A Woman Can Attempt To Ruin A Man’s Life With ONE Word
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First comment I have ever made though Long time follower. Second I 100% wish there were more women content creators talking about the subjects Roma brings up. I had an incident where my ex had a family member pass away and she was constantly lashing out at me for insignificant things and I finally had it and told her "I get you're upset but I font care it doesn't give you a reason to take it out on me" and I went to leave out our back yard door n she thew a lead glass framed mirror at me that hot me in the back of my head n split my scalp open. I was bleeding everywhere n that was it for me I called the cops. They showed up and they said we will make a case number but you have to leave and find somewhere else to stay....the dang house was in my name, it was my house. I ended up having to file an eviction notice while staying in a week by week hotel room to get back into my own home and she was never charged with anything
Right we need more out there like that girls get away with that b******* everyday that's why I stay the f*** away from them
I'm very sorry for you!! Funny how all that bullcrap works out. Now you should sue her in small claims court. 🙄 Jk!!
I am not a physical person, but I wish I could jump through my phone, find you, and then find her and kick her fugging a$$!!
If it was the other way around, you would be in cuffs. Sorry, you had to deal with that!
Tbh since she was trespassing things could have been worse…. Sorry you had to endure some of the worst of what us men go through being in a relationship and trying to do what makes us happy
Because my ex didn't get her way she screamed and yelled, the cops got called she told them that I hit her repeatedly,when they came over to talk to me about the situation and what cause me to punch her,I plainly stated if I had punched her like she alleged wouldn't my hands and knuckles be red and skin broken from the Impact to which they looked at my hands laughed and said if I had anymore problems to call them and they would take her to jail for false allegations.
Not everyone is as lucky as you
You got extremely lucky
Never do relationship because most women are fraud and they want money only go for one night stand only
Lucky those cops had a brain
I hope they did take her to jail please tell me they did
This man is in danger... No one should ever stay with someone willing to make such allegations.
He divorced her.
too right, he should have gone to the police with the video and been like please get her out I am in danger.
@@javiergodinez_ and? look how shes acting! wholly and totally unacceptable from a fucking adult.
@@javiergodinez_ I hope he did because this woman is toxic.
i would not sleep on that house, that is crazy crazy stabby stabby woman
My dad went through this.
My mom was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia and manic depression and she still got custody of me, when my dad had a perfectly clean bill of health, a job, and my grandparents agreeing to joint custody. It took more court cases and years of my childhood to get that changed - I got lucky they kept fighting and they eventually won. The "justice" system is completely fucked.
Women are in the most power they ever had.. Yet feminist seem like they don't have enough..
Sorry your mom had those problems hope she got the help she needed..
I was cornered in an alley by a group of 6 or 7 people once because a girl I turned down for sex started going around saying I forced her, gave her an std, and got her pregnant. It's probably the most scared I've ever been in my life and was incredibly traumatizing, especially since it was a friend that lured me to the alley. Sometimes I still get really paranoid when meeting up with friends to this day.
I'd be in jail, because every single person in that alley would be dead, zero hesitation.
@@williameldridge9382 I mean, maybe if you're armed of Captain Fucking America. In most of Europe few people are able to legally carry a firearm and those that are usually work for billionaires.
bruh, i would never turn on a friend. throw that bastard in the wood chipper.
should always carry some form of a weapon cops be damned they are not there to protect you they are there to enforce you.
so, sorry mate to hear that ! I hope that you are doing well
My mother's words when I was a kid, "If a woman puts her hands on a man, she puts herself in the place of a man." Nobody has the right to get violent with someone else, but everyone has the right to defend themselves. No exceptions.
While good advice in theory, that's a very dangerous position to adopt... as she mentioned in this video, if a man calls about a domestic violence incident that he has been the victim of, he is just as likely to be considered the aggressor if he has responded with any violence in kind. If the police show up to a domestic violence call and both the man and woman are showing signs of violence, 9 times out of ten the assumption will be that the man is the instigator, and that her wounds are defensive.
