Don't tell your kids that their behavior could cause him to be "scared" away. That's a lot of pressure to place on kids. If he get's "scared" away because kids are being kids then HE is not ready for this relationship.
The fact that she’s telling the kids to behave so they don’t “scare Juan away” is beyond me. I can understand wanting your kids to behave but kids are gonna be kids. They’re not there for Juan, they just see it as a vacation. If my kids “scare off a man”, then that man is absolutely not for me. Especially one I have to go on a cruise every month to see?! Wtf is wrong with that chick?
Not to mention its gonna give them a complex that if it doesn't work out its their fault. I don't know what the situation is with the bio dad but if he's not as actively involved they're probably craving a father figure . She seems like a super selfish parent.
very strange complaint, I don't get where you're coming from at all. besides, you're reading way too much into one line of dialogue for a show where a shitload of those are dictated by the production team. that line has like an 80% chance of being dictated in my opinion, since it's a very on the nose setup for drama to come.
@@Ass_of_Amalek True, the producers prob just told her to say something like that and maybe even the kids saw that, but right now with their developing minds, they can't fully comprehend that their mom is just saying what she is being told to say. Sure they may be able to copy it or get the brief understanding, but kids and adults alike can hear something and focus on it in the middle of the night later on. It's actually a good reason to NOT get any kid in a reality TV situation due to how blurred the lines are. Hell, even if the producers went to the family and told them "Hey, you guys need to fight and call each other names for the show" and then they do, that family is still in the middle of the turmoil even if it was made for the TV and there may still be some left over feeling and resentments that never fully get resolved because it's for TV.
I think maybe because it’s a woman? He probably feels a bit threatened. Or is the poly relationship for them to bring a person into the bedroom to enjoy together? Maybe he doesn’t like women? I am confused too lol
I think Valentine’s problem is that it’s a woman and he thought Carlos was only gay. I also think he may want them to be poly in terms of doing threesomes and he doesn’t want to do that with a woman. To be clear I’m not saying polyamory means threesomes I’m saying I think that it’s what Valentine wants him and Carlos to do but only with other men.
As someone who's bisexual, I feel like if you're dating a cheater you're gonna be worried no matter what. So even if your man is going out with the boys, you still worry that he's actually with girls. When you're dating someone who loves YOU then it doesnt matter who the other person hangs out with. They could hang with 20 supermodels of whatever gender and still be loyal to you.
So, to confirm, the person who is "capable of deeply loving multiple people" cannot understand why someone else can have a deep platonic friendship? Valentine is confusing 🤔🤭
Yeah I mean maybe he's afraid Carlos will choose to be with her and leave him. I can understand that but at the same time you can't tell someone not to bring their best friend to their wedding even if they had feelings for them. Plus, she's not interested! It's not like she's being inappropriate!
Alejandro has an ulterior motive for hooking up Lidia with Scott. He's hoping Lidia will get busy with Scott & stop meddling in his relationship with Nicole. 😂
Your fans absolutely care about your dog, Po! Ice cream IS ok for them, if they can tolerate it well, and as long as there's no chocolate in it. Not all dogs can tolerate it. But for the ones that can, the occasional cone is fine!
2 dogs and sugar is definitely quite bad for dogs, don't know about dairy. dogs can eat a bit of almost anything, but as treats go, ice cream is a very unhealthy one.
@@Ass_of_Amalek of course, it's unhealthy. It's unhealthy for humans, as far as that goes. But in small doses, it's acceptable. My grandmother had a cat that she would give vanilla ice cream once or twice a month. The cat loved it. And since it was so infrequent, it didn't cause any lasting health effects. The cat lived to be 19 years old, and died of old age. It's all about moderation, and whether your specific animals can tolerate it. But people say that kills animals. It does not. No more than it kills us. That's really all I was saying!
@@southerncatlady I would mostly see sugar as worse for pets than for humans due to the worse dental hygiene and dentistry in pets (I don't know how many people even brush their dogs' teeth, probably not many, surely even fewer with cats). the potential to cause obesity and such is probably similar to how it is in humans, that can certainly be prevented by moderation, or caused in plenty of other ways than by sugary treats. although now that I think about it, I would definitely look into species-specific diabetes risk if I had pets. cats and dogs might be more susceptible to developing diabetes than humans from relatively little sugar consumption since they're evolved for diets with less carbohydrates (especially cats - dogs actually are somewhat well adapted to eating starch due to their extremely long domestication history during which starchy foods were often more available than meat).
@Southern Cat Lady I agree. I was really particular about my first dog. She was an expensive breed and such a sweet lady. When she was only 6, she got bowel cancer. We spent the last few weeks of her life eating hamburgers and rotisserie chicken together. Now, my dogs get hamburgers whenever we get hamburgers lol Nothing lasts forever. But, really, whose day can be made easier than a dog's? Give 'em some cheese 😂🤷♀️
Dude telling your kids they better behave and not scare away your brand new boyfriend, a bf they met once is definitely in the top 3 WORST things you could say to your children as a single mother!!!!! I personally have been a single mom for over 17 years. My kids are older now, my youngest is 12…..and my kids have only ever met 2 men that I’ve dated in their entire lives. And one they never even knew we dated, he’d been a elementary-high school friend I got in touch w/ in my 30s. My kids only knew him as an old friend of moms who comes and takes us all out to fun places sometimes. And I’ve never had a man babysit my kids ever!!!! Not even for 10 minutes. Single parents need to get it together!!! Smdh. Protect your children above all!!!!!!!
Don’t worry about the toxic people that write nasty comments to you. There are always going to be miserable people that are trying to dump their bad feelings on you.
