yeah sometimes I wonder if the guy thinks I'm into them when I'm being nice. Or if they think I'm being nice while I'm actually into them Confusing on both ends
Broo!!! Once I helped this old lady (80+), by carrying her bags and she used the HINT 12 "She opens up about her life story"!!!! Was standing there for 2 hours! She Showed old photos of herself from when she used to work in the factory!!!! I missed out on such a GEM!! NOOO!!!
Once you do good stuff for yourself lik working out, focusing on career, youll get the things you want. Its difficult, borderline impossible. But you know, the road to heaven feels like hell and the road to hell feels like heaven. Hard work will never fail you.
Timestamps: 0:44 - She touches you a lot 1:20 - She texts you late at night 2:02 - She's curious about what your plans are (for example, she asks you "what are you doing tomorrow?" or "what are you doing on the weekends?") This means she wants you to ask her out 2:24 - Asking personal questions (e.g. about your childhood, your life). This means she wants to know more about you 3:30 - She doesn't use her phone when she's with you 4:00 - She copies your mannerisms (speech patterns, words) 4:45 - Her friends know about you (this means she's talking about you to her friends, which is a good sign) 5:50 - She wants to try new things, especially things that you suggest 6:30 - compliments you a lot 7:23 - She's worried about you (when you do something dangerous) 8:14 - Laughs at all your jokes even if they're not funny 9:10 - She opens up about her life story (she wants you to share your story too) 9:40 - She wants you to help her (this activates men's protective instincts which she likes) 10:23 - She remembers the small details 10:45 - She leans towards you when you guys talk. If she's leaning away, that probably means she's not interested 11:24 - She keeps touching her hair when she's around you (because she wants to make sure she looks good) 12:06 - She sends cute selfies to you 12:30 - She reschedules her plans just to hang out with you (this shows that she's interested enough to make time for you) 13:04 - Eye contact
I confronted a woman who said, "You're funny", like in most of our conversation and asked her out. She literally started with, "You are funny, but like ...." and then my dream ended, before me dying from shock.
Did you see any of the other signs? Was she leaning close? Did she show interest in your life? Was she sharing your get own life? Did she ask if you were busy or talk about places she wanted to go to? Or did you just fling a lot of jokes, she laughed, then you went all in? This isn't about finding The One Sign to go in? It's about her entire self leaning into these traits that demonstrate "I want to know more about you"
Now I just need to: 1. - Go out 2. - Meet people 3. - Talk people 4. - Make acquaintance 5. - Have a gal friend 6. - Finally seek for these signals «It's never going to happen»
Thank you for giving us this course. I now know with confidence, that no woman has ever been into me. Time to try out how fast my car actually drives...
you shouldnt show off your money and put a stranger in the pedestal just because she is pretty to you or youre attracted to her, if she really into you she is gonna like your broke self, so dont act rich at all at first
Seems like genuinely good advice! It corresponds with my experience of being oblivious (especially when I was in HS) Side note, Girls appear to be more attracted to guys who are pre-approved by other women. Using the same logic, toward men does not work. Guys do not require pre-approval. So when a woman attempts to make you jealous it tends to backfire, but the reverse actually seems to work, albeit something guys are not interested in doing. For example, when a guy has a girlfriend, all the sudden women are more interested in him.
3:35 Tip: If the girl you like has started using their phone, just get the phone and run away, not just they will talk to you, but they will chase you as well, 10/10 will do again
How about this one? "How do you, as a woman, like to be approached by men about romantic interest?" I am 100% sure that interest has been there before and likely been mishandled by either not approaching or approaching incorrectly. Would appreciate your honest take on this.
Ask her hand, get engaged,, both check if the two are compatible with interests and values, discus the no no boundaries, both agreed on what to expect from each other, get married, care for each others to grow real love slowly. That’s how u avoid increasing divorce rate. U first put ur brain into work, then secondly the blinding love take place. U could avoid a lot of unnecessary issues like this
Don't try to get advice for that, if a girl is really into you, you can be a borderline schizo and she is fine with how you ask her out. Some girls "prefer" or romanticize different ways of being approached, but if she is already interested it doesn't really matter unless you act like a literal gorilla. "specifics" don't work for women in general, there is too many different kinds of women personality types.
@@TheEphemeralEternitywell yeah talking to her might disgust you or prevent you from making a rational decision. Better to just not talk. That way you don’t even get into arguments and can’t break up either. Flawless
Usually, if woman likes you, you won't even have to think about how to approach because you will be in the area where you are already technically dating. If you have to think about how to approach, it almost certainly means she is not into you. Speaking from experience and observations from my friends, so take as a grain of salt.
