yep I'm 21 and cant wait to live elsewhere. not just for women though I really enjoyed social studies and History class, just daydreaming about the places I'd learn about 😂
It’s no longer 60 year old military retirees….it’s now, 35-45 year olds that have had horrible experiences with western women that have good careers and can afford a passport and to spend a year in the Philippines and just want a good loyal wife.
My first trip to the Philippines was in 2009 at 26. I had the time of my life.. I went back a couple more times after and on my last trip lived for 11 months with a great girl in Cebu who I first met online. We filed her Fiancee Visa and once it was approved we moved to the US and got married. We've been married now for 9 years and it was the best decision of my life. I'm always seeing my old friends my age getting divorced, infidelity, drama and having major custody problems, child support, etc... Glad it's not me.
@AI-1279 Unfornately, even the men in their 20s are having worse issues nowadays. Western wmn are done for. Hell, David's Bridal Shop(the biggest wedding retailer in the country) just weny bankrupt.
I am a Filipino. I used to be in a relationship with a German woman. I tried because I wanted to see if I can be compatible with a Foreigner. Well, it didn't work out. I have met and worked with American and Australian women but never dated one. Oh yes. I married a Filipina. Let me tell you how many Filipinos working outside of the Philippines are not married to a Filipina. Very few. Well, it maybe a fair point to say that Foreign women are not attracted to Filipino men because they have small D or small in height, and so that should not come as a suprise. But here's the fact. I am 43 years old and I don't know of any acquintance, relative, or a friend who are not married to a Filipina. I do not remember hearing from a fellow Filipino who said they plan of marrying other than a Filipina. Majority of Filipinas are still conservative. Not everybody but Super Majority of Filipinas are faithful, caring, loving, understanding, and would prefer not to argue. Sometimes you'll have to beg them just to say their piece. LOL! So, for Filipino men like me, I don't see a need to look elsewhere if you can find a perfect match within the Country. See. I don't hear Filipino men hating Filipino women who chose to marry Foreigner. You know why? It's call respect. :)
Size doesn't matter to a woman as long as it is "hard". What's the use of having a long D if it's like vegetable....it serves no purpose. Go asked the women.
Hi Joms. FYI - My grandfather came from Sabtang Island, Batanes. This is the situation here in the US. Average men are done with women and more and more men are leaving, opting out, going MGTOW or going overseas for better traditional women---Filipinas! More and more women are at the top of picking order in the gynocentric society and are finding themselves obsolete and alone to what few top males they can find let alone males who want them. In short, there are no top 5% males for top females to date up or marry up in the hostile gynocentric society rigged against men. Modern women have supplanted the very males in the work force they were hoping to date and marry up. Thank feminism for the situation of top male scarcity and the lack of top males desiring commitment because modern women have given these top males a line of female options for every day of the week and no reason to commit. Congratulations ladies you have alienated yourselves from the major majority of males because you do not want them, you have alienated yourselves from the males who do want you but you find unacceptable, you have alienated yourselves from the males who are desirable because of your boss babe mindset, defeminized demeanor, narcissism, selfishness, outrageous standard and expectations and just horrid personalities, disrespect and propensity to divorce men on a whim , and you have alienated yourselves from men by insisting on chasing after the top 5% of men who have no reason to commit to you or even want to commit to you. Feminism has taken away the very men you ladies want and has made you obsolete to men and men see no value to being with women who do not respect, want or need men. Good luck ladies in the man drought you have created for yourselves especially at the top of social economic ladder via your gynocentric society rigged against men and the changes you have made in yourselves under feminism which have made you obsolete to the majority of men. Men are choosing to live single lives because modern women bring no benefits for men's peace at any social economic level. I have my MA, career, own house, cars, bass guitars, bass amps, good band mates, great friends, loyal dog, 2 cats and lots of PEACE. You ladies wanted the authority and power of men and the lifestyle and you got it. You also have that that 60 to 80 hour work week, no time for relationships, the defeminized boss babe mindset and the obsolescence to the men you want and the men you don't want. But, hey you are a strong and independent woman who does not need a man and men have heard you. We got you! We are leaving you alone to chase and share Chads into middle age invisibility. You ladies have done this to yourselves via the changes driven by feminism in society and the changes you have made in yourselves via the feminist narrative. You women have changed, and men are adapting to those changes. It is not men's fault that the changes you wanted in society and for yourselves individually are not yielding the results you wanted. 45% of American working women ages 25 to 45 via a research projections will be single, childless and PARTNERLESS by 2030. Feminism is wonderful for waking men up and keeping women single. Dave's bridal is closing their stores as men see no point to being married to women who really do not want them and many women who feminism has indoctrinated to hate men. It is only going to get worse ladies as more and more men discover that they do not need women to live happy single lives.
Was in that military for 24 yrs. Visited the Philippines many times for work. Filipinas are very kind and outgoing women but also street smart and savvy. So all this talk of men going there to “take advantage” of them is bs. They’ll sniff you out quick if you are.
Very true. I was at Clark Air base and I thought myself as a slicker, Boy, was I wrong (with cap B) one lady told me to keep my $$ and shove it into my behind. That sobered me up quick. She said if you want relationship do it the correct way. "This is not US of A"
When I was deployed a few years ago we stopped with the Philippines to train with them. The kindness and how gentle and intelligent the women are changed my whole perspective about dating. More men should look towards finding a traditional girl who loves you overseas, just don't bring her back.
Not all wants to go to the US, they knew the hard life Americans are facing, look around, homelessness and people with no jobs, rentals and housing are over the roof. Your retirement funds and 491 k stipend will go a long, long way beyond the shores of America.
The joy I feel in my heart as a black women knowing that men are willing to travel to find what they’re looking for, is overwhelming. Finally focusing on what they want instead of what they don’t. That’s a boss move 🎉❤
Most filipinas speak english, have modern values, and cater to their men. Mine is literally perfect for me, bachelor's educated and love me for me #PassportKing #Passportbro
That's not TRUE!!! Not all of them speak the English Language. Many, is preferable to label them. Yes, the English Language has been adopted and designated as the second language in the Philippines.
@@catzcatcher9772 fyi since 1898 when America colonized Philippines we started to have English as our 2nd language. Tagalog is our national language. English is in school Curriculum. We use English in every subjects except Tagalog. We have American regime until 1945. We use English in our legal papers./documents. In the airport we have English sign.
@@catzcatcher9772 my nephews and nieces can speak English before they went to nursery through singing Karaokie. Philippines is the Call Center capital in the world. We have 175 dialects including Spanish every provinces has each on dialects. Mostly of the Filipinos can speak more than 3 languages.
@@catzcatcher9772 Don’t expect perfect English grammar from everyone from the Philippines.. Most public schools (that severely lack funding) are lacking in rigour maintaining a high standard.. The fact that we speak it as a SECOND language is something we take pride in.. And I would argue that most Americans/Canadians, especially the younger set lack the grammar skills too.. Please learn Tagalog or Bisaya and post here if you can communicate in it with perfect grammar..
I'm a Filipina and your video made a lot of sense. It's refreshing to hear that some people understand what's going on.. it is crazy and tiring to hear other western women talk shit about why they think western men go here and say disgusting things about Filipino women but they don't even understand what's really going on and why these men AND women prefer this type relationship/situation.
Yeah, those that have been priced out (filipino men) and those that have priced themselves out (western women) has very personal reasons for the hate, but those are personal reasons. Thats a me issue I find it sad this is where we are. But its the reality And why should i be mad about someone elses happiness Im just sad and jealous about my own situation. Much happiness to the people that find each other 🙏
Thankyou for sharing and engaging There is one UA-cam channel by a Filipina regarding exactly this topic . And she has the same opinions Sometimes its a rough cuz it really does boil sown too. We want this… they want this…let us be. Did be a jelly sour puss. Maybe if you cherrished your men more they wouldnt be running away. 🤷♀️
Filipinas getting westernised (and discover their worth more) when they get abroad is a risk - yes, But maybe the possibility of them cheating is low. There might be some who might but majority wouldnt do it and Will stick to their husbands. Because its pretty Hard to turn away from principles, norms, and the kind upbringing we grew into.. we value marriage so much and see it as Something sacred and "for life" till death.. This is the value i am proud about "Filipina" woman. They are faithful and loving.
Well if one fails I'll go back and find another one until one stays. I think the success rate is much higher for her not to stray since ive seen a lot of guys here and are still married with the ones they brought. There's 50 year old dudes dating girls in other countries it's amazing.
You should be proud! In this crazy mixed up world it's a very good thing to be proud of that. IDK if you have a man yet but with that attitude you'll probably find an incredible top-shelf high value hero.
In addition to that, I believe that the majority of women in Ph see marriage as a lifetime commitment. Meaning, she wants and she is looking forward to spending the rest of her life with his husband (vice versa). Taking care of their kids together and growing old together. And because Filipinos (men or women) always have a strong hold of family ties, we don't give up on our marriages easily and always put our family on top priority. Our family is our motivation. Also, in majority, it doesn't matter if their kids are minors or over 18 yrs old, you will be looked for and taken care of unconditionally/endlessly even if their kids already have careers of their own. These will continue down to their grandchildren. 💖💓💞❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❣️
Growing up here in the states I thought my fellow people felt that same way as far as valuing family, connections and friends. But it seems like the longer time goes on we get away from that but all I want is to be around likeminded people who are full of love. The Philippines deserve the world for the amount of character they display as a nation, and as for Thailand lol I can't wait to try and learn Muay Thai
Western men are not settling by going to other countries, they're upgrading. Those women are more beautiful and better than Western women in every way.
I'm 35 and my Filipina wife is 31. She is a province girl from Bohol that I met online 6 years ago and after my 2nd visit she already had a ring on her finger. Nowadays we live together in my country and have 2 beautiful daugthers. She's the best wife and mother I could have ever imagined. Western women are a lost cause for me. If you don't look like Brad Pitt or earn money like Brad Pitt or if she finally realizes that she is 30+ years old or a single mother that just isn't interesting for most men anymore then you will probably end up in the friend zone where she will keep you until she runs out of 'better options'. And with that I mean chads who change their girlfriends like their underwear and just want to have fun. And then they complain that all men are terrible just because they have a terrible taste in men.
This right here are facts. I've seen so many women run with the pookies...get used up by the pookies...who are often married to other women, and then they come back to you when they're 40, have no options, used up and can't bear children
Single women live longer than married women. Single women don't get beat up by their husbands. Single don't have to work jobs and then come home to to cook and clean while their husbands lay up doing nothing. Single women live in peace. There's nothing better than peace. I honor the passport bro. if those women don't mind it's a win win!!!
here in the US they ship their old worn out parents in a box somewhere in a sahara ...while in PH they keep them at home with their grand kids to complete the circle until their last breathe
I'm 28 years old white male moved to south east Asia 6 months ago. Mainly becouse I ended a relationship with my western woman due feeling lack of respect and appreciation. I dated a Philippine woman for some time and what you sayings it's true about the family connection, language, Christianity and care taking. Unfortunately this relationship did not work out. I'm now with a Thai woman where language barier is a bit of a friction, but we both are very happy. the culture about relationships is very similar to Philippines I'm planing to stay here long term and nurture this relationship. I see much more potential for creating long lasting relationship here in this culture than the west
It's been happening post WWII. Expats retiring in the Philippines and marrying their Pinays. It just became big deal when BM joined the flight. Anyhow kudos to this Chanel for a nice podcast
Well said JP 👍. These feminists think "passport bro" movement is just a new phenomenon. I just laugh at gibberish a lot of people spew on social media.
filipinas date with marriage in mind because we are very family oriented, so much that we personally care for our parents or grandparents until their last breath.☺️ all this time, i thought the AMW are too high up for us to even be compared to... it warms my heart thinking that we may have become the standard in finding a good wife..🥰 keep your heads up fellow filipinas, maintain decency and never forget your traditions..
