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How did cut manage to get this diverse group of moms. Each one with their own amazing stories.
Because women are different lol
Cause getting and having kids pregnant is amazing and whole of variables byitself
Uh. It’s 100 people
Because EVERY pregnancy is different
@@juliuskasorobruh whose banging these chicks. A lot of them busted.
im 100% sure i was an accident. my mom had me at 18, she was just graduating high school. and honestly i dont care at all, she gave me the best life possible, i cant imagine what she went thru and shes a hero to me
Your mom is amazing just as much as you are ong
do u have ur real dad or step?
w mom
@@ldjkng6909robably none as every child with teen mom
Beautiful!
To the mama who had her young and got sober for her, you’re amazing
@@zachmondial2172it’s very fucking difficult to get sober and stop your addiction, so yes we should congratulate her
@@zachmondial2172have you been in that position before? Everyone has their own struggles to over come, and some don’t make it out of their struggles. The fact they did and also are raising a child; incredible work that should be continuously reinforced
Okay what ignorance shit did Zach say?
That is me! Thank you🩵 7 years clean And counting :)
@@Alrightciara aw that is so amazing 🥺 so happy for you and your family. Many more years to come!!🤍 And side note you’re absolutely gorgeous.
I wasn't an accident, my mom wanted to have a baby so bad but because she was already 43/44 it became really difficult. She actually had 2 miscarriages before me and she always tells me how I'm a blessing in her life. I'm very grateful every day to have my mom, like I honestly think that we were meant to be mom and daughter 😊
Yea I was watching this thinking - there's a whole demographic of women who plan for YEARS and struggle and they aren't really here. Like 3x miscarriages - timing sex every day, or IVF... these are PLANNED ASS BABIES.
These r the best stories because the parent is more financial stable, maybe more emotionally mature, and can actually focus on raising a child
You were DEFINITELY meant to be mom and daughter! You were made for her and she was made for you 😊❤️
@@stripedsweater520fr if my mom would have had me earlier I would have the amazing life I have now due to her
Yes. U were.
“Their accident was my blessing” yesss I feel this!!! My step son is my whole world
Beta bucks 😂
So beautiful 😭
I have so much respect for the woman whose story was "I was 16 and homeless and a drug addict, I changed everything for her" you GO girl. You are a real life super hero God bless you for having the strength to give your baby the best life you possibly could
I don’t know if I was planned or a surprise but I think I may have been a surprise because my mom had me when she was 23. She had to give up her job as a nurse and I feel kind of bad. She’s made so many sacrifices for me and I’m so grateful to her ❤️
i’m very happy that there are videos like this on the internet. they make others feel not so alone in the situations their in. maybe they can relate to others.
Can we normalized the topic of discussing miscarriages. Its extremely tough to go through yet 1 of 4 women experience one
They just did a video asking 100 women about miscarriage approx. two weeks ago
Sex ED needs to be taken more seriously
Sex Ed doesn’t teach the use of contraceptions or birth control. Plus life happens no matter what you’re taught.
@@moniquefrett6924 seems like you should have paid more intention in sex ed, because that's exactly what it does lmao
@@moniquefrett6924 also it's called contraceptives not contraceptions. You'd know that if sex ed was taken more seriously.
@phillip7731 ..contraception is the use of contraceptives.. but yeah, your other comment withstands 😂
@@Riyanna902 saying "teach the use of 'the use of contraceptives'" is incorrect. Both points still stand actually. :P
I cant imagine telling your kid they are a failed abortion. Thats gotta be so tough
i like the countdown at the end, gives perspective, hope they do it for all the rest
😂😂😂😂😂😂 already love the first lady not her misinterpreting the question as is her kid an asshole
I was a surprise. My mom had difficultly having my sister and thought she would only have one child. They weren’t “not trying” for a kid, but they were not optimistic it would happen. But here I am :)
I love the honesty in this video. You are all great mommies!
I dont know how I would react if I ever found out that I am pregnant. I guess it's not meant to be for me if it hasnt happened to me. Maybe in future but so far my IUD has been doing a fantastic job lol
My mom and I have a rough relationship, but we've stuck with each other through it all. My older brother was a rainbow baby and a complete accident. Despite the doctors telling her that she would possibly die during the pregnancy or child birth, she decided to go through with it and ended up giving birth to an almost TEN POUND BABY via c-section. Seven years later, my mom planned her pregnancy with me and had me naturally. And despite my brother and I not having the easiest childhood, our mom always did whatever she could for us.
