These Women Are Why Men K*ll Themselves
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You know what really makes me mad? When I used to go out of my way to make sure the women in my life are protected and feel safe, only to be told that I DONT MAKE THEM FEEL SAFE for being a man. Everything we do doesnt matter.
And the sooner that men realize this, the better off we will be.
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Like my sister's when they get hit from there boyfriend's Tham me being the bigger older brother I'll sort there boyfriend's out than I'm the bad one 😂😂
@@lifes_abeach6040 if it's family, someone I'm close enough to, yes I'll defend them. Random people I don't know, no. Absolutely not.
"you're controlling and oppressive!" Quote
I almost lost my son to suicide. I would tear a bitch up if I heard her say something like that to my son. That he deserves to be dead. He's endured the loss of our whole family from the ages of 10-15. At 18, His girlfriend, who he was madly in love with broke up with him the day after their anniversary. He had no idea anything was wrong. He saved up for four months to take her to a very fancy restaurant and bought her a diamond necklace. She ate the food, loved the necklace and then had another boyfriend 2 days later. 6 days after that, I almost lost him. Women are far more brutal with men than they are with us.
The only shred of joy in this is her new boyfriend cheated on her a couple of months after she left my son. She begged for him to take her back. His instant reaction was yes. I begged him to break up with her. Thank God he did. I'm sure she's one of those women who think all men are shit because she fucked up and lost one of the good ones. He's 23 now. And he is one of the good ones. There are plenty out there. They just know better than to fuck around with dumb bitches.
Thanks for sharing ❤
I'm happy he has a mom like you to look after him best wishes to him and you mama bear 🐻
Tell your son that he's important. That's so crazy. I know. I'm 52 years old man, if my daughter would have done this to someone, I think I would have been so shameful about her doing what that girl did to your son that I would have really disowned her. I hope you and your son are doing fine. Thank you for sharing your story it's important.
@@MarvinHartmann452 Marvin, thank you. And thank you, everyone, for their best wishes. He's doing very well now. In general. However, it hurts me that he hasn't even attempted to date since all that happened. He doesn't trust falling in love again. And he's not the love them and leave them type. I would like to see him happy, with a girl who deserves him. He feels like it's impossible and a waste of time. Roma actually hits the nail on the head quite often. Men can't (mostly) be vulnerable. So they either turn into man whores (who can blame them) or they just shut down the possibility of being devastated again and just stay out of the dating game. It's a terrible thing. I know he's happy overall. But I also know he's lonely. But I do tell him his immense worth. Both as a man in this world and as his worth to a good woman. Hopefully he gets there someday soon.
@@Kelly583 Thank you. I have 3 boys, no girls. I try very hard to teach my boys that their feelings are just as important as their partners, in relationships. While my husband teaches them how to be a man and had a treat a woman. Thank God I'm not in this alone.
My first wife was an abuser. She did acts of violence against me and our kids and threatened to kill the kids. This was back in the early '70s when men were always looked at as the powerful one, most likely to abuse and not be abused. We ended up getting divorced and I got custody of the kids. That's another story in itself.
I'm so glad to hear that, and sorry you and your kids had to go through that.
My mother was my abuser, and she fought like a man. She was built like a linebacker. She would beat me with her fists. She would kick me in the stomach and send me stumbling backward or hit me with fists and knock me across the room. The thing is, my dad always ran interference if CPS showed up. He and her psychologist would get her out of it then the shit really would hit the fan then.
Two things about that:
1. What's the big deal/fuss anyway?
2. Your first wife must had her reasons though.
@@matthowland1770 First off, what about your dad and your mom's psychologist exactly?😕
I turn 15 tomorrow, and have been through more than some people twice my age. I am a victim of molestation, I witnessed my parents flatline four months apart, I struggle with substance abuse, and have tried taking my own life twice before. THANK. YOU. you make me feel seen and loved as a human being. If you yourself are facing difficult times, take my comment as a sign to keep up your amazing work.
Keep strong bud. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you. For all you've been through and you're still here, that's a fucking victory. Be proud of yourself for keeping the fight going. Life is hard without all the things you've been through, but it's better than the leading alternative. There isn't a time table to healing, just be gentle with yourself and know even if they aren't by your side, there are people out there that care. If you have times where it's hard to move forward and you fall "If you fall, fall on your back. If you can look up, you can get up."
@@dinxmoon9734well about a million people disagree with you so there's that
It ain't easy, but believe me, there's strength in shouldering the burden. You can do it, dude.
I’m a blind man who suffers from manic depression. I would like to take some time to thank you for everything you do in fighting for men’s mental health. There aren't enough of people like you, so, keep fighting the good fight. Fellas, protect your meat. Money, energy, attention and time.
Keep it up man. you have a place in this world!
@@JohnaldWick Speech to text I would assume.
@Johnald Wick I was thinking that but didn’t want to say it 😂 respect to the OP though 💯
How do you get to the videos ? And the get to the comments and then comment that's wild. 😅 Fair play.
@@8ball9016 he might not be fully blind, but has eye health problems that make him legally blind
As someone who's fought mental health issues all my life, I just wanted to say thank you for shedding light in the fact that men suffer too... ❤
Stay strong, it'll work out in the end
I feel you man
Same bud. Lately, I've been having good days. A good year. In the back of my mind, I worry that symptoms will present itself again. Or not knowing if they do. Just keep going. Do not give up on your battle. I say this to myself. I don't know if it will help anyone else.
I appreciate it thank you everyone... If more people were decent to each other everything would be so much better
@@dunmwarupreachan4567 you're the GOAT man, keep that strong mindset. It is going to prove necessary. I do think others can learn from your experiences becuz I have had very similar ones and feel the same way. Stay blessed and never let these things break you.
Most people I've known, have never heard of misandry but immediately know what misogyny is.
When I explain that it's the same, but towards men, some (mostly women) have gone so far as to say, "Now you're just making up words." Or "B.s! That's not even a thing!" Or " Men can't be discriminated against, since they ARE the oppressors." (Sounds like a similar comment I've heard about another topic.)
So, when it took 17 months and a sheriff's order to get my abusive, misandrist ex out of my house, I pretty much fought it alone.
Stayed single after that one (2020).
Thank you SO much for doing what you do!
I know it's a slim-to-none chance, but I keep hoping to meet a woman who thinks like you do!
Between you and dadvocate the two of you have restored a small part of humanity in my eyes honestly it makes me feel like im not insane that you two wonderful women are not only acknowledging but speaking about some of the stuff that even i have experienced and saying that it isnt okay
As a male. I can wholeheartedly say "Thank you. We need more of this realisation."
You're right in my book. Sorry about the ex. That sucks. Stay strong.
I've been a victim of SA. Not once have I ever blamed men, or projected my anger onto men. I blamed the individual. These women have never been a victim of anything besides their own narcissism. I feel more unsafe with other women.
Me, too, and I don't blame women. Crazy how it works that I didn't find myself blaming an entire gender, half the population, for the actions of one drunk lady, eh?
I’m sorry that happened to you. Thank you for understanding that most men would rather die than hurt someone like that.
I'm so sorry you had to experience that. Some men just weren't raised right fortunately most of us were
I gave up so much letting women get their way because I thought that is what I was supposed to do. If only I had known that equality was never their goal, it was total control.