Filipina women are kind and generous BECAUSE of good Filipino MEN! talk down about their fathers brothers or uncles and you will not have a chance … trust that . And if you do , then you’re with a unreal Filipina woman
This is not only because some Filipinas want to escape poverty. I've chatted with 4 Filipinas over 35 yo who were professionals. A dentist, anthropologist, farm owner running a crew of workers and a real estate broker/investor renting upscale Western style apartments. Western men are highly prized for treating their wives very well. Almost all I've met have seen one or more family members marry a Western guy and see the big difference and they want that. Plus a Western husband is instant status increase for them.
Caucasian Man + Filipina = Beauty Pageant Contender, Model, Movie Actor or Actress etc…. Black Bros + Filipina = Professional Athletes, Professional Entertainers in Acting, Music, Dancing, Modeling etc…
I am working as a paramedic on a ship with a crew from the Philippines. I came out march 15th, what was supposed to be a 2 week on/off rotation turned into... well... I am still here and will leave around july 15th. The men are either very quiet ( the ones that don't speak great english ) the younger men all speak great english and are super friendly and funny. The woman are all sweethearts. Not all super models but they take care of themselves and treat me like they are angling for a husband. This is not my first time working with a crew from the Philippines, every time has been really amazing. The nicest people you can ever meet. I am retiring in November at 52. I will stop in Thailand first, ive already been 12 times and then get a round trip flight to Dumagete. From what I have seen, heard and experienced... Thailand is great if you want to have fun. The Philippines is the place if you want to find a wife!
I know a number of Western men from Australia, US, and Europe that settled in P.I., Thailand, Mexico, and Colombia...they are usually guys with extraordinary income/and or an entrepreneurial spirit. Some have jobs where they work in West for part of the year, and go "home" to their adopted country for the balance.
Men who don't feel that hey are valued are not going to stay around. Dude hit it on the head. I had this issue when I first started dating and many of my early girlfriends and dates would put very if any effort into dating or the relationship.
You're only taking this from the perspective of "unwanted men" but... what about THE MOST desirable men. Extremely handsome men making over 6 figures, with a 6 pack, that can put it down in the bedroom. How could this benefit them? Well let's start from the other end... What value does a Western woman bring that an Eastern woman doesn't? Only broke men need a woman's money, so that's out the window, don't need money. Now let's look at this... On average, marriages in America are shorter than in any other major country. The average American marriage lasts only 8 years. Compare that with New Zealand, a fairly modern Western country yet there marriages still last an average of 14 years. Why is this relevant? Divorce sucks for broke couples and men, but women typically benefit far more from a divorce from virtually any relationship where any kind of community property was built. Men stand to lose a lot in marriage. And here's the thing... a lot of these women will say "Oh well you ain't got shit anyway"... What they're not saying is "But if you ever WERE to build a nest egg, that now is up for grabs BY ME." Ryan Long recently "joked" on Joe Rogan's podcast that literally millions of women are currently scamming men. You think Chris Rock wanted half of everything he built up to get stolen from him. No, and you know how I know? BECAUSE HE HAD A FUCKIN' PRE-NUP! And the shit STILL expired after 18 years. 2 years later she was OUT! Fuck that man, no man wants to work his whole life only to PAY the woman he's supposed to love TO LEAVE! And now that so many women know this, they're using marriage as A COME UP! Literally SHUCKING MEN LIKE CORN! Just hollowing men out, draining them of their money, their energy, their SOUL! Like vampires! The Philippines doesn't have divorce. Let's take loyalty and fidelity, another thing men care about in marriage. In the US in infidelity rate is a WHOPPING 71 FUCKING PERCENT! HOLY SHIT! THE LITERAL HIGHEST IN THE WORLD! IT'S A LITERAL CHEATER NATION! And women cheat at EQUAL RATES IF NOT RECENTLY MORE THAN MEN! Which means if the population is roughly half men and half women, and you're only dating women, there's a roughly 71% or more chance that if you date the average women she'll probably cheat. Why more? Because that number is GOING UPPPPPPP! What's more is that paternity fraud is extremely high in the US! And as a man, there's almost nothing you can do about this. You can literally come home to a woman you're paying for and doing everything for, she's suckin' and fuckin' another man, she SERVES YOU THE PAPERS RIGHT THERE AND THEN, if you do anything violent or out of control that's no defense, she can then get pregnant by that man, try to put YOU on child support for that kid that's not yours, she can get awarded the house and the car because of XYZ reason, she can then MOVE INTO THAT HOUSE with that man, collect alimony from you and now YOU LITERALLY GOT TRICKED INTO BEING A SLAVE PAYING FOR A WHOLE OTHER FAMILY and it's ALL LEGAL and ALL DONE by the LONG ARM OF THE LAW! That's insane. That's female supremacy, that's a form of slavery. The Philippines has some pretty dire consequences for infidelity. Like it or not from a Western perspective, it's the way their laws are structured. So American women have been conditioned to be basically the worst deal on the planet as compared to what you can find in other countries because of the way the laws and more importantly culture is structured. American culture is the most hyper-sexualized, promiscuity promoting culture on the planet. Why does promiscuity matter? Promiscuity is the single greatest predictor of infidelity, divorce, and lack of long-term relationship satisfaction. Where are the women in the Western world without a promiscuous past? Sure, many will say they're not or weren't but... many / most aren't really honest, we have the data to show that now. And how could that NOT be the case since the sexual revolution? I mean the porn industry alone probably accounts for at least 20-30 million women or more in the last 30 years that have engaged in some kind of pornography. And that's just getting paid on camera to do it, how about getting paid not on camera? How about not getting paid but just going to parties a lot and sleeping around a lot when you were younger? Women AS A RULE hide that shit, "Trade Secret". But the fact still remains. And it's not just about the reputational hit it causes, it's about the effects on the brain in my opinion. It's about character and who you are as a person, how you think. I don't think the most self-respecting women need to do that, I think most of them engage in long term monogamous relationships earnestly and with good faith and a good heart, and if it doesn't work out well luckily TODAY with contraception the fallout of having children isn't there, but there's still emotional and mental fallout and baggage, and I think that COST is there for a reason. It's meant to keep women loyal, it's an adaptation. But you know how I think this whole thing has been enabled? Because that's been the plan all along, at the current conditions of the Western dating market since the rise of social media, dating apps, club and hookup culture etc. the whole thing "Party in your 20s, flip a switch and you'll be PERFECT marriage material in your 30s" is very contrived given one key assumption... "Where the men gonna go? Where the backup dudes gonna go? Where my future husband gonna go while I'm having 'fun' tryna catch a Chad in my party years? What, I'm supposed to just be a nun and just sit around sexless and bored in my 20s while I build my pointless career? Those guys ain't going nowhere, where they gonna go?" Well... That's a big assumption. For one, some of these men do get married, successful or not, that marriage might not be to you. That's one of the first things these women complain about. And it might be to that "plain looking girl" you're tearing down when you're supposedly this "fine French croissant". But now that men's standards have dropped so low they're on the floor, it's caused the women to just absolutely go wild and take, take, take, drain all the men of every ounce of MEAT (Money, Attention, Energy, and Time) for nothing in return outside the dangling fishing lure of sex... But in the process of getting scammed like that, these Men are learning that's clearly NOT a relationship. And I think FINALLY a massive swath of men are waking up to this and rejecting the whole thing. MGTOW and Passport Bros are of similar minds but GeoMaxxing / Expatriating offers a way out of this cultural death trap and allows men to vote with their feet instead of just exiting the dating market altogether. Not to mention there's a huge component that might be purely biological relating to the introduce of new genes into the gene pool which is almost always beneficial, and therefore in virtually every society women place a slight premium on foreign men, which actually makes sense biologically / evolutionary. Philippines is a very conservative country. Social norms there are very wholesome and educate young men and women about the dangers and fallout of promiscuity. And the 180 different languages and dialects along with the various broken up chain of islands prevents a great deal of cultural diffusion. 83% of the country is devoutly Roman Catholic! Besides the religious aspect this presents, it also means that contraception is not as widely used. Given what we know about how getting off of hormonal birth control can completely shift a woman's mate preference, isn't it in a man's interest to be certain that she's spent an extended period of time with him off the pill in order to know that it's really HIM she's after and isn't gonna suddenly drop the pill and find him repulsive? Because that does happen, and it has to do not just with a man's looks, money, status whatever, but MORE to do with the man's major histocompatibility complex. A man can't change that, that's genetic... So we need to get away from thinking that female attraction is only predicated on these really shallow "metrics" or even personality traits when some of it is just plainly genetic compatibility. Not saying you should drop all contraception along with the pill, just maybe not hormonal in nature, perhaps the copper IUD, condoms, and cycle tracking would be more beneficial to both parties. Now when it comes to moving abroad, let's also not forget to mention your dollar stretches further IN ALL INCOME BRACKETS. So let's say you're a millionaire, let's say you make a million dollars a year in annual income. The same EXACT home you could buy in Malibu you can buy in Cebu for a tenth of the price. Or BETTER YET your could buy a TEN TIMES nicer or larger place and live like an ABSOLUTE KING! So whyyyyyyyyy would anyone in ANY income bracket bother to stay in a country that's becoming MORE corrupt both politically AND morally, where the CULTURE is degenerating faster than you can imagine, where relationships are quickly being replaced with hookups and retail therapy, and where there's really NO FUTURE? America has lost it's way, it's being flushed down the toilet as we speak. You can't save a culture that doesn't want to be saved. Time to get out.
Exactly bro. I've always been one of the top 10% guys in terms of looks and female attention ever since high school. I've completely ignored western women ever since graduating 7 years ago. I had my fun but now I just see them as a waste of time as they are not marriage material. I put all that effort into building myself up instead so I can provide a good life for my future family once I move overseas.
Hi am a white American retired early at 55 starting my fourth month of retirement in Cebu, Philippines. I get more attention from young women here than I ever did back in America. I found a beautiful 22 year old woman here in three days on a dating app. I am her second boyfriend ever, and she is definitely the best woman I have ever been with. I really have no interest in dating any woman of my own age because I came here to start a family. I have always been more attracted to Asian girls than white, and I think a woman is at her best in her twenties. Don't forget the lower cost of living here, but you must have a steady income and savings to make it here. It is very difficult for a foreigner to get a work permit here unless he has a remote computer job or something similar. Filipinas do want to have white babies because lighter skin has more advantages here. Call it racist or whatever you like, but that is the reality here. Don't bring a Filipina back to America and destroy her with feminism, relocate to the Philippines and live there permanently. Emily and Todd really don't know what they are talking about and have obviously never spent time in the Philippines. Get your passports gentlemen, and see the reality for yourselves.
@@144k_Kingdom_Living unless i'm a billionaire, i can't take care of her family+ 50 cousins who's unemployed and all her sick elderly extended families.
@@kaleeysmith8801 That appraoch to helping people will keep you working in the Matrix your entire life. I use to think just like you stated. I am glad I changed the way I thought which has afford me to travel the world non-stop for the past 2 and half years. I am very fortunate when other ask me for help. I help them with a smile and am thankful I can do you. You can only give a person what you possess in your heart. You can only experience who you truly are. Never be stingy with things you have amd after a while your life will change for the better.
