as c.s lewis once said "do not let your happiness depend on something you may lose"... this message is so so real. many men nowadays are just poor excuses of what a man should truly be. bhuti, YOUR POSSESSIONS SHOULD BE THE LEAST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT YOU! these men have the right idea but their priorities are all the way backwards. empty vessels nje.
As a man, I'm grateful for keeping ME in check as well. You're OFFICIALLY an oracle for humanity (women and men). I'm teachable, so the more of these uplifting things about how to be better men the more of it.
Yhu I'm still driving my Polo of 9yrs. And people with primary school and unemployment are asking me when I'm not buying a new car. I have so many other priorities and pocket watchers just don't get it.
The red pill space has also given men a false sense of value telling them that money and status is what gives you value but it only gives you monetary value. Your true value is your character as a man, what kind of father are you going to be what kind of husband are you going to be and what kind of leader will you be to your family. Working hard for your bag is important, making sure you healthy and that you are a productive person in society is important but character is also very important. They say money will make you more of who you are and if you are a weak man an asshole and abuser when you get money you will become 10x that. So while you are working hard for that bag make sure you work hard on building your character as well
Honestly, Sihle, more than anything, I am glad there are still young women who can think the way that you do. Based on what we are mostly exposed to on social media every day and the way of thinking of most young people, it’s easy to lose hope. Even the Bible tells us that knowledge and wisdom are more valuable than material, and that was a piece of wisdom that I thought was lost in this generation. A good foundation is critical for future success; if there is one thing I can say with absolute certainty about you, is that your foundation is solid and that you have a beautiful future ahead of you. Some of us will always wish you everything of the best, and more than anything, I am glad you share your thoughts with the world.
She’s been speaking her truth about women and the men were cheerleaders of the previous topics emphasising their admiration, now that she’s speaking her truth on the men, they no longer in agreement with her perspective. 😒
😂 this shows that they never agreed with anything I said. They were just happy that the message was for women. This message is no different to anything I have ever said, they just don’t believe it applies to them🤡
Girl you hit the spot, firstly congratulations on the growth and monetization of your channel, you're doing amazing work in the body of Christ. Keep flourishing👏 This message should be common sense but common sense is a flower that does not grow in everybody's garden in today's society. These are behaviours we witnessed even in high school but the difference is that we are adults now but the mindset has not changed. Character will take us further than materialistic possessions and it's true that if something can be stolen from you or perish it's not valuable. The things that make a human being valuable are internal. When you mentioned forex, I immediately thought of Sandile the forex trader who unalived Karabo Mokoena. If a person would measure his value from a materialistic perspective, he would a man of very high value because of his lifestyle and outward appearance. But his character? He probably was making so many loses in his trading and resorted to abusing his partner because of his weak character. He placed his value on what he has over who he is a person. If you removed all his wealth there's absolutely nothing positive or of sentimental value. Spread the truth my girl❤️👏
Psalm 34 : 9 - 10 (NIV) "Fear the LORD, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing. The lions may grow weak and hungry ,but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing. " Yasss gurl 💯👏🏽, keep rising and glorifying the name of the Lord 🙌🏼💕!!!
Subbie from Lesotho here...🇱🇸 UA-cam partnership doesn't exist in my country, so ads don't play But I'm very proud of you❤❤. I pray this community continues to grow ❤
Congratulations on the monetization!! Also your video came up on my fyp so the algorithm is pushing you out !! I agree with your nuanced take, I like hardworking people even in my friendships and having material wealth doesn't bring anything to a friendhsip. We all want support and friends and partners who encourage us to put in the work with our goals. I think most sane women look for disciplined men with good values
Women naturally gravitate towards men with possessions and the qualities of being a provider and being generous. Of course you judge men who are superficial in the way they handle their wealth and possessions to attract women, but that's what we men are naturally aware of. I'd encourage anyone reading this to purchase and read a book called the Evolution of Desire: The strategy of human mating by Dr. David M. Buss.
