My dad was like the original passport bro back in the 1970's lol. He was in the military and met my mom when he was stationed in Germany. She was Spanish, but her family immigrated to Germany when she was a little girl. They met at a Disco. My dad was friends with her older brother, and he introduced them. They fell in love and got married and moved back to the US. They had 4 children and were happily married for 41 years until they unfortunately passed away unexpectedly. My mom was a homemaker and taught her daughters how to be good wives. All 3 of us girls are happily married for 18, 12, and 10 years respectively. All of our anniversaries are coming up in the next couple of months so we are nearly at 19, 13, and 11 years. None of us have marriage problems. We are definitely not the stereotypical modern women because we were raised very differently from our American peers.
@@Ceci.Coem. Oh sorry I wasn't clear. My dad was American. He was in the US army and was stationed in Germany in the 1970's. My mom was originally Spanish from Spain. Her family immigrated to Germany when she was a little girl, so she was a Spaniard living in Germany when they met and started dating. My dad's time in the military had come to an end, so he was being sent back to the United States. They could either get married or they would never see each other again. They decided to get married and she came with him to the US after they were married. She eventually became a US citizen in the early 1980's before I was born. I hope that's more clear lol
@@TheShahOfIran2005 It really wasn't. My mom went there because she loved to dance. It was a fun hang out. My dad went there with his army buddies. He knew my mom's brother, and her brother introduced them. It was just a fun place for people to hang out and dance. My parents were Christians, and nothing degenerate happened. They just hung out with friends and disco danced. It was nothing like modern clubs. They were both virgins until they got married which was what they taught to all of their kids.
@@bunny_0288 oh, well if they met over your uncle that is pretty based, I though it was like some cold approach bullshit, God bless them and their marriage ✝️🇭🇷
I am a traditional stay at home wife and mother. However, in my 20’s I did live on my own and I did support myself. The reasons being things weren’t all the way healthy and protective at home and getting out was better for me. During that time, learning to survive was one of the best and one of the hardest but I wouldn’t trade it. I learned invaluable lessons about life, myself, finances, and relationships. I support women making choices that are best for their families and themselves.
I love this comment! I agree plenty of women and young girls are getting out of their home at a young age because their family life isn’t healthy and maybe the influence in the family is what they need to get away from most. I do support a woman making the decisions necessary to feel safe and happy 😊
I lived on my own for a few years and grew into the woman I am now. So I'm so thankful for that time! I lived overseas and it was a good experience for so many reasons! But I really wanted to be a wife and mother and that's been the best adventure yet. I was being told I had to chase a huge career and more education by my dad and other family, so I did feel the pressure. But I think that even though I grew so much in the time I lived singly, living with your parents can be a wonderful thing and does NOT make you a freeloader. It's what most cultures do. So I love your comment for multiple reasons. I did the same thing and am a stay at home mother now. But I'm supportive of women going from their parents house to their husbands so long as they have a safe family!
Sadly, too many modern womyn *say* they're "making choices that are best for their families", but they're wrecking their homes and breaking their vows- often for "no-fault" reasons. Statistics show that children suffer the worst outcomes from broken families and single m0m households, so wrecking the home for "no-fault: reasons ISN'T 'best for their families"- it's narcissistic and immature. Interesting statistic: kids fare *almost* as well with single dads as they do with intact biological families. So, womyn- if you TRULY care about what is best for your kids after YOU decide to wreck your home and break your vows for "no=fault" reasons (womyn file 85% of the time; this rises to 90% of the time once they get a college degree (often worthless))... let your ex have primary/sole custody of the kids. Then you're free to go "find yourself" or "pursue your dreams" or get used as a P&D by a long series of Chads and Tyrones, or whatever lie of the month you're telling yourselves and others.
@@LaB567 I spell it that way to differentiate between modern f-enists (who don't want "Men" in "women"); they started it. I live in the real world, where a lot of womyn pretend to be "strong(!)" and "independent(!)", but instead ruin relationships and families. I do enjoy my life- thanks for the well-wishes.
@@daveshearer1961 (Trad wife here.) I agree with you for the most part. Lots of young women running around looking for traditional men in all the wrong places. The type of man you want to marry and be the father of your children is not found in a bar drinking himself to death or hooking up with other girls in clubs. Neither is he found in academia getting another degree because he’s afraid of the challenge of entering the work force. Traditional men are found in traditional places - church, farms, construction sites, the military, etc. Are they found in other less traditional places too? Sure. But young women wanting the trad life need to 1) make sure they have trad wife skills to offer (or start learning some), and 2) look in the right places - specifically, places that hard working truly masculine guys gravitate towards. Trad men are out there, you just have to look in the right places.
More Trad-Dudes, than Trad-Gals, way more. Ladies, if he has a job/good health and isn't a drunk or a stoner he's a keeper. Things like height, looks, physique are superficial. No matter how hot, you'll get tired of looking at the same person naked after a year or two - BELIEVE THAT!
My mom used to work two jobs now she works one. I asked her a few weeks ago if she would have preferred to have been a stay at home mom and wife and she said yes. She said stay at home moms are so lucky they can be with their children take care of their families and not have to deal with stress of a day job. I'm in real estate and I've set a goal to retire her and my dad as soon as possible.
Just want to point out that not every family has young women or men's best interest at heart, also not every family has the wisdom os mental capacity to give guidance. Every situation is different.
@@joimonae4090 I would say in most cases parents have no idea how to guide teen children and want to impose instead of teach. I would know because I have a 17 and a 14 year old girls and I see the disaster that is the relationship of other families around us with their teens. Every time I start one of my "speaches" on life or relationships my girls sit down and listen with their whole hearts because we have a great relarionship and they can see how everything I ever told them has proven to be right. They LOVE to hear me speak and their life is a testament to how they are being taught and the rationship we grew together. Most parents are clueless when it somes to reaching their teenagers heart and mind.
I can definitely say being from and living in Italy (and being married to an American christian man) that our traditional values are still much more intact here. Unfortunately influence from the western world has arrived and is eroding our culture, but you can still find men and women here who adhere to traditional roles and values. Visiting the US and seeing how American women behave was a real shock for me...
It's an America/Anglosphere problem. The lack of generational roots is the main cause. Most Americans know nothing of their ancestors homelands or traditions so everything they know is from their modern life or television.
@@AssyTheNator nah Eric , loose morals and the crap they are teaching the kids these days is destroying the fabric of society . Up is down and down is up
Don't compliment your country too much. I've been to Italy last summer - visited 5 cities across most of the country. More than 50% of the young woman had tattoos - many of them large and very visible. My guess is they aren't exactly virgins either... Southern Europe is already worse than America, in many aspects.
Hi Estee! I just wanted to let you know I love your lifestyle and I’ve been living my life very similar to you for my entire 22 years of marriage! I didn’t even realize being a “tradwife” was a thing but I’m am super proud to be one! Thank you for sharing the tradwife style with everyone, we need more beautiful souls like you in this world! The world would be a happier place and men and women both would have so much more fulfillment. God Bless You, Estee! ❤
Aww how sweet of you to comment this! Thank you so much for those kind words! And 22 years of marriage?!? Wooow congratulations girl 🥰 I look up to the women who’ve been living this way for so long! ❤
It’s the way God intended us to live! Live it up, you won’t regret it!! I pray you are abundantly blessed with beautiful babies and enjoy a long fruitful marriage. Put God first in all that you do “for a cord of three strands is not quickly broken” Ecclesiastes 4:12 🙏🏼🥰❤️
@@reneekilbourn9974 oh no please, it is great that there are women like you, and I am saying it honestly, but there is also great that there are women who are artists, scientist, bussiness women, workers, each woman has the strong obligation to be who she really is. Don't make this "a thing"
@@Typeher I completely agree woman can choose which type of life suits them best and encourage them to do so. I myself own a small business that employs 16 other women but I am a traditional wife first. That is my first priority and all things come second to that in my life. I love when I see women put their home life first, I think that was the way it was intended to be. I am honored and super proud to be a tradwife❤️
@@reneekilbourn9974 I'm so happy for you, really, but I strongly disagree about that is the way it intended to be. There is not such a thing, each person has a correct way to do things. I'm about to finish a PhD, I have had a scholarship all my career that was paid with the taxes of people, so I strongly owe a controbution to society, and that demands a lot of time and effort, so I am not a wife cause I prefer to use my time doing so than making home. For me is the right decision and my priority, so let's just respect each one's ways. THERE IS NOT A WAY it intended to be.
I wish I was lucky enough to stay with my parents and be supported, but I’ve been abused as a child all the way into my teenage years and I’m talking chased with a knife beaten, psychologically and emotionally abused and borderline sexually abused. I got lucky I found a loving husband that brings me up emotionally and supports me even when things get hard.
Yes I can relate. I left to go to college to get away from my extremely abusive mother (mentally, physically, emotionally). That move changed my life for the better. Met my husband of 18 years.
The problem with a few of these passport bros is that they think women and their families outside of their own country will fall at their feet and be eternally grateful for the chance at marriage with a foreigner. What a few of these passport bros then fail to do is even a minimum of research into the culture of these women. These women may hold traditional family values, but they are no fools and they and their families are not submissive to the point that they'll agree to anyone with supposedly traditional values. They have a list of demands too, theirs is just different from westerners. Some of these passport bros have found out that unlike western women the women demand things like they take financial care of them and (part of) their families. Also, in muslim culture any money the wife might have or earn is hers alone and can't really be used to take care of the family, the husband has to do that. They may demand that they convert to their religion. They demand a bridal price etc etc. Don't get it twisted, even traditional women outside of the western world have demands and aren't as submissive as some think they are.
@@rebel3391f those type of women are in your social circle, chances are your running the streets right alongside them. You think those men jaded by American women are saints 😅
Kinda the point of traditional is to financially take care of everything as the man. Not up for that then don't expect a traditional wife. Its a give and take on both sides. It's that or get yourself a liberated women. Sucks nuts.
I am a female from the Philippines who came to the US at 17 for college and lived at home briefly with my family while working but now live alone in the US with a director level career. I think she is convoluting living at home with parents with "not wanting a career and independence". There are lots of Asian American females who live at home with their families in the US to save money for a down payment and they also have careers and independence. As for Filipino wives, to be very blunt, many of them want a ticket out of poverty. They don't want to marry these passport bros just to be a stay at home mom. They want to marry them to get out of the Philippines or to get financial support for their families in the Philippines. In fact, once you reach a higher socio economic level, there is greater gender parity in the Philippines than the US. The chairperson of the largest bank? Female. President of the largest insurance company? Female. Two female presidents of the republic. It's so normal to see Filipina women in positions of power that it doesn't attract attention domestically that way a female US vice president does. If the Filipina wives could work in the US (they had credentials that transfer over) they probably would work unless their husbands prevent them OR were alreadt multi millionaires
I like this comment - you know what you're talking about, it's not just guessing. As a child I lived in Asia and we had a Filipina maid, she was super kind and smart, later she made her own business!
Yeah. I don't think a lot of these passport bros realize that in Asia, hard work and success for women is revered. I was looking at the average age for first child for a lot of Asian countries and found that it was the mid-30s. Why? Because they believe in establishing yourself and being financially independent before having kids. These bros aren't looking for those type of women. It's very exploitative, imo.
No divorce in the philippines No prenuptial in the philippines Child custody always goes to mother Women always guilty for adultery not men Etc etc etc etc
I'm a Passport Bro and a lot of what you say is true. I have decided to be shrewd about this and move to the Philippines. If I was to bring a beautiful Filipino lady back to South Africa, I would likely lose her to the very aggressive "man's man" South African males. I know I'm not Mr Hot. I'm OK but I'm realistic. When I go to the Philippines I have women throwing themselves at me right, left and centre. So if I move there, I have all the leverage because she is competing with 100 other beautiful ladies all vying for my attention. Sounds a bit crass, I know, but unfortunately the love game is hugely an issue if supply and demand. That's just the way the world works, unfortunately. Thankfully, Im a faithful "one-girl-guy". When I've found the one, that's it and I don't stray so she will be in good hands. in the west, I'm unappreciated. In the Philippines, I'm hot beans. So go where the stakes are in your favour.
Living with parents seems like something the US finds incomprehensible in Asian culture. It's perfectly normal for working adults to stay with family until they want to start having their own family, not just when they reach an arbitrary age number and get kicked out before they're ready. In the US it seems like the "live under your mom's basement" is a stigma probably rooted in their own culture. In the Philippines, or in most Asian countries, working adult children take care of the parents, not the other way around. It gets much better if there are two or more working adults because you can split the bills where you only worry about one electricity, water, housing rent, internet bills instead of each paying their own.
@rawbodiesareyummy theres a fine line. If your living at home to save money and contributing to household cost and improveing yourself. Its not a bad thing. If your sitting on your ass doing the bare minimum in life and mooching off your parents thats unhealthy. If your kid was successful enough to move out at 21 obviously you did somthing right and thats awsome. But its not the financial reality for alot of people
@@NM68971 Yes, poverty, war, and/or lack of opportunity. American men, many of whom are semi-broke, unattractive or socially awkward expect to find Eastern European Trad Barbie, yet can't even be bothered to learn the woman's language or understand her culture. As an Eastern European myself (living in Canada), I've seen it all before. A small percentage of genuine men but a significant number of superficial guys without much to offer just wanting to get something better than they can get at home with minimal effort. Both sides can game this system though. I hope if a genuine guy is interested in an Eastern European woman, they put in the effort, learn some of the language, be truthful/honest about who they are and what they can offer, show respect to the woman and her family and not have their #1 wife criteria as "hot, young, blonde etc."
Many go to western europe and are happy married. Europe is still keeping their traditional values. Also other way around, many european women go to east asian countries. The number of AMWF couples is increasing constantly
I was a Passport Bro before it was even cool 😎! My wife is from the Philippines. We have been married for years now. Three kids. “Family” is everything in the Philippines 🇵🇭. My wife’s family is my family. I will never give any of them up. We were married in the Catholic Church over there by a priest. Tradition is alive and well! Great video! Keep them coming!
I'm already married so this doesn't effect me either way. However, people are free to pursue relationships where they want. If traditional women are more readily available elsewhere and that's what some men want, more power to them.
I have been married 42 years to the same man. I am a traditional wife. We have a partnership and no one ever needs to be submissive they have to be RESPECTFUL and make all family based decisions TOGETHER. I have a degree and have a part time job that I have had in my home designing costumes for thirty years and I take care of the house. I have two children, one is a financial planner and one is a maritime atty and both are happily married. Yes you can have it all if you put the work in.❤️
@eranriblo30 not sure what country you are in but in the US costs are always on the rise so people have gotten financially smarter over the years and may realize they can't afford as many kids. Avg here and many other countries is 2-3.
@@eranriblo30 ummm.that depends. Some kids may have health problems, special needs etc. For example my daughter has a ton of allergies. A small loaf of bread she can eat costs 10 dollars. Every circumstance isn't always the perfect cut n dry example and you have no way of determining what ailments a child may come out with. And whatever they are doing to food or the environment here....many of these things are becoming more common....and they cost money!
@@eranriblo30 she's already learning that. However that's just ONE example out of thousands of things you could need for your child's physical and mental health.
