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Thanks for doing this, Chris! Was so excited to see DeWayne as a guest. Might need a spell check in the description though, brother 👍🏼 Again, thanks for consistently putting out content that helps us grow as people, Chris! Excited to watch when I have time
Controversial, I know, but I actually think both people in a marriage are responsible for making it work. And you can't force the other one to be decent if they don't want to.
How would this be controversial! You are exactly right. This man deletes completely the duty, thoughts and responsibility of 50% of the marriage, which is the woman (if hetero couple). It’s a team effort and he is happy saying out loud that half of the couple, just because is a man, needs to make all the decisions , specially the tough ones… “even if your wife is mad at you”. So he thinks only Man can rule the world… come on! Life is more complex than that, thank ‘God’ Come on, some
You are absolutely right. The controversial part is that the man is absolutely the head of the home, so the responsibility and burden of the family's success ends with him. That is why the man is more to blame.
Look up the statistics of how kids turn out with versus without a father. All the major problems in our country are because of the fatherless epidemic in our country. It’s just facts.
@@JEEDUHCHRIRespectfully, authenticity and having a worldview you believe in are not the same thing. I don't believe in Biblical Literalism, but Dewayne does seem like a very heartfelt person, and he is a well-read man with a ton of life experience if you ever listen to his channel.
I get the idea that young men need to step up etc. But where are the women calling out women who are actively Misandrist and filling for divorce at 70-90% ??
Or maybe can take responsibility and think and empathize with why women don't like men and why they break up the marriage. It's not just because like so many men who lack accountability like to spin. You're not being logical, you lack empathy.
He's mostly right. Unfortunately if a man puts his foot down, he's called an abusive narcissist, she divorces him, takes the kids, half his wealth, etc. The authority of the man has been subverted by poppa government. So if the law stays like it is, it's going to be up to women to find appreciation for such a man. I knew someone who put his foot down (as he describe) and his woman left him for an emasculated man, and threatened him to never see their child every again. The leverage is now in the hands of women.
@@James_36 Well, we live in times when being "good and righteous", is punished. So he's right but completely out of touch with what suburbia and most populated areas go through.
Yeah problem with taking everything elders say at face value is that in reality, things change. In today’s world you can be a great husband or a terrible husband and get taken down all the same. A lot of women (especially western ones) are very self destructive when it comes to relationships. Especially because social media has inflated so many peoples egos into thinking they are better than they really are, and that goes for guys and girls. That’s what happens when relationships are less about actually caring for one another and more about feeling good in the short term.
@@addressingtheelephant Simply telling men to "man-up" for the 100th time isn't going to change the ridiculously unfair divorce laws that incentivise women to break up their families.
I always tell my kids....'there's a lot of love in the word no". I am very comfortable being the bad guy for what I feel is my family's best interests. "Best Interests" means; security, self-sufficiency and resilience.
I found Dry Creek on accident and i never left. Words cannot describe how much I love this man. So many nuggets of wisdom and I found him when I was most down. I thank him for picking me back up. It’s amazing what this platform called UA-cam is capable of.
Same here bro, I found him completely on accident. And I haven't stopped watching him since. This man is saving lives, mine included. Thank you Dewayne
I get what he's saying. But the blame isn't on fathers or husbands. The blame is on a lack of morals and ethics across the board. I heard someone once say, "The business of business, and the business of life are the same". And that is very true. If you carry yourself with morals and ethics inside the home, it will carry into all other aspects of your life including your job, business, or career. If you lack morals and ethics inside the home, it will have a negative impact.
The blame is with the Feminist system that disempowers men and sets them up to fail in all capacities, including as fathers and husbands. The real question is: why are men allowing this?
And who establishes “morals and ethics”? A toddler in the home maybe? The woman? The pet dog? If you’re a God fearing man which it sounds like you might not be this is plain and simple. Foundation is God. And as he said in this video God gave dominion to the Man and the woman was made to help man.
Yes but you've not heard him all the way. Those morals and ethics are supposed to be established by the father and everyone held responsible by the father. This is a man who is taking complete responsibility for his family. That should be commended
I’m so happy to see this guy on the show!!! I’ve caught him online a few times and it’s hard to deny some of the real talk he spits out. Running a rancher school is a hard task; he’s working with young men everyday. Hard work.
I do not agree with everything Dewayne says. But I do see value in his words in most cases, regardless of my personal opinion. He's spot on when it comes to the plight of families. Without the bedrock of a stable mom & dad, kids are very likely to go down terrible paths, with no one to guide them through their trials. Everyone makes mistakes, but too few have a repository of wisdom from which they can draw in times of need.
Yeah, I wanted to interrupt him by saying it's not the old days...if you come down hard on your wife or make her resent your decisions she'll just vent her anger to the nearest nice guy stalker on FB just waiting to DM her some shade about you. And your children can call you abusive and hide at school while getting se change.
Another win for the internet. Found Dewayne because of a short he did on why he smoked cigars....been watching ever since. He speaks truthfully, not a "lived truth" but truth. The truth resonates differently and I am happy to see his acceptance from the interwebs. I hope he writes his story. So glad to see him on your podcast.
This man lives in a world of marriage 1.0 where men had actual authority in their marriage and family. We live in a Marriage 2.0 society where men have no actual authority in their marriage…. Just responsibility
Be the man of a marriage 1.0 and your wife will shed the programming and follow suit. Women always follow whatever is the strongest influence in their life and what makes them feel safe.
Exactly, older men will never fully understand. It sucks because younger men are just left to fend for themselves, all the while being blamed for the world’s problems. We don’t have anybody pointing out problems on both ends. Not older men, not women, not the church, nobody. Hell, I’ve never even been past a first date in my 25 years on earth and somehow I’m blamed for the relationships between men and women.
The country is falling apart because men his age have failed to pass the torch to the generations after them, who needed it the most when they were coming of age. Now we've been without the torch for so long we don't care what happens next.
