I didn’t expect this video to pick up like it has and so wanted to express my gratitude to you for taking the time to watch, to like, to comment and to share. I’ve read every comment and have tried to respond to as many as I could. Thank you for being part of my small community here and joining me on this wild journey ❤
I was today years old when I heard that if you don’t know what to pursue, start by pursuing yourself. Everything then will fall into place. What a perfect piece advice.
I think it's a decision to finally choose yourself-choosing to be the healthy, happy, and healed version of yourself. When you choose yourself, others will recognize it, and I hope it leads to many great opportunities in life. We all have a little child within us, and I'm letting her come out, shine, and be playful. To be my authentic self and not let fear take over, it has to start with small steps: self-care, little rewards, and building confidence by achieving small tasks daily. In this way, I will also learn how to raise a healthy kid of my own, as I’m a single mom.
@@edwinhunnet2666 and is why I dedicated my first book Energize to my wife. She is without doubt one of the secrets to behind all the things I’ve accomplished ❤️
Yup and this is why you see a lot of people living stagnant, paycheck to paycheck lives. Those people take whatever partner they could get that they find relatively attractive and just stick with them. And then wonder why theyre unhappy and unsuccessful
I’m 25, single, depressed in my job and life. By every societal measure I should be satisfied as I have a great family, roof over my head etc, but I’m just miserable and lonely. Anxious it feels like my life is just slipping away but I don’t know what or how to change the path I’m on. I’m getting more and more anxious every single dsy
27 here, and just two weeks ago, I began to stress out in the thought of, "You haven't done anything for your life" When, for God's sake! I am already graduated as a teacher and I am a graphic designer, I have a job (none of my careers) that is helping me save for my biggest dreams and I know that it is not a race against anyone but me... The fear of turning 30 someday and "done nothing" is because of the that damn phone
I'm 23, mentally exhausted. I feel like a failure, stuck in an endless loop of unhealthy habits. Thanks for reminding me that its never too late and I can start changing my life today. Thank u very much! I needed to hear this.
I’m 31 and consider myself a late bloomer. I’m only now starting my undergrad journey in nursing after wasting away my twenties getting high and barely getting by. I still live with my parents. But not all is wasted. My twenties is an example of how not to live life. And I had to pay the price in time, something I’ll never get back. Get your head out of the sand and pursue life with a purpose. If you don’t know your purpose, take the time to figure that out but stay productive during that time. Eat well, sleep well, exercise, pray, and work.
@@mapofthesoultagme7143 you are correct. What I was implying is that I am still not financially independent yet. There's a difference between living with your parents in your 30s by choice vs necessity.
By the age of 25, I’m a doctor of pharmaceutical science and currently doing a PhD in neuro ophthalmology. I’ve been with my lover and best friend for 4 years now. I clicked on this video to learn. I just learned that I’ve been following these advice almost religiously (unless when I’m sick) because my dad educated me this way. Life can be tough and life is not perfect, still we constantly must working on ourselves for our loved ones, and Life is truly beautiful. Thank you for this great video, thank you for your honesty and this powerful teaching lesson.
People call other people talented or lucky or gifted without realizing that often it is a normal person that did simple things consistently that added up to their success
I'm 22, I've made a wrong decision that made me at the lowest point of my life, now I will try more harder to climb this life again, thank you for the advice sir .
same sentiments bro, I stopped studying at 18 then proceeded to get a job. Quit my office work when the pandemic hit in 2020 and try to reason out w “health risk” (I’m asthmatic). I just recently had the courage to try and be better than who I was these past two years. I was jobless during those time. I’m 23 going 24 now
@@christiannunagtorres2026I did the same exact thing im 23 too and im back in school getting my degree its never too late and we can do anything we put our mind to. we are still really young and itll work out . start today
@@christiannunagtorres2026 I am in your situation,I left school at 18 and since 1 year I'm focusing on mastering editing and animation skills even if every day I have to hear insults from my parents saying im useless because im following this path
Honestly, I‘m turning 42 in a few weeks and witnessing other people aging, this advise would even be useful for a lot of people no matter the age. Wisdom comes with personal development, not years on the clock
Struggling with the so much. I’m 25, single, and seeing all my friends move away and get engaged or at least in serious relationships. I want a relationship so bad and have done so much work on myself, it’s frustrating seeing others with something I want so bad. I don’t like my job and it feels like life has just turned into the same thing over and over and I don’t find nearly the joy that I used to. Idk I feel so incredibly stuck but I know I’m not. I just have to decide to change and get better for myself. It starts with being comfortable on my own which is my biggest struggle, I fill all my time with friends or a distraction from being alone, even though I’ve lived alone for over a year now I’m still afraid to actually spend time alone and feel like I’m just wasting away my life and prime of my 20s. I just need renewed excitement and hope in my life.
@@Greenlights111 i'm 34 and single. Healing from only narcissist and avoidant relationships. Trust me, sometimes it's better to be single. Enjoy this time with no heartbreak, no attachment. Don't trust what you see, the perfect couples. I miss the days when I didn't have fealings for someone. I had enough of this pain.
@@Lavinia-uz7ul I’m sorry to hear that. I get that it’s likely better to be alone than with the wrong person, however, I’m 25 and haven’t had a serious relationship longer than a few months while I watch everyone I know getting engaged and moving on. I know you can’t compare either, but I want a connection and deep relationship and it’s hard feeling like the days and weeks are passing by with nothing changing. I need to make a change but I don’t know what
@@Greenlights111 I know. Same. That's how i ended up in this situations. You are really young, you still have time. Don't compare your life to others. A partner will not save your life. Maybe in the beginning, but the void that you feel right now will appear again after the honeymoon phase. And you will put all your happiness in their hands and you will end up codependent.