OMG!! As soon as you put that side by side of Scott & his twin K-9 I knew you was gonna say that about Dogs & they're owners😂😂😅But he seems like a Decent Guy...way too Good for the Wicked Witch of DR(PERFECT nick name btw👌🏾)But I'm Extra excited for this segment!!! Have a Great evening PO & your Precious Doggie❤🙋🏾♀️
Being a father and co parenting isn't 'watching' the kids - they're his kids! He's not babysitting while mum's away, he's taking care of his own damn children as he should as half the parental unit. Small nitpick but that kind of language irks me
In this context that does NOT apply. This woman is going on a vacation every month and I’m sure that’s not written into their custody agreement lol. She’s lucky he doesn’t take that in front of a judge.
@@BuffaloJenny79 Exactly! It horrifies me how much of a woman's individuality is stripped and absorbed into the role of mother/wife. It never happens to such a degree to the father/husband and the praising for the bare minimum drives me up the wall.
Carlos and Valentine relationship is so complex : they're both tops (that was part of their storyline Last season), one is polyamorous the other isn't...i'd rather stay single, please and thank you 😌
hi pö! this is something I’ve been meaning to write for a while now, I just wanted to tell you I’ve been watching you for more than a year now and I got to tell you that your videos are the videos that I wait for everyday. I have literally have watched all of your videos and rewatch your old ones until you post new ones. Listening to you makes me feel like I have someone to relate to it feels like I’m talking with my best friend. I just wanna thank you and send some love bc I and I know a TONNN of other homies who feel the same way. Hang in there I know some days you don’t feel 100% and I get that way too but I want u to know you’re doing AMAZING GIRL!!! Much love!! Love u potato💛💛💛💛💛💛
Why would Valentine be jealous if he’s polyamorous? Carlos was jealous of Valentine being polyamorous. I’m so confused… I never wanted to see Nicole or Lydia again. I have to admit Lydia looks good. Wonder how much that cost her. Send me the name of her doctor 😂
Valentine is polyamorous which means he is able to love more than one person, but Carlos isn't, thats why he's scared that his love for Valentine will be affected by his love for someone new
I can’t help but feel like Carlos and Valentine are gonna be a train-wreck. Personally, I wouldn’t be able to be okay with my partner being friends with a person who he was in love with, whether he’s bi or gay. But it kind of feels like a double standard in this case since valentine claims he is polyamorous, but at the same time idk I feel like everyone has things that make them uncomfortable/insecure poly or mono. I would also respect my fiancés feelings and not invite a person who I was in love with to our wedding either.
Agreed I feel like they are not going to work out because they are both tops and have to bring another man in just to experience penetration which causes a constant threesome dynamic and Carlos isn’t even that open to being in a poly relationship which could make the other guy feel just used for sex just my thoughts..
Idk why people worried about bisexuality. Yes, we can be attracted to both genders, but if we with you then it's it. You should be more worried if your partner have history of cheating before and if they trustworthy. That all that you need to know. It would be great if you work on confidence. If you know that you that girl, then where is your partner go after this? Downgrade?? It would be his/her loss. Sometimes I am scared of coming out as bi, because I don't want to scare people off (also don't want to be fetishized by man,lol), you know? I have my eyes only on my partner and don't want them to feel uncomfortable. By the way, I always say that I'm bisexual, it's just makes me so nervous
Alejandro was like: The whole DR knows Lydia , so no chance for her to get a sausage and she definitely needs it to chill out so I can be with the junior witch " Hey dude, wanna b on the show? Just play with the evil a little... " LOL. 😅😅😅
I propose that we women stop treating men like Jessica's ex as if they're something special, and instead start treating them as the norm. Imagine the reverse... some dudes wowing and marveled by the fact that their boy's new GF is a good mom, and not a rabbit-boiling psycho that plays Animal Crossing all day instead of taking care of their kids. We'd be SO insulted like WTF? Let's just raise the bar on them without telling them. All women everywhere, when he does some basic expected human decency stuff, let's just hit 'em with the facts: Jessica's ex is now Gold Star standard. What, you want praise? A gold star? A cookie? Jessica's ex doesn't need a pat on the back for just doing what he's supposed to do, why are you special? 😂
as a bisexual person im so sick of that trope of “dating a bisexual is more stressful because you have twice as many people to worry about”. no you dont, you only do if you’re insecure with yourself because if a bisexual is dating you, regardless of who they could be “potentially attracted to”, they chose YOU!! straight people can be potentially attracted to just as many or more people! its unfair to assume by dating straight people you have less to worry about. there are promiscuous people of all sexualities and being a certain sexual orientation doesnt increase nor decrease those levels of promiscuity. if you’re worried about your partner looking elsewhere then you: A.) have the wrong partner or B.) arent confident in yourself and hence should be focusing on personal growth instead of your dating game and coming from a formerly insecure person, this is the best option. dont be so ignorant, goddamn
Amen to this, I was going to say the exact same thing. I'm sick of being assumed to be promiscuous or that my partner has to be extra vigilant because my potential dating pool is larger - a commitment to a partner is a commitment to a partner!! Your point about promiscuity having nothing to do with sexual orientation is exactly it. And honestly, if you're constantly worried about our partner cheating on you with every person they interact with - I think that's an insecurity you need to work on, not your partners
This, almost presumptuous that bisexual people cannot be faithful or monogamous. If you are dating a kind person unless they state their preference of ethical non monogamy the chances of being cheated on are most likely the same if you date a heterosexual person ❤
No sorry, if Valentine cannot trust his fiancé when Carlos says that he doesn't have feelings for Michelle and he is committed to Valentine only - then sorry but you probably shouldn't be getting married. Of course Carlos is going to want his best friend at the wedding! That's not unreasonable at all! If you cannot trust your partner over your insecurity - then you have some work to do on yourself and your relationship
Firstly, big fan and your uploads have been a part of my relaxation routine for the last several high stress months. Having said that, on the issue of bisexuality… if you’re dating a bisexual/pansexual/queer person (hello!), there is only person you have to be worried about: your partner. If there isn’t trust in that relationship, it won’t matter who they’re attracted to, you know? It could be men who look like Danny DeVito and it could still bring up jealousy.
