I had a hard time with that back in the day. My parents both died within 3 months of different cancers when I was 22. I drowned myself in a bottle. I quit when best friend passed of cirrhosis at 28. It’s a very human thing to seek things that will distract us from our grief or our problems
Great job man watched my Dad suffer that also almost lost a younger brother to drinking he had a heart attack and now has wet brain he jumped over to weed badly now it is that . I am going through a fight myself 3 weeks no smoking I have energy to spare except now I want to eat everything in sight just keeping my hands and mind busy staying aware not to pick up a different habit or increase one I have. When I feel weak I tell myself to appreciate the natural experience the lord gives me and to try and find appreciation for even some of he smallest things. I have coffee it nags at me i finish eating again it calls but I say no to myself. And dad died lung cancer to I am trying to win a battle he lost to keep up the fight .
“For time and the world do not stand still. Change is the law of life, and those who look only to the past or present, are certain to miss the future.”
@@eltonpontez5226 i’m sorry brother, i think you replied to the wrong person, unless i misunderstood you, i never mentioned any cartoons, i do agree with you though many of them are societal parodies/commentary.
Same I’m 24 and lost. Just started studying for the ASVAB and thinking about joining the military. It’ll give me a sense of purpose and meet new brothers all bonded by the same purpose.
You're not alone! Thought I had my life figured out, was super happy, lost everything at 25 (or so I thought) am still lost at 30 but pushing through. We keep on pushing and we are never alone. I'm with you! Keep pushing!
@@More_Row I would say, by accepting the fact that life comes with hardship and suffering.. some experience differing levels. We can resist and be angry when the waves come, OR just accept that it's a big part of this life and try to learn something from it. The Lord is always with us, and always teaching us something. This is not our forever home.
8/2, 4:30 am. Can’t sleep. Crack the laptop, and here you are, first thing in my feed. Telling me with serenity and grace exactly what I needed to hear at that moment. May the Lord bless and keep you, brother. This is the third time one of your talks has delivered a message that has given me strength and peace in times of difficulty.
That's the Holy Spirit at work in your life. I encourage you to ponder that - the Living God has reached down into your life THREE TIMES and brought you strength and peace.
Thanks a lot for this. I've had 3 crazy years. I lost a lot of money and working my ass of to pay all my debts. In 2 weeks I'm getting married I just got out from the hospital and i'm really struggling with everything. I don't know if you will ever see this but thanks for your message. I am so close into ending a this crazy chapter in my life and I'm really praying to GOD for strenght each day. To who is reading this: YOU GOT THIS!! Let's GO!
I recently lost my wife of over a decade to cancer leaving me to raise our 3 young kids alone. I asked my 100 year old grandmother for advice after surviving 2 husbands and raised 12 kids. She said “You have to keep going because you don’t have a choice” it wasn’t the advice I was looking for at the time, but looking back, she was right. Just keep going.
Yep. This too shall pass. Been there many times. So sorry for your loss. You’ve got your hands full but love will find a way!! I lost my husband last year and while our kids are grown, it is still very hard. They are in their 20’s.
Good luck brother. Your kids might not know it now, but when they're older, they'll look back and appreciate everything you went through and sacrificed.
keeping this on repeat all day, lol my friends look at me crazy because im a young black dude and they are like what the hell are you watching but through out life i've learned that there is something you can learn from everyone regardless of skin color , i learn so much from you really grateful for finding this channel
Good on you, really. I learned this from Christopher Judge, who played Kratos in the new God of War games. His mother once told him, "Everyone is smarter than you at something, and if you don't figure out what that is and learn from it, that's your fault." You can't discount anyone.
@@themanwhosoldtheworld3639probably just a cultural thing. I’m a 26 year old hip hop loving black dude from some of the roughest spots in Detroit, I couldn’t care two figs about horses, so it’s surprising to me that I come to this Middle Ages conservative cowboy for my weekly doses of wisdom. I guess it shows that Dwight really does speak to the Everyman
@@jordanharkins97Agreed - i have a similar background and watching these videos and reading the comments shows me that despite our background, race, religion or upbringing this speaks to all of us, regardless of our journey. The bottom line - get up and keep going.
My father, a veteran of the Battle of the Bulge, WWII, consistently impressed on me when I was growing up and when confronted with adversity and wanted to quit or was feeling sorry for myself, that to be a man with our name meant that we stand our ground and never give up, because the finest steel must endure the hottest fire. My father walked his talk and demonstrated to me and my siblings what it is to be a man.He also made sure we read the Bible and thanked God for our blessings. Forever grateful for my father's guidance.
“The more responsible we are, the more freedoms we get to enjoy.” - Dave’s Auto Center I always love the wisdom, experience and knowledge that older men (those who do care) pass on to us! It’s always encouraging to see good folks out there as well.
It's 1:30 in morning here in south Texas, Im watching your video for 2nd time! My life was extremely hard in 2015 pancreatic cancer and thanks to my dear god I Won that battle!!! If anyone can survive this terrible disease that's a hard life because a hard life is better than no life"! Thanks for all your messages to encourage others for what's ahead of us!!! GOD BLESS YOU DEWAYNE AND YOUR FAMILY SIR!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏
My wife has had 4 unexpected surgery this years and i had to put a precious horse down on Tuesday, i just keep putting one foot in front of the other , sooner or later ill get out of the mud and back on high ground. Everyday is a gift .
Right Now im going throught unenployment at 22 years old...i have been working since 16 to pay for my things and for the first time in my life im jobless. This times made me think that i have no purpose. Yet somehow i come into one of your videos to hear that "the bell will ring" and made me remeber all the people by my side that have their hopes, that they Belive in me and know that some day i will get throught this hard times. Thank you again for giving me the push i need to keep going
Im a combat veteran and ive had my share of battles, internal and external but this message made me shed a few tears. I believe God watches over his children and this message was from Him to us. Thank you and may God bless you.