Yes, I ONLY managed to give him two kids because I have PCOS . It took me almost ten years of trying to accomplish that! Just so you know my sweet husband didn’t want to put me through any more than I had been through already. Seriously watch what you say to people you never know what they have been through.
Also remember...a lot of parents literally kick out their kids right out of high school because..."that's what I did" and "pull yourself up with your boot straps" even telling this to their daughters...
Yes very good point here! Hard to uncover all the stones and many are put out into the world on their own because of their parents urging them to do so.
@EsteeWilliams it's so mind blowing. This is an American concept. You do not see it in Europe. Even Western Europe, parents do not have this mindset. I'm so happy my husband doesn't feel this way towards our, the Lording willing, future children.
@jonathanaffiliatemarketing668 that is so awful! I was raised by a single mom and fell into the propaganda. I went to college straight out of high-school. Got into debt, was denied 10 jobs I applied for after college...I had no other choice but to join the military. Thankfully, I was smart and joined the coast guard. But I paid off my debt and met my now husband...but yeah I'm almost 28...MOST my 20s...wasted...
@@Austenfan177I don't think encouraging our daughters to get an education and career is "throwing them out". I helped my daughters with rent, phone, health insurance. Tuition. Etc. I wanted my daughters to know they will never have to be stuck in a bad situation like I was and my mother was. Depending 100% of a man isn't a good plan for anyone. I want my daughters to pick a man that makes them happy... not that makes them stay home and put themselves second.
@@Austenfan177 well.. grown adults want their independence, including from you. You might guilt them into staying....but that doesn't change the fact they want to be out. Oh.. and getting an education means you go to college. You know...dorms? Apartments with friends? What if they choose to not marry? You're going to support them forever? Plus .. you can help support them while they have some independence. I helped both of my daughters pay bills while they were college. They didn't have to live in my house to get my support.
Many of the passport bros are going to Eastern Europe and poor countries in Asia and South America. Those girls aren’t stupid and know what those men are up to.
Well, there aren't any rich countries in Eastern Europe or South America and plenty of passport bros are looking at Japan and South Korea (rich countries in Asia). Family isn't a western value anymore, so it make sense why they'd look in these locations. Yes, the women know "what those men are up to" and I only hear complaints from women in the States.
My uncle married a woman from the Philippines. They have three kids together and an amazing life but she's not traditional, she runs a successful business. I think they're drawn to eachother because they're both high achievers and business orientated. Their kids are also expected to be. Meanwhile I was brought up in a traditional home in the uk 🤷🏼♀️ alot of British women are happy to be traditional wives but it's expensive so not many are plus most men that ONLY accept stay at home wives are controlling and abusive. That's honestly why a lot of women don't want to do it because then they will be trapped and not be able to leave if Mr right becomes Mr wrong.
These men don’t realize they have to be traditional men. No p0rn, saving themselves for marriage, religious, hard worker, good salary, good with money, good morals, no cussing, no drinking etc. there are so few good men out there
@@chameleon28 well... we know men take a bit extra to catch on. Things have changed a lot. I'm sure they were promised a second mom and they didn't realize that women didn't want to do that.
It's not so much about being "traditional", it's about having a partner who will work with you and not make day to day living this constant battle for who is leading the relationship. It is about having a partner in the truest sense and most western women today don't know how to do that.
Thank you! I'm a feminist and my fiance and I don't believe in submission or leadership, but we believe in teamwork. We split the bills, pay a cleaner, I cook and do the dishes and he takes care of our pets. We have unwritten rules such as: Never argue when the other just got home, do an activity together every day (watch a movie, etc) and give each other space to do things we like (play video games, etc). Been together for 8 years.
@@ksager123 most men today don't don't ow how to be partners. They want a traditional woman who is modern because they 3ant her to do half his traditional job on top of her own qnd treat her with no respect unlike traditional men of the past...they know nothing about being partners.
My mom has been a homemaker for 47 years, she is great but also she is sad and frustrated cause she couldn't go to college, she is such a brilliant woman with a lot of interests, but when she was young she didn't had the support of her family to continue studying. My dad is a good man and a good provider, but my mom will die without knowing what is like to spend the life doing what is your passion.
That is heartbreaking. Women should be encouraged to pursue their passions whether it be being a traditional wife/mother, working for a company, or starting her own business. It's heartbreaking when people try to push people in to certain directions.
She can still do it! She might not have a long career, but it sounds like she still has some great interests and hobbies she wants to pursue. There are community colleges that offer affordable courses in whatever she wants to learn about! I have known who started a small side business in their 60s.. don't let age get you down! Your mom is so blessed. She created a loving home for her children and husband. Love is what makes life living. God created love. I would love to have a child and be a homemaker. We are trying. I would trade shoes with your mom in a heart beat. But it sounds like she needs to really find the motivation to pursue her interests and have an outlet for them. God bless!
So, you're saying that being a good, faithful wife and raising good, productive children isn't a passion? Interesting glimpse into her soul. As for pursuing a career AND doing the above, I had a grandmother who pursued being an RN AFTER their kids were out of the house (and my grandfather supported her in this). She realized they they were a FAR more important contribution to the world than whatever career she might pursue. Yet she still did both. She had her priorities in the proper order.
@@tdrive398 I'm saying that it wasn't my mom's passion AT ALL. She herself says she didn't even like children, so it was a big sacrifice for her to raise 3 children that she didn't enjoy, and I as her daughter could see it clearly. I'm so happy for your grandma but everyone is different and I don't believe that there are hierarchies in contributions. God made us different with different interests so that we could contribute in all areas of this world. There is NOT ONE correct order in priorities, it is not one size fits all. God gave us free will to choose the best way for us to contribute. Opinions like yours cause a lot of damage
Back in the early nineties, I had dated some nice girls but most had more interest in careers than family and some of them had some questionable values. I met a Filipino immigrant through my sister and found her to be very compatible and a great match. So, 30 years ago we were married and I had my traditional, Amerikana family. Now it’s funny that young people are going to the Philippines to have the type of marriage and family that I have. I get it.
There’s nothing wrong with women focusing on their career. I think having children today is overrated. I am age 30 and have never had children, I’m glad I haven’t.
@@jazzyj6640 It’s perfectly ok to be single and have a career. One can serve the world through family, career or both. It’s all ok. I personally wanted both. Consider though, that a single person can be lonely and without help as they get older. When ones life is done, one’s career is done but a child can carry on. Granted a child is not you but a gift to the future world. So, there’s trade offs to consider and the reason why one makes a decision is what matters most. I read somewhere that to succeed requires doing the right things in the right way. Do necessary things, sufficiently well and one succeeds. This formula is missing the cause part. Instead it’s right reasons>right things>done right. Get the reasons right before making any plans. Think about your reasons here. It’s possible that it needs more consideration from different points of view.
I had my son move out when he turned 20. My reasoning was he needed to learn about life and he could not do that being under my feet so to speak. As I told him. ' You need to learn about life as I will not always be around to help you. Don't get me wrong, if you need anything I will be glad to help you."
My son turns 20 next month and moved out shortly after graduating high school! I love it, he invites us over for dinner and it's so cool to see that he was raised to be self sufficient!
@@tiny.terrorist.negotiator Yep, I love knowing my son can take care of himself and maintain his household. It's a good thing for males to be self sufficient regardless of what society says.
I tried being the trad wide, but unfortunately I lived through the "you're not a real man unless you have side chicks" trend. In the end I ended up single mom, and retiring alone. Now my ex-husband wants an "old fashioned traditional relationship" with me. He's forgiven, but I just feel it's not right. I really cherish you and the life you live - finding the right man is paramount.
@@Austenfan177 No, he's not deserving. At 60, after 20 years+ celibate, I would just as soon keep my peace with God. I brokered a friendship - it is good to have someone to call in case of emergency - but God is my companion.
@@eranriblo30 it went far beyond "indiscretion". And once he had gone that far with someone else I frankly couldn't bear the thought of him touching me. Indeed, I was raised better and the betrayal spoke enough of his character to warn me to leave.
Having side chicks was never a trend, and you have acknowledged that you simply chose wrong. Going after a man who is in high demand is the actual trend that many women fall victim to. A man with a lot of options will see you as just one of the many options he has. His value in you will not be high, and because it is not he will not care if you choose to stay or go. You are correct. Choosing the right man is imperative. And it is of the utmost importance that the man a girl chooses places high value in her. This man will commit to her like nothing else. This type of man places value in purpose, substance, well-being, and his goals. He does not place value in having a harem of women, excessive wealth and material possessions. This is what women need to be taught.
@@ulibarriL Thanks for the lecture buddy, but since you weren't there and had so many assumptions to make let me fill in a few more tid bits. We were both hard workers, christian, kept our family tight. Then one day after we were married a few years - an old friend came back from California and started "Boys Night Out". At first it was just one night a week, which quickly escalated to 6. Then the hard core drinking and strip clubs. I watched him fall apart with the wrong friends for a while until it started to become violent for me. Yeah, the wrong guy. The guy who fell from a great height because he let friends distract him. His friends became his family and told him he didn't need us, we were just a burden. After I divorced him - he quit drinking, ran this friend off and he has lived in regret since. Although I forgave him I will not ever forget the beatings, cheatings and the complete disrespect. When you meet a man who fits every criteria for being a good man, then after marriage he begins to make bad decisions - how am I to blame? Sometimes men fall, sometimes a woman does her part and still ends up with a fallen man. So until you walk a mile in my shoes, know this. Even high value men can change. And it's not a woman's fault.
Surprised it took this long for it to happen! I was 28 when I decided to check out another country, and met my wife in Eastern Europe. That was back in 2014. Fast forward to today, we have been married for nearly seven years and still going strong. Best decision I made hands down.
I’ve seriously considered going abroad only because of the fact that an extremely small percentage of our population actually want a family and once you’re married there is no divorce. So small of a percentage that it is essentially non-existent and I’m tired of picking the “wrong one” no matter how “right” it seems to be.
@@reality-winner5759 not likely lol men are the ones dying alone women die surrounded by children and other family members. Nurses have said this and my sister in law who worked at a nursing home and a hospital for many years has stated this. Stop projecting your future on to women
As a 22 year old Polish woman that also lived in Italy - I honestly think, that those men must have gotten pretty dissapointed and discouraged after they thought that European countries are gonna be filled with traditional women.... I don't remember a woman not mentioning that she is working, prioritizing her career growth or that goes 50/50 with her husband. For many polish men is also very common to offer the bare minimum and expect all the benefits of being with a woman, in return. Guys, it is not like this JUST in USA. It is everywhere. Don't be ignorant and this delusional, and actually educate yourself.
Well Italy is disappearing, the same can be said about eastern europe, all this equality and women independence cannot be a good thing if a society cannot even maintain a stable population because women are not having children anymore.
I appreciate you understanding and empathizing with the men who see no other alternative but to travel abroad for a potential wife, but women like you are proof enough that there are still some decent wife material ladies here in the US :)
@@Ceci.Coem. no not really, I think that's a really racist way of thinking. And I don't throw that word around loosely. They will have piece of both you and the person you LOVE. I think this is such an abnormal way of thinking especially when it comes to skin color. My son is only 4 months old and he's already a considerable amount darker than I am not he still looks like me. Having a child with someone if a different race doesn't mean they won't look like you and having a child with someone of the same race doesn't guarantee that they will look like you.
I do agree that most men probably don’t have to leave their country to find a Traditional woman however, I’ve seen that its working for some men and wanted to chime in why I think that could be the case. 😊
@@scholasticbookfair.why it had to be racist? I'm white and my husband is Latino. Non of my kids look like me at all, and I'm fine with that. Some people want their kids to have some resemblance with them. It's also fine but not guaranteed.
Decent? You see this is my problem. If these men don't like what some women do they insult them or act like what they do is appalling and a problem. I have noticed that when it cones to different countries you normally hear things about the women. Oh they are attractive or unattractive or they do this or that except for Italy and maybe korea. It's always western or modern women but just men. Do men not have any problem? Thibgs that a lot of women don't like? Are all men masculine or maybe not enough are feminine? Or maybe they are mostly rude? People say how much modern women sleep around but they seem to take the modern men out of that equation. If a women is masculine, she is not trying to be. Women can live the lifestyle they want and often don't think oh I shouldn't be doing this is too masculine even though I like it. If you don't like it that's fine but doesn't mean that it's not decent. Also I have seen comments about how women in Thailand treat the men. I saw a comment in this video said that they are tied of rejection. So basically foreign men love that they get treated better than men in Thailand and praise the women even if they give the native men the same treatment as they supposedly got. I see how they always say things like we are desired in other countries but always get mad when women talk about going to other countries and say nobody wants you other than for sex. I have seen international couples before and after the passport bros with women that passport bros are saying are bad. Not to mention some men don't want housewives or a submissive wife. Sone men even want wives that share their hobbies or passions or job masculine or not. At the end of the day it's what they like, if they treat foreign guys better or if they like staying at home and that's fine. But are they really decent or decent to you?
In the fifties or in strictish muslim ochristian families she would be seen as a disgrace showing her boobs in pin up style clothes on youtube or being seductive & insinuating in her style & mannerism. She would have been censored from family time tv. And a fifties husband would for the most part have expected his wife to give up a job like acting or modeling or dancing etc., even if that's how he first met her. Women were expected to retreat to the home at marriage, and even joining the womens' institute or taking an evening class once a week may have been a problem. Do we really want to go back there?
Living with your parents can help you to save for a house, which might be the only way you're going to own your own home. Most of the Passport Bro situations that I've heard of require the man to meet the woman's family, so the family has to approve of you before things can go forward. Also with most Passport Bro situations the family and the woman expect you to marry within a year or so, so you have to be ready to marry your wife. I think it can be a great way to meet someone, but you have to be ready to step up. ( in hindsight, I wish I had checked out marrying a foreign wife back when I was in my 20s, but I knew of nobody that did this back then )
Sounds like just another group of slimy backpacker occult just renamed and rebranded. Sick of these narcissistic trends disgusing themselves and doing something "good" or unique and original including this garbage "trad wife" trend. Geez the lot of you, have some discretion would you? Frigging nearly everyone seems so desperate for attention these days wanting to ba part of trends cults etc. It's so embarrassing for them. I will no longer be giving any of them oxygen. Not interested. Better to live a quiet discrete and people life. Sheesh narcissism is running rampant these days...
You won't believe how much they don't care for age gap. Rule is 20+. Man can be up to 20 years older and still eligible. 30+ for women, as in 30+ is left over due to reduced fertility for a full family.
My wife is from the Philippines and is more traditional than just about every woman I've met or dated. We share the same faith, believe the same way about finances, employment, family, etc. She dresses modestly in public and at home. She only has eyes for me and I for her. She's rarely on social media and she loves to read! I cannot recall the last time I met an American that likes to read. Hell most of them haven't cracked a book since high school. And most of all she's good with money and doesn't spend money the way many American women do. I know so many men that have met their brides in the Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia and beyond. I never would have wasted my time with an American woman had I known about traditional women in southeast Asia earlier.
You've never met an American who likes to read? What a weird generalization. Haha I'm glad you met a good woman but that seems like an odd thing to point out. Millions of American women are avid readers. 😂
I met my Filipina wife online back in 2001. She was working in Hong Kong at the time. After several years of me visiting her there and of course every day conversation, we were married there in HK in 2005 and have been happy ever since. FYI my wife isn't some submissive naive girl I'm taking advantage of. She attended college immediately upon moving here to the U.S. and makes six figures as a teacher.
