Boys and Girls Who... Wish to become Men! and Women! ❤️❤️🔥 PLEASE BLOCK THIS CHANNEL! 🤯⛔️🏆 This Young Boy 👶🏻 Stands for NOTHING 💄 Hides in his BASEMENT and couldn’t Pull a Pint 🍻 If His Life Depended ON IT 🌎🌍🌏 PLEASE! Don’t listen to Him 🙏
porn addiction is different. but wanking every once in a while is natural, fun and healthy.. dont need to bring in allah and jesus here who wanna stop you from touching your peepee.
It still relies on luck. You can control your mind and work hard all you want, but if luck never let's things fall into place for you, you'll never see success.
Dude it really hit me when you said so bluntly and honestly that we are tricking our brains into thinking that we have achieved man's highest goal and collecting our reward for it
@@paromita_ghosh You exist because others achieved this goal. The continuation of Life was and is every living being's highest goal. Even your cells only do what they do to survive and procreate. That's literally what they were designed and shaped to do over the course of 3.8 billion years when life began on earth.
yeah haha even do medical research links pleasuring yourself as something complete normal and healthy. The problem is when YOU make it unhealthy, sure you can concentrate if you do it, do it after concentrating then, you can rewire it as a reward system for example. Its basically fine as long as it doesnt interfere with your studies, social life, sleep, etc. Its like playing videogames after studying, sure it can be unhealthy, there are people who game all day and night, but so is sugar unhealthy if you do eat to much. or salt, or carbohidrates, or even doing to much sport. Anything is bad if you do to much, in some circustamnces you can do more or less, for example you can eat more carbohrydates a day you do more physical activity. Even drugs are "good" (IF YOU WERE TO USE THEM ONCE), the problem is that because they are so addicting by using them once you can already form an addiction. If you have the willpower and most importanty a good mental health, you can practice "tricking your brain" moderatly.
Thank you Iman! I am 15 years old at the moment. Because of you I am able to support my parents with their financial problems. Because of you I had advice and motivation to start a Creative agency. Because of you I was able to sign my first client at only a age of 14! I can't thank you enough. Someday I will be able to give something back to you.
Wtf how can I end up as such a loser at 19 years old Edit: I actually succeeded in something, finally life got better, but it can always get worse so be careful lol
@@I_like14yo_girls if I don't stay honest to myself then shit won't matter, I'm a loser right now and that's the truth, this belief stuff is making me sick and gave up on it long time ago
I have quit games, social media, and every other addictive external activities because of Iman. I realized that I have to start working on myself and now Im working out playing sports and studying and finding new languages and hobbies. thank you Iman
Reading books can become an addiction too? Playing sports can become an addition too? Stop this bullshit about stopping everything cause it's addicting. Dude's talking about the sexual stuff and some people out here saying they quit everything just because they feel it's addicting...
"Stop chasing women" BUT it shouldn't stop there. A partner does not magically appear because you stopped chasing. It should say "Stop chasing women, but keep your mind open in case the right one comes by." For many, having a partner in life IS the north star. So actively ignoring ALL women will not get you to your goal. You just need to focus on good ethics and morals.
You are not getting any woman without chasing them, that is simply the truth and basic biological human behaviour. Extremely rarely will women make plans for you.
As a 35 year old man I can tell you that this is totally right. I struggled with all of this since I was 16 and it stole a ton of my time. Feeling purposeful (I found that in Jesus, work, and relationships) has been the biggest indicator of how I will be doing in this area. So don’t be discouraged if it takes you time. Oh man, I know that rollercoaster of thinking I was doing great one day and hating myself the next. The best thing you can do is give yourself compassion cause it won’t be an overnight change but you can get there. I’m now doing so much of what I love - video work and writing my first feature film. I believe in you all!
When I focused 16 hours a day on programming I would struggle and toil and push through the difficult problems I faced. But when the eventual breakthrough came- I can’t describe the dopamine rush and genuine sense of self pride that accompanied it. It was so much greater than any video game accomplishment or cheap thrill. Now I have a lifelong skill. We’ve been training our brains to always seek the easy way and maximize dopamine. Don’t. Go the hard way- the rewards are worth it.
I'm currently at the lowest point in my life. I'm addicted to the internet,social media etc.I can't go a single day without these. Thanks Iman on addressing this issue, there are many teens who are afraid to express their feelings to others in fear of judgement. So, find the solutions to your own problems. Ask others who had been through the same thing. May we all rise again. Amen.
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. I should have heard this a long time ago because I let it get out of control. Just subscribed and will start training my mind, i appreciate this brother.
A very well articulated video, Basically we have to understand that there are no glamorous hacks for success but simple habits which seems boring but in long run will provide results.
