When I hear how women need drama, confusion, chaos, and conflict in order to be attracted to a man, I absolutely lose respect for them and really any desire to be with one. Why would a man want someone like that in his life? This is why I prefer to spend time with my dogs.
Yeah, the problem is that everyone is born with the desire to be with someone (and in this case, I'm referring to being with someone romantically). Unfortunately, it's not something you can turn off. It's in our genes.
@@igorsirius9178I wish I could’ve turned off my romantical desires , all my life they only brung me sadness and feeling of loneliness instead of happiness . But sadly it’s impossible
IF SHE LOST INTEREST 1) not to over communicate 2) don't confess your feelings to her 3) don't express your anger ( message nhi dekhna 😅) 4) don't apologise 5) don't jump directly to the final solution 6) don't give her gifts 7) don't doubt yourself (GIVE HER SPACE 🚀) when she came back don't ask for a date
I really like that you not only show tricks and what we SHOULD do, but also focus on what NOT to do. Sometimes this is more important than using some actions towards a girl. Thanks for the video!
The timing is insane, as I just came out from a relationship where she lost interest because of my behavior. Thank you so much Dark Needle, you're a savior! Second only to Jesus himself man.
Honestly your videos took me to the next level in dating. I've learned so much, applying many things and went from being the chaser to being chased. Life's been good. Cheers for sharing all your knowledge man!
I honestly feel u bro Why can't they just reciprocate and let things flow naturally. Does it really have to be this insanely challenging and mentally draining just to experience love? It's so fcked up
@@MrNiceGuy-h9v yeah yeah it does As people have demonstrated Girls are emotional beings and where from our pov which is a rational one its messed up But its just the way they are and there is nothing we can do
@@Bignaqcbecuz in the past people needed to stay with their partners to stay alive becuz they needed each other to live but now everyone is independent and people can live without needing another person that is why maintaining realtonships is hard now.
Perfect timing man, I agreed with her that when her exams were over we would meet, it's been two weeks and nothing, I'm holding myself back from writting to her as I am expecting a message from her. Let's hope that message arrives, if not F for me boys.
Yeah, honestly I will not write any message to her until she shows she has the initiative. Weak responses are the worst and really make you think "What am I doing wasting my time on this"
he summed it up at the end. don’t pursue, give her space, let her go back to you, don’t ask her out immediately after, let feelings reignite naturally.
Some women ain’t worth it bro, probably most of them, it can only go from good to bad or it can start and stay bad, once she thinks negatively of you that’s it there’s no coming back, might as well start lying if it doesn’t matter about being honest
Idk WT did you do , but if she blocked you because you said something bad, just write to her (?) on WhatsApp and she will probably write 5 lines saying that you are bad and that you don't care about her feelings. Don't argue with her just call her in text messages, girl is better than boys.
Basically, if she distances herself, forget about her. Chasing will not fix it. If she was interested, she would not let you slip away. You can't convince a girl to like you. She either does or doesn't.
What a timing 😭😭 i wanna write a whole paragraph explaining how i fucked up tho. But one of the reasons was me getting angry at her and calling her words which got her hurt but she still used to come back but stopped a month ago so i messaged her and we argued again, we flirted again and she siad she misses me and misses us but that made me angrier as I thought thats not true and she is lying otherwise she wouldnt have left so i got mad at her again, called her words and told her go to the guy she likes now (she was testing me to see if i still care and i failed by reacting on it and looking bothered by it but there is no guy and she said she just wanted my reaction) and i left saying i hate her 💀 messed up big time with my sensitive behaviour there lmao..all and all i think even when shes very physically attracted to me still but she has lost feelings to a point shes indifferent towards me so its over .