Lot of good American men. I think the big sell is they're generous towards their women and don't beat them which is the standard of men in other countries.
I'm 24 and I'm getting married in 2 months and still living with my parents at the moment. Nothing weird with that. I also am against moving in and living with a boyfriend without having scheduled a marriage or at least being proposed to :))
What about Passport Gals? Western women might need to go abroad to find real, strong leaders/protectors for their family since there are not many here.
@@user-qu1yp8bh8c Meaning the traditional roles of men as protectors. However, this reminds me, recently a friend of mine picked up her husband from a car dealer and some guy was getting in her face about how she parked. When her husband walked out and asked what the problem was, the guy immediately backed off. He thought she was alone and tried to intimidate her. When he saw a man, he let it go.
I'm from the Philippines and i admit that although foreigners are welcome in the country with smiles and perfect English, underneath most find their behavior unbecoming or even brutish. Channels like Black in the Philippines, or Jasper in the Philippines, for example, are platforms that areainly geared for views and money and not necessarily for experience they bring. Most wholesome channels like BecomingFilipino cater on experiences and very little on the finance side, i think.
I was raised in A very Catholic family. My grandfather was in seminary and thought about being a priest, so did his brother . I haven't been on a date in years. My ONLY choice is passport or single and give up on having children.
Aww I really love your thoughts and so happy to know that someone in the free state like uSA is still practicing amd supporting traditios, great respect for you❤❤❤❤
There is a difference between obedient or to love to take care of others. Furthermore being polite and respectful in a fight (well educated) is not obedient. Dont mix those up
You see men looking for traditional wives ... I see women looking to not get a job. This isn't the 50's....men can't work at a ice cream factory and support their family anymore. What good is a husband if he's working 70 hrs a week just so you can stay home and make him dinner?
i can't speak for all stay at home wives/mothers, but when i think of it, this is how i see it; my main job is going to be making a sanctuary and a beautiful home out of the house, and everything in it; - the house: clean, cosy & welcoming - the children: happy, welcoming daddy home & ready for bed - food: warm, from scratch, healthy, and, of course, put effort into my appearance. i'm not looking for a traditional man to just quit my job, stay home and make dinner. i know he's going to work very hard, and i'm going to appreciate his efforts for our family as much as i can and be his peace after dealing with the world. peace to you, sir 🌷
@@shy-xo this isn't the way it works in the real world. When you have 3 kids and a house to maintain the last thing you're worried about is your appearance or the cleanliness of your house. The man comes home to "take these kids in done" and he has to get hot n ready because she's tired. Been there....done that. I've even had to make dinner after being at work all day because she was tired. Laziness is a disease.
@johngunckel5629 i understand fully, easier said than done. i can't ever guarantee 100% that i'll always be on my best behaviour as a future wife... but certain behaviours in the pre-marriage/vetting phase could assist in determining how committed the other person will be in putting effort... but i agree, wayyy too many people stop putting effort after marriage and get lazy, forgetting marriage isn't the end of their journey, but rather the real start. i'm no angel immune from mistakes, but i can say i'm learning a lot from people's failed relationships. peace to you, sir 🌷
Dear Estee, My first wife passed after twenty years of marriage (cancer). God has blessed me with another wife, and we just celebrated our 25th Wedding anniversary. I am 65 years old. I thank God that he has blessed me with a Christian wife who provides me with the best domestic support on the planet! I met my first and present wife at Church! Before I met them, they were God-fearing, conservative, and Christian. Passport Bros don't have to travel the world and the seven seas. They need to give their lives to Christ and ask God to direct them to a Godly Proverbs 31 woman.
Yes you do. What you have is one in a million. Modern western women are just plain nasty unsociable animals. That's like aearching for a needle in a haystack. Nope. Not worth the wasted time and effort.
Many men want the benefits of a Proverbs 31 woman but not wanting to follow Jesus. There are also men who pretend to be Christians just to deceive a Christian woman into marrying them. There are also women who pretend to be Christians just to deceive a Christian man because they know that he would make great husband. Passport bros are not Christians for the most part & don't desire to marry Christian women. Christian women for the most part don't marry men who aren't Christians. The Church exists to serve God, not as a dating/matchmaking place.
I think it's possible to balance between having a career and being a parent. Online influencers are thinking in terms of extremes. There's a lot of women here who are willing to do either or both. Most women only seek out careers because a lot of men don't want to have to support a family by themselves. They want trad wives, but don't want to be trad husbands in the first place.
There are two types of men one is modern and one is traditional. If you live in Liberal regions of the US you will likely run into modern men and yes they don't want to be a provider. They will do the 50-50.
@@slappinbass8052 Facts, data and statistics- not to mention the plethora of women exposing their true nature on social media. 85% of divorces are filed by women- often for "no fault" reasons; this jumps to 95% if they have a college education. Too many women acting masculine and rejecting femininity; high body counts ruin their ability to pair bond. My workplace is 70% female. Not long ago I was enjoying lunch in the cafeteria when a group of women (ranging in age from late 30s to late 50s) came in. In their conversation they trashed men (including their husbands) and openly plotted how they planned to divorce and use the courts to take half his stuff... If I sat around with a group of guys at work and we openly trashed women and our wives, not only would we be hauled before HR, but all our female co-workers would (rightfully) lambast us as horrible people. And yet... I've been blessed to work around the world, and in both large cities and small. There are definitely good women out there- but they are increasingly rare, mainly due to f-enists infecting women's minds .thru social media. Sadly, even Churches often aren't even a "safe bet". More data on that area, but this is already too long.
This kinda thing just puts women down. Its like saying these women are better than other women & the men are always right. Newsflash, no one of either gender is always right. Theres not just one all defining person that accounts for everyone. So tired of this nonsense.
Andrew Tate is an evil man. If you understand what YT and other social media is, you can see the anti-Americanism and that's where this propaganda is from. They also work with China who hates freedom.
Like women always putting men down? Really. There was a news story about male loneliness and there were women mocking the news, and putting those men down. No sympathy, no compassion, none. So, when men seek greener, hopefully friendlier pastures for themselves, here's another woman only worried about how it "puts women down". It's about time men say forget those insensitive beings who care not a whit for my feelings or needs, and go on a quest to find someone who cares for something besides themselves or other women. What independent Western Women hostile to men forgot is men aren't trapped here, they have freedom, power, and AGENCY, so they can say "NO" to USA women and go elsewhere as is their choice, or go nowhere, as MGTOW monks do. Estee is rare, and if most American women were like she and her ilk, neither "Passport Bros", nor "MGTOW monk" even be a thing, because those gentlemen would be happily married as her husband is.
Why are men not allowed to want to be with a certain type of women? Why is that a "put down"? Do you feel inferior because your own local men are going out of their way to look for someone other than you? Maybe that should tell you something about the way you live your life. I mean you do you, however you can't have it both ways. You can't want to be attractive to men while simultaneously doing things that makes you unattractive to men.
Nothing wrong with women wanting independence or freedom and to do whatever they want. Live and let live. But also nothing wrong with women/men staying home until they marry or find a traditional partner. Is there a passport girl? What about the many women who want this but can’t find a true good man/partner to fulfil that?
Your first sentence you make a statement benefiting Women with things they want. But then don’t make a follow up statement benefiting Men with what they want. All you did was type a completely different statement that benefits both parties. Nothing about a man’s desires for what he wants in life/relationships. That’s the problem. It’s never about what a man’s desires are. It’s always what Women want to be happy & defending it.
Me and a lot of other disabled men do not have the option to go over seas ' I can not find a wife or a girlfriend . Women give off these subtle little signs of attraction and I can read them but I am scared to death that if I approach one of these women that they will scream or accuse me of something . It is really sad that it has come to this but I am happy that some women such as yourself are trying to bring feminine women back to America and I think that is a great thing . I think God is very proud of the work that you are doing .
I have yet to see or hear about about a passport bro getting married or finding a wife. All I ever hear them say is how easy and nice the girls are to have sex with.
@@flapjack9999 still I have yet to see it. The only videos I see now are of some foreign women being unhappy and now complaining about the American husband they begged for.
I am sure glad I was born into a Mexican household. I definitely agree with living with parents, but I'd say we and other cultures take it a step further and make it permanent. Imagine living with your family, relatives, and your spouse's family. That's the dream.
I'll pass lol! My parents are dead and my husband's mother is a drunk! I like that it is just me, hubby and our kids. Id move out if he brought his family into my home!
@@tiny.terrorist.negotiatorthat would be an instant divorce for me. 😂 my family bad enough and then, the inlaws! NO! Other cultures that live with families must all have mad respect for each other. In the U.S. I think people too damn nosey. My mother inlaw asks too many questions and crosses my boundaries so much, almost as if she's doing it on purpose. Plus she cries too much for me and won't go get that seen about. I have to keep her on do not disturb on my phone. I couldn't imagine every, single day with all of them and their constant problems. Sometimes I feel like we're their parents.
Nothing screams “traditional woman” quite like earning an income from UA-cam using your God-given physique and makeup skills. Do people actually fall for this?
I dated in USA for the last 5 years after my wife cheated on me and divorced me, it was a nightmare. I went to the Philippines and met a beautiful traditional conservative girl, we are now engaged and I sent her your channel to follow, to give her an example of what I was looking for in marriage and she agrees with everything you say.
@@lexalee5795I disagree. Most Filipinas would rather raise kids close to their immediate families rather than going to a foreign land where you have to adjust and also be worried of the bad influences their children can pick up from their environment. It's safer to raise children close to home where traditional values are still respected
@@lexalee5795 Green card huh? To where? To a land that now is resembling Afghanistan? With your beloved "leader" senile mentia Biden leading the US over a precipice! To a land of so called "freedom" when in reality you got none? To a land of high inflation bordering with hyperinflation now. A land that kills the unborn and even the born. A matriarchal land, which for women is great, but not for men. To a country where you need a stinking car to go to a grocery store 5 mins down the road? Heck no, you can have all that junk. We're loving living outside the US and for those marrying the local women, the majority of the ladies want to stay in their home country as gee618 said. Do you really think men are leaving and coming back to this mess? A few are, and are bringing their foreign spouses, and it's their choice (a bad idea tho) but the GREAT MAJORITY of men are leaving the US FOREVER and not coming back. We're saying enough to y'all, and to your corrupt feminazi goverment. Y'all ruined the US for good. Short of a civil war it's not coming back to what it was.
@@lexalee5795 Can you explain what so good about the US that every woman you assume wants a green card? let me see. Yes all the wonderful mass shootings? Or how about the the price of a tiny box studio apartment being so expensive that you need to cram 5 people inside to afford it? Or how abut the wonderful healthcare where you get one illness and you are bankrupt the next day? Or how the glamorous van life people show when in reality so many Americans live in a van as no other choice for housing? Lexallee5795 yes let's all sign up for a Green Card because America sound so great! Not! America is not great and not worth the effort of a green card. It used to be but not anymore.
I was expecting something visceral or sensational when I first clicked this video. I'm pleasantly surprised that you actually seem to have a very balanced, well thought out opinion on this. Maybe it's the YT algo, but more often than not I'm getting recommended videos with very polarizing viewpoints. It was super refreshing to hear yours and not come away with a, "Gosh, can you believe her/him?!" feeling. Now I've actually got some food for thought. Thanks for that!
They're coming to Europe? I rhink you got that wrong. Here feminism is stronger than in the US. American women were submissive when here we already had guys spinning around our little finger
I actually think the “passport bro” movement is also about, mostly about, the value of the dollar. What I’ve picked up on is that they are going places were there American money goes further. They’re pretty much saying they can’t afford or fully provide for lot of the women here who do want to be stay at home wife’s with what they make. So they go places where there dollar equals more and the women there need less money because of the cost of living there.
lol that's the dumbest rationale to have towards this movement. I'll tell you the real reason, first I need to say I am married and have been with my wife for 14 years, I know about commitment, and I know what it takes to build a home and a family and to be able to sustain those things. I lucked out with my wife, because she grew up not having a whole lot to look forward to, and when I showed up, I was probably the biggest breath of fresh air she ever had. But like all western women, especially those who grew up raised by single mothers with no respect for men whatsoever, she had a certain tinge to her, one I either had to be patient and work through, or chalk up my losses and move on. Patience is a virtue with me, but for many men who get told everyday they aren't enough, they are DONE. The value of their dollar is exponentially lower in the states if they have the misfortune of landing on the wrong woman, that woman "gets tired of them" now all of the sudden their money, AND their livelihoods, are gone! God forbid if children are involved. That being said, if our story comes to an end at some point, I will not be looking for love in this country. I make really damn good money, and the last thing I want to worry about is being able to afford a woman, much less a woman here. Y'all don't bring anything of value to the table anymore. Just spiteful attitudes and inflated senses of self worth that don't even match who y'all actually are. Pretty soon the only men who will be left, if you even want to call them this, will be doormats and weaklings, and neither of which will meet your needs whatsoever. You can thank modernity and western feminism for all of this.
Our youngest son lived at home and "mooched off his parents" so he could save money to have a family of his own. He thought it was dumb to waste money on an apartment before he got married.
that's cuz they're not looking in the right places or hard enough in America. we are here.... it's usually cuz we're busy doing traditional things and not out bar hopping...
First of all, in this neoliberal and oppressive system towards marginalized communities such as the Latinos, women do not have an option honey but to work, a household won’t make it without both working, most of these women work twice because they still have to cook dinner, clean, do laundry, dishes, buy groceries and if they have children! I’m going to stop right here. Have you thought about maybe this lifestyle for many women in this country is not even an option? You are lucky and privileged.
Just remember that in some cases they don’t just value traditional roles they also don’t let women vote, work or get an education. Of course that’s not always the case but it’s something we shouldn’t forget.
For a lot of us it’s not that we don’t want to be told what to do it’s that parents aren’t as nurturing, influencing, motivational, etc. They just don’t have traits that we would want to come back too
I understand what these guys are saying. But, there are still lots of women here in this country that would be a stay at home wife if we had a real good man.
Absolutely!!! I think there’s also something to be said about some of these men like why are they fleeing the country for a wife? Is it because they didn’t meet the standards of these American traditional women? Or do they really want to embrace and experience another culture while finding a wife in that country? Lots of possibilities with this
@@EsteeWilliams most of the cases are: - men that are literally fed up with women's delusion (some moved from place to place trying to be luckier) - get fucked up in divorce/ - saw a close male relative's experience/ - retired workers - men that haven't have a relationship, but they don't want try here because the odds are against them basically (alongisde the laws)
“There is no need for judgements towards another, it’s not your story”. “Be curious and understanding instead”. Everyone has opportunity to be happy, their happiness has no comparison to someone else’s. “Show kindness and be happy for one another”. Lordy this country needs more kindness towards one another!
I heard pros and cons of Passport Bros. In the end, it's their choice. People are going to learn about themselves, others, and how to get through life together. I'm 30, still living with my parents, and 3 siblings. I do want to get married, move out, if God allows it.
