if you’re feeling lonely & craving love, God wants you to hear this 💓
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
- Early this year, my husband and I had a conversation about our relationship that was filmed for my youtube channel but the video ended up having issues and it wasn't possible to film again. I was going to let it rot in the archives but since you guys enjoyed my last video on dating and relationships so much, i decided to try and rescue the audio from that video [at least] and share a glimpse into our everyday life. Enjoy!
"Look in the scroll of the LORD and read: none of these will be missing, none will lack a mate. For it is His mouth that has given the order and His Spirit will make it all come true." (Isaiah 34:16)
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Hi Ezinne it's not only the girls ooo😂😂 i am unapologetically an Ezinne Zara Fan boy. My Friday evenings have one hour dedicated to binging your channel. God bless you so much. Lots of love from here, your channel has helped me understand love and God and women 😅 and even myself. God bless you again.
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This is nice!
We are happy to have you in our midst bro!😅😊
Wooow. You are adorable bro
Nice
“Everything you’re looking for is on the other side of your obedience to me” is exactly what God said to me some days ago 😢
Me too
Oh He's said this to me too. I screamed when she said it just now.
@ we would come back to respond to this with our own testimonies in about 2 months 🤭🙏🏿
Please can anyone explain what the phrase "your obedience to me means". Thanks in advance
@@chinomnsoonwubiko8036 Obeying God commandments and what the Holy spirit tells you to do in every season of your life.
I just saw photo of someone from my past with his new family, and here I am single and praying to God everyday to answer my prayers. Then, i saw this notification. Thank you ma
Chai. It is well 🤍
All things works for good love❤❤❤
I can relate with tbis... It is well! ❤
GOD has you constantly in mind🥺🫂❤️
Seeing people I actually liked in relationships makes me feel like I am not going to get into one and that scares me sometimes. I pray for grace to believe and the right outlook to accept what God has for me you know.
God wants us to love and be loved too. As a 25-year-old, single-since-birth lady, I'm grateful for this video. Thank you, Ezinne 🥰
Me too😅😅😅
❤❤❤❤
Me three😅.... 23 though
Nice Ad😂..I'm single since yesterday though..what do you say?
Not the "Single-since-birth lady " 😂😂
Her: “The foundation was Christ”
Him : “The FOUNDATION IS CHRIST”
Right correction!!
What stood out to me was when he said he didn't see the uber-spiritual person…he saw her! Wow, may we be surrounded by people who truly see us in a deeper and intimate way!
This video is a confirmation that God actually seees!!!!!!
He really does!🥹
El Roi, the God who sees me🙌🏾
Honestly!
“Everything you’re looking for is at the other side of your obedience to God”❤
Guyssss, spiritual intimacy is a thing!
IT IS
This is just the perfect reminder video for me right now🥺
I have been praying to God for a Laptop and he kept telling me to trust him
Today I got a laptop….like my laptop🤭
Trusting God is hard but God is God
Thank you Ezinne❤️
So happy for you ❤️
Wowww nice.
I'm trusting God for one too😊😊
Congratulations babe
Mine is a brand new phone... I'll testify soon😎
Happy for you ❤
Mine soon
I am so happy for you
I tap into your grace.
“God in His mercy has His ways of communicating with us where we are as long as we are on that journey with Him” -This is so profound.
My friend
@@abisolablossomaderemi3264 my friend! 💕
Very!
“Just because God has said go ahead doesn’t mean it’s going to automatically begin to work” Wow!!!
Really needed this, the single season is a roller coaster, some days are your best days and you’re just like it’s me and the Lord I’m good I don’t need a man😂 and then on other days you just long to have someone to love you, may God continue to give us the grace to wait on him
Thank you Ezinne for this timely message God bless you ❤
Like eheee 😂
It's just something else sha😢
Yea this is so true...