Thank you for this have struggled with mental illness and suicide and when scrolling social media and seeing posts calling us despicable things and saying we don't deserve to exist I'm constantly feeling like I have to apologize just for being a man despite trying my best to be a good person it can be so disheartening and they're so like convincing I sometimes believe them I think maybe it really is all men and I'm just a weird outlier or a worse person than I realize so I should shut up and check my privilege instead of speaking up and then I feel even worse and there's so many of them they'll swarm you and there's so vicious they'll say the most vile things if you contradict them even a tiny bit you say hey not all men are bad people and they'll accuse you of hating women or being part of the problem I can understand why this could encourage men to act worse because of they're gonna be treated like a monster anyway why not act like 1 turning yourself into the cold psychopathic person that everyone assumes you are at least means you no longer have to feel the pain of trying to be nice and getting beaten down for it I'm not excusing bad behavior it's just a legitimate reason it may happen I know I've fallen into that category but luckily I've been able to pull myself out of that and still try to be good despite it never seeming to get you anywhere
On point.
I lost the most important man in my life to suicide. The dismissal of his feelings and cries for help make me sick. It was my father. I stand with you Chlöe! ❤
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Sorry to hear that 😢, keep your chin up tho !
I too lost my father to suicide at the age of 13. He was depressed and there was substance abuse. My mom tried to help but she was the only one and it wasn't enough. Stay strong. Life is shitty but these things make use stronger than anyone else
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Blessings to you 🙏
As a woman who retired from military service, thank you SO much for being supportive of men. These women who advocate for the erasure of men make me f*cking sick. I'd like to see them do what men do, experience the struggles that men go through, dedicate themselves as much as men do to what they do, just for a week. Guarantee most've them would change their minds. (And those who are afraid to walk at night? Get your concealed carry license if you're so terrified, you wimps.)
We will happily die. We are built to die. Their world WILL understand what men brought.
Unfortunately for these asswipes at that point it will be too late.
Amen
Thank you and thank you roma
As a form male mp thank you also
Thank you for your sacrifice God bless
Roma, I appreciate your episodes more than you know.
Both of the women in my life used to accuse me of being "controlling" by trying to keep them safe, love them, and cater to their needs. I was only valid or important when they needed something.
My wife, and 20 year old step daughter (whom I raised) have managed to kill my capacity for love or emotions. Put me into therapy to deal with the anger, confusion, and depression. They have absolutely no clue how what they do hurt or how absolutely close to swallowing a bullet (just to make the pain stop) that I consider every single day. Well, up to the point when I realized the futility of life in the pursuit of ever being loved and was forced to turn off my emotions. Sometimes, even as men we just need a hug, to be held and reminded that someone in this world cares about us. To reassure us, as we try to do for the women in our lives. For women to traditionally be referred to as the "emotional sex", they sure show a lack of compassion or love towards men. They tend to be 99.99% of the time, narcissistic, self-centered, self-absorbed bitches! They should try giving back occasionally. They might be surprised by how much they can get in return. ❤
10yrs ago I ended up in the hospital. Thanks to family history I needed a heart surgery to fix a block in one of my arteries. A bypass. I was 38 at the time.
I never called my ex who is also the mother of my only child. I learned that compassion or empathy was never her strong suit. In fact she was absent of both.
So I called my ex brother in law. Him and I always got along, during and after the relationship with his sister and I.
I called because it was a major surgery and I was naturally scared. My thoughts went directly to my son and the chance he could become fatherless. So I called her brother and begged him to watch over my son just in case of the worst. His first words were “Nope, you’re going to fine and take care of your son till old age” and “I’ll be at the hospital tomorrow for when you come out of surgery” and “You got this, and I’ll always look out for son no matter what.”
Next day I’m being pre surgery prepped in my hospital room. The nurses were and the surgeon were in the room going over everything and they be bringing me to the operating room in less than a half hour.
While the surgeon was talking to me I got a text. It was from my ex. Her brother must’ve spoken and informed her.
Her text read as follows “Do you have life insurance?
That’s was the entirety of it. Those five words that’ll I’ll never forget. I’m not going to lie here because I don’t any of you to feel embarrassed. But i read her text and the tears were streaming down my face. The level of uncaring, meanness selfishness was nothing I had ever experienced. The surgeon and the nurses thought my tears were induced by my nervousness and tried to reinsure me that I was going to be fine.
I had tossed my phone on the chair in the room because I just wanted her text message away from me. The nurse picked my phone up and it was still open to her message. She read it, let out an “oh” and put her fingers to her mouth as she was showing shock. She showed the message to the surgeon. I was just laying their emotionally exposed, crying in front of complete strangers. My surgeon said after reading her text “Your life is not ending today, and there’s no expiration date in the near future either” and I was wheeled out of the room to the protesting room.
Females to this day ask me why I’m not married, why I choose to stay single and wonder why I don’t answer their questions about it.
I will never allow anyone to make me feel so worthless like that ever again. I’ll never feel that emotionally vulnerable, hurt and exposed for the rest of my life.
When comparing the feelings love brings to the feelings of heartbreak? Love literally just isn’t a string enough feeling to compete. It does not conquer all. And heartbreak far exceeds the worth of love.
I’m healthy today, run a few half marathons a year. I continue to work and earn over six figures and I live very comfortable. On my own, independent of anyone. And more over I have peace, knowing I’m single.
So when I see men committing suicide at a rate 3x that of a female. I know exactly why that is. Because that day, after her text, I was hoping I wouldn’t survive that procedure. All because society and females in particular doesn’t give af about men. Unless it’s for monetary gain in life and moreover what they can get paid by your death.
My situation isn't too far from yours.
@@dreamingmusic3299
I’m sorry, but know this one thing my friend. You matter!
@@Kick_Rocks_ - Thank you, as do you.
Roma if a guy was saying the stuff you were saying in this video they would get banned from UA-cam for hate speech. I’m thankful that you stick up for men like you do🙏🙏
another example of the privilege modern women have, not hating on chloe or anything but as you said if a man said this kinda stuff he would be banned
@@_Fulgur_it's called vagina privilege always has existed just worse now
The problem is, it might happend to her too.
She already got banned from tiktok as far as i know.
Quite strange that women can make thousands of "men are trash" videos with hatespeak but nothing happens, but if a guy points out that's misandry and hate speech he get cancled
That's true, but they are trying to ban her too.
@@timusa3937no
As a man who suffers with mental health and depression daily. Let me say if every guy had a female friend with your logic/views in their corner it really would go a very long way. Being seen as a monster for being born male or just being used for the perks/benefits i provide while getting zero help in return thrown ontop the mental issues i already deal with every day has been a nightmare...Thank you very much for speaking up, as i said it does go a very long way
Oh my God man you are speaking the truth
Brother....
Become a monster. Otherwise you're useless. Integrate your shadow. Harden yourself and become dangerous. Then you can choose not to use it. You don't get any perks or privilege for being male, you're bottom of the totem pole. Ignore all the lies. Speak only the truth. Join your brothers standing firm as we hold the society on our shoulders.
Not only are you *not* alone, you *never* have been. Stay strong, brother. Shed the weight heaped upon you and become the man you were born to be.