It’s funny that the only women that seem to have any issue with passport bros or the like are non traditional women. The supposed “woke progressive” women not only bashed the men, but some of them even decided to express their xenophobia towards women from other nations as well. You explained the phenomenon with balance and reason. Thank you for that.
Im not woke and I think this whole thing is ridiculous. Its like saying all the women in the US are trash. Which is not true because how in the world can a person possibly think that they can define & know every person because of the loud, moronic majority? Thats just ridiculous. And before you say Im some pink haired roastie, Im not. And I dont support any politicians because they are all brainwashed idiots who just want to simp for the NWO so no Im not a "woke progressive" either
Oh wow. 🤦🏼♀️ As millennials We lived with our parents to save for a fricken house ourselves not just waiting around like Cinderella or Snow White to do exactly what we can do and financially support ourselves. It’s called security for our life and future. What if ur husband decided to leave you or died suddenly? Are you financially secure enough to keep up the same lifestyle … shopping for food while the dude is at work let’s add you had a kid ... probly just marry another man I assume. Seen it so many times especially having family from WV. Being a strong independent woman isn’t bad. Being a woman who needs her man to take care of her is awful. Horrible message to younger woman. If a man wants a servant hire a maid ; essentially what you are.
I can’t believe she’s trying to encourage this lifestyle to younger women when my traditional grandma who lived that way all her life strongly discouraged me from being financially dependent on anyone! Her beliefs are absolutely crazy to me I question if she’s actually a troll
Facts. My housewife mother told me to never be financially dependent on anyone. My father told me the same. I learned how to drive, I got an education and I have a job where I am earning some good money. With the cost of living rising, you need to be self-sufficient. Part of being an adult is being independent. If these passport bros don't like it, that's fine. We dodged a bullet.
@@ellegauci4073 it’s funny because her mom isn’t even a traditional housewife 😂 I think she doesn’t have a real life experience with it, so she romanticizes it.
Agreed. Also, she’s teaching the recipe for domestic abuse. A woman who has no career skillset or survival skills who is 100% dependent on a man. That will attract abusive men. She is for sure playing dress up. Just like her previous characters she played online.
I agree it makes sense IF the parents and wider family are giving that guidance, protection, and provision. Sadly not everyone gets that. Sadly we have many parents who have had decades of being told freedom is the pinnacle of life and are eager to move on from parenting responsibilities, some kicking their kids out or otherwise not providing any of that well before their kids are adults - and they're supported by our institutions. It's nearly impossible to enforce parental responsibility for teen children. When I lived in the US, I've literally heard police tell 15 year old girls and younger that they're "old enough" to not have any parental oversight and no welfare checks by them or the schools in cases where parent(s) left them and younger siblings for weeks at a time, cases with parents not even in the same state and had known drug convictions. We had teen girls discussing not having food in the house until their parents came back from wherever and had adult officials accusing them of lying and hiding eating disorders rather than do basic welfare checks and do anything responsible. The parents freedom mattered more than responsibility to the teenagers. Many young adults have to choose the unsafe home of their parent(s) or making an uncertain leap to 'independence', some landing better than others. In my experience, while the 'don't want to be told what to do' is the rallying cry of the spoiled, it's far more often a defence from those who didn't get that protection and guidance, and have lost faith in finding it where they are. For all the shame discussed on those who still live at home, there is equal if not more shame on teens who don't have reliable parents - the shaming message of 'if your parents won't protect you, you aren't worth protecting except by yourself' is very loud to many teenagers and young adults. As an American woman who left and found get guidance, protection, and provision overseas - I, like the passport bros, could likely have eventually found someone in the US, but having been one of those abandoned teen girls and spent years getting the message that I'm not worth protecting because I don't have parental backing, that freedom is everything and my purpose is pleasure as rings in so much US media and messaging, I was blessed to be able to leave and find someone who valued responsibility and a community that takes those responsibilities as a priority. We still have those abandoned kids, there will always be irresponsible parents, but safeguarding them is a bigger priority and I can feel accomplished providing that guidance for my teen children than I could back in the US.
I am in Colombia. Don’t include that “submissive” shit with Colombianas. Make no mistake, they are strong and hard working. Wanting an education. The good ones are just looking for a good partner with good values and doesn’t cheat, who will treat them right. And Colombian people are among the happiest I’ve met anywhere despite the economic struggle most deal with.
What could possibly be better than being a traditional wife? Just think of all of the careers that you juggle, Chefs, Dr, Attorney, Coach, Chauffeur, counselor, Maid, and hundreds of others. It is the most rewarding career anyone could hope fore.
My father and mom are Indians. I was born and raised in America.. we went back to India when I was 16 years old. then we settled in Goa. I got Indian citizenship. i was brought up as a traditional Indian so I kept my virginity.. After my studies, I joined the Indian defense sector. everything is different here.. my salary here is 6000 dollars. here I am spending only 100 dollars per month. there is no point in coming here just because you are a passport bro. the girls here will make some demands.. The groom who is going to marry them must have an education and a good job. they also prefer traditional and virgin men.. it was great that I didn't lose my virginity when I was in America.. if you have all these mentioned qualities, then you will get a good life partner.. Women here respect men.. Men here also respect women in return. "a nation's dignity is the dignity it gives to women".. this is what this country has taught me since I came here.
Why don’t you comment on the fact that American women are being pushed into chasing a career because American men don’t want to be providers. Funny how those American men want a traditional woman, but they aren’t traditional themselves.
I love your channel, keep up the good work hun ✌️ It's nice to see men appreciating how good having a trad woman is, and that they are highly sought after.
I was born in 1971. The Korean War Vietnam War Free Love Feminism it was a strange mash up. My mother was at the time a homemaker. I watched her go from happy with us bugging her but other moms over crafting, helping, being together. Then it became less women together, there’s was crabbing, judging, “Well sure she’s sitting around serving her family, that’s why he got a Korean, Indonesian, ect woman” Things like “That’s just wrong, poor woman” Now I’d go to these women’s houses as I was friends with their daughters and Wow! I did not see a sad, weak victim of a woman they were large, in charge and bossy! I’d say more a Sophia Loren character! Years went on my Mom was isolated her friends had gone to work part time and she was shunned. She began a part time at Big Brothers Big Sisters. The irony of this hit me as an adult. I would go home to an empty house sit with the chickens for company make myself weird snacks like “hose water pudding” pudding mix put in a jar with hose water 😂 the eighties came and the culture got worse, sex, cocaine open marriage! My mother was brutalized by two men she met “out” after that she was institutionalized. I didn’t find her until I was 19. Her life did end happy I’m glad to say but what if she hadn’t let society what if she’d stayed true to herself? Just stayed her? She was more than enough she was amazing she was better than any doctor or social worker I later had in my life.
For years guys have been passed up for foreign guys. We said hey this is actually a blessing. Western women are not worthy of LTR anyways. My passport is good for 10 years so I have time to find someone I actually want to be with
It is looked down on even in the evangelical church. Our daughter lived with us until she married and everyone treated us like that was weird and strange. I’m so thankful she did!
What is sad to me is most traditional women in the west, that many men are looking for, are in church or are average looking therefore are overlooked by these men. Or some of these men arent traditional themselves but expect that in their woman. I'm lucky to have found an amazing man and we keep gender roles in our relationship. I wish the same happiness for everybody
I knew women in Germany, when i lived there, that were in their 30s and still lived with their parents. They were either going to do that forever and take care of their aging parents or move out if they got married. Personally, i went to college and lived in apartments until i was done. When i went for my masters i moved back home. From there i met my now husband and then moved in with him.
@@der_tod_und_das_madchen4727 I think in America we are pushed to be independent and it destroys our family foundations. Those years on my own were both rewarding but extremely hard. It was during the stock market crash and jobs were so hard to find. When I moved back home to finish up my degree I was a lot less stressed out.
Part of it is just supply and demand. In America I was just another young, broke, Christian, college educated guy. Nothing exceptional, so I was understandably passed over. I moved to Korea and suddenly I'm this interisting blonde foriegner who draws a lot of attention. I was married to a good Christian woman 18 months later. In many foriegn countries you'll draw more attention as an American, but it's still up to the guy to be someone worth marrying.
Why do I feel like this womans definition of "western part of the world, such as, the united states" is only included everything to the left side of the atlantic ocean? She says passport bros are going to "europe" but the continent of europe is in the "western side of the world" too.
It is interesting how westerners push their own cultural values on others sometimes, but are not satisfied with it themselves. For example, I was maybe 12 when I said that I wanted to be a SAHM when I grow up and wanted to find a husband with a stable profession. The woman I said this to was soooooo super offended!😖 I don’t remember her words, but I remember her message overall was basically why do I need a man at all. Despite this, as a single adult I still looked for a traditional Christian man. I even made a plan to build a life abroad to find a husband (passport… chick?😂). When I was pursuing my Masters degree, part of the plan was to build my career out of the US to find a traditional God fearing man. Before I graduated, I met a cowboy (and these dudes are as traditional as they come, man!). We’re married now for 15 years, have two kids who I homeschool and YES, I am a SAHM!😁 There are very traditional men and women in the western world, but I truly don’t blame passport bros as I obviously traveled on the same track when I was single.
We are looked at as losers for living at home past a certain age. Like you have to explain yourself. Normally it’s dependent upon where you live, what kind of work you do, and overall cost of living. Now more people are living at home longer because it’s so expensive. I was working full time and even overtime, paid off all my student loans, and I STILL couldn’t get an apartment by myself for under $1700 a month! Even a crappy one!
It’s also our tradition to live in our family , with mom and dad till we marry. I lived with my family till I was 37 and it doesn’t mean that I had no responsibility. As a grown person, we take care of our parents, support them and do work at home. It’s our HOME. It’s not some place for us and when I moved out with my husband I missed my home, my parents and my brother who is still living there. I missed waking up and talking to my parents, discussing things that happen in the world with my father. It’s one of the best things that I had. Westerners seem to think that the home of their parents or not their own home, which is sad. And believe me, there is not so much time we have with our parents. I am happy that I lived with them for so long. Of course, we also had arguments but isn’t it normal? I have arguments with my husband, as well. Do you leave your husband or partner because of that?
Filipino here, I can't tell you how many middle aged Americans I've met who are looking for Filipinas. In fact, I have a neighbor from New Jersey who married a Filipina and settled here. He said he's sick of western women.
The issue is you have to do your due diligence anywhere you’re looking for a life partner. Due your diligence, learn the culture and the respectful way to court someone as well as their expectations for you in the marriage(make sure you’re on the same page about responsibility, duties of love/care, marriage priority over other relationships, timeline, kids, financial issues, how to handle inlaws etc). You may go overseas to find a traditional women, only for her to want a life of freedom and opportunities her community couldn’t/didn’t grant her(education, job, child-free life, etc). Learn the person, not the just their west-washed idea of their culture.
My dad was like the original passport bro back in the 1970's lol. He was in the military and met my mom when he was stationed in Germany. She was Spanish, but her family immigrated to Germany when she was a little girl. They met at a Disco. My dad was friends with her older brother, and he introduced them. They fell in love and got married and moved back to the US. They had 4 children and were happily married for 41 years until they unfortunately passed away unexpectedly. My mom was a homemaker and taught her daughters how to be good wives. All 3 of us girls are happily married for 18, 12, and 10 years respectively. All of our anniversaries are coming up in the next couple of months so we are nearly at 19, 13, and 11 years. None of us have marriage problems. We are definitely not the stereotypical modern women because we were raised very differently from our American peers.
Ok, but both of them are european, they are the same kind of people.
@@Ceci.Coem. Oh sorry I wasn't clear. My dad was American. He was in the US army and was stationed in Germany in the 1970's. My mom was originally Spanish from Spain. Her family immigrated to Germany when she was a little girl, so she was a Spaniard living in Germany when they met and started dating.
My dad's time in the military had come to an end, so he was being sent back to the United States. They could either get married or they would never see each other again. They decided to get married and she came with him to the US after they were married.
She eventually became a US citizen in the early 1980's before I was born. I hope that's more clear lol
Met at disco you say... sounds degenerate...
@@TheShahOfIran2005 It really wasn't. My mom went there because she loved to dance. It was a fun hang out. My dad went there with his army buddies. He knew my mom's brother, and her brother introduced them. It was just a fun place for people to hang out and dance.
My parents were Christians, and nothing degenerate happened. They just hung out with friends and disco danced. It was nothing like modern clubs. They were both virgins until they got married which was what they taught to all of their kids.
@@bunny_0288 oh, well if they met over your uncle that is pretty based, I though it was like some cold approach bullshit, God bless them and their marriage ✝️🇭🇷
I am a traditional stay at home wife and mother. However, in my 20’s I did live on my own and I did support myself. The reasons being things weren’t all the way healthy and protective at home and getting out was better for me. During that time, learning to survive was one of the best and one of the hardest but I wouldn’t trade it. I learned invaluable lessons about life, myself, finances, and relationships. I support women making choices that are best for their families and themselves.
I love this comment! I agree plenty of women and young girls are getting out of their home at a young age because their family life isn’t healthy and maybe the influence in the family is what they need to get away from most. I do support a woman making the decisions necessary to feel safe and happy 😊
I lived on my own for a few years and grew into the woman I am now. So I'm so thankful for that time! I lived overseas and it was a good experience for so many reasons! But I really wanted to be a wife and mother and that's been the best adventure yet. I was being told I had to chase a huge career and more education by my dad and other family, so I did feel the pressure. But I think that even though I grew so much in the time I lived singly, living with your parents can be a wonderful thing and does NOT make you a freeloader. It's what most cultures do. So I love your comment for multiple reasons. I did the same thing and am a stay at home mother now. But I'm supportive of women going from their parents house to their husbands so long as they have a safe family!
Sadly, too many modern womyn *say* they're "making choices that are best for their families", but they're wrecking their homes and breaking their vows- often for "no-fault" reasons. Statistics show that children suffer the worst outcomes from broken families and single m0m households, so wrecking the home for "no-fault: reasons ISN'T 'best for their families"- it's narcissistic and immature.
Interesting statistic: kids fare *almost* as well with single dads as they do with intact biological families. So, womyn- if you TRULY care about what is best for your kids after YOU decide to wreck your home and break your vows for "no=fault" reasons (womyn file 85% of the time; this rises to 90% of the time once they get a college degree (often worthless))... let your ex have primary/sole custody of the kids. Then you're free to go "find yourself" or "pursue your dreams" or get used as a P&D by a long series of Chads and Tyrones, or whatever lie of the month you're telling yourselves and others.
@@tdrive398 Not sure what your comment has to do with anything here. Or why you’re spelling women with a “y”. Have fun on whatever planet you live on.
@@LaB567 I spell it that way to differentiate between modern f-enists (who don't want "Men" in "women"); they started it.
I live in the real world, where a lot of womyn pretend to be "strong(!)" and "independent(!)", but instead ruin relationships and families.
I do enjoy my life- thanks for the well-wishes.
Please also remember that a traditional woman needs to find a traditional man which is rare these days.
I disagree. Traditional men are everywhere. Women are just blind to them.
