Keep doing it all for that MASCULINE providing king sis ❤ these jealous girls don’t know what they’re missing out on 😂 I hope this goes viral this was literally the best mockery grad wife video I’ve seen
I noticed that a lot of propaganda looks just like this. Repeating the same old blah blah blah. I don’t have any dusty men in my life, it sucks that so many haven’t met a decent man like ever.
Thank God , the stay at home wives i know have clean rooms otherwise i find it really difficult to leave my kids at their home while i am working morning to night
My husband passed away 9 months ago- I truly wish I had all those empty cups, dirty socks and underwear to pick up 😢 I miss making him coffee in the morning and going shopping together.
does he do the same for you? also you arent a stahm if you have a side gig really? or are you? this video this mocking the sexist brain washed "traditionalists" or rathe 1950 cosplayers funny enouch they forget not being pumped full of drugs by their husbands when they dont perform properly in the household, or being locked away in asylums and reeplaced by a younger and newer model when they husband chooses to.and they forget that women throughout history especially working class and poor women always worked and did domestic work and child care (which yes is exploitative and over work but still) and rich women had staff they didnt do domestic work or even really raise their own kids and they had their own inheritance that their husbands would take over (men are the og gold diggers because men would seek out rich or high status women because they new her money would become his). also happy for you are not in this night mare scenario that is being shown here.
Most black women aren’t traditional wives so as a black women I don’t see the need to put attention to such content creators most black women have always had to work in the country historically……… so I’m confused 🫤
if he isnt compensating you, making sure you have a nest egg, putting your sole name onto property or vehicles, making sure that wether debt or other people can get to your resources if he passes or bad things happen to him, if he dosent hire a staff or some staff to support you in the domestic work and child care (that kind of man needs to be very well off) if his money is not your money and your money your money. You are being overworked/exploited or scammed babes. It's not healthy or reasonable to work as a home maker for the average man. The average men cannot affort the fully compensate the services of a home maker has to be financially very well of and also willing and eager to compensate (rich men can be financially abusive or scrooges as well). Too many husbands are pigs and KINGbabies or weaponize incompetence or disregarding/devaluing of the work load and labour of their trad wives. Alot of trad wives do no respect themselves and their labour and that is the gag. It's litterally feminist that even want you to be treated better. If it were for me trad wives /home makers.sahm would be recognized as a job and career and be given labour laws to protect them and the government should compensate them for contributing to society and employers of their husbands should also contribute to the wife as the reason the husband can even work like that is due to the wifes support and to support the future labourers the kids also contribute to their futures. But traditionalist do not actually care to recognise and value womens labour and contribution they just want gender based slavery. And that is why i dont take them seriously. Respect yourself and respect women first then we can talk
When you have to use a video of a weeks worth of living like a pig to make a day in the life of a trad wife look bad😂 A real day in the life of a real trad wife, not the social media ones. Wake up an hour early to make breakfast while enjoying the silence. Wake hubby and kids up so we all can eat breakfast together in our pj's. Get kids and hubby off to school/work, get dressed myself clean up breakfast dishes. Get laundry in the washer and while they are going do whatever cleaning needs to be done while listening to my favorite songs. By 9 am all the housework is done and laundry is on the line blowing in the breeze while I sit at the patio table enjoying a cup of coffee, reading the news and relaxing until the laundry dries and it is time to cook lunch. Put up laundry While cooking lunch I plan dinner, eat lunch and take a plate to my husbands work. Run some errands and go back home to take a nap before the kids get home from school. Spend time with kids, watch TV and wait to make dinner. Make dinner in time to be done when hubby gets home and we all sit down to eat dinner together. Clean up from dinner Go spend time with hubby and kids until bath time. Get all the kids to pick up their toys and such, then into the bath and bed. Then shower myself before going to bed. Hubby takes care of his own bath time. If I were to calculate the amount of actual 'labor' in the average day it would have been around 6 hrs and that includes cooking the meals that I also ate. Not too bad to work 6 hrs over the whole day with time for relaxation and a nap versus 8 hrs all in one go with little to no breaks just to come home exhausted.
