The second one is insane cause she keeps talking about how he did it all over money but like... he didn't give up on the relationship till she threw the ring at him. Like sorry, does that not directly communicate that you want nothing to do with him any more?
Exactly she is the one breaking up with him over finances. Your name is not on the first house, but if you get your money in order it will be on the next one. Hes buying a duplex where he will rent out the other half. He’s treating it like an investment.
The second story is so weird, like the poster comes of as being SO entitled, insecure and priviledged that they see their partner buying a home for their family to live in as a BAD THING?! Like in what world do you live in where your partner buying a house for you and your family is something to complain about?
In the second post I feel like some context matters. If the guy is in real estate he probably doesn't view buying a house as the biggest thing. He's probably planning to buy multiple properties at some point so it's not like there is an sort of... romance to buying property. Still shitty that he didn't communicate that, but I don't think it was malicious. They also don't have to live together, and if he was buying it regardless of his situation I don't blame him for not involving her. He probably also knows generally more about the home buying process and wants it to be his home that she lives in if things work out. But judging by their rocky relationship he probably just wanted something he could fall back on. A good investment regardlesss.
The 3rd has one has me with a bad taste in my mouth because there’s an air of pride and jealousy 1. If she’s struggling to put her sons through higher education as much as she is why hasn’t she talked to her sister about this? Since she clearly has money why not get her to use it on YOU? 2. And there was at no point talk of involving her in the conversation about the inheritance. Instead it sounds like she intends to convince her parents and have THEM deal with any push back. 3. She and her sister while they maybe cordial CLEARLY have bias against each other. For example her immediate thoughts about what her sister will do with money is go “waste” it on vacation. This one of these post where you need to read between the line there’s clearly something else going on here.
I get the people going after poster #2, but buying a house is an enormous decision and any partner who would go through that extremely arduous process with major consequences having not consulted their partner once is not someone you can share a life with.
Yeah she did plenty wrong but everyone seems to be on an "eye for an eye" type beat, which is not how you do healthy relationships, saying she did worse stuff doesn't make your decision less weird. Literally just have one conversation or at least let her know what you're going to do, there is no downside and it's not hard.
He is a real estate investor. He is likely very familiar with the process and the property was even a duplex. Meaning he can rent out the other half. This is an investment as well as a home. She’s bankrupt and he’s going to pay for all of it with his own money. It could be a deal where he was going to buy this regardless of his future relationship status. I don’t think this is that insane compared to the Saturday morning cartoon villains that she was taking loans from, and he was willing to stand by her through bankruptcy. Hes not picking finances over the relationship. She just could not be a part of that process. When she handed back the ring that was the straw that broke the camels back, and made him realize this couldn’t be saved.
Mbti is so funny my Sister in law is a social science PhD student and anytime you mention it you can actually see her aggro onto you, it's such bullshit non-science
@@Ironpecker people do now but like, 5ish years ago a lot of people took it very seriously, I remember having it be a required thing in my AP English class, shocker that like half the class was the "super rare" INTJ.
In the last post I feel that you cannot talk to the parents without getting the sister to agree first. If the inheritance is more than enough, than the real issue is her jealousy to her sister. Also I am hoping that the sister's husband is better than the boba guy.
I have no sympathy for the last post tbh. She doesn’t even say she’s struggling. She’s gotten help when she needs it, like a down payment for her house. She isn’t even missing payments and still has vacations. Your marital status has literally nothing to do with your sister. I don’t even think a majority of people have their parents pay for their college or go on vacation in a privately owned home every year. If your parents were worth $5 would you be fighting for $4 of it? I think it has more to do with her comparison to her other family members and her jealousy of that than any actual analysis of her situation and that it isn’t even close to bad especially considering she is a single parent. Single income is always going to feel worse but saying “how am I going to put my kids through college?” when only the very wealthy do that to begin with is what makes me not care about how much she gets
I wish they’d dived into the first one a little more. There’s a lot of weird stuff in that post. Does this happen very often, or is it recent, or is it literally one time? Was he using his phone the whole time, or only on the third round? He started with their own videos, that feels like it deserves more than a passing mention? I wanted more looking into the poster here, since she didn’t give a whole lot of detail, and the details she gave were very odd. I get that it’s an easy title to riff on, but they didn’t really discuss it at all, I feel.
Breaking my routine silence for that 3rd post: Family can be massive assholes just straight up. No matter how theoretically close you are with a family member your actual willingness to come to them for help can be astronomically low. Without going into too much personal detail I've been denied help from immediate family for the most Looney Toons reasons and some others that did give help made it into this whole thing. TL;DR: Family is just a word and it doesn't guarantee unconditional love/help. That said I do think the 3rd poster should've just asked her parents for money instead of more inheritance.