In a world filled with instant gratification and superficiality being king, I as a young man want character & integrity in Christ. We're so tied to the idea that we need to constantly chase wealth in order to receive appeasement and approval from those externally. Thank you so much for this, you're a great source for reproof & accountability.
Congratulations on the monetization of your channel they're now watching the "pick me" elevating😅 Your content needs to reach as many ears as possible it is powerful & informative❤️
But why are you feeling pressured by the Lashes and Wig Fraternity? Why are they rattling you why are you pressed? Social anxiety much? Assimilation into fake fleeting beauty standards?
Men should NEVER invest in girlfriends ONLY in their wives. But otherwise I like your initiative, keep reading the bible, learning more and teaching women righteousness. If you want men to learn too, I suggest you look for a upright God fearing man to come here and there to teach men how to be righteous husbands. Thanks.
Isaiah 58:1 “The Lord says, “Shout out loud. Don’t hold back. Shout out loud like a trumpet. Tell the people about the things they have done against God. Tell the family of Jacob about their sins.” Shout out loud Sihley! Continue doing your works. Churches are scared to preach about such!
I love love love your content not only because you speak your truth but also because you're being real and truthful to yourself, that is so commendable and inspiring
Women put themselves under such unnecessary pressure wrt makeup, hair, outfits etc. I get it's NB but really you don't need to center your whole life and identity on that. This aesthetics economy is becoming a pandemic. People are going bald, alopecia, nails damaged, foundation not matching complexions, those wig lines that look like dirt on a bath tub after washing. Just for looks.
"He who has ears to hear, let him hear" - Mark 4:9. This lady is speaking the Lord's message and if you can't see that than I am deeply sorry for you my sister 🙏
Many men will watch this and believe "oh flip she's right, I don't need money"... well guess what buddy, you're still miserable. while she's begging you to watch ads to get the same money she's saying you shouldn't stress about.
I agree with most of the things you voice out on your beautiful platform, but I must address something, respectfully . It terrible advice telling men to upgrade women she must meet me at her best as I will be at my best if she chooses to get involved with me. Never send a women to school you're not her parent. You'll ignorantly uplift her for a guy on her future social status, respectfully what you said was misleading. And this is coming from a gent , another thing I can be generous with my time and attention as well it doesn't have to be monetary for you to deem it generous. Once more I do appreciate your content it truly educational for the ladies, thank you ❤
living in your mind is drug you need to stay away from. People who really have money care less about how you think or view them. whether you value them or not, it will not change how they push through life, if you don't appreciate them, they stay away from you, they don't have time to create small talks so that people can see value in them. not everyone is out there to impress people and seek value from strangers they don't know on UA-cam. they are very content with their lives to be seeking value from people who are still finding themselves.
No no no NOO. Not right now the status quote won’t change when we on the verge of that BIG BAG we stood back and endured the bullshit for 10 years it’s time for my get back !
Me I only wish you start the video sooner my sister. It's a good thing if you grow financially but please start he video sooner and not after 2 minutes
I gave my life to Jesus and the peace and happiness that i have received from knowing the father and building a deep and intimate relationship with him can't be compared to anything on this earth. I pray that more men come to know and experience this love that can't be taken away from you by man. Beautiful video my sister in Christ may you keep doing the Lord's will and congratulations on your monetization
In This Economy l don't think it's Men who should be providers not that l believe in 50/50 but if we're we are in Mature Relationship l would appreciate my girl helping in any way she can
Another reason why woman will never allow this is most man bring nothing to the table but money so if we both become providers then what else do i get for keeping you around
@@ndimhlee I argue from a human psychology and Nature pov. Yes this isn't exclusively gender-specific, there are some key psychological and social differences in how men and women typically experience social media 1. Socialization Differences - Women are traditionally socialized to place higher value on appearance and external validation - Men are typically socialized to derive worth from achievements, status, and professional success - These deeply ingrained social conditioning patterns influence how each gender perceives and uses social media platforms 2. The way social media is designed often reward content that emphasizes physical attractiveness, which historically has been more pressured for women - Men's content tends to be more performance-oriented (skills, achievements, humor) rather than appearance-focused - The algorithmic reward systems subtly reinforce different validation mechanisms for men and women 3. Psychological Research show that, - Women statistically report higher rates of social comparison and appearance-related anxiety on social media - Men are more likely to use social media as a networking or information-sharing tool - The emotional investment in online validation differs significantly between genders 4.Modern ideologies disagree but, nature argues that women are traditionally more attuned to social signaling and group acceptance - Men might seek validation through different mechanisms like competitive domains(You Know how men like to compete) But I have to point out that Individual experiences vary widely, and not all men and women will fit these observations. The psychological impact of social media is complex and deeply personal.