I just turned 30 and i went through such a big life change with my father dying last year. Everything has shifted, but i feel like i will be OK, and i am hopeful for life again 😊
Mans said "If I could tell my twenty year old self something", then put up photos that look nearly the exact same. Bro barely aged. Thats a goal, too. 😂
I’m 40yo, and can attest to life is short - not only is it short but you start to realise that once you get into your 70s/80/90s, flying overseas etc isn’t something you want to do due to health. So when you factor that in you come to realise your time to really experience life becomes even shorter. If you have no goals in life, you will forever work for those who do….
I love how you said there’s no such thing as an overnight success. So many times we only see the result of someone’s success and rarely the work that led up to it
So true. We are blind to what goes on behind the scenes and focus too much on the things we see in public which are simply byproducts of the years of hard work.
“tying your emotional wellbeing to future outcomes will cause you to live as if you’re never going to die, and then you will die, never having truly lived” this is the most profound message i’ve ever heard
This was the best advice ever. I am 28 and I am in the midst of a transition from my immature and impulsive era to my thoughtful and intentional era. I can feel it. Just working on changing my actions to match!!!
25yo here juggling business, side hustle real world work, and passion projects. Feeling overwhelmed so it’s nice to watch a video like this to cut away the bs and focus in on scheduling my dreams
i'm 23 but i feel like i'm getting old really fast and i keep worrying about the future all the time instead of actually doing something about it. i hope i overcome this fear and get my shit together fast thank you for this video
dude... you are so freaking YOUNG. I'm 27 and i wish i had YOUR age. And im sure people that's 35 will think 27 is too young. And so on. People that's 60 thinks 40 is young.
I turned 27 last week and it has been very hard to look back at my life not knowing where my twenties have gone. I feel like I haven’t achieved anything meaningful and I’ve been stuck at a 9-6 for the last 3 years and a half going into 4. I feel like my best years are gone and my time is ticking before I’m out of my twenties. I want nothing more than to leave my current job because I’m not passionate and I’m working for someone else’s dream and not my own, getting home when the sun is almost going down and watching my stay at home dad with dementia get older and not being able to spend more time with him. I have no direction about my future or what I want to build, what my gifts or talents are. I feel like the years are going by in a blink of an eye and I get overwhelmed at the thought of not having an answer, and not having a direction that gives me purpose and time freedom, while being challenged with getting out of the bad habits that keep me stuck further more.
I'm sorry about what happened to your father. I guess each one needs to duel on their own time. Don't rush that up. Don't beat yourself up because of societies expectations in life. You still a young woman. You can find your way to happiness, but is hard to find what passionates that heart when is broken. So take your time. 🫂🫂🫂
nah i got friends doing their dreams at 35 for a living and we all go out dancing and have fun, sometimes i feel like im older than them cuz they got more energy. i think sometimes im just lazy and then get sad about being lazy so then its a cycle i stay in. its hard to pull urself out of it but sometimes only you can get yourself out.
My biggest mistake was never believing in myself. As a medically disabled veteran, I believed my life was over and my confidence was shattered. I’m 23 so whenever I feel down and depressed, I remember how far I’ve come, the literal hills I’ve conquered during my time in the Army, and remember that everything will be alright. As a buddy of mine would say, “I’m not six feet under so I must be great.”
I started doing yoga because I wanted to try something new and a friend recommended it to me. I’ve already been eating healthy but then I decided to truly cut out bad sugar and treats over the summer and my health, vibrancy and mindset and so clear and positive. Especially because of yoga. Find something for your health you do everyday. Health is not a side hustle like he said. ❤
So much wisdom on this list! It took me many books, challenges, accomplishments, and failures to learn these lessons. Young people, listen to this more than once if needed and really pay attention. This is gold! Thanks for sharing!
it’s my 21st birthday today. first year in my 20’s went by crazy fast but i learned so much. embracing the journey is key for sure! i wish everyone the best, God bless💗
I just woke up from a scary dream on my life. You're the first video I watched. THANK YOU FOR THIS INTEGRITY AND HONESTY!!!!!!!!!! I'm so grateful right now ❤
Public speaking, and finding something you're truly passionate about definitely were unknown skills for me until way too late in life. Underrated to enable long-term growth and leadership 😊🔥
Those magic words that you said literally transform my mind! I'm 19 and I'll make sure that I will climb the right mountain and leave no regrets! Cheers to anyone who wants to change their life! Good luck to our journey🥂🙌
Kicked out at 18, cancer at 19-22! Severely depressed & currently 22 & no education or career experience under my belt & im constantly stressing that I’m so so behind as most my hs classmates have graduated college by now! Thank you for this video, it’s never too late to get up! What I’ve learned most is that Health is Definitely wealth! I’m made fun of for saying that but those who do that have yet to run into issues with their health & just seem to think they’re invincible bc they’re young. Started dating my now fiancé at 15, he continued on to college & then PT school & is about to be a doctor of physical therapy soon 😅meanwhile I’m just starting to begin my journey of what I’m doing now! He’s my biggest supporter & always has been, but it’s definitely hard when those around me seem so ahead! Definitely a ramble & rant here but again thank you for posting this video! Idk how it came across my feed but I do know WHY! I needed it!