1. Women in the Philippines wash clothes by hand all their lives. 2. Women in the Philippines in provinces do not have running water, they have to fetch water from the artesian well (hand pump now imagine you have to wash clothes by hand and fetch water as well) The western women think being in the kitchen is slavery lol. 3. Women in the Philippines enjoy being in the kitchen. (In the Philippines during parties the ones who are insiders hang out in the kitchen getting spoiled by the women with food drink laughing joking while the ones in the other parts of the party is kind of formal setting) 4. There is no divorce in the Philippines so no monkey branching (there are isolated cases but with a solid family, it is frowned upon in the Philippines and if a family member is doing that they will be shaming the family name) 5 Women in the Philippines are survivors, they survived living in hardship since they were little, marrying a foreigner that can afford to support them will be a big upgrade so they will be grateful. 6. Women in the Philippines are not oppressed people, they run the household, in the household they are boss, the husband just provides comes home and gets prepared what the boss prepared and is not bothered by anyone.(kids, aunts, in laws, etc) 7. Women in the Philippines are boss when there is an event, the husband is supporting actor, does the slaughtering of the pig, chicken, cow, fish etc while the women (wife and whoever family that comes to help) does the chopping of veggies, spices, aromatics etc. but they are the boss if wife says we need this husband drops what he is doing and goes get it (like drinks and other kitchen needs etc etc) the extended family guys takes over what the husband was doing. So yes it is a collaboration of Husband and Wife + extended family support (never fails) Western women does not have better rights compared to women in the Philippines they are similar if not better. Oh and child support in the Philippines is equitable, unlike the U.S. no man is getting screwed from either party, and the state does not make money from it unlike in the U.S. the state makes money so the more they screw men the more money the state makes. Did I mention there is no divorce in the Philippines? Men in the U.S. gets to lose everything after the divorce so yes the newer generation will not feel the heat until they get hosed (for those newer generation who are not listening to the older generation men) Here's an advice to western women, instead of fighting the passport bros, connect with them and agree to move to the Philippines or wherever the family laws are not slanted to the advantage to either parties and make good on your vows.
Believe me it's not just about the warm Filipino culture and dating Filipinas, it's the mind blowing cheap cost of living and the thousands of stunning Paradise Islands. That's what blew my mind the stunning beaches , fresh seafood and living like a millionaire without having to be an actual millionaire 😂😆😆. I was sold and I will be moving to Palawan Island 🏝️🏝️🌅🏝️🌴🏝️ forever in a couple more years to retire 😎.
Go for it and you will not be sorry. I moved to Siargao Island and built a nice home and casually visit my family back in Cali. I am loving it and you are correct, seafood and vegetables are so fresh and not Safeway or Whole Foods refrigerated. Good luck to you and may you find you right soulmate in Palawan..I am pretty sure you will. Enjoy and stay safe. Btw, I am living in 5k a month retirement and it goes a very long long long stretch. Simple life and living and most of all STRESS FREE !!
@@LuvMyLilBabe You are not kidding, and there are lots of young expats who worked from their condos and have lots to spare. Live simple but ample and it is a bliss.
I am 62 and have a Filipina girlfriend who is 46. I just retired but we are planing on spending 6 months in the US and 6 months in the Philippines. The American Consulate says they’re 400k Americans in the Philippines. Most of the women in the Philippines are very sweet and have long hair they are feminine not feminist. The other piece of the puzzle is, this is not just an American movement. Australians and Europeans as well most of us do not like what the western female population has become. If you have never travelled around the Philippines it’s hard to imagine how large and diverse the country is.
I am Chinese Singaporean. In Singapore, women are not as crazy as Americans (yet) but their requirements are super high. Guys must be really good in many areas. Must earn good money, but take care of family. Must look good but cannot judge their looks too much. Must give them space to do their own things, but also drop our own things to do their things. If my current relationship drops me, I might be desperate to stop trying or go to the Philippines and try. And Singapore is way nearer than USA.
Though at most middle aged Filipinas that has a career or even remote work nowadays, wouldn't want to move. We'd love to travel abroad but never settle unless we see the same benefits and the culture driven environment we maybe able to provide for our kids. and yes, supporting family even extended ones are possible. We share blessings as much as we can. Thus it is important for us too to have our own money.
Original Passport Bro here! I lived in the Philippines for over two decades, married with three adult children. The Philippines is the best place for English speaking christian men.
I moved to philippines and married a 19 year old girl, I'm 49 but then after we got married she was insisting I buy a house. And I told her that a foreigner can't own any property there so I said we will rent a house. After that she just took off and she doesn't speak to me. To make a long story short most of those girls trying to marry a foreigner, well there is a scam here in the Philippines for a young girl to to marry a foreigner then get him to buy a house, car and give money. Then after he does she will break up with her husband even though divorce is not allowed here the girl will say they are only married on paper and just ghost her husband and she won't care at all the marriage is just a scam to her. The man and girl are legally married but it means nothing to the girl. I didn't think that a girl would go to that length of marrying me just as a scam but it did happen and she says it was her parents and aunt that pressured her to do it.
The serious filipinas expect dating towards marriage, taking things casual is not something they expect at all. Keep this in mind. Oh yea, you are also expected to have a plan, to make it work (stable income) no matter where you plan to stay. Dont show up without a plan
It might be the fact the Filipina are hyper feminine and gentle. Western women have been taught to be masculine and argumentative. It's not all puppies and rainbows over there, there are some out for your money, but if you look for certain things you can tell the difference.
Not all Filipinas are hyper feminine and gentle lol 😂😆😆😆. You don't want to have the misfortune of dealing with a scorned fierce indigenous Filipina. You piss her off there, you better get off that island fast or else you will be in a box 6 ft under lol 😂😆😆😆. Just saying🤗I heard a few crazy dark stories in the last 15 years.
Guys, you have huge competition! Act quickly! The U.S. Military is now in placed in the Philippines. This would limit and reduce your chances to finding and being with a Filipina you've been craving for. Don't delay and go get your passports!!! Let's populate the paradise!
The Philippines was an American colony just a century ago for almost 50 years which is at least a full generation. This is why it's familiar. American history books tend to skip the imperial days of America.
Yeah it's wild how most former American colonies are now independent allies and friends. Throw your shade all you like, any American worth their salt knows that there exists darkness in our history.
This is the best in-depth conversation I think I’ve heard about this topic. I myself am moving to Paraguay for many of these same reasons- primarily economic, but also cultural. Hope you both keep giving updates on this topic!
Im 37, getting married next year to a 28 year old filipina and bringing her home. Just be smart, dont pick someone way out of your league and age, treat her realy well and make a deal on how to suport her family. I have no guarantee it will work, but you only live once and prenup is of course a must.
I am male 55 from the Uk and my Thai wife is 35 and we have been happily married for over 5 years . I love my wife and my step-daughter and have never been happier. I am widely travelled and i am a qualified teacher. I have immersed myself in Thai life and dont have any intention of going back to the Uk as my life is here now. I hate the biased oponionated Western women I see online who think all middle aged western men are sex-pats and all Thai young women are hookers . They need to seriously realise that some people are not interested in them and vis versa. Asian women are generally more feminine whereas generally I find Western Women are too bolshy and this is not a good fit with me.
Yeah as a young American guy in his late 20s, it seems like a lot of women aren't really ready for commitment, ready to just get married and moving onto that stage of life, but women my age here in my quite liberal city mostly are still in that casual mindset. Nothing wrong with that, but it seems like it's hard to come by now I do worry for the young Filipino guys, really wish the problem was addressed back in the US, outsourcing dating seems unsustainable
They want to throw their stink box around with several Chads , Tyrones or low base pookies and when they have their box worn out , they say they want a "High Value Man" or the "Nice Guy" she friend zone or ghosted at the beginning 😂😆 😂😆😆😆
I was in The Philippines 🇵🇭 as a boy 👦 years ago and, as a man 👨, recently in December 2022. American English is used there. It is a 2nd official language. Age gap dating/marriage is a mixed bag in the USA. That is why people either love or hate Leo DiCapprio, no in-between here. But in The Philippines 🇵🇭, age gap dating/marriage is common. Few argue against it. #Passport
I married a Canadian guy, we are both in our early 30's, I am a year older than him. I am from one of those countries people look down to. The attitude feminist western women have is appalling.
And the real kicker is that it's so negative, isn't it? How can people with such an unhappy way of looking at things be happy? There's nothing wrong with women wanting to be treated fairly, but it's far beyond that in these modern times.
Helping the family in the Philippines is common. The parents are helping their children to go to school that's why mostly of the children graduated from college, so the children's make the point to help the family. They are grateful for their parents. Children are grateful to their parents.
The regular filipino students do not work part time to pay for their tuition, the parents work to pay for their kids education. When the children find jobs after graduation, they normally think of helping out their parents and family. Family is big in the Philippines.
It's great to see two intelligent people talking about a topic like this without attacking each other. Your chemistry is very good. Hugs from Brazil!!!
Age gap: I have thought about this for awhile, and I’ve come to the conclusion it is not about age as a number (much like body count is not about the actual number). It is about the emotional maturity and life situation. You might be very mature and fully integrated into a professional corporate life at the age of 25, then getting with a 25-year-old college student who is only thinking about partying and hasn’t matured at all. It’s going to be a bad match even if the ages are the same . That same 25-year-old would be a far better match for someone in a similar situation. Be that person 40 or 50 It’s not only about life situation, it’s perhaps also about wanting family or not. What kind of health are you in or not … Also, there might be a 40-year-old virgin late bloomer, who has just stepped into life, that 40-year-old will probably have more in common with a 28 year old, who is just starting in life than someone who is also 40 and very well established in life with a family and all This scenario fits well for resources too. Same financial situation. Aka no exploitation. A 40 year old about the party life will be a better match for a 23 year old party person than another family orientated 40 year old 🤷♀️ Age gap by number makes no sense Age gap by maturity and situation (power imbalance), make more sense
I'm 22 living in London... I swear I'm counting the days to go to Spain or Colombia plus my small business to thrive and live a good life for myself and my future wife and kids
Thank you for the discussion. I am fortunate to live in a very multicultural area of the US. I have dated from a lot of different cultures and backgrounds and have seen a lot of things. My recommendation for guys going this route is it is not as simple as it seems. An open mind and patience are critical. The rewards are there though.
I'm a foreigner who lived in the states. AW and a lot of other western veemen are extremely picky, and entitled. Between the cheaper cost of living abroad, and more opportunities to find a good gal, more men will keep leaving the states and other westernized countries behind.
I already have a two month trip planned to canvass the Phillippines for a suitable home base. I didn't understand my desire to move there until another youtuber explained it perfectly. I wanted to work and be on vacation at the same time. Plus there's a franchise called "Messy Burger" and by God I will eat there before I die. Maybe I'm just easy to please. As far as the women I don't really care. If I meet someone nice, great, if not, also great.
American women getting mad that average men they aren’t even interested in are leaving are now seeing the consequences of always chasing the better option or having too high of standards.
I’m a Filipino male and opposite happened to me a white woman that I was having sexual relations with told me. Her “you know why I like you?”. Me: uh no? Her: “it’s because your ethic” Me: wtf!?
