The Biggest Mistakes People Make About Self-Love & How To Love Yourself The Right Way🤍

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  • Опубліковано 27 лис 2024

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  • @lagomholly
    @lagomholly  Місяць тому +5

    It wouldn't be a LagomHolly video without a good analogy! 😆
    What's one thing from your list? 🤍

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 Місяць тому +4

    Truthfully Holly, the love that you give to us , your viewers in your community, is transformational and makes a difference. Your smallest acts make a thousand ripples and the world is a better place.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much!🥹 Really appreciate your support with all my videos and for sharing your many words of wisdom with us too☺️✨

  • @Shashwat_1729
    @Shashwat_1729 27 днів тому +1

    I love myself for my simplicity, kindness and light humour.
    I wish this channel grows and there are millions of Holly all around the globe. ❤

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  26 днів тому

      I love that thank you for sharing!💛 Truly admirable traits indeed☺️ Thank you for your kind words and support too! Means a lot✨

  • @MayaHendsenmayajs19442
    @MayaHendsenmayajs19442 Місяць тому +4

    I absolutely love this channel. I am currently trying to get a sense of calm and balance in my life and your videos are helping a lot. Thank you sincerely ❤

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much!☺️ So pleased this has been helpful and these thoughts resonate with you too💛

  • @lorenzocreation3262
    @lorenzocreation3262 Місяць тому +3

    Thanks for sharing! Self-Love is a very complex topic. I think it is like a survival mechanism, the goal of most humans is to give the chance to our love ones and ourselves the best chance possible to live in the best conditions.
    - The best way to reveal the level of self-love is to be confronted to dilemnas.
    Sometimes, we could not please too much others but it is not a reason why we are selfish.
    Self-love includes being indulgent to ourselves and giving some grace so that we could recharge ourselves.
    For ex: In your last video, the fact that you love enjoying cooking healthy in a stress-free environment is a great way to show love for yourself, while helping you family, friend.
    If we need to help our family and friends, we need to be in positive mental state and stay healthy.
    If we love people, self-love includes working for the best of who we love.
    You explain ver well how to love ourselves.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts here, you make some important points! ☺️ Self-love is complicated and not as black and white as we all like to think but I do agree grace and self-compassion are crucial elements we need to and can often be misunderstood! Really glad you enjoyed this though and thank you for watching ✨

    • @lorenzocreation3262
      @lorenzocreation3262 28 днів тому

      @@lagomholly Thank you @lagomholly, I will keep tying to give you feedbacks when it will be possible, to support your community.

  • @Danilyn_Livao
    @Danilyn_Livao 20 днів тому +1

    I love how you debunked the myths around self-love and broke down what it truly means to love yourself! Thanks for sharing this important message! 🙌✨

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  19 днів тому

      Thank you! Really glad you enjoyed this and found it helpful!☺️✨

    • @Danilyn_Livao
      @Danilyn_Livao 19 днів тому

      @@lagomholly You're so welcome! I can’t wait to see more of your uploads 😍

  • @stephenmacafee5478
    @stephenmacafee5478 Місяць тому +2

    Beautiful and very intelligent message Holly :-) really well thought out, wonderful analogy too. My five things that make my soul special:
    1. My devotion and faithfulness to God, I know God makes all things beautiful, and breathes life into all things, including me. When I don't spend time with God, it's like everything loses it's colour, and life becomes bland.
    2. My love for music, music is the soundtrack of life, I can enjoy the hardest of metal to the softest of ambient music.
    3. I am incredibly generous, a quality I inherited from my dad. It always comes back to me, I saw two of my favourite metal bands Parkway Drive and I Prevail play in Sydney, only my friend I hadn't seen in 7 years, bought me those tickets before they sold out. The only thing I paid for was a fast food meal on the road to Sydney, everything else was provided for me while I was there. My friend even bought me a ride in a V8 supercar on a motorsport race track while I was there.
    4. I get told all the time that I am an excellent writer, funny thing is my hand writing is actually awful, but I can type insanely fast. Someone even said I should write a book.
    5. I've always treated women right, I believe in traditional values, and as a result I've always gotten along with women. I've always believed that if you want to meet the right girl, you gotta be the right guy, and you attract what you're like.
    Sorry this post turned out to be a lot longer than I thought it would be :-)

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you Stephen and for sharing your list with us ☺️ I really enjoyed reading this and one things for sure you have such a special soul 💛 I particularly love number 3 - it goes to show generosity doesn't have to be material or monetary based when its the company and time together that makes memories and moments so special. Appreciate you sharing your thoughts and wishing you a great week ahead ✨

    • @stephenmacafee5478
      @stephenmacafee5478 29 днів тому

      @lagomholly Awww thank you beautiful Holly 🤗 I think you are such a special soul too, with a beautiful heart ❤️ you put that perfectly, meaningful time spent with others is more important than any dollar (or pound in your case lol) value attached. I appreciate you and I hope you have a lovely week too :-)

