When I hear how women need drama, confusion, chaos, and conflict in order to be attracted to a man, I absolutely lose respect for them and really any desire to be with one. Why would a man want someone like that in his life? This is why I prefer to spend time with my dogs.
Yeah, the problem is that everyone is born with the desire to be with someone (and in this case, I'm referring to being with someone romantically). Unfortunately, it's not something you can turn off. It's in our genes.
@@igorsirius9178I wish I could’ve turned off my romantical desires , all my life they only brung me sadness and feeling of loneliness instead of happiness . But sadly it’s impossible
Basically, if she distances herself, forget about her. Chasing will not fix it. If she was interested, she would not let you slip away. You can't convince a girl to like you. She either does or doesn't.
Its still possible to fix it by removing your attention, women crave attention. Pull back completely until she reaches out then set up date. Rinse and repeat. Never initiate any texts to her, no good mornings no check ins, no 'i had a great time with, u' texts etc she gotta be unsure of your feelings towards her. The moment she is sure she pulls back and u gotta work for this shit again, and pull back yourself. So better not waste time.
@@nanouberthe7598 through hell? I would've treated her like the one and only one, you would say that 2 years ago when I was depressed fucked up and a loser, I would agree with you, but now I fixed myself in terms of communication skills, body, style, job and money....all I did is that I loved her more than I should have.
I really like that you not only show tricks and what we SHOULD do, but also focus on what NOT to do. Sometimes this is more important than using some actions towards a girl. Thanks for the video!
Perfect timing man, I agreed with her that when her exams were over we would meet, it's been two weeks and nothing, I'm holding myself back from writting to her as I am expecting a message from her. Let's hope that message arrives, if not F for me boys.
Yeah, honestly I will not write any message to her until she shows she has the initiative. Weak responses are the worst and really make you think "What am I doing wasting my time on this"
@@kenag7248 Well i did alot of big mistakes i feel very guilty for them and i will hate myself forever. I mean i never cheated on her, but so did she (online/sent nudes etc). I gave her a second chance even ... we wanted to take a break and in 1 week after that break she started getting feelings for some guy over discord she said. And that she doesn't want the relationship anymore. It went 1 1/2 years, basically im not sure if she'll ever come back after i treated her like shit and replaced her too.
1. Lacksd an element of drama You want her more than she wants you Asssess your situation - Lost interest or she was never interested SHe was never interestedd once or twice LOST INTERESTED: - Not over communicate - Do not express your feelings - if she confess love to you then go - Do not express your anger - do not apologize - Don't jump to final solution - Don't give her gifts - don't doubt yourself - revolves your actions -> everything revovle around your behaviour - didn't like your behaviour but not as a person - talk casually
I honestly feel u bro Why can't they just reciprocate and let things flow naturally. Does it really have to be this insanely challenging and mentally draining just to experience love? It's so fcked up
@@MrNiceGuy-h9v yeah yeah it does As people have demonstrated Girls are emotional beings and where from our pov which is a rational one its messed up But its just the way they are and there is nothing we can do
@@Bignaqcbecuz in the past people needed to stay with their partners to stay alive becuz they needed each other to live but now everyone is independent and people can live without needing another person that is why maintaining realtonships is hard now.
The timing is insane, as I just came out from a relationship where she lost interest because of my behavior. Thank you so much Dark Needle, you're a savior! Second only to Jesus himself man.
I was about to reveal my feelings to her, but I didn't, and I started to reduce communication until she came back and started talking I did these things before before watching the video, I think bro words true❤🎉
Thank you very much. I've been following redpill and pua content for about 3 years. I've gone down to the rabbit hole and encountered many different pages. I must admit, I find your page really different and useful. Greetings from a Turk.
Nah, life isn't about playing games with partner but achieving goals. If she tests you or plays game, she ain't the one or simply put in todays day it's not worth it.
We all have the right to love sincerely without dependence. To everyone watching this video, I wish you a day filled with understanding and serenity! Thank you to the channel owner for the dedication and creativity in every video. May your channel continue to be loved and achieve remarkable success!
Honestly your videos took me to the next level in dating. I've learned so much, applying many things and went from being the chaser to being chased. Life's been good. Cheers for sharing all your knowledge man!
Please make a Video how you would on a date pull her home and escalate into physical action. And how you would deal with her tests and micro rejections on the way. I like your logical breakdowns and focus on mindset but the Escalation part is important too
Wow all these guys talking about the perfect timing for this video to come out... I'm one of you guys ! Seems like we're way too many to have fcked up recently.