I can't believe I missed all the mentioned hints in this video. The late-night texting, asking about my story, the attempt to physically touch me like high 5s, copying my phrases, random compliments, weird hair touching, etc. For help with tiny stuff and late-night texts, I straight-up treated them like men and said, "Are you dumb? You're not that weak" or "You don't go to sleep at night?". Once I grew up and saw them occasionally, they would look at me weird. No wonder I haven't got a GF
It feels like to me, nowadays god gives you ONE OR TWO women who are into you as a teenager or in your early 20s, and if you blow it with them you never get another chance again. I think I blew my last chance
Look at the good side, if u didn’t know simple stuff like these, means ur lacking knowledge. Women are complicated for men cuz they don’t function like men. They tend to give hints not straight up answers(majority unless someones trait is honesty) how would you have maintained a healthy relationship? U think spark of interest does it? Absolutely not, it’s about wise decisions, to know when to argue and when to play dumb, how to act in some situations so that ur love for each other dont get hurt. Because if both are immature that’s inevitable heart break. Years later ur expectations of true love is messed up and u can’t risk to love again or form healthy relationship. Respectfully u were absolutely unqualified and u were saved from unnecessary damage.
yeaaaaa, you gotta work on that! If a girl is calling you late at night or texting you (back in the day they actually called us cuz nobody texted..) then you have someone interested.
Tried watching through this all the way; only got halfway through because it reminded me of how fed up I am with "the signals". Fellas, find you someone who communicates their feelings clearly.
if you can't handle them then you're not getting any lmao. it's women's nature to not be so direct. they're afraid of that. they don't even have testosterone like men do, which is what makes men (and male animals in general) the ones who look for the mate. just don't be socially inept and learn some game, then you'll be the chess master. ain't that hard. just took me a few months
Personal experience, if a girl does not like you, she'll literally never ask about you, your life, your plans, your hopes, your dreams, your dog, how your weekend was, NOTHING. girls literally don't give a shit about anything relating to anything about you unless they want something from you. even if they do ask questions about you, what they want isn't necessarily a relationship or seggs. it might just be some kind of assistance, money, validation, attention, etc.
The more I lern, the more I get confused. This one girl likes too talk about her personal shit, laughs at my every joke, do touch me, doesn't uses her phone durring having a dinner or else, but our mesages are not frequent, and she dosen't ask my personal things or my plans. Need advice
Now I can say with absolute certainty that not a single female I met over last decade was interested in me. Actually helpful - I can be confident I didn't miss out on anything.
@@Ornyl I’ve somehow gaslit myself into thinking hints weren’t hints at some point. Don’t know why exactly, maybe self esteem or the fact that the girl had a bf.. don’t know who dodged the biggest bullet.
@@reedy_9619 oh..in my case romantic relationships seems disturbing or somewhat disgusting to me. It's a good thing and it's good to enjoy oneself, but letting someone in my personal place disgusts me.
Just move on brother. If your favourite woman doesn't want you, just move on. I've stopped looking for a partner for now, I'll improve myself then I'll try again probably
@@gektoast4968 don't gaslight him please, people of the worst possible personalities are getting partners with ease. Some dudes are just unable to experience love, caring and affection due to them being unlucky and this is fine
I love how she's talking back like they're not memeing, she's talking back like we're children, because you never know when we're actually THAT stupid. lol
There're some variations to point 20 though! There was this cute girl in my class who always, always avoided my eye contact every time I look at or speak to her...and it turns out that she had a crush on me for quite some time already...and started messaging me or waiting for me after school, etc etc. Didn't give me eye contact, but somehow she still liked me, haha.
that's because she was shy and nervous. if a girl is always shy and nervous while displaying some traits of being so but at the same time not minding u (in contrast to actually being nervous and wanting to run away from u like ure an escaped convict) then that could be a very good point 21
13:16 This has happened to me before a few times, and for a second I think "maybe she likes me", and then my brain goes "nah, she is probably trying to figure out if she knows me from somewhere, but she doesn't".
the exact opposite happened to me. The girl wanted to play it cool and called me brother and whatnot. Turns out she was really into me. Girl had a triple D chest FML!!!
@ayzix-polytopia3854 not really, they expressed to me they didnt want to date and also there was like 2 times they said something that sounded like a confession of love but wasn't. That whole friendship was really weird and they turned out to not really be a good person so in the end i guess it was glad I didn't
One hint that has a strong probability of her being into you is when she takes great care to always address you by your name in full, or even better, immediately creates and starts using some short version of your name that she uses exclusively around you. Women, if uninterested in a guy, go to great lengths to NEVER EVER say his name out loud to not give him even the slightest hope there might be something more.
"Mr. Pengu is going to be my temporary crush for today" Girls really be doin this like me and the penguin ain't gonna remember it for the rest of time.
3:48 No that’s not true all the time.. I’m woman but I don’t play my phone while someone is talking to me cuz that is just disrespectful, and since I don’t like to happen to me I don’t do it to other people.
Maybe the girl i liked was an alien. She used to pick up her phone and msg me weird stuff.... When i was alone w her On a date Like, right infront of her While talking Pfft- maybe jus my imagination 😊 Hahhaha
none of these are true all the time. they are just hints. girls are different individuals and every girl will display multiple different traits. what matters is if the girl shows a hefty amount of traits, regardless of what they are. then that's the greenlight
Although I understand all of these "hints", I think what's more challenging than actually noticing the hints is being able to react to them in a tactful way. I have observed many of these behaviors with women; however, I am also quite jaded due to my own personal life experiences and past relationships. So in my case, it's kind of one of those situations where you have to be more aware than usual, so that she doesn't feel like her efforts are being wasted and/or ignored, ESPECIALLY intentionally. This is why I say that it's a challenge more than anything else. I've experienced periods of time where I was given far too many hints, and also times where I received no hints at all, and then times where there were a few in-between. But in every one of those cases, it was important to stay observant and react appropriately as to not come off cold and/or misreading body language signs (which "can" be very easy to misinterpret). I don't think it would be that much of an issue if most women were more direct with their intentions instead of hiding it through a veil of mind games. But directness isn't their strong suit.