While your mother is right in a perfect world.... this isn't a perfect world and she lacks the experience of seeing things from the man's perspective. Her advice could just as easily land you up in jail for abuse.
A lot of the time you don't even have to do anything. A friend just completed four years of hell, after filing for divorce, his wife (with 3 kids from previous relationships) slapped him with child molestation charges when he refused to give her 70% of his assets. His workplace immediately terminated him, he could not get more work, his life went into shambles, he tried to sell the house to help pay legal costs but she had a lien put on it. Very few questions were ever asked of him. In the investigations before court her own family was siding with him, and she started to realize there may not be money in this for her and tried to walk back the charges... unfortunately once the police are involved its now a matter of the courts. So he has sat drinking himself half to death in his garage for the last four years awaiting his day in court, afraid to go out in case he runs into someone he knows.
Until recently when her text history revealed her discussing with a friend about setting him up, "like that other guy she did this to in 2014". The court decided in his favor. He now has the long walk of trying to rebuild a career, since those accusations will follow him around for years more..
But yeah.... listen to your mother and punch back when a woman hits you. You are literally rolling the dice with your future.
Your mother is going to get you arrested with that BS. If a women hits you, get away from her, don't strike back. Call the Police and have them deal with her.
A friend was attacked by his ex in his own home, his father, a Sheriff, told him to lock himself in the bathroom and call the Cops, do not engage you will lose everytime. First one to call the Police wins.
Yes this, my mom taught me the same thing ...
@Barb Strickland your mom won't be on the jury
@@consciousgentile5141 I'm sure not ,but it shouldn't always favor the woman in a domestic case. And I've always kept my hands to myself.
This happened to my brother. He spent 4 years of his life in prison thanks to disgusting lies like this. Came out after that she'd made it up and had done it before. But he won't get his time back. False rape allegations should be a prison sentence.
Equivalent to the time your victim served x2
There is a term for this - "Perverting the course of justice". In the UK this is an offence, however we have seen too often that it doesn't get enforced against the woman. In our worst case one young man, who was mentally impaired and had the mental age of a 12 year old, spent 16 years in prison for something he didn't do, and the girls who accused him of various offences finally admitted they did it "For A Laugh". How evil can people be?
@@Deathcylance the time they served or would have served
Your brother's SO should be sitting in the joint herself for pulling that stunt. Without a deterrent, more women will be brazen enough to levy false allegations against someone.
I have always firmly believed that people making false accusations should be charged and prosecuted, otherwise there is no deterrent
This almost brought me to tears. Hearing a woman actually talk about the injustice within the family courts and how women can just up and leave you and take your kids and then get child support while replacing you as a father and basically get to pick and choose when you get to be one while the courts dont ever punish them or hold them accountable...
My childs mother did this to me. In the 5 years since she cheated on me and left shes alienated our daughter from me for half of it. Ive had to fight and lost jobs, places to live and tens of thousands of dollars i didn't have through custody battles.
I spent all my money on lawyer's and lost despite the circumstances and now I owe 20 grand in child support to a woman who severely abused me. Cheated on me and uses our child as a weapon smh. I get threated to be put in jail cause how much I owe and i only get to see my child every other weekend even though I was the main parent her first 2 years she was born 💔
And I'm currently fighting false allegations and to not have the time i do have stripped away from me again and Im terrified to lose. I know my daughter is my entire world and losing her is absolutely devastating to my mental health which isn't currently all that great cause of the abuse and allegations and its come to a point I have become anti social and lock myself away from everything especially women as I'm afraid to be hurt more then I already have been.