You are free from the chains that bind you.
You are free from the chains that bound you.
same I've struggled with mental illness abuse and trauma and I don't come from a place of privilege or have any power and on top of that seeing social media posts talking about how we're all evil people that need to die and constantly apologizing for being a man really wears you down after a while these videos have been such a light in the dark giving me so much hope that there are others out there that see the injustice and care about our suffering hell she's better on these topics than most therapists I've spoken to
Man I had some girl call me her "best friend" then she decided to turn around and start rumors, false accusation level of rumors I've only heard about 2 but there could be a lot I'm missing. I don't even have any female friends no more and I don't want them. That happened in my first year of highschool I'm still in high school I'm only 17. Man I think both of us need a hug. I think the same way bro.
@@tokin4213 Hang in there. You're not alone.
All I can say is thank you for doing this 🙏 ❤️
I'm a 31 year old male depressed heroin addict. I have spent most of my life taking care of one woman after another giving them everything I can and as it stands now none of my kids are allowed to see me (this happend before I became an addict) the 2 mothers of my 3 kids just love to use that as an excuse to keep it going .. I have a Batchelors degree In auto tech and science.. had an amazing job. The ex got mad at me for drinking in my back yard started a fight with me and attacked me .. i got in my car to leave and she calls the cops who then find me sleeping in my car a few blocks away charged me with a dwi which cost me my amazing job and the ability to get any job in my field now that started me down a hole I still can't escape. I really appreciate you being who you are and doing what you do... I'm all for women being empowerd and doing what makes them happy with or without a man but demonizing an entire gender isn't the way to do it
First of al Romy Im so sorry for your loss of your ex. Being there for him even tho your not together still is so commendable. Now wow. I love that you have used all that aggression to tell it as it is. It’s funny how women are more violent than men could ever be when committing crimes and as for the night time curfew how many women do you actually see standing outside and inside night clubs on the weekends. They certainly out number the men by far. I also love the way that you just haven’t said what you think politely but you have gone out on a full murder spree and really driven these points and issues home. The world needs more women like you because it’s obvious that us men can’t say or doing anything right now days so maybe these self entitled women will listen to another woman. When I say this it’s coming from a good place but I truly believe that you have bigger balls than most so called men of now days. And that’s a great thing. Once again I’m really sorry for your loss and I hope that you will deal with his passing in your own time. Anyway well said. No actually brilliantly said. I’ve only seen a few of your videos but I really love everything your about so you have won me over and I’ll become a subscriber for you. Peace my dear. 😘🤙😎🇦🇺
The thing about curfew is… do they actually think that criminals* who go out to commit crimes* are gonna care about curfew? Oh look, it’s curfew, I’m not allowed to go outside right now, guess I’ll have to postpone my crime-doing!
Thank you Chloe for what you do. As a female, at times I am ashamed of my gender because of how women treat men. I also support mens rights. Men built the world !!!!
dont be ashamed, women ahve also done amazing things!
First of all thank you! And second as a man I can say that men is nothing without women.
@@WertzuHun
I became what I am because I had no women. I was ruined by women 2 times, last time I was 30.
Had to pay of debts she made without my knowledge for 7 years. 7 years I barely had enough to survive.
After that I got a very good payed job in the it sector, can afford my hobbies like a little cnc mill and building rc trucks.
I'm single for 21 years now.
OK sometimes I feel lonesome and think it would be nice to have someone waiting at home. But then I remember that women 2 times broke me and nearly killed me.
Not worth it.
@@WertzuHun Men can be more than this. Take away the women, and you will see the truth in the man.
Women are not the enemy. Guys love what you are and know we need the balance
Hello Roma, I just subscribed to your channel. Let me tell you, It warms my heart seeing women like you who actually listen to us. I'm 33 years old and I'm fully aware of how bad things are in this country, I have some women in my family who are feminists and it is scary. I started to understand my own worth and value in my late 20s.
I was doing research on Modern Women's behavior of various kinds like attitude, verbal and physical abuse and I came across a short you did about women who hit men and my jaw dropped. You chewed these women out SOOO GOOD I felt like breakdancing.
Girl, You just earned yourself a new subscriber. Keep Bringing the Heat. Blessings 🙏❤😊
Thank you for this. Seriously. We need more people like you willing to stand up and speak the truth like this. You just gained me as a follower.
I had a sad realization the other day. Every single woman I have ever loved, looked up to, admired, etc has at one time or another dismissed my feelings and told me some version of "You're a man. Suck it up and deal with it." I discovered your channel and this entire community only a few months ago, but it has already saved my life. Just knowing that I'm not alone has helped a lot. Thank you, to all of the women in this community, just for the support and the acknowledgement.
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Don't worry we are here for you bro.
Hopefully it will brighten your day if I mention that a harpy ex's friend took my side in the situation with her and started giving me attention.
I was totally expecting the opposite but after I showed her my ex's chats of insulting and harassing me the ex's friend said how sorry she was that I had to go through all that, and that she doesn't blame me if I hate my ex.
I don't really really hate my ex I think I'm just indifferent and wanting her to live her own life and sort out her own problems herself.
But Maybe I Should Be Grateful to God that I Saw my Ex's True Colors After She Cheated on Me.
It's true bro, women do do that. They act as though as men, we have no feelings. It's true that, in many cultures, including our Western culture, that we're taught, as men and boys, not to show our feelings, but that doesn't mean we don't have them.
@@samr.england613 ❤🥂
You are amazing don't ever let anyone take that away from you ❤
Always speak up for what's right, ALWAYS! Silence got us here...
Been binging your content lately, never knew how badly I needed to hear this. And it's kinda broken the mold a little bit, hearing the comparison of men always finding solutions but never being given one by anybody else hit hard, thank you
Thank you so much for this video Roma Army. As a 32 year old man who has suffered with depression for many years and who came very close to suicide in 2015 one of the reasons being made to feel like shit for being a man and for having my heart broken by females and being told just to get on with it, you have legitimately restored my faith in some female humanity. Thank you 🌹
As someone who's lost a loved one, my cousin, to su*cide, I'm so sorry for your loss, Roma. That's a unique kind of pain that I wish nobody knew
She at least got to hold his hand. When my one ex was on her deathbed in Grand Rapids, I would've been denied entry. Not just because of all the covid BS, but also because of restrictions on non-family visiting. She was unable to talk due to Huntington's taking its toll and losing her teeth. So she couldn't overrule. I was pretty much forced to stay home. I couldn't hold her hand.
The sad part is, most men would protect a random female out of a pure heart and instinct. Women nowadays are disturbingly hypocritical. I'm a female and my husband found ur channel a long time ago. We love watching you and want to thank you for what ur doing. ❤
Women like you give me hope in humanity
Honestly, I was raised to respect and protect women (im Gen X born 72)
But when I see, that I was called a sexist for holding the door for a young women walking behind me, see these thousand men are trash videos, saw women on international women's day holding "kill all men" signs,
See women treating men like trash when they friendly try to point something out to her like she lost her key or phone, then I realy don't know why I should step in for a women.
So why should I risk injuries or possibly my life to protect a women who gets attacked?