@@ŠemantaMakkoabsolutely! Soft porn and advertisements and shorts anything that shows women in a sexual way also damages your brain and it causes sexual disfunction. Impotence. Masterbation also damages you. Cheap dopamain. It’s an addiction needed to click on porn soft porn or sexual shorts.
If a women is not able to be for you she is not ready to be with a man. Since the fallen of Adam all parameters of woman and men are ruined, is why u see a lot of woman with desires those desires them show it. Woman always will think is normal to show breast to all men. That a corrupted woman, it need to be coaching.
man i can’t stop crying, i’m realising how brainwashed i’ve been it’s not that my eyes were not opened to this reality… you just output it in a absolutely great way… that helps the practice towards dropping these bad habits
Wait until you find out who did it... and that when you hate them, they hate you back 10x harder and call you really powerful names that they invented to destroy your reputation, moral, character, and eventually... you.
I’ve seen a lot of video content on this topic that all say the same thing but this is by far the best way of laying out the information that I’ve seen. Very compelling and provides great perspective. Nice work!
Most of the time we are all aware of the problems that are pulling us down or from achieving something in particular but we as humans are weak and always fall back down and it's okay, I love to watch this type of video contents to help myself as a reminder so I don't fall back in my old habits and even if I do, we get back up and keep on going forward. Thanks Iman and always enjoyed every bit fo your content, I always take notes every time I watch your videos and listen to you. You have helped not only me but most of the youngsters to be more successful. Thank you for that brother.
Took the words out of my mouth bro. I hate myself for oftenly succumbing to my vices and urges. Instilling discipline within your decision making is KEY to digging ourselves out of our holes
Unfortunately discipline and willpower will only get you so far. Awareness will bring deeper understanding on the underlying reasons you reach out for these things, these coping mechanisms. Only then can you begin to truly disrupt the cycle.
Probably the BEST fucking advice I’ve ever seen on social media! It’s like sitting down with your gramps and listening to his life lessons. All of this is solid truth, all young lads need to get hooked on this.
I just came back to this video to thank you Iman for releasing this. After this video I have yet to pleasure myself. I have filtered everything that would tempt me and instead think of other things to distract my desires. Also I tell myself if I do end up doing it, I will be more upset than ever after putting so much effort into resisting the thought of doing it. It’s not worth it and I’m already seeing such positive results. I’m already so much further into what I thought wasn’t possible.
From the point of view of a woman who is constantly working on herself and getting better every day: there is nothing more attractive than a man who is focused, works on himself, wants to get better and also implements it. Such men do not need to worry about women, that happens all by itself with time, as Iman says. A really successful video for men.👍🏼
@@adityachakrabarti950 You're under a self improvement video and still act like a asshole? This is why a lot of people will never change or get better in life
I legit needed to hear this. I have carved every step into my brain, it's time to be fully committed and concentrated. I always fail to be determined and struggle for who I want to be come and for what I'm living for. Like I follow the schedule I've made for a week, but then I feel lethargic to keep up with it, It's like I can't show any resilience to it... now I'm going to change it for the better good, I ain't gonna slip anymore and fall thousands of steps back, Ima make it.
Great message Iman. One of the big challenges for young people growing up in today's society is definitely to develop focus and being able to concentrate for long periods of time, when you are used to instant gratification. However, it is possible to train oneself to get rid of this issue, simply by doing the hard things. Keep up the awesome work
Watching from South Africa......you've helped me with fight my weed addiction now m more focused than before.....All thanks to you Mr Iman.........appreciate your message....❤❤
"I don't always understand everything you say. But what you convey and what you mean by it is always enriching. I'm from Germany and have been following you for a while, and I find your journey incredible. Keep it up, bro."
Everyone who felt that this video brought him back , you have to keep in mind that this is like motivation , if you don't know what your doing this video will have short term effect !
@thehiddenshark . Hey there! There is a huge difference between motivation and 'changing your fundamental belief.' He told you what is true, and that personally shocked me. It might change my perspective, which in turn could alter my emotions and perhaps even my life.
its not about men women do watch porns too and their expectations get too high and results dissatisfaction so consider your type as well instead of mentioning "men"
i'll tell you this though, its weird cause if and when I dont masturbate, it builds, and I get that fire inside, women do take notice of this somehow, its weird. It's like you exude something that brings women to you. lol strange.
The timing of this video is insane. I’ve literally been struggling with this problem for 8 years now and I relapsed both yesterday and today and felt absolutely awful and lost all hopes of future success. Inshallah now after this video I can realign myself with my physical and spiritual goals and end up in the path of success ❤
8:43 A advice I can give about triggers that has worked excellently for me is to put your phone in gray scale. Watching trigger pictures with a gray scale has allowed me not to feel the urge whenever I see them. I even did the experiment of looking at the same picture with and without the filter and that just convinced me more about this methods efficiency.