I am a 28-year-old English teacher living with my parents in rural Brazil. The salary is terrible, and I need to travel about 50 km three times a week to teach approximately nine classes a day, in addition to some online ones. It's exhausting. I complain every 30 minutes. I have no time for a social or love life, just work. I want to quit now, but at my boss's request, I will endure six months of pure chaos at work. I just want to escape, but I need to endure this beating for my mother. There are other very personal details I can't share here, and after watching this video, I will succeed. Purely out of instinct, pride, and dignity. The bell will ring, and I'll be here to give my interview to Joe Rogan. This is life. React, men. The next round is about to start. Thank you, God.
I mean… I don’t know how is your daily life in there, but why don’t you plan to come to Santa Catarina, mate? You may find better opportunities in here 👀 Just a suggestion tho
That is exactly the mentality I had when at 34 I was diagnosed with cancer. There were so many days I did not want to get up. Many days I did not want to go to work. But I did it any way. Dug deep and found a way. I'm 38 now, cleared of cancer, and share those lessons I learned from those difficult times with the kids I teach, especially the boys.
I’m 25, I smoke myself out everyday, run from the sadness and depression that has seemingly taken me and my life over. I’m completely lost… used to have it all together and ive lost it all. I am moping. I’ve never had a father figure, or any male influence. I needed this so bad so much more than you’ll ever know. Thank you sir. Thank you so much.
I'm the same age as you, went through the exact same thing during the lockdowns. I know it's hard right now brother, but what you're going through right now is one of the greatest opportunities for growth this world can offer. Take care of yourself, and face yourself. Do your best to make of this situation what you can. Feel what you need to feel, and don't run from it. Things will get better, all in due time. I hope you're doing alright there, brother.
You’re not alone bro. Im 23 but From top to bottom of what you said is me also. Hope life is good man. Let’s just keep fighting for ourselves and loved ones 💯
I can’t tell you, Dewayne, how much this video has helped me in my life as a sophomore college student. In my humble opinion, this video is the best of your videos I’ve yet seen and one of, if not the best video I’ve ever watched on UA-cam. Dewayne, may Almighty God forever bless and protect you, Mama, and Dry Creek Wrangler School.
70 y.o. widow living alone for 11 yrs. on my 3.5 acre place in Texas, I approve this message. Been a widow for 13 yrs. First few years thought I needed a man. Nope, I didn't need an earthly man. I needed the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Men, you do, too. Life IS hard. Harder if you try to do it w/o Jesus Christ. Finally figured out: Don't cry about problems, pray about them. Ask for wisdom from the Holy Spirit, keep doing your best. And always remember to Praise and Thank the Lord for your life.
Thank you so much Dewayne; my fight has been being confined to my wheelchair for the past 5 years because of becoming hemiplegic from a stroke. Many times I have no idea if I’ll ever be able to get back on my feet again; but I keep thinking of it and hoping that someday I’ll be able to. Your encouraging words are so inspiring and very appreciated! Thank you sir!
Me with my ability to speak - oh my God, have I been praying by my bedside with my father and mother for a single time where I can cough and I can talk smoothly again!!!!!!!! 😢😢😢 I just want to figure this all out, man... 😣☹️🥲❤️
train insane - high intensity, multiple days per week. Full body. I'm a physical therapist, and I have heard wild stories of improvements -albeit gradual - where MS, stroke, paraplegic patients suddenly get sensation/movement back. Work hard as hell in your daily life and at the gym with no promise of a miracle - work hard because it's part of who you are, a hard worker. And you may find yourself using those legs one day. Wishing you strength and resilience dude.
Quite frequently I audibly recall a verse that brings comfort. Psalm 116:7,” Be at rest once more, oh my soul, for the Lord has been good to you.” “Be at rest once more..” tells me King David had repeated struggles but recalled who is our source of Peace and strength. Thanks Dewayne for your encouragement.
I needed this, when I was 19 I messed up and got in some trouble and was facing some prison time down here in GA, a few months after that I found out I had a baby on the way and it felt like my world was falling apart and that I wouldn’t be able to be the father I wanted to be but I knew I had to hang in there and do what I could . Back on July 11th 2023 my beautiful baby girl was born. As most other fathers know, it was the greatest day of my life, but I still had that feeling of impending doom on my shoulders. Now I’m 21, and back in April of this year I went to court and had my charges lessened to misdemeanor charges, I only ended up doing 7 days in jail and 2 years of probation now, I unfortunately ended up losing my job at the time also, but I get to come home and go to sleep with my Girls still and that to me is the biggest blessing I’ve ever had. I kept my head up and pushed through the hard times with the thought of being a good father in my head and of course as you said it’s still a little rough… but that’s life. I’ve got the lord and my girls by my side and that’s all I need to get through the rough times.
"if life was easy, you wouldn't appreciate it...and i didn't rasie lazy kids...ya ain't gonna be lazy in body, mind or spirit...and you will thank me later" ~ MY MOM 1973
Everyone needs a man like this in their life. Thank you sir for your wisdom! Former Infantry Marine, have my demons from Afghanistan, came home and now I’m a career fireman. Seen a lot, a lot of death. A lot of broken families, torn out hearts of mothers. It’s so much to deal with, and to try to press on and be the best husband and father I can be is overwhelming at times. This life is incredibly difficult and messy, but it’s folks like you that share these pieces of wisdom that help so much in the day to day. I’ve never seen you or heard of you until this video popped up, hell I’m not even a wrangler but you have a new subscriber all the way in Southeast Tennessee. Wonderful message. Thank you 🙏
Real Wisdom. All Young Men must listen to this. Life is Hard for Men Period. It doesn't mean your life is over, it's an Opportunity to Carve yourself into the Man you want to be. It will be Challenging but will be worth it in the End. Its time to Rise up Spartans!
Damn I needed that Dwayne. Thanks! I’m actually happiest in the trenches and started losing that feel lately. Fighting the battle and overcoming?!? No drug, woman, food, anything, can replace it!
@SD-mj4wr I learned that as you grow, it’s common for things from your past to come back up in your mind, and you’ll feel the need to reprocess and reinterpret them. It’s a good sign; it means you have grown, you are growing, and you have the opportunity to reprocess whatever came up with new eyes and hopefully with kindness, clarity, and compassion for yourself and others.
