The key: love yourself first, invest in you: make money:gain self-confidence: don’t seek validation: get a sense of purpose: independence, get busy: be ware: not showing up: be unpredictable: pull back: she becomes obsessed: she gets afraid: she realizes your value: she works for your attention: she values it: she becomes intrigued, sparked, excited and attracted. Or she leaves, you don’t chase. You uphold your sense of self worth. Be scarce my guy!
It's simple. If someone wants to be with you, they'll make it easy, very easy. If you face any difficulties, the person you like doesn't like you back. They are thinking of someone else. Move on, go where you are wanted.
Then you push and pull them, that is if their intention is to make you suffer as you suggested. You can make her want you by building intrigue and attraction by ways of push and pull manipulation, meaning her measures to manipulate you shall receed.
@@31cifywhy would you want someone that don’t like you to like you ? The message is to move on and find someone on your temperature. Someone you can something genuine not some push and pull stunt
I recently got reconnected with a girl that once rejected me, but now I am more cautious on her, not being overly enthusiastic and needy when I am with her, I just treat her like chill and simple when we come across each other at work, I also does 1:1 text game, if she replies I respond back and forth, if she dont then I dont, I know it is really hard especially when the interaction with her before was sweet and close, but I am thankful our friendship wasnt ruined due to the rejection. Now I can go with my life and sleep without thinking much about her as a way to complete my day
@@omellemmor4732 same brother, met a woman in the gym, 1st date went well, after that she “rejected me” …I knew my value so I stopped pursuing her gave her some space , months later SHE approached me in the gym …long story short we’ve been dating now going on 4 months. Now that I’m in her space, I do what you do…I don’t over text, I don’t reveal to much information right away, shit I barely even say hi to her or approach at the gym anymore…she’s told me on many occasions she LOVES that I give her , her time and space!
Yeah, in her eyes now, you are the MAN. The cool, calm and collected individual she couldn't bear to see with someone else. If she was to find out you'd been texting other women or flirting with others, jealousy would be raging inside her. This is exactly what you want.
Truth be told, if i have to give you distance due to your goofy games and all what not.; be rest assured that i am quite pulling back for real and for good, not to win you back but for my peace of mind, mental health and improving my self. And not to win you back regardless; aint no way i am playing this needless mind games just to be with a girl, who aint acting right. She isn't worth it. Move on fellas and get someone who is serious about you and intentional to commit to a healthy relationships. I have been there and done that, and now happy with my spouse. Good luck
Well said. There's some other guy she floods his messages unsolicited so why should I bother with these games? I'm too busy and grown to be dealing with emotionally damaged women.
*Respecting a woman’s space shows confidence and emotional maturity. It allows her to miss your presence, reflect on her feelings, and appreciate your independence - traits that naturally build attraction.*
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Jess your videos have made me mastered this game in my relationships with women. The act of withdrawing your attention makes her wonder what changed and she starts to rather hit back while ignore her.
The most efficent is giving the woman space to miss you. if here if she truly misses you she will try to reach out to you and inquire why she's not heard from you but if doesnt miss you she will not even border getting back to you and this will be a clear sign that she's moved on so the move is simple let her go and never text her back.
I completely vanished from my ex's world again. She needs to learn there was one man that refused to be eating from her hand. I don't know if it was the right thing to do, but I followed my gut. She can get any man she wants. It's her world. I'm just no longer in it.
🇯🇲🇯🇲 Milking the already dehydrated cow. She is doing that by infusing water somehow. Jessica, you’re good, you’re very well endowed. I remember when you were struggling to be proud. Wode Maya said find your niche even in the cloud. You found mysteries of women “men don’t know”. Glad to see your channel blooms as it mature/grows. Lesson: never be too proud to ask when don’t know. Many times pride is used only for a public show. What we reap are from that which we sew.
Absolutely spot on here 💯 The opportunity to miss you >>>>> Then striking a balance not to come across as being mean so as not to be totally detached, such an awesome skill Thanks Jess!
Best thing u can do is find some one who actually wants you and then stop chasing weirdos who don't want you. And then work on having. A family and these 304 games will not long be a issue
Jessica talking about the old me, the ever-forgiving, always one call away, always begging, never walking away idiot! But I did walk away...and man that was the best decision of my life. Since then, I've been watching Jess and she has taught me so much!!... Now, I feel absolutely nothing about the girl and that even shocks me cos I thought that was impossible!