I can relate
Dear God, before you made me you knew who my husband is, am holding on to this 🙌🏻
The thumbnail of this video is hella HD gorgeous 😍
this is such a timely video…
for a long long time, i decided not to get married because of a distorted (dare i say bastardised) view of it i was shown growing up. i didn’t want that so i decided i’ll be alone, probably adopt a baby to nurture and love, and be satisfied with my God.
this year, God has been showing me that He created the institution and so only He can run it well. God gives perfect gifts and nothing fails in his hands. Some days ago i felt led to write declarations on my future husband and family in present tense. I am frightened I won’t lie, because when you see a pattern, it seems funny to believe & hope it won’t affect you, the devil begins to make it look like a given. God has never failed and I cannot wait to see Him glorify himself in every single aspect of my life, even this, especially this.
Thank you for this video as always Ezinne 💐💕
Hi, there’s a book by Debola Deji-Kurunmi it’s called “I am married”
I relate so much to this comment. It feels like me and what I'm experiencing.
@@iyanumaps4264 heyy, thank youu, i’ll check it out ✍🏽❤️
Hi, I used to be in such a place but like Pastor Kingsley would say, we need to heal before we DEAL, since you’re used to seeing the bad patterns you want to surround yourself with good ones and you have to feed your mind by reading books on Godly marriage, watching videos of Christian marriages and little by little you start see that having a good marriage is more than possible but of course not without God Psalms 127 says “Except the Lord builds the house they that labor, labor in vain”, so you have to do all that with God and he would heal you completely 💖.
I relate so much to this comment. It's not easy to overcome fears relating to such patterns.
I love how he said you wasn’t his type but physical intimacy was important in a non sexual way. I think people believe that physical attraction is not important when it is, our worldly view of being of attracted to someone (usually our type) gets in the way of what we can actually find beautiful. She is still very beautiful to him because he allowed God to remove his lustful way of attraction ❤
When I tell you how this video is for me. I was literally crying to my sister a few minutes ago. God is speaking to me , you can’t tell me otherwise.
Same, I was praying, crying and I just scrolled to this😮
What I liked is that even though you guys heard from God concerning marriage, you didn’t just act hastily but rather submitted the union to God knowing that you both had flesh(self) that needed to be delt with. May God bless you both.
I really loved the cover of this UA-cam, it felt like a Hallmark movie cover. This is such a relatable conversations 😅❤. God bless you Ezinne and your husband.
“I has to learn About surrendering my expectations about who I wanted” hit me fr 😭
This video came timely. It's been 3 months now that God has been impressing someone on my heart as my husband. I have been fighting it. The person does not even notice me and to me I thought that if God says someone is for me, it should just happen immediately. I came from the place of prayer still having doubts in my heart but I got a response from God. I would stay with Him, stay in Him and watch Him bring His word to pass. The standards your husband set just sums up mine. Thank you Ezinne..
Feeling lonely is valid but staying with God is better and relieving yourself of every pressure, esp social media
Thank you for sharing this.
Don’t allow your flesh to talk surrender and let go you’ll hear God and if God want him for you that man will find you
"Everything you're looking for is on the other side of your obedience to me" A gem
This same statement, I was told in my dream and I didn't understand...I guess I get it now
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@@evaakuffo6775Glorayyyy
I remember watching one of your videos and you made that statement “everything you’re looking for is on the other side of obedience.” And it has stuck with me ever since.
God knows what is best for you and obedience to him would lead you to that good and perfect will.
Indeed everything we ever want is at the other side of obedience.
I can relate to so many things. You see the way God dealt with you about being self righteous. He did with me. I have a routine and assumption about how to serve and love God. I felt i am closer to God but God showed ne through my husband fhat there is no one way. My husband will not pray as much as i am and he will just say God told him to open this scripture and boom thatys the answer. Your husband is so much like my husband.
May the Lord continually strengthen our walk with Him cos thats what truly matters.
5:03 “I didn’t know like you will go into a tomb first and then come out after three days to give me answer”😭😂😂😂😂… That one took me out 😂😂😂
Thank you so much Ezinne for this particular video❤️❤️… God bless you ❤️
14:47 ❤. I liked the part where you talked about the spiritual aspect- being on different levels spiritually when you started dating. I used to have the mindset that the man should be more 'spiritual' than the lady. I'm in a relationship right now where that is not the case. It can be difficult holding myself back from nagging about where he is with God spiritually. And I see it as self-righteousness a lot of time. Please make a separate video on it👐🏽. Thank you.