This Mother needed this today. My son has moved far away. I’ve packed up his belongings in a trailer that is headed to his new home in Oregon. He is weary so I also sent this to him. I love your videos and perspective on life. Hope I get to come out to the school one day. You and mama are so inspiring.
Life is hard, always has been and always will be. TV and social media portray a life that is not real, period! Dwayne, you are an amazing person. Thank you so much for reminding us what we sometimes forget. Stay strong! Ricardo dos Santos
"But for the Grace of God there go I". Remember WHERE your strength to keep fighting comes from. And don't forget to go and recharge, preferably on a daily basis. Thanks Dwayne.
9 months sober today. Life is tough an it sucks. But also its a blessing. I can choose to sit and complain or i can choose to better myself in every possible way. Today i choose to better myself and stay off social media. And at least 3 AA meetings a week to stay well.
You uploaded this at a really pivotal point in my life at this moment & you spoke on every point of what I feel like. Thank you for your timing & wisdom sir.
I'm 23 but I really wished I grew up in your era. I'm black so that probably wouldn't be the best but I remember the days before social media and saw how it affected our generation today. When I was a kid in 8th grade the most social media we had was Facebook and not many used it. Todays society has been brainwashed to believe things that aren't true. They see videos,movies, and TV and think they are not doing something right when in reality that movie or show was designed to have a certain outcome. So definitely agree with your stance
29 y/o female here- I’m battling thyroid cancer as the main breadwinner of my family and I’ve been struggling to get out of bed everyday and go to work. My husband, bless him, has been going to his job plus picking up the slack around the house. Grateful for the strong men out there that silently fight for their families. “The bell will ring.”
When you meet resistance that’s how you know you’re on the right path. Following God is the hardest thing to do right now. It’s part of living as a child of God. People will hate you and will find reasons to hate you. Keep working hard and don’t be a porcelain bowl. Men are bronze bowls. We get beat again and again and AGAIN but we cannot be broken. We still maintain our strength and purpose. Great message sir
"Sometimes I stand between mySELF and my family" - this is something we all do every now and then. Which really is something to think about and work to stop and reverse. Thanks for pointing it out Dewayne
As a Muslim person I love to listen to your life lessons. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I myself also have struggles in my life and cigars seem to relax me and make me even more productive. So I keep smoking my stogie and listen to your advices😊
Dwayne, I'll probably never meet you, but I'm glad you're out there. This is a message that the younger generations need to hear. Desperately need to hear. May God bless and keep you safe. 🙏
We know life is hard. We just hate being told that everything is our fault when our future was stolen from us by banks, politicians, and the older generations.
You're right, anyone over the age of 50 has it all together. All those books written by dead people over the years were actually just talking about millenials and Gen Z. Amazing that they knew. We lost the ability of time travel I guess. Dad' did you miss Dawayne's point?
@@thelostcosmonaut5555everything that happens in your life is your fault and everything that happens in the future was because of this generation wherever is the outcome good or bad old people retire younger people take their places in society and if they are weaker and not so smart we have what we have today
"Stand in the gap" is profound wisdom and a call to action many people (women too) never materialize. Thank you for standing in the gap! May God bless you and your family.
I did NOT come across this channel by accident. Man this is like that Proverbs wisdom in Gods holy word. Very wise words from a brother in Christ geared towards men in how to be REAL men which is exactly what’s needed now days for it seems like men like you and this wisdom is RARE these days. May God keep a protective hedge around you and your during these days and times
My grandfather always told us kids when troubled times come around and they will. He says you either deal with it or have a hard time dealing with it period... Good message your bringing to everyone here ... Thanks for sharing sir 💪
WOW! That was like getting a call from a good friend that knows what is going on in my life right at this moment and he tells me exactly what I needed to hear. I know I am not the only one out there. I bet that some one else is thinking the same thing. Thank Dwane I needed that!
Thank you so much. I have been dealing with a lot emotionally and my family hasn't been very kind to me and all I needed was that encouragement and advice to keep going on. I was about to quit it all and shut myself away for a year but you motivated me enough to keep going on and fight on everyday with a smile. I cannot thank you enough Sir. I wish you well!
Thank you sir! I am thankful to still be in the fight, some don’t get that luxury. You are spot on , age doesn’t help I think it gets harder as you age but that’s just my opinion. Guys are notoriously hard on themselves, I just want to say to the younger generation, don’t be, be kind to yourself and love yourself. Life is real short enjoy the ride!
This is a beautiful message, as a young man about to begin my final year of highschool before College, I feel like this is the perfect message for me to receive. Also, that beard is looking to perfection!
I really like this talk about physical and mental endurance. I think that’s something that many folks are lacking today, but endurance is key to success in life; no matter what you do. Thank you again D’Wayne!!
Thank you God for this timely message. I will get back up and fight. It’s been unfair, it’s been tiring and all.. but I will fight WHOEVER attacks my family’s progress 💪🏼 As you said, “til death do I part”
I am new to your channel. I’m going thru a fight, and this hit me square in the “feels”. I needed to hear this. I have felt alone this whole time. Parts of me feel that God almighty has let me get beat up. Hearing your thoughts and the calmness in your voice. Really help. I will get back up and do my best to smile. “Stand in the door way, and take the beatings, so the ones I love don’t have to.” Thank you.
I'm a 43-year-old man, and I listen to your words with great attention. They resonate with truth, reality, and clarity about what life truly is. Greetings from Portugal.
"Ya cant beat a man that just dont quit." ~Muhammad Ali~ Nobody like a quiter. Especially me! Thank you for this Mr. Noal. I hope all is good and well with you and your loved ones.🙏❤️☺️
Self-awareness, accountability, and mindset make a world of difference in a world that doesn't make sense. Keep your wits about you and remember, what people think about you is none of your business. You got to keep going for yourself because you matter, today, tomorrow, anytime. Wise words once again Dewayne.
I needed this and ill be watching this again to remind myself to keep fighting and never, ever give up. Thank you for the encouragement. Sir, I'm a man who never had a dad in my life. Sometimes I feel lost and its because of my raising. Your videos have helped me alot.