And maybe get accused by her for whatever reason just because I tried to help her?
Absolutely I always say that if there is 5 men in a room, and ONE does something even slightly disrespectful to a strange woman the other 4 would immediately jump to a strange woman’s defense.
i wouldnt
use ur brain
Thank you for being a caring, understanding and supportive person in this cesspool of a society.
I was Suicidal at one point after one of the few companions/friends i had passed my dog had him for 16 amazing years, i didn't go through with it cause i had people that actually cared about me including a woman my mom. but i suffered in silence for a bit cause "men aren't supposed to show emotion" or some other bull. I'm still fighting with mental health and inner demons but i am doing better.
PS - I just found your channel your amazing.
Thank you so much for all you do for us men. It is greatly appreciated. My daughter looks up to you, and for that I cannot ever thank you enough!!! Our young women need more role models like you. Keep up the awesome work!!!!
The " Be the problem fixer but screw your emotions" thing hit home. It reminds me when I told my, now ex, wife that I was depressed because I couldn't find work. She said "Go unalive yourself or stfu! Im tired of hearing about it. Then she bailed on the marriage and our child. I was then told by everyone that I must be a crappy dude to make her leave. She told everyone I was the abuser when she said things like that to me. When it was I with the fractured collar bones cause I didn't defend myself for fear of jail.
Love this woman. We need more like her. She is, unfortunately, a rarity.
She's a tom girl, I'm sure! I want to marry her!!! Tom girls, especially the pretty ones, always had a place in my heart! Not only could you build dams in the creeks with them, catch salamanders, build tree forts, climb trees with them, but they are always passionate! I wish all girls could be tom girls! (Girls not worried about a broken nail, or make up, or how their hair looks, etc,.) Don't get me wrong, as when a girl is fixing her hair or even putting on her socks, it's incredibly beautiful and cute!
@Roma Army....I have suffered extremely hard the last couple of years with depression and anxiety and just general mental health....its just sad and upsetting and confusing to me that theres a good portion of women out there that feel this way about men....I was raised to treat women with the upmost respect...to honor and cherish....to protect and serve, and it all just blows up in my face daily because of the things I see.....its no wonder we as men have such issues with ourselves and society as a whole because everything we've learned and been taught is being attacked so mercilessly....I'm currently serving in our armed forces and I tend to keep myself extremely private and I dont date.....its too easy to get blamed for a rape or sexual assault and lose everything I've worked to get to where I am today...and with all of these things that are going on....its just a HUGE risk to have put yourself out there like that....its sad, but hey that's what were here for right?? No matter what is going on in our world we've gotta stay strong and continue to carry our world and society on our shoulders and trudge on in life....if I had a women like you by my side, it's so unfortunate that women like you are so rare in today's world......yeah haha
Thank you wholeheartedly for speaking up for men in today's society. You are a blessing.
I can feel your hurt, your anger and your passion. Which makes the message of this video even stronger. Thank you for standing up for men and going against this huge wave of misandrist that have plagued society. Sending love your way❤
She's is super brave, young and beautiful lady.
@@tullo5564 This is true bravery. Lol, not the 'bravery' that women are so often applauded for. Like when they act like b*tches, sl*ts, or just downright demanding/entitled, and they're applauded for their 'bravery'.
Sorry here what happen to you and you a lovely woman ❤
If that's you in your profile picture, then there's hope for society yet.
@@EmoBoiLink yes it's me haha thank you:)
First off , my condolences for your lose . It's a shame and a crime that death was his only way out. He deserved to have his thoughts heard and mental health treated. Second , thank you for always being you and staying true. Thirdly, I'm 10 months cleanand sober from drugs and alcohol as of April 6th ,I'm proud of myself and my working through my demons . I have my mental health in check, I'm living in sober living, I have a full time job , I built my connections with my family again. I'm an uncle to 2 beautiful young girls . I'm a son, a brother, an uncle and all because of supportive people in my life. One thing I'm not is in a relationship because it scares me to trust my feelings and thoughts into women right now. I hope I find someone but it isn't the goal. Mine is to stay sober and build myself , and help others
Well done bro, you absolutely deserve to feel proud of yourself. Battling addiction is not easy, nor is facing your mental health demons. Stay strong and focused on your recovery, everything else will follow in due time.
I just want to say I sincerely wish you the best. I was a borderline alcoholic (and sometimes not so borderline) for a number of years, but no longer drink alcohol. Currently trying to quit smoking again. I wish you luck, strength and happiness.
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I’m currently going through my own bit of depression. Have been since late December. It’s not something I can just snap myself out of. I’ve fallen on some hard times. I’m in debt, trying to find a second job just to make up for the money that I’m not making at my main job because hours got cut, my sister is fighting cancer and I’m just not in a good place. I feel like I’m going insane.
Just last weekend I finally got to a point where the pain was just numbing. I didn’t care anymore. I wanted to end it. I just want peace.
But then I remembered there are others who are suffering just as I am, or are even worse off than me.
To all you magnificent bastards battling the trials of life, I drink to you brothers.
Feminists: I'm a strong independent womyn and I can take care of myself.
Also feminists: I'm afraid to go out at night.
You forgot when a war happens then they start acting right
Serieously though, what's their obsession with taking walks outside at night? I'm 6'4" and I don't want to go outside at that time!
There are no f*minists in a burning house - Bill Burr
If they stay home, at least traffic will be lighter.
seriously? what a garbage take.
morons: haha, look at these women, wanting equality, i'm going to laugh about how they feel unsafe
also morons; you feel unsafe? maybe you should be nicer to me, so i'll trade protection for affection.
I'm sitting here about to be houseless due to an accusation getting me fired from a job I worked very hard to get after a string of horrible jobs and temping because a bullshit felony conviction from damaging the hood of a car with a vase, that was it, life over at 30. Your videos made me feel better. Thank you.
Praying for you brother to get back on your feet in due time
@@championofash9548 patience is its own preacher, sanctity in solitude, whether it's here or in the streets. I appreciate you.
I was on a train the other day and there was a group of 6 young woman and one of them had a hat on saying, All Men are Expendable !! I'm 66 yrs old and I thought, now I remember why I'm very happy being single.I just shook my head she had the balls to even wear that hat in public, it's almost screaming out for a mouthful of abuse from someone. The funny part or ironic part of all this is, I was watch a doco the other night and there's pretty compelling thought, evidence and reasoning that, Jack the Ripper in England back in the day it's very highly likely to of been A WOMAN, NOT a MAN. How ironic, but women wouldn't do such things, WOULD THEY, absolutely they would.
To hear that you spent time with your ex in his final moments is incredibly profound. It almost sounds unheard of. I cannot imagine the pain you must have went through, it takes a lot of courage to share something like that. I’m more and more drawn to this channel and its content; I’m trying to build my confidence and am looking for my person; I have so many questions about societal norms these days. And the horror stories I’m seeing here don’t bode well for the future in my opinion. I hope I can see past all this madness and find the one.
Sorry, I’m rambling. Keep up the great work!
This is very true, I personally I’m having PTSD symptoms due to the abuse I received by being a girl’s gay best friend, and even as a gay man I can’t tell my story of abuse without being told to man up and my feelings are not valid, simply being disregarded. There’s just too many entitled Queens and no sympathy.