I’m currently 18 and feeling a lot of regret for not doing the things I wanted to do because of fear, and for unintentionally hurting the people who truly care about me. Your words inspire me to change and become a better version of myself. Just the thought that life is short and every day matters fills me with a sense of urgency to live in the present and strive for self - growth, not to mention other sincere and enlightening pieces of advice you’ve given. Thanks for sharing your wisdom, and all the best to you! :)
Hi Simon, I just wanted to let you know that I'm 24 and have recently started my career path as a stage performer after my surgery. Your advice has really strengthened my determination. Thank you! ❤
I’ll be 29 in November. In & out depression but trying to stay consistent with healthy habits to achieve a good life. Love seeing things like this. Thank you
I needed this so much 🫶 lost my early 20s to bad depression and gave up a fancy uni degree for a not so great relationship. 25 now and back in my 2nd year of a 5 year degree, finding myself ashamed of how “behind” in life I am. Your video reminded me to look back with gratitude for the life lessons and growth I’ve accumulated, and to cherish the present moments 🥺
I’m 25 and though I already have my Bachelor’s degree and keep to a consistent fitness & meal plan, I have so much work to do with taking action professionally and getting rid of social clutter. Thank you! Hopefully, a couple of month to a year from now, I’m handling these things well.
Woke up today, started off with drinking water and thinking intentionally about what I hope to get out off the weekend and the week so I run across this video. Very supportive of my inner thoughts and wants for myself. Thank you
"How you do things everyday is how you do things for the rest of your life ". I even wrote it down on my whiteboard. I'm gonna live by this quote. It touched me so deep I even paused the video to really meditate on that thought. Beautiful stuff. Thanks man
I don′t know why i can′t watch videos like this anymore, even if it seems like great advisors. It didn't even touch me anymore. I′m 27 and exhausted. I just need to rest.
You’re choosing not to take in the information. Whether you either think it doesn’t have value or doesn’t pertain to you. Start talking to yourself in the mirror every morning after you brush your teeth, ask yourself what you actually want ☝🏼
Hi 👋🏻 I hope you don’t mind me suggesting something. I struggle with depression, and I found that cutting out refined carbs and sugar just makes my depression go away. I eat very little rice, pasta, bread, sugar, etc. I replaced it with veggies, fruit, stevia, chickpea pasta, Ezekiel bread, and other things that don’t spike blood sugar. It helps me tremendously. Try it for a few weeks and see if it helps. ❤
I’m also 27 btw. I’m no where near where I thought I would be in life, yet this diet Change makes me hopeful. If I stray away from it too much, I notice my depression comes back. I wish you the best.
the mountain analogy is so true. my parents and peers have always pressured me to go to college and get a 9-5 but i’ve always been a dreamer and i don’t want to be a work slave. it’s sad how brainwashed ppl are even when i explain over and over i want REAL freedom. always be aware and chose YOURSELF!
I already heard most of the stuff being talked about from mentors, friends and colleagues. I’m so grateful to be surrounded by supportive and helpful ppl. I’m in a slump in terms of career, starting again. I will do it again, correctly this time.
@@simonalexandero this feels like one of those tycoon games! When you reset it becomes very very easy to blow past the easy stuff and still continue to grow! So far I have already got more done than what I thought I would do in months. Lesgoooo
as a 26 growing-man, i do all thing by myself. and this guy just say the truth. thank you for pointing things out. it is very clear and meaningful. to be honest, those are hard to follow but hey, hard work make things great.
Ive been on the self improvement path for a long time, and have read and watched a lot of videos. This is one of the most concise, straightforward and condensed lists I’ve ever heard and hits me as a great reminder in this period of my life. Starting with “make sure you’re climbing the right mountain” was such a heavy hitter that the rest felt easy to listen to. Thank you! Subbed ❤
I am in my 30’s and realizing the true purpose,goals & dreams in life that I’ve never seen in my 20’s..I can say that I have wasted a lot of opportunities that maybe could lead to my success..From this very moment I am determined to make my dreams come true & to succeed in life,all of this realization bloomed when I gave birth to my son & of course with my mother’s advises❤..
I’m 26 & I’m grateful I went through all my life experiences to have already known these things..I live by these daily trying to be the first Millionaire of my family..everyone be safe in your journey
Thank you for sharing this video. I'm 25 years old and working remotely. I've just started getting full-time jobs this year, and it's affected my mental health to see others my age already achieve so much in life. I really need to hear this. Subscribed 🙂
The winterarc granted me the chance to work on self-discipline. Giving up on social media was the biggest step up in having time for sports, readings, outdoor activities, and quality time with my significant other.
I am so happy i found this video. Thank you so much! I feel so overwhelmed but i‘m just 25 years old. I‘m so young and sometimes i think it is already too late to change something.
I am 17 now, but watching your lesson, I realized how much I know and what life has done to me. God sends you people who are supposed to hurt you, argue and love you and that's when we become the people we are. A good week ago I thought I was behind comparing myself to others but I'm just starting
“Most people prefers to blame and complain rather than taking full responsibility of their life” and “Choose your life partner wisely” Thanks for sharing 🙏🏿
I haven’t watched your whole video; I stopped at number 9. But it has truly touched me. I already knew those 9 things, but your video and the way you express them are genuinely amazing. I don’t know why, but it just resonates with me. I’m struggling in my life right now because I climbed the wrong mountain, and now I’m trying to fix it. Your video has motivated me so much. I even bookmarked it to remind myself of the things I need to focus on. Thank you so much! I hope you have a wonderful time as you turn 40.
I lost my mom when I was 17, so when you said that happened to you my jaw dropped. That moment made me who I am today. The way I looked at life after that was so different.