I usually always agree with you but this episode was just not it for me. First of all this man brings his dog into a food service place wearing a fake service dog vest. How do I know it’s not a real service dog? Service dogs don’t act like that and they aren’t trained like that. That dog had her paws all up on the tables and the counters in a food service place and no trained service dog behaves like that. Putting fake vests on dogs is harmful for real service dogs who have a job to do and discredits real service dogs when they do come in. It’s not cute. It’s a problem. Also dairy is usually so bad for dogs. That dog is so cute but the owner is doing all the wrong things for her Also Valentine is in the WRONG. if he claims to be a poly man that doesn’t go one way. Being polyamorous is about open communication and boundaries and if he’s allowed to date other people then his partner should be too. It doesn’t go one way. Also being bisexual doesn’t mean we are going to want to sleep with everyone. That’s a harmful stereotype and points out other people’s obvious insecurities and biases against bi people. He should believe his fiancés words and list to him because if he doesn’t trust his fiancé then he has no business being in a relationship. It’s not just some girl he wants to invite. It’s his BEST FRIEND. excluding your best friend from your wedding because you used to like them and that makes your fiancé uncomfortable even though you’ve made it clear time and time again you don’t have feelings for her anymore is the lamest thing I’ve ever heard. And it just speaks volumes on his fiancés obvious insecurities and trust issues.
I didn't watch the Chantal/Pedro thing and even I knew that the mother is frigging nuts. And I don't think she and the dog guy speak one word of the same language. Yeah, no, this will work out.
How is it amazing that a father will "watch" his own children? He's not their babysitter. And Jessica's son is acting his age (probably around 5). Who knows what this child is feeling? 🙄
If they are divorced what difference does it make? Regardless, parents don't watch their children - they raise their children. If divorced, its usually called co-parenting.
I may be a cat person but I do enjoy hearing people tell stories about their dogs and stuff. You can tell as many stories about your dog as you want, I'm not complaining, Po!
"Don't scare him away." What. The. Fuck. Seriously, Her children aren't going to deliberately scare him off. Kid's are going to be kid's, they're going to be fussy and they are going to be wondering who their own mother is introducing them to. Like...For real?
How is one person poly in a relationship and then that same person’s mad about their partner also having feeling for someone else. That just sounds messy 🥴
Ok but since I’m bisexual I have conflicting feelings. Can I just say that you don’t have to worry about other genders…. It’s about your partner and what TYPES they have you can worry about… like, I’m only scared of hot petite blonde and red headed girls bc my partner is a lesbian. I’m terrified when I see girls I know get their gears going but that’s just because everyone has preferences 😂. they’re much more relaxed to me about that because they know they’re my Perfect Type lol No cheating has ever happened I’m just a pathetic insecure bisexual theyre very prevalent out here
People hand-waving away Jessica telling her kids to "not scare Juan away" and saying it's no big deal don't know anything about childhood psychological development or children in general.
Any person that describes his dating life as “taste if every type of woman” is a bad person. He probably wants to settle down now because his junk stopped working 😂😂😂😂😂
Ive always wondered how is that pedro and his family arent known in DR? still, I feel the need to apologise for them. We dont claim them, we really dont lol
9:20. You know what vibes that gave me? It literally made me think of those videos where it’s like a wildlife camera in the woods or somebody’s backyard? It reminded me of when a deer finds a currently recording video camera and goes up to it, booping it, sniffing it, like, “what are you?”
Valentine being poly then not be ok with Carlos having his best friend at the wedding who has a bf is a bit hypocritical. On top of him not being ok with Carlos being friends with her in the first place? Unless Carlos has done anything to make Valentine question his actions I think he should calm tf down. Could ALSO be he’s projecting his own stuff onto Carlos. My ex used to accuse me of cheating when in reality he was the cheater🤷🏻♀️
I really hope you cover this more, cause now I’m invested! Especially with Valentine & Carlos. A mono + polyam dynamic can be tricky to navigate. Curious where Valentine’s jealousy/insecurity is really coming from and what him being polyam means for the relationship. Because if Val is uncomfortable with Carlos’ BFF, Carlos would be uncomfortable with Val having an additional romantic partner 🤷🏾♀️. Then what?
This is why I can't stand poly people they demand to sleep with and be with whoever plus you but God forbid you hangout with someone else your attracted to 🙄🤚
Am polyam and ace. If you're with someone who claims to be polyamorous and gets mad at you for having relationships with others, they're probably monogamous and using polyamory to have their way 😶
The girl with the kids shows why parents should not make a habit of letting their kids sleep with them. I always wonder why young couples made a habit of letting the kids sleep with them, what have they all become celibate?
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If Valentine is Polly...whatever he is, then why does he have a problem with Carlos loving another person besides him! I thought he was down with loving multiple people 🤔
If Valentine is poly why does he care? He looks at other people to I mean he can love an entirely separate person at the same time? Carlos never said that they slept together or that she was in love with him back know she turned him down so what the problem is???🙃🤷🏻
Why is Carlos ALWAYS besties with his ex’s? He’s only known Michelle for a year and a bit. How is she now his best friend over the ex he played sports with in the beginning? And he’s willing to break off his engagement if she can’t attend.? When we first met them Carlos was best friends with his male ex, and Val didn’t feel comfortable with that relationship either. I see a pattern here. 🤔 Let’s not forget Michelle denied Carlos’ advances to be intimate. He clearly still has feelings for her if he’s fighting so hard for her to be at the wedding.JS
It triggers me seeing pedro on the screen because my horrific breakup I had last year my ex (which coincidentally his name is PEDRO!!) really treated me VERY similarly how he treated Chantal towards the end of the relationship. I had to stop watching Chantal’s spin off because of it
I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who couldn’t trust me to be around other people. The jealously is fine, but to restrict me because they couldn’t accept that I’m still friends with an ex is hurtful. Not every relationship ends horribly and the memories are something that I will never fully regret, but that doesn’t mean that I want to go back. That relationship ended for a reason.