Claiming the marriage is solely dependant on the ‘worth’ of the man absolves women of responsibility to marriage. You can put your foot down all you want, but she can just walk away and is in some cases highly incentivized to.
We live in a country where parents are having their children forcefully taken from them because they won't "gender affirm" their kids. CPS shows up, and the kids are gone. This guy would pull out a pistol, and either end up in prison or dead if he was to carry out the words he speaks in that scenario... If we're in a country that allows that, I'm sorry... Fathers and husbands haven't failed... They've lost. Against whom? The ones we were supposed to lead, provide for, set examples for, and discipline... They cried out saying Men are the victimizers, and people started to LISTEN IN MASS. Men have lost their hold on this country... I just pray we can get it back one day.
In the Christian faith, the man is the leader, but this doesn't mean the woman is "a useless object", this means the leader NEEDS a follower, and the follower NEEDS a leader. Is it commonly said that the woman is a representation of the quality of man, because at a s*xual level, the woman chooses the best man. So a good marriage is represented by a good man, but that's because he is the leader. If the woman is bad, then the marriage is bad, which means the man is bad (and vice versa). It's all connected, in marriage, the man and woman become one.
@@newme1589 Hm... Based off of modern American society, how well do you suppose that idea is working out? "woman only bad because man bad"... I'm sure there are many amazing fathers that lost custody of their kids that would severely disagree with you... But don't worry. Your bible has nothing to say about no-fault divorce, feminism, birth control, or abortion either... We are not one nation under god anymore... And applying blanket Christian principles to a society that is falling away from Christianity is a bit out of touch with the reality we face today.
"Be respectful to your elders, even if they're not respectable they've still been through life enough. Their position earns them what their behavior won't." The man must be a saint or a fool, because a lot of monstrous people get old. Our society is so amazing that it allows it to happen. Getting respected because you lived long enough in a time when it's easier than it's ever been in history to get old is wild. There's a difference between not treating someone poorly and Respect. I'm an older guy and my grandfather told me "Respect is something you earn, and you KEEP earning it the rest of your life." I think he's right, and he lived and died a respectable man.
@@DryCreekWranglerSchoolHave you ever been in a position of having to respect an authority figure who makes you feel sick with anxiety and dread? Do you have a suggestion for dealing with the sense of powerlessness? I agree I'd think more of myself if I could hide my disgust (sorry to admit that's how strongly I feel), however I don't know how to keep myself calm enough to get through it. Maybe I answered my own question. I need to learn how to stay calm even when being affected by an authority figure I deeply dislike and cannot honestly respect. I guess that's life for mature adults. Do you have any thoughts about maintaining composure with difficult people who have power over you (in my case, a teacher)?
My follow-up question would be, do you blame the men that marry someone who divorces them over "Not being Happy", takes half the man's stuff, and takes his children for not raising his own kids right, or do you blame the fathers of these women for not raising their women right?
They will blame the fathers for not raising their daughters right. It’s a shame; it's not even worth arguing with these people; they already know everything in their minds. My sister divorced my “ex” brother-in-law because they changed as “they grew up, and he wasn’t funny or into sports.” These were literally her exact words.
@IkeCreed yeah, my follow-up to the follow-up would be, when do you think these women take accountability for their actions instead of just blaming the men in their lives?
This guy is 100% spot on. My father was incredible and my wife’s dad was an alcoholic excuse for a father. It damages kiddos when dad is a male but not a man.
You cannot lead any partnership or organization when your partner or followers in an organization are taught from birth to diarespect you and are incenticized to break the partnership up for monetary rewards and social clout.
Yeah, nobody really acknowledges this. They just blame men for being too weak, the problem is we'll go to jail for being strong raising our voices to say, "no we're going in this direction" or divorced if we don't do whatever our wife says. There is no hope until this is addressed.
The problem is many things. Not just men not being men. Its also greed and lazy parents not teaching their kids to be good people that are willing to work. Then you have the extremists on the political spectrum. On both sides. Not just one.
I would say that the real problem is single mother households or broken homes. I believe that an intact family, a healthy family with a healthy relationship and marriage are what we need. Yes men have a responsibility to be strong and to be able to control themselves and their lives. That being said I do not believe that this is inherently a male problem. I believe that this is a societal problem.
Bingo! His answer does implicitly address this tho, in that so long as men become more responsible, they are in turn more responsible fathers; And thus, better family conditions.
I have 2 daughters and his advice is toxic. To tell women they can do whatever they want with no consequences is why we have 1 out of 3 women in society who have terminated a pregnancy. Wrong WROng WRONG!
So, what makes a good woman? Is there anything that they could possibly do wrong? If they do, is there any possible punishment? Seems we just give them a free pass for any behavior and go looking for a man to blame instead. Also, if you need a strong church to make strong families and strong families to make a strong church, that seems paradoxical.
The lack of God in the home is another failure point. People go to church but have no Holy spirit/aim to God in their home. It's not even a topic point of the church or family structure today. Madness.
This guy operates under the assumption that the females are always operating honorably with a high degree of self accountability. That is almost never the case. His methods are outdated.
Jesus Christ man to man I respect this guy so much, these are the TRUE family values we need to fight for. Across social classes and race. We need men and fathers like this.
Appreciate you having Dewayne on. There are not enough outspoken common man philosophers today with common sense who'll help younger people navigate life.
GD this show/podcast is seriously one of the best things out there. I’ve seen a couple of Dry Creek Dave’s videos, he’s interesting. But the variety of great guests you have is amazing. The fine line of having variety and good guest but not having wackos on is hard, and you guys have done it right. Love the show
This is how you talk to the non religious as a religious person. No pretentiousness. No talking down. Speak truth to your power and that should be enough.
I agree with both points, the men need to be held accountable however so do the women. There is a LOT of blue pilled thought in this take although he makes some solid points.