And in other cases, it might be a problem if you notice the so called ''hints'' consciously, as in you can tell yourself in words "X and Y behavior is a hint", because that modifies your behavior to be more...performative from that point onward, instead of honest . And honest tends to mean unconscious. That is you feel like you are doing something because you want it, for the sake of the behavior itself, and not because you are doing it for some goal. For example saying ''thank you'' because you feel like it, because you believe it's a good thing to do, instead of because you want something out of some person and you know that if you do that , that would increase your chances of them looking favorably upon you. In other words , your behavior might be modified in a way that can be described as : "oh shit, she likes me, I will now change how I act, and do things that I THINK will solidify her interest". which potentially might not be good long term, because one has limited amount of 'energy' you can spend in doing performative behaviors, and the more comfy you get with the person, gradually you will slip back to your 'true' self, and she might not like whatever that might be and go down-hill from there , OR you might get sick psychologically, not realizing how much you are acting, and you suddenly might leave her. Some people are so afraid of rejection or offending the other person, they don't recognize that they are performing an act, and just stuff in their frustrations or lack of satisfaction, until they can no longer take it.
the indirectness is fully intentional. their intentions are to filter out the guys who are too pvssy to make a move. they want the guy who just gets it. if they need to spell it out to you they don't want you.
@@mitkoogrozev this is a good insight, and is relatable. I tend to change my act if a girl takes an interest on me. Thank you for this insight, I now know what to do and what not to do
19. She calls you up to ask you out for a coffee. 20. She keeps asking you over to study and brings you snacks in class. 21. Your other female friend gets extremely angry when the first girl spends time with you.
That story about Making eye contact with guy, then guy comes over and initiates conversation, then asks for your number, then gets it…that is something straight out of the twilight zone.
1. it doesn't matter. if she likes u then she'll react playfully that u can't, as long as u react playfully and confidently as well. don't be socially inept or awkward 2. it doesn't matter too much either if you're shorter. if she likes u then she'll show multiple traits. short guys get laid too if they have game
I am horrible at reading things and most of the "touching you" ones just make me feel threatened when that happens because I always feel in danger (yes I'm extremely mentally messed up)
either your story is complete bs, because if a girl does EVERY single one of these, then she wants ur kids, or you took too long to make a move rather than in the moment which makes the fire burn out
I would love to know how to continue after catching these signs. I could be like HOL UP she did the thing, but then be like uhhh uhhh how do I signal back?
Bro I’ve been oblivious to everything my whole life… I am a golden retriever apparently, but I’m retrieving my goals rn, so the time will come when it does, no need to chase it.
Try telling her your story and if she seems interested (like asking for more details), then go from there. Otherwise if she seems uninterested then that means she's just a yapper and dont really gaf about talking to you
I recently started working at a new spot and the girl I have a crush on which I work with mean flirts with me. Sometimes I respond back standing my ground with her mean flirting back but because I’m not good at flirting sometimes they don’t land and then we don’t talk anymore for the day. I recently got a small specialized coffee maker for the store where we work to make coffee and she asked me about where I got it out of the blue. I told her not to worry that I could get her one. After a week or so I gave her one and it seemed to bring down the meanness, I even caught her preening her hair right after I gave it to her and she had a big smile. She’s always very serious and dry around me but she does make it a habit to talk to me a few sentences and she stares very intently at my eyes. It’s very intense. So I think she does like me, hopeful she doesn’t think I’m creepy.
I hate when they show all the signs but you're not into them. You just want to be friends and she's touching you, she's laughing at every joke, its obvious she wants you to make a move, but you really don't want to because either you're more into somebody else there or something, it sucks. You gotta kinda let them down easy on the fly, without making a scene, or you have to ignore her -which you don't want to, because you like her as a friend. Its tough. I had a good friend ghost me after a night out like this, and I did really like her, just not romantically.
laughing at all my jokes might not be a sign of interest in me because all of my jokes are hilarious.
Can confirm, his jokes are hilarious
Thats what i was about to say😂😂
ikr
Don't need to tell jokes as I am the Joke. Born April 1st.
@Mujinfu funny just like your birthday
We need another class to know when women are NOT into you (this one might be more relatable idk)
She already covered this.
@@Guillidan can you give me the link
@@Guillidan not enough
It's by default.
people like us would be teachers in that one
Women usually start watching their phones even if the battery is dead if they see me lol
Damn that sucks man. Guys would never.
This right here
nahh they’re texting their friends about how cute you are, trust.
@@Malboop stop giving the man fake hope
Same bruh, same :(
Don't get fooled boys, she's just being nice.
100%
Real
Or maybe Canadian
Real
I can't tell the difference if a girl likes me or she's just being nice to me.
So relatable I have ALOT of friends as a girl but shi I can't tell if she into me or begin nice 😭🙏
yeah sometimes I wonder if the guy thinks I'm into them when I'm being nice. Or if they think I'm being nice while I'm actually into them
Confusing on both ends
@@had629 wait, so you a lesbian?