  • @Annepasquier-i1d
    @Annepasquier-i1d Місяць тому +1

    My soul has been blessed with an endless supply of love, for my children, husband , family and the world. But to do this I need to love myself first.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  29 днів тому

      Absolutely! One of the biggest blessings we could ever receive 💛

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 18 днів тому +1

    Doesn’t matter how many times I listen to this video, it always hits home. I love and appreciate your wisdom and encouragement. Always so nice to have such positive words and messages.💛

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  17 днів тому +1

      Thank you very much!💛 So glad this was of some help and comfort to you! Appreciate your support and kind words☺️

  • @Transamandy
    @Transamandy Місяць тому +2

    Holly I have been in the gym and a trainer for a really long time and I’m very grateful and blessed to be loved by so many people…. and one of my favorite things to do is to go up to someone I’ve never met and tell them how good their form was while they were doing a exercise they been working on or I might see someone who’s been really working a lot on his arms and tell him …. Man your arms are looking great…it’s a beautiful way to break the ice and get new people that have just started going to the gym to feel comfortable and enjoy the gym and it’s made me one of the most loved people in all these gyms…thank you Holly for the wonderful video see you next week 😊

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  29 днів тому +1

      I really love that Andy thank you for sharing this! ☺️ It really is just those small acts of kindness and compliments that have the biggest impact on people. You're helping them in so many more ways than you know by such a small but meaningful gesture ✨ Thank you for watching!

  • @cathrynsuarez1695
    @cathrynsuarez1695 29 днів тому +1

    Loved this video as going through a painful breakup of my marriage and found your video a great comfort thanks Holly.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  29 днів тому

      I'm so glad this has brought a little comfort to you, during what I can only imagine is an incredibly challenging time. Sending my love and for brighter days ahead soon 💛

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 Місяць тому

    I agree Holly, do not allow others to define us, but rather define ourselves by our own values and assessments

  • @Holly-l1l7s
    @Holly-l1l7s Місяць тому +2

    thank you for sharing. this is an eye opener.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for watching!💛

  • @BarryMillar-m4q
    @BarryMillar-m4q Місяць тому +4

    You can't love someone without first loving yourself.

  • @Vinnie16920
    @Vinnie16920 Місяць тому +2

    With self love is learning self respect. Not to be treated badly or even disrespectfully because you are constantly prioritising other’s feelings even if their actions are detrimental to your own.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  29 днів тому

      Well said, self-respect is fundamental. It all starts with how you see yourself 💛

  • @lorivitro9389
    @lorivitro9389 25 днів тому +1

    My sense of humor and kind heart. ♥️♥️

  • @yuanz2
    @yuanz2 Місяць тому +2

    Great video! It reminds me the reason why the airline safety briefing requires adults to put on the oxygen mask for themselves first before they help their children put on theirs! Great wisdom that everyone should dwell on from time to time! By the way, love the Jazzy piano track in the background! Wish you a great week ahead from Leon in London.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you Leon, I love that reference and couldn't be more fitting 😃 So true how we can't help others properly unless we've helped ourselves first. I hope you're well and thank you for watching! ☺️

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 Місяць тому

    There’s a song by Joan Jett called I hate myself for loving you that always reminds me to love someone who is good for me and not someone who is bad for me, for my own sake. And this is not a selfish thing that I have to tell myself. Oh the internal conflicts!!

  • @abdullahallsultan8275
    @abdullahallsultan8275 Місяць тому +2

    Hey Holly ♥️
    Your video is really great, I think your video is very important❤
    you explained very well, you are very likeable❤
    Thanks Holly ❤

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  Місяць тому

      Really glad you enjoyed this one and Thank you so much☺️

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 Місяць тому

    The greatest love is to lay down one’s life for another. My brothers in arms, you know what I mean. And to the great ones, God rest your souls.

  • @lottielewis-l8j
    @lottielewis-l8j Місяць тому +2

    I needed to hear this thank you Holly ❤

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  Місяць тому

      So glad this was helpful! Thank you for watching💛

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 Місяць тому

    It only takes One person to love a person for it to transform a life!

  • @nadiahalexandra
    @nadiahalexandra Місяць тому +1

    Thank you so much for your videos

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  Місяць тому

      Thank you for your support and for watching💛

  • @andypandy-gq4kh
    @andypandy-gq4kh Місяць тому +2

    Great video thanks holly

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  Місяць тому

      Thank you for watching😊

  • @JoeSmithton
    @JoeSmithton Місяць тому +2

    Great video

  • @BiplabKrishnanurags
    @BiplabKrishnanurags Місяць тому +2

    I have subscribed to your youtube channel your channel is very good

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for joining us! Welcome to the community☺️