Its sad that society teaches that he would be a bad parent now days. But its what we all needed as kids. America would be a better place if Fathers stayed and raised their children this way. Its just a fact. But also Women need to be held accountable as well.
Wise words. Boy is it hard sometimes to follow when you want something different than what your husband decides. However, the weight of that is to fall on the husband. I appreciate that protection and provision.
The first boy my daughter brought around never introduced himself or shook my hand, I didn’t approve and expressed that to her immediately. Of course her mother (my ex) had the opposite sentiment. Well, didn’t long before she realized who was right. She made sure the next boy I met properly introduced himself.
It’s a sin problem in both sexes. It’s not all on the man. We have let sin and immorailty run rampant, anything goes, everything is acceptable. Clear moral values are not taught or modeled by both sexes. It’s a travesty, which results in the breakdown of the family.
@@attgogattgog8620 people hurt themselves all the time. If people don't know how to treat themselves it's no wonder why they don't know how to treat others. I bet we can come up with a solid definition
Regardless of his beliefs that this country was founded as a Christian country(which I disagree) he spoke his mind, his truth and he provided his reasoning for his feelings toward believing that. That is someone I can respect. Despite differences in views and opinions
The founding fathers said that this country was not founded as a Christian nation. And I am a bible thumping Christian. This is a fact that needs to be accepted.
That's not true. They wanted to keep religion out of government, sure, but that meant no priests governing, that did NOT mean that Christian values should not be used as a moral guideline to good governance.
All but two states REQUIRED government officials to make a professional of Christian faith. The federal constitution protected this at the State level. It was not intended to not be a Christian nation. It was intended that Christianity would continue to be the bedrock at the state level and the federal government would refrain from imposing a NATIONAL religion on the states. This is why the 1st Amendment has the establishment clause.
What? This is a Christian nation, built on Christian principles. It's undeniable. If the founding fathers explicitly stated that or not doesn't matter. By the way what's up with this idea that the founding fathers were right about everything. They had a lot of good ideas sure but we can make some improvements you know? And if you make the case at the founding fathers were right about everything that were probably pushed by something divine something greater and that's God so then it was built on a Christian foundation.
He is basically saying to bring back your Mother saying "you just wait to your Father gets home" and once you heard those words you knew down to your bones, you were in deep crap. Also, the part about being the bad guy where even Mom is mad, 100%, someone has to be the bedrock and the foundation. A ship has to have a rudder or it will wander aimless until it eventually runs aground or sinks.
Kids need guidance and boundaries set, but most importantly they need freedom and responsibility as the get older. Parents neglect teaching their kids how to become active problem solvers. How can you expect a kid to navigate the world on their own when they're older if they have never been taught to become their own guide?
A LOT of fathers that have daughters just let them raise themselves, without guidance. My mother's partner for over two decades is exactly like this. And because of this, it ruined them mentally, it wasted years of their lives, it caused them to make incredibly vast amounts of bad decisions through life, and he isn't doing anything but suffer the consequences, all together. And these people all believe that they are doing just great, and they are above others. Their lack of ego development, they don't even know what it is. Ignorance is bliss to ignorant people. So many DO NOT deserve to build families because they build families over unfinished foundations, and this causes nothing but hard ache in the long run.
This is my Dad, my grandfathers…THIS is exactly what we are lacking today! A MAN amongst boys. If we had just a small percentage of men like this raising this generation, we wouldn’t be seeing the crap that is going on today! Thank you Chris for bringing a spotlight on him. I have been watching him for a while and he always makes me feel at home. He makes me miss my grandpas so much but i guess thats why i love to listen to his wisdom!
A boy took my aunt out back in the 70’s and he came back later than he was supposed to. He was told not to do so ever again by my Grandfather twice. The third time, my Grandfather waited outisde for him……with either a rifle or a bat (I don’t know which because one person in my family says one thing and someone else says something different). The boy never came back. My aunt went on to live a great life unbothered.
While I agree with everything this man is saying he's missing one crucial point. Women have and are rebelling against this idea. You can't lead people who won't accept it.
AMEN!!!!! This man hit's all the important points of a healthy marriage, family and church!!! Even men in the church need to step up, now is the time. FATHER'S AND MEN are SO important.
While I'd love to have a dad who is deeply "committed to my safety and future", I would hate to have a husband who doesn't speak about marriage as though it's a partnership. He makes it sound as though the success of a society is dependent on men/husbands/father alone.
Yeah. I agree. Women have a lot of responsibility for the moral framework of a society. Much like men allow infrastructure, the economy, and law enforcement to work.
Hr actually made a beautiful tribute video to his wife about her role as mother. You should watch it. It gives a great view on his perspective on the power of a mother
His channel has a fair number of videos praising his wife and the powerful role of women. It’s just that his channel is designed for men, so his content typically focuses on that
@@skyhappy Because My dad was the same way. it was either the wrong way or his way - and growing up as kid it seemed I could never do anything right - But when I got older and started working people appreciating me. and then realizing how wrong he was at times ( and not every word he spoke was gospel). Year's later I got into augment with him, and after a little bit I said " You know what problem is, you never think your wrong." he said " who says I 'am - I walked away.
The father has to be the bad guy in the family BECAUSE he loves his wife and children. When a parent puts their foot down and says NO!, the kids get angry about it, but they get over it. I’m 58 years old with adult children who said thank you to me for putting my foot down and saying NO! When they were young.
Husband actually means band around the home. In many studies single fathers have better outcomes than single mothers and in many countries when there is a divorce the children goes with the father because usually women are stay at home mothers and the father is the one with the career and money to take care of his children. Men perceive a woman’s value as being more when she has a strong support system around her because predatory men go after women who aren’t surrounded with a strong family. Many prisoners were asked how do they pick a victim and 90% of them said they go after women and children who appear to come from broken families and who appear to not have anyone in their “corner” looking out for them. This is what people who were murders, SA, traffic, and other crimes said. A man that just wants to use a woman for her reputation and her body then gets her pregnant and leaves would not mess with his daughters.