Just found your channel. So happy I did. There is so much depth to your content. So much truth. I feel like a better person for having listened to you. You have a gift for connecting with real people living real life. Thank you for sharing the wisdom and knowledge life has taught you. I’m sure many , like me, truly hear you. No words are wasted. Truth resonates with a sincere seeker.
Thanks so much Dwayne for saying out loud what many of us feel and know to be true but don’t share with family and friends. It’s difficult not only to find that narrow road but to stay and remain on it. I find the greatest challenge in my life has been to get others on to that road. And the greatest words I hope to hear one day are “Well done my good and faithful servant”. !
Thank you Dwayne, this is absolute truth and this was a nice timely reminder. I know you’re a man of God, but as someone who practices Buddhism myself, this resonates to much. It absolutely is our lot to find life hard. Human life by its very nature is hard, that’s why we’re here. Distracting ourselves from that fundamental fact (through alcohol, social media etc) ultimately makes it even more difficult. We have to feel that difficulty and work through it - it’s the only way.
New subscriber. Greetings from Prince Edward Island, Canada. I'm soon to be 61. Divorced in 2004, no children and the days are long and the decades are short. But I soldier on, with my two greenhouses and fifteen raised beds in Zone 5b. Thanks for the vid, timely for me
THIS! This is the talk that needs to be heard! This is the talk I needed this week. 2 weeks I’ve felt quite numb, grey, but today was the U-turn, back down the hill
Hey Brother just wanted to say thank you for taking your experiences and sharing as well as encouraging others every bit helps and iron sharpens iron. Be blessed.
Dry Creek, thank you my brother, recently I’ve been going thru it and it’s encouraging to know I’m not alone, and I hav to continue to stand in the gap for fam.
Thank you, Dwayne! My favorite motto is life is amazing if you let it be however, some days are a lot harder than that and these words in this video are amazing. My dad got killed when I was 3 months old and although I have older brothers have never really had a male role model. Thank you. I do have one amazing Mother though who raised me in church and never remarried nor did she ever give up.
Abusing the bottle doesn’t take away your problems it makes you a drunk with problems 643 days sober today
364 days sober from Opiates here. Keep up the good fight brother. Excited for my milestone tomorrow but I know it doesn’t end there.
Solid work!!
@@jakebessert Good job!!!
I had a hard time with that back in the day. My parents both died within 3 months of different cancers when I was 22. I drowned myself in a bottle. I quit when best friend passed of cirrhosis at 28. It’s a very human thing to seek things that will distract us from our grief or our problems
Great job man watched my Dad suffer that also almost lost a younger brother to drinking he had a heart attack and now has wet brain he jumped over to weed badly now it is that . I am going through a fight myself 3 weeks no smoking I have energy to spare except now I want to eat everything in sight just keeping my hands and mind busy staying aware not to pick up a different habit or increase one I have. When I feel weak I tell myself to appreciate the natural experience the lord gives me and to try and find appreciation for even some of he smallest things. I have coffee it nags at me i finish eating again it calls but I say no to myself. And dad died lung cancer to I am trying to win a battle he lost to keep up the fight .
“Do not pray for easier lives. Pray to be stronger men” - John F. Kennedy
Great thought
I like the Jewish proverb - "I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders."
“For time and the world do not stand still. Change is the law of life, and those who look only to the past or present, are certain to miss the future.”
@@eltonpontez5226 i’m sorry brother, i think you replied to the wrong person, unless i misunderstood you, i never mentioned any cartoons, i do agree with you though many of them are societal parodies/commentary.
"Do not pray for easy lives.
Pray for powers equal to your tasks."
My favorite John Wayne saying "Life is tough, but it's even tougher when you're stupid".
Yep that was my husbands favorite he used to say to the kids all the time. “If you’re gonna be stupid; you got to be tough”
I think they got it.
I Love the T-Shirt “ STUPID Should Hurt 😂
there’s no evidence he ever said that
@@christopherbroga4700 I'll bet you're a lot of fun at parties.
@@christopherbroga4700 but the quote is neverless good.
“I stand between my family and the world. I take the beatings so they don’t have to.” Amen, good sir!
Dwayne, I lost my 27 yo son last week to an illness. I needed to hear this. Thank you.
god bless you and yours.
My condolences❤
May he rest in peace ,God bless
Hey, sorry for your loss. Praying for you.
I’m so sorry 🙏🕊🌹🌅
I wanna give you a big hug😢
Your timing is supernatural with this one.
Brought to you by the Holy Name of Jesus Christ. Be a warrior for Christ and yourself and your family.
Thank you so much Dwayne.
@@morganwoolsey1087amen
He usually is. The man is doing the Lord's work.
Same for me!
Same brother
I'm 25 and lost, but I will keep fighting until I finish that race. Thank you for your wisdom and encouragement, God bless.
Same I’m 24 and lost. Just started studying for the ASVAB and thinking about joining the military. It’ll give me a sense of purpose and meet new brothers all bonded by the same purpose.
When I was 25 I was lost too. Life changed at 26. Now I’m married with two kids. Life is good. Keeping working hard and it’ll change
It’s not a race, take your time man. Unless you enjoy racing of course.
It is what you make it.
You're not alone! Thought I had my life figured out, was super happy, lost everything at 25 (or so I thought) am still lost at 30 but pushing through. We keep on pushing and we are never alone. I'm with you! Keep pushing!
25 and lost??? 😒 ur young and can do anything try finding something you enjoy and do it.
Life actually gets easier when you accept that life is hard. Lean into it and see what you can do.
How does one lean into it
momma said "a door don't open unless you push it...HARD"
@@carlh-thehermitwithwi-fi679Love this😂
@@More_Row I would say, by accepting the fact that life comes with hardship and suffering.. some experience differing levels. We can resist and be angry when the waves come, OR just accept that it's a big part of this life and try to learn something from it. The Lord is always with us, and always teaching us something. This is not our forever home.
@@mbwilson8592 I really hope it’s not. I need somewhere to call homw
8/2, 4:30 am. Can’t sleep. Crack the laptop, and here you are, first thing in my feed. Telling me with serenity and grace exactly what I needed to hear at that moment.