About the first one.... If you need porn to excite yourself for sexual activity with your partner that can be normal. You really should discuss this with a therapist. Sex addiction and porn addiction are real issues. If you are having sex three times a night, possibly every night, you might have some real serious issues. "lol just leave" isn't always the go to answer. About the second one: They've been together for almost 1/3rd of her life. If he has the financial savvy to be buying houses in today's housing market it's pretty damn likely he KNOWS about her spending habits and credit history. If she's giving back the ring, even after waiting ten YEARS to finally decide to marry, then it's a step that is too far. He's well within relationship green light to just drop it. Third one: Yeah you are the asshole. And the tip off to me is when you addressed your sister as "getting lucky with a wealthy husband." That smacks of envy. 1.5 million is way more money than you need to accomplish all you have said you were going to do with it anyway.
#3 The answer is trust funds. The fact she is like, "Should I get the money?" is the problem. The parents should make trust funds for the kids and the house specifically. That way she doesn't go, "Well, I could use a better vacation right now". Also, I laugh at them thinking there will be all that much left after the care home. My grandparents went into a nice one and there wasn't all that much left. Sure, they weren't rich, but they didn't go to a rich persons care home.
2nd the woman is definitely the asshole, besides 3 weeks is quite a bit of time in advance. How long ago do you think he even started checking out this house? A month is a completely reasonable time to think out the logistics.
You guys are off on the 3rd one. The poster comes off as an asshole, but if she's worried about putting her kids through college and her sister's kids went to ivy leagues, theres a HUGE difference in equity between the grandkids on each side. The grandparents should (hopefully) be willing to help their grandkids go to college and not be saddled with student debt, not to even things out between the sisters, but because they love their grandkids and want to support their education. Then after that, split stuff evenly between the sisters.
But that's the thing - the poster says she needs money for college but has not stated she would ask directly for it. Even if she got a bigger split, what if both parents don't die before the kids are ready for college? If her greatest concern was purely altruistic, then asking would be the go-to decision. She wants more money, period, not that I blame her though. And she knows she stands a better chance with asking her parents than her sister.
the first story gave me a horrible flashback to the time a coworker told me that when our boss had sex with his wife he HAD to watch gay porn on his phone to get off at all. i dont know why he knew that or why he told me that
the real assholes in the last one are the parents for even considering a 50/50 when one of their kids has generational wealth and the other is struggling financially to the point of asking them for help. poster should get literally the entire inheritance. the sister would have to be so insanely irresponsible with her money to even miss a bill, let alone be worse off than her for more than a matter of a week
You are crazily wrong about the guy on the phone, really really wrong. There is nothing wrong, she didn't talk until it was too late, so first mistake. Porn is not desire of cheating necessarily like she thinks, second mistake, she should talk about this, and he said it, it's not about other women, it's about getting up for the third round. lastly, he did a real effort and deleted the app. If he didn't happen ever again, she has to either get over it or leave but he did a lot of things right and she is a lot in the wrong. She clearly has a huge insecurity about herself, and that's another mistake, she said it explicitely, she thinks he will cheat with another woman, she is not worried about the porn, and he could have cheated even before the porn videos, so you're not even talking about the right thing in this conversation. yes he was wrong about screaming, but she was probably very on the offensive when she said it. if he deleted the app he is probably not addicted, and there is nothing wrong to use other stuff to get up for a third round that probably SHE wants and if she doesn't get it she would get angry, otherwise don't you think he would have said no in the first place instead of forcing himself? no guys this time you are really really wrong about this
I do have to disagree. I feel that the guy is very likely porn addicted or sex addicted. There is nothing really wrong with that, but it could ruin a relationship. He should be seeking therapy about it if he wants a relationship. You did make a good point about the poster being insecure. It's probably no unreasonable to feel that way if your partner needs to use porn to have a sexual encounter with you. That being said, I do think he's an ass, but it is by no means a relationship breaker. Go to therapy. Address your issues. Work on yourself. For fuck's sake.
I mean like, at what stage when you are balls deep are you reaching for your phone unless you both decided you wanted to record yourselves before hand? That is just a weird thing to do in the first place.
The only reason you should pull out your phone during sex is to catch up with Will of the Councel
are.... are you do that right now?
You have too much hope to think an MBT viewer could have sex
@@MrZacdeath yeah, I can confirm
The second one is insane cause she keeps talking about how he did it all over money but like... he didn't give up on the relationship till she threw the ring at him. Like sorry, does that not directly communicate that you want nothing to do with him any more?
Exactly she is the one breaking up with him over finances. Your name is not on the first house, but if you get your money in order it will be on the next one. Hes buying a duplex where he will rent out the other half. He’s treating it like an investment.
Coomscrolling isnt something i ever thought id see but damn
bro's gotta vod review yesterday's banging
How else is he gonna improve?