@@magnarcreed3801 Kids in public school is the typical version of a stay at home wife. Those social media versions are the extreme version at best or completely fake all together. As for it being horrible, perhaps you just like slaving all day trying to please your employer like the majority of women do but I think that is absolutely horrible AF. I know that for a fact because I have been there and done that too.
@@MA-mh1vs I am happy you are happy with your life, but one thing i noted you talk about your husband like an extra kid (older kid). He baths himself?? why need to mention that of course he should bath himself, he should also get himself done and wake himself in the morning as an adult. I respect your work maybe more so then you do (i notice you left out some steps and work or glossed over it) just because you like your labour still does not mean it is still not labour. I love my work it has been my dream since 7th grade and is very fullfilling doesnt pays okay but I am still in the early faces and i have flexible hours and many benefits I only work 8 hours on 1 day incuding 1.5 hour break and 1 hour sitting in a meetting for feedback. And i would still never want to live your life it is my nightmare scenario but I am happy for you and that you dont have to live or work outside of the home when you dont like it. Also it is not slavery if you are getting money straight into your bank accout and work benefits and can get sick leave, vacation time and bonuses and support for your retirement, also my job also support and pays for me getting more certifications. I aim to open my own similar company as well and they are supportive of that. SAHM your financial dependency is risky not just for you but also for your kids. Unless your husband is a millionare or makes 6 figures, your situation can turn very precarious if he gets sick, layed off, if there comes some serious health issue with any of your family memebrs ( i pray you all stay healthy and blessed) the financial burden of that could de stablise your life style, what happens when you get sick. Does the house still run if you need a solo break, vacation or get sick and need to rest or do you work when sick dont go on vacation alone. As someone who had to stand in as parentified kid to my mom I have a very sobering view of trad life and dont have rose tinted glasses for it. I do belive you that you have "light days like what you describe". But what about days when the kids or husband or you are sick? Do you kids not have regular check ups and does your husband manage his own health care (appointment, meds and treatments and check ups). Do you never go grocery shopping and regularly? What about spring cleaning? Sifting through the things you dont need and throwing out old things (kids grow fast and keeping everthing makes it cluttered and collects dust and could bring infestations). A house needs maintainance (inside and out) who is responsible for that? There are different layers and level of chores, daily even bi daily chores, weekly chores, monthly chrores, yearly one. There is also the panning and managing of everything, kids arent plants they need specific care their hygiene, health also mental health, making sure they are overall developing properly (were the parental nurturing and guidance comes in), be taken on outings even vacation (to learn but also to relax and have fun), do your kids not to extra curricular things for their development and enjoyment and who keeps track of that? Who organises and plans and sets up birthdays, family vacations, family gatherings etc. You havent listend any of the "invisible" labour I know that sahms or any mom and wife do for that matter. You dont have to answer anything that is your private life and none of my buisness. I am not trying to make you feel bad for your life but rather trying to show you that you are (maybe) devaluing your labour and also showing you why some women would not want to work that much or at least in that field of being a home maker. I have respect for home makers but that is too much for one person ( in modern days people for get that women in the past had staff, slaves , community or joined family units or servants to support them in the labour and child care, this thing of doing everything alone is alot we see this in how many 1950s wives were medicated or alcoholic and how the average sahm mom in moden days overeall health is worse and life span is shorter then single and child free women's. This is not to be shady or say sahm moms should not exist but rather to say that the situation alot of sahm are in is not healthy and there needs to be improvement FOR them to be healther overall and live longer lives in those situations (btw married men with kids live longer and have healthier lives then single men without kids) this also shows that the dynamic is flawed and there needs to be improvement there (not to scratch or belittle trad relationships but an improvement of it so it is truly mutually empowering and beneficial and health doesnt deteriorate only on womens side)
@@rene3759 The mention of his bathing was because I had in the beginning of the marriage prepare his bath for him but he requested that I did not do so any longer for the vary thing you interpreted it as. He said it made him feel like a child and though I did not in any way view him like that and considered it an act of love for him at the end of his workday he did not so I stopped. It was just a difference in how we grew up, my mother prepared my father's bath, made his plates and got his drinks for him. This was normal behavior for me but my husband thought differently. So I placed all the food on the table and he made his own plate, he prepared his own bath and occasionally he asked me to get him something to drink but usually got it himself. It was an adjustment for me to adapt to what he preferred over what I considered being a good wife but doing things that made him feel less of a man was not being a good wife.