I came across this video at the right time. Thank you so much, Sir. My take home point... “You can’t have self-development without self-awareness.” It takes one who is aware of himself to take a step to change or improve something about himself. Belated Happy Birthday to you.😊 I’ve hit the subscribe button.🥰
I've normally never watched a full video like this but I really want to grow up since I’m turning 20 and once I heard what he was saying it really hit me, thank you so much for the video!
I didn’t expect this video to pick up like it has and so wanted to express my gratitude to you for taking the time to watch, to like, to comment and to share. I’ve read every comment and have tried to respond to as many as I could. Thank you for being part of my small community here and joining me on this wild journey ❤
I whole heartedly appreciate the time and thought you put into this masterpiece, blessings.
@ thank you 🥲
This is the best 18 minutes I have ever spent on a video. So, my gratitude to you.
@@camwangs thank you 🙏
As a 32 year old needing some guidance, I thank you for sharing your experience with us! Much appreciated big brother!
Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world!
Beautiful words ❤️
Thank you , Wishing you same. ❤
Aw thank you, I wish the same right back for you!!!
Good luck to you too
Likewise
Do everything that u fear because those are the things that u crave the most
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Explain pls .
I do not crave to go caving or cave diving I promise I don’t 😂😅
@universe21hehe takes action before thinking next, if you meet a grandma is having a hard time to cross the road, just help don't overthink it
@@bbygurlrav 😂
if a british asian is giving me life advice im gonna listen
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Surprise surprise for you I guess
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@@callieblossomASMR ❤️
British Chinese**. Stop using the A word.
I once heard:
If you think the bill of growth is too high, wait for the bill of regret.
Wow! That’s deep and powerful ❤️
And that bill of regret is generational
@@rc_ilya650 👏
in other words, "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure"
@@mysteryman595 👏
I was today years old when I heard that if you don’t know what to pursue, start by pursuing yourself. Everything then will fall into place. What a perfect piece advice.
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Can you elaborate on this?
I didn’t get it can you explain plz .
@@ha-mynguyen9468start by working on yourself, Health becoming a better version of yourself and the mission will appear
I think it's a decision to finally choose yourself-choosing to be the healthy, happy, and healed version of yourself. When you choose yourself, others will recognize it, and I hope it leads to many great opportunities in life. We all have a little child within us, and I'm letting her come out, shine, and be playful. To be my authentic self and not let fear take over, it has to start with small steps: self-care, little rewards, and building confidence by achieving small tasks daily. In this way, I will also learn how to raise a healthy kid of my own, as I’m a single mom.
“Look at someone for inspiration, not comparison” 👏🏾
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Yes!!!
Thank you Jesus! Humbly receive from the ministry of others wowww
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@@asewejetosin5248 ❤️
“Sometimes it takes 10 years to get that 1 year that may change your life.” This hits different
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fr!!
@@lilianignatius right?!
i feel like i'm living that year right now
@@frogery 🔥
it's crazy how he looks the exact same at 17 months old, 20 year old and 40
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Picking the right partner is the biggest business decision you’ll ever make in your life time on earth.
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@@edwinhunnet2666 and is why I dedicated my first book Energize to my wife. She is without doubt one of the secrets to behind all the things I’ve accomplished ❤️
It’s about being the right person. Not finding the right person. That’s what I’ve learned!
@@type-dev ❤️
Yup and this is why you see a lot of people living stagnant, paycheck to paycheck lives. Those people take whatever partner they could get that they find relatively attractive and just stick with them. And then wonder why theyre unhappy and unsuccessful
Me at 29: "Hell yeah I'm in my 20s😎😎"
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Me too 🥹
@@bennymahlangu8674 🙌
I’m 25, single, depressed in my job and life. By every societal measure I should be satisfied as I have a great family, roof over my head etc, but I’m just miserable and lonely. Anxious it feels like my life is just slipping away but I don’t know what or how to change the path I’m on. I’m getting more and more anxious every single dsy
@@Greenlights111 a thought… if you were to speak to someone who is in exactly the same situation as you, what advice would you share with them?
"be patient with the process and impatient with taking actions" astonishing
Thank you 🙏
27 here, and just two weeks ago, I began to stress out in the thought of, "You haven't done anything for your life" When, for God's sake! I am already graduated as a teacher and I am a graphic designer, I have a job (none of my careers) that is helping me save for my biggest dreams and I know that it is not a race against anyone but me...
The fear of turning 30 someday and "done nothing" is because of the that damn phone
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“Be sure to take care of yourself first “
Absolutely Andrea 👏
"Extraordinary results come from repeating ordinary actions over an unordinary period of time"...
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Sounds an awful lot like what Alex Hormozi says.
read the slight edge by jeff olson bro!
@@tryna23 adding to my list. Thank you 🙏
...but i still suck at rocket league😢
I'm 23, mentally exhausted. I feel like a failure, stuck in an endless loop of unhealthy habits. Thanks for reminding me that its never too late and I can start changing my life today. Thank u very much! I needed to hear this.
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You are still very young ! The world is your oyster
@@Light_Connect well said 👏
i am 19 and feel this way to man
@@dantheman9050 ❤️
bro probably saved thousands of teenagers from depression
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This isn’t what teenagers are watching.