I'm a survivor of two abusive relationships. I got therapy. It was the smartest thing I ever did. I'd strongly recommend you look into therapy, it'll change your life.
I'm here for you man
My whole hearted condolences to you.
8 years ago I made an attempt and failed and though the world got even more crazy and I've experienced losses and heartaches, I'm so glad to be here.
Thanks for using your voice 🙏
Glad to hear your OK. I'm outside HRM and found virtually no options . Folks don't realize how much suffering we do in silence. Stay strong,man.
@@Neoteny374 you too brother... I know there's a lot of men and young ones who need help in our area. Reach out to whoever may need the support, it will return in favor 100 fold .
Always protect women, never simp. Thank you for your supportive videos. It’s greatly appreciated
thank you for all you do for men we thank you, I thank you, please never stop you have helped me through some pretty tough days, especially with how lonely I feel, just going through the motions of the day, I cant escape the overwhelming stress of never being able to do enough, cant speak on it because I learned a long time ago all it does is get turned around me so staying silent allowing it to slowly numb me down to a shallow shell of the man I used to be, and above all trying to keep my overwhelming depression, anxiety and just absolute pain we unfortunately call life, from pushing me off the edge that I know all to well.., thank you for giving men a voice, and a glimmer of hope.
At 17 I threw myself infront of an attack on a girl I knew and as a result I've been left partially sighted and I've never regret doing the right thing. It's probably the only thing in life that hurts me the most is this hate towards men that are overall lost generally and without direction other than to be "the enemy" by default. Thanks for what you do Roma 🙏🇬🇧
Men aren't the enemy. Women are committing reproductive suicide. Chivalry isn't dead; princesses still want the prince. This fad has extended its stay far too long and is soon to fizzle out. It has overdone its welcome. Keep doing what's right :)
@@caseyhightower2419 reproductive suicide? hahahaha
@@jasonclarke7557 yesss! Would you want to procreate with a toxic woman 😂
@@caseyhightower2419 no, thanks for the offer, but i'm good.
@@jasonclarke7557 I'm not a toxic feminist, just happy I can vote. It wasn't an offer lol
as a 27 year old male that can handle myself on the street, i still have to look over my shoulder every night after dark. ALOT of the people on the streets causing issues ARE WOMAN.
Males make up 85% of all assaulted
A guy might punch you in the face, but a woman will accuse you of something and get a bunch of other blokes to beat the ever living shit out of you, that be before you get carted off to prison and have your life ruined.
Yeh, thanks but no thanks.
Yeah drunk women are the worst , at least with man it’s a straight fight
I got talking to a woman outside a bar , she started talking to me , we were talking for about an hour , I was pretty tired but I asked for her number to maybe go for a date , she was happy to give me her number and she went back with her friends , she told the bar staff I was harassing her and got me barred from the bar , I couldn’t get back in even though I had paid for drinks that I hadn’t even touched , the bouncer on the door was nice about it , he said she has given you fake number so go home son she just wanted to wind her boyfriend up
@@valley_robot It's the collateral damage that makes them so nasty. Winding up her bf is one thing, even the fake number, but fucking over some other dude in the process? Really? Proper sociopath right there!
im a teen girl and I went to school with this teen boy who was very weird and who no one was really close to. I started talking to him one day casue i felt bad for him (and i wasn't talking to him to pity him or make fun of him but because i genuienly wanted to and wanted to make him feel accepted) so we where facetiming one night and he broke down to me saying that the other girls in our grade told him to off himself, deal with stuff himself, stop being a weirdo, ect. and he said that he was going to off himself...i stayed up all night talking him out of it. He got help and is doing a lot better now and im not telling you this story to be the hero, that's not the point. the point is that as women we need to open our fucking eyes, shut our god damn mouths, and use our brains for once. this should have never happened to him cause teen girls are insecure and can't keep their own bitchyness in. we need to do better ladies
Well said.
I like your attitude towards equality. Thank you. People need this.
My condolences, Roma. I'm really sorry about your ex. I appreciate that, despite him being your ex, you still loved and respected him enough to sit with him in his final moments...I don't think any other woman on the planet would have done that, and you have my upmost respect for it.
Thanks again for supporting us, Chloe.
As a military man, dealing with depression and PTSD from Iraq. Really, thanks.
Keep it up!
Thank you to you for your service and sacrifice!! 💪
Sad you were forced into a war
how many Arabs did you killed
Hey brother I appreciate you taking hard steps for myself and others. As an active duty member of the navy in the corpsman community I can’t say how much I look up to my older brothers in arms. So know you have at least one person that respects you and your time spent serving. Thank you, we’re always here for you and you’re always welcome to speak with us. Take care brother!
Thanks for your service Guys. If we were sitting at a bar I’d buy a round.
Hahaha, "because men have a purple headed yogurt slinger" may be the funniest thing I've heard all year! You rock, keep doing what you're doing!
Chloe im so sorry you lost your ex. Thank you for your voice and work, know you have made a huge difference in our world, certainly opened my eyes to many thinkgs i hadnt known or considered and that helps me to be a better partner and mom
I had a friend who took his life because he was being bullied, and I live in fear of my older brother and little brother might do it too, both for their different reasons. I wouldn’t be able to do anything without them. And I’ve been kinda thinking about doing it too. I’m tired of fighting all day and all night, just to make sure I can sleep peacefully, when in the end, I just never can. Thanks for the aid, Chloe. Sorry for your loss.
edit: also, for that one male feminist (or as I like to call them, traitors), at the end of his video, he said "****ing 'not all men' bull****", giving the impression he doesn't believe it. so I'm just asking for a friend, but if he does believe it's "all men", then would that include himself? (this is only if we're being logical here).
Don’t think like that , be happy u have a relationship with your brothers talk to them of your worry’s
Pray
TEACH THEM TO STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES!
Just know that whatever happens, we'll be here to support you and your brothers!
Keep your head up kiddo. It can get better. I hope it gets better for you all. If I was near you I'd hug you long time
We're blessed to have roma standing with us, idc what anyone says, she is by far a better role model for women than 90 percent of celebrities and influencers
My deepest condolences for your loss. Please don't lose faith and stay strong. There so many people that need you
Today I found out an old straight White couple ambushed our gay Music Director at church to pray for the success of anti-trans protesters during morning prayers. Our church has trans-inclusive Pride flags all over the place and a written Safe Church policy & procedures document. Part of the stated definition of ‘harassment’ includes putting someone ‘in a situation where a reasonable person would feel uncomfortable’. *Suspected* harassment is to be reported to head office, where investigators will establish whether what occurred can be considered abuse.
None of that mattered… the old lady was made to ‘apologize’ to the gay man. Should she ever get around to it. No other repercussions cuz, you know, shrivelled internal genitalia get you off a lot of hooks. Apparently. Meanwhile I just had my sanctuary from fundamentalist trauma ripped away and they’re only concerned about who blabbed.