Broo!!! Once I helped this old lady (80+), by carrying her bags and she used the HINT 12 "She opens up about her life story"!!!! Was standing there for 2 hours! She Showed old photos of herself from when she used to work in the factory!!!! I missed out on such a GEM!! NOOO!!!
Dude wtf 😂
missed a sugar mama lol
could've had a free ps5 pro rn lol
L
bro is so down bad
Thank you for making me realize...That no women has ever been interested in me...
Me too bro💀
i've had 2 girlfriends in my life, and even with them I barely or never ever saw any of what she told us happen, at all. that shit is depressing bro
Us bro us
relatable
Fr
The biggest sign of a woman is interested in you is that she is pregnant with your baby. And it turns into an interesting story in no time.
well you can't ever be sure. But noticing the hints is a good start
How do you verify it’s yours
Idk maybe ask her@@reedy_9619
I would still be unsure
@@reedy_9619taste test
“Why are we taking dating advice from a single person?”
“I guide others to a treasure I cannot possess.”
I am going to pass away alone. But there is still hope for everyone else. Have a great day all people out there.
I hope you have a great one as well.
Once you do good stuff for yourself lik working out, focusing on career, youll get the things you want. Its difficult, borderline impossible. But you know, the road to heaven feels like hell and the road to hell feels like heaven.
Hard work will never fail you.
@@newbiepro09that's a good way to make people only care about your money and then divorce you later for half of it
Same (I'm 29, bald, unemployed and does nothing but watch UA-cam and furry latex bnodage zorn all day)
@@GeneralKenobi69420 Please tell me youre joking
Timestamps:
0:44 - She touches you a lot
1:20 - She texts you late at night
2:02 - She's curious about what your plans are (for example, she asks you "what are you doing tomorrow?" or "what are you doing on the weekends?")
This means she wants you to ask her out
2:24 - Asking personal questions (e.g. about your childhood, your life). This means she wants to know more about you
3:30 - She doesn't use her phone when she's with you
4:00 - She copies your mannerisms (speech patterns, words)
4:45 - Her friends know about you (this means she's talking about you to her friends, which is a good sign)
5:50 - She wants to try new things, especially things that you suggest
6:30 - compliments you a lot
7:23 - She's worried about you (when you do something dangerous)
8:14 - Laughs at all your jokes even if they're not funny
9:10 - She opens up about her life story (she wants you to share your story too)
9:40 - She wants you to help her (this activates men's protective instincts which she likes)
10:23 - She remembers the small details
10:45 - She leans towards you when you guys talk. If she's leaning away, that probably means she's not interested
11:24 - She keeps touching her hair when she's around you (because she wants to make sure she looks good)
12:06 - She sends cute selfies to you
12:30 - She reschedules her plans just to hang out with you (this shows that she's interested enough to make time for you)
13:04 - Eye contact
Only the laughing at jokes and eye contact matches. Am I cooked chat?
@@hēæmburgeryou’re deep fried bro
Thank you
12:30 means she ready for segs.
Good cheat sheet for me to remember!
- I play League of Legend.
- Really? *spits in your face*
Jokes on her, as a League player I am into being spit on.
The proper response, let's be honest
I'd save that spit for later
Then you won, store the spit
@@xoiyoub Ayoo???
I confronted a woman who said, "You're funny", like in most of our conversation and asked her out. She literally started with, "You are funny, but like ...." and then my dream ended, before me dying from shock.
At least you tried haha
At least now you know you're funny.
Bro you did well in the early game but however you remain on that level and didnt risk to proceed to the next level which is flirting😂
Onward, Rocinante! Again and again, until the dream is within our grasp!
Did you see any of the other signs? Was she leaning close? Did she show interest in your life? Was she sharing your get own life? Did she ask if you were busy or talk about places she wanted to go to?
Or did you just fling a lot of jokes, she laughed, then you went all in?
This isn't about finding The One Sign to go in? It's about her entire self leaning into these traits that demonstrate "I want to know more about you"
Now I just need to:
1. - Go out
2. - Meet people
3. - Talk people
4. - Make acquaintance
5. - Have a gal friend
6. - Finally seek for these signals
«It's never going to happen»
Relatable tho😩😭😭
People are too scary
Thank you for giving us this course. I now know with confidence, that no woman has ever been into me. Time to try out how fast my car actually drives...
Lmao. I can’t remember the last time either
Lmao same I'm way too poor to have a car though.
Time to find out what my terminal velocity is..
@@cheems6193 Terminal velocity lol
same dude, but it's time to try out how funny my jokes are really are on my bros
glad to know I'm not the only one
NONE OF THAT STUFF HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME! 🔥💯🗣️
yet
struggler indeed
Most Real profile king
Damn... It'll happen eventually
@@Chad-bc9vizero chance of that
Sarah did that arm touch thing to me in like, 1997. Should I look her up, or would that be creepy?
Yep definitely weird.
@average-_-n0body Too late. She's married.
She's waiting... GO TO HER...
@@dansdreams4117 I'm married too. With 3 kids. Should I really risk it?