@@CurieBohr hopefully those that do come across this can find some benefit from what is shared 🙏
@@simonalexandero I hope that too
@@CurieBohr ❤️
I’m 31 and consider myself a late bloomer. I’m only now starting my undergrad journey in nursing after wasting away my twenties getting high and barely getting by. I still live with my parents. But not all is wasted. My twenties is an example of how not to live life. And I had to pay the price in time, something I’ll never get back. Get your head out of the sand and pursue life with a purpose. If you don’t know your purpose, take the time to figure that out but stay productive during that time. Eat well, sleep well, exercise, pray, and work.
Well said 👏
there's nothing wrong with living with parents though
@@mapofthesoultagme7143 ❤️
@@mapofthesoultagme7143 you are correct. What I was implying is that I am still not financially independent yet. There's a difference between living with your parents in your 30s by choice vs necessity.
@@initialdluvr 👏
Luck is what happens, when preparation meets opportunity - so be prepared
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it isn't luck, but a blessing from God
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By the age of 25, I’m a doctor of pharmaceutical science and currently doing a PhD in neuro ophthalmology. I’ve been with my lover and best friend for 4 years now.
I clicked on this video to learn. I just learned that I’ve been following these advice almost religiously (unless when I’m sick) because my dad educated me this way. Life can be tough and life is not perfect, still we constantly must working on ourselves for our loved ones, and Life is truly beautiful. Thank you for this great video, thank you for your honesty and this powerful teaching lesson.
Love it and thank you for your sharing ❤️
Yeah right
Uh huh sure pal
I turned 30 recently. I needed this, but ironically, i watched it when i should be asleep.
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“The clarity you seek will come from the action you take” Wow
Thank you Jay 🙌
So true brotha. Took me 3 failed attempts in business just to realize investing is my power.
@@brilliantran9808 🔥
Man I’m 24 years old and I love videos like this. It’s so easy to get caught up in the clutter of life and forget to go after what you want.
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People call other people talented or lucky or gifted without realizing that often it is a normal person that did simple things consistently that added up to their success
Well said Casey 👏
"Not all risk takers will be winners, but all winners are risk takers." Love that one.
Thank you 🙏
@@simonalexandero And thank you as well!
I'm 22, I've made a wrong decision that made me at the lowest point of my life, now I will try more harder to climb this life again, thank you for the advice sir .
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same sentiments bro, I stopped studying at 18 then proceeded to get a job. Quit my office work when the pandemic hit in 2020 and try to reason out w “health risk” (I’m asthmatic). I just recently had the courage to try and be better than who I was these past two years. I was jobless during those time. I’m 23 going 24 now
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@@christiannunagtorres2026I did the same exact thing im 23 too and im back in school getting my degree its never too late and we can do anything we put our mind to. we are still really young and itll work out . start today
@@christiannunagtorres2026 I am in your situation,I left school at 18 and since 1 year I'm focusing on mastering editing and animation skills even if every day I have to hear insults from my parents saying im useless because im following this path
Love how you went directly into the video and didn’t waste our time with “hiiii welcome to my UA-cam channel” kinda stuff
Thank you 🙏
"Not everyone will like you, you are not ice cream" 😁 Awesome video, thank you.
So glad to hear you enjoyed it Yusra 😁
Well, I don’t like ice cream.
Yeah some people are that heartless, they dont like ice cream.
@@girlbossfromscratch 😂
@@markuku2991 😂
“Nobody is here to save us “ , that hit deep. But also as an adult , being saved by someone just shows how not independent we are .
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I haven't turned 20 yet, so I'm leaving a comment here so I'll come back in the future to watch this 👍
I think a lot of what is shared can still apply 😉
I haven’t turned 40 yet, so I’m leaving a comment here so I’ll come back in the future to watch this 😉
@@Willi_Zhang 😂
Honestly, I‘m turning 42 in a few weeks and witnessing other people aging, this advise would even be useful for a lot of people no matter the age. Wisdom comes with personal development, not years on the clock
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When you reach the point of being able to enjoy your own company and happy being yourself, the right people will come along.
Beautifully said ❤️
Struggling with the so much. I’m 25, single, and seeing all my friends move away and get engaged or at least in serious relationships. I want a relationship so bad and have done so much work on myself, it’s frustrating seeing others with something I want so bad. I don’t like my job and it feels like life has just turned into the same thing over and over and I don’t find nearly the joy that I used to. Idk I feel so incredibly stuck but I know I’m not. I just have to decide to change and get better for myself. It starts with being comfortable on my own which is my biggest struggle, I fill all my time with friends or a distraction from being alone, even though I’ve lived alone for over a year now I’m still afraid to actually spend time alone and feel like I’m just wasting away my life and prime of my 20s. I just need renewed excitement and hope in my life.
@@Greenlights111 i'm 34 and single. Healing from only narcissist and avoidant relationships. Trust me, sometimes it's better to be single. Enjoy this time with no heartbreak, no attachment. Don't trust what you see, the perfect couples. I miss the days when I didn't have fealings for someone. I had enough of this pain.
@@Lavinia-uz7ul I’m sorry to hear that. I get that it’s likely better to be alone than with the wrong person, however, I’m 25 and haven’t had a serious relationship longer than a few months while I watch everyone I know getting engaged and moving on. I know you can’t compare either, but I want a connection and deep relationship and it’s hard feeling like the days and weeks are passing by with nothing changing. I need to make a change but I don’t know what
@@Greenlights111 I know. Same. That's how i ended up in this situations. You are really young, you still have time. Don't compare your life to others.
A partner will not save your life. Maybe in the beginning, but the void that you feel right now will appear again after the honeymoon phase.
And you will put all your happiness in their hands and you will end up codependent.