My daughter absolutely adores me. And wishes her mom wouldn't hurt us. Shes my best friend and we have a close bond. But I'm in real jeopardy of losing her as I am representing myself in courts while her mom has a lawyer cause her mon paid for it smh. I don't have family or a support system like that. Just me. I've thought and think about offing myself often because I'm beyond broke from it all. As a parent child alienation is absolutely destructive and lead me to numbing myself any way I could. And sad part is I loved her mom more then anything and we spent 3 ½ years together and over night she turned on me. Used all the fears and Insecurities I confided in her with to shatter me mentally. It's really caused me to not want to find love again or risk it and end up feeling the way I did when her mom left me. Her mom is extremely beautiful and so she gets hundreds of men all the time and goes through them like crazy. While I have only talked to a few girls but have had to focus on my custody battles and most women don't want a man who is at odds with his child's mother let alone who has kids anyways. But a man will surley do it the other way around especially for a attractive woman.
Another man spends more tine with my own child then I do and its something that seriously bothers me. On top of always being told how unwanted and uneeded I am and how I should sign my rights away to my child like shes some piece of property or something.
All in all hearing a woman touch on these subjects accurately is refreshing. I dont know what will happen for me. If I lose or end up finally just giving up cause her mom has made it known she will forever ruin my life if i don't walk away. But I can't live without my daughter and so thats why suicide crosses my mind so often. Im just exhausted and beaten down to nothing at this point. I loved my daughters mom so much and that love for both of them has turned into my worst nightmare smh...
Chin up mate you have your life and you have a beutiful daughter. Things will get better for you don't give up.
I've been going through the same with my daughter, she's only 3. I left her mim because she constantly verbally abused and emasculated me and was completely non-responsive in the relationship. I sincerely thought i would die at some point but i moved apartments, made new plans and started lifting weights. The depression of not being with my baby lingers but its better now. I am convinced God has a plan for my life, and he has a plan for you too. Stop staring into the darkness, its like a switch, when it flips everything becomes clear. I wish you all the best my brother, wherever you are
Pray that it all gets better soon for you
The situation really sucks, when your daughter is 18, she will be an adult and will be free to see you and spend time with you. Not a great solution, I know....and might take a long long time...but committing suicide is wrong. The damage, hurt, and anger your daughter will feel will ruin her. And that will be her last memory of you. I'm not married, never was, no children, no gf, no women interested in me at all. I can only imagine your hurt and pain.
I know it's hard to be strong, but your daughter needs you, and, YOU MATTER! For yourself, and for others that love you. Please don't give up.
I know. It's just extremely hard after all this. Owing 25 grand in child support to a woman who cheated on me and has severely abused me. Mistreated me. Used our daughter to destroy me for years and somehow I'm being forced to hand her tens of thousands of dollars for all of that 💀
She's ruined my life in every aspect. She's destroyed my reputation and friendships and any time I get a chance at a relationship she goes out of her way to message those women and convince them that I'm either not worth thier time or still in love with her and not to waste thier time which absolutely irritates me when she hates me and doesn't want to be with me but how dare I try to move on and be happy with anyone else.
She's gone and accused me of heinous things with absolutely no proof or evidence just for the purpose of turning my friends against me. Or at least those I knew on fb to the point I just needed up deleting the entire app because it was leading to conflicts that my lawyer I had at the time didn't want ending up in anything that would damage my case for custody smfh.
And the things she's accusing me of isn't something I can easily prove otherwise smh. I've asked the courts to force the mother to take our child to a counselor where neither me or my family or her and her family can manipulate our daughter's voice and she can sit down with a trained professional who will ask her about her life at home with me as a parent and her mom. I have NOTHING TO HIDE so I've been very adamant about it. But so far each judge has wither rejected it. Told me to wait for the main trial and ask the trial judge who then will decide themselves if they want to. Or to pay 2 grand out of pocket for a guardian at litem which I don't even have 100$ to my name so I can't do that unfortunately...