I need it as well. I have a wrong mindset about this. My mentor had to correct me but I still need more clarity.
"God in his mercy has ways of communicating with us where we are as long as we are on that journey with him."
This is so freeing
As Christians, courtship is a time where we lay the foundation for our marriage with Christ. Where we learn each other with Christ as he teaches us and allows us to.
This is such a lesson for me, amongst every word that was uttered. Thank you ❤
Each time I watch a video of you and your husband sharing your journey, I am encouraged that Godly marriages exist. That God can bless us with a person even beyond our expectations if we choose to obey Him. I love the honesty of how nobody is perfect, everyone has their flaws pre and pro marriage but it is workable by the help of yielding to the Holy Spirit and understanding of each other. Thank you @Ezinne Zara for yielding and sharing this part of your life. Young people see you and are blessed.
OMG. Just watching the number of likes go up right before my eyes, and remembering that it may not have been like this when you started..just makes me think how faithful God is.
If anyone is wondering, Yes, He does what He promises, always.
❤ You Ezinne btw.
Thank you for this🎉
Honestly 🥺🤍
I know right.
I thought the exact same and I just muttered, "see God!"
I don't think this video was meant for singles and ladies only...Watching this just makes my marriage anniversary in exactly a week time lovely. Thanks Ezinne
I literally wrote something down about how I want to fall in love already and this was the first video I saw when I opened my UA-cam. Thank God and thank you. I’m 18 btw
The fact that Mrs Ezinne and her husband have the same voice...
Like to me, you guys talk the same, the tone, intonation 😊
We don’t hear God because we have decided already on what we want (Him) to do in our hearts. Real!
A major prayer I’ve had for a while now is that He grants me a clean heart. And peace in His Spirit so I can hear above all this noise.
Was feeling this way and came to UA-cam just to take my mind off things and while scrolling the title of this video caught my attention and i will download it so i can come back and always watch this ...i know its timely...God led me to your Channel...heard of ezinne zara but never took it serious to check on your chanel ...but your video popped on, a video of 2 years ago and it was timely i can never forget
Isimeme saying he is so faith-based and doesn’t need a lot of signs to know it’s God is such an accusatory statement confirming what I have been learning all week.
I am grateful he said this because 2Corinthians 5:7 has been a study for the week for me.
I just love how God can use one video to answer the prayers of different people. Thank you so much Ezinne for your obedience to God, you’re helping so many people🫶🏽
I know right.
El Roi! He truly sees me
@tyyy6688 This right here!! You just spoke my mind. Thank you so much @EzinneZara You are a blessing to our generation and the body of Christ❤️❤️
Since morning thay i woke up, ive been so lonely like God i just need a companion to even gist with, hang out with..just call and check up and all those stuff..and then i stmbled on this video. My heart is so heavy .....
You are absolutely not alone ❤️. I've prayed and cried. Nevertheless, I trust his hand and heart. - Ps.84:11, Ps.23:1-2, Ps.31:15
Holding on real tight to his promises.
I understand the loneliness. Just yesterday I screamed out of no where “God I need a husband right now!” But I’m learning the loneliness is a space that ought to be filled with God. If you listen Ezinne got to that place of sufficiency with God where she dared pray that if no one ever came she was satisfied with God and even when he came she was protective of her bond with God and didn’t want distraction. That’s where we ought to get to in our single days. It’s where God can birth purpose in us and give us purpose partners as well. It’s that place we can get to where God can fully take over the driver seat if our lives and lead us to that marital destination we seek.
Sorry it’s long but hope it blessed you. There’s no more loneliness for you
God really made me to discover Your channel when 25 years of my life, I already concluded to my self that Love and marriage might not be for me because throughout my life I have had anxiety about relationships even when people ask me out or try to be close to me I just reject them because of I don’t want to love or be love 😢I can’t even express the feeling!! I just feel scared of rejection and heartbreak But through your videos I’m getting inspired and healing from anxiety and I pray the right person comes my way soon.