I just turned 30 and i went through such a big life change with my father dying last year. Everything has shifted, but i feel like i will be OK, and i am hopeful for life again 😊
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Keeep your head you will make it. Remember the strength that he had
@@tommymoore1622 beautifully said 👏
@@tommymoore1622 beautifully said 👏
09:26 bro just casually dropped the answer to “what’s the meaning of life?” without even blinking twice
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Mans said "If I could tell my twenty year old self something", then put up photos that look nearly the exact same. Bro barely aged. Thats a goal, too. 😂
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LOL I swear I was like “huh?!” “Corporate wants you to tell the difference between these two pictures”
That's health for you. Visual representation of why to prioritize your health
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watching this at 18 years old. I pray we all achieve all our goals and visions that we pray for.
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Allah give this man endless blessings 🤲🏽Ameen
Thank you 🙏
I’m 40yo, and can attest to life is short - not only is it short but you start to realise that once you get into your 70s/80/90s, flying overseas etc isn’t something you want to do due to health.
So when you factor that in you come to realise your time to really experience life becomes even shorter.
If you have no goals in life, you will forever work for those who do….
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I love how you said there’s no such thing as an overnight success. So many times we only see the result of someone’s success and rarely the work that led up to it
So true. We are blind to what goes on behind the scenes and focus too much on the things we see in public which are simply byproducts of the years of hard work.
“tying your emotional wellbeing to future outcomes will cause you to live as if you’re never going to die, and then you will die, never having truly lived” this is the most profound message i’ve ever heard
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"Extraordinary results come from doing ordinary things an extraordinary amount of times" I needed that
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This was the best advice ever. I am 28 and I am in the midst of a transition from my immature and impulsive era to my thoughtful and intentional era. I can feel it. Just working on changing my actions to match!!!
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25yo here juggling business, side hustle real world work, and passion projects. Feeling overwhelmed so it’s nice to watch a video like this to cut away the bs and focus in on scheduling my dreams
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i'm 23 but i feel like i'm getting old really fast and i keep worrying about the future all the time instead of actually doing something about it. i hope i overcome this fear and get my shit together fast
thank you for this video
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@@simonalexandero Whats your advice for this age of ours??
@@Sam_clava with regards to anything specifically? 🙏
dude... you are so freaking YOUNG. I'm 27 and i wish i had YOUR age. And im sure people that's 35 will think 27 is too young. And so on. People that's 60 thinks 40 is young.
@@cestentoimeme so true 👏
Inner peace comes from accepting what you can't control, and focusing your energy instead on what you can ❤
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I turned 27 last week and it has been very hard to look back at my life not knowing where my twenties have gone. I feel like I haven’t achieved anything meaningful and I’ve been stuck at a 9-6 for the last 3 years and a half going into 4. I feel like my best years are gone and my time is ticking before I’m out of my twenties. I want nothing more than to leave my current job because I’m not passionate and I’m working for someone else’s dream and not my own, getting home when the sun is almost going down and watching my stay at home dad with dementia get older and not being able to spend more time with him. I have no direction about my future or what I want to build, what my gifts or talents are. I feel like the years are going by in a blink of an eye and I get overwhelmed at the thought of not having an answer, and not having a direction that gives me purpose and time freedom, while being challenged with getting out of the bad habits that keep me stuck further more.
What small steps can you start taking outside your 9-6 that will help you eventually create an exit route to something more fulfilling?
I'm sorry about what happened to your father. I guess each one needs to duel on their own time. Don't rush that up. Don't beat yourself up because of societies expectations in life. You still a young woman. You can find your way to happiness, but is hard to find what passionates that heart when is broken. So take your time. 🫂🫂🫂
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I'm in the same boat literally I have the same problem with myself it's hard to find that one thing u wanna chase after:/
nah i got friends doing their dreams at 35 for a living and we all go out dancing and have fun, sometimes i feel like im older than them cuz they got more energy. i think sometimes im just lazy and then get sad about being lazy so then its a cycle i stay in. its hard to pull urself out of it but sometimes only you can get yourself out.
My biggest mistake was never believing in myself. As a medically disabled veteran, I believed my life was over and my confidence was shattered. I’m 23 so whenever I feel down and depressed, I remember how far I’ve come, the literal hills I’ve conquered during my time in the Army, and remember that everything will be alright. As a buddy of mine would say, “I’m not six feet under so I must be great.”
Your best years are ahead of you 🙌
you’re a young veteran and the military was the stepping stone you needed to get to where you are now. ask yourself what are you going to do with it?
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im 38 and this is the video that will finally push me to post mine! LETS GO GUYS!
Let’s go Johnny!!! 🙌
What he said about health was the most important thing
Thank you 🙏
I started doing yoga because I wanted to try something new and a friend recommended it to me. I’ve already been eating healthy but then I decided to truly cut out bad sugar and treats over the summer and my health, vibrancy and mindset and so clear and positive. Especially because of yoga. Find something for your health you do everyday. Health is not a side hustle like he said. ❤
Love it Adam 🙌
So much wisdom on this list! It took me many books, challenges, accomplishments, and failures to learn these lessons. Young people, listen to this more than once if needed and really pay attention. This is gold! Thanks for sharing!