I'm half asian half white and had the same experience lol. I get white girls with asian fetishes trying to date me. I'm done with western girls now though, don't want to waste my time on them. (I'm from UK)
There's no DIVORCE in the Philippines.. marriage is a commitment, only way out is dissolution of marriage and it will cost you an arm and a leg. Ponder and select the right one for you. Your brain and your heart works in tandem, so don't rush and pick your apple. There are so many, many good apples in the Philippines by the way.
im 26 and will eventually move to southeast Asia to find a partner. Men are attracted based on their economic worth to women. Doesnt matter what country that is. At least in the south east asian countries they have traditional values, morals, and respect for a man and what he does for the women and the family. Appreciation goes a long way.
This is one of the most thoughtful talks on this subject. Great video! I would add that "If" Gen Z believes 50/50 in a relationship will work that's still the delusion that got us here in the first place. It's 100/100 that works. In addition, Gen Z has no desire for marriage, which leaves us with zero commitment relationships. Plus decline in desire for children. Lose lose situation. Passport is the way to go. I've been fortunate to grow up with Filipino friends here in the states. Some of my best friends to this day. Their culture even here is infectiously fun, friendly and more traditional. FLIP acronym is Fun Loving Island People
Most foreigners here in the Philippines are above 50 years old who have separated from their spouses in western countries. came here to find second chance in their lives or the last chance to live in peace and not worry that one day they will grow old alone in life and sad✌️👍
Add to the fact that all the Filipina celebrities, the most good looking filipinos who became actors, models, and successful in the show business industry are offspring of a Passport bro who are married to Filipina..
Certainly. For some reason, a Filipino-Western mix produce beautiful offsprings. Most likely, the kids will be called mestizas, they look like Latinos/Latinas.
Thank you for this Video WESTERN WOMEN DON'TT KNOW ABOUT US FILIPINOS... THIS MAN (your guest) knows a lot about us...YES, WE DO SEND MONEY BACK HOME TO HELP & SUPPORT OUR PARENTS (OUR FAMILY)...THAT'S HOW WE ARE - KIND, CARING & SUPPORTIVE. EVEN THOUGH WE ARE POOR WE ARE STILL HAPPY PEOPLE.
The only thing that I feel may end up raising concerns that don’t really concern me, are the men literally moving because they assume other women in other countries are “easier” or happy to put up with negativity. I know that isn’t true so I’m still supportive of this movement
Hi. I like this podcast and Todd have wide knowledge about Filipina dating foreigners. He is right on many aspect. Filipinas don't mind age gap. I think the major reason we can't date Filipinos who are much older than us is because most Filipinos marry at a young age. So older single men in the market is scarce. 😅 But since you have divorce in the US, you have many older single men Anyway, we filipinas are easy to please but we don't take bullshit easily. We are very forgiving if we love our man though. But our line can snap too. Big age gaps like men in their 60s dating a woman in her early 20s raises the eyebrows of many here. We are just not so vocal on the social media about that and we tend to be supportive if they're happy. When we see a big age gap couple here, we say she's in for the money and he's in for the sex and a free caregiver. Filipinas are practical women. From the standpoint of many Filipina I know who married much older foreigner guy, they say because he is sweet, loving, caring, attentive, treats her with respect (which is so different from most Filipino men), and the financial security. I think any woman would prefer a guy who is romantic, sweet, loyal, understanding, and can financially take care of her. My American boyfriend said he don't like American women now because they're too self centered. They demand for what the guy can offer for them in the relationship but they themselves have nothing or have too little to offer in the table. That's why he prefers a Filipina for the traditional values that would make us good life partners.
What you said about younger guys not joining is not correct its not about getting a younger woman. Its about being respected and appreciated I am 24 was I will be joining as i say this there is a 21 year that works online and is in the Philippines right now. Also a guy in the comments is 19 and will be joining.
In support what he said religion plays an important role in the life of filipinas that wives must be submissive to her husband that whats we learnd from the bible, remember that filipinos are religious.
More and more passport bro's aren't even returning to the West, the environment here is just too hedonistic and "loveless". EVERYTHING in relationships is a transaction. Even love
Not all of them moved to US, some of them preferred to stay in their hime country. Some of them too after many years living in the US preferred to go back again in their own country to retired and stay for good
It will be very interesting to make a content about bi-racial offsprings between Filipino women and foreign men (of whatever race really)... i suggest this because i've seen first hand that if a Filipina bears a foreigner's baby, said baby tend to be really attractive.. my grandaughter looks like a future model even at 11 years old..
In the Philippines Mestisos or half whites kids are seen as higher class people, they are the ones you'll see in movies, commercials, etc... half-white kids are insured to enjoy privilege.
I became a passport bro before it was a popular trend, but I did it for the same reasons that men are doing it today. Many women are too masculine and disagreeable, and there is far too much promiscuity, even with apparently 'nice girls'. I would say to all men watching this type of programme that my experience has been entirely positive, and you will be amazed at the experience when you get to meet this type of woman. There are some young guys in the comments - focus on yourself and your career and then go marry a good girl from Philippines etc. Then live the dream and build a life together.
Thinking about the age gap issue from a 60's-year-old guy's perspective that is about to move to PH. I look at it a couple ways// 1). I know I can survive very well on my Social Security and pension there (NOT in the US). I know I don't have that many years left so why not be happy (and driven to be more active by a younger woman). 2). From her perspective, her man doesn't have that many more years in the tank, she (and her family) can enjoy a better lifestyle and potentially receive death benefits that really set them up for a better future AND is still young enough to start a new relationship w/ another foreign man.
Passport bros are young. The older guys you are talking about have been coming to the Philippines since world war 2. Passport Bros, Joes and Chos are 18 to 40 year olds coming over right now. You guys need to research more. I'm Filipino.
Got mine. I'm engaged to a Filipina. She's 32. I'm 58. I've visited her twice, and am about to go for a third visit. My plan is to bring her back. She's college educated (an accountant). She's beautiful, traditional and appreciative of everything I do for her. Men want younger women, period. Younger is always better for most men. It's in our biology.
@@robbiehenderson9582 _Every single time_ someone brings the wife back she gets poisoned by American culture and turns rotten just like the women he tried to leave behind. I've seen this first-hand multiple times, and that's before all of the testimonies of other men (most of them veterans) doing (and suffering) the same. You found your woman. If you marry her, _you do not come back._
Yes you will see younger men getting their passports as well. They will be going to Center & South America not southeast Asia. Asia will be almost exclusively for older men who are typically retired.
I'm 23, 24 next month and I've been single for about 1 and a half years now. Here tbh relationships ain't worth it. I'm looking forward to leaving and being happy elsewhere.
Why is love judged. If two people find each love. And be wanted. Western women are now suffering their climb to be independent. They want independence. Great. Other women in Asia know a man and woman become one. Not a competition
I agree. When Western men stop pursuing and don't marry these Western women, the birthrate will drop. Business and Government won't like this and will begin to roll back some of these feminist anti-men laws. There is going to be reckoning for Western women.
I've been one year in Asia. Met wonderful women, still think could be marvelous life partner. When I came back dating apps seem here so much harsh, difficult, unkind, complicated place to be for fine men
0:10 "...that's a pretty big age gap. That's a concern where we live." You mean in the US? A man in his 60's with a 20 year old woman is a "concern" for American women. Typical she implies all Americans have the concern. I'm 66 planning a move to Philippines next year, getting married and having kids. WOW American go ape s*&% hearing that. But logically this makes a lot of sense. My kids will be able to work in both US and PH, Speak fluent English and Filipino. Mixed kids tend to be very attractive. I have the resources to provide for my wife through her retirement and my kids thru college. I'll have time to spend with my kids. My Dad was always at work when I was growing up. I have so much more to teach my kids. Raising kids in the Filipino culture is much better for them than being spoiled in the US. My Filipina wife will be getting exactly what she wants, to be a mother and wife. A secure life and a loyal man. Dan Ariely has done a lot of studies on beauty and attractiveness. A 20 year old woman can find a 60's man as attractive.
I’m a good looking 34 yo with a fantastic body and great personality and I’m struggling in the US. I’m getting my passport this week. There are greener pastures out there!!!
collectivist society The Philippines is a collectivist society, in which the needs of the family are prioritized over the needs of the individual. Filipinos value social harmony and maintaining smooth relationships, which means they may often avoid expressing their true opinions or delivering unwanted news.
Missing some of the reasons. Men are going abroad to avoid the western divorce court problems. Divorce is not allowed in the Philippines. Bring a foreign woman back? Bad idea. Pilipino women prefer a simple life. They don’t get their nails done all the time. The culture overall is more cooperative because they work together to survive. Staying in these countries is the better more affordable option which keeps the cooperative mindset intact.
I'm 19 and already looking forward to moving abroad. So yes the younger generation is joining in.
Good for you young buck and thanks for commenting!
Start earning and saving, theres milllions of women in here we can't handle them, and i am a filipino guy
I hope more guys your age leave and be happy. You young guys deserve better than what’s here in the west
yep I'm 21 and cant wait to live elsewhere. not just for women though I really enjoyed social studies and History class, just daydreaming about the places I'd learn about 😂
Just make sure your money is right.
It’s no longer 60 year old military retirees….it’s now, 35-45 year olds that have had horrible experiences with western women that have good careers and can afford a passport and to spend a year in the Philippines and just want a good loyal wife.
My first trip to the Philippines was in 2009 at 26. I had the time of my life.. I went back a couple more times after and on my last trip lived for 11 months with a great girl in Cebu who I first met online. We filed her Fiancee Visa and once it was approved we moved to the US and got married. We've been married now for 9 years and it was the best decision of my life. I'm always seeing my old friends my age getting divorced, infidelity, drama and having major custody problems, child support, etc... Glad it's not me.
So true! I’m loving and living that lifestyle now.
I'm 40 and just started dong researching / planning today.
@AI-1279 Unfornately, even the men in their 20s are having worse issues nowadays. Western wmn are done for. Hell, David's Bridal Shop(the biggest wedding retailer in the country) just weny bankrupt.
@@Wheelman1966Fantastic!
I am a Filipino. I used to be in a relationship with a German woman. I tried because I wanted to see if I can be compatible with a Foreigner. Well, it didn't work out. I have met and worked with American and Australian women but never dated one. Oh yes. I married a Filipina. Let me tell you how many Filipinos working outside of the Philippines are not married to a Filipina. Very few. Well, it maybe a fair point to say that Foreign women are not attracted to Filipino men because they have small D or small in height, and so that should not come as a suprise.
But here's the fact. I am 43 years old and I don't know of any acquintance, relative, or a friend who are not married to a Filipina. I do not remember hearing from a fellow Filipino who said they plan of marrying other than a Filipina. Majority of Filipinas are still conservative. Not everybody but Super Majority of Filipinas are faithful, caring, loving, understanding, and would prefer not to argue. Sometimes you'll have to beg them just to say their piece. LOL! So, for Filipino men like me, I don't see a need to look elsewhere if you can find a perfect match within the Country.
See. I don't hear Filipino men hating Filipino women who chose to marry Foreigner. You know why? It's call respect. :)
Size doesn't matter to a woman as long as it is "hard". What's the use of having a long D if it's like vegetable....it serves no purpose. Go asked the women.