No they do pup cups at Dairy Q and they sell ice cream for dogs In the freezer section Used to get my buddy pup cups (ice cream with a Purina dog biscuit) & he never got sick
Idk, I feel like he's marrying the man he loves, so the competition is over, I would prob let him invite his best friend, I would most likely regret not inviting her, because they're special in my partners life, and I respect that, plus I want him to be happy on his wedding day.
It really depends on the dog. Mine is okay with ice cream and whip cream. I have bulldogs and they suffer allergies and they are okay. It's a case by case thing really lol that guy looks like an unreal dog dad
Jessica is not ready to date. rather than worrying about your children scaring off your new boyfriend, she needs to worry about Juan and his ability to a father figure, to be mature about her custody arrangements with her ex-husband.
I get my dogs a vanilla ice cream cone for special occasions. They’re honestly bad because of the sugar, but sugar not being healthy didn’t stop most humans. Some dogs will be more sensitive to certain foods, but it’s just like with humans. Some people can be lactose intolerant or allergic to nuts. Dogs are the same, so what your dog is comfortable with eating will vary.
Don't tell your kids that their behavior could cause him to be "scared" away. That's a lot of pressure to place on kids. If he get's "scared" away because kids are being kids then HE is not ready for this relationship.
I thought the same thing 😓that was really sad to watch her say to them
@@BabyTooth05 😞
I thought the same thing. She actually said .. I dont want you to scare Juan away... Wow. 😮😢😮
It's gonna make the kids feel like they're on their mom's way of being happy if things don't work out. Yikes
oh ffs, it was just a small comment, dont need to psychoanalyse it, tsk doh
The fact that she’s telling the kids to behave so they don’t “scare Juan away” is beyond me. I can understand wanting your kids to behave but kids are gonna be kids. They’re not there for Juan, they just see it as a vacation. If my kids “scare off a man”, then that man is absolutely not for me. Especially one I have to go on a cruise every month to see?! Wtf is wrong with that chick?
Not to mention its gonna give them a complex that if it doesn't work out its their fault. I don't know what the situation is with the bio dad but if he's not as actively involved they're probably craving a father figure . She seems like a super selfish parent.
Oh crap I didn’t think of that. You guys are so smart 😭💖
very strange complaint, I don't get where you're coming from at all. besides, you're reading way too much into one line of dialogue for a show where a shitload of those are dictated by the production team. that line has like an 80% chance of being dictated in my opinion, since it's a very on the nose setup for drama to come.
@@Ass_of_Amalek True, the producers prob just told her to say something like that and maybe even the kids saw that, but right now with their developing minds, they can't fully comprehend that their mom is just saying what she is being told to say. Sure they may be able to copy it or get the brief understanding, but kids and adults alike can hear something and focus on it in the middle of the night later on. It's actually a good reason to NOT get any kid in a reality TV situation due to how blurred the lines are.
Hell, even if the producers went to the family and told them "Hey, you guys need to fight and call each other names for the show" and then they do, that family is still in the middle of the turmoil even if it was made for the TV and there may still be some left over feeling and resentments that never fully get resolved because it's for TV.
Right! I thought was a rude ass thing to say to her boys. 😑
How is valentine mad if they’re poly but Carlos can’t be friends with a woman he was once attracted to????
Because Carlos isn't so if he wants to be with the woman, that means he probably will dump Valentine to be faithful to that one woman
This is what confused me lmao. I think valentine just wants himself to be able to date around, not Carlos.
I think maybe because it’s a woman? He probably feels a bit threatened. Or is the poly relationship for them to bring a person into the bedroom to enjoy together? Maybe he doesn’t like women? I am confused too lol
@@MaiMai-ys4yg I didn’t even think that far hopefully it gets deeper
I think Valentine’s problem is that it’s a woman and he thought Carlos was only gay. I also think he may want them to be poly in terms of doing threesomes and he doesn’t want to do that with a woman. To be clear I’m not saying polyamory means threesomes I’m saying I think that it’s what Valentine wants him and Carlos to do but only with other men.
As someone who's bisexual, I feel like if you're dating a cheater you're gonna be worried no matter what. So even if your man is going out with the boys, you still worry that he's actually with girls. When you're dating someone who loves YOU then it doesnt matter who the other person hangs out with. They could hang with 20 supermodels of whatever gender and still be loyal to you.
I'm bisexual and heavily agree, a cheater will cheat. You have to trust yourself you'd walk away and do right towards yourself
When I saw Pedro’s mom I knew this was going to be a good season
She gets on my damn nerves. 😂
OMG!!
She's already making a fool out herself.
@@jazzyj6640 mine too!!!
Lydia is a menace 😭
So, to confirm, the person who is "capable of deeply loving multiple people" cannot understand why someone else can have a deep platonic friendship? Valentine is confusing 🤔🤭
I don't even think that's what it means. I don't think it's a capacity rather a lifstyle you just choose
Yeah I mean maybe he's afraid Carlos will choose to be with her and leave him. I can understand that but at the same time you can't tell someone not to bring their best friend to their wedding even if they had feelings for them. Plus, she's not interested! It's not like she's being inappropriate!
@@Ljounieh that's what it means.
That’s because valentine sleeps with all their friends.