So glad to hear you enjoyed the video 🙏
it’s my 21st birthday today. first year in my 20’s went by crazy fast but i learned so much. embracing the journey is key for sure! i wish everyone the best, God bless💗
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday 🥂
I’m now that age about to be 22 already
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@@Jay7.62Same, 22 next month and I am still anxious about life 😢
@@LéonardK-z8e focus on what you can control today and tomorrow will look after itself ❤️
I just woke up from a scary dream on my life. You're the first video I watched. THANK YOU FOR THIS INTEGRITY AND HONESTY!!!!!!!!!! I'm so grateful right now ❤
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Public speaking, and finding something you're truly passionate about definitely were unknown skills for me until way too late in life. Underrated to enable long-term growth and leadership 😊🔥
Thank you 🙏
Those magic words that you said literally transform my mind! I'm 19 and I'll make sure that I will climb the right mountain and leave no regrets! Cheers to anyone who wants to change their life! Good luck to our journey🥂🙌
Beautiful words. Thank you and here’s to the journey ahead 🙌
I’ve just turned 25 days ago. This video is definitely a wake up call for me. THANK YOU
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Kicked out at 18, cancer at 19-22! Severely depressed & currently 22 & no education or career experience under my belt & im constantly stressing that I’m so so behind as most my hs classmates have graduated college by now! Thank you for this video, it’s never too late to get up! What I’ve learned most is that Health is Definitely wealth! I’m made fun of for saying that but those who do that have yet to run into issues with their health & just seem to think they’re invincible bc they’re young. Started dating my now fiancé at 15, he continued on to college & then PT school & is about to be a doctor of physical therapy soon 😅meanwhile I’m just starting to begin my journey of what I’m doing now! He’s my biggest supporter & always has been, but it’s definitely hard when those around me seem so ahead! Definitely a ramble & rant here but again thank you for posting this video! Idk how it came across my feed but I do know WHY! I needed it!
Such an inspiring comment to read. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏
I’m currently 18 and feeling a lot of regret for not doing the things I wanted to do because of fear, and for unintentionally hurting the people who truly care about me. Your words inspire me to change and become a better version of myself. Just the thought that life is short and every day matters fills me with a sense of urgency to live in the present and strive for self - growth, not to mention other sincere and enlightening pieces of advice you’ve given. Thanks for sharing your wisdom, and all the best to you! :)
Here’s to being that better version of you 🙌
Indeed health is the most important asset. I didn’t care and was diagnosed with cancer last year
Well said and hope you are on the mend now Sonia? ❤️
❤❤❤ sending you well wishes
Thoughts and prayers for a full recovery Sonia 🙏
x Tony.
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Hi Simon, I just wanted to let you know that I'm 24 and have recently started my career path as a stage performer after my surgery. Your advice has really strengthened my determination. Thank you! ❤
Exciting times ahead 🙌
Thank you! I am 53 “ its never too late to make a change “😊
Never too late indeed ❤️
There is Age limit for many job.
@@hidonvousspeak7178 and plenty of options out there where there isn’t 🙌
I'm in my 30's, and this is exactly what I need right now. Thank you, Simon!
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I’ll be 29 in November. In & out depression but trying to stay consistent with healthy habits to achieve a good life. Love seeing things like this. Thank you
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I needed this so much 🫶 lost my early 20s to bad depression and gave up a fancy uni degree for a not so great relationship. 25 now and back in my 2nd year of a 5 year degree, finding myself ashamed of how “behind” in life I am. Your video reminded me to look back with gratitude for the life lessons and growth I’ve accumulated, and to cherish the present moments 🥺
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Don’t feel ashamed, timelines are just a social construct, the important thing is you’re doing your thing!! Good luck :)
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I’m 25 and though I already have my Bachelor’s degree and keep to a consistent fitness & meal plan, I have so much work to do with taking action professionally and getting rid of social clutter. Thank you! Hopefully, a couple of month to a year from now, I’m handling these things well.
Let us know how you get on 🙌
Woke up today, started off with drinking water and thinking intentionally about what I hope to get out off the weekend and the week so I run across this video. Very supportive of my inner thoughts and wants for myself. Thank you
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"How you do things everyday is how you do things for the rest of your life ".
I even wrote it down on my whiteboard. I'm gonna live by this quote. It touched me so deep I even paused the video to really meditate on that thought.
Beautiful stuff. Thanks man
Thank you Shawn 🙏
Just turned 30 and time has gone by so fast. Its worrisome and scary sometimes but we take each day. make it better than the last
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Just turned 30 and im glad ive been practicing most of these. But still a ways to go. :)
We are a constant work in progress and to fulfil our potential, the focus must be on being a little better than who we were yesterday ❤️
Just hit the big 3 0, giving thanks always, it’s only the beginning! 🥂
Happy Birthday!!! And it is only the beginning indeed 🍾
Please if you’re reading this, give yourself more praise, you’ve made it this far ❤️
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I don′t know why i can′t watch videos like this anymore, even if it seems like great advisors. It didn't even touch me anymore. I′m 27 and exhausted. I just need to rest.
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You’re choosing not to take in the information. Whether you either think it doesn’t have value or doesn’t pertain to you. Start talking to yourself in the mirror every morning after you brush your teeth, ask yourself what you actually want ☝🏼
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Hi 👋🏻 I hope you don’t mind me suggesting something. I struggle with depression, and I found that cutting out refined carbs and sugar just makes my depression go away. I eat very little rice, pasta, bread, sugar, etc. I replaced it with veggies, fruit, stevia, chickpea pasta, Ezekiel bread, and other things that don’t spike blood sugar. It helps me tremendously. Try it for a few weeks and see if it helps. ❤
I’m also 27 btw. I’m no where near where I thought I would be in life, yet this diet Change makes me hopeful. If I stray away from it too much, I notice my depression comes back. I wish you the best.