I just found this channel today, but I relate deeply to what you shared. Not many in my experience do, but what you described, it's a common trait with fearful avoidant attachment types. It may be good to look into that. Knowing this information, helped me understand why I had been so closed off and anxious towards relationships.
For the longest time, my heart wasn't open to love because of what I saw with my parent's dysfunctional marriage, but God's changed that. He's opened my heart slowly, both through obedience to His call to heal first through therapy as well as to learn what true love is from God himself. I know He wants to show you what love truly is too.
I hope you will find healing and love.
God bless 🙏
@@kristenreidway2790 Amen thank you.
This is so timely, a reminder that i need to trust the journey God is taking me on and to trust him
Yes! ❤
EDIT: I just finished watching, and I'm glad I waited for this video all week. This chat reminds me of how wonderful it is to walk with the Lord.
I'm not married (lol I'm just 20) but I've seen instances of dying to self in a relationship with Jesus (my spiritual husband 😂) It's so painful, but it's worth the pain.
‘God in His mercy has ways of communicating to us where we are, as long as we are on that journey with Him.’
- (Isimeme 2024)
Thank you Ezinne ❤
Thank you Isimeme 🙏
This thing about some of us being more spiritual than the other fellow...
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God is wise.
For some of us ladies, we would really argue or say strive with God, when it seems that the man he has for us is or seems less spiritual.
This one bullet,e for hit me, but thank God I have just learned this.
God help me, Amen.
Thank you for this video, Ezinne.💚
This really lifted my spirit up
Because I’m in a stage of loneliness cutting off relationship that’s not pleasing God
But I know I’m not alone God is with me thank you so much 🥰🥰
Also understanding that in courting is about letting go of too much self, and letting God be the balance between us. In areas where we are on opposite ends of the spectrum, God helps us see from the other perspective and move closer to the middle! He allows us to learn from each other and see God in one another. It certainly takes work! Just because God stamped his approval, doesn’t mean it will automatically work. We have to be willing to work, and it’ll Work if we Work it! Also God allowing him to see your partner as a human being with all their loves, dislikes, flaws and all. I loved every bit of this discussion!
"...chat a bit to the girls..." and God uses this video to speak with me (a man) about the marriage He spoke to me about recently. God bless you
This video is so wholesome, and I really love the perspective on meeting in the middle. God really is the ultimate matchmaker, and I celebrate your union. I learnt a couple of lessons just watching this. Thanks to you and your Husband.
The honesty in this video is everything ❤
Yes
This message came to me at the right time. Funnily enough, we were just discussing this in church forum tonight, and a friend mentioned the point you also brought up. While God said this man is for me, there's still a responsibility on to make things work, and vice versa.
I'm learning to wait and trust God as regards companionships, asking that He would silence the noise in my head, teach me to guard my heart so i can hear and see him more clearly.
That He guides my steps towards Him, and hold on to me that i do not drown in a sea of loneliness... self-imposed loneliness, when all i need do is to first seek Him in all things.
And then there's me
. waiting patiently, shouting God when 😩, the first to scream awwwwwnnn, the best at congratulating others.
Hmmmm
Sighs in surrender.
Help me be obedient Lord
I just started watching this but I love that at least, there is someone who can relate because honestly, it’s easier said than done when “everyone” around you seems to be getting married or in a relationship and there isn’t anyone in sight 😂😂😂. I really receive the grace to wait well and heed to the leadings of the Holy Spirit whilst I do. I believe God will do it for me.
Thank you so much Ezinne and Isi for being vulnerable, relatable and for making people like me feel seen.
Amennnn to the prayer at the end🥰
Am sure when Ezinne wakes up she would be surprised 15k views,ezinne you are literally a daughter of Zion .Proud of you sis
I love the transparency. “My specs were limiting God!” I truly believe that God is so mindful of His children. We must trust God’s will for our lives but we will know when we learn to surrender completely to Him. Thank you for always sharing. God bless you 🙏🏿.