Some people just don’t understand that other people DONT want to get it in with everything.
What type of law does Lydia practice that she can constantly embarass herself on these shows?
I think she’s self-employed, and does some thing with Immigration
Maybe she's a public defender, so people don't have a choice lol
😂 😂 😂
Alejandro has an ulterior motive for hooking up Lidia with Scott. He's hoping Lidia will get busy with Scott & stop meddling in his relationship with Nicole. 😂
Or he knows that Scott is a player and he wants to play one over on Lydia as revenge for interfering with him and Nicole
Thank you for covering this. I don't wanna watch this show but definitely want to hear about this train wreck 🍿
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Same!!
Which train wreck u are most fascinated with,bcz i Also enjoy the train wreck????
OMG if those devils, Lidia and Nicole are coming back run and run fast and hide !!!!!!!!!!! They are both so nasty and evil.
100% agree, they’re so vile 💀
Look at all the plastic surgeries they both have had done!!! Wow
Your fans absolutely care about your dog, Po! Ice cream IS ok for them, if they can tolerate it well, and as long as there's no chocolate in it. Not all dogs can tolerate it. But for the ones that can, the occasional cone is fine!
2 dogs
and sugar is definitely quite bad for dogs, don't know about dairy. dogs can eat a bit of almost anything, but as treats go, ice cream is a very unhealthy one.
@@Ass_of_Amalek of course, it's unhealthy. It's unhealthy for humans, as far as that goes. But in small doses, it's acceptable. My grandmother had a cat that she would give vanilla ice cream once or twice a month. The cat loved it. And since it was so infrequent, it didn't cause any lasting health effects. The cat lived to be 19 years old, and died of old age. It's all about moderation, and whether your specific animals can tolerate it. But people say that kills animals. It does not. No more than it kills us. That's really all I was saying!
Truth 👌
@@southerncatlady I would mostly see sugar as worse for pets than for humans due to the worse dental hygiene and dentistry in pets (I don't know how many people even brush their dogs' teeth, probably not many, surely even fewer with cats). the potential to cause obesity and such is probably similar to how it is in humans, that can certainly be prevented by moderation, or caused in plenty of other ways than by sugary treats.
although now that I think about it, I would definitely look into species-specific diabetes risk if I had pets. cats and dogs might be more susceptible to developing diabetes than humans from relatively little sugar consumption since they're evolved for diets with less carbohydrates (especially cats - dogs actually are somewhat well adapted to eating starch due to their extremely long domestication history during which starchy foods were often more available than meat).
@Southern Cat Lady I agree. I was really particular about my first dog. She was an expensive breed and such a sweet lady. When she was only 6, she got bowel cancer. We spent the last few weeks of her life eating hamburgers and rotisserie chicken together. Now, my dogs get hamburgers whenever we get hamburgers lol Nothing lasts forever. But, really, whose day can be made easier than a dog's? Give 'em some cheese 😂🤷♀️
Dude telling your kids they better behave and not scare away your brand new boyfriend, a bf they met once is definitely in the top 3 WORST things you could say to your children as a single mother!!!!! I personally have been a single mom for over 17 years. My kids are older now, my youngest is 12…..and my kids have only ever met 2 men that I’ve dated in their entire lives. And one they never even knew we dated, he’d been a elementary-high school friend I got in touch w/ in my 30s. My kids only knew him as an old friend of moms who comes and takes us all out to fun places sometimes. And I’ve never had a man babysit my kids ever!!!! Not even for 10 minutes. Single parents need to get it together!!! Smdh. Protect your children above all!!!!!!!
He is the father of the kids, not just a random guy watching them for her.
tsk, do you have children, ffs..............it was a flippant comment.........doh
@ramblingmillennial1560 are you talking about her ex-husband or jaun?
@@inkystars19 Yes the ex husband. Did she have Juan watch them at some point cuz I am not watching the show just the recaps.
5:16 I don’t believe he hasn’t had sex in two months. Nice try, Juan 😂
Don’t worry about the toxic people that write nasty comments to you. There are always going to be miserable people that are trying to dump their bad feelings on you.
Right?! Who doesn’t like a dog story??
@@nataliemesbah1639 jerks.... That's good who lol
Never watching that with Pedro's nasty family on there. Sickening.
Same! I'd never watch!
I just fast forward lidias scenes . Everyone else seems interesting
OMG!! As soon as you put that side by side of Scott & his twin K-9 I knew you was gonna say that about Dogs & they're owners😂😂😅But he seems like a Decent Guy...way too Good for the Wicked Witch of DR(PERFECT nick name btw👌🏾)But I'm Extra excited for this segment!!! Have a Great evening PO & your Precious Doggie❤🙋🏾♀️
Poly and the other guy can't love another person😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 lmfao sounds like double standards.
OMG ...that "we won't!" from the little guy 🤣🤣🤣
That KILLED me 😂😂😂
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I'm a cat mom, but I like hearing about your dogs!!! And your story times!! I like it a lot!!
Being a father and co parenting isn't 'watching' the kids - they're his kids! He's not babysitting while mum's away, he's taking care of his own damn children as he should as half the parental unit. Small nitpick but that kind of language irks me
In this context that does NOT apply. This woman is going on a vacation every month and I’m sure that’s not written into their custody agreement lol. She’s lucky he doesn’t take that in front of a judge.
@@francescagrace7827 One week a month is not a lot of time to take care of your own kids….
Yes 👏 that and when men refer to their spouse as “the wife” around other people … really grinds my gears 😬
@@BuffaloJenny79 Exactly! It horrifies me how much of a woman's individuality is stripped and absorbed into the role of mother/wife. It never happens to such a degree to the father/husband and the praising for the bare minimum drives me up the wall.