Don't do it for the likes do it because you know it's right. Not only to better yourself but to show others that they can achieve it too. God bless and stay strong 💪 🙏
I've dedicated all my time to social media and find it hard to break away until I've watched this video. I've now resolved to engage in something productive at the start of my day. thank you Iman
We as men need to to come together and prove not just to everyone else but to ourselves we are better than this and are stronger then this. Fight thru the fight🙏
That's the first video of Iman Gahzhi, I have watch ever. Before this video I only know about Iman Gahzhi related to the "The Asset's which Iman Gadzhi uses in his videos", "Break down of Iman Gadzhi video"... like this. But this video is awesome, I'm currently doing study in Programming field and providing Video Editing to the clients. I didn't know about the concrete purpose of my life but now somethings are clear in my mind after watching this video. Now I'll follow up all the necessary step to keep growing. Thankyou soo much for sharing this valuable information!!!😊
i dont think that there are enough 13 to 15 year old who truly understand how complicated being succesful really is and this video is truly a masterpiece keep it up!
As a young woman I thank you for this video. On a girl's perspective many of us don't want guys who watch porn because we are afraid the men we date/marry will either want to act out porn scenarios or positions, or we won't be enough for them. Terrified of not having love in sex. It's a big fear I've had many women share with me, especially religious girls. So thank you for helping replace porn with purpose.
U could also argue disney films and books are the womens version to porn yeah its not porn but its Stimulating for women because women are pleasure with there mind and men with what they see
This is honestly the most comprehensive and well versed self help guide I've ever seen. If this doesn't get you to change and start building yourself, I don't know what will.
I’m Wilfred from Ghana and I think you did a very great job. The content of this video if seriously applied can transform one into a Superman. Thanks so much
Everything that is said in this video is FACTS. I’ve felt this for years being a gambler and having an alcohol addiction. I’m looking to attend meetings and get help so I can get better. One day at a time
This is so accurate since I’ve started focusing on myself the girls, the respect, job everything just came to me , focus on yourself boys delay gratification so worth it and remember , when you fail smile and rise up again this is how a man handle life💪🏻
From Now onwards, I will start focusing on everything that has been explained in this video. I will keep this video downloaded, so that i can watch it everyday. It will help me motivate again and again. Thank you for your precious time.❤ I will Become Successful. I am 15 and it will help me everytime.
This video is the most accurate and retable video to watch. It worked as the perfect video to motivate me from the disaster sitution i am in. Thanks Iman for such great help!! Lots of love brotha!!
not gonna lie, but Iman you've become my inspiration since a year, I've seen your entire struggle story, we got the same life story and you motivate me with your every video. just be the person who you are, you are really a gem in today's world, helping people like us to focus on career and to have a good life ahead. waiting for 30th October!
The fact that this information is given to people freely by someone who knows success and offers the basics through practicality is amazing. Thank you for this video. I appreciate you.
@@delbimore431you’re completely right, but it’s also something tons of people deal with and sometimes you need someone to really tell you to get it together and break the pattern. not sure how helpful maybe someone on the internet is though but it’s a good start
Wow this is by far the best video I’ve seen in my life, this is just what I needed to watch, I’m struggling in this area of my life, especially with the soft porn, and this video has helped me determine what I need to do in order to fix this problem, I know it’s not going to be an easy journey but I will, I must, do it!! LETS GOOOO!!!
Iman, you changed my mind so much and made me a better person. thank you for all of those videos and im waiting for 30th of october to hear about the school system and to open my moms eyes finally so she fully understands me. thank you again.
Be prepared for a possibility of her not doing so or even being able to, or wanting to try. Programming and cognitive dissonance are difficult to overcome even if willing to do so. I hope she does though.
He knows what he's talking about, i wish i knew this 3-4 years ago i would've been a complete different person by now but i appreciate the effort and courage to show us the real image of how to become a better version of yourself, keep grinding fellas and most importantly thank you iman, keep up the good work man.
I stumbled on this vid mistakenly and it has been the best thing that has happened to me all week long i did not even know i needed to see this vid but i am so glad i did
Abstaining from pornography and masturbation itself is one of the best things that has happend to me. It's improved my mental clarity, self-control, relationships, confidence, and gave me tons of energy. Hopefully the next generation will be better armed than we were. Unrestricted internet access really has had its toll on the populis.
God bless you Sir for teaching young men like me how to be responsible, serious in life, hardworking and discipline, you are a treasure, keep up the good work Sir, thanks alot
never ever commented for a youtube channel but this man get it so well the way he is talking and convincing is truly insane keep up the Great work dude
Great video, I started getting therapy for my porn addiction a month ago, and have been making progress. It’s awesome to see more people talking about this problem, and watching these videos reinstates my commitment to get over my addiction and new advice I can use to help my journey.
This will make even beginners millionaires... ua-cam.com/video/uCjcc1TXk5c/v-deo.html
damn your mom is hot!!!