The terror i experience anytime I hear an “idk I was pregnant” story and now I have “abortion didn’t work” stories on top of that?!
Both of my pregnancies were planned but people assumed they were unplanned because that’s so much more common 😂
The whole “if it happens it happens” thing…they’re talking about producing a fully fleshed new human into the world that they have to raise, as though it’s a matter of forgetting brunch lol
I think it’s just the in between of actively trying to conceive and tracking things to make it happen, and doing everything to not make it happen
Ye that's how 8 billion people exist today cuz children=toys
I know a couples who had this attitude right after marriage but really were in no place to have children. One couple got pregnant very quick, and the husband ended up being overseas for the military throughout most of the pregnancy and the child's first years of life. So they had to move back in with their parents. Two other couples ended up not knowing each other well enough beforehand and divorcing while their kids were young. People should really only have this attitude if they've been with their partner for years, their partner is actually on board, and they have a plan for caring for the child.
I HOPE THEY DO THIS AGAIN BUT WITH MEN THIS TIME❤
YES THIS!!!
Wait the amount of you who didn’t know until damn near halfway is scaring me. Dear go don’t let that happen to me.
No baby is an accident… you know what you’re doing when you get knocked up 😵💫
You should ask the men too.. See their reactions and responses
my mom says i was a “surprise” so… i highly highly doubt i was planned.
7:02 My mum was the first one to joke about me being pregnant when I wasn't even considering it at that time... because she was pickling cucumbers and I ate one in front of her when I hadn't been a fan of pickles.
I've loved pickles since.
imagine the kids seeing their mom on here explaining why they were accidents
My kids were planned cause they’re adopted 😂😂💪
3:36 good for her!
Lady at 2:19 had me rolling on the floor laughing
2:08 looks like rihanna
Like the woman said she was an accident but not it was similar with little old me. My mom had tons of friends who struggled with having kids so her and my dad decided to just start trying in case less than a month after that discuss my mom got pregnant with me.
According to my mom, my older sister was the “accident”, but that was because my parents had tried for years, and told that they couldn’t. Then, when my mom was 36, she found out at around 5 months! They actively tried to have me, she said.
The woman in 2:00 was in a video last 2 years ago when she was pregnant! I just watched the video before this
These videos are truly amazing! This representation is incredible. Honestly I’ve never heard of a failed abortion, so this was very eye opening. I also appreciate how candid everyone is
"Holy irresponsibility batman!"
My son wasn’t planned, but he also wasn’t prevented; an “if it happens it happens situation. My daughter was absolutely planned
I tried for 5 years! When baby finally came- He was a surprise . Happened exactly one year after his grandpa passed.
I was an accident, my mom won’t say it but my parents got married a bit too quickly even if my dad proposed lol 😂 I used to joke with my siblings and tell them I’m the reason they all existed 😝
The kids looking at this like 👁️👄👁️
It's shocking to me how many people choose to continue pregnancies that are not planned. Friendly reminder to anyone reading this: Consent is always enthusiastic, specific, and informed. Consenting to sex does not inherently mean consenting to condomless sex, and it's (both ethically and legally in many states) rape if a partner ever insists that you have sex without a condom or without withdrawal when you don't ~enthusiastically~ want that type of sex. And most importantly, consenting to sex (even enthusiastically consenting to sex without any contraception) does not inherently mean you consent to a pregnancy, nor does it mean you are obligated (not by god, not by your own actions, not by any governing body or other person) to continue that pregnancy and give birth.
More power to people making their own decisions for their own bodies without any coercion from any other source (relational, familial, governmental, or religious), I hope that's how all the parents in this video felt going into such a massive life change. Also - I fully respect wariness towards the medical system as part of your "fine if it happens fine if it doesn't" pregnancy planning, but I'd like to lift that pre-pregnancy care (prenatal vitamins, STI testing and other tests too, pre-pregnancy dental care, etc.) are all really important steps to take ~before~ you start trying. They can prevent serious, common, and preventable health issues for you and your fetus/baby during and after pregnancy.
Thank you! Excellent advice.
Absolutely this.