Lol girl is a contradiction from her first video_ I don’t think she also knows what she stands up for_ she’s just like everybody else trying to get views with her bait content
Most of us Men know what went want and what we stand for, even though don't know themselves but they will catch up as time goes... Don't be fooled even though I might not comment on the regular basis but that doesn't mean I don't listen or watch your content.... Women are the ones being sold false narrative on social media platforms...
I hear what you are saying on men investing in their women on business start-ups, but kindly make a research on women hypergamy and plz make a video on it.
holding us gents accountable, you cooked sis wam😭🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
as c.s lewis once said "do not let your happiness depend on something you may lose"... this message is so so real. many men nowadays are just poor excuses of what a man should truly be. bhuti, YOUR POSSESSIONS SHOULD BE THE LEAST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT YOU! these men have the right idea but their priorities are all the way backwards. empty vessels nje.
you can never lose your salvation in Christ
@@Healingson sifike nini kwi salvation ngoku? but you definitely can.
Biggest lesson:
Don't listen to what women say. Observe what they do.
She'll leave you for a guy with money.
There is an interview , whereby they hate gym guys but when asked the what man they want between and dad body and gym body, they go for the gym body.
@@EphraimAkoto 🤣😂😂😂🤣
I sincerely sympathise with you on the kind of women you have encountered in this life. Love and healing. ✌️
The same thing that men say and do. He will leave you for a slay queen, and a girl who just wants to use him.
😂😂😂
As a man, I'm grateful for keeping ME in check as well. You're OFFICIALLY an oracle for humanity (women and men). I'm teachable, so the more of these uplifting things about how to be better men the more of it.
Today when you meet people it's like they run this social survey questionnaire by asking questions to determine your pockets.
Yhu I'm still driving my Polo of 9yrs. And people with primary school and unemployment are asking me when I'm not buying a new car. I have so many other priorities and pocket watchers just don't get it.
as for "people with primary school"🤣🤣
Most men think being a high value man is about having lots of money🚮.
It's true moc.
@ lol okay
@lol okay
Not really I know of a guy who has a lot of money yet he is a deadveat father to his children.nothing high value with that@@Thegogetter-o3p
Is it not?
The red pill space has also given men a false sense of value telling them that money and status is what gives you value but it only gives you monetary value. Your true value is your character as a man, what kind of father are you going to be what kind of husband are you going to be and what kind of leader will you be to your family. Working hard for your bag is important, making sure you healthy and that you are a productive person in society is important but character is also very important. They say money will make you more of who you are and if you are a weak man an asshole and abuser when you get money you will become 10x that. So while you are working hard for that bag make sure you work hard on building your character as well
That's so true, RED PILL has given men a false sense of value. It made them to be vain (vanity).
Yes!