Boys and Girls Who... Wish to become Men! and Women! ❤️❤️🔥 PLEASE BLOCK THIS CHANNEL! 🤯⛔️🏆 This Young Boy 👶🏻 Stands for NOTHING 💄 Hides in his BASEMENT and couldn’t Pull a Pint 🍻 If His Life Depended ON IT 🌎🌍🌏 PLEASE! Don’t listen to Him 🙏
@@garyseeseverything8615 a blind men can find an exit, if he used his other senses, then he was never blind.
porn addiction is different. but wanking every once in a while is natural, fun and healthy.. dont need to bring in allah and jesus here who wanna stop you from touching your peepee.
come to islam brother...🖤
STAY STRONG COMRADES, WE ALL GONNA MAKE IT 💪
@@justastupidduckwithahat6393if you think that, you already failed, and it's you ofcourse 🤣🤣
Insha allah ❤
InshaAllah
@@farahdemir4691 Not only are men screwed, but they can't find anyone to nail.
Communism is not the answer
So proud of all the guys here trying to better themselves. We got this. Keep the good work up.
@@dunkbros1455proud of you
@@dunkbros1455Keep at it brother 🫡
and gals
Inshallah! become a giga chad muslim as the next step
Inshallah we all@@Ezekiel-dude
Success is easy when you can control your mind🧘♂️🧘♀️
💯
@@matiastorres9437sooner or later it’s in control. Stay out of matrix, compete in anything also your time
@@matiastorres9437 because something else is always hard 😆
@matiastorres9437 maybe for you.
It still relies on luck. You can control your mind and work hard all you want, but if luck never let's things fall into place for you, you'll never see success.
"The man without purpose distracts himself with pleasure."
Thanks bro this quote changed my mind😬
I got distracted many times in life
Great quote
How to find our purpose?
Preach it Brother!
Dude it really hit me when you said so bluntly and honestly that we are tricking our brains into thinking that we have achieved man's highest goal and collecting our reward for it
dude my wife hits me
Only extremely low iq brains will believe it.
@@paromita_ghosh You exist because others achieved this goal. The continuation of Life was and is every living being's highest goal. Even your cells only do what they do to survive and procreate. That's literally what they were designed and shaped to do over the course of 3.8 billion years when life began on earth.
yeah haha even do medical research links pleasuring yourself as something complete normal and healthy. The problem is when YOU make it unhealthy, sure you can concentrate if you do it, do it after concentrating then, you can rewire it as a reward system for example. Its basically fine as long as it doesnt interfere with your studies, social life, sleep, etc. Its like playing videogames after studying, sure it can be unhealthy, there are people who game all day and night, but so is sugar unhealthy if you do eat to much. or salt, or carbohidrates, or even doing to much sport. Anything is bad if you do to much, in some circustamnces you can do more or less, for example you can eat more carbohrydates a day you do more physical activity. Even drugs are "good" (IF YOU WERE TO USE THEM ONCE), the problem is that because they are so addicting by using them once you can already form an addiction. If you have the willpower and most importanty a good mental health, you can practice "tricking your brain" moderatly.
Thank you Iman! I am 15 years old at the moment. Because of you I am able to support my parents with their financial problems. Because of you I had advice and motivation to start a Creative agency. Because of you I was able to sign my first client at only a age of 14! I can't thank you enough. Someday I will be able to give something back to you.
Wtf how can I end up as such a loser at 19 years old
Edit: I actually succeeded in something, finally life got better, but it can always get worse so be careful lol
Awesome man, love to see it!
So sick.
@@I_like14yo_girls if I don't stay honest to myself then shit won't matter, I'm a loser right now and that's the truth, this belief stuff is making me sick and gave up on it long time ago
Putting in the first step and work was all you king. Well on your way to make it big.
I have quit games, social media, and every other addictive external activities because of Iman. I realized that I have to start working on myself and now Im working out playing sports and studying and finding new languages and hobbies. thank you Iman
@@daviandrade5845 that kinda makes sense
@@stevenmctowelie681 i workout three times a week bro
im starting new, hopefully i can be the one whom i wanted to be in my dreams
Actually working out can be so addictive too.
Reading books can become an addiction too? Playing sports can become an addition too?
Stop this bullshit about stopping everything cause it's addicting. Dude's talking about the sexual stuff and some people out here saying they quit everything just because they feel it's addicting...
Whoever likes this I'll do 20 pushups everyday
20 a day??? 20 per like get to it 💪🏼
I'm going to touch you
I'm going to touch you
I'm going to touch you
I'm going to touch you
Disconnecting from addiction means you control yourself.
Removing the triggers means you can master yourself.
Great speech
"Stop chasing women" BUT it shouldn't stop there. A partner does not magically appear because you stopped chasing. It should say "Stop chasing women, but keep your mind open in case the right one comes by." For many, having a partner in life IS the north star. So actively ignoring ALL women will not get you to your goal. You just need to focus on good ethics and morals.