Yeah! Don’t let the opportunity slip away ❤
So all this time a girl in my college was asking me if I was free on the weekends and stuff and i thought she wanted to rob me 💀
You fumbled badly bro
Definitely fumbled badly
waaait really? xDDDD
Ok that is genuinely the worst fumble I have ever seen how the fuck
My man took the wrong laneway 🫡
advice fully followed, asked her out she said yes. 1 week later get a text saying she's gay and she thought I knew.
Then why did she accept?
I got scammed by a gold digger! Thank you, Jinny!
you shouldnt show off your money and put a stranger in the pedestal just because she is pretty to you or youre attracted to her, if she really into you she is gonna like your broke self, so dont act rich at all at first
I mean, at least you have gold. It could've been worse.
At least not by a Pekka
Bruh Even Im showing off my fortune, even gold diggers and scammers wont even dare to approach me 🥲
I can confirm that i, indeed, have never missed a woman's hint.
Because i have never gotten any of these.
True dude😭
Same :(
big W we dudes should just date each other😎
we should start a club, play some games
All those hints just for her to play hard to get towards you. 🤦♂️
Why am I even looking at this when I live in the middle of nowhere and see people my age once every 2 months lmao
Hold my beers 🍺 brother
Seems like genuinely good advice! It corresponds with my experience of being oblivious (especially when I was in HS)
Side note, Girls appear to be more attracted to guys who are pre-approved by other women. Using the same logic, toward men does not work. Guys do not require pre-approval.
So when a woman attempts to make you jealous it tends to backfire, but the reverse actually seems to work, albeit something guys are not interested in doing.
For example, when a guy has a girlfriend, all the sudden women are more interested in him.
Chicken and egg.
3:35 Tip: If the girl you like has started using their phone, just get the phone and run away, not just they will talk to you, but they will chase you as well, 10/10 will do again
"Signs when women don't like you" next video title
Gotta be filling in a bingo card with that one XD
1. be short
2. smell bad
3. have a high voice
4. be unfunny
5. be poor
6. be into crypto
@@Jo-po2oo being short doesn't really have a lot of impact in my experience, being stinky and creepy definitely though lol
The best signs that a woman doesn't like you are the same as the signs that she hasn't noticed you're there: literally nothing is happening.
@@Jo-po2oo the smell can be fixed
I love the random superchats trolling you, and you getting triggered. 😂😂
Esp the last one she went crazy with the camera xD
How about this one?
"How do you, as a woman, like to be approached by men about romantic interest?"
I am 100% sure that interest has been there before and likely been mishandled by either not approaching or approaching incorrectly. Would appreciate your honest take on this.
Ask her hand, get engaged,, both check if the two are compatible with interests and values, discus the no no boundaries, both agreed on what to expect from each other, get married, care for each others to grow real love slowly.
That’s how u avoid increasing divorce rate. U first put ur brain into work, then secondly the blinding love take place. U could avoid a lot of unnecessary issues like this
@@Zinozino162 You get engaged before asking her out on a first date...?
Don't try to get advice for that, if a girl is really into you, you can be a borderline schizo and she is fine with how you ask her out. Some girls "prefer" or romanticize different ways of being approached, but if she is already interested it doesn't really matter unless you act like a literal gorilla.
"specifics" don't work for women in general, there is too many different kinds of women personality types.
@@TheEphemeralEternitywell yeah talking to her might disgust you or prevent you from making a rational decision. Better to just not talk. That way you don’t even get into arguments and can’t break up either. Flawless
Usually, if woman likes you, you won't even have to think about how to approach because you will be in the area where you are already technically dating. If you have to think about how to approach, it almost certainly means she is not into you. Speaking from experience and observations from my friends, so take as a grain of salt.
Aint taking advice from a league of legends player
lmao
I THINK we needed a class dedicated when women are NOT into you b4 when they're INTO you.
not a single girl has ever liked me in all my 20 years then. thanks for confirming Jinny
Now we are 2
Make it 3 boyz
@@Narmiv.21 hell yeah buddy
Make it 4 boyz bro
Make it 5😭😭
I can't believe I missed all the mentioned hints in this video. The late-night texting, asking about my story, the attempt to physically touch me like high 5s, copying my phrases, random compliments, weird hair touching, etc.
For help with tiny stuff and late-night texts, I straight-up treated them like men and said, "Are you dumb? You're not that weak" or "You don't go to sleep at night?". Once I grew up and saw them occasionally, they would look at me weird. No wonder I haven't got a GF
me too bro,what can i say🙃
i didnt realize i was in a situationship for 2 years before it came crashing down
It feels like to me, nowadays god gives you ONE OR TWO women who are into you as a teenager or in your early 20s, and if you blow it with them you never get another chance again.
I think I blew my last chance
Look at the good side, if u didn’t know simple stuff like these, means ur lacking knowledge. Women are complicated for men cuz they don’t function like men. They tend to give hints not straight up answers(majority unless someones trait is honesty) how would you have maintained a healthy relationship? U think spark of interest does it? Absolutely not, it’s about wise decisions, to know when to argue and when to play dumb, how to act in some situations so that ur love for each other dont get hurt.