I agree 100%
I see tons of men saying they want a traditional woman up until she says she wants to save sex for marriage
@@daveshearer1961 not really
@@daveshearer1961 (Trad wife here.) I agree with you for the most part. Lots of young women running around looking for traditional men in all the wrong places. The type of man you want to marry and be the father of your children is not found in a bar drinking himself to death or hooking up with other girls in clubs. Neither is he found in academia getting another degree because he’s afraid of the challenge of entering the work force. Traditional men are found in traditional places - church, farms, construction sites, the military, etc. Are they found in other less traditional places too? Sure. But young women wanting the trad life need to 1) make sure they have trad wife skills to offer (or start learning some), and 2) look in the right places - specifically, places that hard working truly masculine guys gravitate towards. Trad men are out there, you just have to look in the right places.
More Trad-Dudes, than Trad-Gals, way more.
Ladies, if he has a job/good health and isn't a drunk or a stoner he's a keeper. Things like height, looks, physique are superficial. No matter how hot, you'll get tired of looking at the same person naked after a year or two - BELIEVE THAT!
My mom used to work two jobs now she works one. I asked her a few weeks ago if she would have preferred to have been a stay at home mom and wife and she said yes. She said stay at home moms are so lucky they can be with their children take care of their families and not have to deal with stress of a day job. I'm in real estate and I've set a goal to retire her and my dad as soon as possible.
Just want to point out that not every family has young women or men's best interest at heart, also not every family has the wisdom os mental capacity to give guidance. Every situation is different.
true in some cases but many teens just want to leave their parents home for the freedom lets be honest here ....
@@joimonae4090 I would say in most cases parents have no idea how to guide teen children and want to impose instead of teach. I would know because I have a 17 and a 14 year old girls and I see the disaster that is the relationship of other families around us with their teens. Every time I start one of my "speaches" on life or relationships my girls sit down and listen with their whole hearts because we have a great relarionship and they can see how everything I ever told them has proven to be right. They LOVE to hear me speak and their life is a testament to how they are being taught and the rationship we grew together. Most parents are clueless when it somes to reaching their teenagers heart and mind.
Exactly
I can definitely say being from and living in Italy (and being married to an American christian man) that our traditional values are still much more intact here. Unfortunately influence from the western world has arrived and is eroding our culture, but you can still find men and women here who adhere to traditional roles and values. Visiting the US and seeing how American women behave was a real shock for me...
Anche io italiana... 😊 ma vivo in U.K.
Silencio bruno
It's an America/Anglosphere problem. The lack of generational roots is the main cause. Most Americans know nothing of their ancestors homelands or traditions so everything they know is from their modern life or television.
@@AssyTheNator nah Eric , loose morals and the crap they are teaching the kids these days is destroying the fabric of society .
Up is down and down is up
Don't compliment your country too much. I've been to Italy last summer - visited 5 cities across most of the country. More than 50% of the young woman had tattoos - many of them large and very visible. My guess is they aren't exactly virgins either...
Southern Europe is already worse than America, in many aspects.
Hi Estee! I just wanted to let you know I love your lifestyle and I’ve been living my life very similar to you for my entire 22 years of marriage! I didn’t even realize being a “tradwife” was a thing but I’m am super proud to be one! Thank you for sharing the tradwife style with everyone, we need more beautiful souls like you in this world! The world would be a happier place and men and women both would have so much more fulfillment. God Bless You, Estee! ❤
Aww how sweet of you to comment this! Thank you so much for those kind words! And 22 years of marriage?!? Wooow congratulations girl 🥰 I look up to the women who’ve been living this way for so long! ❤
It’s the way God intended us to live! Live it up, you won’t regret it!! I pray you are abundantly blessed with beautiful babies and enjoy a long fruitful marriage. Put God first in all that you do “for a cord of three strands is not quickly broken” Ecclesiastes 4:12
🙏🏼🥰❤️
@@reneekilbourn9974 oh no please, it is great that there are women like you, and I am saying it honestly, but there is also great that there are women who are artists, scientist, bussiness women, workers, each woman has the strong obligation to be who she really is. Don't make this "a thing"
@@Typeher I completely agree woman can choose which type of life suits them best and encourage them to do so. I myself own a small business that employs 16 other women but I am a traditional wife first. That is my first priority and all things come second to that in my life. I love when I see women put their home life first, I think that was the way it was intended to be. I am honored and super proud to be a tradwife❤️
@@reneekilbourn9974 I'm so happy for you, really, but I strongly disagree about that is the way it intended to be. There is not such a thing, each person has a correct way to do things. I'm about to finish a PhD, I have had a scholarship all my career that was paid with the taxes of people, so I strongly owe a controbution to society, and that demands a lot of time and effort, so I am not a wife cause I prefer to use my time doing so than making home. For me is the right decision and my priority, so let's just respect each one's ways. THERE IS NOT A WAY it intended to be.
I wish I was lucky enough to stay with my parents and be supported, but I’ve been abused as a child all the way into my teenage years and I’m talking chased with a knife beaten, psychologically and emotionally abused and borderline sexually abused. I got lucky I found a loving husband that brings me up emotionally and supports me even when things get hard.
Unfortunately she’s tunnel vision and ignores the factors that makes people want to move out
Sounds like shades of malignant narcissism going on. Sounds like my mother!!
Yes I can relate. I left to go to college to get away from my extremely abusive mother (mentally, physically, emotionally). That move changed my life for the better. Met my husband of 18 years.
The problem with a few of these passport bros is that they think women and their families outside of their own country will fall at their feet and be eternally grateful for the chance at marriage with a foreigner. What a few of these passport bros then fail to do is even a minimum of research into the culture of these women. These women may hold traditional family values, but they are no fools and they and their families are not submissive to the point that they'll agree to anyone with supposedly traditional values. They have a list of demands too, theirs is just different from westerners. Some of these passport bros have found out that unlike western women the women demand things like they take financial care of them and (part of) their families. Also, in muslim culture any money the wife might have or earn is hers alone and can't really be used to take care of the family, the husband has to do that. They may demand that they convert to their religion. They demand a bridal price etc etc.
Don't get it twisted, even traditional women outside of the western world have demands and aren't as submissive as some think they are.
Men aren't worried about providing. It's the promiscuous western women men are disgusted with.
@@rebel3391f those type of women are in your social circle, chances are your running the streets right alongside them. You think those men jaded by American women are saints 😅
@@rh7968also I have heard a man having to pay a dowry and the women refusing to marry him until he buys a (bigger) house or something like that.
@@sugarzblossom8168 well yea where else will the litter of children, in-laws and extended family sleep.
Kinda the point of traditional is to financially take care of everything as the man. Not up for that then don't expect a traditional wife. Its a give and take on both sides. It's that or get yourself a liberated women. Sucks nuts.
I am a female from the Philippines who came to the US at 17 for college and lived at home briefly with my family while working but now live alone in the US with a director level career. I think she is convoluting living at home with parents with "not wanting a career and independence". There are lots of Asian American females who live at home with their families in the US to save money for a down payment and they also have careers and independence. As for Filipino wives, to be very blunt, many of them want a ticket out of poverty. They don't want to marry these passport bros just to be a stay at home mom. They want to marry them to get out of the Philippines or to get financial support for their families in the Philippines. In fact, once you reach a higher socio economic level, there is greater gender parity in the Philippines than the US. The chairperson of the largest bank? Female. President of the largest insurance company? Female. Two female presidents of the republic. It's so normal to see Filipina women in positions of power that it doesn't attract attention domestically that way a female US vice president does. If the Filipina wives could work in the US (they had credentials that transfer over) they probably would work unless their husbands prevent them OR were alreadt multi millionaires
I like this comment - you know what you're talking about, it's not just guessing.
As a child I lived in Asia and we had a Filipina maid, she was super kind and smart, later she made her own business!
Yeah. I don't think a lot of these passport bros realize that in Asia, hard work and success for women is revered. I was looking at the average age for first child for a lot of Asian countries and found that it was the mid-30s. Why? Because they believe in establishing yourself and being financially independent before having kids. These bros aren't looking for those type of women. It's very exploitative, imo.
No divorce in the philippines
No prenuptial in the philippines
Child custody always goes to mother
Women always guilty for adultery not men
Etc etc etc etc
I'm a Passport Bro and a lot of what you say is true. I have decided to be shrewd about this and move to the Philippines. If I was to bring a beautiful Filipino lady back to South Africa, I would likely lose her to the very aggressive "man's man" South African males. I know I'm not Mr Hot. I'm OK but I'm realistic. When I go to the Philippines I have women throwing themselves at me right, left and centre. So if I move there, I have all the leverage because she is competing with 100 other beautiful ladies all vying for my attention.
Sounds a bit crass, I know, but unfortunately the love game is hugely an issue if supply and demand. That's just the way the world works, unfortunately.
Thankfully, Im a faithful "one-girl-guy". When I've found the one, that's it and I don't stray so she will be in good hands. in the west, I'm unappreciated. In the Philippines, I'm hot beans. So go where the stakes are in your favour.
Living with parents seems like something the US finds incomprehensible in Asian culture. It's perfectly normal for working adults to stay with family until they want to start having their own family, not just when they reach an arbitrary age number and get kicked out before they're ready.
In the US it seems like the "live under your mom's basement" is a stigma probably rooted in their own culture. In the Philippines, or in most Asian countries, working adult children take care of the parents, not the other way around. It gets much better if there are two or more working adults because you can split the bills where you only worry about one electricity, water, housing rent, internet bills instead of each paying their own.
I’ve always told my children they can and SHOULD live with me until they’re married. I hope they do!!
Beautiful advice I plan to do the same when we have children ❤
What if your child never gets married? Would you still want them living with you when they are 55?
@MrJBest78 exactly. My daughter moved out...single at 21 and that is just fine with me.
@@EsteeWilliamshey big fan, what do you think about Andrew Tate?
@rawbodiesareyummy theres a fine line. If your living at home to save money and contributing to household cost and improveing yourself. Its not a bad thing. If your sitting on your ass doing the bare minimum in life and mooching off your parents thats unhealthy. If your kid was successful enough to move out at 21 obviously you did somthing right and thats awsome. But its not the financial reality for alot of people
Passport bros are going to Eastern Europe, NOT Western Europe.... BIG Difference!
Of course, the difference is called Poverty
@@NM68971 Where have you gone?
What countries are you referring to?
@@NM68971 Yes, poverty, war, and/or lack of opportunity. American men, many of whom are semi-broke, unattractive or socially awkward expect to find Eastern European Trad Barbie, yet can't even be bothered to learn the woman's language or understand her culture. As an Eastern European myself (living in Canada), I've seen it all before. A small percentage of genuine men but a significant number of superficial guys without much to offer just wanting to get something better than they can get at home with minimal effort. Both sides can game this system though. I hope if a genuine guy is interested in an Eastern European woman, they put in the effort, learn some of the language, be truthful/honest about who they are and what they can offer, show respect to the woman and her family and not have their #1 wife criteria as "hot, young, blonde etc."
Many go to western europe and are happy married. Europe is still keeping their traditional values.
Also other way around, many european women go to east asian countries.
The number of AMWF couples is increasing constantly
I was a Passport Bro before it was even cool 😎! My wife is from the Philippines. We have been married for years now. Three kids. “Family” is everything in the Philippines 🇵🇭. My wife’s family is my family. I will never give any of them up. We were married in the Catholic Church over there by a priest. Tradition is alive and well! Great video! Keep them coming!
Good for you bro! Bless you and your whole family! ❤👊
who said being a passport bro is “cool”?
@@anincandescentglow Whatever irritates feminists is fine by me! 😂
@@petertherock7340 still doesn’t make it cool😉
@@petertherock7340 filipino here things are changing most filipino embrace woke western culture and feminism.
Men will go where they're appreciated.
Bingo
Good luck!
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Women will appreciate something worthy of appreciation.
@@kelly6677 🤨Nice Retort. No they won't. Today's women are overgrown children, Devoid of Any accountability.☝️😮
I'm already married so this doesn't effect me either way. However, people are free to pursue relationships where they want. If traditional women are more readily available elsewhere and that's what some men want, more power to them.
I have been married 42 years to the same man. I am a traditional wife. We have a partnership and no one ever needs to be submissive they have to be RESPECTFUL and make all family based decisions TOGETHER. I have a degree and have a part time job that I have had in my home designing costumes for thirty years and I take care of the house. I have two children, one is a financial planner and one is a maritime atty and both are happily married. Yes you can have it all if you put the work in.❤️
@@eranriblo30Of course you would blame her as most misogynists do... maybe HE only "gave" her two kids....
@eranriblo30 not sure what country you are in but in the US costs are always on the rise so people have gotten financially smarter over the years and may realize they can't afford as many kids. Avg here and many other countries is 2-3.
@@eranriblo30 ummm.that depends. Some kids may have health problems, special needs etc. For example my daughter has a ton of allergies. A small loaf of bread she can eat costs 10 dollars. Every circumstance isn't always the perfect cut n dry example and you have no way of determining what ailments a child may come out with. And whatever they are doing to food or the environment here....many of these things are becoming more common....and they cost money!
@@eranriblo30 she's already learning that. However that's just ONE example out of thousands of things you could need for your child's physical and mental health.
Yes, I ONLY managed to give him two kids because I have PCOS . It took me almost ten years of trying to accomplish that! Just so you know my sweet husband didn’t want to put me through any more than I had been through already. Seriously watch what you say to people you never know what they have been through.
Also remember...a lot of parents literally kick out their kids right out of high school because..."that's what I did" and "pull yourself up with your boot straps" even telling this to their daughters...
Yes very good point here! Hard to uncover all the stones and many are put out into the world on their own because of their parents urging them to do so.
@EsteeWilliams it's so mind blowing. This is an American concept. You do not see it in Europe. Even Western Europe, parents do not have this mindset. I'm so happy my husband doesn't feel this way towards our, the Lording willing, future children.
@jonathanaffiliatemarketing668 that is so awful! I was raised by a single mom and fell into the propaganda. I went to college straight out of high-school. Got into debt, was denied 10 jobs I applied for after college...I had no other choice but to join the military. Thankfully, I was smart and joined the coast guard. But I paid off my debt and met my now husband...but yeah I'm almost 28...MOST my 20s...wasted...
@@Austenfan177I don't think encouraging our daughters to get an education and career is "throwing them out".
I helped my daughters with rent, phone, health insurance. Tuition. Etc.
I wanted my daughters to know they will never have to be stuck in a bad situation like I was and my mother was.
Depending 100% of a man isn't a good plan for anyone.
I want my daughters to pick a man that makes them happy... not that makes them stay home and put themselves second.
@@Austenfan177 well.. grown adults want their independence, including from you.
You might guilt them into staying....but that doesn't change the fact they want to be out.
Oh.. and getting an education means you go to college.
You know...dorms? Apartments with friends?
What if they choose to not marry?
You're going to support them forever?
Plus .. you can help support them while they have some independence.
I helped both of my daughters pay bills while they were college.
They didn't have to live in my house to get my support.
Many of the passport bros are going to Eastern Europe and poor countries in Asia and South America. Those girls aren’t stupid and know what those men are up to.
Well, there aren't any rich countries in Eastern Europe or South America and plenty of passport bros are looking at Japan and South Korea (rich countries in Asia). Family isn't a western value anymore, so it make sense why they'd look in these locations. Yes, the women know "what those men are up to" and I only hear complaints from women in the States.