@GautamBudha-wj9el I'm not trying to hurt her i never did. I love her but it's just I'm naive and still am but I'm learning more and more about females and their nature so I make mistakes and fucked this one up completely. I know i hurt her feelings cause of my behaviour but she caused it at times but I shouldn't have reacted in a way i reacted. I love her very much but now she's gone
@@Rishachino thank god I haven't messed that bad The worst that happened was when my crush slanged me as I called her shawty And the reacted with u know u should know to keep ur mouth shut 🥲 Back then I wasn't into this channel so my frnd said I f'cked up but no it was right Another incident she slapped my butt in front of my sister And I warned her not to do that agin This was a month ago now we do text as I live in different place but both our text are short so I don't know where this will go
@@GautamBudha-wj9el oh I'm sorry to tell you bro but this video is for people who lost their gf cause of some unattractive behaviours in my cause it was cause of me arguing with her as she wasn't paying attention neither was she doing most of the things she was supposed to do so it just used to piss me off and I used to argue and even called her some bad stuffs but she even after that didn't lost attraction for me until a month or so ago but I reached out to her last week and she tried shit test me to know if I still care and I fall for that lol. But in your case if she's someone you never dated chances are she's just not that much interested in you anymore and the better way to go with this one is to let her pursue you and do all the calling and texting. You don't do any of that from front
great timing man, you keep solving my issues over and over again. rename the channel to the light needle as you really do bring the light to what’s missing. Aren’t you God’s messenger perhaps?
The only thing I want to know is how do You make these crazy detailed videos in such a short period of time, what video editing software do You using? Thanks.
To change Your life as a Man, in 90% scenarios is to STOP doing things wrong, instead of starting doing new ones, with relationships is exactly same. Stay strong, and just dont give a fck 💪
So, essentially, if she cares less than you do - pretend like you don't care either? Lol. Just take it as a rejection and move on. The 'confessing' feelings stage after she loses interest happens because we're in the 'denial' of the fact that she cares less than we do. We hope that she simply didn't know we love them, then we face the truth. Thus, personally, I think it's better to ask them directly if she wants to either commit to the relationship properly, or just completely stop talking to each other. Let her reject you more directly. Yes, it'll sting, you'll lose her, but this way you won't wait for a miracle to happen and actually put your time and effort into self improvement and finding someone else. Another reason why she 'loses interest' sometimes is the appearance of another dude, so yet again, it's better to just give an ultimatum and lose her rather than fight a losing battle. Just be your damn self and do what you think is right, no one has life figured out.
Any woman that puts a man through all that isn’t worth the time wasted. If she can’t overcome these traits because she values you more than those emotions then she’s not worth the effort. I’d rather be alone than to jump through flaming hoops to satiate her feelings that even she doesn’t understand herself. I ain’t got time for that BS.
good timing i fucked up 💀
Yeah, It happens.
Lmao got me laughing 😂
Me too~
Lmaooo me too got blocked and shi
Me tooo man
me too got ghosted😂
When I hear how women need drama, confusion, chaos, and conflict in order to be attracted to a man, I absolutely lose respect for them and really any desire to be with one. Why would a man want someone like that in his life? This is why I prefer to spend time with my dogs.
Yeah, the problem is that everyone is born with the desire to be with someone (and in this case, I'm referring to being with someone romantically). Unfortunately, it's not something you can turn off. It's in our genes.
@@igorsirius9178I wish I could’ve turned off my romantical desires , all my life they only brung me sadness and feeling of loneliness instead of happiness . But sadly it’s impossible
same, I hear all this and I just wanna stop trying :D
do you fuck your dogs too?
@@igorsirius9178 Until you've been with a few and you see how it can destroy your life. Then you're happy being alone and knowing peace.
Never Seen Such Perfect Timing ☠️
The timing 💀❤️
What timing?
Fr
Fr
the timing is immaculate 🙏🙏
Honestly
Too late, i did almost every mistake you mentioned, at least now i know why she doesn't talk to me
Best thing you can do is simply move onto a new woman and fix all of your mistakes with the next one
IF SHE LOST INTEREST
1) not to over communicate
2) don't confess your feelings to her
3) don't express your anger ( message nhi dekhna 😅)
4) don't apologise
5) don't jump directly to the final solution
6) don't give her gifts
7) don't doubt yourself
(GIVE HER SPACE 🚀)
when she came back don't ask for a date
Perfect timing💀
Blud knows mindreading
The timing is heavenly
The timing is incredible
It’s insane that people aren’t talking more about books like Angelic Soulmate by Lentlish.
