Giving you pole dancing, driving high, and stalking your ex | Episode 48 | Give It To Me Straight

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  • Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
  • Would you call the cops on your own sister? Alex would. In this week’s episode, Alex and Jon discuss driving while high, pole dancing, and stalking your ex. Jon hasn’t stalked his ex in years but Alex just stalked hers last week. Don’t lie, we all want to see if we’re doing better than our exes! Safe to say, Alex and Jon have nothing to worry about.
    0:00 - Intro
    9:45 - We’re Growing Apart
    11:48 - Balancing School and Life
    14:10 - Say High to a DUI
    17:37 - Should We Move In Together?
    20:56 - New State, Same Business?
    25:50 - I Want Support For My Pole Dancing
    30:19 - Afraid of the Dark…Circles
    35:07 - Boundaries At Work
    39:15 - My BF Left Me In The Hospital
    46:26 - He’s Stalking His Ex
    52:48 - Reading Your Secrets
    55:54 - What Are You Over?
    58:26 - Listener Review
    Visit our website www.giveittomestraightpodcast.com
    Visit our other website www.alexjon.com
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  • @lindseypope6604
    @lindseypope6604 3 місяці тому +38

    i love how more and more bandaids are getting added to the laptop 🤣

  • @kristieeee.13
    @kristieeee.13 3 місяці тому +80

    I will never unfollow! It’s not about the content, it’s your dynamic and genuine energy that makes this podcast awesome.

  • @80sbrunnette
    @80sbrunnette 3 місяці тому +33

    Who cares what other people say! I’m not married, not engaged with no kids and I’ll still watch you! You guys are the only couple that can make laugh out loud 😂

  • @lannie.litfic
    @lannie.litfic 3 місяці тому +40

    Alex is seeming extra… pleasant and patient…. These episodes 😂😂😂 prayers to Jon, may you tread carefully.

  • @andre182t
    @andre182t 3 місяці тому +25

    Alex’s hair looks amazing!! She is so freaking beautiful

  • @2009lafs
    @2009lafs 3 місяці тому +17

    Definitely feel like the bandaids are a way for you to track the amount of podcasts y’all did to fill the gap of y’all’s move 😂

  • @a.ryanne
    @a.ryanne 3 місяці тому +25

    I’m curious to see how many bandaids you’ll put on your laptop. Like those 100 layer challenges but it ends up building up until it looks like a pimple.

  • @momma_alex
    @momma_alex 3 місяці тому +5

    I’m dying at the added bandaid on the computer every episode 🤣

  • @aleksandravalchanova5797
    @aleksandravalchanova5797 3 місяці тому

    I am so loving you guys infinite stars

  • @starburstperez624
    @starburstperez624 3 місяці тому +1

    Idk how you guys don’t have more subscribers!! I love this podcast so much 🥹❤️

  • @AdriZ125
    @AdriZ125 2 місяці тому

    I love you guys!!! You’re a great couple! I can see the connection & you guys inspire me!!

  • @SyreLikeAFire
    @SyreLikeAFire 3 місяці тому +5

    46:20-46:29 were the best 9 seconds of this podcast

  • @emmakatemiddleton
    @emmakatemiddleton 3 місяці тому +2

    I was so excited to hear you 2 are pregnant! I’m 12 weeks pregnant today (with my first🥰 too) and even if I wasn’t pregnant, I wouldn’t even think to unfollow your UA-cam channel or Instagram. I love your guys’ content! Here for the long haul🙌🏽

  • @t.eagann_
    @t.eagann_ 3 місяці тому

    will forever be me and my fiancés favorite podcast!! much love from Richmond, Va!!

  • @kaelyntrevisani4824
    @kaelyntrevisani4824 3 місяці тому

    Im here for the journey! 😊

  • @HallieAllen-vo6mb
    @HallieAllen-vo6mb 3 місяці тому +2

    Jon and Alex remind me so much of me and my boyfriend😂 best friend dynamic, it’s top tier

  • @madeleineloup
    @madeleineloup 3 місяці тому

    Jon omg 🤣 "Dancing in the window blinds", "an areola"
    Another awesome episode!