Not continuing a pregnancy = killing a child. That's why so many people choose to continue pregancies that are not planned.
Thank you
My first was a shock. The dad and I both were unsure if we could even have children separately and I was on birth control. The second was another birth control baby, third and four weren't planned per say but almost expected, as we didn't use birth control and very much practiced baby making often lol. The biggest shocker, all four were born in four consecutive years... Going from idk if we can have kids to four in four years was a trip!
my momma had 6 of us. each time, we were all accidents 😭😭😭
My gf brought me a positive test last week and while I was overwhelmed. I was excited at the prospect. She took 5 tests after that and they were all negative but still. That moment of “holy fuck” was a good holy fuck.
My worst fear is being pregnant and it’s too late to fix the problem.But what’s meant to be will be.I know so many people had their full periods and were 4 or 5 months pregnant and didn’t know.I feel like I’ll be a person end up having my child because it was to late to get an abortion 😂
All this video taught me is to strap up every single time.
5:34 this girl was on another episode, it was ranking ppl by smell
I had 5 pregnancies, all planned. 4 kids and one loss ❤️
As a Arab Muslim im kind of grateful
"Was it planned?" "It was planned by god"
The tequila baby`s mom is so Annie Hall...
My litle brother was an accident and my parents still love him
calling ur kid a surprise instead of an accident actually mentally feels better after being called a "happy accident" or an "oops"
My first was unexpected. We were in a super stressful time and my cycles completely stopped, so we weren't being as careful. And I got pregnant, and was so hopeful, like it gave me so much hope for a really awful time. And then we lost the baby. Awful. So our next pregnancy, our daugher, wasn't planned per say, (no real conception tracking) but she was hoped for. And then my son was also unexpected, and not really wanted. It happened sooner than I was ready for, and we were trying not to conceive and it happened anyway. I was pretty angry about it the whole pregnancy, but I'm so glad I stuck it out. He is such a good gift. Currently pregnant again. This one was very planned. There's a nice big gap between my son and this one. 😂 It's been a really, really rough pregnancy, but I know for certain that it is worth sticking it out for. If I had chosen not to carry my unexpected, unwanted pregnancy, the world would be a worse place.
Can we do one but with Dads? Like there reaction and what they actually wanted to do with it and all that?
Everyone who knows knows. DOLLAR STORE TESTS EVERY TIME!
this made me cry
Figured most babies were unplanned. Not surprised in the least tbh.
I have never wanted kids, and this terrifies me!
I have a feeling my first will be planned and my second will be an accident 😂
I’m buying that Keep It 100 Game!!!!!
They told my father he was more likely to win the lottery than to ever have a child and now he has 4 (bio) kids so they doc lied
Shout out to ALL the moms and to the women that had to made HARD and IMPOSSIBLE decisions to get abortions. NO woman is getting an abortion LIGHTLY even if they seem that way outwardly.
Imagine the kids watch this😂
Well babies aint made by just looking at eachother. Getting pregnant is something that tends to happen when ya mess around and best believe you guna find out.
My 2nd was an accident but also wasn't. Like were planning on having a 2nd but just not like 3 months after the first was born 🤣🤣
My first three pregnancies were very planned. My fourth was an accident. I lost my 2nd and 4th pregnancies. My children who lived were my 1st and 3rd pregnancies.
Im currently pregnant this made me laugh i wouldn't know how to answer! 😂 We weren't trying for a baby but we weren't necessarily as safe as we needed to be to prevent the pregnancy. So i didn't plan but mire of a "If it happens it happens"
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My daughter was a surprise but also kinda planned. We both wanted a baby but weren’t planning for one. But we also weren’t PREVENTING it 😂 our next one is being planned already.
imagine seeing your mom on this video 😭
All seven of my mom and dad’s children were planned
Why would you admit your child was a failed abortion on camera??? Poor kid
Says a lot of your Community
I have spontaneously conceived twins, so I say that only one of them was planned.
Older Asian lady when she was so happy because she was already 37. Such an Asian answer because in their culture you're supposed to be married and have kids by 25 or you're an old spinster if you aren't married by 27. But good for her.
my mom had me at 31 and yet I still was an accident 😅
3:35 🥺🥺🥺
I'm a picky eater, don't like a lot of our traditional food. My mother openly said "because you are conceived in UK".