She showed alot of interest in me and when I showed back she lost intrest.... now we are just friends in a friendgroup (her choice). Kind of hurts seeing her sometimes but yeah idk... she is complicated, idk if she's interested anymore but is hiding it or not interested at all. She gives me hugs when we havent seen eachother for a while and that just makes me sad
She lost interest because you validated her ego by falling for her. You were too easy for her that’s why she lost attraction, change your courses now, don’t show affection from now on and when she’s around, be more misogynist and try to flirt with other women. That’s how you’ll get her back.
he summed it up at the end. don’t pursue, give her space, let her go back to you, don’t ask her out immediately after, let feelings reignite naturally.
This recipe really does work The funny thing is, you fear applying it cos you’re afraid you will loose her and she will get angry. But believe me, she won’t. I realised I was actually doing this, cos I didn’t like her that much, I have no fear of loosing her, and was naturally following this method. She is still attracted and I’m in total control over what happens next. of course applying this to someone you really like would be so much harder. But i believe the overall message is accurate.
Idk WT did you do , but if she blocked you because you said something bad, just write to her (?) on WhatsApp and she will probably write 5 lines saying that you are bad and that you don't care about her feelings. Don't argue with her just call her in text messages, girl is better than boys.
So from all the different sources about a female psychology and how to spark attraction, I learned something that brings an inner conflict in me - I should not be attached nor should I desire a woman in an obvious way. But man - thats the whole point of building a romantic relationship. How can I be happy with a girl by my side while having a mindset of not really needing her in my life and being ready to dump her anytime she misbehaves? Do I have to become a sociopath or a narcissist? I blame the game..
Somehow I did everything you said in this video, i was just waiting untill I meet her again and then just talk to her and try to ignite the interest by leaving her in suspense
My fiancé broke up with me after 7,5 years. I’m hurt. She’s also hurt I think. I’m lost at the moment. Will try my best to recover and improve myself for the future. Guys reading this comment, you’re not alone, out there. Be strong, the pain will pass..
Any woman that puts a man through all that isn’t worth the time wasted. If she can’t overcome these traits because she values you more than those emotions then she’s not worth the effort. I’d rather be alone than to jump through flaming hoops to satiate her feelings that even she doesn’t understand herself. I ain’t got time for that BS.
@Dark Needle, I have been following you very closely and I don't know what ever I read I can see whatever you taught are just being taugh with redundant lines. I trust and follow all your videos like a religion now. Please make a video on approaching women and how to approach and identify their weakness and get a number (atleast 90% acceptance rate). or get accepted. When to ask a number or leave it at and how to go for then.
Some women ain’t worth it bro, probably most of them, it can only go from good to bad or it can start and stay bad, once she thinks negatively of you that’s it there’s no coming back, might as well start lying if it doesn’t matter about being honest
The worst is relationship at work. We didn't even start to date, and it's over. She told almost everyone at work that I'm in love with her and that she rejected me. Some of my coworkers don't even greet me anymore. WTF did she told them? It's like we are in high school. I am 35, and she is 34. But sometimes, talking to her is like talking to a little manipulative 13 year old girl. My coworkers don't know half of the story. She wanted me to buy her chocolate and cakes, she indirectly told me that.😂 When i folded and bought her, sometimes she rejected it. I was stunned WTF. Then i started to see red flages. I asked her out, and she told me that she always saw me as a colleague and nothing more. My God, colleagues, don't put asses inches to my face deliberately when I'm sitting down in my chair. And don't tell me stories like she did.😮 Fuk, I have to work with her almost every day in 8 hours shifts. She is giving me the silent treatment and angry responses when we have to communicate work related. Long silent shifts.
great timing man, you keep solving my issues over and over again. rename the channel to the light needle as you really do bring the light to what’s missing. Aren’t you God’s messenger perhaps?
good timing i fucked up 💀
Yeah, It happens.
Lmao got me laughing 😂
Me too~
Lmaooo me too got blocked and shi
Me tooo man
me too got ghosted😂
When I hear how women need drama, confusion, chaos, and conflict in order to be attracted to a man, I absolutely lose respect for them and really any desire to be with one. Why would a man want someone like that in his life? This is why I prefer to spend time with my dogs.
Yeah, the problem is that everyone is born with the desire to be with someone (and in this case, I'm referring to being with someone romantically). Unfortunately, it's not something you can turn off. It's in our genes.
@@igorsirius9178I wish I could’ve turned off my romantical desires , all my life they only brung me sadness and feeling of loneliness instead of happiness . But sadly it’s impossible
same, I hear all this and I just wanna stop trying :D
do you fuck your dogs too?