  • @ninamendez712
    @ninamendez712 3 місяці тому

    😂 love you guys! ❤️ So excited for your new journey 😁 fuck what everyone else thinks, yawl keep doing yawl❤

  • @jguzman9782
    @jguzman9782 3 місяці тому +1

    Alex is glowing 🥰 and Jon seems different in a good way

  • @danielle7729
    @danielle7729 3 місяці тому +1

    Worrying about what can happen is so normal and I still do it with kids ages 6-16 but it has definitely gone down in intensity

  • @lannie.litfic
    @lannie.litfic 3 місяці тому +3

    I know a couple who has been married 15+ years (second marriages for both) and they both kept their individual houses and just stay with each other and see each other when they want. They are devoted to each other and it’s not like an “open relationship” or cheating spouse situation, they are loyal to each other just want to stay separate.

  • @torimull4079
    @torimull4079 2 місяці тому

    I agree with you Alex on your pregnancy anxiety! I constantly worry if my baby is okay and I see sad stories just show up on my fyp and my fiancé tells me to stop going on social media but I do still enjoy it as a distraction until I find something sad… I have accepted that anxiety is a part of life and to just enjoy every day we have!

  • @tobywagschal
    @tobywagschal 3 місяці тому

    Love this podcast ❤❤❤

  • @AmbrrEvans
    @AmbrrEvans 2 місяці тому

    You guys are amazing! I love Alex perspective and even John lol he’s more cut throat.. Alex is always devils advocate… just trying to see the others POV I love that! So excited for you two to have a baby! They will be adorable and perfect 🥰 I also love Alex accent! Definitely gives New York/jersey 🧡

  • @emmabair8915
    @emmabair8915 3 місяці тому

    Alex youre GLOWING

  • @aveenhussein8059
    @aveenhussein8059 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi congrats, love this pod

  • @nburton93
    @nburton93 3 місяці тому

    I bartend in Winchester and we’re currently getting ready for Apple Blossom! Its crazy hearing you talk about it lol anyway, love you guys and your banter, I look forward to listening every week! 😊

  • @alejandracontreras446
    @alejandracontreras446 3 місяці тому +5

    Alex I am with Jon no horseback riding... especially prego. Though my grandma that grew up in the country had twins and she was still riding. ...but playing safe.

  • @oh_my_kesh
    @oh_my_kesh 3 місяці тому +6

    My husband and I also swear like sailors, people are always asking us what we're going to do when we have kids one day too 😂 I also wonder if we make other people uncomfortable but also, this is how we speak so f*ck those guys! We have MANY nieces and nephews and are actually very good around them and somehow automatically don't swear around them, it's like a switch! 🤬

  • @lianailyuk721
    @lianailyuk721 3 місяці тому +1

    For the 21 year old mama:
    Hi love! I finished school with two kids under two and am currently a SAHM. I started going for my nursing degree, but because I unexpectedly got pregnant and didn't have enough support to finish the nursing degree, I ultimately went with medical coding (which is a certificate, but still, very rigorous as I had to take 4 classes every semester for two years).
    Get your education while you can! It will be EXTREMELY hard but IMO, well worth it. My husband and I agreed that it would be better if I had some sort of degree/certificate to fall back on, just in case, which is why I continued to pursue an education, even though my husband makes more than enough to sustain us at home.
    I don't regret furthering my education. You will be able to provide a much better life for your children with that extra education!
    I hope you have all the support you need to get through this tough season of life! ❤

  • @taylormelone
    @taylormelone 3 місяці тому +2

    When Jon asks questions about the questions that weren't even addressed hahahaha do they have HR??

  • @alexmejia1028
    @alexmejia1028 3 місяці тому

    Two things:
    Thank you for answering the question about grad school because I myself am in grad school and feel bad because my son is 4. I know I’ll have more time soon but it’s still sad…
    Secondly, I’m doing clinic in a hospital and see people constantly in the ER due to DUI’s. Definitely call the cops👌🏽

    • @giveittomestraight
      @giveittomestraight  3 місяці тому

      You are trying to make a better future for your family, there’s light at the end of tunnel!