May the Lord bless and keep you, brother. This is the third time one of your talks has delivered a message that has given me strength and peace in times of difficulty.
That's the Holy Spirit at work in your life.
I encourage you to ponder that - the Living God has reached down into your life THREE TIMES and brought you strength and peace.
@@guywerry6614 No. This man in the video did. The world could certainly use some miracles - until then I'll put my faith in human beings
Thanks a lot for this. I've had 3 crazy years. I lost a lot of money and working my ass of to pay all my debts. In 2 weeks I'm getting married I just got out from the hospital and i'm really struggling with everything. I don't know if you will ever see this but thanks for your message.
I am so close into ending a this crazy chapter in my life and I'm really praying to GOD for strenght each day.
To who is reading this: YOU GOT THIS!!
Let's GO!
Good luck for your future!
@@meenakshinautiyal230 thanks, man! wishing you the same!
everything will be okay, you got this man
@@DanNguyen-bx9uz thanks man!❤️😘
I recently lost my wife of over a decade to cancer leaving me to raise our 3 young kids alone. I asked my 100 year old grandmother for advice after surviving 2 husbands and raised 12 kids. She said “You have to keep going because you don’t have a choice” it wasn’t the advice I was looking for at the time, but looking back, she was right. Just keep going.
Yep. This too shall pass. Been there many times. So sorry for your loss. You’ve got your hands full but love will find a way!! I lost my husband last year and while our kids are grown, it is still very hard. They are in their 20’s.
Can be a tough pill to swallow at the time but completely true advice. God bless you and yours
Good luck brother. Your kids might not know it now, but when they're older, they'll look back and appreciate everything you went through and sacrificed.
I’m so sorry for your loss!
If you did not have kids, it would be over for you, some people have it even worse than you!
keeping this on repeat all day, lol my friends look at me crazy because im a young black dude and they are like what the hell are you watching but through out life i've learned that there is something you can learn from everyone regardless of skin color , i learn so much from you really grateful for finding this channel
Good on you, really. I learned this from Christopher Judge, who played Kratos in the new God of War games. His mother once told him, "Everyone is smarter than you at something, and if you don't figure out what that is and learn from it, that's your fault." You can't discount anyone.
What's the difference being black makes here?
@@themanwhosoldtheworld3639probably just a cultural thing. I’m a 26 year old hip hop loving black dude from some of the roughest spots in Detroit, I couldn’t care two figs about horses, so it’s surprising to me that I come to this Middle Ages conservative cowboy for my weekly doses of wisdom. I guess it shows that Dwight really does speak to the Everyman
@@jordanharkins97Agreed - i have a similar background and watching these videos and reading the comments shows me that despite our background, race, religion or upbringing this speaks to all of us, regardless of our journey. The bottom line - get up and keep going.
@@jordanharkins97 Dwayne
My father, a veteran of the Battle of the Bulge, WWII, consistently impressed on me when I was growing up and when confronted with adversity and wanted to quit or was feeling sorry for myself, that to be a man with our name meant that we stand our ground and never give up, because the finest steel must endure the hottest fire. My father walked his talk and demonstrated to me and my siblings what it is to be a man.He also made sure we read the Bible and thanked God for our blessings. Forever grateful for my father's guidance.
My GrandFather was there too. So many terrible stories but helped them to continue to endure!
Thats ❤
“The more responsible we are, the more freedoms we get to enjoy.”
- Dave’s Auto Center
I always love the wisdom, experience and knowledge that older men (those who do care) pass on to us! It’s always encouraging to see good folks out there as well.
You received outstanding Advice. Backbone is what he offered.
Carry on in his stead Brother.
"if your going through hell, keep going"- Winston Churchill
''They look like hell, they feel like hell, but they fight like hell.'' Has got to be the greatest sentence ever uttered.
Im 37 and alone. Nobody to fight for but I still fight.
Also 37 and similar situation. Hope you're ok. Here to talk if you need.
head up homie
@rider9187its a million girls outside bro
Leave the house, u can do it
@allahalkareem8055 it's usually not worth it 😂
Turning 37 in 3 mos. Also alone but still fighting.
It's 1:30 in morning here in south Texas, Im watching your video for 2nd time! My life was extremely hard in 2015 pancreatic cancer and thanks to my dear god I Won that battle!!! If anyone can survive this terrible disease that's a hard life because a hard life is better than no life"! Thanks for all your messages to encourage others for what's ahead of us!!! GOD BLESS YOU DEWAYNE AND YOUR FAMILY SIR!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏
Congrats!! Celébrate life!!
God bless you. A true grit fighter and survivor. Keep on keeping on my man
Congrats! God bless!
@@frankgonzales2462 I lost my wife to cancer a few years ago. I’ve seen the battle first hand, what an accomplishment! You are a true warrior 💪
proud of u
My wife has had 4 unexpected surgery this years and i had to put a precious horse down on Tuesday, i just keep putting one foot in front of the other , sooner or later ill get out of the mud and back on high ground. Everyday is a gift .
God bless
Hope your wife is doing better, I am awaiting surgery too.
God bless you brother. Keep your head up
Hope your wife is better now and I relate to you , I lost my most beloved horse of 18 years too… 😔 I understand what you feel, you are not alone.
Right Now im going throught unenployment at 22 years old...i have been working since 16 to pay for my things and for the first time in my life im jobless. This times made me think that i have no purpose. Yet somehow i come into one of your videos to hear that "the bell will ring" and made me remeber all the people by my side that have their hopes, that they Belive in me and know that some day i will get throught this hard times. Thank you again for giving me the push i need to keep going
Im a combat veteran and ive had my share of battles, internal and external but this message made me shed a few tears. I believe God watches over his children and this message was from Him to us. Thank you and may God bless you.
I am a 28-year-old English teacher living with my parents in rural Brazil. The salary is terrible, and I need to travel about 50 km three times a week to teach approximately nine classes a day, in addition to some online ones. It's exhausting. I complain every 30 minutes. I have no time for a social or love life, just work. I want to quit now, but at my boss's request, I will endure six months of pure chaos at work. I just want to escape, but I need to endure this beating for my mother. There are other very personal details I can't share here, and after watching this video, I will succeed. Purely out of instinct, pride, and dignity. The bell will ring, and I'll be here to give my interview to Joe Rogan. This is life. React, men. The next round is about to start. Thank you, God.