I agree, but as a divorced man your wife is a person. A husband cannot control his wife. My ex-wife decided to leave and, "find herself," meanwhile destroying a family. Ironically my Ex would call me controlling.
No, she didn't 'destroy' a family. It's up to you to step up, be the leader, and make things good. If you continue to whine and say 'our family is destroyed', it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Be the leader of your life, not the victim of someone else's problems.
I was raised under a similar parenting style, but from my dad. My mother was a different story. For the most part I didn’t have to worry about my dad spanking me because I wasn’t inclined to lie to people who I cohabitate with, nor was I inclined to physically abuse people smaller than me. It never happened. Doesn’t mean I never got beat, but those beatings were done by my mother later on and were not justified, nor were they meted out fairly. I know the difference now. So for Dewayne running his household, not as a tyrant but as a responsible father, I’m far more inclined to be supportive than I am critical. I’ve seen how much of a difference it makes to have a level-headed father being the disciplinarian, versus an unhinged mother. I’ll say this: By and large, if you’re a good kid, you don’t have to worry about being disciplined if your dad is this kind of father. Where you need to be worried is when they’re a true, power-hungry, unhinged tyrant.
How is this so guy completely oblivious to the fact that a man does not have 100% control? No amount of being a good father will make up for a woman who goes a different route. He's getting at partial truths, but he's being laughably simplistic. The knife story was cartoonish, boomer trash. Claims to be a Christian, but then reveals his god complex with that absurd Zeus nonsense. This guy gives off Liver King or Jack Murphy vibes.
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Can't wait
I have been so patient waiting for this content!
Omg I love love love this guy! He was such a boost of sanity during covid years! Thank you for bringing him on the show guys!
Been waiting for this for a couple weeks. He mentioned being on your show in one of his recent vids. Beyond stoked to listen!
Thanks for doing this, Chris!
Was so excited to see DeWayne as a guest.
Might need a spell check in the description though, brother 👍🏼
Again, thanks for consistently putting out content that helps us grow as people, Chris! Excited to watch when I have time
"This country is falling apart because people fail to hold others accountable."
Holding one to account is one of the foundations of Christianity as taught in the scriptures.
Women held accountable?!?! Perish the thought!
keithstewart934 I'll bet you have at least one kid that you never even see or talk to.
I disagree. I think the difficulty is we are very eager to hold others accountable but reluctant to hold ourselves accountable.
@beksinski I regret that I have but one up vote to give for this comment.
Controversial, I know, but I actually think both people in a marriage are responsible for making it work. And you can't force the other one to be decent if they don't want to.
Absolutely.
How would this be controversial! You are exactly right. This man deletes completely the duty, thoughts and responsibility of 50% of the marriage, which is the woman (if hetero couple).
It’s a team effort and he is happy saying out loud that half of the couple, just because is a man, needs to make all the decisions , specially the tough ones… “even if your wife is mad at you”. So he thinks only Man can rule the world… come on! Life is more complex than that, thank ‘God’
Come on, some
True, although he was answering the question, which was on the role of fatherhood specifically.
You are absolutely right. The controversial part is that the man is absolutely the head of the home, so the responsibility and burden of the family's success ends with him. That is why the man is more to blame.
Not true at all. Single fathers raise kids just as well as a 2 parent home. But a single mother does not. So whenever a man is around kids are better.
This man is one of few the real ones on the entire internet.
Real? He’s talking about Adam and Eve out the gate. LOL
@@JEEDUHCHRI simple minds want simple answers. The boy in the cowboy costume seems pretty simple to me.
Look up the statistics of how kids turn out with versus without a father. All the major problems in our country are because of the fatherless epidemic in our country. It’s just facts.
@@JEEDUHCHRIRespectfully, authenticity and having a worldview you believe in are not the same thing. I don't believe in Biblical Literalism, but Dewayne does seem like a very heartfelt person, and he is a well-read man with a ton of life experience if you ever listen to his channel.
@JEEDUHCHRI and I suppose you believe in your feelings and yourself alone? Lol
I think one major problem is the women canceling the men who are real men.
Stop playing a victim.
@@whatname4613 - Open your eyes to the truth. Proverbs 14:1
Basically, real men ignore all that crap, don't care what other people think of them, and do the right thing no matter what.
Nailed it
Then cancel those women. Not everyone has to like you.
I get the idea that young men need to step up etc. But where are the women calling out women who are actively Misandrist and filling for divorce at 70-90% ??
True. Women also need to step up.
Accept the things you cannot change. Have the courage to change the things you can and have the wisdom to know the difference
In algorithmic hell. I watch their content but they get low views. Wonder why? 🤔
We call them out, believe me, but they don't listen anymore then men do now. No one wants any responsibility, at all.
Or maybe can take responsibility and think and empathize with why women don't like men and why they break up the marriage. It's not just because like so many men who lack accountability like to spin. You're not being logical, you lack empathy.
He's mostly right. Unfortunately if a man puts his foot down, he's called an abusive narcissist, she divorces him, takes the kids, half his wealth, etc. The authority of the man has been subverted by poppa government. So if the law stays like it is, it's going to be up to women to find appreciation for such a man. I knew someone who put his foot down (as he describe) and his woman left him for an emasculated man, and threatened him to never see their child every again. The leverage is now in the hands of women.
so he is flat out wrong then and living in delusion to the current times we are living in
@@James_36 Well, we live in times when being "good and righteous", is punished. So he's right but completely out of touch with what suburbia and most populated areas go through.
Yeah problem with taking everything elders say at face value is that in reality, things change. In today’s world you can be a great husband or a terrible husband and get taken down all the same. A lot of women (especially western ones) are very self destructive when it comes to relationships. Especially because social media has inflated so many peoples egos into thinking they are better than they really are, and that goes for guys and girls. That’s what happens when relationships are less about actually caring for one another and more about feeling good in the short term.