Amen 🔥🤍👏🏽
Honestly, Sihle, more than anything, I am glad there are still young women who can think the way that you do. Based on what we are mostly exposed to on social media every day and the way of thinking of most young people, it’s easy to lose hope. Even the Bible tells us that knowledge and wisdom are more valuable than material, and that was a piece of wisdom that I thought was lost in this generation. A good foundation is critical for future success; if there is one thing I can say with absolute certainty about you, is that your foundation is solid and that you have a beautiful future ahead of you. Some of us will always wish you everything of the best, and more than anything, I am glad you share your thoughts with the world.
She’s been speaking her truth about women and the men were cheerleaders of the previous topics emphasising their admiration, now that she’s speaking her truth on the men, they no longer in agreement with her perspective. 😒
😂 this shows that they never agreed with anything I said. They were just happy that the message was for women. This message is no different to anything I have ever said, they just don’t believe it applies to them🤡
Stop lying we still in agreement with her views, even more now cos most men aren't scared of being held accountable. Shuush!
@ Kushuthi ncese, kodwa-ke , bengikhuluma ngalaba who’ve left unkind comments down below, angazi’ke uma usungitshela ukuthi ngenzeni ngePhone yami.
@@nosiphomvemve6599 Tseg
@@Sihleeey so they are clowns?
I'll definitely watch the ads.
Truth. 🎉❤
Girl you hit the spot, firstly congratulations on the growth and monetization of your channel, you're doing amazing work in the body of Christ. Keep flourishing👏
This message should be common sense but common sense is a flower that does not grow in everybody's garden in today's society.
These are behaviours we witnessed even in high school but the difference is that we are adults now but the mindset has not changed.
Character will take us further than materialistic possessions and it's true that if something can be stolen from you or perish it's not valuable. The things that make a human being valuable are internal.
When you mentioned forex, I immediately thought of Sandile the forex trader who unalived Karabo Mokoena. If a person would measure his value from a materialistic perspective, he would a man of very high value because of his lifestyle and outward appearance. But his character? He probably was making so many loses in his trading and resorted to abusing his partner because of his weak character. He placed his value on what he has over who he is a person. If you removed all his wealth there's absolutely nothing positive or of sentimental value.
Spread the truth my girl❤️👏
You know what Sihleeey Your content is everything to mee God keep on blessing you we need more people like you in this planet we living in❤
Thank you 🥰
So much wisdom and Beauty. Always learning from you as a man.
Thank you 🥰
True value is in the spirit
Being a man is hard bro. It's a get rich or die trying kind of life. You have to be monied as a man like it or not.
I feel u broh 😢
It's the kind of women you're after. Your preferred type is the problem.
Psalm 34 : 9 - 10 (NIV)
"Fear the LORD, you his saints, for those who fear him lack nothing. The lions may grow weak and hungry ,but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing. "
Yasss gurl 💯👏🏽, keep rising and glorifying the name of the Lord 🙌🏼💕!!!
Crazy enough, you remind me of Candace Owens. I love this type of content popping up on my feed.🤭
Subbie from Lesotho here...🇱🇸
UA-cam partnership doesn't exist in my country, so ads don't play
But I'm very proud of you❤❤.
I pray this community continues to grow ❤
Dr Nandipha left it all for a convicted criminal. Her 2md Xmas behind bars without her kids, hubby, fam. Women want the smoke sometimes.
Facts.
A man that has his money and who can manage his biological inclinations. That's the prize. Along with sound character and godly consciousness.
Congratulations on the monetization!! Also your video came up on my fyp so the algorithm is pushing you out !! I agree with your nuanced take, I like hardworking people even in my friendships and having material wealth doesn't bring anything to a friendhsip. We all want support and friends and partners who encourage us to put in the work with our goals. I think most sane women look for disciplined men with good values
Yeeees 👏🏽👏🏽
No thank you for your wisdom and content it is highly appreciated
Le nkulumo inamandla 🗿💪
Wisdom right there my lady
Women naturally gravitate towards men with possessions and the qualities of being a provider and being generous. Of course you judge men who are superficial in the way they handle their wealth and possessions to attract women, but that's what we men are naturally aware of. I'd encourage anyone reading this to purchase and read a book called the Evolution of Desire: The strategy of human mating by Dr. David M. Buss.