Currently, I am handling a relatively straightforward situation. The individual in question has removed me from their social media platforms due to a disagreement regarding boundaries and respect. I communicated to her that I had erected emotional barriers as a response to her disregard for my personal boundaries.
That True Ma'am You've nailed it📌,,, Distance is the Best option by giving Yourself time and gaining Your happiness back,,, Smart Content Madam Jess 💙💙 🥰🥰 Thank's🙏🙏.
My man gradually became distant, avoiding conversations and intimacy. I tried everything. open communication, spending more time together, and even compromising my own needs. but nothing seemed to reignite the connection.😢I keep giving love but no one to give it back to me and it was so sad but I won't stop loving love is very beautiful
First I want to say THANK YOU Jessica Os you're the reason I know difference btwn LoVE and mercy,Iam a new commer. proverb that relates with this topic is "sun can only be appreciated by it absence."
Her videos are addictive & apart from leaning more about love affairs also I'm learning English her English is very understandable words are loud and clear ❤
Women’s logic is so convoluted and confusing. I understand and kind of agree with what Jessica is saying, but in the end, it usually feels like a tired and draining game to make women feel comfortable that further confuses us men. As an example, j get the “let some time pass before you reply to her text”, but if I’m sitting here and can carve out ten seconds of my day to reply, why wouldn’t I? To me, that shows being in control of your day and responding accordingly. The fact that it makes me come across as thirsty or too caring makes zero sense to me. I get it, but my life can be fulfilling, busy, and simultaneously, managed enough to make time to communicate how I feel in a timely fashion. As a man, I feel like I should be so in control of my life and affairs that my availability is open because I’m in control, but having to intentionally become more aloof when I have availability is juvenile to me. I’m a good looking, confident man so my perspective is my own, but I’d much rather pursue semi reciprocity than playing like I’m busy when I can make time just to appease a woman. So nonsensical to me, but I get it - to a point, but I’d rather focus on those who can communicate their desires and needs somewhat clearly than anything else.
Wow. Guys actually do all this figuring out? Please. I wouldn’t dare. If she’s not reciprocating my energy then I’m going to give her Super Powers Space. 🤭 “Thank You!” for sharing 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Honestly Guys , just focus on God and he’ll give you the woman you NEED. Most of these woman are not even wife material. Stop trying to impress these world women bro. A woman of God is the greatest thing ever. Stay focus kings 😎
Thanks for the analogies Jess,this video is a good lesson for me to remember and put into practice especially at the start of this new month,you have wise words 💙
NOT EVERY WOMAN WILL BITE. SOMETIMES SHE REALLY WILL HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU AND THAT IS WHEN YOU WALK AWAY AND DON'T LOOK BACK BCZ THAT IS NOT THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU WILL WANT ANYWAYS. A LOT OF WOMEN WILL DISRESPECT YOU CONSTANTLY IF YOU MAKE THEM YOUR WHOLE WORLD BCZ THEY FEEL LIKE YOU NEED THEM AND YOU DON'T HAVE THE BALLS TO WALK AWAY. TAKE THIS IN FELLAS
Miss Jessica I love your voice, it's calm , articulate , smooth - everything is just right to make a lasting impression. As a guy I would also love to develop my voice to be as calm and articulate to have a lasting impression on others. How can I do that?
I got so good at vanishing from women's lives that I no longer feel the need to wait for them to come back. If they didn't like me in the first place, it wasn't meant to be. When I find the one that clicks with me properely, we won't have to do silly games.
I’m in a situation like this now with a co-worker. I gave genuine distance a few times already doing my own thing and guess who starts sending me reels again on Instagram 🤣 She always keeps watch on my stories and replies to them or likes them. Not all of them… but a fair amount. She touches me at work puts her hands on my hips coming up from behind me… I assume these are good signs Jessica? She also said when we were out for a coffee one time that she would come with me to visit my grandmothers grave… pretty personal if you ask me.
Anything costive is worth buying if u are in double relationship the distance works for the real lover .I was with two ladies with one on my Dp who plays lackadastical attitude the distance lady fight back even with Dp she care less and breakthrough to get the seat now she got the ring of❤
Book a private call with me here!
stan.store/JessicaOSGH/p/book-a-11-call-with-me-12z6w
thanks mam 🙏🏼
The key: love yourself first, invest in you: make money:gain self-confidence: don’t seek validation: get a sense of purpose: independence, get busy: be ware: not showing up: be unpredictable: pull back: she becomes obsessed: she gets afraid: she realizes your value: she works for your attention: she values it: she becomes intrigued, sparked, excited and attracted. Or she leaves, you don’t chase. You uphold your sense of self worth.