Hi Joms. FYI - My grandfather came from Sabtang Island, Batanes. This is the situation here in the US. Average men are done with women and more and more men are leaving, opting out, going MGTOW or going overseas for better traditional women---Filipinas! More and more women are at the top of picking order in the gynocentric society and are finding themselves obsolete and alone to what few top males they can find let alone males who want them. In short, there are no top 5% males for top females to date up or marry up in the hostile gynocentric society rigged against men. Modern women have supplanted the very males in the work force they were hoping to date and marry up. Thank feminism for the situation of top male scarcity and the lack of top males desiring commitment because modern women have given these top males a line of female options for every day of the week and no reason to commit. Congratulations ladies you have alienated yourselves from the major majority of males because you do not want them, you have alienated yourselves from the males who do want you but you find unacceptable, you have alienated yourselves from the males who are desirable because of your boss babe mindset, defeminized demeanor, narcissism, selfishness, outrageous standard and expectations and just horrid personalities, disrespect and propensity to divorce men on a whim , and you have alienated yourselves from men by insisting on chasing after the top 5% of men who have no reason to commit to you or even want to commit to you. Feminism has taken away the very men you ladies want and has made you obsolete to men and men see no value to being with women who do not respect, want or need men. Good luck ladies in the man drought you have created for yourselves especially at the top of social economic ladder via your gynocentric society rigged against men and the changes you have made in yourselves under feminism which have made you obsolete to the majority of men. Men are choosing to live single lives because modern women bring no benefits for men's peace at any social economic level. I have my MA, career, own house, cars, bass guitars, bass amps, good band mates, great friends, loyal dog, 2 cats and lots of PEACE. You ladies wanted the authority and power of men and the lifestyle and you got it. You also have that that 60 to 80 hour work week, no time for relationships, the defeminized boss babe mindset and the obsolescence to the men you want and the men you don't want. But, hey you are a strong and independent woman who does not need a man and men have heard you. We got you! We are leaving you alone to chase and share Chads into middle age invisibility. You ladies have done this to yourselves via the changes driven by feminism in society and the changes you have made in yourselves via the feminist narrative. You women have changed, and men are adapting to those changes. It is not men's fault that the changes you wanted in society and for yourselves individually are not yielding the results you wanted. 45% of American working women ages 25 to 45 via a research projections will be single, childless and PARTNERLESS by 2030. Feminism is wonderful for waking men up and keeping women single. Dave's bridal is closing their stores as men see no point to being married to women who really do not want them and many women who feminism has indoctrinated to hate men. It is only going to get worse ladies as more and more men discover that they do not need women to live happy single lives.
Respect ✊🏿
Was in that military for 24 yrs. Visited the Philippines many times for work. Filipinas are very kind and outgoing women but also street smart and savvy. So all this talk of men going there to “take advantage” of them is bs. They’ll sniff you out quick if you are.
How much does the bride payment cost in your case?
Very true. I was at Clark Air base and I thought myself as a slicker, Boy, was I wrong (with cap B) one lady told me to keep my $$ and shove it into my behind. That sobered me up quick. She said if you want relationship do it the correct way. "This is not US of A"
@@TheGreatOldOak bride payment?? Dowry-giving among Christian Filipinos is very rare..
@@romeodeguzman9041 An expected exchange of money utang na loob.
When I was deployed a few years ago we stopped with the Philippines to train with them. The kindness and how gentle and intelligent the women are changed my whole perspective about dating. More men should look towards finding a traditional girl who loves you overseas, just don't bring her back.
Not all wants to go to the US, they knew the hard life Americans are facing, look around, homelessness and people with no jobs, rentals and housing are over the roof. Your retirement funds and 491 k stipend will go a long, long way beyond the shores of America.
lol just dont bring her back
Agreed. Bringing her back would be a huge mistake
The joy I feel in my heart as a black women knowing that men are willing to travel to find what they’re looking for, is overwhelming. Finally focusing on what they want instead of what they don’t. That’s a boss move 🎉❤
All men of colors are leaving overseas but they bring back the women
@@rickyticky3350 you should talk to men of color and the women who are with them, not me! Your comment doesn’t include me at all😴😴😴
@Ricky Ticky They don't bring back the women. Where did you learn or observe that non-sense?
@@rickyticky3350 allot of black men are leaving and staying its an exodus.
@@PhoenixDragonResurrected black men wanted black women to be what they wanted.
Most filipinas speak english, have modern values, and cater to their men. Mine is literally perfect for me, bachelor's educated and love me for me #PassportKing #Passportbro
That's not TRUE!!! Not all of them speak the English Language. Many, is preferable to label them. Yes, the English Language has been adopted and designated as the second language in the Philippines.
@@catzcatcher9772 fyi since 1898 when America colonized Philippines we started to have English as our 2nd language. Tagalog is our national language. English is in school Curriculum. We use English in every subjects except Tagalog. We have American regime until 1945. We use English in our legal papers./documents. In the airport we have English sign.
@@catzcatcher9772 my nephews and nieces can speak English before they went to nursery through singing Karaokie. Philippines is the Call Center capital in the world. We have 175 dialects including Spanish every provinces has each on dialects. Mostly of the Filipinos can speak more than 3 languages.
@@lourdes86179 I just wish though that they would teach you the correct and proper way to write and speak it!
@@catzcatcher9772 Don’t expect perfect English grammar from everyone from the Philippines.. Most public schools (that severely lack funding) are lacking in rigour maintaining a high standard.. The fact that we speak it as a SECOND language is something we take pride in.. And I would argue that most Americans/Canadians, especially the younger set lack the grammar skills too.. Please learn Tagalog or Bisaya and post here if you can communicate in it with perfect grammar..
I'm a Filipina and your video made a lot of sense. It's refreshing to hear that some people understand what's going on.. it is crazy and tiring to hear other western women talk shit about why they think western men go here and say disgusting things about Filipino women but they don't even understand what's really going on and why these men AND women prefer this type relationship/situation.
Yeah, those that have been priced out (filipino men) and those that have priced themselves out (western women) has very personal reasons for the hate, but those are personal reasons.
Thats a me issue
I find it sad this is where we are. But its the reality
And why should i be mad about someone elses happiness
Im just sad and jealous about my own situation.
Much happiness to the people that find each other
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Thankyou for sharing and engaging
There is one UA-cam channel by a Filipina regarding exactly this topic . And she has the same opinions
Sometimes its a rough cuz it really does boil sown too.
We want this… they want this…let us be. Did be a jelly sour puss.
Maybe if you cherrished your men more they wouldnt be running away.
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@@Pssst.ByTheWay filipino men aren't hating lol.
Filipinas getting westernised (and discover their worth more) when they get abroad is a risk - yes, But maybe the possibility of them cheating is low. There might be some who might but majority wouldnt do it and Will stick to their husbands. Because its pretty Hard to turn away from principles, norms, and the kind upbringing we grew into.. we value marriage so much and see it as Something sacred and "for life" till death..
This is the value i am proud about "Filipina" woman. They are faithful and loving.
Well if one fails I'll go back and find another one until one stays. I think the success rate is much higher for her not to stray since ive seen a lot of guys here and are still married with the ones they brought. There's 50 year old dudes dating girls in other countries it's amazing.
You should be proud! In this crazy mixed up world it's a very good thing to be proud of that. IDK if you have a man yet but with that attitude you'll probably find an incredible top-shelf high value hero.
It’s less likely to be westernized after 30 as well. The mistake some men make is bringing them here way too young
Filipinas get westernized and *ruin their worth* when they get abroad is a risk.
There, fixed it for you.
In addition to that, I believe that the majority of women in Ph see marriage as a lifetime commitment. Meaning, she wants and she is looking forward to spending the rest of her life with his husband (vice versa). Taking care of their kids together and growing old together. And because Filipinos (men or women) always have a strong hold of family ties, we don't give up on our marriages easily and always put our family on top priority. Our family is our motivation. Also, in majority,
it doesn't matter if their kids are minors or over 18 yrs old, you will be looked for and taken care of unconditionally/endlessly even if their kids already have careers of their own. These will continue down to their grandchildren. 💖💓💞❤️🧡💛💚💙💜❣️
Growing up here in the states I thought my fellow people felt that same way as far as valuing family, connections and friends. But it seems like the longer time goes on we get away from that but all I want is to be around likeminded people who are full of love. The Philippines deserve the world for the amount of character they display as a nation, and as for Thailand lol I can't wait to try and learn Muay Thai
Western men are not settling by going to other countries, they're upgrading. Those women are more beautiful and better than Western women in every way.
yep. Western women are at the bottom of the barrel when ranked against the rest of the world.
I'm 35 and my Filipina wife is 31. She is a province girl from Bohol that I met online 6 years ago and after my 2nd visit she already had a ring on her finger.
Nowadays we live together in my country and have 2 beautiful daugthers. She's the best wife and mother I could have ever imagined.
Western women are a lost cause for me. If you don't look like Brad Pitt or earn money like Brad Pitt or if she finally realizes that she is 30+ years old or a single mother that just isn't interesting for most men anymore then you will probably end up in the friend zone where she will keep you until she runs out of 'better options'. And with that I mean chads who change their girlfriends like their underwear and just want to have fun. And then they complain that all men are terrible just because they have a terrible taste in men.
This right here are facts. I've seen so many women run with the pookies...get used up by the pookies...who are often married to other women, and then they come back to you when they're 40, have no options, used up and can't bear children
bohol have many snorkeling, coral reef spots?
Single women live longer than married women. Single women don't get beat up by their husbands. Single don't have to work jobs and then come home to to cook and clean while their husbands lay up doing nothing. Single women live in peace. There's nothing better than peace.
I honor the passport bro. if those women don't mind it's a win win!!!
here in the US they ship their old worn out parents in a box somewhere in a sahara ...while in PH they keep them at home with their grand kids to complete the circle until their last breathe
That's just one of the reasons I'm thinking of heading there. The family unit is dead in the West.
I'm 28 years old white male moved to south east Asia 6 months ago. Mainly becouse I ended a relationship with my western woman due feeling lack of respect and appreciation. I dated a Philippine woman for some time and what you sayings it's true about the family connection, language, Christianity and care taking. Unfortunately this relationship did not work out. I'm now with a Thai woman where language barier is a bit of a friction, but we both are very happy. the culture about relationships is very similar to Philippines I'm planing to stay here long term and nurture this relationship. I see much more potential for creating long lasting relationship here in this culture than the west
It's been happening post WWII. Expats retiring in the Philippines and marrying their Pinays. It just became big deal when BM joined the flight.
Anyhow kudos to this Chanel for a nice podcast
Well said JP 👍. These feminists think "passport bro" movement is just a new phenomenon. I just laugh at gibberish a lot of people spew on social media.
filipinas date with marriage in mind because we are very family oriented, so much that we personally care for our parents or grandparents until their last breath.☺️
all this time, i thought the AMW are too high up for us to even be compared to... it warms my heart thinking that we may have become the standard in finding a good wife..🥰 keep your heads up fellow filipinas, maintain decency and never forget your traditions..
Filipina women are kind and generous BECAUSE of good Filipino MEN! talk down about their fathers brothers or uncles and you will not have a chance … trust that . And if you do , then you’re with a unreal Filipina woman
This is not only because some Filipinas want to escape poverty. I've chatted with 4 Filipinas over 35 yo who were professionals. A dentist, anthropologist, farm owner running a crew of workers and a real estate broker/investor renting upscale Western style apartments. Western men are highly prized for treating their wives very well. Almost all I've met have seen one or more family members marry a Western guy and see the big difference and they want that. Plus a Western husband is instant status increase for them.
I'm afraid you may be right.. White man + Filipina = perfect lol
Caucasian Man + Filipina = Beauty Pageant Contender, Model, Movie Actor or Actress etc….