@@francescagrace7827 so she should be with the kids all the time? Are only fathers allowed to be wherever whenever?
Carlos and Valentine relationship is so complex : they're both tops (that was part of their storyline Last season), one is polyamorous the other isn't...i'd rather stay single, please and thank you 😌
They’re both tops??? Oh, now I’m very intrigued and thinking this might be storyline but you never know 👀
hi pö! this is something I’ve been meaning to write for a while now, I just wanted to tell you I’ve been watching you for more than a year now and I got to tell you that your videos are the videos that I wait for everyday. I have literally have watched all of your videos and rewatch your old ones until you post new ones. Listening to you makes me feel like I have someone to relate to it feels like I’m talking with my best friend. I just wanna thank you and send some love bc I and I know a TONNN of other homies who feel the same way. Hang in there I know some days you don’t feel 100% and I get that way too but I want u to know you’re doing AMAZING GIRL!!! Much love!! Love u potato💛💛💛💛💛💛
Me too - love me some Po
When she said “don’t
Scare him away” I was like please don’t say that to your kids 😭
Why would Valentine be jealous if he’s polyamorous? Carlos was jealous of Valentine being polyamorous. I’m so confused… I never wanted to see Nicole or Lydia again. I have to admit Lydia looks good. Wonder how much that cost her. Send me the name of her doctor 😂
Valentine is polyamorous which means he is able to love more than one person, but Carlos isn't, thats why he's scared that his love for Valentine will be affected by his love for someone new
@@samanthaalvarado170 thank you I am familiar with the concept of polyamorous.
I don't think it's a capacity, he described it weirdly. It's more of a lifestyle
Nicole needs to stop wanting to be Chantel- she could NEVERRRR. Omg she’s the absolute worst, she’s the worst of the worst.
She’s down right low class ! Clout chasing!!
I can’t help but feel like Carlos and Valentine are gonna be a train-wreck. Personally, I wouldn’t be able to be okay with my partner being friends with a person who he was in love with, whether he’s bi or gay. But it kind of feels like a double standard in this case since valentine claims he is polyamorous, but at the same time idk I feel like everyone has things that make them uncomfortable/insecure poly or mono. I would also respect my fiancés feelings and not invite a person who I was in love with to our wedding either.
Agreed I feel like they are not going to work out because they are both tops and have to bring another man in just to experience penetration which causes a constant threesome dynamic and Carlos isn’t even that open to being in a poly relationship which could make the other guy feel just used for sex just my thoughts..
As a bisexual person I can tell you that my girlfriend makes any other person just fade away
Not a dog person but I love hearing about your pups, keep the stories coming! ❤
Please talk about your dogs more ❤ that pup cup story made me laugh
Love you my little potato 🥔
I love the name wicked witch of the DR! Scott is definitely dating her for clout and to meet more women that are his real type!
Idk why people worried about bisexuality. Yes, we can be attracted to both genders, but if we with you then it's it. You should be more worried if your partner have history of cheating before and if they trustworthy. That all that you need to know. It would be great if you work on confidence. If you know that you that girl, then where is your partner go after this? Downgrade?? It would be his/her loss.
Sometimes I am scared of coming out as bi, because I don't want to scare people off (also don't want to be fetishized by man,lol), you know? I have my eyes only on my partner and don't want them to feel uncomfortable. By the way, I always say that I'm bisexual, it's just makes me so nervous
Alejandro was like: The whole DR knows Lydia , so no chance for her to get a sausage and she definitely needs it to chill out so I can be with the junior witch " Hey dude, wanna b on the show? Just play with the evil a little... " LOL. 😅😅😅
I propose that we women stop treating men like Jessica's ex as if they're something special, and instead start treating them as the norm. Imagine the reverse... some dudes wowing and marveled by the fact that their boy's new GF is a good mom, and not a rabbit-boiling psycho that plays Animal Crossing all day instead of taking care of their kids. We'd be SO insulted like WTF? Let's just raise the bar on them without telling them. All women everywhere, when he does some basic expected human decency stuff, let's just hit 'em with the facts: Jessica's ex is now Gold Star standard. What, you want praise? A gold star? A cookie? Jessica's ex doesn't need a pat on the back for just doing what he's supposed to do, why are you special? 😂
Honestly for Valentine and Carlos they should send the friend a zoom link so she can watch the wedding from a distance
Gurlie your work ethic is amazing💞
as a bisexual person im so sick of that trope of “dating a bisexual is more stressful because you have twice as many people to worry about”. no you dont, you only do if you’re insecure with yourself because if a bisexual is dating you, regardless of who they could be “potentially attracted to”, they chose YOU!! straight people can be potentially attracted to just as many or more people! its unfair to assume by dating straight people you have less to worry about. there are promiscuous people of all sexualities and being a certain sexual orientation doesnt increase nor decrease those levels of promiscuity. if you’re worried about your partner looking elsewhere then you:
A.) have the wrong partner
or
B.) arent confident in yourself and hence should be focusing on personal growth instead of your dating game and coming from a formerly insecure person, this is the best option. dont be so ignorant, goddamn
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Amen to this, I was going to say the exact same thing. I'm sick of being assumed to be promiscuous or that my partner has to be extra vigilant because my potential dating pool is larger - a commitment to a partner is a commitment to a partner!! Your point about promiscuity having nothing to do with sexual orientation is exactly it. And honestly, if you're constantly worried about our partner cheating on you with every person they interact with - I think that's an insecurity you need to work on, not your partners
This, almost presumptuous that bisexual people cannot be faithful or monogamous. If you are dating a kind person unless they state their preference of ethical non monogamy the chances of being cheated on are most likely the same if you date a heterosexual person ❤
sameeeee. i get assumed to be promiscuous when i really aint lol
Literally this. I'm bisexual but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to ALL MEN AND ALL WOMEN.