@@rene3759 My kids are grown now but I took care of their appointments which were usually annual checkups because they were very healthy as is their father. If I got sick my mother stepped in to help, one time my immune system crashed and I could not even leave the house for two months and my kids went to live with my mom.That was hard because my youngest was just a few months old at the time and I could only see them from a distance in her car. Her and my husband did all the shopping and anything else I usually did. We did not take vacations, I know that is odd but we were happy to do stuff locally like going to the movies or the lake. Sometimes we would have backyard camping and let the kids invite their friends. In the winter we set up a tent in the family room and the kids cooked hot dogs and s'mores in the fireplace. The fall was the annual clean out time, clothes, toys and whatever else needed to go for donation and they were replaced during the holiday sales. I shopped in bulk so I didn't have to shop often or fro many things at once. Yes it is financially risky to have just one income source but it isn't like I could not work if it was needed. Babysitters are always in demand, I knew a couple who ran a 24/7 daycare from their home and made $7,000 a month and that was 20 yrs ago.
You are living that feminine energy. So lucky to have such a masculine man who lets you do his laundry and dishes 😂
I love it. Sarcasm at its best 😂
They always do that pained smile and sway in front of the camera at the start too bahaha 😂
My eye twitched at the laundry
This needs to go viral pls 😭
Soooo jealous, indeed!
I’m slightly confused your not his mom 🤣
This had me giggling like a hyena 🤣💀 this is too funny… 🥲
Keep doing it all for that MASCULINE providing king sis ❤ these jealous girls don’t know what they’re missing out on 😂 I hope this goes viral this was literally the best mockery grad wife video I’ve seen
I noticed that a lot of propaganda looks just like this. Repeating the same old blah blah blah. I don’t have any dusty men in my life, it sucks that so many haven’t met a decent man like ever.
You are the genius linguist 😅😅😅😅
You rock 👍🏻😂 just great ❤️
Oh yeah, totally jealous 😂
😂 this is my damn life😂😂 im screaming
Thank God , the stay at home wives i know have clean rooms
otherwise i find it really difficult to leave my kids at their home while i am working morning to night
My husband passed away 9 months ago- I truly wish I had all those empty cups, dirty socks and underwear to pick up 😢 I miss making him coffee in the morning and going shopping together.
I feel you, my husband passed away 1,5 years ago
🕊️ Sorry for your loss.
They don't understand this
Sorry for your loss. I lost my partner, too, but I miss the good times, not the mess he used to leave behind... well, we all have our flaws...
@@CS-bu7lo well, looks like you have feelings bottled up
That’s just ridiculous. I’m a stay at home wife and mother with a side gig. I don’t pick up after him if he’s a slob….I do if he’s busy to help out.
does he do the same for you? also you arent a stahm if you have a side gig really? or are you? this video this mocking the sexist brain washed "traditionalists" or rathe 1950 cosplayers funny enouch they forget not being pumped full of drugs by their husbands when they dont perform properly in the household, or being locked away in asylums and reeplaced by a younger and newer model when they husband chooses to.and they forget that women throughout history especially working class and poor women always worked and did domestic work and child care (which yes is exploitative and over work but still) and rich women had staff they didnt do domestic work or even really raise their own kids and they had their own inheritance that their husbands would take over (men are the og gold diggers because men would seek out rich or high status women because they new her money would become his). also happy for you are not in this night mare scenario that is being shown here.