@@addressingtheelephant
Simply telling men to "man-up" for the 100th time isn't going to change the ridiculously unfair divorce laws that incentivise women to break up their families.
I always tell my kids....'there's a lot of love in the word no". I am very comfortable being the bad guy for what I feel is my family's best interests. "Best Interests" means; security, self-sufficiency and resilience.
There is wisdom here. Even if you don’t agree with every point, you cannot deny there is a lot of wisdom.
I found Dry Creek on accident and i never left. Words cannot describe how much I love this man. So many nuggets of wisdom and I found him when I was most down. I thank him for picking me back up. It’s amazing what this platform called UA-cam is capable of.
Same here bro, I found him completely on accident. And I haven't stopped watching him since. This man is saving lives, mine included. Thank you Dewayne
The things he says are so relevant to my life as a man, father and husband that sometimes it’s like he is speaking directly to me
Same here
Amen 💯
I get what he's saying. But the blame isn't on fathers or husbands. The blame is on a lack of morals and ethics across the board. I heard someone once say, "The business of business, and the business of life are the same". And that is very true. If you carry yourself with morals and ethics inside the home, it will carry into all other aspects of your life including your job, business, or career. If you lack morals and ethics inside the home, it will have a negative impact.
The blame is with the Feminist system that disempowers men and sets them up to fail in all capacities, including as fathers and husbands. The real question is: why are men allowing this?
And who establishes “morals and ethics”? A toddler in the home maybe? The woman? The pet dog? If you’re a God fearing man which it sounds like you might not be this is plain and simple. Foundation is God. And as he said in this video God gave dominion to the Man and the woman was made to help man.
Yea and fathers are suppose to teach their kids morals and ethics, and theyre not
Yes but you've not heard him all the way. Those morals and ethics are supposed to be established by the father and everyone held responsible by the father. This is a man who is taking complete responsibility for his family. That should be commended
Ethics and morals don't exist in a vacuum. They are created, carried and upheld by people, men and women alike.
This was the podcast we have been waiting for a dad with 7 kids
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Exactly
Tough love is hard to give when you're a parent. It is always easier to say to give your kids tough love when you don't have children.
I’m so happy to see this guy on the show!!! I’ve caught him online a few times and it’s hard to deny some of the real talk he spits out. Running a rancher school is a hard task; he’s working with young men everyday. Hard work.
I do not agree with everything Dewayne says. But I do see value in his words in most cases, regardless of my personal opinion.
He's spot on when it comes to the plight of families. Without the bedrock of a stable mom & dad, kids are very likely to go down terrible paths, with no one to guide them through their trials. Everyone makes mistakes, but too few have a repository of wisdom from which they can draw in times of need.
same, one of my fav podcast is "The loudest man in the room"
Yeah, I wanted to interrupt him by saying it's not the old days...if you come down hard on your wife or make her resent your decisions she'll just vent her anger to the nearest nice guy stalker on FB just waiting to DM her some shade about you. And your children can call you abusive and hide at school while getting se change.
Another win for the internet. Found Dewayne because of a short he did on why he smoked cigars....been watching ever since. He speaks truthfully, not a "lived truth" but truth. The truth resonates differently and I am happy to see his acceptance from the interwebs. I hope he writes his story. So glad to see him on your podcast.
This man lives in a world of marriage 1.0 where men had actual authority in their marriage and family. We live in a Marriage 2.0 society where men have no actual authority in their marriage…. Just responsibility
totally agree!
Be the man of a marriage 1.0 and your wife will shed the programming and follow suit. Women always follow whatever is the strongest influence in their life and what makes them feel safe.
@@-eg2no I can tell you are not married
Well said
Exactly, older men will never fully understand. It sucks because younger men are just left to fend for themselves, all the while being blamed for the world’s problems. We don’t have anybody pointing out problems on both ends. Not older men, not women, not the church, nobody. Hell, I’ve never even been past a first date in my 25 years on earth and somehow I’m blamed for the relationships between men and women.
The country is falling apart because men his age have failed to pass the torch to the generations after them, who needed it the most when they were coming of age. Now we've been without the torch for so long we don't care what happens next.
The torch is not passed until you take the next step to get there. Sometimes the room is dim you must be the light.
Claiming the marriage is solely dependant on the ‘worth’ of the man absolves women of responsibility to marriage. You can put your foot down all you want, but she can just walk away and is in some cases highly incentivized to.
Not to mention she could say he "hurt" her to get him dealt with, if she took the notion.
We live in a country where parents are having their children forcefully taken from them because they won't "gender affirm" their kids. CPS shows up, and the kids are gone. This guy would pull out a pistol, and either end up in prison or dead if he was to carry out the words he speaks in that scenario... If we're in a country that allows that, I'm sorry... Fathers and husbands haven't failed... They've lost. Against whom? The ones we were supposed to lead, provide for, set examples for, and discipline... They cried out saying Men are the victimizers, and people started to LISTEN IN MASS. Men have lost their hold on this country... I just pray we can get it back one day.
In the Christian faith, the man is the leader, but this doesn't mean the woman is "a useless object", this means the leader NEEDS a follower, and the follower NEEDS a leader.
Is it commonly said that the woman is a representation of the quality of man, because at a s*xual level, the woman chooses the best man.
So a good marriage is represented by a good man, but that's because he is the leader. If the woman is bad, then the marriage is bad, which means the man is bad (and vice versa).
It's all connected, in marriage, the man and woman become one.
@@newme1589 Hm... Based off of modern American society, how well do you suppose that idea is working out? "woman only bad because man bad"... I'm sure there are many amazing fathers that lost custody of their kids that would severely disagree with you... But don't worry. Your bible has nothing to say about no-fault divorce, feminism, birth control, or abortion either... We are not one nation under god anymore... And applying blanket Christian principles to a society that is falling away from Christianity is a bit out of touch with the reality we face today.