Black Bros + Filipina = Professional Athletes, Professional Entertainers in Acting, Music, Dancing, Modeling etc…
I am working as a paramedic on a ship with a crew from the Philippines. I came out march 15th, what was supposed to be a 2 week on/off rotation turned into... well... I am still here and will leave around july 15th. The men are either very quiet ( the ones that don't speak great english ) the younger men all speak great english and are super friendly and funny. The woman are all sweethearts. Not all super models but they take care of themselves and treat me like they are angling for a husband.
This is not my first time working with a crew from the Philippines, every time has been really amazing. The nicest people you can ever meet.
I am retiring in November at 52. I will stop in Thailand first, ive already been 12 times and then get a round trip flight to Dumagete.
From what I have seen, heard and experienced... Thailand is great if you want to have fun. The Philippines is the place if you want to find a wife!
Thanks for your insight Daniel!
I know a number of Western men from Australia, US, and Europe that settled in P.I., Thailand, Mexico, and Colombia...they are usually guys with extraordinary income/and or an entrepreneurial spirit. Some have jobs where they work in West for part of the year, and go "home" to their adopted country for the balance.
Men who don't feel that hey are valued are not going to stay around. Dude hit it on the head. I had this issue when I first started dating and many of my early girlfriends and dates would put very if any effort into dating or the relationship.
You're only taking this from the perspective of "unwanted men" but... what about THE MOST desirable men. Extremely handsome men making over 6 figures, with a 6 pack, that can put it down in the bedroom. How could this benefit them?
Well let's start from the other end... What value does a Western woman bring that an Eastern woman doesn't? Only broke men need a woman's money, so that's out the window, don't need money.
Now let's look at this... On average, marriages in America are shorter than in any other major country. The average American marriage lasts only 8 years. Compare that with New Zealand, a fairly modern Western country yet there marriages still last an average of 14 years.
Why is this relevant? Divorce sucks for broke couples and men, but women typically benefit far more from a divorce from virtually any relationship where any kind of community property was built. Men stand to lose a lot in marriage. And here's the thing... a lot of these women will say "Oh well you ain't got shit anyway"... What they're not saying is "But if you ever WERE to build a nest egg, that now is up for grabs BY ME." Ryan Long recently "joked" on Joe Rogan's podcast that literally millions of women are currently scamming men. You think Chris Rock wanted half of everything he built up to get stolen from him. No, and you know how I know? BECAUSE HE HAD A FUCKIN' PRE-NUP! And the shit STILL expired after 18 years. 2 years later she was OUT! Fuck that man, no man wants to work his whole life only to PAY the woman he's supposed to love TO LEAVE! And now that so many women know this, they're using marriage as A COME UP! Literally SHUCKING MEN LIKE CORN! Just hollowing men out, draining them of their money, their energy, their SOUL! Like vampires!
The Philippines doesn't have divorce.
Let's take loyalty and fidelity, another thing men care about in marriage. In the US in infidelity rate is a WHOPPING 71 FUCKING PERCENT! HOLY SHIT! THE LITERAL HIGHEST IN THE WORLD! IT'S A LITERAL CHEATER NATION! And women cheat at EQUAL RATES IF NOT RECENTLY MORE THAN MEN! Which means if the population is roughly half men and half women, and you're only dating women, there's a roughly 71% or more chance that if you date the average women she'll probably cheat. Why more? Because that number is GOING UPPPPPPP! What's more is that paternity fraud is extremely high in the US! And as a man, there's almost nothing you can do about this. You can literally come home to a woman you're paying for and doing everything for, she's suckin' and fuckin' another man, she SERVES YOU THE PAPERS RIGHT THERE AND THEN, if you do anything violent or out of control that's no defense, she can then get pregnant by that man, try to put YOU on child support for that kid that's not yours, she can get awarded the house and the car because of XYZ reason, she can then MOVE INTO THAT HOUSE with that man, collect alimony from you and now YOU LITERALLY GOT TRICKED INTO BEING A SLAVE PAYING FOR A WHOLE OTHER FAMILY and it's ALL LEGAL and ALL DONE by the LONG ARM OF THE LAW! That's insane. That's female supremacy, that's a form of slavery.
The Philippines has some pretty dire consequences for infidelity. Like it or not from a Western perspective, it's the way their laws are structured.
So American women have been conditioned to be basically the worst deal on the planet as compared to what you can find in other countries because of the way the laws and more importantly culture is structured. American culture is the most hyper-sexualized, promiscuity promoting culture on the planet.
Why does promiscuity matter? Promiscuity is the single greatest predictor of infidelity, divorce, and lack of long-term relationship satisfaction. Where are the women in the Western world without a promiscuous past? Sure, many will say they're not or weren't but... many / most aren't really honest, we have the data to show that now. And how could that NOT be the case since the sexual revolution? I mean the porn industry alone probably accounts for at least 20-30 million women or more in the last 30 years that have engaged in some kind of pornography. And that's just getting paid on camera to do it, how about getting paid not on camera? How about not getting paid but just going to parties a lot and sleeping around a lot when you were younger? Women AS A RULE hide that shit, "Trade Secret". But the fact still remains. And it's not just about the reputational hit it causes, it's about the effects on the brain in my opinion. It's about character and who you are as a person, how you think. I don't think the most self-respecting women need to do that, I think most of them engage in long term monogamous relationships earnestly and with good faith and a good heart, and if it doesn't work out well luckily TODAY with contraception the fallout of having children isn't there, but there's still emotional and mental fallout and baggage, and I think that COST is there for a reason. It's meant to keep women loyal, it's an adaptation.
But you know how I think this whole thing has been enabled? Because that's been the plan all along, at the current conditions of the Western dating market since the rise of social media, dating apps, club and hookup culture etc. the whole thing "Party in your 20s, flip a switch and you'll be PERFECT marriage material in your 30s" is very contrived given one key assumption... "Where the men gonna go? Where the backup dudes gonna go? Where my future husband gonna go while I'm having 'fun' tryna catch a Chad in my party years? What, I'm supposed to just be a nun and just sit around sexless and bored in my 20s while I build my pointless career? Those guys ain't going nowhere, where they gonna go?" Well... That's a big assumption. For one, some of these men do get married, successful or not, that marriage might not be to you. That's one of the first things these women complain about. And it might be to that "plain looking girl" you're tearing down when you're supposedly this "fine French croissant". But now that men's standards have dropped so low they're on the floor, it's caused the women to just absolutely go wild and take, take, take, drain all the men of every ounce of MEAT (Money, Attention, Energy, and Time) for nothing in return outside the dangling fishing lure of sex... But in the process of getting scammed like that, these Men are learning that's clearly NOT a relationship. And I think FINALLY a massive swath of men are waking up to this and rejecting the whole thing. MGTOW and Passport Bros are of similar minds but GeoMaxxing / Expatriating offers a way out of this cultural death trap and allows men to vote with their feet instead of just exiting the dating market altogether. Not to mention there's a huge component that might be purely biological relating to the introduce of new genes into the gene pool which is almost always beneficial, and therefore in virtually every society women place a slight premium on foreign men, which actually makes sense biologically / evolutionary.
Philippines is a very conservative country. Social norms there are very wholesome and educate young men and women about the dangers and fallout of promiscuity. And the 180 different languages and dialects along with the various broken up chain of islands prevents a great deal of cultural diffusion. 83% of the country is devoutly Roman Catholic! Besides the religious aspect this presents, it also means that contraception is not as widely used. Given what we know about how getting off of hormonal birth control can completely shift a woman's mate preference, isn't it in a man's interest to be certain that she's spent an extended period of time with him off the pill in order to know that it's really HIM she's after and isn't gonna suddenly drop the pill and find him repulsive? Because that does happen, and it has to do not just with a man's looks, money, status whatever, but MORE to do with the man's major histocompatibility complex. A man can't change that, that's genetic... So we need to get away from thinking that female attraction is only predicated on these really shallow "metrics" or even personality traits when some of it is just plainly genetic compatibility. Not saying you should drop all contraception along with the pill, just maybe not hormonal in nature, perhaps the copper IUD, condoms, and cycle tracking would be more beneficial to both parties.
Now when it comes to moving abroad, let's also not forget to mention your dollar stretches further IN ALL INCOME BRACKETS. So let's say you're a millionaire, let's say you make a million dollars a year in annual income. The same EXACT home you could buy in Malibu you can buy in Cebu for a tenth of the price. Or BETTER YET your could buy a TEN TIMES nicer or larger place and live like an ABSOLUTE KING! So whyyyyyyyyy would anyone in ANY income bracket bother to stay in a country that's becoming MORE corrupt both politically AND morally, where the CULTURE is degenerating faster than you can imagine, where relationships are quickly being replaced with hookups and retail therapy, and where there's really NO FUTURE? America has lost it's way, it's being flushed down the toilet as we speak. You can't save a culture that doesn't want to be saved.
Time to get out.
Exactly bro. I've always been one of the top 10% guys in terms of looks and female attention ever since high school. I've completely ignored western women ever since graduating 7 years ago. I had my fun but now I just see them as a waste of time as they are not marriage material. I put all that effort into building myself up instead so I can provide a good life for my future family once I move overseas.
Hi am a white American retired early at 55 starting my fourth month of retirement in Cebu, Philippines. I get more attention from young women here than I ever did back in America. I found a beautiful 22 year old woman here in three days on a dating app. I am her second boyfriend ever, and she is definitely the best woman I have ever been with. I really have no interest in dating any woman of my own age because I came here to start a family. I have always been more attracted to Asian girls than white, and I think a woman is at her best in her twenties. Don't forget the lower cost of living here, but you must have a steady income and savings to make it here. It is very difficult for a foreigner to get a work permit here unless he has a remote computer job or something similar. Filipinas do want to have white babies because lighter skin has more advantages here. Call it racist or whatever you like, but that is the reality here. Don't bring a Filipina back to America and destroy her with feminism, relocate to the Philippines and live there permanently. Emily and Todd really don't know what they are talking about and have obviously never spent time in the Philippines. Get your passports gentlemen, and see the reality for yourselves.
Thanks for the comment but I’m interested in what we said that was off base?
but you have to pay for her whole family and extended 50 families about 100 people??
@@kaleeysmith8801 So money is what you have a problem with?
@@144k_Kingdom_Living unless i'm a billionaire, i can't take care of her family+ 50 cousins who's unemployed and all her sick elderly extended families.
@@kaleeysmith8801 That appraoch to helping people will keep you working in the Matrix your entire life. I use to think just like you stated.
I am glad I changed the way I thought which has afford me to travel the world non-stop for the past 2 and half years. I am very fortunate when other ask me for help. I help them with a smile and am thankful I can do you. You can only give a person what you possess in your heart. You can only experience who you truly are. Never be stingy with things you have amd after a while your life will change for the better.
1. Women in the Philippines wash clothes by hand all their lives.
2. Women in the Philippines in provinces do not have running water, they have to fetch water from the artesian well (hand pump now imagine you have to wash clothes by hand and fetch water as well) The western women think being in the kitchen is slavery lol.
3. Women in the Philippines enjoy being in the kitchen. (In the Philippines during parties the ones who are insiders hang out in the kitchen getting spoiled by the women with food drink laughing joking while the ones in the other parts of the party is kind of formal setting)
4. There is no divorce in the Philippines so no monkey branching (there are isolated cases but with a solid family, it is frowned upon in the Philippines and if a family member is doing that they will be shaming the family name)
5 Women in the Philippines are survivors, they survived living in hardship since they were little, marrying a foreigner that can afford to support them will be a big upgrade so they will be grateful.