I have been repeating this video more than 20 times and now I can remember what he said. As a 20s I would say thank you for sharing this video ❤
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I've seen a few videos like this, but this one was genuinely useful. I loved the Japanese saying involving trees. Have a beautiful day!
Thank you 🙏
the mountain analogy is so true. my parents and peers have always pressured me to go to college and get a 9-5 but i’ve always been a dreamer and i don’t want to be a work slave. it’s sad how brainwashed ppl are even when i explain over and over i want REAL freedom. always be aware and chose YOURSELF!
Spot on 🔥
I already heard most of the stuff being talked about from mentors, friends and colleagues. I’m so grateful to be surrounded by supportive and helpful ppl. I’m in a slump in terms of career, starting again. I will do it again, correctly this time.
You will come back stronger with wisdom gained from the experience 🙌
@@simonalexandero this feels like one of those tycoon games! When you reset it becomes very very easy to blow past the easy stuff and still continue to grow! So far I have already got more done than what I thought I would do in months. Lesgoooo
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as a 26 growing-man, i do all thing by myself. and this guy just say the truth. thank you for pointing things out. it is very clear and meaningful. to be honest, those are hard to follow but hey, hard work make things great.
Absolutely 🙌
i was born in 1996 and just turned 28. still in my 20s tbfh i needed thiss
Happy 28th! And so glad to hear you enjoyed the video 🙏
This is deep. 😢”time is something we can’t make more of so we must be careful….”
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I'm 28 , I'm saying honestly this is the one of the best advice that I saw
I'm really appreciate you.
Those words mean a lot. Thank you 🙏
Ive been on the self improvement path for a long time, and have read and watched a lot of videos. This is one of the most concise, straightforward and condensed lists I’ve ever heard and hits me as a great reminder in this period of my life. Starting with “make sure you’re climbing the right mountain” was such a heavy hitter that the rest felt easy to listen to. Thank you! Subbed ❤
So glad to hear you enjoyed it! 🙏
I am in my 30’s and realizing the true purpose,goals & dreams in life that I’ve never seen in my 20’s..I can say that I have wasted a lot of opportunities that maybe could lead to my success..From this very moment I am determined to make my dreams come true & to succeed in life,all of this realization bloomed when I gave birth to my son & of course with my mother’s advises❤..
Exciting times ahead 🙌
I’m 26 & I’m grateful I went through all my life experiences to have already known these things..I live by these daily trying to be the first Millionaire of my family..everyone be safe in your journey
Amazing work Joe! And I’ve no doubt you will 🔥
That’s crazy, I’m 21 now. I hope life is going up. This year was the worst year in my life. I want to go up. But good Tipps.
Thank you and here’s to that 🙌
Im 31, i encountered and learned most you stated.
Will use this as basis before i turned 40.
Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏
So glad to hear you enjoyed it and sounds like you will have some strong foundations in place through your 30s 👏
Thank you for sharing this video. I'm 25 years old and working remotely. I've just started getting full-time jobs this year, and it's affected my mental health to see others my age already achieve so much in life. I really need to hear this. Subscribed 🙂
Thank you and I think you’ll also enjoy my latest video on feeling behind in life ❤️
I'm 37...wish I had knew these in my 20's.
Not too late to start living them 🙌
For those feeling down...listen on a daily basis and trust the process
Well said Marvin 👏
The winterarc granted me the chance to work on self-discipline. Giving up on social media was the biggest step up in having time for sports, readings, outdoor activities, and quality time with my significant other.
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This is definitely a video I'm sending my 30 something kids. This is a gold mine of meaningful life guidance.
Thank you and hope they enjoy it!
I am so happy i found this video. Thank you so much! I feel so overwhelmed but i‘m just 25 years old. I‘m so young and sometimes i think it is already too late to change something.
Not too late Kristy ❤️
I am 17 now, but watching your lesson, I realized how much I know and what life has done to me. God sends you people who are supposed to hurt you, argue and love you and that's when we become the people we are. A good week ago I thought I was behind comparing myself to others but I'm just starting
Love it 🙌
“Most people prefers to blame and complain rather than taking full responsibility of their life” and “Choose your life partner wisely”
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏿
So glad to hear you enjoyed it 🙌
I haven’t watched your whole video; I stopped at number 9. But it has truly touched me. I already knew those 9 things, but your video and the way you express them are genuinely amazing. I don’t know why, but it just resonates with me. I’m struggling in my life right now because I climbed the wrong mountain, and now I’m trying to fix it. Your video has motivated me so much. I even bookmarked it to remind myself of the things I need to focus on. Thank you so much! I hope you have a wonderful time as you turn 40.
Thank you and so glad to hear that it resonated ❤️
I lost my mom when I was 17, so when you said that happened to you my jaw dropped. That moment made me who I am today. The way I looked at life after that was so different.
An experience like that so young can mature you overnight ❤️
i'm 23 now and all i wanted is this video to help keep me working on myself.......My mind should be my best weapon..📌
It must be 👊
I came across this video at the right time.
Thank you so much, Sir.
My take home point...
“You can’t have self-development without self-awareness.”
It takes one who is aware of himself to take a step to change or improve something about himself.
Belated Happy Birthday to you.😊
I’ve hit the subscribe button.🥰
Thank you and you subscribing means a lot 🙏
I’m 35 and yes take all the risks you can young teenagers remember do not take risks that may involve death but all others take it .
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People need resources, support and community. We need to have that conversation.
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I've normally never watched a full video like this but I really want to grow up since I’m turning 20 and once I heard what he was saying it really hit me, thank you so much for the video!
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