Giving you boys trips, famous neighbors, and online dating | Episode 55 | Give It To Me Straight
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
- Would you go on a boys trip while your wife is 7 months pregnant? Jon wouldn’t even think about it. In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss boys trips, Facebook dating, and their famous neighbor back in LA. Was it Selena Gomez? The Weeknd? Jared from Subway? The possibilities are endless.
0:00 - Intro
19:28 - Famous Neighbor
22:28 - Facebook Dating
24:45 - My Husband Hates How I Dress
29:38 - Hidden Box of Lingerie
35: 20 - My Husband Doesn’t Want Me To Go Out
37:42 - I’m Not Your Full-Time Babysitter!
44:20 - Boys Trips
48:51 - My Husband Has Feelings for Someone Else
54:29 - Dealing With Insecurity
1:00:04 - I Don’t Want Another Kid
1:04:25 - Reading Your Secrets
1:05:28 - Listener Review
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The older I’m getting, the more relatable I feel to grumpy ass Jon 😂
We need an “updates” episode on all the questions you asked for updates on.
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This!!
Yess!
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Lol the questions this week are Alex and Jon just yelling at the audience I love it 😂 love you guys!
Not one of the people who like being pregnant whatsoever, but with 27 days left I had this fleeting thought of aww its almost over, then i looked at my kankles and got over it cant wait to have my body back. Mentally pregnancy is rough youre not alone, you got this!
I had a completely “normal” pregnancy and I hated it. I had food aversions, horrible heartburn, I couldn’t control my emotions and was miserable the entire time. It actually made me enjoy the newborn phase more.
I’m with you. I’m so grateful for my children but I was not one of those women who loved being pregnant. I hated it. Felt nauseous, gained weight everywhere, exhausted, all the things. I hate giving blood and surgeries and I had to have c-sections! lol. Thank goodness my anxiety came later in life. lol. I don’t know how I did it back then.
Wear your helmet, mate
Watching the new podcast is becoming my Tuesday morning routine 👏
Love to hear it :)
So sorry you are having a tough pregnancy Alex. Sending you a lot of love ♡@giveittomestraight
Bro, this guy told his pregnant wife he has feelings for another girl 😂😂😂
Dumb head LOL
…… me realizing its a bicycle and not a motorcycle LMFAOOOOOOO
John, 2 videos ago…we’re never moving again, I hate moving.
John, right now… we have until our kid starts to walk to move to a diff neighborhood 🤣
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I love how the bandaids have become an inside joke😅 thank you for uploading ☺️
I had my baby last year so I completely understand what Alex means about having a foot in her ribs! The craziest thing was when I was at work and the baby is going crazy but I have to act normal and be professional haha pregnancy is so weird 😂😂😂
I just wanna give you a hug, Alex! You brought tears into my eyes when you talked about your pregnancy ... I am having a normal pregnancy and still can relate soooo much that it's NOT an easy journey! Be kind to yourself, you are doing fantastic! Sending you all the positive vibes and loads of love from Dublin! You got this girl!
"You don't get to fist pump till 2am." I'm dyingggggg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Just wear that helmet 🪖 John . Alex you look even more prettier 😍 and I loved the plastic chair talking 🤣
Everything will be ok.. ive had two very difficult and stressful pregnancies. Placenta previa, preeclampsia, high blood pressure, anxiety you name it i had it. Just stay strong make it through the hard times and it will all be worth it. Wishing you a stress free, healthy pregnancy. 💙
I would love to see you guys building the chairs 😂
Jon's eye roll at 49:06 is CLASSIC
I was the MOST depressed in my whole life during pregnancy, also cuz I was puking non stop for 9 months. But I’ll say this, the birth was easier that the whole pregnancy and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been now. You got this mama!
Alex you would never know you’re having a rough emotional pregnancy, you look great!!🩷 Also, another great podcast you guys!! yall always have me laughing my ass off!🤣🤣
Jon's sentiments at 50:01 are so true.
I agree with the neighbor thing with Alex. We have a nice neighbor and ita nice to tell them when we are going away, etc. We aren't best friend they're in their 60s but I'm 27 and have 3 kids and he takes our kids for rides on his lawn mower and it's nice to know you have good neighbors
In our neighborhood, we will always text each other when our dogs have escaped! We have quite a few escape artists and at least once a week we gotta text each other.
Also, our kids are always playing outside together. Our neighbors are great, we hang out every once in a while and we still have our privacy. Of course my own kids are only 3 and 1 so they don’t have friends other than themselves but its nice to have the other kids include them in their play and our neighbors looking out for each other.