❤TRUE
You are not getting any woman without chasing them, that is simply the truth and basic biological human behaviour. Extremely rarely will women make plans for you.
You should stop until you completely build yourself. Once you’re ready you can decide whether you want to start over or quit (chasing women)
bullshit you all internet hypocrites how many times i read this comment online
@@SwedeRacerDC : you are anyway not gonna make a good partner if you are in a fap mode
As a 35 year old man I can tell you that this is totally right. I struggled with all of this since I was 16 and it stole a ton of my time. Feeling purposeful (I found that in Jesus, work, and relationships) has been the biggest indicator of how I will be doing in this area. So don’t be discouraged if it takes you time. Oh man, I know that rollercoaster of thinking I was doing great one day and hating myself the next. The best thing you can do is give yourself compassion cause it won’t be an overnight change but you can get there. I’m now doing so much of what I love - video work and writing my first feature film. I believe in you all!
Thank you for sharing this man. It gives hope.
Shut up@@SciFi.805
@@SciFi.805Jesus is the only way
Thanks for the words, friend!
good achievements
UGH dont push your jesus bullshit on other people - you traded one addiction for another. so who suckered you in? who got you to join the cult?
stop watching pr 1:35
stop pleasuring yourself 3:31
find your purpose 6:04
stop watching soft pr 8:06
focus inwards not outwards 9:22
stop chasing women 11:18
˹O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do.
Thanks. would be better if this video had chapters
Thank you God! I'm beyond grateful for the opportunity of change,tears of humility.
I m done with 80% of these just need to focus on last one
how do I stop chasing myself
When I focused 16 hours a day on programming I would struggle and toil and push through the difficult problems I faced. But when the eventual breakthrough came- I can’t describe the dopamine rush and genuine sense of self pride that accompanied it. It was so much greater than any video game accomplishment or cheap thrill. Now I have a lifelong skill.
We’ve been training our brains to always seek the easy way and maximize dopamine. Don’t. Go the hard way- the rewards are worth it.
@@drygordspellweaver8761 he meant the afterlife
programming is so hard, but so rewarding when you finally get it to work
@@lalaly2011 I wanna learn have any tips?
@@taimassaf7532 code whatever you want. The challenges will help you grow and learn and thats really all i can say, the rest is you
5:50 do you solve leetcode questions ?
I am glad that I was able to stumble across this video, I pray for everyone who is reading this you got this
same here bro
My too brother and i am glad i watched it till the end....My journey begins today🙏🏿🌻
Praying for you too bro
Literally, like when I stumbled across this, I was like, an eye opener for sure. Stay strong my boys 💪
likewise man
I'm currently at the lowest point in my life. I'm addicted to the internet,social media etc.I can't go a single day without these. Thanks Iman on addressing this issue, there are many teens who are afraid to express their feelings to others in fear of judgement. So, find the solutions to your own problems. Ask others who had been through the same thing. May we all rise again. Amen.
It's been 8 months.
@@shabibsadman9154 clue us in
@@CAGonRiv how longs it been for you ma boi?
The love I have for my family took me here... keep hitting the goal guys. We WILL prevail!!
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. I should have heard this a long time ago because I let it get out of control. Just subscribed and will start training my mind, i appreciate this brother.
can i ask you how are you today? i am just curious :D
Keep it going 💪
You just made the best decision of our life brrr
conquering lust is the ultimate win. great video Iman.
I needed to hear this. I’ve been dipping back into distractions and I’m trying to fight these distractions. This video definitely brought me back
same exact situation with me, been too undisciplined lately
same
Agree with you
Same
uninstall short videos social media
A very well articulated video, Basically we have to understand that there are no glamorous hacks for success but simple habits which seems boring but in long run will provide results.
Mentioning SOFT porn is ULTRA important because there are no many influencers that mention that. Thanks for it 🙏
@@ŠemantaMakkoabsolutely!
Soft porn and advertisements and shorts anything that shows women in a sexual way also damages your brain and it causes sexual disfunction. Impotence.
Masterbation also damages you.
Cheap dopamain.
It’s an addiction needed to click on porn soft porn or sexual shorts.
If a women is not able to be for you she is not ready to be with a man. Since the fallen of Adam all parameters of woman and men are ruined, is why u see a lot of woman with desires those desires them show it.
Woman always will think is normal to show breast to all men. That a corrupted woman, it need to be coaching.