The Holy Spirt talked to me through this video! I appreciate and love you sis! God bless you!❤
I really just want to say, Ezinne, I feel so grateful to God for bringing me to your channel. It's been two years and every video from you has been a great blessing to me.
I thank God for your marriage and I pray the Lord continues to bless you and keep you both. Thank you so much ❤
God in his mercy has ways of communicating to us where we are …
Such a strong statement!
He can communicate with us where we are ..
I love how you guys highlighted how God used your relationship to bring you guys to an equilibrium. So good 💙
😅 When he said you weren't my spec, I shouted ahhhhhhhhh with Ezinne 😅
We all did o😂😂😂. Like, our Ezinne?
I have heard this same phrase too and it feels soo heartbreaking but that person wasn’t my spec as well so that limited the ahhhhs for me😭😂😂 but I really admire their cerebral the way their knowledge and etc… was attractive so the same as Isimi did I had to allow God to help me get rid of ‘my type’ God had made me realize that it was that same ‘my types’ that be breaking my heart tremendously 😅so I had to lean on God for who He wants my type to be. I had prayed that “Lord May Your type for me be my type”❤😊.
If we choose we make choose wrongly but when He chooses He knows the heart of that person 🥰
@@racheldteye You getttttt
@@AngelicaHutchinson1 True! That 'spec' thing can blind one to what God is saying.
God will do it for me ❤️
you're so good at this storytelling thing
First of all, this video dropped at exactly 4pm, thank you so much! I was anticipatingggg.
Also, thank you so much Ezinne. Hearing God’s leading through you is a blessing. I’m awed by God, and how he works, and how he reaches me.
Normally, I love relationship gist, and I enjoyed this video. There were so many things I wouldn’t have guessed about your relationship with your husband! Wow.
Finally, you look so beautiful, and you complement each other so well❤.
This brought me to tears 🥹 God, bring to the surface anything hidden in me 🙌
That prayer from your husband!!!!! 🙏. I love love ❤
I felt this way yesterday and said I was going to pray about it before going to bed tonight. Now, as I opened YT, it's the first video I'm seeing🥹🥹.
I actually have been feeling lonely and really need someone to love and love me aswell, kinda a way I have been hearing :know God More, for some days now, and now, I'm seeing this video 😇😇thank you Ma, God bless you..
This is too real. The dynamics of the single season is one that is so crazy. I'm just grateful that I can hold unto God's promise as it pertains to this aspect of my life as well because it's easier to settle when you have nothing to hold unto. Lord, I surrender even this aspect of my life to you, I trust your plans for me, you're good father and I know that I can trust your choice for me.
Marriage would not work just because "God said", there is still work to be done to make it work.
Thank you, Ezinne for sharing!
This video 100% deserves more likes and views.
I'm seriously trying to hold back tears of joy for you people, you people are so cute and genuine 🥹
What we waited for has come to pass! 😩
Can’t wait to watch thisss. ❤️
😂😂😂
Ezinne is so humble in her speaking🥰
I literally said to myself this morning that it truly pays to obey. Lessons learned. Glad to see this as well. ❤
I decided to give up on love because I feel I can never be loved
I just came to UA-cam to search for a song and I just see this 😢❤
I really needed this Ezinne, this is quite healing🥺.
I love LOVE and I will always be a lover girl, I believe my Father gives good gifts to His children and in His time, He will make my marriage story complete and beautiful.
God bless you for this video and God bless your husband as well❤️. You both have helped boost my faith regarding my future marriage.
These were my exact thoughts a few hours ago and then I came on here because I sensed that I needed to listen to Ezinne Zara. A few hours later I'm here and I understand why God said to come on here
The thumbnail is stunning 🥰
God made👌...Indeed God has given this video wings....What i learnt from this video is that partners would be at end of different spectrum ,but Christ as the balance would bring them to the middle.
God bless you ❤ It was amazing watching and listening to you both on this conversation ❤️
Omg Ezinne the shutting down thing is me! Whenever i face a difficult situation or had an argument i would always shutdown instead of communicating how i felt. I always felt like the other person would not understand.