Regarding the controlling dude about going out. Healthy Boundaries don’t control the other persons behaviors. They are about how the person setting the boundary will act if a boundary is crossed. And yeah break up with him
I'm with Jon on the neighborhood thing..... don't just show up ill be pissed LOL
I am really sorry you guys are going through it with your pregnancy. I feel like I caught on with your worries just a little. 😢 praying for both you and Jon!!! You have a great husband and you’re such a great wife from what I see on the other side of the screen. So your baby is already so lucky. Stay strong! ❤
P.s I Love y’all’s podcast!!!
Thank you so much!!
I’m with Jon, crocs and no helmet LOL that definitely is cruise attire . We got to train our kids to be tough! Lol 😆 coming from a mom of 4 boys! You fall , you get back up and keep going :)
Tuesdays are now my favorite day of the week ngl
Dr. Sterling is a great advocate and resource for all pregnancies but especially difficult ones
Riding your bike with crocs and no helmet is what I always do HAHAHA I haven't worn a bike helmet since I was like 6
My husband John and I just had our first child (we also met on tinder). My husband is basically the same as your John.Pregnancy is an experience for sure! Hang in there guys, the baby arrival is a dream! Also just discovered your podcast and I’ve never been happier!!
Alex, you are not alone. Pregnancy can be a very lonely time because no one shares the bad, specially as you say, you expect everything to go “as usual” and that doesn’t happen. Just know that in the end it will all be worth it. Praying for your health and your baby’s.
Okay so I had a best friend break up and just to add to it she was my cousin. It is uncomfortable but I was even more uncomfortable continuing to be her friend. My philosophy is that I would not want to hang out with someone who didn’t want to hang out with me. So in my opinion it is actually the kind thing to do even if it seems harsh in my moment. For what to say I will tell you how it went.
(Go to a quiet yet public place to avoid yelling, text them and say you want to go for coffee and you want to talk to her about something)
Me: hey. So this is something I need to say but I just think that we have drifted a part enough that I don’t think being friends makes sense anymore.
Her: uhh, what, why, how are we different?
Me: (give examples how you two in particular are different. Emphasize only how YOU are different not how she is different. For example I stopped drinking, overeating, live out of town now, don’t align politically with you, I don’t like hanging out with people that get too high, and have different priorities about friendship)
Now is she does agree there is not much you can do about that.
Me: I thought it would be more kind to tell you how I feel. I wouldn’t want to hang out with someone who felt this way about me. I am sorry it is this way but people change and that’s okay. I honestly wish you the best Abe only want food things for you and I don’t think I am that for you anymore.
(You absolutely need to stay as calm as you can no matter how she acts, if she insults you, don’t take it personally, if she calls you ugly, don’t engage in that discourse. You just rejected someone and a lot of person get confrontational and defensive because they feel less than, they are not less than, it is not your problem it there’s. If she gets out of control you need to not say ANYTHING and just walk away, because you can, you went to the coffee place separately and you are allowed to leave if she becomes too angry. Let this conversation short. If she keeps asking the same questions give exactly the same answers.)
I hope this helps!
Sending love to all 3 of you 🩷 I had a pretty scary pregnancy, too, so I know how isolating it can feel 🩷 some of my joy and excitement was taken away for basically the last half of my pregnancy, but I promise you it will make you love your newborn phase that much more 🩷 had my sweet girl in March and God is a miracle worker. I don’t know if you’re religious, but turning to Him was what got me and my family through it all 🩷 you never know how hard it is to get that kind of news until you do. Praying for you 🩷don’t let this steal your joy mama 🩷 find excitement in the little things. Every little kick is little man telling you he loves you 🩷
The worn ride! That’s the only thing I was so confused about after watching Dune
Alex, you look so beautiful! How is your hair always so shiny do you do hair treatments or is it so magical product?
That husband knew the friend booked the ticket!!!! He wanted to go and blamed his friend and then went. No way a friend bought a $5k ticket without some conversation
Omfg all guys have a scent down there lmao I would be able to pick mine out of a line up 😂🤣 it’s not a bad smell either it’s just “his scent” 😂 32:41
First- I am sorry you are going through it with the pregnancy. My mom had a high risk and had to be on bed rest for most of the entire pregnancy and she says I was totally worth it😅 I’ll be praying for you both and for a healthy pregnancy/delivery
Second - wear a helmet. My bothers friend died riding his bike because he fell and hit his head. WEAR THE HELMET.
It's fine Jon.. I drive my bike around without a helmet too!