Not really relevant to anything here, but this feels like a safe place to drop this. As safe as anywhere else now. 🤷🏼♂️
Today I thought about it again
Keeping it short, I'm 27 was in a relationship for 8 years. Got my own apartment and life went to hell, all my friends I separated from years ago to appease her, family is small, and I was a just a fat fuck with barely any money. Became a gym rat to feel something loneliness set in depressed, suicidal thoughts all that fun stuff. Started dating got my confidence back and realized nice guy really do finish last, learning how to play the game. Learning to better myself because the women I've come I. Contact with have these unrealistic expectations of men. There's so much more to it but my point is to the guys reading the pain will never go away, you can better yourselves and once you get comfortable with the fact that Noone cares, Noone coming for you, and be comfortable by yourself in your own head then you can progress. Clean yourself up, hit the gym hard, become efficient in a paid skill. I promise that gut wrenching feeling of loneliness and heartache will lessen. Noone cares but yourself become your best friend and greatest supporter.
Bruh, I just spent 10 years as her pet. Killed everything I had and loved. Friends? Just like you said, carbon copy, lost them all. Unrealistic expectations? Spot on. Disney princess movies put unachievable goals into little girls heads, and we men suffer for it later. We’ll never be good enough. Glad you climbed out of it… I’m still in the process.
@@30AndHatingItI am just now trying to better myself
Perhaps 10 years ago, I printed Rutyard Kipling's poem 'If' and posted it on the fridge.
I read it perhaps once a week. Each time, I understood a little bit more.
Effing genius. Ought to be mandatory for every little boy to grow up knowing rather than spring it on us as some surprise 1/3rd the way through life.
Be well, gents.
God bless you , I came back from Vietnam wounded , my wife run off with some sissy and I raised my four children my self suffering from PTSD and war wounds .so when I say your a Angel you need to be on national TV .
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you for your kind words!
Thank you for all that you do. You are so awesome and give hope.
Commenting on videos isn't something that I typically do, but I just wanted to say thank you for speaking up about this. I'm a guy that has struggled with women and dating my entire life. I have never been in a relationship before. I have never caught the attention of a woman nor have I been viewed as remotely desirable. I'm about to be 26 this month and the years of constant loneliness are starting to take their toll. All I do is try to better myself hoping that someday soon I might find someone that I can give as much happiness to as they give to me. I'm starting to lose faith that it will ever happen though. The last woman I spoke to recently (she was my first match in months from a dating app) refused to meet with me because, in her own words, "men are scary". It's eaten at me to the point that I'm losing the will to live and my health is declining. I hope you know how much it meant to me to find you and hear you talk about how men actually matter. I didn't know how much I needed to hear those words come from a woman until now. So thank you very much, and whenever I start bottoming out into a spiral of depression again I can think back to this and remember that not all women hate me.
"a reminder that not all women hate me"
bruh your parasocial relationship with Roma The OF Girl is not a realistic reflection of how women feel about you. this woman has something to sell to you and other men. stop buying it.
@@moonsigil All he did was express that the video renews his faith that not every woman hates him. That's how he has felt. Then you come along and sh*t all over what he shared. How's about instead of ad hominem you offer a real reason to support your argument...which is what exactly? That an Only Fans girl can't express an opinion? That a lonely guy can't find emotional value in internet videos? What are you even saying? Whatever it is, you're saying it poorly.
Hang in there my man. I'm 39 and one thing that has helped me get through the deep deep dark is coming to terms with the hidden reality that it is perfectly normal and okay to be sad and lonely. Blue is just one of the colors in the rainbow, and it's a privilege to stop in the midst of a deep, agonizing blue feeling and realize how odd it is. How odd it is that you're here at all to experience joy and sorrow. I don't know about you, but I think a life of perfect happiness would be hell. I'm happy to have gone through heartbreak and loss and struggle. It has made me stronger because it has brought me more in tune with who I am as a thinking creature in this world. Which in turn has made me a much more empathetic person. When you achieve empathy for yourself, your empathy for the world will become infinite and you'll find meaning in every tear shed, including yours. Don't be afraid of pain or loneliness, brother. It is how you discover the ultimate self within you. Cheers.
@@bogusmcbogus2637 I don't care about your lack of reading comprehension, scrote. 39?!?! Go back to English class! She is SELLING you something and you're falling for the grift.
@@bogusmcbogus2637 Thanks for the kind words! The depression really comes in waves but I typically have a lot more good days than bad, and I really like to spread happiness where I can, to anyone I can. I usually end up placing the well-being of others over my own because it brings me joy to see the people I care about doing well. In fact, two of my closest friends are getting married in a few months and I'm incredibly proud of them! Though sometimes reflecting on it makes me acutely aware of my own loneliness. I still have hope for the future, and all of us have our own unique struggles that we have to overcome which make us stronger for it. Also a little more context on my first comment: this was the first time I found this channel and the first video I saw from them, and it just so happened to have come at the right time when I needed to hear this the most. Sometimes fate works in strange ways, and the words of people you will never know can pull you out of the darkness.
0:45 holy shit that hit so close to home, as a guy that recently recovered from a bout of depression the thought of this happening, with me lifeless on my deathbed was heartbreaking.
I love you Roma! Thank you for taking the time to understand what men have to deal with. You have a friend in me.
As a 52 yr old male facing divorce after 32 yrs of marriage, I find you voice here on yt refreshing and truthfully. Stay strong and keep stirring that pot.
I appreciate you Roma. I grew up in Toronto, I went through many relationships in my life had many long term relationships that didn't work out. I was very careful not to create life with any of these women as I wanted to have a healthy family life if I was to create life. At the age of 35 I found a woman whom I fell in love with, and finally decided to create life with this woman. We planned our daughter, and well.... baby mama had no intention of raising this child together as a couple dispite leading me to believe we were going to be raising her together. When my daughter was born baby mama had already broken things off with me, and my daughter left the hospital to her and another man she had already moved into the house. I nearly committed suicide when this took place. If not for a long time life friend whos more like a brother that convinced me to go spend a week at his house with him, i might not be here today. My daughters 7 years old now and I've been single her entire life. Luckily I have custody of her every weekend and get to spend time with her. Love her to death.
I just wanted to comment after Reading what you posted kind of head home I am 45 in June which is the same with me my story that is or shall I say your story but anyways what I wanted to say I’m glad to hear that you do I have custody someone is better than nothing at all good luck!
@John Miskimins Thanks John. Honestly society is molding these women into destroyers of souls and lives. I wish you the best and hope you also can move past this in your life.
I’m about to be you. She’s taking my two boys. I waited 35 years to be a dad and now I’ll be a part time joke. We’re already bonded, but now she’s bringing them around her messed up family who made her the broken person that she is… and I’ll be forced to watch as they slowly absorb and retain qualities and quirks of these people, naturally just from being in their orbit. I’m losing two pieces of my heart and I’m not doing well.
@@30AndHatingIt I'm sorry to hear that man. Stay strong for the children. It gets easier in time.
I'm terribly sorry for your loss, I want you to know that your work has almost certainly saved more men than you could ever know and that for that we are indescribably grateful
THANK YOU, ROMA! You are spot on!