I was born in Malaysia. A lot of Asians, Muslims people treat sex as a taboo subject, but my mother openly talked about it and made me uncomfortable 😅
This was so good just wish some were longer so we could get the full context
There's no target in paris 😔
Me wondering if I was an accident but then remembering that I was in vitro
What is the name of the girl at 7:13? She also appeared in other CUT videos
it’s okay i was an accident too
D&C failed leading to healthy baby. What a miracle!
being a mom is scary but rewarding it seems
I know i was an accident, my sister was a yolo baby and both my brothers were planned
Someone show this shit to legislators who make ridiculous abortion bans
This is my first time hearing about failed abortions. Like i know it exists but no one has ever mentioned, so it was interesting to see it represented in the video.
Same. Like how??? Well they explained how, but I previously thought it was 100% guaranteed or at least so close that it rarely occurs.
@@nameunknown1519 that's why when you get an abortion you should have an ultrasound like a week (I think) later to confirm it succeded or you go through the proccess again
@bluemarble5225I mean Yeah but every mother has their reasons for abortion if you were a sensible adult and they had a reasonable story. You should understand.
the pro abortion industry and planned parenthood spend billions of dollars to supress these facts. glad some truth was revealed here
@@ninjamara2522I agree that people should be compassionate but I don’t know how I would handle it if I found out that my mom tried to abort me and the only reason I am here was because she failed. That would terrible knowledge to have for anyone that would inflict pain
I was an accident and my mom never let me forget it. My folks were 19 and didn't know much about contraceptives. I was born when out-of-wedlock babies were not in vogue, but my folks got married four years later. It was hard growing up like that, it helped me get into college because my essays were about that upbringing.
I’m so sorry that your childhood was not the best. But now you’re an adult and you can live by your own rules ❤ I wish you the best!
What a sh*tty parent (no offence to you obviously).
I believe you and believe your experiences (not that I'm relevant) but I just can't believe how parents can do that to their children.
Even if their child was an accident it was only because of actions they took and you didn't impregnate her or choose to be here.
I wish you the best and I'm sorry you had to grow up with that.
I was an accidental child. I don't understand the connotation that that's heartbreaking or anything. Most kids are accidents so its not hard to grasp and overall doesn't matter as long as u are loved
Seriously it's not a big deal 😂
Exactly
Right! I don't get why some people are hurt by that.
im not disagreeing with you at all, but alot of people that i know who are told they were an accident aren’t treated very well. accidents happen at any tike in someones life, so that accident could have messed up something big in their parents life. and alot of those (bad) parents hold it up to their child, even when just a child
@@fancybarbz5370 when I was born it became too much for my mom to handle nursing school so she dropped out of college. It bothered me at one time, but now I recognize that none of that was my fault.
"Their accident is my blessing" So beautiful 💗🙏🏾
I really want my first to be planned. I wanna be elated when I find out I’m pregnant, not stressed out and in tears
my son wasn't planned but when I took a pregnancy test and I didn't see a symbol of pregnant or not right away I thought It's going to read not pregnant so I was a lil disappointed. I walked away from the test for a few seconds thinking mother hood wasn't going to be and when I returned to throw away the test it read pregnant . I took two more test and instantly pregnant showed up and here iam 18 yrs later raising my son whose about to start in college next month. He might not have been planned but he was never an accident he was meant to be here
Tbf my 1st was not planned but I was over the moon once I learned I was
A friend had polycystic ovaries and had trouble getting pregnant with her first child. After her first, she started having weird symptoms, thought she had a tumor. Obviously, that “tumor” turned out to be her second child.
Happy for your friend 😂😂
@@BigPeeOfficial Yes! Thank you!
I'm 29 weeks pregnant, it was definitely not planned. I was taking the birthcontrol pill, I was being responsible, no doses skipped or anything like that. I found on Valentine’s Day 2023, it freaked us both out. My husband of 2 years, and I are looking forward to our baby boy due in October!
aww congratulations!
I’m having a baby in October too! Good luck to us 💙
It’s Octoberrrrrr!!!!!
Taking birth control alone is not responsible. The effectiveness isn't high enough to solely rely on it lol
@@deebee9459 Taking BC at all *is* responsible. No method of contraceptive is 100% effective.