Be scarce my guy!
As a very good friend of mine once told her daughter "give people the opportunity to miss you sometimes" plain and simple.
I gave her so much space I moved away ✌🏻
lol
😂
@@millipede070707 bro have been in UA-cam for 17 years while I am still 15 years old
Same
It's simple. If someone wants to be with you, they'll make it easy, very easy.
If you face any difficulties, the person you like doesn't like you back. They are thinking of someone else.
Move on, go where you are wanted.
New month, new opportunities and new blessings. Claim it! 🌻
❤🎉
Amen 🙏
Fellas
They don't play mind games with the one they want.... remember they make you suffer cause the one they want doesn't want them....
Then you push and pull them, that is if their intention is to make you suffer as you suggested. You can make her want you by building intrigue and attraction by ways of push and pull manipulation, meaning her measures to manipulate you shall receed.
@@31cifywhy would you want someone that don’t like you to like you ? The message is to move on and find someone on your temperature. Someone you can something genuine not some push and pull stunt
not always true ,they can want u n when u get in a rship she can get too sure bout herself testing u ... happens there too just stay unfazed
I recently got reconnected with a girl that once rejected me, but now I am more cautious on her, not being overly enthusiastic and needy when I am with her, I just treat her like chill and simple when we come across each other at work, I also does 1:1 text game, if she replies I respond back and forth, if she dont then I dont, I know it is really hard especially when the interaction with her before was sweet and close, but I am thankful our friendship wasnt ruined due to the rejection. Now I can go with my life and sleep without thinking much about her as a way to complete my day
you reclaimed your power ✨✅
At work? Come on man, don't S where you eat.
@@omellemmor4732 same brother, met a woman in the gym, 1st date went well, after that she “rejected me” …I knew my value so I stopped pursuing her gave her some space , months later SHE approached me in the gym …long story short we’ve been dating now going on 4 months. Now that I’m in her space, I do what you do…I don’t over text, I don’t reveal to much information right away, shit I barely even say hi to her or approach at the gym anymore…she’s told me on many occasions she LOVES that I give her , her time and space!
Yeah, in her eyes now, you are the MAN. The cool, calm and collected individual she couldn't bear to see with someone else. If she was to find out you'd been texting other women or flirting with others, jealousy would be raging inside her. This is exactly what you want.
Update. That was 5 days ago. We need an update
Truth be told, if i have to give you distance due to your goofy games and all what not.; be rest assured that i am quite pulling back for real and for good, not to win you back but for my peace of mind, mental health and improving my self. And not to win you back regardless; aint no way i am playing this needless mind games just to be with a girl, who aint acting right. She isn't worth it. Move on fellas and get someone who is serious about you and intentional to commit to a healthy relationships. I have been there and done that, and now happy with my spouse. Good luck
had a girl started to do this i started to see my fwb ,its a turn off
Well said. There's some other guy she floods his messages unsolicited so why should I bother with these games? I'm too busy and grown to be dealing with emotionally damaged women.
Give people some time of absence to know that you are important in their lives, but not enough so they can figure out they will be fine with out you.
*Respecting a woman’s space shows confidence and emotional maturity. It allows her to miss your presence, reflect on her feelings, and appreciate your independence - traits that naturally build attraction.*
Fantastic! You've got it. It's the game of push and pull manipulation.
I repeat texting a lady with all the complementary words and she response with "okay" is more dangerous than she responding with an emoji😂
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Jess your videos have made me mastered this game in my relationships with women. The act of withdrawing your attention makes her wonder what changed and she starts to rather hit back while ignore her.
I did the same a few weeks ago after she started ignoring my calls and texts. Suddenly she appeared, this really works.
this girl texted me after 5 months lol. this is true, distance yourself she'll eventually find you're interesting and miss you.
I'm going to focus on My Life. Thank You Jesica
That's what I already started and it's testing bro
The most efficent is giving the woman space to miss you. if here if she truly misses you she will try to reach out to you and inquire why she's not heard from you but if doesnt miss you she will not even border getting back to you and this will be a clear sign that she's moved on so the move is simple let her go and never text her back.
It sounds so confusing and that’s probably what makes it correct, give attention but not to much, give space but don’t go cold.
Balanced mindset
Balance
Stay straight lace -NO CHASE
I completely vanished from my ex's world again. She needs to learn there was one man that refused to be eating from her hand. I don't know if it was the right thing to do, but I followed my gut. She can get any man she wants. It's her world. I'm just no longer in it.