@@JamilLynch i think the Men have the right to choose where they marry
My uncle married a woman from the Philippines. They have three kids together and an amazing life but she's not traditional, she runs a successful business. I think they're drawn to eachother because they're both high achievers and business orientated. Their kids are also expected to be. Meanwhile I was brought up in a traditional home in the uk 🤷🏼♀️ alot of British women are happy to be traditional wives but it's expensive so not many are plus most men that ONLY accept stay at home wives are controlling and abusive. That's honestly why a lot of women don't want to do it because then they will be trapped and not be able to leave if Mr right becomes Mr wrong.
These men don’t realize they have to be traditional men. No p0rn, saving themselves for marriage, religious, hard worker, good salary, good with money, good morals, no cussing, no drinking etc. there are so few good men out there
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I guess there is no traditional men in the US then. If that's what it takes. Lol
@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 no. US men want traditional women but don’t want to be traditional themselves. Very arrogant mentality
Well, I was a virgin until 35 saving myself for marriage. Glad I married someone from outside the US.
@@chameleon28 well... we know men take a bit extra to catch on.
Things have changed a lot. I'm sure they were promised a second mom and they didn't realize that women didn't want to do that.
It's not so much about being "traditional", it's about having a partner who will work with you and not make day to day living this constant battle for who is leading the relationship. It is about having a partner in the truest sense and most western women today don't know how to do that.
Thank you! I'm a feminist and my fiance and I don't believe in submission or leadership, but we believe in teamwork. We split the bills, pay a cleaner, I cook and do the dishes and he takes care of our pets. We have unwritten rules such as: Never argue when the other just got home, do an activity together every day (watch a movie, etc) and give each other space to do things we like (play video games, etc). Been together for 8 years.
@@Sol-nq4oz lol
Most western men don't know how to do that.
@@lnaph 🧢
@@ksager123 most men today don't don't ow how to be partners. They want a traditional woman who is modern because they 3ant her to do half his traditional job on top of her own qnd treat her with no respect unlike traditional men of the past...they know nothing about being partners.
My mom has been a homemaker for 47 years, she is great but also she is sad and frustrated cause she couldn't go to college, she is such a brilliant woman with a lot of interests, but when she was young she didn't had the support of her family to continue studying. My dad is a good man and a good provider, but my mom will die without knowing what is like to spend the life doing what is your passion.
That is heartbreaking. Women should be encouraged to pursue their passions whether it be being a traditional wife/mother, working for a company, or starting her own business. It's heartbreaking when people try to push people in to certain directions.
She can still do it! She might not have a long career, but it sounds like she still has some great interests and hobbies she wants to pursue.
There are community colleges that offer affordable courses in whatever she wants to learn about! I have known who started a small side business in their 60s.. don't let age get you down!
Your mom is so blessed. She created a loving home for her children and husband. Love is what makes life living. God created love. I would love to have a child and be a homemaker. We are trying. I would trade shoes with your mom in a heart beat. But it sounds like she needs to really find the motivation to pursue her interests and have an outlet for them. God bless!
@@elizabethh6638 You are right. Thanks for your kind words. God bless you. May you know the infinite love of building a great family
So, you're saying that being a good, faithful wife and raising good, productive children isn't a passion? Interesting glimpse into her soul.
As for pursuing a career AND doing the above, I had a grandmother who pursued being an RN AFTER their kids were out of the house (and my grandfather supported her in this). She realized they they were a FAR more important contribution to the world than whatever career she might pursue. Yet she still did both. She had her priorities in the proper order.
@@tdrive398 I'm saying that it wasn't my mom's passion AT ALL. She herself says she didn't even like children, so it was a big sacrifice for her to raise 3 children that she didn't enjoy, and I as her daughter could see it clearly. I'm so happy for your grandma but everyone is different and I don't believe that there are hierarchies in contributions. God made us different with different interests so that we could contribute in all areas of this world. There is NOT ONE correct order in priorities, it is not one size fits all. God gave us free will to choose the best way for us to contribute. Opinions like yours cause a lot of damage
Back in the early nineties, I had dated some nice girls but most had more interest in careers than family and some of them had some questionable values. I met a Filipino immigrant through my sister and found her to be very compatible and a great match. So, 30 years ago we were married and I had my traditional, Amerikana family.
Now it’s funny that young people are going to the Philippines to have the type of marriage and family that I have. I get it.
We have come full circle. Cheers
There’s nothing wrong with women focusing on their career. I think having children today is overrated. I am age 30 and have never had children, I’m glad I haven’t.
@@jazzyj6640 It’s perfectly ok to be single and have a career. One can serve the world through family, career or both. It’s all ok. I personally wanted both.
Consider though, that a single person can be lonely and without help as they get older. When ones life is done, one’s career is done but a child can carry on. Granted a child is not you but a gift to the future world. So, there’s trade offs to consider and the reason why one makes a decision is what matters most.
I read somewhere that to succeed requires doing the right things in the right way. Do necessary things, sufficiently well and one succeeds. This formula is missing the cause part. Instead it’s right reasons>right things>done right. Get the reasons right before making any plans. Think about your reasons here. It’s possible that it needs more consideration from different points of view.
@@lolakauffmann Traditional but needs to find a traditional guy.
@@lolakauffmann you’re imagining things
I had my son move out when he turned 20. My reasoning was he needed to learn about life and he could not do that being under my feet so to speak. As I told him. ' You need to learn about life as I will not always be around to help you. Don't get me wrong, if you need anything I will be glad to help you."
My son turns 20 next month and moved out shortly after graduating high school! I love it, he invites us over for dinner and it's so cool to see that he was raised to be self sufficient!
@@tiny.terrorist.negotiator Yep, I love knowing my son can take care of himself and maintain his household. It's a good thing for males to be self sufficient regardless of what society says.
I tried being the trad wide, but unfortunately I lived through the "you're not a real man unless you have side chicks" trend. In the end I ended up single mom, and retiring alone.
Now my ex-husband wants an "old fashioned traditional relationship" with me.
He's forgiven, but I just feel it's not right.
I really cherish you and the life you live - finding the right man is paramount.
@@Austenfan177 No, he's not deserving. At 60, after 20 years+ celibate, I would just as soon keep my peace with God. I brokered a friendship - it is good to have someone to call in case of emergency - but God is my companion.
@@eranriblo30 it went far beyond "indiscretion".
And once he had gone that far with someone else I frankly couldn't bear the thought of him touching me.
Indeed, I was raised better and the betrayal spoke enough of his character to warn me to leave.
Side chicks was never a trend it’s just an excuse to be a POS man, I’m a man and I’ve been there (before I came to Christ).
Having side chicks was never a trend, and you have acknowledged that you simply chose wrong. Going after a man who is in high demand is the actual trend that many women fall victim to. A man with a lot of options will see you as just one of the many options he has. His value in you will not be high, and because it is not he will not care if you choose to stay or go.
You are correct. Choosing the right man is imperative. And it is of the utmost importance that the man a girl chooses places high value in her. This man will commit to her like nothing else. This type of man places value in purpose, substance, well-being, and his goals. He does not place value in having a harem of women, excessive wealth and material possessions. This is what women need to be taught.
@@ulibarriL Thanks for the lecture buddy, but since you weren't there and had so many assumptions to make let me fill in a few more tid bits.
We were both hard workers, christian, kept our family tight. Then one day after we were married a few years - an old friend came back from California and started "Boys Night Out". At first it was just one night a week, which quickly escalated to 6. Then the hard core drinking and strip clubs. I watched him fall apart with the wrong friends for a while until it started to become violent for me.
Yeah, the wrong guy. The guy who fell from a great height because he let friends distract him. His friends became his family and told him he didn't need us, we were just a burden.
After I divorced him - he quit drinking, ran this friend off and he has lived in regret since. Although I forgave him I will not ever forget the beatings, cheatings and the complete disrespect.
When you meet a man who fits every criteria for being a good man, then after marriage he begins to make bad decisions - how am I to blame? Sometimes men fall, sometimes a woman does her part and still ends up with a fallen man.
So until you walk a mile in my shoes, know this. Even high value men can change. And it's not a woman's fault.
Surprised it took this long for it to happen! I was 28 when I decided to check out another country, and met my wife in Eastern Europe. That was back in 2014.
Fast forward to today, we have been married for nearly seven years and still going strong. Best decision I made hands down.
I’ve seriously considered going abroad only because of the fact that an extremely small percentage of our population actually want a family and once you’re married there is no divorce. So small of a percentage that it is essentially non-existent and I’m tired of picking the “wrong one” no matter how “right” it seems to be.
Religion may be the only way out.
Honesty they can have these American men 😂
@@reality-winner5759 not likely lol men are the ones dying alone women die surrounded by children and other family members. Nurses have said this and my sister in law who worked at a nursing home and a hospital for many years has stated this. Stop projecting your future on to women
@@reality-winner5759 and why are you so made I thought y’all wanted to leave? 😂
@@reality-winner5759 bro I’m married 😂 and he isn’t American which is a W for me
Dont get mad if you see me with a 18 year old filipina wife
As a 22 year old Polish woman that also lived in Italy - I honestly think, that those men must have gotten pretty dissapointed and discouraged after they thought that European countries are gonna be filled with traditional women....
I don't remember a woman not mentioning that she is working, prioritizing her career growth or that goes 50/50 with her husband.
For many polish men is also very common to offer the bare minimum and expect all the benefits of being with a woman, in return.
Guys, it is not like this JUST in USA.
It is everywhere.
Don't be ignorant and this delusional, and actually educate yourself.
Well Italy is disappearing, the same can be said about eastern europe, all this equality and women independence cannot be a good thing if a society cannot even maintain a stable population because women are not having children anymore.
I appreciate you understanding and empathizing with the men who see no other alternative but to travel abroad for a potential wife, but women like you are proof enough that there are still some decent wife material ladies here in the US :)
😢 your kids will be so different from you...
@@Ceci.Coem. no not really, I think that's a really racist way of thinking. And I don't throw that word around loosely. They will have piece of both you and the person you LOVE. I think this is such an abnormal way of thinking especially when it comes to skin color. My son is only 4 months old and he's already a considerable amount darker than I am not he still looks like me. Having a child with someone if a different race doesn't mean they won't look like you and having a child with someone of the same race doesn't guarantee that they will look like you.
I do agree that most men probably don’t have to leave their country to find a Traditional woman however, I’ve seen that its working for some men and wanted to chime in why I think that could be the case. 😊
@@scholasticbookfair.why it had to be racist? I'm white and my husband is Latino. Non of my kids look like me at all, and I'm fine with that. Some people want their kids to have some resemblance with them. It's also fine but not guaranteed.
Decent? You see this is my problem. If these men don't like what some women do they insult them or act like what they do is appalling and a problem.
I have noticed that when it cones to different countries you normally hear things about the women. Oh they are attractive or unattractive or they do this or that except for Italy and maybe korea.
It's always western or modern women but just men. Do men not have any problem? Thibgs that a lot of women don't like? Are all men masculine or maybe not enough are feminine? Or maybe they are mostly rude?
People say how much modern women sleep around but they seem to take the modern men out of that equation.
If a women is masculine, she is not trying to be. Women can live the lifestyle they want and often don't think oh I shouldn't be doing this is too masculine even though I like it. If you don't like it that's fine but doesn't mean that it's not decent.
Also I have seen comments about how women in Thailand treat the men. I saw a comment in this video said that they are tied of rejection. So basically foreign men love that they get treated better than men in Thailand and praise the women even if they give the native men the same treatment as they supposedly got.
I see how they always say things like we are desired in other countries but always get mad when women talk about going to other countries and say nobody wants you other than for sex. I have seen international couples before and after the passport bros with women that passport bros are saying are bad.
Not to mention some men don't want housewives or a submissive wife. Sone men even want wives that share their hobbies or passions or job masculine or not.
At the end of the day it's what they like, if they treat foreign guys better or if they like staying at home and that's fine. But are they really decent or decent to you?
Its incredible to see good, family orientated women still exist!
In the fifties or in strictish muslim ochristian families she would be seen as a disgrace showing her boobs in pin up style clothes on youtube or being seductive & insinuating in her style & mannerism. She would have been censored from family time tv. And a fifties husband would for the most part have expected his wife to give up a job like acting or modeling or dancing etc., even if that's how he first met her.
Women were expected to retreat to the home at marriage, and even joining the womens' institute or taking an evening class once a week may have been a problem.
Do we really want to go back there?
You got my Deepest Respect for Understanding this issue better than any other woman I've seen so far
Living with your parents can help you to save for a house, which might be the only way you're going to own your own home. Most of the Passport Bro situations that I've heard of require the man to meet the woman's family, so the family has to approve of you before things can go forward. Also with most Passport Bro situations the family and the woman expect you to marry within a year or so, so you have to be ready to marry your wife. I think it can be a great way to meet someone, but you have to be ready to step up. ( in hindsight, I wish I had checked out marrying a foreign wife back when I was in my 20s, but I knew of nobody that did this back then )
Definitely, great insights
Sounds like just another group of slimy backpacker occult just renamed and rebranded. Sick of these narcissistic trends disgusing themselves and doing something "good" or unique and original including this garbage "trad wife" trend. Geez the lot of you, have some discretion would you? Frigging nearly everyone seems so desperate for attention these days wanting to ba part of trends cults etc. It's so embarrassing for them. I will no longer be giving any of them oxygen. Not interested. Better to live a quiet discrete and people life. Sheesh narcissism is running rampant these days...
Exactly!
hence why a passport bro is a man that has his shit together...
Men have been paying to bring foreign women here to marry since America become a country.
If I was in my 20s, I would seriously consider the possibility. At my age it's irrelevant, but I understand.
You won't believe how much they don't care for age gap. Rule is 20+.
Man can be up to 20 years older and still eligible. 30+ for women, as in 30+ is left over due to reduced fertility for a full family.
fyi: i've seen video of men in like late 40s with women 20 years younger in the phillipines... so i would consider it if i was you
The only issue is that not the majority of passport bros are traditional men either.
Thanks for representing traditional family values ❤
Exuse me, but what do women need protection from...? Men in family will protect woman from who/what?
They never have valid answers
All the horrible people in the world out to take advantage of us obviously
My exact thoughts
My wife is from the Philippines and is more traditional than just about every woman I've met or dated.
We share the same faith, believe the same way about finances, employment, family, etc.
She dresses modestly in public and at home. She only has eyes for me and I for her.
She's rarely on social media and she loves to read! I cannot recall the last time I met an American that likes to read. Hell most of them haven't cracked a book since high school.
And most of all she's good with money and doesn't spend money the way many American women do.
I know so many men that have met their brides in the Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia and beyond.
I never would have wasted my time with an American woman had I known about traditional women in southeast Asia earlier.
But your kids are very different from you
@@Ceci.Coem. Our kids are very much like us!
You've never met an American who likes to read? What a weird generalization. Haha I'm glad you met a good woman but that seems like an odd thing to point out. Millions of American women are avid readers. 😂
@@annarocha3254 Not the ones I've met. They're too busy with social media and many American women are already in relationships with their phones.
@@annarocha3254especially with booktok
I met my Filipina wife online back in 2001. She was working in Hong Kong at the time. After several years of me visiting her there and of course every day conversation, we were married there in HK in 2005 and have been happy ever since. FYI my wife isn't some submissive naive girl I'm taking advantage of. She attended college immediately upon moving here to the U.S. and makes six figures as a teacher.