6. Women in the Philippines are not oppressed people, they run the household, in the household they are boss, the husband just provides comes home and gets prepared what the boss prepared and is not bothered by anyone.(kids, aunts, in laws, etc)
7. Women in the Philippines are boss when there is an event, the husband is supporting actor, does the slaughtering of the pig, chicken, cow, fish etc while the women (wife and whoever family that comes to help) does the chopping of veggies, spices, aromatics etc. but they are the boss if wife says we need this husband drops what he is doing and goes get it (like drinks and other kitchen needs etc etc) the extended family guys takes over what the husband was doing.
So yes it is a collaboration of Husband and Wife + extended family support (never fails)
Western women does not have better rights compared to women in the Philippines they are similar if not better.
Oh and child support in the Philippines is equitable, unlike the U.S. no man is getting screwed from either party, and the state does not make money from it unlike in the U.S. the state makes money so the more they screw men the more money the state makes.
Did I mention there is no divorce in the Philippines?
Men in the U.S. gets to lose everything after the divorce so yes the newer generation will not feel the heat until they get hosed (for those newer generation who are not listening to the older generation men)
Here's an advice to western women, instead of fighting the passport bros, connect with them and agree to move to the Philippines or wherever the family laws are not slanted to the advantage to either parties and make good on your vows.
Believe me it's not just about the warm Filipino culture and dating Filipinas, it's the mind blowing cheap cost of living and the thousands of stunning Paradise Islands. That's what blew my mind the stunning beaches , fresh seafood and living like a millionaire without having to be an actual millionaire 😂😆😆. I was sold and I will be moving to Palawan Island 🏝️🏝️🌅🏝️🌴🏝️ forever in a couple more years to retire 😎.
Go for it and you will not be sorry. I moved to Siargao Island and built a nice home and casually visit my family back in Cali. I am loving it and you are correct, seafood and vegetables are so fresh and not Safeway or Whole Foods refrigerated. Good luck to you and may you find you right soulmate in Palawan..I am pretty sure you will. Enjoy and stay safe. Btw, I am living in 5k a month retirement and it goes a very long long long stretch. Simple life and living and most of all STRESS FREE !!
@@1lolofred 5k US dollars a month?? you're basically Elon Musk in Siargao lol
@@LuvMyLilBabe You are not kidding, and there are lots of young expats who worked from their condos and have lots to spare. Live simple but ample and it is a bliss.
I am 62 and have a Filipina girlfriend who is 46. I just retired but we are planing on spending 6 months in the US and 6 months in the Philippines. The American Consulate says they’re 400k Americans in the Philippines. Most of the women in the Philippines are very sweet and have long hair they are feminine not feminist. The other piece of the puzzle is, this is not just an American movement. Australians and Europeans as well most of us do not like what the western female population has become. If you have never travelled around the Philippines it’s hard to imagine how large and diverse the country is.
I am Chinese Singaporean. In Singapore, women are not as crazy as Americans (yet) but their requirements are super high. Guys must be really good in many areas. Must earn good money, but take care of family. Must look good but cannot judge their looks too much. Must give them space to do their own things, but also drop our own things to do their things.
If my current relationship drops me, I might be desperate to stop trying or go to the Philippines and try. And Singapore is way nearer than USA.
You went straight to Philippines? What happened with Chinese Malaysia?
Though at most middle aged Filipinas that has a career or even remote work nowadays, wouldn't want to move. We'd love to travel abroad but never settle unless we see the same benefits and the culture driven environment we maybe able to provide for our kids. and yes, supporting family even extended ones are possible. We share blessings as much as we can. Thus it is important for us too to have our own money.
Mai yes you are correct I would not want to leave the Philippines. It's a stress free paradise.
Yes Philippines is rising and much better than many places than the west, stay and make it awesome.
Original Passport Bro here! I lived in the Philippines for over two decades, married with three adult children. The Philippines is the best place for English speaking christian men.
Thanks for your comment!
I moved to philippines and married a 19 year old girl, I'm 49 but then after we got married she was insisting I buy a house. And I told her that a foreigner can't own any property there so I said we will rent a house. After that she just took off and she doesn't speak to me. To make a long story short most of those girls trying to marry a foreigner, well there is a scam here in the Philippines for a young girl to to marry a foreigner then get him to buy a house, car and give money. Then after he does she will break up with her husband even though divorce is not allowed here the girl will say they are only married on paper and just ghost her husband and she won't care at all the marriage is just a scam to her. The man and girl are legally married but it means nothing to the girl. I didn't think that a girl would go to that length of marrying me just as a scam but it did happen and she says it was her parents and aunt that pressured her to do it.
The serious filipinas expect dating towards marriage, taking things casual is not something they expect at all. Keep this in mind. Oh yea, you are also expected to have a plan, to make it work (stable income) no matter where you plan to stay. Dont show up without a plan
Thanks for the comment!
My fiance is filipina
@@GabrielGonzalez-oi4pd base on your name you are mexican or south american, having that family name is a plus
Plans can go south very fast in the Phillipines you have to make sure you have a plan b and extra money 💵 !
It might be the fact the Filipina are hyper feminine and gentle. Western women have been taught to be masculine and argumentative. It's not all puppies and rainbows over there, there are some out for your money, but if you look for certain things you can tell the difference.
Not all Filipinas are hyper feminine and gentle lol 😂😆😆😆. You don't want to have the misfortune of dealing with a scorned fierce indigenous Filipina. You piss her off there, you better get off that island fast or else you will be in a box 6 ft under lol 😂😆😆😆. Just saying🤗I heard a few crazy dark stories in the last 15 years.
Marriage and family in the philippines is forever. we rarely have broken families.
That's why there is no divorce there only annulment if the marriage does not work out.
That's such an untrue statement. The single mother epidemic in the Philippines is real. Nowhere else in SEA
Guys, you have huge competition! Act quickly! The U.S. Military is now in placed in the Philippines. This would limit and reduce your chances to finding and being with a Filipina you've been craving for. Don't delay and go get your passports!!! Let's populate the paradise!
What’s so cool about this video is how they try to take the perspective of many different sides, not just one.
The Philippines was an American colony just a century ago for almost 50 years which is at least a full generation. This is why it's familiar. American history books tend to skip the imperial days of America.
We have the history of American regime and the WW2 that US soldiers lead by McArthur to fight Japanese. Even in 1898 to fight Spanish regime.
@@lourdes86179 did you have the brutal Philippine American war and Moro rebellion that is after the Spanish American war
Yeah it's wild how most former American colonies are now independent allies and friends. Throw your shade all you like, any American worth their salt knows that there exists darkness in our history.
American is still colonizing Puerto Rico
I’m originally from Philippines and now in Texas. Your video is very comprehensive and yes, well researched. Thanks!
Glad you enjoyed it!
This is the best in-depth conversation I think I’ve heard about this topic. I myself am moving to Paraguay for many of these same reasons- primarily economic, but also cultural. Hope you both keep giving updates on this topic!
Glad it was helpful!
and also there are a lot of European women seeking PH men .... there is a growing population of US women seeking PH men lately
Im 37, getting married next year to a 28 year old filipina and bringing her home. Just be smart, dont pick someone way out of your league and age, treat her realy well and make a deal on how to suport her family. I have no guarantee it will work, but you only live once and prenup is of course a must.
I am male 55 from the Uk and my Thai wife is 35 and we have been happily married for over 5 years . I love my wife and my step-daughter and have never been happier. I am widely travelled and i am a qualified teacher. I have immersed myself in Thai life and dont have any intention of going back to the Uk as my life is here now. I hate the biased oponionated Western women I see online who think all middle aged western men are sex-pats and all Thai young women are hookers . They need to seriously realise that some people are not interested in them and vis versa. Asian women are generally more feminine whereas generally I find Western Women are too bolshy and this is not a good fit with me.
Yeah as a young American guy in his late 20s, it seems like a lot of women aren't really ready for commitment, ready to just get married and moving onto that stage of life, but women my age here in my quite liberal city mostly are still in that casual mindset. Nothing wrong with that, but it seems like it's hard to come by now
I do worry for the young Filipino guys, really wish the problem was addressed back in the US, outsourcing dating seems unsustainable
There’s nothing you can do in the US. It’s a lost cause at this point
They want to throw their stink box around with several Chads , Tyrones or low base pookies and when they have their box worn out , they say they want a "High Value Man" or the "Nice Guy" she friend zone or ghosted at the beginning 😂😆 😂😆😆😆
I was in The Philippines 🇵🇭 as a boy 👦 years ago and, as a man 👨, recently in December 2022. American English is used there. It is a 2nd official language.
Age gap dating/marriage is a mixed bag in the USA. That is why people either love or hate Leo DiCapprio, no in-between here. But in The Philippines 🇵🇭, age gap dating/marriage is common. Few argue against it. #Passport
Thanks for the comment!
I married a Canadian guy, we are both in our early 30's, I am a year older than him. I am from one of those countries people look down to. The attitude feminist western women have is appalling.
And the real kicker is that it's so negative, isn't it? How can people with such an unhappy way of looking at things be happy? There's nothing wrong with women wanting to be treated fairly, but it's far beyond that in these modern times.
After 3 years, I still laugh when people say 'Passport Bros' like its a serious topic.
Helping the family in the Philippines is common. The parents are helping their children to go to school that's why mostly of the children graduated from college, so the children's make the point to help the family. They are grateful for their parents. Children are grateful to their parents.
The regular filipino students do not work part time to pay for their tuition, the parents work to pay for their kids education. When the children find jobs after graduation, they normally think of helping out their parents and family. Family is big in the Philippines.
It's great to see two intelligent people talking about a topic like this without attacking each other. Your chemistry is very good. Hugs from Brazil!!!
Age gap:
I have thought about this for awhile, and I’ve come to the conclusion it is not about age as a number (much like body count is not about the actual number). It is about the emotional maturity and life situation.
You might be very mature and fully integrated into a professional corporate life at the age of 25, then getting with a 25-year-old college student who is only thinking about partying and hasn’t matured at all. It’s going to be a bad match even if the ages are the same .
That same 25-year-old would be a far better match for someone in a similar situation. Be that person 40 or 50
It’s not only about life situation, it’s perhaps also about wanting family or not. What kind of health are you in or not …
Also, there might be a 40-year-old virgin late bloomer, who has just stepped into life, that 40-year-old will probably have more in common with a 28 year old, who is just starting in life than someone who is also 40 and very well established in life with a family and all
This scenario fits well for resources too. Same financial situation. Aka no exploitation.
A 40 year old about the party life will be a better match for a 23 year old party person than another family orientated 40 year old
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Age gap by number makes no sense
Age gap by maturity and situation (power imbalance), make more sense
I'm 22 living in London... I swear I'm counting the days to go to Spain or Colombia plus my small business to thrive and live a good life for myself and my future wife and kids
Yeah fellow Londoner here. Colombia is a great choice! You just need to know Spanish quite well to make the most of it.
Thank you for the discussion. I am fortunate to live in a very multicultural area of the US. I have dated from a lot of different cultures and backgrounds and have seen a lot of things. My recommendation for guys going this route is it is not as simple as it seems. An open mind and patience are critical. The rewards are there though.
Philippines was a colony also of the US for 50 years. Americans are accepted here. Almost every one also wants to go to the US.
I'm a foreigner who lived in the states. AW and a lot of other western veemen are extremely picky, and entitled. Between the cheaper cost of living abroad, and more opportunities to find a good gal, more men will keep leaving the states and other westernized countries behind.
Where do you live now?
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast I'm in southernmost part of South America currently.