👏🏼👏🏼
I sent him this
Lol ay Sihle😂Tell them wena!!
It’s like I’m looking at a mirror.
Well done 🫡
Omg imagine being judged for a flammable dusty ass wig 😂😂😂.
In a world filled with instant gratification and superficiality being king, I as a young man want character & integrity in Christ.
We're so tied to the idea that we need to constantly chase wealth in order to receive appeasement and approval from those externally.
Thank you so much for this, you're a great source for reproof & accountability.
Congratulations on the monetization of your channel they're now watching the "pick me" elevating😅
Your content needs to reach as many ears as possible it is powerful & informative❤️
Thank you 🥰
Now this here just got you a sub. You a real one❤
But why are you feeling pressured by the Lashes and Wig Fraternity? Why are they rattling you why are you pressed? Social anxiety much? Assimilation into fake fleeting beauty standards?
Men should NEVER invest in girlfriends ONLY in their wives. But otherwise I like your initiative, keep reading the bible, learning more and teaching women righteousness. If you want men to learn too, I suggest you look for a upright God fearing man to come here and there to teach men how to be righteous husbands. Thanks.
Isaiah 58:1
“The Lord says, “Shout out loud. Don’t hold back. Shout out loud like a trumpet. Tell the people about the things they have done against God. Tell the family of Jacob about their sins.”
Shout out loud Sihley! Continue doing your works. Churches are scared to preach about such!
I love love love your content not only because you speak your truth but also because you're being real and truthful to yourself, that is so commendable and inspiring
You don't have a 📷? When you look like that 😢😍🔥
you cooked sis
Women put themselves under such unnecessary pressure wrt makeup, hair, outfits etc. I get it's NB but really you don't need to center your whole life and identity on that. This aesthetics economy is becoming a pandemic. People are going bald, alopecia, nails damaged, foundation not matching complexions, those wig lines that look like dirt on a bath tub after washing. Just for looks.
You need to be protected. 🙏🙏The content you make is going to raffle alot of feathers.
Ya'll put yourselves under unnecessary oressure
ay girl I respect you mara unamanga yekha amanga
"He who has ears to hear, let him hear" - Mark 4:9. This lady is speaking the Lord's message and if you can't see that than I am deeply sorry for you my sister 🙏
"are you happy? Please!" 😂
Many men will watch this and believe "oh flip she's right, I don't need money"... well guess what buddy, you're still miserable. while she's begging you to watch ads to get the same money she's saying you shouldn't stress about.
She didn’t say men shouldn’t get or have money, she said men shouldn’t attach their value to money… men should also have comprehension skills hle.
You completely missed the point
I agree with most of the things you voice out on your beautiful platform, but I must address something, respectfully . It terrible advice telling men to upgrade women she must meet me at her best as I will be at my best if she chooses to get involved with me. Never send a women to school you're not her parent. You'll ignorantly uplift her for a guy on her future social status, respectfully what you said was misleading. And this is coming from a gent , another thing I can be generous with my time and attention as well it doesn't have to be monetary for you to deem it generous. Once more I do appreciate your content it truly educational for the ladies, thank you ❤
Thank you
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Wisdom 🔥
This is it
living in your mind is drug you need to stay away from. People who really have money care less about how you think or view them. whether you value them or not, it will not change how they push through life, if you don't appreciate them, they stay away from you, they don't have time to create small talks so that people can see value in them. not everyone is out there to impress people and seek value from strangers they don't know on UA-cam. they are very content with their lives to be seeking value from people who are still finding themselves.
Shem you’ll be fine 😂
0:23 congratulations 🎉 on monetization
No no no NOO. Not right now the status quote won’t change when we on the verge of that BIG BAG we stood back and endured the bullshit for 10 years it’s time for my get back !
heban?