Not if men change the laws and culture.
My father was a very absent businessman. All he really told us children was that "I want you to be happy". Pretty horrible advice.
"Be respectful to your elders, even if they're not respectable they've still been through life enough. Their position earns them what their behavior won't."
The man must be a saint or a fool, because a lot of monstrous people get old. Our society is so amazing that it allows it to happen. Getting respected because you lived long enough in a time when it's easier than it's ever been in history to get old is wild. There's a difference between not treating someone poorly and Respect.
I'm an older guy and my grandfather told me "Respect is something you earn, and you KEEP earning it the rest of your life." I think he's right, and he lived and died a respectable man.
You respect people in a large part because of who it makes you. You don’t always respect them for who they have made themselves.
@@DryCreekWranglerSchoolHave you ever been in a position of having to respect an authority figure who makes you feel sick with anxiety and dread? Do you have a suggestion for dealing with the sense of powerlessness? I agree I'd think more of myself if I could hide my disgust (sorry to admit that's how strongly I feel), however I don't know how to keep myself calm enough to get through it. Maybe I answered my own question. I need to learn how to stay calm even when being affected by an authority figure I deeply dislike and cannot honestly respect. I guess that's life for mature adults.
Do you have any thoughts about maintaining composure with difficult people who have power over you (in my case, a teacher)?
@@DryCreekWranglerSchool Well, respecting people who don't respect you will make you into their door mat.
Ain’t that the truth. Just because you’re old, it doesn’t make you a wise elder. It just means you’re old.
@@Maorawrathrespect doesn’t mean being a door mat.
My follow-up question would be, do you blame the men that marry someone who divorces them over "Not being Happy", takes half the man's stuff, and takes his children for not raising his own kids right, or do you blame the fathers of these women for not raising their women right?
They will blame the fathers for not raising their daughters right. It’s a shame; it's not even worth arguing with these people; they already know everything in their minds. My sister divorced my “ex” brother-in-law because they changed as “they grew up, and he wasn’t funny or into sports.” These were literally her exact words.
@IkeCreed yeah, my follow-up to the follow-up would be, when do you think these women take accountability for their actions instead of just blaming the men in their lives?
@walterp1028 never in a society that doesn't require it and enables their behavior
Lots of men don't get the opportunity to be present in their children's lives.
This guy is 100% spot on. My father was incredible and my wife’s dad was an alcoholic excuse for a father. It damages kiddos when dad is a male but not a man.
You cannot lead any partnership or organization when your partner or followers in an organization are taught from birth to diarespect you and are incenticized to break the partnership up for monetary rewards and social clout.
Yeah, nobody really acknowledges this. They just blame men for being too weak, the problem is we'll go to jail for being strong raising our voices to say, "no we're going in this direction" or divorced if we don't do whatever our wife says. There is no hope until this is addressed.
Sadly, it doesn't matter. It is the man's responsibility. The blame will always be put on men, and credit will always be deflected away.
@@boomshroom5118these are some pathetic excuses. Your not gonna go to jail and if you married a woman like that thats your fault
@@zillobeast5257 - Not that simple. Many women are great actresses until they get that ring on their finger and then the truth comes out.
@@j.p.5716 im well aware of the covert narcissists out there and again it’s entirely your fault if your too dum to pick up on it
The problem is many things. Not just men not being men. Its also greed and lazy parents not teaching their kids to be good people that are willing to work. Then you have the extremists on the political spectrum. On both sides. Not just one.
I would say that the real problem is single mother households or broken homes. I believe that an intact family, a healthy family with a healthy relationship and marriage are what we need. Yes men have a responsibility to be strong and to be able to control themselves and their lives. That being said I do not believe that this is inherently a male problem. I believe that this is a societal problem.
@BoostedPastime Agree there also
Bingo! His answer does implicitly address this tho, in that so long as men become more responsible, they are in turn more responsible fathers; And thus, better family conditions.
When he started talking about his daughters... I knew I was gonna love this guy.
Man, I wish I had this growing up..and yes, I'm one of those girls that wish I had that kind of protection growing up.
I have 2 daughters and his advice is toxic. To tell women they can do whatever they want with no consequences is why we have 1 out of 3 women in society who have terminated a pregnancy. Wrong WROng WRONG!
They’re being pushed out.
So, what makes a good woman? Is there anything that they could possibly do wrong? If they do, is there any possible punishment? Seems we just give them a free pass for any behavior and go looking for a man to blame instead. Also, if you need a strong church to make strong families and strong families to make a strong church, that seems paradoxical.
The lack of God in the home is another failure point. People go to church but have no Holy spirit/aim to God in their home. It's not even a topic point of the church or family structure today. Madness.
This guy operates under the assumption that the females are always operating honorably with a high degree of self accountability. That is almost never the case. His methods are outdated.
This is TradCon 101, and why the Republican Party and churches are dying.
Jesus Christ man to man I respect this guy so much, these are the TRUE family values we need to fight for. Across social classes and race. We need men and fathers like this.
🙏 ❤
Appreciate you having Dewayne on. There are not enough outspoken common man philosophers today with common sense who'll help younger people navigate life.
Do what makes you happy is not the key to happiness. Thank you for your perspective, I agree.
GD this show/podcast is seriously one of the best things out there. I’ve seen a couple of Dry Creek Dave’s videos, he’s interesting. But the variety of great guests you have is amazing. The fine line of having variety and good guest but not having wackos on is hard, and you guys have done it right.
Love the show
This is how you talk to the non religious as a religious person. No pretentiousness. No talking down. Speak truth to your power and that should be enough.
Another one always blaming the men and never the women?
I agree with both points, the men need to be held accountable however so do the women. There is a LOT of blue pilled thought in this take although he makes some solid points.
