While I understand that your focus here is how important it is for us as women to develop ourselves more intrinsically….but ladies don’t ever and I repeat don’t ever underestimate the power that comes with investing in your physical appearance It’s as important But ke awonoma ngalonto Thank you!!!
ewe, I feel like we need to be careful not to demonise beauty. I firmly believe God can use ur beauty, & I don’t think there’s anything wrong with trying to protect ur beauty. the only problem is idolising ur beauty.
Men love beautiful women. But chaos quickly drives them away. Work on your physical appearance not for esthetics sake, but for your health. Be comfortable in your own skin, look natural, because the man you're attracting is obviously natural. Also try and heal from past traumas, especially those childhood ones, ey they can turn a beautiful relationship upside down.
you know ive just started my journey following christ, you make so much sense and i feel like you are quite misunderstood on tiktok. the world is a dark place now. you have so much wisdom. GOD bless you.
I enjoyed this so much. Not only do we think looks make us valuable but we also think looks and money make a man. Just because a man has money or looks good does not mean he will bring value as the head of a home, husband or father. Social media has distorted what VALUE really is. Infact things like kindness, respect, loyalty are so down played. Keep speaking your truth Sihle.
Yohh Sihle waze wangitshela indaba zami ngiyathokoza ... i wish you can break it down futher more focusing on how one should rebrand... i am a 23 year old who's been a celibate for a while now ...trying to rebrand and build my relationship with God
I believe God is raising a generation of young men and women who represents his kingdom.People who will be a representation of kingdom marriages ,not the facades that we have acquitted ourselves with.I also think we are busy promoting promiscuity by normalising co-parenting, meaning it is ohk to sleep around as long as we co-parent successfully from the normal baby mama/daddy situation. Marriages as God's holy institution for living right and bringing offspring which will be healthy adults with something to contribute to society has been overlooked so much that it dents relationship as the gateway to meanful marriages .Vanity of vanities indeed
Hmm girl now this is a good word, thank you Holy Spirit!🙌 This is the real definition of a high value woman. A high value woman does not fixate her value based on superficial things but substantially. Being transformed by the renewing of their minds❤ Romans 12:2 Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
I'm all for this talk neh, but why is it "men centered" why is the value directed at men seeing us worthy? Can't we as women take value in individuality, not for men most of the times, but for you as an individual, like be an intelligent person,be valuable,work hard,invest in knowledge, in assets, in family, for you not to be seen by men so they can marry us or stay longer.....😢it's sad that everything we do as women to empower ourselves ultimately bubbles down to being a good woman to a man first 😢I don't know.thats just my take
I think most of her channel is centred around men. I suppose there’s nothing wrong w/ that bc a lot of women are male centred so she does have a target market, it’s just that sometimes it comes off like she has a jaded perception of what (societally) beautiful women think & how they act. but then again maybe the women she’s talking about do exist..? but it sounds like such a small group. idk.
The name WOMAN is based on MAN (ie womb carrying MAN). The name FEMALE (ie fetus carrying MALE). The woman came from the man that is y she is "Man centred". First centre, God the Father, 2nd Biological Father, Third Husband. Thank you for the question❤
@@oscarmalaakgosi2665 what…? God is the only being your life should be centred around. if you disagree atleast provide verses. & this is literally SA, the majority ‘fathers’ are deadbeat & we live in one of the highest GBV regions especially domestic violence cases of husband’s abusing their wives… how does it make it sense to centre our lives around sinful beings? (even if you said to centre our lives around women)
@JohnKumalinga yes the Lord does it for us not to hurt others but to give us peace and salvation. Whilst we are in him we should pray for those who hurt us. Our healing is to glorify God and only to glorify God. It has nothing to do with what others do, they will have their own judgment. In Christ he will avenge to save your soul and other souls as well.
Women see another girl getting something and being treated a certain way, so they feel they want a man that will do that and a man has to do all that for them and they start making it a requirement, but don't know what she did to get things there
And earthly marriage between a groom (man) and a bride (woman) is supposed to be a shadow/representation of that relationship between God and His people/Jesus and His church. Within that context, a woman would do well by aspiring to be a Proverbs 31 woman.