But if her mom believed her own lies and bullsh*t then I wouldn't need to ask her to do this. She would have done it immediately if she truly thought it was true. But for her she's scared of what our daughter is gonna say when it comes to how they live and how her mom treats her. Cause she abuses our child and neglects her. Leaving her living in filth with bed bugs. Or leaving her alone with random men her mom has been dating for a week an moved in their house as she calls it "daycare" when it's actually how most children end up molested as kids because thier horrific moms brought random dudes in their houses before even knowing them for more then 7 days. And leaving them alone with thier kids 🤮🤡
My child's mother is the QUEEN of sleeping around and moving lowlife losers into her apartment because it would be the end of her life if she actually stayed single for more then 3 days and lived alone without playing pretend family with douchebag men who end up abusing her. Stealing drom her. Cheating on her or just being losers beyond saving. Yet somehow the one guy whose given the world to be there for her. Who has done everything most women ideally want from a man/father to thier child. Yeah no that guy isn't worth her time or love. But the dude who just broke up with his gf and was kicked out into the streets homleess and hoped on the loser train that is my child's mother. Yeah those guys are somehow worth her time and love when they are clearly only there for sex cause she's easy and beautiful. And cause she was willing to house them from being homeless 🤮
Trust this bro. You may think it's a negative for you when you don't have much options in the way of women (and your definitely not alone currently 60% of all men are single and finding it harder and harder to find a good woman or be in a traditional old fashion relationship nowdays smh. I myself haven't had the best of luck. My child's mother looks wise was way out of my league but that's cause it came with her narcissistic, insane crazy evil personality...)
But I've wondered the old adage of "its better to have loved and lost then never loved at all" and I call BS!. My child's mother was the best thing that ever happned to me for 3 ½years. But then she became the utmost worst nightmare my mind couldn't have ever fathomed would be possible the last 5 years and for the very far foreseeable future of forever to come. The pain and damage I feel. And felt when she cheated and left me is a feeling and position I don't think I'm willing to risk ever facing again. I been single on my own accord cause I'm absolutely terrified to love someone like I did her and find myself in a similar situation. The way I felt was absolutely devastating... it broke me for YEARS and continues to affect me to this day smh. I'm held captive by the state to a woman who has all control over my life through my daughter. A woman I told my deepest secrets and Insecurities too. I confided the worst parts of myself in. And told my biggest weaknesses and flaws too. Never thinking she would ever become my enemy hell bent on seeing my utter annihilation from existence. She's used everything I trusted her with. Every single Insecurity. Every weakness. Every secret to manipulate me. Take advantage of me. Abuse me. Make me feel as little and worthless as humanly possible..
After that betrayal it's very hard for me to ever consider risking such things again with another girl. I've rejected many. Accidentally lead on and hurt more then I can count cause of it.
It's all about perspective. You can perceive it as a negative. Or as a positive that you are not stuck in a winless position of hopelessness like I am. The only woman I ever loved. The one I created a life with. Sees me as public enemy number 1 in her life. Despite my inherent stupidity of trying to love her. Be there for her be consistent in her life. Be supportive and go above and beyond to show and prove to her I can be a great man and father. And am worth giving a second chance too. She's only ever hated me since SHE CHEATED. And I'm just a obstacle refusing to move from her path in order to be apart of my daughter's life. The more I refuse the harder she attacks. The more outlandish the attacks become. The more nonsensical her behavior and lies grow too. Her entire purpose is to make my life so bad. That I eventually call it and say I've had enough and walk away. But I'm so deeply invested at this point and she's literally ruined my life as much as humanly possible to where she literally couldn't do anymore damage then she's already done. That it would be stupid of me to give up now 🤦♂️ all I have is that small time with my daughter that's where all my happiness is.
Besides that. I have no friends to vent to or get support from because my child's mom. I don't have family. The ones I do have are servely mentally ill and addicts. I'm completely alone. Hurting constantly waiting to see the one thing that makes me happy. That brings me purpose and hope. And that's my litte girl 💕
I fight every day. To see another sunrise mostly to avoid hurting that precious happy little person. Who adores her dad and is a daddies girl at heart. Who loves me deeply and would be devastated if I was gone. I pray despite even the worst of outcomes with my custody case. I can maintain for her. But I'm scared that if I lose her. Or have to wait until she's 18. I'll either be dead long before then. Or I'll have lost myself so much that by that time I'll be a shell of who I once was. And succumb to the mental derangement that all this pain, anger, misery and loneliness makes me feel 💔
Thanx for sticking up for men, bringing attention to the way we are taken advantage of through the eyes of the law, and just being abused.