Because if both are immature that’s inevitable heart break. Years later ur expectations of true love is messed up and u can’t risk to love again or form healthy relationship. Respectfully u were absolutely unqualified and u were saved from unnecessary damage.
yeaaaaa, you gotta work on that! If a girl is calling you late at night or texting you (back in the day they actually called us cuz nobody texted..) then you have someone interested.
Instructions unclear. I am married to a horse now. The class action lawsuit is in the mail.
Nearly ended with bro but hopefully we were too dumb to understand 90% of the video (damn it I was so close)
How did a horse manage to refer to you by your name?
"Why, in God's green earth, has not even a single thing happened to me?"
Tried watching through this all the way; only got halfway through because it reminded me of how fed up I am with "the signals".
Fellas, find you someone who communicates their feelings clearly.
if you can't handle them then you're not getting any lmao. it's women's nature to not be so direct. they're afraid of that. they don't even have testosterone like men do, which is what makes men (and male animals in general) the ones who look for the mate. just don't be socially inept and learn some game, then you'll be the chess master. ain't that hard. just took me a few months
I'm not risking jail time
"officer, she made eye contact and called me by my first name" or "judge, I swear, she touched me first"
Same my guy.
Exactly
If you played your cards right both of you end up in a bed
jail time for what? asking someone out? tf?
Thank you for educating me on all the hints I ingore bc of my nonexistent self confidence
Truer words have never been spoken ✊😔
At least you’re getting them. Damn
@@ZemanTheMighty *Pats back*
Personal experience, if a girl does not like you, she'll literally never ask about you, your life, your plans, your hopes, your dreams, your dog, how your weekend was, NOTHING. girls literally don't give a shit about anything relating to anything about you unless they want something from you. even if they do ask questions about you, what they want isn't necessarily a relationship or seggs. it might just be some kind of assistance, money, validation, attention, etc.
The more I lern, the more I get confused. This one girl likes too talk about her personal shit, laughs at my every joke, do touch me, doesn't uses her phone durring having a dinner or else, but our mesages are not frequent, and she dosen't ask my personal things or my plans. Need advice
Either she’s just a really good friend, or she’s into you. May be worth pursuing idk
We got female non-gooner professor Lando here from the LIGMA university
Now I can say with absolute certainty that not a single female I met over last decade was interested in me.
Actually helpful - I can be confident I didn't miss out on anything.
U know ur cooked when u know u don't get any of these hints from ur favourite woman 😢😢
Weirdly i did get them actually...but normally i don't use my brain and i think those are just normal things.
@@Ornyl
I’ve somehow gaslit myself into thinking hints weren’t hints at some point. Don’t know why exactly, maybe self esteem or the fact that the girl had a bf.. don’t know who dodged the biggest bullet.
@@reedy_9619 oh..in my case romantic relationships seems disturbing or somewhat disgusting to me.
It's a good thing and it's good to enjoy oneself, but letting someone in my personal place disgusts me.
@@Ornyl idk I kinda like sharing.
I don’t like being manipulated thought so I’m a bit on edge with people.
Just move on brother. If your favourite woman doesn't want you, just move on. I've stopped looking for a partner for now, I'll improve myself then I'll try again probably
Women's hints = just all those kdrama stuff 😂😂
Ive been studying the sacred texts for two years now, research still incoclusive
@TheSabaton1 lol
Just an FYI guys there are women that'll do ALL of these things and not be interested lol
Thanks to you I know now that's not a single girl in my life was interested in me.
I hate this video because what's she's saying is true and the lack of the occurrence of it in my life basically confirms my forever alone status. lol
There are endless women out there man. And there are endless way you can have personal growth.
You either aren’t meeting enough people or you have to work on your personality
@@gektoast4968 don't gaslight him please, people of the worst possible personalities are getting partners with ease. Some dudes are just unable to experience love, caring and affection due to them being unlucky and this is fine
What? @@whoistobby296
@@whoistobby296Skill Issue (I have never felt the touch of a woman)
if she's sending nudes is that means she likes me?!!! nah, no way, it's just... she's sending to everyone, no way she likes ME
i remember that was my real thought in the past. THAT WAS A REAL THOUGHT.
@@differentone_pWhy wouldn’t you assume that? You were definitely right.
You were probably correct tbh
Bro most of the time i live on the sky, but youre very slow than me haha
You should check if shes on OF first buddy
I thought caring about someone was basic empathy, not paternal instinct.
However the wording, it still works. Empathy and a care for being is something you do to someone you like.
do you care for a stranger and give them multiple signs of interest in their personal life if you don't give a damn about them?
@@patootie3529 yeah? I often asked my coworkers about their past if it had a chance of being relevant to current covnersation.
@@patootie3529 Ever heard od manipulators and emotional vampires?😂
As a dude, just be rich and everything will work out!
why I am watching this? no one interested in me. *quietly sits in the corner*
I love how she's talking back like they're not memeing, she's talking back like we're children, because you never know when we're actually THAT stupid. lol
Sister full support
So much easier to just stay single
true. though i develop a crush so easily
don't knock it till u try it
This is legitimately unbelievably helpful. Thank you so goddamn much.