So*
man i can’t stop crying, i’m realising how brainwashed i’ve been
it’s not that my eyes were not opened to this reality… you just output it in a absolutely great way… that helps the practice towards dropping these bad habits
it's okay brother, can you tell me why you think this is happening?
jokes on you cuz this guy just brainwashed you twice, sucker!
loser
Wait until you find out who did it... and that when you hate them, they hate you back 10x harder and call you really powerful names that they invented to destroy your reputation, moral, character, and eventually... you.
you crying because of masturbation makes you think like woman
I’ve seen a lot of video content on this topic that all say the same thing but this is by far the best way of laying out the information that I’ve seen. Very compelling and provides great perspective. Nice work!
Yep, and from my personal negative expirience, I can say this guy knows what he is talking about!
Fuck yes this was amazing. Loved the last part about holding your own before allowing someone else into your life makes so much sense.
I’m a girl but still watched your video and agree with all you’re saying. You are a really great example of being a good and disciplined person.
Same, do you know any models for women on the female side, as Iman but that could give advice to young girls?
@@AriTretry watching tam kaur
Elizabeth chu
@@AriTre Elizabeth Filips
exactly
Give this Man an Award 🥇
Most of the time we are all aware of the problems that are pulling us down or from achieving something in particular but we as humans are weak and always fall back down and it's okay, I love to watch this type of video contents to help myself as a reminder so I don't fall back in my old habits and even if I do, we get back up and keep on going forward. Thanks Iman and always enjoyed every bit fo your content, I always take notes every time I watch your videos and listen to you. You have helped not only me but most of the youngsters to be more successful. Thank you for that brother.
Took the words out of my mouth bro. I hate myself for oftenly succumbing to my vices and urges. Instilling discipline within your decision making is KEY to digging ourselves out of our holes
Unfortunately discipline and willpower will only get you so far. Awareness will bring deeper understanding on the underlying reasons you reach out for these things, these coping mechanisms. Only then can you begin to truly disrupt the cycle.
um chat is this sigma?
@@chittiversion2.0 I have no idea what that means
Probably the BEST fucking advice I’ve ever seen on social media! It’s like sitting down with your gramps and listening to his life lessons. All of this is solid truth, all young lads need to get hooked on this.
Iman is the mentor we all need in our lives as young men.
I just came back to this video to thank you Iman for releasing this. After this video I have yet to pleasure myself. I have filtered everything that would tempt me and instead think of other things to distract my desires. Also I tell myself if I do end up doing it, I will be more upset than ever after putting so much effort into resisting the thought of doing it.
It’s not worth it and I’m already seeing such positive results. I’m already so much further into what I thought wasn’t possible.
Share your progress bro
From the point of view of a woman who is constantly working on herself and getting better every day: there is nothing more attractive than a man who is focused, works on himself, wants to get better and also implements it. Such men do not need to worry about women, that happens all by itself with time, as Iman says.
A really successful video for men.👍🏼
@@adityachakrabarti950 You're under a self improvement video and still act like a asshole? This is why a lot of people will never change or get better in life
Nobody asked
@@adityachakrabarti950 ur a shame for ur loved ones...
@@fun_g well someone's angyyyy ................................... :)
dont listen to these dumb replies
Thanks man.. half the things you side where obvious but just needed to hear it... Thanks
Iman is that big brother that tries to do everything for u to achieve that good life...Thanks Iman, more life to you my brother🙌🙌
Yes true
I legit needed to hear this. I have carved every step into my brain, it's time to be fully committed and concentrated. I always fail to be determined and struggle for who I want to be come and for what I'm living for. Like I follow the schedule I've made for a week, but then I feel lethargic to keep up with it, It's like I can't show any resilience to it... now I'm going to change it for the better good, I ain't gonna slip anymore and fall thousands of steps back, Ima make it.
Great message Iman. One of the big challenges for young people growing up in today's society is definitely to develop focus and being able to concentrate for long periods of time, when you are used to instant gratification. However, it is possible to train oneself to get rid of this issue, simply by doing the hard things. Keep up the awesome work
Fully agree with you man
I'm thankful that Islam has structured everything so well
Watching from South Africa......you've helped me with fight my weed addiction now m more focused than before.....All thanks to you Mr Iman.........appreciate your message....❤❤
"I don't always understand everything you say. But what you convey and what you mean by it is always enriching. I'm from Germany and have been following you for a while, and I find your journey incredible. Keep it up, bro."
Everyone who felt that this video brought him back , you have to keep in mind that this is like motivation , if you don't know what your doing this video will have short term effect !
Yes
You could mention that motivation is to get you started but discipline will keep you on the right path to success.
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@thehiddenshark . Hey there! There is a huge difference between motivation and 'changing your fundamental belief.' He told you what is true, and that personally shocked me. It might change my perspective, which in turn could alter my emotions and perhaps even my life.
Watched all the way to the end, very good description. May God Blesss you brother
You can definitely tell the difference between men who are aware of this and those who are just oblivious.
its not about men women do watch porns too and their expectations get too high and results dissatisfaction so consider your type as well instead of mentioning "men"
i'll tell you this though, its weird cause if and when I dont masturbate, it builds, and I get that fire inside, women do take notice of this somehow, its weird. It's like you exude something that brings women to you. lol strange.
for sure@@Just_A_Casual_Fan_Sorry
Yeah!