This is my experience right now.
The things you say in this video are so so true. Thanks a lot
Blessed December, Jessica! It is so nice to have you back where you belong.
Thank you so much! Where have you been? You were missed
🇯🇲🇯🇲 Milking the already dehydrated cow.
She is doing that by infusing water somehow.
Jessica, you’re good, you’re very well endowed.
I remember when you were struggling to be proud.
Wode Maya said find your niche even in the cloud.
You found mysteries of women “men don’t know”.
Glad to see your channel blooms as it mature/grows.
Lesson: never be too proud to ask when don’t know.
Many times pride is used only for a public show.
What we reap are from that which we sew.
Absolutely spot on here 💯
The opportunity to miss you >>>>>
Then striking a balance not to come across as being mean so as not to be totally detached, such an awesome skill
Thanks Jess!
Facts. Girl I was talking to was going through some stuff. Left her alone for a month and she hit me up yesterday and have a date planned next weekend
Hows it going so far?
Best thing u can do is find some one who actually wants you and then stop chasing weirdos who don't want you. And then work on having. A family and these 304 games will not long be a issue
💯
Jessica we're really appreciate you. as a men we need this
Let me be first to appreciate Madam Jessica
Thank you Jessica you're my relationship saver really ❤
I gave her so much I can see Elon, Mars, and The solar system ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
Jessica talking about the old me, the ever-forgiving, always one call away, always begging, never walking away idiot!
But I did walk away...and man that was the best decision of my life. Since then, I've been watching Jess and she has taught me so much!!... Now, I feel absolutely nothing about the girl and that even shocks me cos I thought that was impossible!
“First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the girl,” Scarface.
Currently, I am handling a relatively straightforward situation. The individual in question has removed me from their social media platforms due to a disagreement regarding boundaries and respect. I communicated to her that I had erected emotional barriers as a response to her disregard for my personal boundaries.
That True Ma'am You've nailed it📌,,, Distance is the Best option by giving Yourself time and gaining Your happiness back,,,
Smart Content Madam Jess 💙💙 🥰🥰
Thank's🙏🙏.
My man gradually became distant, avoiding conversations and intimacy. I tried everything. open communication, spending more time together, and even compromising my own needs. but nothing seemed to reignite the connection.😢I keep giving love but no one to give it back to me and it was so sad but I won't stop loving love is very beautiful
Great mindset, don’t give up on love, keep your intentions clean and eventually the energies will align and he will reciprocate.
First I want to say THANK YOU Jessica Os you're the reason I know difference btwn LoVE and mercy,Iam a new commer. proverb that relates with this topic is "sun can only be appreciated by it absence."
You are so welcome
You're a rare lady, Jessica.
Thank you for spewing wisdom 🙏🏿
Her videos are addictive & apart from leaning more about love affairs also I'm learning English her English is very understandable words are loud and clear ❤
Attachment style makes a difference too
Women’s logic is so convoluted and confusing. I understand and kind of agree with what Jessica is saying, but in the end, it usually feels like a tired and draining game to make women feel comfortable that further confuses us men. As an example, j get the “let some time pass before you reply to her text”, but if I’m sitting here and can carve out ten seconds of my day to reply, why wouldn’t I? To me, that shows being in control of your day and responding accordingly. The fact that it makes me come across as thirsty or too caring makes zero sense to me. I get it, but my life can be fulfilling, busy, and simultaneously, managed enough to make time to communicate how I feel in a timely fashion. As a man, I feel like I should be so in control of my life and affairs that my availability is open because I’m in control, but having to intentionally become more aloof when I have availability is juvenile to me. I’m a good looking, confident man so my perspective is my own, but I’d much rather pursue semi reciprocity than playing like I’m busy when I can make time just to appease a woman. So nonsensical to me, but I get it - to a point, but I’d rather focus on those who can communicate their desires and needs somewhat clearly than anything else.
Wow. Guys actually do all this figuring out? Please. I wouldn’t dare. If she’s not reciprocating my energy then I’m going to give her Super Powers Space. 🤭
“Thank You!” for sharing
🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
This is harder than a bachelor degree
This will help me. I have been always available and showing interest but she doesn't care
This video is layered with so many gems. Thank you.
You’re welcome! So glad you found it helpful.
You're sweet Jessie, thank you for this 🎉❤😊
No problem 😊
Wow.This is really good advice for today’s dating scene.You are wise beyond your years Jess!
We call it Silence Treatment🔥🔥🔥
Very great and good video. 👌🙏
Silence, stillness and distance are the key.