What the majority of these moms represent is my mom's saying that she always tells us, "You were *unplanned* but not ,*unwanted*." Shout out to them!
accident and mistake are totally different things
This is such a lovely sentiment. I think we can apply this to so much in our lives past just kids. 😊
Accident has a negative connotation.
“Whoops, I broke a plate, I’ll go tell my parents I broke a plate but I cleaned it up. It was obviously an accident.” A bad thing but you didn’t mean to.
A surprise is a better word like that one lady. Better alternatives are;
‘Surprise’
‘Unplanned’
‘Unexpected’
Props to the lady who adopted 👏.
There were like two or three of them so which one are you talking to?
I was planned but my parents expected a different sex, so when they found out I wasn't what they expected, I became an accident. Years later my dad adopted a child with his preferred sex. Since then all family photos only consist of my parents and the adopted one. I often feel like I don't exist, but also sometimes I wish I never existed.
damn that's sad.
Sometimes we are brought on this earth to find our true family, and that's not always the family you're born into♥️ there are people in your life That value the shit out of you, and if you feel like there isn't, you just haven't met them yet!
@@rhiannonhume9478 I truly agree.
I want u to know ur meant to be on this earth and just because ur parents dont realise it doesn't mean u should. Ur amazing and worth love dont place ur worth on what they think❤
You’re on earth for a reason, please know that ❤️
I love all these mommies 😊. Y'all are amazing, and to the mummy who was 16 and homeless at the time, I'm proud you changed your life for her, you are incredible❤
That was me! Thank you!! 🩵
I’m shocked two of those women got abortions but were still pregnant after. I didn’t know that could happen! I think it’s very important to be intentional taking precautions if you don’t intend to have kids, of course it can still happen though. I just think people are a little too casual about accidental pregnancy, having a child, adopting, or choosing abortion are all big decisions. That should be taken seriously no matter what you choose.
Their stories really bothered me. I'm so glad their children survived and don't have health issues.
It's rare but it is possible. For folks reading and curious (quoted from Planned Parenthood's website): The abortion pill is very effective. If you’re taking mifepristone and misoprostol, it depends on how far along the pregnancy is, and how many doses of medicine you take:
At 8 weeks pregnant or less, it works about 94-98% of the time.
At 8-9 weeks pregnant, it works about 94-96% of the time.
At 9-10 weeks pregnant, it works about 91-93% of the time.
If you take an extra dose of misoprostol, it works about 99% of the time.
At 10-11 weeks pregnant, it works about 87% of the time.
If you take an extra dose of misoprostol, it works about 98% of the time.
In general, taking both mifepristone and misoprostol works a bit better than taking misoprostol only. This is why follow-up care after taking abortion pills is so important (to confirm that the abortion worked), and why abortion pills usually aren't offered after 11 weeks.
If you ever experience an incomplete abortion, follow-up treatment is usually just further abortion care (more pills or an in-clinic abortion, which has a less than 1% failure rate). A pregnancy is usually not viable following an incomplete abortion, but you're welcome to ask a doctor about it if that option is important to you. If you live in a ban state, you should know that abortion and miscarriage look the same, and an incomplete abortion would be treated the same way as an incomplete miscarriage (with abortion treatments). So you don't need to disclose a prior abortion to a doctor if you don't feel safe doing that based on laws where you live.
@@Ambi1021 Their stories shouldn't have bothered you. If they felt like they were in predicaments where they couldn't handle having kids or just straight up didn't want kids it shouldn't be any of your concern.
@@Ambi1021it doesn’t affect your life in any way though
@JS-kn9gr Your logic makes no sense. Should I not be bothered when a stranger is murdered, raped, or kidnapped just because it doesn't affect me? Come on now.
As someone who is scared shitless of parenthood at the moment, it amazes me how can people still have this little knowledge of safe sex on XXI century. Having a kid changes your whole life, how can so many people do it without planning??
Birth control can fail, even when taken correctly. There is no contraception that is a 100% save.
You just do! You can't really plan much with kids you just buckle up and enjoy the ride 😊.
@@dominiquestubblefield7720how can you be so cavalier about bringing a person into the world 😬yikes i can tell exactly what kind of parent you are
@@ak-yr4dt a good one. Have a amazing day :)
You can still take birth control and use contraceptive measures to prevent pregnancy but shit still happens 😂 My cousin got pregnant because her IUD dislodged and a friend of mine was on the pill