Ezinnneeee, thank you so much (and to Isimeme too). At a point I became teary, hehe!
I needed this video. I’ve been thinking companionship and marriage these past few days and I’ve longed to know God’s mind on this. I know this is not a coincidence and I’ll pray over what I’ve heard you and your husband share.
May the Lord continue to make you wise.
The thumbnail 🔥💯❤
Welldone Zara❤❤❤
Everything I am looking for is on the other side of Obedience.
Obedience to let it go and turn to engage God
I’m not done with this vlog but I just have to say “Thank you Jesus!” Because the conversation about How courtship was like for you both was really something u needed to hear!
I’m like God, this man that you gave me why isn’t he praying like me or doing this or that, this way and now that Ezinne said it, I really think I was being self righteous because slowly and surely he faded those feelings out and instead I pray for him now instead of complain.
The amazing part for me Ezinne Zara is how you're both so comfortable and easy with your company. There's truth, there's ownership and responsibility, there's love and then there's Jesus, and it makes it wholesome. Thank you for sharing. I also get better why the courtship is important
I really enjoyed the concept of this video. It feels quite new. I like how the focus is on the audio overlay and the video provides a non distracting background. Thank you Ezinne.
Ezinne is indeed a gem on the internet. What a beautifully blessed conversation between you and Isimeme. Just wow, there's so much beauty in what you two shared! Thank you.
I have Gamophobia, this evening anxiety was high on another level 😢, Deep down in thought, holy Spirit dropped in my heart Isaiah 60:22 and 46:4, still pondering on it , Ezinne Zara was dropped in my heart, I searched and this is the first video that popped up and this is a confirmation that he cares for me and am blessed in this session.
I will marry once and I will marry right.
God bless you Ezinne Zara. lots of ❤❤❤❤
Thank you Ezinna Zara for allowing God use you.❤
Your husband speaks volumes... And for this, you're getting me back as a subbie
I asked God for a sign and the next day, I this video was uploaded, the title being the exact words I used in prayer. God is so good!
I've been watching how God wrote our love story videos but this was most nourishing. I love that you said you're going to keep talking about love and relationships because it is not less spiritual than the other aspects of life. Thank you for sharing!
I’m hurting deeply right now, everyone around me is dating or married or doesn’t have issues finding a partner. I’m struggling with feelings of rejection. I feel lonely and I just really need someone to pray for me 😪🙏🏾
It's well with you,in his time he will perfect his will
I love the way you creatively share your messages. May you continue in more Grace in Jesus name 🙏🏾
This is really timely ❤❤
I will get it right in marriage 🙏🙏
Amenn
Ezinne and isimeme.
One of my favorite couple.❤
This video was needed, thank you so much guys. May God bless you both. In Jesus name. Amen.
As someone who would maladaptive daydream about marriage and what my marriage would be and look like, this video was so refreshing to watch and hear which helped me alter my perspective about marriage. Thank you Holy Spirit for that. God bless you both again and may the Holy Spirit help you guys with your future endeavors and goals along with making your marriage even more fruitful. In Jesus name. Amen.
This thumbnail is so beautiful.
I loved it
I live in the U.S and the Ezinne got me coz I’m Nigerian.
God bless yall ❤
I love when your husband said God in his mercy! His mercy is not really emphasized in relationship talk ,God mercy too helps in our relationship matters.
Everything you are looking for is on the other side of your obedience to me---God❤❤❤
Love love love Mr Isi’s perspective (to hearing from God prior to building intimacy).
The fact that it’s different from yours 😄, the fact that I sort of relate more to it.
The idea of, Lord I know this is what I want but I trust it to you *while* pursuing relationship with you. While I’m on the journey with you…trusting that everything will fall into place. Awesome stuff.
As usual I’m going to watch this video again 😓😂, I watch every video at least twice at this point.
Thank you ❤️
‘Lol, momentary distraction’😂
Too cute
Thank you for this video
Haven't watched yet but the title alone tells me this video is for me. Thank you in advance
Oya watchhhhh (to the end) 🫢