I'm glad I found you when I did I found you 4 days before my friend overdosed and had his life taken away from him over a break up that he never fully healed from no matter how much I talk to him he just didn't want to do what I was telling him that would help him because he didn't have enough to do basic things to keep his mental health stable he had a lot on his plate and he got into some drugs that were bad for his health and his liver wasn't very good his legs shut down and they had to filter it through his liver after you return from the hospital only a week later in 2024 on a Tuesday he passed away his sister found him in his room not moving she could have sworn she heard choking the night he passed but she never went to go check then she fell right back asleep your videos help me cope thank you
The biggest thing that really gets under my skin is when people look at me and my wife sideways because she's a stay at home mom. Especially when we're in financial trouble. And they just immediately bring up my wife "not working". When she works 24/7 never gets a real break. Also I'm a monster when I tell my wife no to something or even tell her to please be careful when she's going somewhere. The whole world has turned upsidedown. The destruction of the family has really screwed shit up!!! Also noone can accept the fact it's my wife's decision to be a homemaker. They cant accept that in their head I beat her into submission and have her on a ball n chain. And me walking around all day on egg shells because I'm waiting on the wrong Karen to say a lie that'll cause a giant headache. Naturally nothing would come of it and they would have to eat crow. But the simple hassle that would come from that is a real fear I and many other men live with.
Sorry for your loss, praying for you! And thank you for everything you do for us!!
Emaciated shimp. 😂 That had me laughing a solid ten minutes after the video ended, so I had to come back and thank you for all you do in support and defense of men.
I just found this page today &I just want to say thank you🎉 I have a husband that I've had for 18 years been my best friend since 12.(27 years know & bffs since 12) I was always friends with guys not girls. I never thought like them.. I always thought the way that they would think about men was gross...what car is he driving? How much does he make ?where is he taking you on your date ? I remember thinking to myself I don't want to go on a date where the man would have to pay for anything. I'd rather take a walk or going to a museum ,we could go during the day . maybe do some art, Also I'm a gamer so playin a video game. But because I was homecoming queen.. every girl expected me to be the stuck-up girl.. that you know when me & girls were alone. would talk about guys the way women say they speak of us... Like meat! I would hear these women talk about my best friends.. I would f flip out & told the guys what these girls would say & also stick up for them. This angered these type of girls.. So basically by the end of high school, going to college I had no more girlfriends. I remember when I had to extinguish women out of my life.. once I got with my now husband! they were literally being mean to me because I would cook him meals& make him art, do free stuff like read & game and be super sweet to him & celebrate his birthday& send him cards. These girls would be like no!! that's what he's supposed to be doing for you... Get him under your thumb now!! I would stand up for him not taking me to lavish diners or spending crazy amounts on gifts.. We both had pay checks they were different i & him can do as we please! Yes i bought the engament rings& wedding rings!! & yes i asked him ! I just remember looking at what was my best friend at the time girl wise and saying are you serious? And she just looked back at me and said you look sad and pathetic! And I just threw her out of my house and her friends. And then I told them all that they'll never know what love is and no one is entitled to do anything for me. Anyway I've been married now for 18 years. I have been unable to be friends with any females because of their thinking like this. He's not a bum. he makes his own salary he does plenty for me. surprises me w plenty romantic things . It's just seems to be the fact that I don't want more and because of my looks I should? It's just a moment insane thinking . Feminist really have it all wrong. want to say thank you ! so now i know there's other women out here feeling the same way I do. THAT men are not to be treated like this. honestly you have less worth if you need a man to be taking care of you like that? What's wrong with you who are you are you a god? You know I've been dealing with this my whole freaking life! because I saw that men were better people. I mean I would have girls ask me oh you speak to you know that person, I heard that they're really scary... I'm like oh Carlos he's one of the nicest guys I've ever known. Because he had a rough upbringing.. people made up all these crazy stories. about how he was violent towards women never. take care of your men women we're all equal! she speaking about equality here. If you trash on a man for no reason.. something wrong with you mentally. apparently I found out from the last girl ..I tried to be friends with that I'm a pick me girl. She tried to get me to go out to bars without my husband.. which I refused. that meant that he was trying to control me. Once I put her in her place and spoke the truth like you do. all of a sudden I was a pick me girl. I haven't done much research either pick me girl or whatever. I heard you brought it up a couple of times.. if that's what one is I'm fine with that. I really do value men and appreciate them in the world❤
Hi Roma. My name is Eli. I've been following your content for some time, and I am happy you can speak out about men's suffrage. I'm very sorry to hear about what happened to your SO. I know what it's like to lose someone so close to you. You're strong, Roma. Keep staying strong, not only for us, but for yourself.
Only commenting cause… dude that’s my name too! Lol
I am very sorry for your loss and I can surely understand why things like this happen. As a survivor of domestic abuse, I have been through more shit most people would ever think is possible. I have witnessed firsthand how a biased society takes the woman as an automatic victim and how abusing women take advantage of this fact. I have considered the option your friend took more times than I would admit and frankly, I don't even think anyone would condemn it in a situation like mine. I have been cheated on, beaten, emotionally tortured, financially taken advantage of and the cherry on the take, had my children taken away from me.
I saw that even in the justice system (at least in the Netherelands), the mother is automatically right, her needs (or desires, to put it more precisely) counts more than anything else. More than the welfare of children or what is best for the "children". Judges didn't even care to watch or listen to any of my recordings before granting my children a ticket away from home where they lived their entire lives for. They handed innocent children in a platter to a monster.
Broke, in debt and scarred for life, now I have to face the fact that my contact with the children has been completely cut off and the upbringing of my children is going to give them a challenging way towards adulthood at best, and who knows what traumas, personality and emotional disorders they are going to acquire along the way. Innocent loving little girls at mercy of an evil that won every battle with deceit and fully taking advantage of a ridiculous moral bias. Speaking the truth was never worth a penny in my favor, but I'd rather die honest than live a lie or intentionally hurt anyone else.
I hope your work helps balancing the scales a bit more, because I am definitely tired of shouting towards a brick wall. I have been thinking a lot about what to do about my situation and one of them was to expose to the world what I have been through, maybe, just maybe I can see the some glimmer of hope, if enough people see the level of injustice, cruelty and hardship I have been through, someone or some people somewhere know how to set things straight, as I am out money, ideas and energy to put into this battle. Working for more hours than I have available has taken its toll and the results didn't pay off, I am still on an ever worsening situation, despite all the effort I put in. I am generally discreet and don't like exposing my personal life, but maybe it's time to put it out there. Maybe I can get the help I need. Let me know if you'd be interested in broadcasting my footage, audio recordings, etc... It would require some work of putting stuff togethere, subtitles etc, but I am willing to do so if you are.
All I have to say is thank you. Sincerely, and honestly, thank you. I am in a toxic relationship. My wife is an emotional terrorist. She threatens my freedom, me bing in my children's lives (no ours together), and generally makes me fearful on a daily basis. I thought I was to blame for everything because that is what she's been drilling in my head every chance she gets. Accountability isnt her strong point. I've been watching your videos and listening to the points you make. You speak truth and I thank you for your advocacy for mens rights and anti male suicide. Personally, I felt compelled to attempt suicide as an aftermath of toxicity in this relationship.