I get why americans wants married out of USA. What I don't get is why would anyone want to live with american.
😂🤣😂🤣 you got a point
Its not that I wouldnt date American, but I dont want to live there.
Lot of good American men. I think the big sell is they're generous towards their women and don't beat them which is the standard of men in other countries.
I'm 24 and I'm getting married in 2 months and still living with my parents at the moment. Nothing weird with that.
I also am against moving in and living with a boyfriend without having scheduled a marriage or at least being proposed to :))
God bless your soon to be marriage and I wish you to live happily ever after and build a wonderful family!
@@serenityssolace Thank you so much! :))
Better get a home when you’re married.
If I was wealthy, it would be a joy to help a young couple like this with a down payment on a starter, fixer upper home.
@@Jamlovino We have a decent home, he owns it and lives there, I'm moving at the moment 😁
What about Passport Gals? Western women might need to go abroad to find real, strong leaders/protectors for their family since there are not many here.
Why would women need a "leader/protector?" To protect them from what? Other oppressing men? 😉
They caught some of them going to Jamaica and Gambia for sex with underage boys.
@@user-qu1yp8bh8c Meaning the traditional roles of men as protectors. However, this reminds me, recently a friend of mine picked up her husband from a car dealer and some guy was getting in her face about how she parked. When her husband walked out and asked what the problem was, the guy immediately backed off. He thought she was alone and tried to intimidate her. When he saw a man, he let it go.
You think foreign men are going to put up with your shitty attitudes? The reason western men date abroad is because of you.
Yes, they do go abroad or marry a foreigner
I'm from the Philippines and i admit that although foreigners are welcome in the country with smiles and perfect English, underneath most find their behavior unbecoming or even brutish. Channels like Black in the Philippines, or Jasper in the Philippines, for example, are platforms that areainly geared for views and money and not necessarily for experience they bring. Most wholesome channels like BecomingFilipino cater on experiences and very little on the finance side, i think.
I was raised in A very Catholic family.
My grandfather was in seminary and thought about being a priest, so did his brother .
I haven't been on a date in years. My ONLY choice is passport or single and give up on having children.
The creepiest, stinkiest, grossest, scariest dude at my old job got a mail order bride from the Philippines. I felt so horrible for her.
Aww I really love your thoughts and so happy to know that someone in the free state like uSA is still practicing amd supporting traditios, great respect for you❤❤❤❤
Im Asian woman and love the idea of being obedient to my man..I speak English and live in a good country and educated too
What if your man always wants his way?
There is a difference between obedient or to love to take care of others. Furthermore being polite and respectful in a fight (well educated) is not obedient. Dont mix those up
You see men looking for traditional wives ... I see women looking to not get a job. This isn't the 50's....men can't work at a ice cream factory and support their family anymore. What good is a husband if he's working 70 hrs a week just so you can stay home and make him dinner?
i can't speak for all stay at home wives/mothers, but when i think of it, this is how i see it; my main job is going to be making a sanctuary and a beautiful home out of the house, and everything in it;
- the house: clean, cosy & welcoming
- the children: happy, welcoming daddy home & ready for bed
- food: warm, from scratch, healthy,
and, of course, put effort into my appearance.
i'm not looking for a traditional man to just quit my job, stay home and make dinner. i know he's going to work very hard, and i'm going to appreciate his efforts for our family as much as i can and be his peace after dealing with the world.
peace to you, sir 🌷
@@shy-xo this isn't the way it works in the real world. When you have 3 kids and a house to maintain the last thing you're worried about is your appearance or the cleanliness of your house. The man comes home to "take these kids in done" and he has to get hot n ready because she's tired. Been there....done that. I've even had to make dinner after being at work all day because she was tired. Laziness is a disease.
@johngunckel5629 i understand fully, easier said than done. i can't ever guarantee 100% that i'll always be on my best behaviour as a future wife... but certain behaviours in the pre-marriage/vetting phase could assist in determining how committed the other person will be in putting effort...
but i agree, wayyy too many people stop putting effort after marriage and get lazy, forgetting marriage isn't the end of their journey, but rather the real start. i'm no angel immune from mistakes, but i can say i'm learning a lot from people's failed relationships.
peace to you, sir 🌷
Dear Estee, My first wife passed after twenty years of marriage (cancer). God has blessed me with another wife, and we just celebrated our 25th Wedding anniversary. I am 65 years old. I thank God that he has blessed me with a Christian wife who provides me with the best domestic support on the planet! I met my first and present wife at Church! Before I met them, they were God-fearing, conservative, and Christian. Passport Bros don't have to travel the world and the seven seas. They need to give their lives to Christ and ask God to direct them to a Godly Proverbs 31 woman.
Well-said
Yes you do. What you have is one in a million. Modern western women are just plain nasty unsociable animals. That's like aearching for a needle in a haystack. Nope. Not worth the wasted time and effort.
Many men want the benefits of a Proverbs 31 woman but not wanting to follow Jesus. There are also men who pretend to be Christians just to deceive a Christian woman into marrying them. There are also women who pretend to be Christians just to deceive a Christian man because they know that he would make great husband. Passport bros are not Christians for the most part & don't desire to marry Christian women. Christian women for the most part don't marry men who aren't Christians. The Church exists to serve God, not as a dating/matchmaking place.
They want money; they are chasing money. Just from their HUSBANDS. This is nothing new. Give me a break.
You dont have to date women, if you sont like them
@@st-dm2lu That person doesn't hate women, that person understands women.
I think it's possible to balance between having a career and being a parent. Online influencers are thinking in terms of extremes. There's a lot of women here who are willing to do either or both. Most women only seek out careers because a lot of men don't want to have to support a family by themselves. They want trad wives, but don't want to be trad husbands in the first place.
Then look for Real Men. They still exist. Kind of like TRADC0N feminine women: hard to find (rare), yet not extinct.
There are two types of men one is modern and one is traditional. If you live in Liberal regions of the US you will likely run into modern men and yes they don't want to be a provider. They will do the 50-50.
@@tdrive398 What makes you believe there’s such a scarcity of good women?
Where have you been looking for them?
@@slappinbass8052 Facts, data and statistics- not to mention the plethora of women exposing their true nature on social media.
85% of divorces are filed by women- often for "no fault" reasons; this jumps to 95% if they have a college education.
Too many women acting masculine and rejecting femininity; high body counts ruin their ability to pair bond.
My workplace is 70% female. Not long ago I was enjoying lunch in the cafeteria when a group of women (ranging in age from late 30s to late 50s) came in. In their conversation they trashed men (including their husbands) and openly plotted how they planned to divorce and use the courts to take half his stuff...
If I sat around with a group of guys at work and we openly trashed women and our wives, not only would we be hauled before HR, but all our female co-workers would (rightfully) lambast us as horrible people. And yet...
I've been blessed to work around the world, and in both large cities and small. There are definitely good women out there- but they are increasingly rare, mainly due to f-enists infecting women's minds .thru social media.
Sadly, even Churches often aren't even a "safe bet". More data on that area, but this is already too long.
@@tdrive398 The divorce rate is high because men cheat. That is the number One reason
This kinda thing just puts women down. Its like saying these women are better than other women & the men are always right. Newsflash, no one of either gender is always right. Theres not just one all defining person that accounts for everyone. So tired of this nonsense.
Exactly. Everyone is different.
Clearly she was referring to the subset of the population that this relates to, not making a general statement about worth.
Andrew Tate is an evil man. If you understand what YT and other social media is, you can see the anti-Americanism and that's where this propaganda is from. They also work with China who hates freedom.
Like women always putting men down? Really. There was a news story about male loneliness and there were women mocking the news, and putting those men down. No sympathy, no compassion, none. So, when men seek greener, hopefully friendlier pastures for themselves, here's another woman only worried about how it "puts women down". It's about time men say forget those insensitive beings who care not a whit for my feelings or needs, and go on a quest to find someone who cares for something besides themselves or other women. What independent Western Women hostile to men forgot is men aren't trapped here, they have freedom, power, and AGENCY, so they can say "NO" to USA women and go elsewhere as is their choice, or go nowhere, as MGTOW monks do. Estee is rare, and if most American women were like she and her ilk, neither "Passport Bros", nor "MGTOW monk" even be a thing, because those gentlemen would be happily married as her husband is.
Why are men not allowed to want to be with a certain type of women? Why is that a "put down"? Do you feel inferior because your own local men are going out of their way to look for someone other than you? Maybe that should tell you something about the way you live your life. I mean you do you, however you can't have it both ways. You can't want to be attractive to men while simultaneously doing things that makes you unattractive to men.
Nothing wrong with women wanting independence or freedom and to do whatever they want. Live and let live. But also nothing wrong with women/men staying home until they marry or find a traditional partner. Is there a passport girl? What about the many women who want this but can’t find a true good man/partner to fulfil that?
Your first sentence you make a statement benefiting Women with things they want. But then don’t make a follow up statement benefiting Men with what they want. All you did was type a completely different statement that benefits both parties. Nothing about a man’s desires for what he wants in life/relationships.
That’s the problem. It’s never about what a man’s desires are. It’s always what Women want to be happy & defending it.
Me and a lot of other disabled men do not have the option to go over seas ' I can not find a wife or a girlfriend . Women give off these subtle little signs of attraction and I can read them but I am scared to death that if I approach one of these women that they will scream or accuse me of something . It is really sad that it has come to this but I am happy that some women such as yourself are trying to bring feminine women back to America and I think that is a great thing . I think God is very proud of the work that you are doing .
Well... you're not going to be a traditional man if you're disabled.
A woman will need to work to provide for you.
@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816How ignorant of you. Plenty of people are disabled and still work.
@@HerMajesty1 disabled usually means.. on disability.
Which means... you can't work.
Keep trying, brother, you'll find her. 💪
@@dontstalkmedeltoro8816 in the past disabled men exist, are they not traditional? you women dont know anything and shouldn't speak on what a man is
I have yet to see or hear about about a passport bro getting married or finding a wife. All I ever hear them say is how easy and nice the girls are to have sex with.
Because they are s3x tourists that no woman wants in a 1st world country
i've seen multiple men marrying women there...
@@ArielGonzalez1 I haven't
Passport bros look for wives not 304s@beautifullyblessedandnatur7457
@@flapjack9999 still I have yet to see it. The only videos I see now are of some foreign women being unhappy and now complaining about the American husband they begged for.
Where are the traditional men? It takes 2 to create this life. Divine Feminine needs her Divine Masculine counterpart.
We are around
I am sure glad I was born into a Mexican household. I definitely agree with living with parents, but I'd say we and other cultures take it a step further and make it permanent. Imagine living with your family, relatives, and your spouse's family. That's the dream.
My mom is from Jalisco. I feel this!
This is exactly how we live.
I'll pass lol! My parents are dead and my husband's mother is a drunk! I like that it is just me, hubby and our kids. Id move out if he brought his family into my home!
@@tiny.terrorist.negotiatorexactly sounds like a nightmare 😂😂😂
@@tiny.terrorist.negotiatorthat would be an instant divorce for me. 😂 my family bad enough and then, the inlaws! NO! Other cultures that live with families must all have mad respect for each other. In the U.S. I think people too damn nosey. My mother inlaw asks too many questions and crosses my boundaries so much, almost as if she's doing it on purpose. Plus she cries too much for me and won't go get that seen about. I have to keep her on do not disturb on my phone. I couldn't imagine every, single day with all of them and their constant problems. Sometimes I feel like we're their parents.
Nothing screams “traditional woman” quite like earning an income from UA-cam using your God-given physique and makeup skills.
Do people actually fall for this?
I dated in USA for the last 5 years after my wife cheated on me and divorced me, it was a nightmare. I went to the Philippines and met a beautiful traditional conservative girl, we are now engaged and I sent her your channel to follow, to give her an example of what I was looking for in marriage and she agrees with everything you say.
She just wants that Green Card so she can come here and turn American and start acting like us women 😂🤣
@@lexalee5795I disagree. Most Filipinas would rather raise kids close to their immediate families rather than going to a foreign land where you have to adjust and also be worried of the bad influences their children can pick up from their environment. It's safer to raise children close to home where traditional values are still respected
@@gee618As a fellow Filipina admirer, I agree. Filipinas that are really traditional don't want to leave the country and family
@@lexalee5795 Green card huh? To where?
To a land that now is resembling Afghanistan? With your beloved "leader" senile mentia Biden leading the US over a precipice! To a land of so called "freedom" when in reality you got none? To a land of high inflation bordering with hyperinflation now. A land that kills the unborn and even the born. A matriarchal land, which for women is great, but not for men. To a country where you need a stinking car to go to a grocery store 5 mins down the road? Heck no, you can have all that junk. We're loving living outside the US and for those marrying the local women, the majority of the ladies want to stay in their home country as gee618 said.
Do you really think men are leaving and coming back to this mess? A few are, and are bringing their foreign spouses, and it's their choice (a bad idea tho) but the GREAT MAJORITY of men are leaving the US FOREVER and not coming back. We're saying enough to y'all, and to your corrupt feminazi goverment.
Y'all ruined the US for good. Short of a civil war it's not coming back to what it was.
@@lexalee5795 Can you explain what so good about the US that every woman you assume wants a green card? let me see. Yes all the wonderful mass shootings? Or how about the the price of a tiny box studio apartment being so expensive that you need to cram 5 people inside to afford it? Or how abut the wonderful healthcare where you get one illness and you are bankrupt the next day? Or how the glamorous van life people show when in reality so many Americans live in a van as no other choice for housing? Lexallee5795 yes let's all sign up for a Green Card because America sound so great! Not! America is not great and not worth the effort of a green card. It used to be but not anymore.
I was expecting something visceral or sensational when I first clicked this video. I'm pleasantly surprised that you actually seem to have a very balanced, well thought out opinion on this. Maybe it's the YT algo, but more often than not I'm getting recommended videos with very polarizing viewpoints. It was super refreshing to hear yours and not come away with a, "Gosh, can you believe her/him?!" feeling. Now I've actually got some food for thought. Thanks for that!
They're coming to Europe? I rhink you got that wrong. Here feminism is stronger than in the US. American women were submissive when here we already had guys spinning around our little finger
I actually think the “passport bro” movement is also about, mostly about, the value of the dollar. What I’ve picked up on is that they are going places were there American money goes further. They’re pretty much saying they can’t afford or fully provide for lot of the women here who do want to be stay at home wife’s with what they make. So they go places where there dollar equals more and the women there need less money because of the cost of living there.
lol that's the dumbest rationale to have towards this movement. I'll tell you the real reason, first I need to say I am married and have been with my wife for 14 years, I know about commitment, and I know what it takes to build a home and a family and to be able to sustain those things. I lucked out with my wife, because she grew up not having a whole lot to look forward to, and when I showed up, I was probably the biggest breath of fresh air she ever had. But like all western women, especially those who grew up raised by single mothers with no respect for men whatsoever, she had a certain tinge to her, one I either had to be patient and work through, or chalk up my losses and move on. Patience is a virtue with me, but for many men who get told everyday they aren't enough, they are DONE. The value of their dollar is exponentially lower in the states if they have the misfortune of landing on the wrong woman, that woman "gets tired of them" now all of the sudden their money, AND their livelihoods, are gone! God forbid if children are involved. That being said, if our story comes to an end at some point, I will not be looking for love in this country. I make really damn good money, and the last thing I want to worry about is being able to afford a woman, much less a woman here. Y'all don't bring anything of value to the table anymore. Just spiteful attitudes and inflated senses of self worth that don't even match who y'all actually are. Pretty soon the only men who will be left, if you even want to call them this, will be doormats and weaklings, and neither of which will meet your needs whatsoever. You can thank modernity and western feminism for all of this.