No sorry, if Valentine cannot trust his fiancé when Carlos says that he doesn't have feelings for Michelle and he is committed to Valentine only - then sorry but you probably shouldn't be getting married. Of course Carlos is going to want his best friend at the wedding! That's not unreasonable at all! If you cannot trust your partner over your insecurity - then you have some work to do on yourself and your relationship
I always agree with your takes and I adore your content but.
Let’s not be insecure about someone’s sexuality…..
humm 5 months in trolls try to evolve 😂
Firstly, big fan and your uploads have been a part of my relaxation routine for the last several high stress months.
Having said that, on the issue of bisexuality… if you’re dating a bisexual/pansexual/queer person (hello!), there is only person you have to be worried about: your partner.
If there isn’t trust in that relationship, it won’t matter who they’re attracted to, you know? It could be men who look like Danny DeVito and it could still bring up jealousy.
I usually always agree with you but this episode was just not it for me.
First of all this man brings his dog into a food service place wearing a fake service dog vest. How do I know it’s not a real service dog? Service dogs don’t act like that and they aren’t trained like that. That dog had her paws all up on the tables and the counters in a food service place and no trained service dog behaves like that. Putting fake vests on dogs is harmful for real service dogs who have a job to do and discredits real service dogs when they do come in. It’s not cute. It’s a problem. Also dairy is usually so bad for dogs.
That dog is so cute but the owner is doing all the wrong things for her
Also Valentine is in the WRONG. if he claims to be a poly man that doesn’t go one way. Being polyamorous is about open communication and boundaries and if he’s allowed to date other people then his partner should be too. It doesn’t go one way.
Also being bisexual doesn’t mean we are going to want to sleep with everyone. That’s a harmful stereotype and points out other people’s obvious insecurities and biases against bi people. He should believe his fiancés words and list to him because if he doesn’t trust his fiancé then he has no business being in a relationship.
It’s not just some girl he wants to invite. It’s his BEST FRIEND. excluding your best friend from your wedding because you used to like them and that makes your fiancé uncomfortable even though you’ve made it clear time and time again you don’t have feelings for her anymore is the lamest thing I’ve ever heard. And it just speaks volumes on his fiancés obvious insecurities and trust issues.
Pedro’s mom looks way different than she used to.
Lidia is a lawyer 😂 they are such scammers, the whole family
I didn't watch the Chantal/Pedro thing and even I knew that the mother is frigging nuts. And I don't think she and the dog guy speak one word of the same language. Yeah, no, this will work out.
How is it amazing that a father will "watch" his own children? He's not their babysitter. And Jessica's son is acting his age (probably around 5). Who knows what this child is feeling? 🙄
Yeah that was poor taste for her to say
well, we know you're acting your age, and we all know what you're feeling 😂
not all fathers are present in a child’s life, i think that’s what she meant
It's not that he will watch his own kids, it's that he will watch them while she goes off to see some random guy
If they are divorced what difference does it make? Regardless, parents don't watch their children - they raise their children. If divorced, its usually called co-parenting.
I may be a cat person but I do enjoy hearing people tell stories about their dogs and stuff. You can tell as many stories about your dog as you want, I'm not complaining, Po!
Every month!!!!?? I don’t even have kids and I still couldn’t afford that
My face was that little boys face when she said you might scare him away im like tha hell. What is wrong with you? Lol
"Don't scare him away." What. The. Fuck. Seriously, Her children aren't going to deliberately scare him off. Kid's are going to be kid's, they're going to be fussy and they are going to be wondering who their own mother is introducing them to. Like...For real?
How is one person poly in a relationship and then that same person’s mad about their partner also having feeling for someone else. That just sounds messy 🥴
Ok but since I’m bisexual I have conflicting feelings. Can I just say that you don’t have to worry about other genders…. It’s about your partner and what TYPES they have you can worry about… like, I’m only scared of hot petite blonde and red headed girls bc my partner is a lesbian. I’m terrified when I see girls I know get their gears going but that’s just because everyone has preferences 😂. they’re much more relaxed to me about that because they know they’re my Perfect Type lol
No cheating has ever happened I’m just a pathetic insecure bisexual theyre very prevalent out here
5:59 Why would he tell Ally the dog 'yeah, just like that'.
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@@mythots .. the dog was probably licking his ass, I can’t think of any other reason.
People hand-waving away Jessica telling her kids to "not scare Juan away" and saying it's no big deal don't know anything about childhood psychological development or children in general.
Any person that describes his dating life as “taste if every type of woman” is a bad person. He probably wants to settle down now because his junk stopped working 😂😂😂😂😂
Ive always wondered how is that pedro and his family arent known in DR? still, I feel the need to apologise for them. We dont claim them, we really dont lol
9:20. You know what vibes that gave me? It literally made me think of those videos where it’s like a wildlife camera in the woods or somebody’s backyard? It reminded me of when a deer finds a currently recording video camera and goes up to it, booping it, sniffing it, like, “what are you?”
I saw 90 Fiance and RANNNNN
.....I got to say, I ❤ your reviews and Always look to forward them!!!!!
Valentine being poly then not be ok with Carlos having his best friend at the wedding who has a bf is a bit hypocritical. On top of him not being ok with Carlos being friends with her in the first place? Unless Carlos has done anything to make Valentine question his actions I think he should calm tf down. Could ALSO be he’s projecting his own stuff onto Carlos. My ex used to accuse me of cheating when in reality he was the cheater🤷🏻♀️
Who did homeboys hairline like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The younger one looked at her like bitch please 😂😂
I really hope you cover this more, cause now I’m invested! Especially with Valentine & Carlos.