I searched for it out of curiosity, and I’m so glad I did. Just started reading, and it’s already helping.
Bad bot
@@leighw4633 :(
can't believe that this is not a scam. i just got it and the first chapter is already very good..
yeah.. i’m halfway through, and i can already see why people love it so much.
The timing is crazy I need it now
I really like that you not only show tricks and what we SHOULD do, but also focus on what NOT to do. Sometimes this is more important than using some actions towards a girl. Thanks for the video!
Glad you liked it!
The timing is insane, as I just came out from a relationship where she lost interest because of my behavior.
Thank you so much Dark Needle, you're a savior! Second only to Jesus himself man.
Honestly your videos took me to the next level in dating. I've learned so much, applying many things and went from being the chaser to being chased. Life's been good. Cheers for sharing all your knowledge man!
i used to have a mindset that i found The Dark Needle way too late, but this just gives me hope. Bro is definitely the GOAT!!!
it's feels so unfair that I have to learn all this just to be happy with someone, like why it can't just happen naturally?
I honestly feel u bro
Why can't they just reciprocate and let things flow naturally.
Does it really have to be this insanely challenging and mentally draining just to experience love?
It's so fcked up
@@MrNiceGuy-h9v yeah yeah it does
As people have demonstrated Girls are emotional beings and where from our pov which is a rational one its messed up
But its just the way they are and there is nothing we can do
@@MrNiceGuy-h9vso real brother
Because society now has changed I guess.
@@Bignaqcbecuz in the past people needed to stay with their partners to stay alive becuz they needed each other to live but now everyone is independent and people can live without needing another person that is why maintaining realtonships is hard now.
Dark needle… you are officially my favorite “teacher” 🙏⭐
Perfect timing man, I agreed with her that when her exams were over we would meet, it's been two weeks and nothing, I'm holding myself back from writting to her as I am expecting a message from her. Let's hope that message arrives, if not F for me boys.
Yeah, honestly I will not write any message to her until she shows she has the initiative. Weak responses are the worst and really make you think "What am I doing wasting my time on this"
Same situation brother stay Strong 🙏💪
Can't wait, your videos are always the best!
🙏🙏
Good analysis! I've all this mistakes in the past and I learned being emotionally cold is the best solution
Exactly!
Me about to comment: Damn the timing
Me opening comments and seeing the same messages...
This list is full of don'ts
It doesn't explain how to establish re-attraction, it just explains how not to fuck it up furthermore
That’s the point u messed up move on 😂 just learn from it
Just watch the video to the end and you will get the idea brother
he summed it up at the end. don’t pursue, give her space, let her go back to you, don’t ask her out immediately after, let feelings reignite naturally.
Bud is like the big bro giving out advices
Guys this video is very true.
I actually did those steps unconsciously and she came back desperately.
Good luck guys
Real I did the same fr
I think Element of drama needs more explanation because they help in keeping her attracted
The timing is impeccable 💀
Brother your content is like gold 😇
Conflict video is needed
This video is the one av been waiting for. I have a girl whom av spent lot of time with but she lost interest
Thank you vey much bro, you made the video on my demand🥂 Cheers G
Cheers! 🥂 Glad I could help! 🙏
Looking forward to the vid 😁 man need this advice
Mr needle dive everything in Detail, the more we know, the higher chances we have to keep our lady interest.