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised
While I understand that your focus here is how important it is for us as women to develop ourselves more intrinsically….but ladies don’t ever and I repeat don’t ever underestimate the power that comes with investing in your physical appearance
It’s as important
But ke awonoma ngalonto
Thank you!!!
She did say that
ewe, I feel like we need to be careful not to demonise beauty. I firmly believe God can use ur beauty, & I don’t think there’s anything wrong with trying to protect ur beauty. the only problem is idolising ur beauty.
Men love beautiful women. But chaos quickly drives them away.
Work on your physical appearance not for esthetics sake, but for your health. Be comfortable in your own skin, look natural, because the man you're attracting is obviously natural.
Also try and heal from past traumas, especially those childhood ones, ey they can turn a beautiful relationship upside down.
No time for healing, people be jumping from one relationship to another like it's nothing 😢 its scary
Love this. This is beautiful
Sihleeey, YOU TREAD WHERE ANGELS FEAR TO TREAD!
"My sister you still the same"💀
you know ive just started my journey following christ, you make so much sense and i feel like you are quite misunderstood on tiktok. the world is a dark place now. you have so much wisdom. GOD bless you.
I enjoyed this so much. Not only do we think looks make us valuable but we also think looks and money make a man. Just because a man has money or looks good does not mean he will bring value as the head of a home, husband or father. Social media has distorted what VALUE really is. Infact things like kindness, respect, loyalty are so down played.
Keep speaking your truth Sihle.
We value fake value and devalue real value. How can we untangle from this disillusionment?
True revenge is in mind.😊
Well said Sihle!
😮 you didn’t let up on that pedal!Haaaah! Tell them.
Finaly someone said it. Love this so much
Yohh Sihle waze wangitshela indaba zami ngiyathokoza ... i wish you can break it down futher more focusing on how one should rebrand... i am a 23 year old who's been a celibate for a while now ...trying to rebrand and build my relationship with God
I love you my girl❤❤. Thank you for making morals fashionable. I'm so tired of this social media vanity.
I believe God is raising a generation of young men and women who represents his kingdom.People who will be a representation of kingdom marriages ,not the facades that we have acquitted ourselves with.I also think we are busy promoting promiscuity by normalising co-parenting, meaning it is ohk to sleep around as long as we co-parent successfully from the normal baby mama/daddy situation.
Marriages as God's holy institution for living right and bringing offspring which will be healthy adults with something to contribute to society has been overlooked so much that it dents relationship as the gateway to meanful marriages .Vanity of vanities indeed
5:42 girl you hit the nail. 😂😂🙌🙌🔥💯🔥🔥🔥
I’m in stitches, the truth in this 🎯 😂😂😂
Jaw dropped 😮.you are so on point.im also surprised when a hot girl gets played,but I get it now.
I want to be in alignment of what is being said here😊❤❤❤
I listened to this twice
She in the kitchen again..👩🍳🍲🔥🔥🔥
the feast!!! cooked baked and did a whole 3 course!!
Hey Sihleey❤ 4:21 well said.🙏 A real man is also a leader. A lion must be with a lioness.
louder!! “high value woman” just because you do your lashes and nails 4 times a month?😭please heyyy
😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Right?
You can be a high value woman whether you choose to maintain yourself this way or not. It's a heart issue
@@zuziwekubheka9368 you missed it. nobody said the two can't coexist. it definitely is a heart issue though, i'll agree with you on that.
Hmm girl now this is a good word, thank you Holy Spirit!🙌
This is the real definition of a high value woman. A high value woman does not fixate her value based on superficial things but substantially. Being transformed by the renewing of their minds❤
Romans 12:2
Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
God bless your heart
I was this woman in my teens and my family said i was bewitched
You such a rare breed.
I dont like female friends but Ngingaba umngani wakho.😅
what a wise young lady. Men and Women like you have always been the backbone of societies.