Calling off the marriage is a godsend for 2nd guy. Dodging a bullet jesus
The second story is so weird, like the poster comes of as being SO entitled, insecure and priviledged that they see their partner buying a home for their family to live in as a BAD THING?!
Like in what world do you live in where your partner buying a house for you and your family is something to complain about?
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In the second post I feel like some context matters. If the guy is in real estate he probably doesn't view buying a house as the biggest thing. He's probably planning to buy multiple properties at some point so it's not like there is an sort of... romance to buying property. Still shitty that he didn't communicate that, but I don't think it was malicious.
They also don't have to live together, and if he was buying it regardless of his situation I don't blame him for not involving her. He probably also knows generally more about the home buying process and wants it to be his home that she lives in if things work out. But judging by their rocky relationship he probably just wanted something he could fall back on. A good investment regardlesss.
counterpoint: real estate agents don't deserve love or company
The 3rd has one has me with a bad taste in my mouth because there’s an air of pride and jealousy
1. If she’s struggling to put her sons through higher education as much as she is why hasn’t she talked to her sister about this? Since she clearly has money why not get her to use it on YOU?
2. And there was at no point talk of involving her in the conversation about the inheritance. Instead it sounds like she intends to convince her parents and have THEM deal with any push back.
3. She and her sister while they maybe cordial CLEARLY have bias against each other. For example her immediate thoughts about what her sister will do with money is go “waste” it on vacation.
This one of these post where you need to read between the line there’s clearly something else going on here.
I get the people going after poster #2, but buying a house is an enormous decision and any partner who would go through that extremely arduous process with major consequences having not consulted their partner once is not someone you can share a life with.
Yeah she did plenty wrong but everyone seems to be on an "eye for an eye" type beat, which is not how you do healthy relationships, saying she did worse stuff doesn't make your decision less weird. Literally just have one conversation or at least let her know what you're going to do, there is no downside and it's not hard.
He is a real estate investor. He is likely very familiar with the process and the property was even a duplex. Meaning he can rent out the other half. This is an investment as well as a home. She’s bankrupt and he’s going to pay for all of it with his own money. It could be a deal where he was going to buy this regardless of his future relationship status. I don’t think this is that insane compared to the Saturday morning cartoon villains that she was taking loans from, and he was willing to stand by her through bankruptcy. Hes not picking finances over the relationship. She just could not be a part of that process. When she handed back the ring that was the straw that broke the camels back, and made him realize this couldn’t be saved.
Dominican Republic mentioned!! 🗣️ 🇩🇴
God forbid men ignore their partners while being intimate
52:57 third story sounds a lot like the two sisters need to have a talk not the sister and the parents.
Mbti is so funny my Sister in law is a social science PhD student and anytime you mention it you can actually see her aggro onto you, it's such bullshit non-science
I think most people treat it like a modern day horoscope, it's just something fun to think about and ask others
Yeah I’m a scientist and know it’s horses****. It’s fun though, like doing the “what pop culture houses are you?” Things 😂
@@Ironpecker people do now but like, 5ish years ago a lot of people took it very seriously, I remember having it be a required thing in my AP English class, shocker that like half the class was the "super rare" INTJ.
In the last post I feel that you cannot talk to the parents without getting the sister to agree first.
If the inheritance is more than enough, than the real issue is her jealousy to her sister.
Also I am hoping that the sister's husband is better than the boba guy.
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I have no sympathy for the last post tbh. She doesn’t even say she’s struggling. She’s gotten help when she needs it, like a down payment for her house. She isn’t even missing payments and still has vacations. Your marital status has literally nothing to do with your sister. I don’t even think a majority of people have their parents pay for their college or go on vacation in a privately owned home every year. If your parents were worth $5 would you be fighting for $4 of it? I think it has more to do with her comparison to her other family members and her jealousy of that than any actual analysis of her situation and that it isn’t even close to bad especially considering she is a single parent. Single income is always going to feel worse but saying “how am I going to put my kids through college?” when only the very wealthy do that to begin with is what makes me not care about how much she gets
I wish they’d dived into the first one a little more. There’s a lot of weird stuff in that post. Does this happen very often, or is it recent, or is it literally one time? Was he using his phone the whole time, or only on the third round? He started with their own videos, that feels like it deserves more than a passing mention? I wanted more looking into the poster here, since she didn’t give a whole lot of detail, and the details she gave were very odd. I get that it’s an easy title to riff on, but they didn’t really discuss it at all, I feel.
I hate rich people lol
Why did the second lady specify shoes?
Week 19 without a guest appearance by George Santos
Breaking my routine silence for that 3rd post: Family can be massive assholes just straight up. No matter how theoretically close you are with a family member your actual willingness to come to them for help can be astronomically low. Without going into too much personal detail I've been denied help from immediate family for the most Looney Toons reasons and some others that did give help made it into this whole thing.