Your English is excellent
Stay strong! We are rooting for you. Something good will come right after the darkest moment. But, you can't give up.
god bless you sorry you have to put up with that job stay strong, sending love from america
That sounds very tough. Love from New Zealand 🎉🎉❤
I mean… I don’t know how is your daily life in there, but why don’t you plan to come to Santa Catarina, mate? You may find better opportunities in here 👀 Just a suggestion tho
This video speaks to the need for men to come together, to be friends. To help each other. For too many of us are lonely.
You have to do this now to save this world 🌹
That is exactly the mentality I had when at 34 I was diagnosed with cancer. There were so many days I did not want to get up. Many days I did not want to go to work. But I did it any way. Dug deep and found a way. I'm 38 now, cleared of cancer, and share those lessons I learned from those difficult times with the kids I teach, especially the boys.
Which type of cancer?
@@Daydreamerr13 Lymphoma caused by pesticide chemical contact.
I’m 25, I smoke myself out everyday, run from the sadness and depression that has seemingly taken me and my life over. I’m completely lost… used to have it all together and ive lost it all. I am moping. I’ve never had a father figure, or any male influence. I needed this so bad so much more than you’ll ever know. Thank you sir. Thank you so much.
I'm the same age as you, went through the exact same thing during the lockdowns. I know it's hard right now brother, but what you're going through right now is one of the greatest opportunities for growth this world can offer. Take care of yourself, and face yourself. Do your best to make of this situation what you can. Feel what you need to feel, and don't run from it. Things will get better, all in due time. I hope you're doing alright there, brother.
You’re not alone bro. Im 23 but From top to bottom of what you said is me also. Hope life is good man. Let’s just keep fighting for ourselves and loved ones 💯
I recommend fasting it will help
I can’t tell you, Dewayne, how much this video has helped me in my life as a sophomore college student. In my humble opinion, this video is the best of your videos I’ve yet seen and one of, if not the best video I’ve ever watched on UA-cam. Dewayne, may Almighty God forever bless and protect you, Mama, and Dry Creek Wrangler School.
70 y.o. widow living alone for 11 yrs. on my 3.5 acre place in Texas, I approve this message. Been a widow for 13 yrs. First few years thought I needed a man. Nope, I didn't need an earthly man. I needed the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Men, you do, too. Life IS hard. Harder if you try to do it w/o Jesus Christ. Finally figured out: Don't cry about problems, pray about them. Ask for wisdom from the Holy Spirit, keep doing your best. And always remember to Praise and Thank the Lord for your life.
obrigado holly
Texas here too but I only wish I had 3.5 acres. I'm 43. Maybe one day. Stay strong. And Texas proud!
Thank you so much Dewayne; my fight has been being confined to my wheelchair for the past 5 years because of becoming hemiplegic from a stroke. Many times I have no idea if I’ll ever be able to get back on my feet again; but I keep thinking of it and hoping that someday I’ll be able to. Your encouraging words are so inspiring and very appreciated! Thank you sir!
Thanks for sharing your story. Hang in there the best you can. Take care.
You are loved mate, keep fighting!
Me with my ability to speak - oh my God, have I been praying by my bedside with my father and mother for a single time where I can cough and I can talk smoothly again!!!!!!!! 😢😢😢 I just want to figure this all out, man... 😣☹️🥲❤️
train insane - high intensity, multiple days per week. Full body. I'm a physical therapist, and I have heard wild stories of improvements -albeit gradual - where MS, stroke, paraplegic patients suddenly get sensation/movement back.
Work hard as hell in your daily life and at the gym with no promise of a miracle - work hard because it's part of who you are, a hard worker. And you may find yourself using those legs one day.
Wishing you strength and resilience dude.
What you have been through is for The Glory of GOD ALMIGHTY to be revealed within you!! Keep The Faith and Endure!!
Quite frequently I audibly recall a verse that brings comfort. Psalm 116:7,” Be at rest once more, oh my soul, for the Lord has been good to you.” “Be at rest once more..” tells me King David had repeated struggles but recalled who is our source of Peace and strength. Thanks Dewayne for your encouragement.
I needed this, when I was 19 I messed up and got in some trouble and was facing some prison time down here in GA, a few months after that I found out I had a baby on the way and it felt like my world was falling apart and that I wouldn’t be able to be the father I wanted to be but I knew I had to hang in there and do what I could . Back on July 11th 2023 my beautiful baby girl was born. As most other fathers know, it was the greatest day of my life, but I still had that feeling of impending doom on my shoulders. Now I’m 21, and back in April of this year I went to court and had my charges lessened to misdemeanor charges, I only ended up doing 7 days in jail and 2 years of probation now, I unfortunately ended up losing my job at the time also, but I get to come home and go to sleep with my Girls still and that to me is the biggest blessing I’ve ever had. I kept my head up and pushed through the hard times with the thought of being a good father in my head and of course as you said it’s still a little rough… but that’s life. I’ve got the lord and my girls by my side and that’s all I need to get through the rough times.
“The bell will ring” Wow! 34 yr old woman here and getting something out of this! Thank you! God Bless
Dwayne I want to thank you for the simple talks you give, nice relief to all
Of the other media nowadays
"if life was easy, you wouldn't appreciate it...and i didn't rasie lazy kids...ya ain't gonna be lazy in body, mind or spirit...and you will thank me later" ~ MY MOM 1973
Everyone needs a man like this in their life. Thank you sir for your wisdom! Former Infantry Marine, have my demons from Afghanistan, came home and now I’m a career fireman. Seen a lot, a lot of death. A lot of broken families, torn out hearts of mothers. It’s so much to deal with, and to try to press on and be the best husband and father I can be is overwhelming at times. This life is incredibly difficult and messy, but it’s folks like you that share these pieces of wisdom that help so much in the day to day. I’ve never seen you or heard of you until this video popped up, hell I’m not even a wrangler but you have a new subscriber all the way in Southeast Tennessee. Wonderful message. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for your service.