Honestly Guys , just focus on God and he’ll give you the woman you NEED. Most of these woman are not even wife material. Stop trying to impress these world women bro. A woman of God is the greatest thing ever. Stay focus kings 😎
💯
This lady is extremely underrated
True talk, wish I can meet J. OS Someday, I appreciate this program a lot 😊
I hope so too!
Keep your mindset in "Hope of Gain" never in "Fear of Loss"
My best UA-camr 💯. Thank you for making me a better man. Much love from Kampala Uganda 🇺🇬
You have taught me well
Great content thank you 😊
I'm doing exactly that now 🙂👍🏿💯
ME 2
Thanks for the analogies Jess,this video is a good lesson for me to remember and put into practice especially at the start of this new month,you have wise words 💙
Thanks so much for this ❤
I gave her distance now, she distance herself from me.
NOT EVERY WOMAN WILL BITE. SOMETIMES SHE REALLY WILL HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU AND THAT IS WHEN YOU WALK AWAY AND DON'T LOOK BACK BCZ THAT IS NOT THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU WILL WANT ANYWAYS. A LOT OF WOMEN WILL DISRESPECT YOU CONSTANTLY IF YOU MAKE THEM YOUR WHOLE WORLD BCZ THEY FEEL LIKE YOU NEED THEM AND YOU DON'T HAVE THE BALLS TO WALK AWAY. TAKE THIS IN FELLAS
Good Sunday afternoon Jessica
It depends if you're her type.
I gave her so much space I moved on. I don’t care anymore 😊
Miss Jessica I love your voice, it's calm , articulate , smooth - everything is just right to make a lasting impression.
As a guy I would also love to develop my voice to be as calm and articulate to have a lasting impression on others. How can I do that?
going thru this right now. thank you. I need to watch this on repeat. Lol.
True been ther its painfull 😢 Thanks Jess for this i am courage now
Powerful Advisor ❤❤❤
It really does make sense
I am working on my technique and it's amazing 👏
Good afternoon ma.
Happy new month everyone 🎉
All this applies to when she is not obsessed about you. My advice just be happy with yourself and let no one be the reason for your happiness.
I got so good at vanishing from women's lives that I no longer feel the need to wait for them to come back. If they didn't like me in the first place, it wasn't meant to be. When I find the one that clicks with me properely, we won't have to do silly games.
how does it workout sofar
What Jessica says it's actually true i have experienced it
Indeed well said. I step back with vigor.
Hi Jessica, Thanks for the clarity.
I’m dealing with this right now. Very tough to not communicate when you feel like it, but I’m working hard to control my urges to reach out.
I’m in a situation like this now with a co-worker. I gave genuine distance a few times already doing my own thing and guess who starts sending me reels again on Instagram 🤣 She always keeps watch on my stories and replies to them or likes them. Not all of them… but a fair amount. She touches me at work puts her hands on my hips coming up from behind me… I assume these are good signs Jessica? She also said when we were out for a coffee one time that she would come with me to visit my grandmothers grave… pretty personal if you ask me.
Jessica, you're a tremendous blessing.💯🎯
The fact that nobody talks about the book How To Seduce Your Boss Wife talks about flirting and manipulation with girl
@@BrianBeiz Pls share the download link
@OSSYBLEU You have the title, look it up.
@@OSSYBLEU Do you have the download link now
Very pragmatic advice……✌🏽
Going through this right now
Truthful vid💯
Answer to my trick question thanks Jessica ❤
thank you, Jess.
You’re the best Jessie💖❤️🥰
Left her Ahh alone and now the brotherhood is thriving and men getting money and getting in shape together 😂
Great video and great advice
Thank you!
God bless you
In some instances it's like tending to a child's emotions.
@EASTDAD THATS IT 👍🏼
Your amazing ! Great insights thanks
Glad you think so!
Thats me ryt thr, the more i showed love the more i got short n blocked response, emojis and a simple lol, i took 5 steps back
Thank you so much 😊
Or you can always use the take it or leave mentally choose to not be attached to a specific outcome😂
❤ u jesse
From here in Migori Kenya... I love your videos
Anything costive is worth buying if u are in double relationship the distance works for the real lover .I was with two ladies with one on my Dp who plays lackadastical attitude the distance lady fight back even with Dp she care less and breakthrough to get the seat now she got the ring of❤
Great video, tks from 🇧🇷
Already learned that before
Yes, that was before, now it's the game of push and pull manipulation. It's like fishing, that big bite is coming.
Your choices of colors are cool