@@igorsirius9178 Until you've been with a few and you see how it can destroy your life. Then you're happy being alone and knowing peace.
Never Seen Such Perfect Timing ☠️
Perfect timing💀
Blud knows mindreading
The timing 💀❤️
What timing?
Fr
Fr
Smh.
Basically, if she distances herself, forget about her. Chasing will not fix it. If she was interested, she would not let you slip away. You can't convince a girl to like you. She either does or doesn't.
Its still possible to fix it by removing your attention, women crave attention. Pull back completely until she reaches out then set up date. Rinse and repeat. Never initiate any texts to her, no good mornings no check ins, no 'i had a great time with, u' texts etc she gotta be unsure of your feelings towards her. The moment she is sure she pulls back and u gotta work for this shit again, and pull back yourself. So better not waste time.
Too late, i did almost every mistake you mentioned, at least now i know why she doesn't talk to me
Best thing you can do is simply move onto a new woman and fix all of your mistakes with the next one
Same here, I felt the urge to do every single thing he mentioned in this video. I miss her so hard
@TheShowOff2I orrrrr fix ur issues before putting yet another woman thru hell
@@nanouberthe7598 through hell? I would've treated her like the one and only one, you would say that 2 years ago when I was depressed fucked up and a loser, I would agree with you, but now I fixed myself in terms of communication skills, body, style, job and money....all I did is that I loved her more than I should have.
@@TheShowOff2I Not that instant bro you wouldn’t achieve everything by rebound
I really like that you not only show tricks and what we SHOULD do, but also focus on what NOT to do. Sometimes this is more important than using some actions towards a girl. Thanks for the video!
Glad you liked it!
Perfect timing man, I agreed with her that when her exams were over we would meet, it's been two weeks and nothing, I'm holding myself back from writting to her as I am expecting a message from her. Let's hope that message arrives, if not F for me boys.
Yeah, honestly I will not write any message to her until she shows she has the initiative. Weak responses are the worst and really make you think "What am I doing wasting my time on this"
Same situation brother stay Strong 🙏💪
Guys this video is very true.
I actually did those steps unconsciously and she came back desperately.
Good luck guys
Real I did the same fr
So basically did you just gave her space, till he reached out to you?
Im curious
Yes only if she was attracted you in first place. The person will reach out to u if they value the relationship
@@kenag7248 Well i did alot of big mistakes i feel very guilty for them and i will hate myself forever. I mean i never cheated on her, but so did she (online/sent nudes etc).
I gave her a second chance even ...
we wanted to take a break and in 1 week after that break she started getting feelings for some guy over discord she said. And that she doesn't want the relationship anymore. It went 1 1/2 years, basically im not sure if she'll ever come back after i treated her like shit and replaced her too.
1. Lacksd an element of drama
You want her more than she wants you
Asssess your situation
- Lost interest or she was never interested
SHe was never interestedd once or twice
LOST INTERESTED:
- Not over communicate
- Do not express your feelings
- if she confess love to you then go
- Do not express your anger
- do not apologize
- Don't jump to final solution
- Don't give her gifts
- don't doubt yourself
- revolves your actions -> everything revovle around your behaviour
- didn't like your behaviour but not as a person
- talk casually
the timing is immaculate 🙏🙏
Honestly
it's feels so unfair that I have to learn all this just to be happy with someone, like why it can't just happen naturally?
I honestly feel u bro
Why can't they just reciprocate and let things flow naturally.
Does it really have to be this insanely challenging and mentally draining just to experience love?
It's so fcked up
@@MrNiceGuy-h9v yeah yeah it does
As people have demonstrated Girls are emotional beings and where from our pov which is a rational one its messed up
But its just the way they are and there is nothing we can do
@@MrNiceGuy-h9vso real brother
Because society now has changed I guess.
@@Bignaqcbecuz in the past people needed to stay with their partners to stay alive becuz they needed each other to live but now everyone is independent and people can live without needing another person that is why maintaining realtonships is hard now.
i used to have a mindset that i found The Dark Needle way too late, but this just gives me hope. Bro is definitely the GOAT!!!
Its just crazy what I learn from you for free so here you are +1 follower❤️
This man has the keys to unlocking any woman
The timing is insane, as I just came out from a relationship where she lost interest because of my behavior.
Thank you so much Dark Needle, you're a savior! Second only to Jesus himself man.
Bud is like the big bro giving out advices
Dark needle… you are officially my favorite “teacher” 🙏⭐
Me about to comment: Damn the timing
Me opening comments and seeing the same messages...