Some women ain’t worth it bro, probably most of them, it can only go from good to bad or it can start and stay bad, once she thinks negatively of you that’s it there’s no coming back, might as well start lying if it doesn’t matter about being honest
Great, I fumbled but at least she still gave me signs that she MIGHT give me a second chance
Yooo seems very interesting thanks bro ❤❤❤
Bro if you do a video title "friendzone 101" & " how to escalate with a girl " thise videos actually will get a million views
I love your videos i learn so much u actually help me ❤😭
needed this video. perfect time
The timing is insane 💀
The timing is the canon event
2:17 PLEASE DO IT
Nice job, 1:10
Addressing the points first is really smart. I like the maps you make. Screenshots taken
I was one step away to make 6 of the mistakes and one really really struggling not to fall in the 7th hahaha just in time brother. Thank you.
Bro suppppper good timing, I am literally on this
Brooo this video could not have come at a better time. Please explain in depth on the emotions to spike
Bro you are a great saver every point in this video is relatable
Glad you liked it, brother! 🔥
shes my classmate and she likes my friend and this really help
U dont search for this video,
It find you.
I don't believe in relationships. I think quick clap session and disappear or just keeping stuff at a friend level
obviously! but how to get new girl every month? 😅
I fucked up too but luckily she hasn't blocked me on WhatsApp yet, I won't write to her til your video comes up!
Idk WT did you do , but if she blocked you because you said something bad, just write to her (?) on WhatsApp and she will probably write 5 lines saying that you are bad and that you don't care about her feelings. Don't argue with her just call her in text messages, girl is better than boys.
@O72 wdym "girls are better than boys ?"
MY MAN YES DO GRAY AREA FOR US NEXT TIME PLS
Bro I searched this up earlier couldn't find anything on this but I just came upon this thank you
I need this right now... 😢.
Grey area video would be nice. I'd say I'm too upfront, so it would be beneficial. Love ur work bro
Very much thanks bruh, i messed up and now 3 girls after me, let's go!
Do the gray area video bro that would clutch af
the timing is on point, but two days is too long🙏🙏
she def leaving me before the vid comes out
Yea the grey zone video would be cool 🙏
Why can't we just be ourselfs to women 🙏😭
Wth is this?! The timing is so perfect !!!
plz make a guide on how to impove storytelling skill, sir
Basically, if she distances herself, forget about her. Chasing will not fix it. If she was interested, she would not let you slip away. You can't convince a girl to like you. She either does or doesn't.
Demn that’s the perfect video in the perfect timing
Perfect timing
Great informative video,keep it up.❤🎉😊💯👏👑🤠😎👌🙂👍🙌
What a timing 😭😭 i wanna write a whole paragraph explaining how i fucked up tho. But one of the reasons was me getting angry at her and calling her words which got her hurt but she still used to come back but stopped a month ago so i messaged her and we argued again, we flirted again and she siad she misses me and misses us but that made me angrier as I thought thats not true and she is lying otherwise she wouldnt have left so i got mad at her again, called her words and told her go to the guy she likes now (she was testing me to see if i still care and i failed by reacting on it and looking bothered by it but there is no guy and she said she just wanted my reaction) and i left saying i hate her 💀 messed up big time with my sensitive behaviour there lmao..all and all i think even when shes very physically attracted to me still but she has lost feelings to a point shes indifferent towards me so its over .
Damn bro she still came back tho
If she is a good one don't hurt her
@GautamBudha-wj9el I'm not trying to hurt her i never did. I love her but it's just I'm naive and still am but I'm learning more and more about females and their nature so I make mistakes and fucked this one up completely. I know i hurt her feelings cause of my behaviour but she caused it at times but I shouldn't have reacted in a way i reacted. I love her very much but now she's gone
@@Rishachino thank god I haven't messed that bad
The worst that happened was when my crush slanged me as I called her shawty
And the reacted with u know u should know to keep ur mouth shut 🥲
Back then I wasn't into this channel so my frnd said I f'cked up but no it was right
Another incident she slapped my butt in front of my sister
And I warned her not to do that agin
This was a month ago now we do text as I live in different place but both our text are short so I don't know where this will go
@@GautamBudha-wj9el oh I'm sorry to tell you bro but this video is for people who lost their gf cause of some unattractive behaviours in my cause it was cause of me arguing with her as she wasn't paying attention neither was she doing most of the things she was supposed to do so it just used to piss me off and I used to argue and even called her some bad stuffs but she even after that didn't lost attraction for me until a month or so ago but I reached out to her last week and she tried shit test me to know if I still care and I fall for that lol. But in your case if she's someone you never dated chances are she's just not that much interested in you anymore and the better way to go with this one is to let her pursue you and do all the calling and texting. You don't do any of that from front
@Rishachino well then I'll prepare in advance what's wrong with that🤣
This video hurts my soul...Because it's too true.
