got to hang with the boys that night
First girl is so lost lol. Made no sense.
"Following other ppl on Instagram" is cheating?! Wow...
5:22 then why they heck you still with with you dad 😂😂😂
The Gram statements are off the chain, the smell of double standards is in the air!
Cheating and loyalty are a mentality. I can’t be with a guy who feels like he wants to be with any girl walking down the street. Staring at women or thinking about them just proves to me you don’t feel like I’m the person you want.
It Is Your Right To Be Faithful If You Feel Like It.
It Is Your Right To Not Be Faithful If You Don't Feel Like It.
It Is Your Right To Cheat If You Feel Like It.
It Is Your Right To Not Cheat If You Don't Feel Like It.
To All Monogamists :
Stop Forcing People Around You To Think The Same Way You Do Through Manipulation By Preaching That "Cheating Is Wrong". The Fact You Touched , Hugged , Kissed Or Fucked A Person Who's Not Your Boyfriend - Girlfriend / Husband - Wife Doesn't Mean You Love This Person More Than You Love Your Boyfriend - Girlfriend / Husband - Wife Neither Is A Serious Reason To Break Up With Someone Or Dump Someone. That's Why Open Relationships Exist. And If I Had To Choose Between An Open Relationship That Would Bless Me By Keeping The Woman I Love And A Breakup That Would Punish Me By Losing The Woman I Love I'd Choose The First Option.
nope and not telling anyone your business as well is a good thing never tell anyone your business