I was about to reveal my feelings to her, but I didn't, and I started to reduce communication until she came back and started talking
I did these things before before watching the video, I think bro words true❤🎉
Jesus christ by far the best vid i've see on YT, this channel tops them all
This video is the one av been waiting for. I have a girl whom av spent lot of time with but she lost interest
if she really love you
seeing you is enough
just express your feeling about her don't holding back
Can't wait, your videos are always the best!
🙏🙏
Thank you very much. I've been following redpill and pua content for about 3 years. I've gone down to the rabbit hole and encountered many different pages. I must admit, I find your page really different and useful. Greetings from a Turk.
Nah, life isn't about playing games with partner but achieving goals. If she tests you or plays game, she ain't the one or simply put in todays day it's not worth it.
We all have the right to love sincerely without dependence. To everyone watching this video, I wish you a day filled with understanding and serenity! Thank you to the channel owner for the dedication and creativity in every video. May your channel continue to be loved and achieve remarkable success!
The timing is incredible
Honestly your videos took me to the next level in dating. I've learned so much, applying many things and went from being the chaser to being chased. Life's been good. Cheers for sharing all your knowledge man!
Really glad that this channel exist in this world
The timing is crazy I need it now
Please make a Video how you would on a date pull her home and escalate into physical action. And how you would deal with her tests and micro rejections on the way. I like your logical breakdowns and focus on mindset but the Escalation part is important too
BRO UPLOADED AT THE PERFECT TIME
I was one step away to make 6 of the mistakes and one really really struggling not to fall in the 7th hahaha just in time brother. Thank you.
MY MAN YES DO GRAY AREA FOR US NEXT TIME PLS
Wow all these guys talking about the perfect timing for this video to come out... I'm one of you guys !
Seems like we're way too many to have fcked up recently.
Great video, very meticulous and on point.
9:32 Yes, a video about the Gray Area would be useful. 👍
Brooo this video could not have come at a better time. Please explain in depth on the emotions to spike
Brother your content is like gold 😇
needed this video. perfect time
She showed alot of interest in me and when I showed back she lost intrest.... now we are just friends in a friendgroup (her choice). Kind of hurts seeing her sometimes but yeah idk... she is complicated, idk if she's interested anymore but is hiding it or not interested at all. She gives me hugs when we havent seen eachother for a while and that just makes me sad
She lost interest because you validated her ego by falling for her. You were too easy for her that’s why she lost attraction, change your courses now, don’t show affection from now on and when she’s around, be more misogynist and try to flirt with other women. That’s how you’ll get her back.
Perfect timing myan ❤
Guys, don't worry about anything. Just keep working and learning, and enjoy your days, and she will come to you naturally, maybe. 😁
The timing is impeccable 💀
I asked for an advice, i received the perfect video for my situation ❤
O M G!! 😮 I've been doing it all wrong 😅 Thank you Bro 💪
the timing is on point, but two days is too long🙏🙏
she def leaving me before the vid comes out
Yooo seems very interesting thanks bro ❤❤❤
Insane timing my boy
Nice job, 1:10
Addressing the points first is really smart. I like the maps you make. Screenshots taken
This list is full of don'ts
It doesn't explain how to establish re-attraction, it just explains how not to fuck it up furthermore
That’s the point u messed up move on 😂 just learn from it
Just watch the video to the end and you will get the idea brother
he summed it up at the end. don’t pursue, give her space, let her go back to you, don’t ask her out immediately after, let feelings reignite naturally.
I think Element of drama needs more explanation because they help in keeping her attracted
Thank you vey much bro, you made the video on my demand🥂 Cheers G
Cheers! 🥂 Glad I could help! 🙏
Bro suppppper good timing, I am literally on this
Mr needle dive everything in Detail, the more we know, the higher chances we have to keep our lady interest.
The timing is heavenly
This recipe really does work
The funny thing is, you fear applying it cos you’re afraid you will loose her and she will get angry.
But believe me, she won’t.
I realised I was actually doing this, cos I didn’t like her that much, I have no fear of loosing her, and was naturally following this method.
She is still attracted and I’m in total control over what happens next.
of course applying this to someone you really like would be so much harder.
But i believe the overall message is accurate.
Man seriously timing is the best yours
Why can't we just be ourselfs to women 🙏😭
She's cold rn, your a perfect a timing😆
Btw i almost watch all your video it really change my perspective ❤
I fucked up too but luckily she hasn't blocked me on WhatsApp yet, I won't write to her til your video comes up!