Yes. Thats the status quo
Family courts have failed men
Its sad that society teaches that he would be a bad parent now days. But its what we all needed as kids. America would be a better place if Fathers stayed and raised their children this way. Its just a fact. But also Women need to be held accountable as well.
If fathers stayed? What against the court order that tells them they have to leave?
Dewayne is THE Man. 👊
Wise words. Boy is it hard sometimes to follow when you want something different than what your husband decides. However, the weight of that is to fall on the husband. I appreciate that protection and provision.
Solid man. He's speaking truths that in our perverse society seem like insanity. We need more like him.
Yeah, women don’t have much reason to listen to their men no more things have changed quite a bit. I think it’s a bit deeper than just men failing
Dewayne is the man. Love that guy.
Been really waiting for this drop!
The first boy my daughter brought around never introduced himself or shook my hand, I didn’t approve and expressed that to her immediately. Of course her mother (my ex) had the opposite sentiment. Well, didn’t long before she realized who was right. She made sure the next boy I met properly introduced himself.
Dude its so cool you got this guy on.
I did not see this coming. Holy crap, CW and our favorite Wrangler. LFG.
thanks for posting and sharing this thumbs
Two of the biggest and wisest men on the internet sitting down and talking together. Phenomenal
I don't know about that. One very wise yes. The other is working on it. He's still young and I would consider him smart but not yet wise.
It’s a sin problem in both sexes. It’s not all on the man. We have let sin and immorailty run rampant, anything goes, everything is acceptable. Clear moral values are not taught or modeled by both sexes. It’s a travesty, which results in the breakdown of the family.
Alexis de Tocqueville said: “America is great because she is good. If America ceases to be good, America will cease to be great”. 🙏🇺🇸
Can you define "good"? Something we can easily understand for the masses? What makes something good?
@ Lambert, Id say morally good, the golden rule at a minimum. Keeping crime and draft to a minimum.
"Good" and "Christian" are different words. For a reason.
@@attgogattgog8620 people hurt themselves all the time. If people don't know how to treat themselves it's no wonder why they don't know how to treat others. I bet we can come up with a solid definition
No nation is good before God. Look at the founding and the following two centuries. American soil is soaked in blood.
I can't wait for this episode
Heavy voice, heavy answer. God bless, everything he said is true.
Regardless of his beliefs that this country was founded as a Christian country(which I disagree) he spoke his mind, his truth and he provided his reasoning for his feelings toward believing that. That is someone I can respect. Despite differences in views and opinions
The founding fathers said that this country was not founded as a Christian nation. And I am a bible thumping Christian. This is a fact that needs to be accepted.
It is despite their wants, but didn't they admit that this country and it's constitution doesn't work without a God fearing people to uphold it?
just because its not founded as a "Christian nation", there's no doubt that a lot of the morality was stemmed from Christianity values as a whole.
That's not true.
They wanted to keep religion out of government, sure, but that meant no priests governing, that did NOT mean that Christian values should not be used as a moral guideline to good governance.
All but two states REQUIRED government officials to make a professional of Christian faith. The federal constitution protected this at the State level. It was not intended to not be a Christian nation. It was intended that Christianity would continue to be the bedrock at the state level and the federal government would refrain from imposing a NATIONAL religion on the states. This is why the 1st Amendment has the establishment clause.
What? This is a Christian nation, built on Christian principles. It's undeniable. If the founding fathers explicitly stated that or not doesn't matter. By the way what's up with this idea that the founding fathers were right about everything. They had a lot of good ideas sure but we can make some improvements you know? And if you make the case at the founding fathers were right about everything that were probably pushed by something divine something greater and that's God so then it was built on a Christian foundation.
So Good Duane ! Working by God's Grace to be a Man for the Family
His children are blessed! The kind of Dad I had. My hero!
He is basically saying to bring back your Mother saying "you just wait to your Father gets home" and once you heard those words you knew down to your bones, you were in deep crap. Also, the part about being the bad guy where even Mom is mad, 100%, someone has to be the bedrock and the foundation. A ship has to have a rudder or it will wander aimless until it eventually runs aground or sinks.
Wow!!!!! One of the best guests you’ll have Chris!
Kids need guidance and boundaries set, but most importantly they need freedom and responsibility as the get older. Parents neglect teaching their kids how to become active problem solvers. How can you expect a kid to navigate the world on their own when they're older if they have never been taught to become their own guide?
Been waiting for his one. I love Dewaynes outlook.
This episode is going to be a great one!
This episode is gonna go so hard
What plz do you mean?
I am a woman, but I blame women! We are supposed to choose who is allowed to create the next generation with us. Many are not choosing wisely!
Spot on.
Sooooo happy you had this wonderful man on your show. He's a real gem! ❤
Just a good and a wise man. Respect.
Seeing Dewayne here is amazing. I love his channel.
This man is the best
I could listen to Dwayne talk all day. Been watching his channel for the last 3 years.
I’m so glad you had him on! He’s awesome!
I am so stoked for this. I love Dewayne. He truly wants to help young men be who they're designed to be. God bless him.
A LOT of fathers that have daughters just let them raise themselves, without guidance. My mother's partner for over two decades is exactly like this. And because of this, it ruined them mentally, it wasted years of their lives, it caused them to make incredibly vast amounts of bad decisions through life, and he isn't doing anything but suffer the consequences, all together. And these people all believe that they are doing just great, and they are above others. Their lack of ego development, they don't even know what it is. Ignorance is bliss to ignorant people. So many DO NOT deserve to build families because they build families over unfinished foundations, and this causes nothing but hard ache in the long run.
Super excited to see the rest of this episode! "Arthur Morgan" looking real sharp, in 4K.
Huge rise in podcasts for sure
This is my Dad, my grandfathers…THIS is exactly what we are lacking today! A MAN amongst boys. If we had just a small percentage of men like this raising this generation, we wouldn’t be seeing the crap that is going on today! Thank you Chris for bringing a spotlight on him. I have been watching him for a while and he always makes me feel at home. He makes me miss my grandpas so much but i guess thats why i love to listen to his wisdom!