Truth be told ... continue with the good work😊..may the spirit of God empower you 😚
wena I am a girl but I always, i mean always agree with you😇Love you lots
Cha Sihle Ave ukhuluma 😂
But I love it ❤♥️you always coming in hot with the truth .
I’ll support you thru !
Yeyi Sihle you are bringing it home now my darling ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
A wise woman❤❤❤
SAn Candace Owens
Came here from TikTok and I love it
I'm all for this talk neh, but why is it "men centered" why is the value directed at men seeing us worthy? Can't we as women take value in individuality, not for men most of the times, but for you as an individual, like be an intelligent person,be valuable,work hard,invest in knowledge, in assets, in family, for you not to be seen by men so they can marry us or stay longer.....😢it's sad that everything we do as women to empower ourselves ultimately bubbles down to being a good woman to a man first 😢I don't know.thats just my take
I think most of her channel is centred around men.
I suppose there’s nothing wrong w/ that bc a lot of women are male centred so she does have a target market, it’s just that sometimes it comes off like she has a jaded perception of what (societally) beautiful women think & how they act.
but then again maybe the women she’s talking about do exist..? but it sounds like such a small group. idk.
The name WOMAN is based on MAN (ie womb carrying MAN). The name FEMALE (ie fetus carrying MALE). The woman came from the man that is y she is "Man centred". First centre, God the Father, 2nd Biological Father, Third Husband. Thank you for the question❤
@@oscarmalaakgosi2665 what…? God is the only being your life should be centred around. if you disagree atleast provide verses.
& this is literally SA, the majority ‘fathers’ are deadbeat & we live in one of the highest GBV regions especially domestic violence cases of husband’s abusing their wives… how does it make it sense to centre our lives around sinful beings? (even if you said to centre our lives around women)
Thank you again for an amazing video 🔥💯👏🏽!!
May God bless your good work Sihle
she's cooking again🔥
Amen 🙏🏿
I like how you played with the V's and not use narcissism
That prayer at the end, lol Siyabonga mfwethu. You're brave bra very brave.
Amen
Yes wena Bizo tell them
You're making the world a better place
Amen ❤
Chile!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Real revenge is in Christ, in how youve changed your values, ❤
Should we even revenge? Isn’t it for the Lord to avenge?
@JohnKumalinga yes the Lord does it for us not to hurt others but to give us peace and salvation. Whilst we are in him we should pray for those who hurt us. Our healing is to glorify God and only to glorify God. It has nothing to do with what others do, they will have their own judgment. In Christ he will avenge to save your soul and other souls as well.
❤❤❤sister keep cooking 🍳
LOUDER🤣📢🔊😂🔊📢
Amen👏🙌
Piece of advice is for everyone to stay in their lane
Grill us Sihle ❤❤❤
Brilliant
she's monitized 😇😇😇
Wow this is so profound
Shu!😰🔥🔥🔥
Hey, i really like your content coz it is focused on things that are happening in our society, can in have an Episode with you if you don't mind?🙏🎙
Women see another girl getting something and being treated a certain way, so they feel they want a man that will do that and a man has to do all that for them and they start making it a requirement, but don't know what she did to get things there
Amen sister 🤍
Read Your Bible Guys !!
Proverbs 31 women is not a real existing women. The women represents Gods people, Israel.
And earthly marriage between a groom (man) and a bride (woman) is supposed to be a shadow/representation of that relationship between God and His people/Jesus and His church.
Within that context, a woman would do well by aspiring to be a Proverbs 31 woman.
@@JohnKumalinga a women within the body of Christ you mean, a believer?
@bodycon dresses from Shein 😂😂😂
Let her cook
leave your life to please GOD not this world
i love love love it
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I have fear for you, Please pray more!
Sihle who do you follow on social media? As a teenager please teach us how and who and why ?
Older women in the faith, you can ask the Holy Spirit to lead you to Titus 2 type of women to follow. Abba answers us❤.
My advice: immerse yourself in the word of God as a teenager, it will transform and build you in ways that social media can never ever do.
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