  • @Carmendot2
    @Carmendot2 3 місяці тому +2

    15:03 it’s not ok legally or morally, but I have drank and I have smoked and smoking does not impact me like drinking does. I’ve never drank and drove but I have smoked and drove. Also there are legal limits for drinking but not smoking, so it gets confusing

  • @celestegowin2871
    @celestegowin2871 3 місяці тому +3

    Why are there more band-Aids every time 😂

  • @larac.8797
    @larac.8797 3 місяці тому +2

    Lol Jimmie Johns was my go to for all 3 pregnancies 😂 like absolutely craved it.
    Also had to clean litter boxes cause i have cats ans who else was going to do it.
    Eat the subs, your eggs well done and meats cooked.
    My OB even was like just get toasted if you have to eat them.

    • @RedBunni1024
      @RedBunni1024 3 місяці тому

      Yep, you can just microwave the lunch meat a few seconds to kill the potential bacteria. I worked with a girl who did that and she said it was fine. I would verify but seems legit.

  • @nadiafox777
    @nadiafox777 3 місяці тому

    Jon saying STFU is gonna be my ringtone

  • @Jillian-jq7ys
    @Jillian-jq7ys 3 місяці тому +1

    if my boyfriend of EIGHT years EVER EVER EVER considered leaving me in the hospital.... id be in prison. (also why wasnt she invited to the family trip?)

  • @draydray96
    @draydray96 3 місяці тому

    In regards to the story about the sister who drives high, I’m with Alex, call them in. My husband had to call in one of our family members for drunk driving last year when they kept getting behind the wheel drunk & and even got behind us. They lost their license for awhile after they got caught by the police and had to pay a bunch of money and take some tests to get it back. Now they drive with restrictions from my knowledge. This person drove drunk so often so this last time they did it we finally called them in. Sometimes people will never learn until something serious happens sadly. It will damage your relationship…. But people can’t keep putting others in danger for their own selfish reasons.

  • @monicazolczynski6694
    @monicazolczynski6694 3 місяці тому

    To the person wondering if they should quit their job bc of their boss QUIT. Or anyone else about to have a baby. The main reason is you will never get those early weeks, months, years with your babies back. It’s such an important time. I had my first baby in December and have spent every day with my baby and husband. I can’t fathom going back to work. I’m so sad for the moms and babies that spend so much time apart so early. Stay at home, you have your whole life to work, go to school, ect. You will not regret it.

  • @seashellls
    @seashellls 3 місяці тому +1

    Jon’s horseback riding story had me crying 😭😭😭

  • @katherinecox8834
    @katherinecox8834 3 місяці тому

    John and I are on the same page about off leash dogs 😂

  • @ninamendez712
    @ninamendez712 3 місяці тому

    😂Yes take the dog! I tell my husband all the time, it drives me crazy when people walk their dogs without a leash... And yes high or drunk she doesn't need to be driving... I always offer to drive if someone is under the influence of anything, they deserve to get trouble...

  • @Ambermae001
    @Ambermae001 3 місяці тому

    I had a great aunt who remarried and they lived next to each other. They were happily married until he passed

  • @Christopher012
    @Christopher012 3 місяці тому

    Do you tip based off how the server is or just because ?

  • @kristinahartley4367
    @kristinahartley4367 Місяць тому

    How do you not know Dan Aykroyd. Ghostbusters for one…

  • @natalijanikolic268
    @natalijanikolic268 3 місяці тому

    Which laptop do you have? M2?

  • @lilyvenegas7144
    @lilyvenegas7144 3 місяці тому +1

    I wonder if Alex is projecting her fear of their new chapter 🥲 You don’t need to relate to people in order to follow/like them. I like your content because of YOU GUYS. Excited for the new content!

  • @tylerbendzick
    @tylerbendzick 3 місяці тому

    What's up with the bandaids on the computer? 😂

  • @cassandralaur2234
    @cassandralaur2234 3 місяці тому

    The pregnancy anxiety is real 😅

  • @aliviaparadies1857
    @aliviaparadies1857 3 місяці тому

    Jon don’t stretch a cold muscle! Do a warm up before stretching- cold muscles are more easily torn. Hope your old back heals soon🥲

  • @EPEPEP666
    @EPEPEP666 3 місяці тому

    FYI, pregnant women in Japan go to ryokans and soak in onsens! A lot of our pregnancy guidelines are unique to the US.