10:57 Um guys I think she’s into me
There're some variations to point 20 though! There was this cute girl in my class who always, always avoided my eye contact every time I look at or speak to her...and it turns out that she had a crush on me for quite some time already...and started messaging me or waiting for me after school, etc etc. Didn't give me eye contact, but somehow she still liked me, haha.
so shy...lol
she should be a mysterious girl friend
that's because she was shy and nervous. if a girl is always shy and nervous while displaying some traits of being so but at the same time not minding u (in contrast to actually being nervous and wanting to run away from u like ure an escaped convict) then that could be a very good point 21
13:16 This has happened to me before a few times, and for a second I think "maybe she likes me", and then my brain goes "nah, she is probably trying to figure out if she knows me from somewhere, but she doesn't".
Had a girl do several of these things but still called me her brother and eventually stopped talking to me 💀
Ouch , the brother one gives me PTSD .
the exact opposite happened to me. The girl wanted to play it cool and called me brother and whatnot. Turns out she was really into me. Girl had a triple D chest FML!!!
I can relate
Maybe you took to long to make a move, seems like the likeliest reason
@ayzix-polytopia3854 not really, they expressed to me they didnt want to date and also there was like 2 times they said something that sounded like a confession of love but wasn't. That whole friendship was really weird and they turned out to not really be a good person so in the end i guess it was glad I didn't
Thanks for telling me that no women showed me interst 😂
One hint that has a strong probability of her being into you is when she takes great care to always address you by your name in full, or even better, immediately creates and starts using some short version of your name that she uses exclusively around you.
Women, if uninterested in a guy, go to great lengths to NEVER EVER say his name out loud to not give him even the slightest hope there might be something more.
0:15 Physics 101
It's so entertaining. I'm still watching it. Am I a cat?
Okay I have to stop. Goodbye.
Timestamps 26 minutes ago, 4 minutes ago, 0 seconds ago, for anyone wondering. On a 15 minute video. I need an intervention.
Wtf bro, please get help
@@udescarta4320 I know. I'm injecting that eraser marker flip directly into my veins. I think the best part is probably how it ends with, "TodayAy~".
So basically, i got all of these, and still got the "we're just friends" ???? I'm confused lol
Lol that happen a lot
idk probably a status thing, do they have Asian parents?, you gotta get like a medical degree, or a big pile of money.
Women don't even understand themselves, don't worry about it
@@XDbored1 yeah asian, i'm asian too, got the engineer degree but not the big pile of money
@@sag3343 Go get them big pile of money brother
"Mr. Pengu is going to be my temporary crush for today" Girls really be doin this like me and the penguin ain't gonna remember it for the rest of time.
The donations were absolutely hilarious in this video
Best class I've ever seen on the subject.
3:48 No that’s not true all the time.. I’m woman but I don’t play my phone while someone is talking to me cuz that is just disrespectful, and since I don’t like to happen to me I don’t do it to other people.
Maybe the girl i liked was an alien. She used to pick up her phone and msg me weird stuff....
When i was alone w her
On a date
Like, right infront of her
While talking
Pfft- maybe jus my imagination 😊
Hahhaha
@@SusBTV u realize ppl pick up their phone when they nervous or its awkward
none of these are true all the time. they are just hints. girls are different individuals and every girl will display multiple different traits. what matters is if the girl shows a hefty amount of traits, regardless of what they are. then that's the greenlight
It's good to know the signs so that we're sure we're not receiving any
You guys getting signs?
Although I understand all of these "hints", I think what's more challenging than actually noticing the hints is being able to react to them in a tactful way.
I have observed many of these behaviors with women; however, I am also quite jaded due to my own personal life experiences and past relationships. So in my case, it's kind of one of those situations where you have to be more aware than usual, so that she doesn't feel like her efforts are being wasted and/or ignored, ESPECIALLY intentionally.
This is why I say that it's a challenge more than anything else. I've experienced periods of time where I was given far too many hints, and also times where I received no hints at all, and then times where there were a few in-between. But in every one of those cases, it was important to stay observant and react appropriately as to not come off cold and/or misreading body language signs (which "can" be very easy to misinterpret).
I don't think it would be that much of an issue if most women were more direct with their intentions instead of hiding it through a veil of mind games. But directness isn't their strong suit.
And in other cases, it might be a problem if you notice the so called ''hints'' consciously, as in you can tell yourself in words "X and Y behavior is a hint", because that modifies your behavior to be more...performative from that point onward, instead of honest . And honest tends to mean unconscious. That is you feel like you are doing something because you want it, for the sake of the behavior itself, and not because you are doing it for some goal. For example saying ''thank you'' because you feel like it, because you believe it's a good thing to do, instead of because you want something out of some person and you know that if you do that , that would increase your chances of them looking favorably upon you.
In other words , your behavior might be modified in a way that can be described as : "oh shit, she likes me, I will now change how I act, and do things that I THINK will solidify her interest". which potentially might not be good long term, because one has limited amount of 'energy' you can spend in doing performative behaviors, and the more comfy you get with the person, gradually you will slip back to your 'true' self, and she might not like whatever that might be and go down-hill from there , OR you might get sick psychologically, not realizing how much you are acting, and you suddenly might leave her. Some people are so afraid of rejection or offending the other person, they don't recognize that they are performing an act, and just stuff in their frustrations or lack of satisfaction, until they can no longer take it.
the indirectness is fully intentional. their intentions are to filter out the guys who are too pvssy to make a move. they want the guy who just gets it. if they need to spell it out to you they don't want you.