A boy took my aunt out back in the 70’s and he came back later than he was supposed to. He was told not to do so ever again by my Grandfather twice. The third time, my Grandfather waited outisde for him……with either a rifle or a bat (I don’t know which because one person in my family says one thing and someone else says something different). The boy never came back. My aunt went on to live a great life unbothered.
While I agree with everything this man is saying he's missing one crucial point. Women have and are rebelling against this idea. You can't lead people who won't accept it.
This is such a tease. I legit scrolled through every recent video to find the this full interview lol. Next time, I’ll read the description lol
AMEN!!!!! This man hit's all the important points of a healthy marriage, family and church!!! Even men in the church need to step up, now is the time. FATHER'S AND MEN are SO important.
Love the first response. And he really thought deeply about it. Good man.
While I'd love to have a dad who is deeply "committed to my safety and future", I would hate to have a husband who doesn't speak about marriage as though it's a partnership. He makes it sound as though the success of a society is dependent on men/husbands/father alone.
Yeah. I agree. Women have a lot of responsibility for the moral framework of a society. Much like men allow infrastructure, the economy, and law enforcement to work.
Hr actually made a beautiful tribute video to his wife about her role as mother. You should watch it. It gives a great view on his perspective on the power of a mother
His channel has a fair number of videos praising his wife and the powerful role of women. It’s just that his channel is designed for men, so his content typically focuses on that
Masculine and feminine energies work together symbiotically. Balance is important.
Absolutely so excited for this episode to come out, two people I look up to in one room
He said it simply and truthfully. Beautiful.
Oh, this is one awesome guest. Never seen him on a podcast before.
Dry creek wrangle school. Watch his page. Full of wisdom
This set is amazing.
My own dad is just like Dwayne and I’ve never been able to stand him.
why
I don't blame you.
@@skyhappy Because My dad was the same way. it was either the wrong way or his way - and growing up as kid it seemed I could never do anything right - But when I got older and started working people appreciating me. and then realizing how wrong he was at times ( and not every word he spoke was gospel). Year's later I got into augment with him, and after a little bit I said " You know what problem is, you never think your wrong." he said " who says I 'am - I walked away.
Sad you were such a rebellious child.
The father has to be the bad guy in the family BECAUSE he loves his wife and children. When a parent puts their foot down and says NO!, the kids get angry about it, but they get over it. I’m 58 years old with adult children who said thank you to me for putting my foot down and saying NO! When they were young.
Discovered Dewayne early this year, wise man. ❤
Holy shit. Have been following Dewayne for years.. what an episode
Man I disagree with so much of this, fathers and husbands have been completely robbed of their “ability to put their foot down”.
Yeah, his rules were perfect for how society used to be. Won’t work now.
He is about 100 years too late with his world view.
I'm glad you guys see through this guy lol A lot of people can't.
@@Alazar654 yeah I completely agree.
@@DeepDishPeteza yes the guy is about 70 years out of fckin date
Bern following the Dry Creek Dewayne for two years now He makes great wisdom content.
My surrogate dad and life coach are talking omg
You need to find better role models lmao
This is good stuff!
Husband actually means band around the home. In many studies single fathers have better outcomes than single mothers and in many countries when there is a divorce the children goes with the father because usually women are stay at home mothers and the father is the one with the career and money to take care of his children. Men perceive a woman’s value as being more when she has a strong support system around her because predatory men go after women who aren’t surrounded with a strong family. Many prisoners were asked how do they pick a victim and 90% of them said they go after women and children who appear to come from broken families and who appear to not have anyone in their “corner” looking out for them. This is what people who were murders, SA, traffic, and other crimes said. A man that just wants to use a woman for her reputation and her body then gets her pregnant and leaves would not mess with his daughters.
I agree, but as a divorced man your wife is a person. A husband cannot control his wife. My ex-wife decided to leave and, "find herself," meanwhile destroying a family. Ironically my Ex would call me controlling.
Yeah his advice of being the bad guy with good intentions is a quick way to get divorced. You’ll be labeled as toxic and controlling.
Happens all the time. I tire of lectures on being a good father/husband. I was both and it didn't matter.
@@BirdDogey1 I hear you brother
The father of your ex wife might be the man that failed here.
No, she didn't 'destroy' a family. It's up to you to step up, be the leader, and make things good. If you continue to whine and say 'our family is destroyed', it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Be the leader of your life, not the victim of someone else's problems.
I enjoyed this conversation; we got what we needed to hear. Looking forward to the full episode.
Yeah buddy! Can't wait for the full podcast!!
I was raised under a similar parenting style, but from my dad. My mother was a different story. For the most part I didn’t have to worry about my dad spanking me because I wasn’t inclined to lie to people who I cohabitate with, nor was I inclined to physically abuse people smaller than me. It never happened. Doesn’t mean I never got beat, but those beatings were done by my mother later on and were not justified, nor were they meted out fairly. I know the difference now. So for Dewayne running his household, not as a tyrant but as a responsible father, I’m far more inclined to be supportive than I am critical. I’ve seen how much of a difference it makes to have a level-headed father being the disciplinarian, versus an unhinged mother. I’ll say this: By and large, if you’re a good kid, you don’t have to worry about being disciplined if your dad is this kind of father. Where you need to be worried is when they’re a true, power-hungry, unhinged tyrant.
How is this so guy completely oblivious to the fact that a man does not have 100% control? No amount of being a good father will make up for a woman who goes a different route. He's getting at partial truths, but he's being laughably simplistic. The knife story was cartoonish, boomer trash. Claims to be a Christian, but then reveals his god complex with that absurd Zeus nonsense. This guy gives off Liver King or Jack Murphy vibes.
This man is amazing and so important. I really want to see the full episode.