Idk WT did you do , but if she blocked you because you said something bad, just write to her (?) on WhatsApp and she will probably write 5 lines saying that you are bad and that you don't care about her feelings. Don't argue with her just call her in text messages, girl is better than boys.
@O72 wdym "girls are better than boys ?"
Bro you are a great saver every point in this video is relatable
Glad you liked it, brother! 🔥
Looking forward to the vid 😁 man need this advice
Very much thanks bruh, i messed up and now 3 girls after me, let's go!
Thank you brother i can totally relate with your points 🙌🏻❣️
Grey area video would be nice. I'd say I'm too upfront, so it would be beneficial. Love ur work bro
I love your videos i learn so much u actually help me ❤😭
Good analysis! I've all this mistakes in the past and I learned being emotionally cold is the best solution
Exactly!
Thank you,mate . God bless ❤
Sir, element of drama please make a detailed video.
Please explain each emotion.
Lots of love ❤
So from all the different sources about a female psychology and how to spark attraction, I learned something that brings an inner conflict in me - I should not be attached nor should I desire a woman in an obvious way. But man - thats the whole point of building a romantic relationship. How can I be happy with a girl by my side while having a mindset of not really needing her in my life and being ready to dump her anytime she misbehaves? Do I have to become a sociopath or a narcissist? I blame the game..
Somehow I did everything you said in this video, i was just waiting untill I meet her again and then just talk to her and try to ignite the interest by leaving her in suspense
A video about the gray area would be very interesting, it might be one of the hardest things to deal with when it comes to dating
My fiancé broke up with me after 7,5 years. I’m hurt. She’s also hurt I think. I’m lost at the moment. Will try my best to recover and improve myself for the future.
Guys reading this comment, you’re not alone, out there. Be strong, the pain will pass..
Bro you got it
Any woman that puts a man through all that isn’t worth the time wasted.
If she can’t overcome these traits because she values you more than those emotions then she’s not worth the effort.
I’d rather be alone than to jump through flaming hoops to satiate her feelings that even she doesn’t understand herself.
I ain’t got time for that BS.
Perfect timing
@Dark Needle, I have been following you very closely and I don't know what ever I read I can see whatever you taught are just being taugh with redundant lines.
I trust and follow all your videos like a religion now.
Please make a video on approaching women and how to approach and identify their weakness and get a number (atleast 90% acceptance rate). or get accepted. When to ask a number or leave it at and how to go for then.
Mannn is out here Savin me from problemssss😢
Some women ain’t worth it bro, probably most of them, it can only go from good to bad or it can start and stay bad, once she thinks negatively of you that’s it there’s no coming back, might as well start lying if it doesn’t matter about being honest
Bro I searched this up earlier couldn't find anything on this but I just came upon this thank you
Stuck in the Gray Area request button: 🔴
shes my classmate and she likes my friend and this really help
2:17 PLEASE DO IT
You're slowly carving me into a better man bro ❤thanks 😂😂🎉
Women get bored too fast. You have to master to keep entertain her
Demn that’s the perfect video in the perfect timing
Dude she left me and today we see for the first time, don't even know if I want her back but nice to have this vid
The worst is relationship at work. We didn't even start to date, and it's over. She told almost everyone at work that I'm in love with her and that she rejected me. Some of my coworkers don't even greet me anymore. WTF did she told them? It's like we are in high school. I am 35, and she is 34. But sometimes, talking to her is like talking to a little manipulative 13 year old girl. My coworkers don't know half of the story. She wanted me to buy her chocolate and cakes, she indirectly told me that.😂 When i folded and bought her, sometimes she rejected it. I was stunned WTF. Then i started to see red flages. I asked her out, and she told me that she always saw me as a colleague and nothing more. My God, colleagues, don't put asses inches to my face deliberately when I'm sitting down in my chair. And don't tell me stories like she did.😮 Fuk, I have to work with her almost every day in 8 hours shifts. She is giving me the silent treatment and angry responses when we have to communicate work related. Long silent shifts.
She's seeking attention and validation, most probably She's insecure. No contact is your best choice don't invest time in people that disrespect you
Conflict video is needed
Good timing ❤❤❤❤❤
The timing is insane 💀
Thank You Hamza
I need this right now... 😢.
Wth is this?! The timing is so perfect !!!
Yea the grey zone video would be cool 🙏
This video showed up at the right time. Even UA-cam understands me more than my GF 💀
Just when I needed it 😭😭
great timing man, you keep solving my issues over and over again. rename the channel to the light needle as you really do bring the light to what’s missing.
Aren’t you God’s messenger perhaps?