Men crave respect....if Western women don't respect men, men goes to a place where they are respected
I already have a two month trip planned to canvass the Phillippines for a suitable home base. I didn't understand my desire to move there until another youtuber explained it perfectly. I wanted to work and be on vacation at the same time. Plus there's a franchise called "Messy Burger" and by God I will eat there before I die. Maybe I'm just easy to please. As far as the women I don't really care. If I meet someone nice, great, if not, also great.
American women getting mad that average men they aren’t even interested in are leaving are now seeing the consequences of always chasing the better option or having too high of standards.
I'm 20 yrs old and I'm working really hard to educate myself so I can afford to live in these countries
I’m a Filipino male and opposite happened to me a white woman that I was having sexual relations with told me. Her “you know why I like you?”. Me: uh no? Her: “it’s because your ethic” Me: wtf!?
I'm half asian half white and had the same experience lol.
I get white girls with asian fetishes trying to date me. I'm done with western girls now though, don't want to waste my time on them. (I'm from UK)
Im a #Passportbro #PassportKing myself
There's no DIVORCE in the Philippines.. marriage is a commitment, only way out is dissolution of marriage and it will cost you an arm and a leg. Ponder and select the right one for you. Your brain and your heart works in tandem, so don't rush and pick your apple. There are so many, many good apples in the Philippines by the way.
im 26 and will eventually move to southeast Asia to find a partner. Men are attracted based on their economic worth to women. Doesnt matter what country that is. At least in the south east asian countries they have traditional values, morals, and respect for a man and what he does for the women and the family. Appreciation goes a long way.
This is one of the most thoughtful talks on this subject. Great video! I would add that "If" Gen Z believes 50/50 in a relationship will work that's still the delusion that got us here in the first place. It's 100/100 that works. In addition, Gen Z has no desire for marriage, which leaves us with zero commitment relationships. Plus decline in desire for children. Lose lose situation. Passport is the way to go. I've been fortunate to grow up with Filipino friends here in the states. Some of my best friends to this day. Their culture even here is infectiously fun, friendly and more traditional. FLIP acronym is Fun Loving Island People
Most foreigners here in the Philippines are above 50 years old who have separated from their spouses in western countries. came here to find second chance in their lives or the last chance to live in peace and not worry that one day they will grow old alone in life and sad✌️👍
In the tourist areas the foreigners are young 20’s, 30’s
Add to the fact that all the Filipina celebrities, the most good looking filipinos who became actors, models, and successful in the show business industry are offspring of a Passport bro who are married to Filipina..
We never thought of that! Thanks for the comment
Certainly. For some reason, a Filipino-Western mix produce beautiful offsprings. Most likely, the kids will be called mestizas, they look like Latinos/Latinas.
filipinas are already in tinder and tiktok etc... ,they are already aware what their value is ,they just dont choose to be like that
Thank you for this Video WESTERN WOMEN DON'TT KNOW ABOUT US FILIPINOS... THIS MAN (your guest) knows a lot about us...YES, WE DO SEND MONEY BACK HOME TO HELP & SUPPORT OUR PARENTS (OUR FAMILY)...THAT'S HOW WE ARE - KIND, CARING & SUPPORTIVE. EVEN THOUGH WE ARE POOR WE ARE STILL HAPPY PEOPLE.
Thanks for the comment!
In the Philippines, they don’t even have the Mandatory Eviction when you turned 18 yrs old!
Consider all the Filipina Nurse's that are in the USA and around the world.
Not all men want to bring their Filipino wife back to the United States. The Philippines is a great place to live
The only thing that I feel may end up raising concerns that don’t really concern me, are the men literally moving because they assume other women in other countries are “easier” or happy to put up with negativity. I know that isn’t true so I’m still supportive of this movement
Hi. I like this podcast and Todd have wide knowledge about Filipina dating foreigners. He is right on many aspect.
Filipinas don't mind age gap.
I think the major reason we can't date Filipinos who are much older than us is because most Filipinos marry at a young age. So older single men in the market is scarce. 😅 But since you have divorce in the US, you have many older single men
Anyway, we filipinas are easy to please but we don't take bullshit easily. We are very forgiving if we love our man though. But our line can snap too.
Big age gaps like men in their 60s dating a woman in her early 20s raises the eyebrows of many here. We are just not so vocal on the social media about that and we tend to be supportive if they're happy. When we see a big age gap couple here, we say she's in for the money and he's in for the sex and a free caregiver.
Filipinas are practical women. From the standpoint of many Filipina I know who married much older foreigner guy, they say because he is sweet, loving, caring, attentive, treats her with respect (which is so different from most Filipino men), and the financial security. I think any woman would prefer a guy who is romantic, sweet, loyal, understanding, and can financially take care of her.
My American boyfriend said he don't like American women now because they're too self centered. They demand for what the guy can offer for them in the relationship but they themselves have nothing or have too little to offer in the table. That's why he prefers a Filipina for the traditional values that would make us good life partners.
I'm 21 and I'm looking for someone to date for marriage!! (I'm Filipina)
What you said about younger guys not joining is not correct its not about getting a younger woman. Its about being respected and appreciated I am 24 was I will be joining as i say this there is a 21 year that works online and is in the Philippines right now. Also a guy in the comments is 19 and will be joining.
In support what he said religion plays an important role in the life of filipinas that wives must be submissive to her husband that whats we learnd from the bible, remember that filipinos are religious.
More and more passport bro's aren't even returning to the West, the environment here is just too hedonistic and "loveless". EVERYTHING in relationships is a transaction. Even love
Not all of them moved to US, some of them preferred to stay in their hime country. Some of them too after many years living in the US preferred to go back again in their own country to retired and stay for good
I'm 24, and I am giving very serious consideration to taking the plunge and attempting this. The dating pool here is doomed
It will be very interesting to make a content about bi-racial offsprings between Filipino women and foreign men (of whatever race really)... i suggest this because i've seen first hand that if a Filipina bears a foreigner's baby, said baby tend to be really attractive.. my grandaughter looks like a future model even at 11 years old..
In the Philippines Mestisos or half whites kids are seen as higher class people, they are the ones you'll see in movies, commercials, etc... half-white kids are insured to enjoy privilege.
The future of dating is global.
a relationship that makes you smile everyday
is the one everybody seeks
Emily you're such a beautiful person. Thank you for making things right, helping woman and man at same time
You are so welcome!
it's trending now to younger and younger guys going as passport bros
respect is the key word...
This is very interesting… I am a Filipino and with the analyses and facts presented by Tod, I am starting to believe that he himself is Pinoy. 😊
I’m not lol but have a great respect for the women of the Philippines
I became a passport bro before it was a popular trend, but I did it for the same reasons that men are doing it today. Many women are too masculine and disagreeable, and there is far too much promiscuity, even with apparently 'nice girls'. I would say to all men watching this type of programme that my experience has been entirely positive, and you will be amazed at the experience when you get to meet this type of woman. There are some young guys in the comments - focus on yourself and your career and then go marry a good girl from Philippines etc. Then live the dream and build a life together.
Great comment!
Thinking about the age gap issue from a 60's-year-old guy's perspective that is about to move to PH. I look at it a couple ways// 1). I know I can survive very well on my Social Security and pension there (NOT in the US). I know I don't have that many years left so why not be happy (and driven to be more active by a younger woman). 2). From her perspective, her man doesn't have that many more years in the tank, she (and her family) can enjoy a better lifestyle and potentially receive death benefits that really set them up for a better future AND is still young enough to start a new relationship w/ another foreign man.
Excellent comment! Thank you
Salute Men. Please Get you're Passports and get out of the Matrix.
Passport bros are young. The older guys you are talking about have been coming to the Philippines since world war 2. Passport Bros, Joes and Chos are 18 to 40 year olds coming over right now. You guys need to research more. I'm Filipino.
Got mine. I'm engaged to a Filipina. She's 32. I'm 58. I've visited her twice, and am about to go for a third visit. My plan is to bring her back. She's college educated (an accountant). She's beautiful, traditional and appreciative of everything I do for her. Men want younger women, period. Younger is always better for most men. It's in our biology.
Don’t bring her back!
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast Why is that?
@@robbiehenderson9582 _Every single time_ someone brings the wife back she gets poisoned by American culture and turns rotten just like the women he tried to leave behind.
I've seen this first-hand multiple times, and that's before all of the testimonies of other men (most of them veterans) doing (and suffering) the same.
You found your woman. If you marry her, _you do not come back._
Yes you will see younger men getting their passports as well. They will be going to Center & South America not southeast Asia. Asia will be almost exclusively for older men who are typically retired.
The men are is a more vulnerable position in the USA in Family and Divorce Court.
I'm 23, 24 next month and I've been single for about 1 and a half years now. Here tbh relationships ain't worth it. I'm looking forward to leaving and being happy elsewhere.
Why is love judged. If two people find each love. And be wanted. Western women are now suffering their climb to be independent. They want independence. Great. Other women in Asia know a man and woman become one. Not a competition
Todd I dont think this feminism will last much longer. The western world will completely tank
You may have a point
I don’t know, I don’t think feminism is going anywhere anytime soon
Women's high standards in the west are tied to an illusion provided by a fiat currency. The minute hard times return, it's going to humble them, hard!
I agree. When Western men stop pursuing and don't marry these Western women, the birthrate will drop. Business and Government won't like this and will begin to roll back some of these feminist anti-men laws. There is going to be reckoning for Western women.
Ty and Joanna story in youtube. A typical relationship that men wants.
I've been one year in Asia. Met wonderful women, still think could be marvelous life partner. When I came back dating apps seem here so much harsh, difficult, unkind, complicated place to be for fine men
0:10 "...that's a pretty big age gap. That's a concern where we live." You mean in the US? A man in his 60's with a 20 year old woman is a "concern" for American women. Typical she implies all Americans have the concern.
I'm 66 planning a move to Philippines next year, getting married and having kids. WOW American go ape s*&% hearing that. But logically this makes a lot of sense. My kids will be able to work in both US and PH, Speak fluent English and Filipino. Mixed kids tend to be very attractive. I have the resources to provide for my wife through her retirement and my kids thru college. I'll have time to spend with my kids. My Dad was always at work when I was growing up. I have so much more to teach my kids. Raising kids in the Filipino culture is much better for them than being spoiled in the US. My Filipina wife will be getting exactly what she wants, to be a mother and wife. A secure life and a loyal man.
Dan Ariely has done a lot of studies on beauty and attractiveness. A 20 year old woman can find a 60's man as attractive.
Do you have any links to studies he’s been involved in or discussed? And thanks for your comment.
Am Filipino, and you seem to have done your research and mapped out the strategies. I assure you, as senior guy, you are so on-point. Have a nice day!
I’m a good looking 34 yo with a fantastic body and great personality and I’m struggling in the US. I’m getting my passport this week. There are greener pastures out there!!!
collectivist society
The Philippines is a collectivist society, in which the needs of the family are prioritized over the needs of the individual. Filipinos value social harmony and maintaining smooth relationships, which means they may often avoid expressing their true opinions or delivering unwanted news.
Kinship society is a better description than collectivist which has a negative stigma.
Missing some of the reasons. Men are going abroad to avoid the western divorce court problems.
Divorce is not allowed in the Philippines.
Bring a foreign woman back? Bad idea. Pilipino women prefer a simple life. They don’t get their nails done all the time.
The culture overall is more cooperative because they work together to survive.
Staying in these countries is the better more affordable option which keeps the cooperative mindset intact.
I neve really came back after going over seas in military, night and day...Latin America was/is great.