😂😂@@melodydito4723
You’re blessed 🫡
Preach mbokodo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Kant we still have girls who think like this
🥰
Wise words not everyone will understand! the kybalion says "milk for babes,meat for strong men".
Me I only wish you start the video sooner my sister. It's a good thing if you grow financially but please start he video sooner and not after 2 minutes
No
Let those who have ears hear and those who hear take heed.
I gave my life to Jesus and the peace and happiness that i have received from knowing the father and building a deep and intimate relationship with him can't be compared to anything on this earth. I pray that more men come to know and experience this love that can't be taken away from you by man. Beautiful video my sister in Christ may you keep doing the Lord's will and congratulations on your monetization
Girl🎉❤
In This Economy l don't think it's Men who should be providers not that l believe in 50/50 but if we're we are in Mature Relationship l would appreciate my girl helping in any way she can
Ibele
Another reason why woman will never allow this is most man bring nothing to the table but money so if we both become providers then what else do i get for keeping you around
CONGRATS 😇
Love ur content cc but ppl who really need to hear it are not here even if u share it ay abezwa
Young men, please get back to work..........this is.........just get back to work gents....
You spoke about Forex and said girls should not feel safe with a guy that does forex, "forex only" was your emphasis
Do you know forex?
Title👀 let’s see that the lady has to say, I feel the title is true to women not men, but let’s see…
why do you think it’s true for women? and false for men (i disagree w/ ur take btw, but i’m curious)
@ let me finish the video, I’ll come back and give you my arguments
@@novelCrescend0 🤝
It can go both ways tbh
@@ndimhlee I argue from a human psychology and Nature pov.
Yes this isn't exclusively gender-specific, there are some key psychological and social differences in how men and women typically experience social media 1. Socialization Differences
- Women are traditionally socialized to place higher value on appearance and external validation
- Men are typically socialized to derive worth from achievements, status, and professional success
- These deeply ingrained social conditioning patterns influence how each gender perceives and uses social media platforms
2. The way social media is designed often reward content that emphasizes physical attractiveness, which historically has been more pressured for women
- Men's content tends to be more performance-oriented (skills, achievements, humor) rather than appearance-focused
- The algorithmic reward systems subtly reinforce different validation mechanisms for men and women
3. Psychological Research show that,
- Women statistically report higher rates of social comparison and appearance-related anxiety on social media
- Men are more likely to use social media as a networking or information-sharing tool
- The emotional investment in online validation differs significantly between genders
4.Modern ideologies disagree but, nature argues that women are traditionally more attuned to social signaling and group acceptance
- Men might seek validation through different mechanisms like competitive domains(You
Know how men like to compete)
But I have to point out that Individual experiences vary widely, and not all men and women will fit these observations. The psychological impact of social media is complex and deeply personal.
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Lol girl is a contradiction from her first video_ I don’t think she also knows what she stands up for_ she’s just like everybody else trying to get views with her bait content
Gents, I think it’s just better to be single, nothing is guaranteed, you can still be left in the dust if your a man with value.
Congratulations on getting monetized!
Most of us Men know what went want and what we stand for, even though don't know themselves but they will catch up as time goes... Don't be fooled even though I might not comment on the regular basis but that doesn't mean I don't listen or watch your content.... Women are the ones being sold false narrative on social media platforms...
buying a 4-pipe just to impress a SpongeBob looking girl is crazy business. I'd need serious counselling
You've been lied to sweet Sihleeey?
Relax guys she's just a girl 😂😂😂 1:51
Honestly 😂
I am Happy when your hair is like that, am sure Jehovah is happy as well
🤣🤣🤣 she thinks she's creating value by looking crusty.
I hear what you are saying on men investing in their women on business start-ups, but kindly make a research on women hypergamy and plz make a video on it.
You are not great, vele.
Here for it!🤍