TL;DR: Family is just a word and it doesn't guarantee unconditional love/help.
That said I do think the 3rd poster should've just asked her parents for money instead of more inheritance.
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About the first one.... If you need porn to excite yourself for sexual activity with your partner that can be normal. You really should discuss this with a therapist. Sex addiction and porn addiction are real issues. If you are having sex three times a night, possibly every night, you might have some real serious issues. "lol just leave" isn't always the go to answer.
About the second one: They've been together for almost 1/3rd of her life. If he has the financial savvy to be buying houses in today's housing market it's pretty damn likely he KNOWS about her spending habits and credit history. If she's giving back the ring, even after waiting ten YEARS to finally decide to marry, then it's a step that is too far. He's well within relationship green light to just drop it.
Third one: Yeah you are the asshole. And the tip off to me is when you addressed your sister as "getting lucky with a wealthy husband." That smacks of envy. 1.5 million is way more money than you need to accomplish all you have said you were going to do with it anyway.
#3 The answer is trust funds. The fact she is like, "Should I get the money?" is the problem. The parents should make trust funds for the kids and the house specifically. That way she doesn't go, "Well, I could use a better vacation right now". Also, I laugh at them thinking there will be all that much left after the care home. My grandparents went into a nice one and there wasn't all that much left. Sure, they weren't rich, but they didn't go to a rich persons care home.
2nd the woman is definitely the asshole, besides 3 weeks is quite a bit of time in advance. How long ago do you think he even started checking out this house? A month is a completely reasonable time to think out the logistics.
Goofy ahh title 💀
You guys are off on the 3rd one. The poster comes off as an asshole, but if she's worried about putting her kids through college and her sister's kids went to ivy leagues, theres a HUGE difference in equity between the grandkids on each side.
The grandparents should (hopefully) be willing to help their grandkids go to college and not be saddled with student debt, not to even things out between the sisters, but because they love their grandkids and want to support their education. Then after that, split stuff evenly between the sisters.
But that's the thing - the poster says she needs money for college but has not stated she would ask directly for it. Even if she got a bigger split, what if both parents don't die before the kids are ready for college? If her greatest concern was purely altruistic, then asking would be the go-to decision. She wants more money, period, not that I blame her though. And she knows she stands a better chance with asking her parents than her sister.
First one is skill issues on the girl honestly
Should've work on the grip routine
Damn, this is devolving into the Most Controversial Pod.
the first story gave me a horrible flashback to the time a coworker told me that when our boss had sex with his wife he HAD to watch gay porn on his phone to get off at all. i dont know why he knew that or why he told me that
I think you really don’t want to know how he knew that
8:30 #notbisexuals 😂
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the real assholes in the last one are the parents for even considering a 50/50 when one of their kids has generational wealth and the other is struggling financially to the point of asking them for help. poster should get literally the entire inheritance. the sister would have to be so insanely irresponsible with her money to even miss a bill, let alone be worse off than her for more than a matter of a week
You are crazily wrong about the guy on the phone, really really wrong. There is nothing wrong, she didn't talk until it was too late, so first mistake. Porn is not desire of cheating necessarily like she thinks, second mistake, she should talk about this, and he said it, it's not about other women, it's about getting up for the third round. lastly, he did a real effort and deleted the app. If he didn't happen ever again, she has to either get over it or leave but he did a lot of things right and she is a lot in the wrong.
She clearly has a huge insecurity about herself, and that's another mistake, she said it explicitely, she thinks he will cheat with another woman, she is not worried about the porn, and he could have cheated even before the porn videos, so you're not even talking about the right thing in this conversation.
yes he was wrong about screaming, but she was probably very on the offensive when she said it.
if he deleted the app he is probably not addicted, and there is nothing wrong to use other stuff to get up for a third round that probably SHE wants and if she doesn't get it she would get angry, otherwise don't you think he would have said no in the first place instead of forcing himself?
no guys this time you are really really wrong about this
I do have to disagree. I feel that the guy is very likely porn addicted or sex addicted. There is nothing really wrong with that, but it could ruin a relationship. He should be seeking therapy about it if he wants a relationship. You did make a good point about the poster being insecure. It's probably no unreasonable to feel that way if your partner needs to use porn to have a sexual encounter with you. That being said, I do think he's an ass, but it is by no means a relationship breaker. Go to therapy. Address your issues. Work on yourself. For fuck's sake.
We have found the reddit porn addict
He said he would also be hurt by it and did it when he thinks she cannot see it. It is a serious issue.
I mean like, at what stage when you are balls deep are you reaching for your phone unless you both decided you wanted to record yourselves before hand?
That is just a weird thing to do in the first place.