Just when I needed it 😭😭
Sir, element of drama please make a detailed video.
Please explain each emotion.
Lots of love ❤
You're slowly carving me into a better man bro ❤thanks 😂😂🎉
great timing man, you keep solving my issues over and over again. rename the channel to the light needle as you really do bring the light to what’s missing.
Aren’t you God’s messenger perhaps?
Amazing timing! I flopped up a month ago or so😂
The natural charisma we had kinda fell, and I don't know why. Not like I genuinely care but I do want this to continue.
Brother, continue the social skills series please 🙏🙏
bruh how did 20k of us fuck up so bad in one day 💀
Please talk about the grey area more as I’m stuck in this 😂
Sir please make video on gray area and please also start social skills too
omgggg now i need it ❤❤❤❤❤❤
The only thing I want to know is how do You make these crazy detailed videos in such a short period of time, what video editing software do You using? Thanks.
I wish I had learned this information (all information in your channel) just some months ago and I had not lost the right girl 💔💔
I just have to write this too... GREAT TIMING... how is this possible? :D
btw. video about gray area might be usefull as well. Thank you!
Guys, don't worry about anything. Just keep working and learning, and enjoy your days, and she will come to you naturally, maybe. 😁
def need that grey area video
Nice video!!
Appreciate the love, brother! 🔥
@thedarkneedle thank you for such videos!! 😊
you can make a video explaining how to keep a women?
This is what I will talk about in the next video.
To change Your life as a Man, in 90% scenarios is to STOP doing things wrong, instead of starting doing new ones, with relationships is exactly same. Stay strong, and just dont give a fck 💪
Please dive deeper in the emotions. I'm having trouble with triggering comfort
Damn that's crazy, already did everything I wasn't supposed to do
Bro, dating should be a subject in our curriculum, it's more complex than chemistry 😂
So, essentially, if she cares less than you do - pretend like you don't care either? Lol.
Just take it as a rejection and move on. The 'confessing' feelings stage after she loses interest happens because we're in the 'denial' of the fact that she cares less than we do. We hope that she simply didn't know we love them, then we face the truth. Thus, personally, I think it's better to ask them directly if she wants to either commit to the relationship properly, or just completely stop talking to each other. Let her reject you more directly. Yes, it'll sting, you'll lose her, but this way you won't wait for a miracle to happen and actually put your time and effort into self improvement and finding someone else.
Another reason why she 'loses interest' sometimes is the appearance of another dude, so yet again, it's better to just give an ultimatum and lose her rather than fight a losing battle.
Just be your damn self and do what you think is right, no one has life figured out.
Brother we need the emotions video as soon as possible
Which books have you read, or can you recommend at least one favorite book about women’s psychology that I can read?"
Can't wait 😁✌️
Omg exactly what I neeeeed
Sometimes these videos just demotivate me. If you’re not tall, strong, and rich just give up I guess
Any woman that puts a man through all that isn’t worth the time wasted.
If she can’t overcome these traits because she values you more than those emotions then she’s not worth the effort.
I’d rather be alone than to jump through flaming hoops to satiate her feelings that even she doesn’t understand herself.
I ain’t got time for that BS.
Thank you!
Everything you said dont do, is what i have been doing... wish i saw this earlier
Just what I need