6:28 you know I watch your videos because it's good to know that somebody else is telling the things that I want other people to hear but they do not want to hear from me so it's good to hear that at least somebody is saying the things that I want other people to hear but they refused to hear from me so that's great on the other hand it's also very therapeutic for me to hear you speak about the things that I wish other women would understand and it's an amazing thing for me to hear you a woman say the things that I feel as if you already acknowledged it which makes me feel like there are other women who are not broken 💔
Omfg thank you so much for advocating for men! I am a survivor of suicide and I hate to place blame but it was because of all the shitty women I’ve been around. I know it’s my fault too but I wanted to trust people. Idk how I still managed to put myself out there and trust again. But I did… the number one thing I do differently now is stand up for myself and my thoughts and feelings. I have boundaries and expect them to be met.
I’m so very sorry what had happened to your ex. I really hope he pulls through. You’re the best.
That’s what we call self improvement and I’m glad your here today and talking about your wonderful accomplishments and remember your a beautiful individual 🫂 🤗
Thanks man. It took real leg work. It all lead to me going to the gym to become the healthiest version of me I can be. Taking cold showers and doing other things to increase testosterone levels have helped too. I wish I knew how good lifting was for the mental when I was younger in my darkest depths of mind.
I am so sorry for your loss Roma! I will be praying for you and sending you all of my love and just know that I love you and I appreciate all that you do. Our men need defending and need to be stood up for and I try to whenever I can because I am a big ally for men and I appreciate you getting on here and making these videos and standing up for what's right because there's so much right now then it's so wrong on so many levels and I think it's amazing that you're brave enough to get on here and use your voice to try to stop what's happening. You are truly an amazing person and I will always be a follower of yours!
Also another thing that I want to add is they think that curfews are going to stop crime from happening against women it's going to literally stop men from creating dangerous situations for women at night? My question is why the hell would they think that someone who is not against committing a crime whether it's against a woman or a man or a child is going to abide by a law saying they can't be out past the specific time?! Creating a curfew is not going to do s*** for someone who's going to go out and break the law anyway come on people use your freaking brains a little bit
Roma, I really appreciate you speaking up for men. I think it is far more effective you saying these things on our behalf than if I were to say them. Thank you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for speaking out.
Thank you for this. I have two grown sons. I’m an old lady now, they are 30 and 35 , but I’m not stupid. I know what’s going on out there and I’m worried for them. I appreciate a young woman speaking up. So sorry about your friend. That is heartbreaking and makes me sad but also livid .
@Object Blue beat it troll!!!!!!
@Object Blue There is no proven correlation in what you are saying so I think it's safe to say you don't know WTF you're talking about.
as someone who has struggled with mental health issues my entire life and lost friends and family to suicide, i thank you for everything you do and for giving a voice to men like me.
I'm not gonna lie, I only found you recently but I will say, I will be sharing your info with everyone I know. It is amazing to have a female backing us in not a gentle way, but pushing hard points to a T. I wish a lot more women could see men in the way that you do. I will always be a fan from now on!!
I burned my most productive years taking care of a woman, my mother. I cared from her until she died. She drove me crazy so I could not get work after I lost my job. This drove me to Mass Rehab, where they found clinical depression, anxiety, domestic PTSD, and Asperger's Syndrome, My disability saved my house, after she entered a nursing home. Now after being hammered into a tool for her care. I have to rebuild my life. How many guys are used and cast aside when they are no longer useful? Canada is pushing assisted unlifing rather than treatment for people like me. It is cheaper for the government. You want safety Ladies? Think about giving guys minimal courtesy and respect.. Reward what you want to see, which is quiet men respecting you all. My grandpa had a coon hound. Folks all made much of him when he got loud and nasty. They had to put him down because he was taught to be a bad dog. Men are much the same. Allow them to be nice guys, even if you would never otherwise give them the time of day, and you get Nice Guys. All those old courtesies modern women hate, which showed respect and service to women, were for channeling men's nasty power into safe directions which served you Ladies. This stuff came back from the Crusades, civilizing men from kings and knights all the way down. If courtesy could knock the rough edges off these rough types, it can manage today's nice guys even better. Pitbulls are not dangerous. Abused pitbulls are dangerous, not those who have been treated right. Paint men as Heroes, and when you need them, they become heroes. Treat men as monsters, and you encourage them to turn aside, when you need them most. Trouble and monsters exist, but , men can help you against both. Or you leave yourselves naked against both. The modern trend of turning potential friends into enemies is stupid and insane. This not only a gender thing but a color thing and any other division between human you can think of. If you want men to take the hits thrown at You, do not punch them first. God help you all.
Thank you chloe , you are a hero , every day i watch your videos , I learn something new , As a 52 yr old man , I never knew i was so hated , or our suicide rate is at at all time high , times have changed , scary to think women want is dead for no reason other than we are men . Keep it up , You are a oxygen for many struggling to breath i am sure .
Hello Chloe. I just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss and thank you that you find time to stand up for us even at this time considering what you have just been through. Its not easy to keep pushing in times like these and for that you got our undeniable huge respect. As you stood by our side for so many years now, we are ready to stand beside you.
You’re the first woman I have ever heard stick up for men and I wish there more women like you that understand that not all men are evil. I appreciate your understanding and your right about all the serious problems us men face.
Sry to hear about the loss. Hope your ok.
The love of my life, 9 years together, left me after one shitty night. I haven't seen her or our daughter in nearly a month. I've come close to ending my struggle several times. My girls are my world. Shit broke me, I let my vehicle fall apart, lost my job and now I'm just here.
My ex wife stabbed me 4 times with an ice pick and she said I attacked her. I spent a year in jail and lost everything. I haven’t seen my daughters in 15 years.
Keep up your awesome work Roma! We hear you.
As a 58 year old man, I am happy that I didn't have to deal with the modern woman. Harpies have always existed but the power they have taken in the last 5 years or so is astounding. I have been married to a great woman for 32 years this year, and I have a fantastic strong daughter who knows that not all men are dicks. Yes some men are dicks, some women are dicks too. Thank you to the great women in my life.
That’s luck ain’t it
@@ccd1651 or good women exist, the noisy harpies just drown out their voices.
Thank you so much for being you. As a man that's been abused you help me get through it. Im not perfect I've done wrong by my woman but I try to keep the drama down. Her not so much sometimes. But we do what we can.
I highly admire your strength. YOU ARE BEAUTY AT IT'S BEST!!!
And it's women like you that instill renewed faith in us men that we will someday be on the same level of understanding like our forefathers lived.
I'm sorry for your loss, truly! My brother and I both worked hazardous jobs, but he lost his life doing his. What you're saying is totally true. I support you 100%. If im ever in a position to share knowledge with young men, its this: Our life spans are far to short, and dead is Forever.... be the man you need to be, not the man the media claims you should be. We're not here long enough for this BS. I VOLUNTEER FOR THE ROMA ARMY!
I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine the pain you're carrying right now. Thank you for speaking about men fighting suicide right now and their struggles. They absolutely deserve to be heard and have their stories told.
I appreciate the breath of fresh air around everything youve spoken about. I understand that when women advocate for themselves it can seem like the only option is to fight the battle on a them vs us dividing line and gender is the clearest line to draw so thats where the battle takes place. your quote of fixing the problem not fixing the gender i think hits the nail on the head. Im studying social work and i cant wait to use that one the next time i play devils advocate and end up making the hardcore feminists at uni mad.