True, the value for your money is what it’s all about.
This is kinda true, as a man living in the uk I will never be able to afford my own place. Cost of living here has gone too far.
No. I can definitely afford it; statistically I am a part of the top 1.6% of men. I want a wife and family to share my treasure with. Pretty simple.
Women hurt too many men and children. They blew it.
Our youngest son lived at home and "mooched off his parents" so he could save money to have a family of his own. He thought it was dumb to waste money on an apartment before he got married.
that's cuz they're not looking in the right places or hard enough in America. we are here.... it's usually cuz we're busy doing traditional things and not out bar hopping...
Like? It’s all I hear - from both sexes.
First of all, in this neoliberal and oppressive system towards marginalized communities such as the Latinos, women do not have an option honey but to work, a household won’t make it without both working, most of these women work twice because they still have to cook dinner, clean, do laundry, dishes, buy groceries and if they have children! I’m going to stop right here. Have you thought about maybe this lifestyle for many women in this country is not even an option? You are lucky and privileged.
Just remember that in some cases they don’t just value traditional roles they also don’t let women vote, work or get an education. Of course that’s not always the case but it’s something we shouldn’t forget.
For a lot of us it’s not that we don’t want to be told what to do it’s that parents aren’t as nurturing, influencing, motivational, etc. They just don’t have traits that we would want to come back too
I don’t blame USA men for going outside of USA to find love and a committed relationship. USA makes everything social very difficult these days.
I understand what these guys are saying. But, there are still lots of women here in this country that would be a stay at home wife if we had a real good man.
Absolutely!!! I think there’s also something to be said about some of these men like why are they fleeing the country for a wife? Is it because they didn’t meet the standards of these American traditional women? Or do they really want to embrace and experience another culture while finding a wife in that country? Lots of possibilities with this
@@EsteeWilliams most of the cases are:
- men that are literally fed up with women's delusion (some moved from place to place trying to be luckier)
- get fucked up in divorce/
- saw a close male relative's experience/
- retired workers
- men that haven't have a relationship, but they don't want try here because the odds are against them basically (alongisde the laws)
@@EsteeWilliamsAlso fair to ask, are the women’s standards reasonable to demand? Is that not a fair question as well?
@@EsteeWilliams women standards are not realistic, not every guy can own a boat, or be over 6,4....
Seems you know nothing about Europe 😂
She is talking about Romania probably
“There is no need for judgements towards another, it’s not your story”. “Be curious and understanding instead”. Everyone has opportunity to be happy, their happiness has no comparison to someone else’s. “Show kindness and be happy for one another”. Lordy this country needs more kindness towards one another!
Yes. Everyone’s story is different
She actually has a thought ? Wow , blond's can think ? Shocking .😮
I heard pros and cons of Passport Bros. In the end, it's their choice. People are going to learn about themselves, others, and how to get through life together. I'm 30, still living with my parents, and 3 siblings. I do want to get married, move out, if God allows it.
It’s funny that the only women that seem to have any issue with passport bros or the like are non traditional women. The supposed “woke progressive” women not only bashed the men, but some of them even decided to express their xenophobia towards women from other nations as well.
You explained the phenomenon with balance and reason. Thank you for that.
Im not woke and I think this whole thing is ridiculous. Its like saying all the women in the US are trash. Which is not true because how in the world can a person possibly think that they can define & know every person because of the loud, moronic majority? Thats just ridiculous. And before you say Im some pink haired roastie, Im not. And I dont support any politicians because they are all brainwashed idiots who just want to simp for the NWO so no Im not a "woke progressive" either
Oh wow. 🤦🏼♀️ As millennials We lived with our parents to save for a fricken house ourselves not just waiting around like Cinderella or Snow White to do exactly what we can do and financially support ourselves. It’s called security for our life and future. What if ur husband decided to leave you or died suddenly? Are you financially secure enough to keep up the same lifestyle … shopping for food while the dude is at work let’s add you had a kid ... probly just marry another man I assume. Seen it so many times especially having family from WV. Being a strong independent woman isn’t bad. Being a woman who needs her man to take care of her is awful. Horrible message to younger woman. If a man wants a servant hire a maid ; essentially what you are.
I can’t believe she’s trying to encourage this lifestyle to younger women when my traditional grandma who lived that way all her life strongly discouraged me from being financially dependent on anyone! Her beliefs are absolutely crazy to me I question if she’s actually a troll
Facts. My housewife mother told me to never be financially dependent on anyone. My father told me the same. I learned how to drive, I got an education and I have a job where I am earning some good money. With the cost of living rising, you need to be self-sufficient. Part of being an adult is being independent. If these passport bros don't like it, that's fine. We dodged a bullet.
@@ellegauci4073 it’s funny because her mom isn’t even a traditional housewife 😂 I think she doesn’t have a real life experience with it, so she romanticizes it.
Agreed. Also, she’s teaching the recipe for domestic abuse. A woman who has no career skillset or survival skills who is 100% dependent on a man. That will attract abusive men. She is for sure playing dress up. Just like her previous characters she played online.
you can get married and not be financial dependent. is everything extreme with you people
I agree it makes sense IF the parents and wider family are giving that guidance, protection, and provision. Sadly not everyone gets that. Sadly we have many parents who have had decades of being told freedom is the pinnacle of life and are eager to move on from parenting responsibilities, some kicking their kids out or otherwise not providing any of that well before their kids are adults - and they're supported by our institutions.
It's nearly impossible to enforce parental responsibility for teen children. When I lived in the US, I've literally heard police tell 15 year old girls and younger that they're "old enough" to not have any parental oversight and no welfare checks by them or the schools in cases where parent(s) left them and younger siblings for weeks at a time, cases with parents not even in the same state and had known drug convictions. We had teen girls discussing not having food in the house until their parents came back from wherever and had adult officials accusing them of lying and hiding eating disorders rather than do basic welfare checks and do anything responsible. The parents freedom mattered more than responsibility to the teenagers.
Many young adults have to choose the unsafe home of their parent(s) or making an uncertain leap to 'independence', some landing better than others. In my experience, while the 'don't want to be told what to do' is the rallying cry of the spoiled, it's far more often a defence from those who didn't get that protection and guidance, and have lost faith in finding it where they are. For all the shame discussed on those who still live at home, there is equal if not more shame on teens who don't have reliable parents - the shaming message of 'if your parents won't protect you, you aren't worth protecting except by yourself' is very loud to many teenagers and young adults.
As an American woman who left and found get guidance, protection, and provision overseas - I, like the passport bros, could likely have eventually found someone in the US, but having been one of those abandoned teen girls and spent years getting the message that I'm not worth protecting because I don't have parental backing, that freedom is everything and my purpose is pleasure as rings in so much US media and messaging, I was blessed to be able to leave and find someone who valued responsibility and a community that takes those responsibilities as a priority. We still have those abandoned kids, there will always be irresponsible parents, but safeguarding them is a bigger priority and I can feel accomplished providing that guidance for my teen children than I could back in the US.
I am in Colombia. Don’t include that “submissive” shit with Colombianas. Make no mistake, they are strong and hard working. Wanting an education. The good ones are just looking for a good partner with good values and doesn’t cheat, who will treat them right. And Colombian people are among the happiest I’ve met anywhere despite the economic struggle most deal with.
It's not as much about finding someone who submissive. At this point it's finding someone who's respectful and won't take us for granted.
Sixteen countries under my belt. Once you go passport bro, you never come back.
What could possibly be better than being a traditional wife? Just think of all of the careers that you juggle, Chefs, Dr, Attorney, Coach, Chauffeur, counselor, Maid, and hundreds of others. It is the most rewarding career anyone could hope fore.
My father and mom are Indians. I was born and raised in America.. we went back to India when I was 16 years old. then we settled in Goa. I got Indian citizenship. i was brought up as a traditional Indian so I kept my virginity.. After my studies, I joined the Indian defense sector. everything is different here.. my salary here is 6000 dollars. here I am spending only 100 dollars per month. there is no point in coming here just because you are a passport bro. the girls here will make some demands.. The groom who is going to marry them must have an education and a good job. they also prefer traditional and virgin men.. it was great that I didn't lose my virginity when I was in America.. if you have all these mentioned qualities, then you will get a good life partner.. Women here respect men.. Men here also respect women in return. "a nation's dignity is the dignity it gives to women".. this is what this country has taught me since I came here.
Why don’t you comment on the fact that American women are being pushed into chasing a career because American men don’t want to be providers. Funny how those American men want a traditional woman, but they aren’t traditional themselves.
They don't want to be traditional for westernised women ,its pretty simple really
@@jayc342009 and they don’t want to be traditional for westernized men either, yk.
@@heidis.6903 which is why men go to other countries to find traditional women.
I love your channel, keep up the good work hun ✌️
It's nice to see men appreciating how good having a trad woman is, and that they are highly sought after.
I'm accepting applications; feel free to apply, assuming you have quality credentials.
I was born in 1971. The Korean War Vietnam War Free Love Feminism it was a strange mash up. My mother was at the time a homemaker. I watched her go from happy with us bugging her but other moms over crafting, helping, being together. Then it became less women together, there’s was crabbing, judging,
“Well sure she’s sitting around serving her family, that’s why he got a Korean, Indonesian, ect woman” Things like “That’s just wrong, poor woman” Now I’d go to these women’s houses as I was friends with their daughters and Wow! I did not see a sad, weak victim of a woman they were large, in charge and bossy! I’d say more a Sophia Loren character! Years went on my Mom was isolated her friends had gone to work part time and she was shunned. She began a part time at Big Brothers Big Sisters. The irony of this hit me as an adult. I would go home to an empty house sit with the chickens for company make myself weird snacks like “hose water pudding” pudding mix put in a jar with hose water 😂 the eighties came and the culture got worse, sex, cocaine open marriage!
My mother was brutalized by two men she met “out” after that she was institutionalized. I didn’t find her until I was 19. Her life did end happy I’m glad to say but what if she hadn’t let society what if she’d stayed true to herself? Just stayed her? She was more than enough she was amazing she was better than any doctor or social worker I later had in my life.
For years guys have been passed up for foreign guys. We said hey this is actually a blessing. Western women are not worthy of LTR anyways. My passport is good for 10 years so I have time to find someone I actually want to be with
It is looked down on even in the evangelical church. Our daughter lived with us until she married and everyone treated us like that was weird and strange. I’m so thankful she did!
I've been happily married to a Corporate Tax Accountant here in Colombia for 4 years. Get your PASSPORTS, BROS. You'll Thanks me.
If there are more women like her in the US, I would have never left.
Yeah right 😂
What is sad to me is most traditional women in the west, that many men are looking for, are in church or are average looking therefore are overlooked by these men. Or some of these men arent traditional themselves but expect that in their woman. I'm lucky to have found an amazing man and we keep gender roles in our relationship. I wish the same happiness for everybody
does not happen, those women reject men for chads
I knew women in Germany, when i lived there, that were in their 30s and still lived with their parents. They were either going to do that forever and take care of their aging parents or move out if they got married. Personally, i went to college and lived in apartments until i was done. When i went for my masters i moved back home. From there i met my now husband and then moved in with him.
Here in Italy it's absolutely normal.
It's stupid to waste your money on an apartment where you would live alone.
@@der_tod_und_das_madchen4727 I think in America we are pushed to be independent and it destroys our family foundations. Those years on my own were both rewarding but extremely hard. It was during the stock market crash and jobs were so hard to find. When I moved back home to finish up my degree I was a lot less stressed out.
Part of it is just supply and demand. In America I was just another young, broke, Christian, college educated guy. Nothing exceptional, so I was understandably passed over.
I moved to Korea and suddenly I'm this interisting blonde foriegner who draws a lot of attention. I was married to a good Christian woman 18 months later.
In many foriegn countries you'll draw more attention as an American, but it's still up to the guy to be someone worth marrying.
I'm Middle Eastern in my 30s, living with my parents, because that's what we do until we get married.. then move out
Why do I feel like this womans definition of "western part of the world, such as, the united states" is only included everything to the left side of the atlantic ocean? She says passport bros are going to "europe" but the continent of europe is in the "western side of the world" too.
It is interesting how westerners push their own cultural values on others sometimes, but are not satisfied with it themselves. For example, I was maybe 12 when I said that I wanted to be a SAHM when I grow up and wanted to find a husband with a stable profession. The woman I said this to was soooooo super offended!😖 I don’t remember her words, but I remember her message overall was basically why do I need a man at all.
Despite this, as a single adult I still looked for a traditional Christian man. I even made a plan to build a life abroad to find a husband (passport… chick?😂). When I was pursuing my Masters degree, part of the plan was to build my career out of the US to find a traditional God fearing man. Before I graduated, I met a cowboy (and these dudes are as traditional as they come, man!). We’re married now for 15 years, have two kids who I homeschool and YES, I am a SAHM!😁
There are very traditional men and women in the western world, but I truly don’t blame passport bros as I obviously traveled on the same track when I was single.
I would really like to know how can a lady be more submissive in dates and in marriage.
We are looked at as losers for living at home past a certain age. Like you have to explain yourself. Normally it’s dependent upon where you live, what kind of work you do, and overall cost of living. Now more people are living at home longer because it’s so expensive. I was working full time and even overtime, paid off all my student loans, and I STILL couldn’t get an apartment by myself for under $1700 a month! Even a crappy one!
It’s also our tradition to live in our family , with mom and dad till we marry. I lived with my family till I was 37 and it doesn’t mean that I had no responsibility. As a grown person, we take care of our parents, support them and do work at home. It’s our HOME. It’s not some place for us and when I moved out with my husband I missed my home, my parents and my brother who is still living there. I missed waking up and talking to my parents, discussing things that happen in the world with my father. It’s one of the best things that I had. Westerners seem to think that the home of their parents or not their own home, which is sad. And believe me, there is not so much time we have with our parents. I am happy that I lived with them for so long. Of course, we also had arguments but isn’t it normal? I have arguments with my husband, as well. Do you leave your husband or partner because of that?
With more women like you, men won't need to go anywhere to find a gorgeous and wonderful wife and mother for their children.
Filipino here, I can't tell you how many middle aged Americans I've met who are looking for Filipinas.
In fact, I have a neighbor from New Jersey who married a Filipina and settled here. He said he's sick of western women.
this
Creepy af
The issue is you have to do your due diligence anywhere you’re looking for a life partner. Due your diligence, learn the culture and the respectful way to court someone as well as their expectations for you in the marriage(make sure you’re on the same page about responsibility, duties of love/care, marriage priority over other relationships, timeline, kids, financial issues, how to handle inlaws etc). You may go overseas to find a traditional women, only for her to want a life of freedom and opportunities her community couldn’t/didn’t grant her(education, job, child-free life, etc). Learn the person, not the just their west-washed idea of their culture.