A mono + polyam dynamic can be tricky to navigate. Curious where Valentine’s jealousy/insecurity is really coming from and what him being polyam means for the relationship. Because if Val is uncomfortable with Carlos’ BFF, Carlos would be uncomfortable with Val having an additional romantic partner 🤷🏾♀️. Then what?
But he's not practicing poliamory because of Carlos so that's the thing
You can also buy dog ice cream from Chewy!! I bought the birthday cake flavor for my dog and he loved it.
This is why I can't stand poly people they demand to sleep with and be with whoever plus you but God forbid you hangout with someone else your attracted to 🙄🤚
Am polyam and ace. If you're with someone who claims to be polyamorous and gets mad at you for having relationships with others, they're probably monogamous and using polyamory to have their way 😶
The girl with the kids shows why parents should not make a habit of letting their kids sleep with them. I always wonder why young couples made a habit of letting the kids sleep with them, what have they all become celibate?
I developed a raging TLC hot mess addiction during the pandemic. The recycling of old actors is where I jump ship. Love the recaps though!
Hi, random comment that matches another video (sorry). You were saying you wanted to get your make up and look updated. I feel ya. I’m a makeup spaz. Sephora does a $50.00 hour long make up lesson. It really helped me. FWIW.
If Valentine is Polly...whatever he is, then why does he have a problem with Carlos loving another person besides him! I thought he was down with loving multiple people 🤔
I don't have access to either, I love listening to your recaps, they crack me up
lmaooo your dog story really made me laugh
Glad you’re reviewing this!
Dogs can’t digest Dairy well but there is Ice cream made for dogs
It’s so tasteless when people admit for having a lot of hookups and one nightstands. It’s not something to brag about
Sooo... I thought valentines hairline was a fitted baseball hat on backwards 😢😅
Girl i love the tangents!
your recaps make me happpppyyyy thank youuuuu
How is Valentine poly but trying to police Carlos' relationships?
If Valentine is poly why does he care? He looks at other people to I mean he can love an entirely separate person at the same time? Carlos never said that they slept together or that she was in love with him back know she turned him down so what the problem is???🙃🤷🏻
FINALLY. I’m Really missing your 90 duas RECAP.
My 5 pound dog LOVES dairy. She is so obnoxious about it, too. 😂 We love hearing about your fur babies!
when i saw the episode i thought The Dog and his Owner Looks the Same. Im glad u mentioned it cos i thought maybe im just rude
I completely agree with you about "The Other Way" this season, @mythots. I've barely been watching it myself 😒
So…La bruja del DR is a lawyer, and she needed Pedro to send her a TV from the US?? And wasn’t he working as a dishwasher or something?? 🤨🤨🤨
Right ?! I'm so confused why this is never addressed
Americans are so American 😂 Google exists, go there, look at the salaries they make, then come back😅🤣 thanks for the laugh
Why is Carlos ALWAYS besties with his ex’s? He’s only known Michelle for a year and a bit. How is she now his best friend over the ex he played sports with in the beginning? And he’s willing to break off his engagement if she can’t attend.? When we first met them Carlos was best friends with his male ex, and Val didn’t feel comfortable with that relationship either. I see a pattern here. 🤔 Let’s not forget Michelle denied Carlos’ advances to be intimate. He clearly still has feelings for her if he’s fighting so hard for her to be at the wedding.JS
It triggers me seeing pedro on the screen because my horrific breakup I had last year my ex (which coincidentally his name is PEDRO!!) really treated me VERY similarly how he treated Chantal towards the end of the relationship. I had to stop watching Chantal’s spin off because of it
I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who couldn’t trust me to be around other people. The jealously is fine, but to restrict me because they couldn’t accept that I’m still friends with an ex is hurtful. Not every relationship ends horribly and the memories are something that I will never fully regret, but that doesn’t mean that I want to go back. That relationship ended for a reason.
I’m weak at the hairline jokes😂😂😂
10:58 THE HAIRLINE IM SCREAMING
Stay away from single parents if you dont have kids. Its the worst.
No they do pup cups at Dairy Q and they sell ice cream for dogs In the freezer section
Used to get my buddy pup cups (ice cream with a Purina dog biscuit) & he never got sick
The Lidia storyline is so clearly for story plot. I hate when these guys make it so obvious its just for tv
Idk, I feel like he's marrying the man he loves, so the competition is over, I would prob let him invite his best friend, I would most likely regret not inviting her, because they're special in my partners life, and I respect that, plus I want him to be happy on his wedding day.
Its so true dogs look just like their owners
It really depends on the dog. Mine is okay with ice cream and whip cream. I have bulldogs and they suffer allergies and they are okay. It's a case by case thing really lol that guy looks like an unreal dog dad
Please never stop talking about your dogs 😂❤
It’s interesting that you equate poly with an “ability” to love many people deeply. I feel this is very charitable.
I think that’s how he described it
Lol I'm gonna pocket that for later, for the rare times I'm trying to juggle.
@@mythots yeah so I dont know why they said "very charitable" and had ability in quotations
Doesn't Jessica accuse Juan of cheating in the next episode? 🤭👎And yeah, I love me a "polyamorous" hypocrite in love with a bisexual. Great.
Jessica is not ready to date. rather than worrying about your children scaring off your new boyfriend, she needs to worry about Juan and his ability to a father figure, to be mature about her custody arrangements with her ex-husband.
POOR, poor Scott 😢 He doesn't know what hell is awaiting him.
I get my dogs a vanilla ice cream cone for special occasions. They’re honestly bad because of the sugar, but sugar not being healthy didn’t stop most humans. Some dogs will be more sensitive to certain foods, but it’s just like with humans. Some people can be lactose intolerant or allergic to nuts. Dogs are the same, so what your dog is comfortable with eating will vary.
Jessica looks so much like the actress from 'Save The Last Dance'.