Most black women aren’t traditional wives so as a black women I don’t see the need to put attention to such content creators most black women have always had to work in the country historically……… so I’m confused 🫤
Lol
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But this isn't the way it is for every traditional wife. Not every husband is a pig.
if he isnt compensating you, making sure you have a nest egg, putting your sole name onto property or vehicles, making sure that wether debt or other people can get to your resources if he passes or bad things happen to him, if he dosent hire a staff or some staff to support you in the domestic work and child care (that kind of man needs to be very well off) if his money is not your money and your money your money. You are being overworked/exploited or scammed babes. It's not healthy or reasonable to work as a home maker for the average man. The average men cannot affort the fully compensate the services of a home maker has to be financially very well of and also willing and eager to compensate (rich men can be financially abusive or scrooges as well). Too many husbands are pigs and KINGbabies or weaponize incompetence or disregarding/devaluing of the work load and labour of their trad wives. Alot of trad wives do no respect themselves and their labour and that is the gag. It's litterally feminist that even want you to be treated better. If it were for me trad wives /home makers.sahm would be recognized as a job and career and be given labour laws to protect them and the government should compensate them for contributing to society and employers of their husbands should also contribute to the wife as the reason the husband can even work like that is due to the wifes support and to support the future labourers the kids also contribute to their futures. But traditionalist do not actually care to recognise and value womens labour and contribution they just want gender based slavery. And that is why i dont take them seriously. Respect yourself and respect women first then we can talk
It’s this type of women specifically with husbands like this
For housewives with decent husbands, sure. That's exactly how it is for tradwives.
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When you have to use a video of a weeks worth of living like a pig to make a day in the life of a trad wife look bad😂
A real day in the life of a real trad wife, not the social media ones.
Wake up an hour early to make breakfast while enjoying the silence.
Wake hubby and kids up so we all can eat breakfast together in our pj's.
Get kids and hubby off to school/work, get dressed myself clean up breakfast dishes.
Get laundry in the washer and while they are going do whatever cleaning needs to be done while listening to my favorite songs.
By 9 am all the housework is done and laundry is on the line blowing in the breeze while I sit at the patio table enjoying a cup of coffee, reading the news and relaxing until the laundry dries and it is time to cook lunch.
Put up laundry
While cooking lunch I plan dinner, eat lunch and take a plate to my husbands work.
Run some errands and go back home to take a nap before the kids get home from school.
Spend time with kids, watch TV and wait to make dinner.
Make dinner in time to be done when hubby gets home and we all sit down to eat dinner together.
Clean up from dinner
Go spend time with hubby and kids until bath time.
Get all the kids to pick up their toys and such, then into the bath and bed. Then shower myself before going to bed. Hubby takes care of his own bath time.
If I were to calculate the amount of actual 'labor' in the average day it would have been around 6 hrs and that includes cooking the meals that I also ate.
Not too bad to work 6 hrs over the whole day with time for relaxation and a nap versus 8 hrs all in one go with little to no breaks just to come home exhausted.
Na fam. Sounds horrible af. Also stupid risky.
And that’s the easy version with the kids in school.
@@magnarcreed3801 Kids in public school is the typical version of a stay at home wife. Those social media versions are the extreme version at best or completely fake all together.
As for it being horrible, perhaps you just like slaving all day trying to please your employer like the majority of women do but I think that is absolutely horrible AF. I know that for a fact because I have been there and done that too.
@@MA-mh1vs I am happy you are happy with your life, but one thing i noted you talk about your husband like an extra kid (older kid). He baths himself?? why need to mention that of course he should bath himself, he should also get himself done and wake himself in the morning as an adult. I respect your work maybe more so then you do (i notice you left out some steps and work or glossed over it) just because you like your labour still does not mean it is still not labour. I love my work it has been my dream since 7th grade and is very fullfilling doesnt pays okay but I am still in the early faces and i have flexible hours and many benefits I only work 8 hours on 1 day incuding 1.5 hour break and 1 hour sitting in a meetting for feedback. And i would still never want to live your life it is my nightmare scenario but I am happy for you and that you dont have to live or work outside of the home when you dont like it. Also it is not slavery if you are getting money straight into your bank accout and work benefits and can get sick leave, vacation time and bonuses and support for your retirement, also my job also support and pays for me getting more certifications. I aim to open my own similar company as well and they are supportive of that. SAHM your financial dependency is risky not just for you but also for your kids. Unless your husband is a millionare or makes 6 figures, your situation can turn very precarious if he gets sick, layed off, if there comes some serious health issue with any of your family memebrs ( i pray you all stay healthy and blessed) the financial burden of that could de stablise your life style, what happens when you get sick. Does the house still run if you need a solo break, vacation or get sick and need to rest or do you work when sick dont go on vacation alone. As someone who had to stand in as parentified kid to my mom I have a very sobering view of trad life and dont have rose tinted glasses for it.