  • @MarleneMendoza-fk5pp
    @MarleneMendoza-fk5pp 3 місяці тому

    It is SUPER hard to limit the cussing 😂

  • @tgrumpy
    @tgrumpy 3 місяці тому

    My car might be totalled because of a high dude, under the influence is under the influence.

  • @kirstenkrieger1937
    @kirstenkrieger1937 3 місяці тому +1

    More bandaids?

  • @theonewithmyrascookin
    @theonewithmyrascookin 3 місяці тому

    why the bandages on the laptop?? did I miss the story behind these ???

    • @shortie.2380
      @shortie.2380 3 місяці тому

      I think it was because there was a dent in the laptop and someone commented that they were distracted by it, so the following episode a bandaid appeared. Not 100% sure but I think it’s what started it.😅

  • @LNGops
    @LNGops 3 місяці тому

    We have a bunch of kids, enough to be pros.. kid 1- my wife was like that, scrolling all of the worst things, doing everything every book said…. Fast forward to the latest kid. Let’s just say she’s not worried in the slightest, still no hot tubs but, she doesn’t think twice about food

  • @victoriastrub6539
    @victoriastrub6539 3 місяці тому

    There's no way my husband would go anywhere if I was in the hospital regardless if I told him to go and that I was okay. He wouldn't be okay enough to go because he'd be too worried regardless. I think that goes beyond maturity after 8 years together.

  • @victoria.alexandra
    @victoria.alexandra 3 місяці тому

    I’d say get in the car with her while she’s driving high, if she’s driving crazy and unsafe, then yeah maybe call the cops if she’s not going to stop.
    If she’s perfectly fine and being a safe driver then let it be. States made it illegal but obviously they’re not gonna say “only illegal for the people it effects negatively” because it does effect people positively, but there is a limit to driving under the influence. how much alcohol in is your system/ how much you smoked or mg you consumed.
    TBH I’m a much better driver after smoking a little than I am sober 😅 just my opinion 🫶🏼

  • @mysteriousgreen9238
    @mysteriousgreen9238 3 місяці тому

    Where’s Goo?

  • @fitwithmariah
    @fitwithmariah 3 місяці тому

    Alex THE BANDAIDS HAHAHAH

  • @delagonz4295
    @delagonz4295 3 місяці тому

    I’m married 10 years 2 kids… separate rooms and baths aka heaven

  • @christineyoung78
    @christineyoung78 3 місяці тому

    The girl dating the guy that left her when she was hospitalized, end it he’s not the one.

  • @nclari1
    @nclari1 3 місяці тому

    Oh you are definitely having a girl 💕 because when people have boys they are repulsed by their husband's, don't ask me the science but that's just what I have noticed 😄

    • @RugsandRae
      @RugsandRae 3 місяці тому

      I'm pregnant and having a boy but for me I want my husband MORE. Haha.

  • @christineyoung78
    @christineyoung78 3 місяці тому

    Do some bird dogs and go get a massage

  • @Justine-jp4fq
    @Justine-jp4fq 3 місяці тому +7

    Drive on weed is 100% different then driving drunk. I can't black out behind the wheel from smoking weed and if someone is falling asleep on weed they shouldn't be smoking or they aren't just smoking weed.

  • @bonnieolson80
    @bonnieolson80 3 місяці тому

    I would predict that your new baby will consume your life.❤️

  • @ToppFic88
    @ToppFic88 3 місяці тому

    Hippo therapy?

  • @user-gr9lx5zi2v
    @user-gr9lx5zi2v 2 місяці тому

    Driving high is not the same as driving drunk lmfao 😂 tell me you’re not a chronic smoker without telling me.

  • @dianagurrola8342
    @dianagurrola8342 3 місяці тому

    Oppenheimer is boring 🥱 totally not worth all the Oscars.

  • @dianagurrola8342
    @dianagurrola8342 3 місяці тому

    I need to know why the laptop keeps getting more and more bandaids? 🩹