@@OpalAllen-j8r Thank you for saying that.
Real Wisdom. All Young Men must listen to this. Life is Hard for Men Period. It doesn't mean your life is over, it's an Opportunity to Carve yourself into the Man you want to be. It will be Challenging but will be worth it in the End. Its time to Rise up Spartans!
Damn I needed that Dwayne. Thanks! I’m actually happiest in the trenches and started losing that feel lately. Fighting the battle and overcoming?!? No drug, woman, food, anything, can replace it!
Me too! Don't even know why, things from the past returned, everything is hard and compilicated... I was also usually just happy
@SD-mj4wr I learned that as you grow, it’s common for things from your past to come back up in your mind, and you’ll feel the need to reprocess and reinterpret them. It’s a good sign; it means you have grown, you are growing, and you have the opportunity to reprocess whatever came up with new eyes and hopefully with kindness, clarity, and compassion for yourself and others.
This Mother needed this today. My son has moved far away. I’ve packed up his belongings in a trailer that is headed to his new home in Oregon. He is weary so I also sent this to him. I love your videos and perspective on life. Hope I get to come out to the school one day. You and mama are so inspiring.
Life is hard, always has been and always will be. TV and social media portray a life that is not real, period! Dwayne, you are an amazing person. Thank you so much for reminding us what we sometimes forget. Stay strong! Ricardo dos Santos
Thank you for this message for the young men out there. You hit it right on the nose.
"But for the Grace of God there go I". Remember WHERE your strength to keep fighting comes from. And don't forget to go and recharge, preferably on a daily basis. Thanks Dwayne.
Just the medicine I needed to hear. Thank you sir. Amen 🙏 ☀️ 😊
9 months sober today. Life is tough an it sucks. But also its a blessing. I can choose to sit and complain or i can choose to better myself in every possible way. Today i choose to better myself and stay off social media. And at least 3 AA meetings a week to stay well.
You uploaded this at a really pivotal point in my life at this moment & you spoke on every point of what I feel like. Thank you for your timing & wisdom sir.
I'm 23 but I really wished I grew up in your era. I'm black so that probably wouldn't be the best but I remember the days before social media and saw how it affected our generation today.
When I was a kid in 8th grade the most social media we had was Facebook and not many used it.
Todays society has been brainwashed to believe things that aren't true. They see videos,movies, and TV and think they are not doing something right when in reality that movie or show was designed to have a certain outcome. So definitely agree with your stance
Best wishes to you. You sound like a solid person.
29 y/o female here- I’m battling thyroid cancer as the main breadwinner of my family and I’ve been struggling to get out of bed everyday and go to work. My husband, bless him, has been going to his job plus picking up the slack around the house. Grateful for the strong men out there that silently fight for their families. “The bell will ring.”
I pray for your full healing and renewed strength in this season in Jesus name amen.
Dewayne there are to many men who don't know what a man is suppose to be thankyou for your encouraging words
the true role model men need in this world
No, be the one yourself, dont punt it off someone else!
Don’t look up to nobody, but the man upstairs
When you meet resistance that’s how you know you’re on the right path. Following God is the hardest thing to do right now. It’s part of living as a child of God. People will hate you and will find reasons to hate you. Keep working hard and don’t be a porcelain bowl. Men are bronze bowls. We get beat again and again and AGAIN but we cannot be broken. We still maintain our strength and purpose. Great message sir
Drinking is borrowing happiness from the next day. 1 year sober!
♥
How true
What a delivery this gentleman has. Talk about a gift.
"Sometimes I stand between mySELF and my family" - this is something we all do every now and then.
Which really is something to think about and work to stop and reverse.
Thanks for pointing it out Dewayne
Sir, you truly have a calling. Thank you for answering it and sending these messages. God bless you.
I have been really feeling the "pressures" of life lately, and I really needed to see this today. Thank you.
As a Muslim person I love to listen to your life lessons. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I myself also have struggles in my life and cigars seem to relax me and make me even more productive. So I keep smoking my stogie and listen to your advices😊
your face and attitude when your wife comes around made me smile. this is a lucky guy and he absolutely knows it, bless y’all
Powerful stuff. As a father of two young daughters, I needed to hear this. Thank you, Sir
As a father of 2 grown daughters, he is exactly right. Never let them see you sweat.
Once you realize and except life is hard, it will actually start to become more enjoyable.
Yeah, chores become challenges.
Well spoken. Life is indeed hard. My dad always said when the going gets tough the tough get going.
Dwayne, I'll probably never meet you, but I'm glad you're out there. This is a message that the younger generations need to hear. Desperately need to hear. May God bless and keep you safe. 🙏
Younger generation needs a hear this
Many of us are here listening, brother
We know life is hard. We just hate being told that everything is our fault when our future was stolen from us by banks, politicians, and the older generations.
You're right, anyone over the age of 50 has it all together. All those books written by dead people over the years were actually just talking about millenials and Gen Z. Amazing that they knew. We lost the ability of time travel I guess.
Dad' did you miss Dawayne's point?
@@thelostcosmonaut5555everything that happens in your life is your fault and everything that happens in the future was because of this generation wherever is the outcome good or bad old people retire younger people take their places in society and if they are weaker and not so smart we have what we have today
@RAFAEL199O yeah, last time I checked I didn't hike up the price of houses and apartments by 60 percent.
"Stand in the gap" is profound wisdom and a call to action many people (women too) never materialize. Thank you for standing in the gap! May God bless you and your family.
@nohalfwayjourney
This is a video for men
Thank you for posting this brother. I needed a check, TODAY. I know all this. Was on my pitty party today… I appreciate it. Praise God
„The bell will ring!“
Thank you so much for this one!