I do belive you that you have "light days like what you describe". But what about days when the kids or husband or you are sick? Do you kids not have regular check ups and does your husband manage his own health care (appointment, meds and treatments and check ups). Do you never go grocery shopping and regularly? What about spring cleaning? Sifting through the things you dont need and throwing out old things (kids grow fast and keeping everthing makes it cluttered and collects dust and could bring infestations). A house needs maintainance (inside and out) who is responsible for that? There are different layers and level of chores, daily even bi daily chores, weekly chores, monthly chrores, yearly one. There is also the panning and managing of everything, kids arent plants they need specific care their hygiene, health also mental health, making sure they are overall developing properly (were the parental nurturing and guidance comes in), be taken on outings even vacation (to learn but also to relax and have fun), do your kids not to extra curricular things for their development and enjoyment and who keeps track of that? Who organises and plans and sets up birthdays, family vacations, family gatherings etc. You havent listend any of the "invisible" labour I know that sahms or any mom and wife do for that matter. You dont have to answer anything that is your private life and none of my buisness. I am not trying to make you feel bad for your life but rather trying to show you that you are (maybe) devaluing your labour and also showing you why some women would not want to work that much or at least in that field of being a home maker. I have respect for home makers but that is too much for one person ( in modern days people for get that women in the past had staff, slaves , community or joined family units or servants to support them in the labour and child care, this thing of doing everything alone is alot we see this in how many 1950s wives were medicated or alcoholic and how the average sahm mom in moden days overeall health is worse and life span is shorter then single and child free women's. This is not to be shady or say sahm moms should not exist but rather to say that the situation alot of sahm are in is not healthy and there needs to be improvement FOR them to be healther overall and live longer lives in those situations (btw married men with kids live longer and have healthier lives then single men without kids) this also shows that the dynamic is flawed and there needs to be improvement there (not to scratch or belittle trad relationships but an improvement of it so it is truly mutually empowering and beneficial and health doesnt deteriorate only on womens side)
@@rene3759 The mention of his bathing was because I had in the beginning of the marriage prepare his bath for him but he requested that I did not do so any longer for the vary thing you interpreted it as. He said it made him feel like a child and though I did not in any way view him like that and considered it an act of love for him at the end of his workday he did not so I stopped. It was just a difference in how we grew up, my mother prepared my father's bath, made his plates and got his drinks for him. This was normal behavior for me but my husband thought differently. So I placed all the food on the table and he made his own plate, he prepared his own bath and occasionally he asked me to get him something to drink but usually got it himself. It was an adjustment for me to adapt to what he preferred over what I considered being a good wife but doing things that made him feel less of a man was not being a good wife.
@@rene3759 My kids are grown now but I took care of their appointments which were usually annual checkups because they were very healthy as is their father.
If I got sick my mother stepped in to help, one time my immune system crashed and I could not even leave the house for two months and my kids went to live with my mom.That was hard because my youngest was just a few months old at the time and I could only see them from a distance in her car. Her and my husband did all the shopping and anything else I usually did.
We did not take vacations, I know that is odd but we were happy to do stuff locally like going to the movies or the lake. Sometimes we would have backyard camping and let the kids invite their friends. In the winter we set up a tent in the family room and the kids cooked hot dogs and s'mores in the fireplace.
The fall was the annual clean out time, clothes, toys and whatever else needed to go for donation and they were replaced during the holiday sales.
I shopped in bulk so I didn't have to shop often or fro many things at once.
Yes it is financially risky to have just one income source but it isn't like I could not work if it was needed. Babysitters are always in demand, I knew a couple who ran a 24/7 daycare from their home and made $7,000 a month and that was 20 yrs ago.