@@mitkoogrozevGood insight.
@@mitkoogrozev this is a good insight, and is relatable. I tend to change my act if a girl takes an interest on me. Thank you for this insight, I now know what to do and what not to do
I'm starting to think that my mother is into me, she fits almost all criteria
the summary of this class is as follow: how tf u want to understand women when even a woman cna't give a clear idea about women
19. She calls you up to ask you out for a coffee.
20. She keeps asking you over to study and brings you snacks in class.
21. Your other female friend gets extremely angry when the first girl spends time with you.
1:16 bro in the chat really said sue her, what a chad
That story about Making eye contact with guy, then guy comes over and initiates conversation, then asks for your number, then gets it…that is something straight out of the twilight zone.
I have come to the conclusion that no girl has ever been into me
I have 2 questions:
1) what if i cannot open that bottle too?
2) what if i'm shorter than her?
Xd.
Then buy her another bottle idk.
Shorter isnt bad, at least it's easier hor you to bend and get something what dropped.
you fucked up
Shes bulling you then
1. it doesn't matter. if she likes u then she'll react playfully that u can't, as long as u react playfully and confidently as well. don't be socially inept or awkward
2. it doesn't matter too much either if you're shorter. if she likes u then she'll show multiple traits. short guys get laid too if they have game
It's over no need to try
Thanks!
Money for fun 🗣️🔥‼️
affter 4 lessons, i'm still single 😐
😐
me too bro
Man I have given up😂
😂
Bro same 😢
I am horrible at reading things and most of the "touching you" ones just make me feel threatened when that happens because I always feel in danger (yes I'm extremely mentally messed up)
Its insane how none of this ever happened to me
She may be into you, but you have to be into her as well.
13:11 I still have this primal instinct of thinking I look weird or she’s looking over my shoulder to someone behind me lol.
Yep, a girl did all of these, and then rejected me. 🤷🏼♂️
either your story is complete bs, because if a girl does EVERY single one of these, then she wants ur kids, or you took too long to make a move rather than in the moment which makes the fire burn out
same experience here...
- from Indonesia -
Or it might be that she wants attention lol
@nimaltra7353 what do you exactly mean?
@@NikiWonoto26 That some girls flirt with you not because they like you but because they like the validation, so you never know
I would love to know how to continue after catching these signs. I could be like HOL UP she did the thing, but then be like uhhh uhhh how do I signal back?
Bro I’ve been oblivious to everything my whole life… I am a golden retriever apparently, but I’m retrieving my goals rn, so the time will come when it does, no need to chase it.
9:10 If she have shared her life story but hardly ever ask for details from my live story; what does it mean?
Try telling her your story and if she seems interested (like asking for more details), then go from there. Otherwise if she seems uninterested then that means she's just a yapper and dont really gaf about talking to you
A lot of people aren't great listeners so one sided conversations can happen, then everyone's true feelings are still confused.
3:11-Recalling a day when I was in high school and my crush asked me in front of her friends...😵💫 (I still don't know why she asked)
Bruh😂
5:10 that "actual conversation" had a really pain inside ngl xd
This vid got me second guessing every female interaction i've ever had
I recently started working at a new spot and the girl I have a crush on which I work with mean flirts with me. Sometimes I respond back standing my ground with her mean flirting back but because I’m not good at flirting sometimes they don’t land and then we don’t talk anymore for the day. I recently got a small specialized coffee maker for the store where we work to make coffee and she asked me about where I got it out of the blue. I told her not to worry that I could get her one. After a week or so I gave her one and it seemed to bring down the meanness, I even caught her preening her hair right after I gave it to her and she had a big smile. She’s always very serious and dry around me but she does make it a habit to talk to me a few sentences and she stares very intently at my eyes. It’s very intense. So I think she does like me, hopeful she doesn’t think I’m creepy.
15 mins of qualitative education
Thanks Jimbo.. I'm still single after all those lessons 🥲
You're probably poor.
Yeah sure I guess
@@_AZZ_ Bad news. Most chicks are materialistic. 😒
@@_AZZ_ Bad news. Most chicks are materialistic.
I think i am gay now
Congrats gay now im jr
@Jrsonicyt-is-weird are you gay
hi gay, i'm dad
@@unosocongorra5779, pills here Bill
I hate when they show all the signs but you're not into them. You just want to be friends and she's touching you, she's laughing at every joke, its obvious she wants you to make a move, but you really don't want to because either you're more into somebody else there or something, it sucks. You gotta kinda let them down easy on the fly, without making a scene, or you have to ignore her -which you don't want to, because you like her as a friend. Its tough. I had a good friend ghost me after a night out like this, and I did really like her, just not romantically.
Im glad I can check off that literally none of these have ever happened to me. Self-love coming in clutch!
Step 1 : actually talk to women ...
i think quantum physics is easier to understand 😆
1:27 cuz coaches dont play
Fax
Thanks for the confirmation, I didnt miss out on anything
So basically if she interacts with you she is interested. If she is not you are dead to her.
ooooo she leaned in 14:31
I get all those hints from my gay friend.
Am I cooked?
Zesty