Note to self ✍🏽. Don’t write to this show for advice, EVER. 😩
Pregnancy wasnt fun for me either. It was so much better when my baby was here! Hang in there ❤
LOL my mom uses Facebook dating 🤣
if a man is telling his wife at any point he has a little bit of feelings for another woman, he 100% is in love with her.
I live across the street from a Cookout and it’s a problem 😅 mint m&m shake for me please 🙋🏼♀️
So who is the famous neighbour musician? 😂 Jon’s impression was hilarious
Life is so different these days. When I was a kid in the 80’s/90’s, we would be playing outside all day and would come home when the streetlights came on. We had a couple older neighbors who would invite us in for cookies, ice cream, etc…Now days this is very unlikely to happen.
19:59 Chet Hanks? lol idk
Yes the comparison game when it comes to pregnancy was killer. I had my first baby via IVF and man the whole process was so hard and pregnancy was even harder. Non stop vomiting the whole pregnancy and crazy acid reflux and fat. Hated it!
Early again 🤪 also why does everything happen to Jon? The glitter ball story took me out
LOL JACKED JON
When I was 13, I would babysit for this family that had all boys and they were really rude. One night they said they’d be home by 9 PM and they didn’t come back till 3AM. They had no home phone and I didn’t have a cell phone because I was 13!! so I just sat by their front window, bawling my eyes out thinking they were 💀 until I fell asleep. When they got home, they acted like they did nothing wrong and looked surprised that I had obviously been crying. My parents weren’t even mad either so I felt like the crazy one.
And if you are Mexican its a
Carne asada - even if we have burgers & hot dogs or ribs. Its still a carne asada
Definitely need an update on the lingerie story. I was thinking the same about the man....likes to wear it. Wonder if they are his size.😊
Has she said what they are concerned with regarding baby? They keep mentioning it though. Prayers for you both!
Safety First!! Wear your helmet! I’m an MRI tech, you don’t want a Traumatic Brain Injury John. 😊
LOL I was wondering who the famous neighbor also
My guess is Jaiden Smith 😂
Did you guys go to NC State? Go Pack!
2 years old is the time I felt comfortable enough to *really* take my daughter out to do fun kid stuff. You have time to hide in your cave w baby! Maybe just grocery shop or go to family/friend visits or events 😂❤❤
Did I miss the update as to why this pregnancy is at higher risk? I saw the episode where they first talked about it but said they'd talk about it when they were ready.... and I have seen every episode since then and haven't heard the real update. am I missing something?
Babysitters are expensive 20$+ ph per child, it sounds like they want to party 😂
Safety first 🚴
For all my 4 boys I had feet/hands in my rib cage and one was even kicking my back to give me spasms 😵💫 34:48
Me, laughing at the Europe trip question, bc my husband will 100% be deployed while I’m pregnant 😕
I hated being pregnant. I was a walking air bnb. Not my thing. I live my son dearly but it wasn’t for me lol you’re doing great sweetie 😂
Alex plz. You actually look 10 years younger. Girl you are totally glowing and beautiful.
Hey Alex put a cold soda can on your belly when your son kicks you lol he will move his foot
John, as someone who very frequently rides my bike I ALWAYS have my friends who join me for a ride to wear the helmet.... I had one guy who went against my advice even mocking me for wearing one and he fell at very low speeds and he opened his head. Not worth it to look cool...
2 and 4 are both TOUGH ages, there's regressions and they tagteam the bad behavior 😅
The problem is the parents. You say you're gonna be back at a certain time, be back at that time, or communicate that you're running late. Or better yet, plan for the extra time and be back sooner!
I had a friend who used to do the same babysitting thing and it’s people like that who don’t understand boundaries that you just have to cut it out cold turkey and eventually they get the hint… they don’t respect your time and they aren’t grateful for you watching the kids and they will keep doing it so my advice is to just not ever watch them again
People just aren’t honest about how hard pregnancy is but part of it is because we completely forget how hard it was after we give birth… it’s a literal thing that happens to make us forget so that we will have multiple kids 😅😅 and then we only remember the good parts and then we get pregnant again and have to find out again that it is really hard … they say being pregnant is like daily running a marathon so don’t feel bad for not enjoying it many of us don’t and that’s ok!
I love my baby, but my pregnancy and delivery was not ideal. I hated being pregnant lol but I wouldn’t change it for the world!
I live in Holland and I got really offended but then I thought yeah actually, Italy is much better indeed.
ALSO we don't wear helmets on our bikes over here so sorry Alex. John, don't be a p*ssy and ride your bike however you like.