He talks about not crying and stuff but when he said “the bell will ring on this fight, whatever you are in” I literally lost it. And it tore me up
I did NOT come across this channel by accident. Man this is like that Proverbs wisdom in Gods holy word. Very wise words from a brother in Christ geared towards men in how to be REAL men which is exactly what’s needed now days for it seems like men like you and this wisdom is RARE these days. May God keep a protective hedge around you and your during these days and times
My grandfather always told us kids when troubled times come around and they will. He says you either deal with it or have a hard time dealing with it period... Good message your bringing to everyone here ... Thanks for sharing sir 💪
Thank you, Dwayne. I needed to hear this tonight. God bless you, brother. You and Mom have a blessed weekend.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
WOW! That was like getting a call from a good friend that knows what is going on in my life right at this moment and he tells me exactly what I needed to hear. I know I am not the only one out there. I bet that some one else is thinking the same thing. Thank Dwane I needed that!
Thank you so much. I have been dealing with a lot emotionally and my family hasn't been very kind to me and all I needed was that encouragement and advice to keep going on. I was about to quit it all and shut myself away for a year but you motivated me enough to keep going on and fight on everyday with a smile. I cannot thank you enough Sir. I wish you well!
Thank you for being human, and sharing that we are all struggling. We're not so different after all.
Thank you sir! I am thankful to still be in the fight, some don’t get that luxury. You are spot on , age doesn’t help I think it gets harder as you age but that’s just my opinion. Guys are notoriously hard on themselves, I just want to say to the younger generation, don’t be, be kind to yourself and love yourself. Life is real short enjoy the ride!
This is a beautiful message, as a young man about to begin my final year of highschool before College, I feel like this is the perfect message for me to receive.
Also, that beard is looking to perfection!
I really like this talk about physical and mental endurance. I think that’s something that many folks are lacking today, but endurance is key to success in life; no matter what you do.
Thank you again D’Wayne!!
Thank you God for this timely message.
I will get back up and fight. It’s been unfair, it’s been tiring and all.. but I will fight WHOEVER attacks my family’s progress 💪🏼
As you said, “til death do I part”
I am new to your channel. I’m going thru a fight, and this hit me square in the “feels”. I needed to hear this. I have felt alone this whole time. Parts of me feel that God almighty has let me get beat up. Hearing your thoughts and the calmness in your voice. Really help. I will get back up and do my best to smile.
“Stand in the door way, and take the beatings, so the ones I love don’t have to.”
Thank you.
I'm a 43-year-old man, and I listen to your words with great attention. They resonate with truth, reality, and clarity about what life truly is. Greetings from Portugal.
"Ya cant beat a man that just dont quit."
~Muhammad Ali~
Nobody like a quiter. Especially me! Thank you for this Mr. Noal. I hope all is good and well with you and your loved ones.🙏❤️☺️
Self-awareness, accountability, and mindset make a world of difference in a world that doesn't make sense. Keep your wits about you and remember, what people think about you is none of your business. You got to keep going for yourself because you matter, today, tomorrow, anytime. Wise words once again Dewayne.
I needed this and ill be watching this again to remind myself to keep fighting and never, ever give up. Thank you for the encouragement. Sir, I'm a man who never had a dad in my life. Sometimes I feel lost and its because of my raising. Your videos have helped me alot.
Just found your channel. So happy I did. There is so much depth to your content. So much truth. I feel like a better person for having listened to you. You have a gift for connecting with real people living real life. Thank you for sharing the wisdom and knowledge
life has taught you. I’m sure many , like me, truly hear you. No words are wasted. Truth resonates with a sincere seeker.
Thanks so much Dwayne for saying out loud what many of us feel and know to be true but don’t share with family and friends. It’s difficult not only to find that narrow road but to stay and remain on it. I find the greatest challenge in my life has been to get others on to that road. And the greatest words I hope to hear one day are “Well done my good and faithful servant”. !
7:35 Hello Mama. 🥺 ❤
You have a good man. We appreciate his words. Thanks for sharing him briefly. ❤
Thank you Dwayne, this is absolute truth and this was a nice timely reminder.
I know you’re a man of God, but as someone who practices Buddhism myself, this resonates to much. It absolutely is our lot to find life hard. Human life by its very nature is hard, that’s why we’re here.
Distracting ourselves from that fundamental fact (through alcohol, social media etc) ultimately makes it even more difficult. We have to feel that difficulty and work through it - it’s the only way.
New subscriber. Greetings from Prince Edward Island, Canada. I'm soon to be 61. Divorced in 2004, no children and the days are long and the decades are short. But I soldier on, with my two greenhouses and fifteen raised beds in Zone 5b. Thanks for the vid, timely for me
What a gem. Thank you ❤ Hopefully men are hearing this.
The best channel ! 🙏
I’ve been dadless for a long time … just Jesus and God - my father .
Your horses have the best life they can imagine, look at the beautiful mountains uve brought into their world. U a good man
Your words made my day a lot easier to go through thank you!
Most important lesson I ever learned: No one cares about your problems, so you might as well keep'em you yourself.
I needed this sermon ole man coming from another ole man
THIS! This is the talk that needs to be heard! This is the talk I needed this week. 2 weeks I’ve felt quite numb, grey, but today was the U-turn, back down the hill
God bless you Dewayne. I needed to hear that today.
Thank you for telling these young men THE FACTS OF LIFE!
Boss words!! God bless you sir thank you for sharing ❤️✝️🙏🏽
Hey Brother just wanted to say thank you for taking your experiences and sharing as well as encouraging others every bit helps and iron sharpens iron. Be blessed.
You’re an absolute gem of a human being Dewayne. Thank you sir
Dry Creek, thank you my brother, recently I’ve been going thru it and it’s encouraging to know I’m not alone, and I hav to continue to stand in the gap for fam.
Thank you, Dwayne!
My favorite motto is life is amazing if you let it be however, some days are a lot harder than that and these words in this video are amazing. My dad got killed when I was 3 months old and although I have older brothers have never really had a male role model. Thank you. I do have one amazing Mother though who raised me in church and never remarried nor did she ever give up.
Your father would have showed you life is hard, but you get up and keep going.
battling right now and I needed this ! It lifted my spirit up some so again I want to thank you
Thanks Dewayne once again for your wisdom and guidance. Women have much to learn here too.
Thanks again Wayne, your calming voice and the gentle, but firm way you give advice is a breath of fresh air!
I'm a woman but this really spoke to me. God bless you, sir.