Millionaires don't masturbate and sexualize their brains! Epstein island was all for broke people 🤣🤣🤣
Yes definitely, it’s easy to spot the difference, you go blind if you masturbate.
The timing of this video is insane. I’ve literally been struggling with this problem for 8 years now and I relapsed both yesterday and today and felt absolutely awful and lost all hopes of future success. Inshallah now after this video I can realign myself with my physical and spiritual goals and end up in the path of success ❤
get you shit together brother, rooting for you
Amin Akhi ❤
That's actually really great man I hope you do well in life wishing the best
How is it going brother
stay strong bro it’s going to get better trust
Wow This is one of the best things I ever heard. Especially the focus on yourself thing. Thank you
8:43 A advice I can give about triggers that has worked excellently for me is to put your phone in gray scale. Watching trigger pictures with a gray scale has allowed me not to feel the urge whenever I see them. I even did the experiment of looking at the same picture with and without the filter and that just convinced me more about this methods efficiency.
Good stuff man. It's good to hear you talking about this and your tone is supportive. Thank you.
The level of understanding and wisdom is absolutely insane. My role model!!
Whoever likes this I will do ten push ups every day
Don't do it for the likes do it because you know it's right. Not only to better yourself but to show others that they can achieve it too. God bless and stay strong 💪 🙏
Do it for your self
Do it cuz u want to
Do it because there is no other option
4000 push ups aday😂
I like how you deliver, with kindness, like from brother to brother. Everything is true in this video.
I've dedicated all my time to social media and find it hard to break away until I've watched this video. I've now resolved to engage in something productive at the start of my day. thank you Iman
i spent all my time gooning so i dont have this problem
We as men need to to come together and prove not just to everyone else but to ourselves we are better than this and are stronger then this. Fight thru the fight🙏
Good news to hear a man saying this.
Thank you for the help! I’m 17 and I do everything you talk about. You’ve put the drive in me to stop doing it and get control of my life!!
Hello man I’m 17 as u , may I ask u a question? It’s that can we have make a small conversation ? If ur answer is positive can u give ur Email address
Proud of you bro
Thank you very much, Iman. This is my life-changing video. May the Almighty bless you.
Aameen❤
Literally subscribed after watching rhis...feels like exactly what i needed to hear...!
same bro
Same
He’s Correct
May this benefit all of us
Amen
Amen
That's the first video of Iman Gahzhi, I have watch ever. Before this video I only know about Iman Gahzhi related to the "The Asset's which Iman Gadzhi uses in his videos", "Break down of Iman Gadzhi video"... like this.
But this video is awesome, I'm currently doing study in Programming field and providing Video Editing to the clients. I didn't know about the concrete purpose of my life but now somethings are clear in my mind after watching this video. Now I'll follow up all the necessary step to keep growing.
Thankyou soo much for sharing this valuable information!!!😊
"i always lost money chasing women, but have never lost women chasing money."
i dont think that there are enough 13 to 15 year old who truly understand how complicated being succesful really is and this video is truly a masterpiece keep it up!
As a young woman I thank you for this video. On a girl's perspective many of us don't want guys who watch porn because we are afraid the men we date/marry will either want to act out porn scenarios or positions, or we won't be enough for them. Terrified of not having love in sex. It's a big fear I've had many women share with me, especially religious girls. So thank you for helping replace porn with purpose.
If you most value purpose then could you explain what is the purpose of the female's orgasm 😏
Porn is killing relationships
U could also argue disney films and books are the womens version to porn yeah its not porn but its Stimulating for women because women are pleasure with there mind and men with what they see
@@DavisInDuvalpick me much brother
Who tf wants religious girls? 😂
Amen, brother. I've been preaching this for years!
This is literally gold. One of the most useful and driving videos on the platform today. I want to know the butterfly on this video
Thank you Iman. This is definitely a wake up call for every man out there. Success doesn’t wait for you, you gotta chase it
Iman has changed my life and now I am in control of my life. Thank you Iman
how
@@mykolas8575I like how he never replied 😂
This is honestly the most comprehensive and well versed self help guide I've ever seen. If this doesn't get you to change and start building yourself, I don't know what will.
Wow Iman. This is what I genuinely needed. Thank you so much for speaking the truth. You are a great example to the young audience.
This video is evergreen. My 3rd time watching and still feels good. Thanks Iman. I'm rooting for you too❤
This is so necessary 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I love that this honesty is coming from a man. God is Good 🙏🏾
God is make believe
@@themacocko6311life is make believe 🤗✨
You a feminist?
i appericate him because he gives right advices for growing and changing in life
You just spit truth, thanks for awakening ❤
I’m Wilfred from Ghana and I think you did a very great job. The content of this video if seriously applied can transform one into a Superman. Thanks so much
Where has this channel been all my time here? This was very helpful. The last point hit a chord. Thank you so much for sharing your experience.