My pregnancy was not enjoyable at all, I was miserable my whole pregnancy and never understood women that say they love being pregnant, love my kids, hated the process.
Lol the worm riding is a right of passage, everyone who is Freman goes through it. Lol you are reading into it too much.
Go wolfpack🐺🤘🏼
Hey Jon, wear your helmet.
My heart hurts for you. Hope time passes faster and you arrive to where you need to be.
@John you should watch the story of Kristin Johns who was riding a bike with her husband on their neighborhood and someone run into them with their car while trying to flee from the police. Their helmet saved them. No joke. Video is in UA-cam.
Alex gave no fucks in her responses this week 😂
First thing, Jon you need a helmet! you might be being safe but it's the drivers and other people around you. Also I hate when family just expects family to watch their kids all the time, my husband and I tried to start a family for almost 15 years and people just thought oh you love all kids...here take mine 🤦♀️Our daughter is almost 2 and I never expect anyone to babysit her.
I felt bamboozled by pregnancy. Even my Mom told me she loved it and would have had 13 kids if she hadn't got her tubes tied. It was all lies. I was nauseous 2/3 of mine. You're uncomfortable, don't fit in your clothes, have food aversions.... Not to mention the constant unsolicited advice and people touching you without asking. The entire thing was miserable for me. I feel as though the people that say it's *magical* are lying. Good going for keeping it reel for people! I also felt the same way about breastfeeding. It's not natural and super easy. On the plus side, you do look absolutely amazing, even if you feel like garbage!
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Okay famous bass players.... go
My guess is Enrique Iglesias or Jake Bonjovi
Let’s figure this out together. I said Chet Hanks. lol idk. For some reason that was the first thing that came to my head.
When he said it was his dad who got him into the music industry I automatically thought of will smith. So maybe Jaden??
@@CarissaJ0Y maybe?? I was trying to think of someone who would act rude and like they were better than others to neighbors. I don’t know much about Chet Hanks but he gives me that vibe for some reason although maybe he’s the nicest person ever. I think Jaden would be at least courteous.
Maybe just share it all… just an idea. If you feel isolated by what’s happening maybe it would be helpful to share on ig. I think more people than you realize struggle and have scary pregnancies. Maybe other people would comment on their difficulties and it may help you feel less alone.
Oh yeah, medically speaking if you can feel a foot kicking on your ribcage it just means they're trying to escape, totally normal.
lol honestly if you think your dude is ugly and hate is clothes it really won’t work out 🤣 like wtf hahaha i’m sorry but it’s true
my friends uncle was on a skate board without a helmet and as he was riding it hit the lip of uneven concrete, he fell off hit his head and died later that same day. head injuries are so serious. please wear a helmet.
Wear the helmet when you leave and then ditch it in the bushes
I am a cyclist and I firmly believe it should be my choice to wear a helmet or not. Also I don't want to be kept alive if I was stuck in a hospital state, a vegetable state. "If he die he dies," Rocky the movie.
On Alex’s side, wear your helmet
The woman with the husband who's got feelings for another woman needs to wake up. She's already lost him, the feelings have been there, he was in fact having an emotional affair and it seems likely that he will go ahead with a physical one if she showed interest. She needs to leave him, he threw away their 12 years together, not her.
You’re about to be a dad please wear a helmet. ❤
Wear a helmet! 😂 11:03
Bully Jon into being safe!
The 'I'm not your FT babysitter' question...of course it's nobody else job to watch or raise YOUR kids, however these are his sister's kids? Why can't he say, 'hey, you can't keep staying out later than you're telling us, we have shit to do in the morning so either you stick to the plan or we can't watch them at night anymore.' Also, the fact that we are saying that a 2&4 year old are 'bad' or not good, however it was worded...WTF? They are 2&4, you are the adult in the situation, take some control. Last, again not anyone else's job to raise or watch your kids, but it's also not his sister's job to make sure he has any sort of relationship with his niece/nephew...that would be on him, and things like spending time with them will make a difference in the long run. If he cares about that at all hopefully he's trying to be in their lives in other ways.
Common sense isn't very common
Unfortunately, that's just what happens when we get pregnant older. And she's only 31... It's just female biology. Unfortunately.
Dune 2 - the most brain numbing 3 hours of my life, what a pointless story and waste or time - ergghhhh
John I actually lived in a tiny town and someone very close to me died on their motorcycle. Please wear a helmet and proper clothing. It may save your life 🫶
Unfortunately, that's just what happens when we get pregnant older. And she's only 31... It's just female biology. Unfortunately.