Everything that is said in this video is FACTS. I’ve felt this for years being a gambler and having an alcohol addiction. I’m looking to attend meetings and get help so I can get better. One day at a time
Master your urges...very major key point.📌🔥
Thank you Iman.
Thank you. You are not only giving some great advice but also you do so in a way that is very encouraging and supportive 👍🏻
NNN is a blessing
it's crazy to see how many people he has helped change their lives
hopefully he changed yours
Watching this as a woman and the advice is still very true for us as well, great video thank you!
No hate for you but don't destroy young men being half naked and it's even better to stop other women to do that
why are you directing this at her then. Sounds like you're blaming her for all other women.@@No-Userrfound
Hii😊
@@No-Userrfound having self control is key. its not the women.
@@No-Userrfounddumah boy im fina get on yo ah
Thanks for this message brother really needed to hear this 👍.
god bless you my dear brother for talking about this discussion
This is so accurate since I’ve started focusing on myself the girls, the respect, job everything just came to me , focus on yourself boys delay gratification so worth it and remember , when you fail smile and rise up again this is how a man handle life💪🏻
From Now onwards,
I will start focusing on everything that has been explained in this video.
I will keep this video downloaded, so that i can watch it everyday. It will help me motivate again and again.
Thank you for your precious time.❤
I will Become Successful.
I am 15 and it will help me everytime.
Hey man, how's it going?
This video is the most accurate and retable video to watch. It worked as the perfect video to motivate me from the disaster sitution i am in. Thanks Iman for such great help!! Lots of love brotha!!
That was sure helpful. Thanks so much. keep sharing beneficial things❤
Love the frequency when delivering your messages
yeah i fw with 75 hertz frequency
Purpose is key! You don’t escape porn by escaping porn alone. Run toward the greater thing to escape the lesser thing 🔥💪🏿
The best thing that I wanted to see and get these days. thank you so much bro. from Iran.
thanks man i will watch this every month
not gonna lie, but Iman you've become my inspiration since a year, I've seen your entire struggle story, we got the same life story and you motivate me with your every video. just be the person who you are, you are really a gem in today's world, helping people like us to focus on career and to have a good life ahead. waiting for 30th October!
The fact that this information is given to people freely by someone who knows success and offers the basics through practicality is amazing. Thank you for this video. I appreciate you.
@@delbimore431you’re completely right, but it’s also something tons of people deal with and sometimes you need someone to really tell you to get it together and break the pattern. not sure how helpful maybe someone on the internet is though but it’s a good start
Wow this is by far the best video I’ve seen in my life, this is just what I needed to watch, I’m struggling in this area of my life, especially with the soft porn, and this video has helped me determine what I need to do in order to fix this problem, I know it’s not going to be an easy journey but I will, I must, do it!! LETS GOOOO!!!
One of the best videos on UA-cam about these kinds of topics 🤜🙌
0:44 most important line
Iman, you changed my mind so much and made me a better person. thank you for all of those videos and im waiting for 30th of october to hear about the school system and to open my moms eyes finally so she fully understands me. thank you again.
Be prepared for a possibility of her not doing so or even being able to, or wanting to try. Programming and cognitive dissonance are difficult to overcome even if willing to do so. I hope she does though.
U re welcome
I was in your position. You need to hustle hard and prove her wrong. She might never take you seriously unless you succeed.
Lmfao
He knows what he's talking about, i wish i knew this 3-4 years ago i would've been a complete different person by now but i appreciate the effort and courage to show us the real image of how to become a better version of yourself, keep grinding fellas and most importantly thank you iman, keep up the good work man.
The second best time to know it is now
I stumbled on this vid mistakenly and it has been the best thing that has happened to me all week long i did not even know i needed to see this vid but i am so glad i did
Abstaining from pornography and masturbation itself is one of the best things that has happend to me. It's improved my mental clarity, self-control, relationships, confidence, and gave me tons of energy. Hopefully the next generation will be better armed than we were. Unrestricted internet access really has had its toll on the populis.
God bless you Sir for teaching young men like me how to be responsible, serious in life, hardworking and discipline, you are a treasure, keep up the good work Sir, thanks alot
never ever commented for a youtube channel but this man get it so well the way he is talking and convincing is truly insane keep up the Great work dude
“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” ― Marcus Aurelius
Great video, I started getting therapy for my porn addiction a month ago, and have been making progress. It’s awesome to see more people talking about this problem, and watching these videos reinstates my commitment to get over my addiction and new advice I can use to help my journey.
If u happen to be a Christian
I would encourage u to pray to Christ Jesus for more self control
God help u Amen