I've had it done to me now for over 20 years with no chance of escape without jail time. Not to mention I've now took in her family members into my home ,feeling sorry for them. But now I'm trapped and thy are threatening me with jail if I don't give them what they want. Being woke at 3, 4 am to bring them a snack or just tolerate their bitching at me. Still recovering from cancer treatments and don't have alot left in me. Keep doing what ur doing and maybe it will get through. For me it's to late and I just have to deal. Your great for doing what u do ,standing up for the ones that can't for themselves
I love that her shirt says "Healthy babies, positive thoughts, good food" while threatening him. Like there's nothing healthy, positive or even good about her threats
He probably bought her that shirt at some point in the past.
An oxymoron. Lol
Can't judge, didn't see the food.
That's the perfect example of virtue signaling. Saying nice things while acting like a piece of crap.
Jonathan Curran, that’s like the women of the View being named Joy, Sunny and whoopie
As a man who's been through this, here's the story.
1996, I bought my first house fresh out of high school, had a girlfriend who wasn't really serious but we'd been together a few months. She had repeatedly asked to move in with me and I always said no because we weren't at that stage yet. I'm at work one day and 6 police officers show up, arrest me and charge me with rape, domestic violence, assault, and terrorist threats towards a civilian. Now stuck in jail confused and curious I call my mom and fill her in, immediately I have a lawyer by my side and have a stack of documents in front of me. One is a statement written by my "girlfriend " with the most outlandish story I've ever read. So I demand that my lawyer order a "rape kit" and obtain all photos of the aftermath of the abuse. Fast forward 2 weeks, we're in a courtroom, states attorney did zero leg work to obtain facts but wanted my head because of the "charges" and thankfully my lawyer did his due diligence because he obtained everything under the sun. I was released with no charges because after the evidence was all presented she admitted " I only did this because he wouldn't let me move in with him and he needs to be taught a lesson " 🤷 the judge was disgusted on such a deep level, she was charged with 12 different things from lying in a federal court to sabotage and some even more serious ones. So I took it upon myself to arrange a dinner with her parents, who knew nothing about what she had done, presented all of the court documents to them and explained the situation. They immediately decided that they would not help her in any way, she spent an entire decade behind bars for her lies. Upon her release I had a bouquet of flowers sent to her residence with a card that read "I feel like 10 years wasn't enough time but regardless, I hope you learned a valuable lesson about false allegations, sincerely a wildly successful man"
😎 I share my story as a victory for not just myself but all men, because I know that not everyone is so fortunate in these situations, I was not a good kid, my family was poor, we were never the "popular " people, but through effort and determination I beat b/s accusations and ended up ahead in life. I explained everything to my boss, got my job back with a pay increase and full benefits package. Guys, if you're innocent, prove it. Never let a woman drag you down or control you. Recently, I got married to the most amazing woman I've ever met, we just celebrated 7 years together as well. Never rush into marriage or a serious commitment. This is my first marriage and I know it will last until death do us part.
Damn, what an incredible story. I'm really glad that it turned out well for you. Reading about how you sent the flowers was extremely satisfying.
Tks. I am story teller. I am adding yours to my stories. I don't charge money so... I just do it for young people learn lessons. Universal blessings for you and your beautiful love brother. Take care.
I was with you until the flowers and the note. That was incredibly petty. If any of that shit is even true ... "sabotage"?? No "terrorism"?
@@hilariousname6826 petty? Lmao She tried to ruin his life over false rape charges. Petty is the LEAST she deserves.
@@gunslinger270 I agree - so, good thing she got ten f'n years in the slammer (according to his hard-to-believe story), isn't it? For him and for you to STILL feel the need to humiliate her after that - yeah, I'd call that 'petty'.
I had a similar ordeal that happened. When my daughter was only a couple of months old, her mother and I got into an argument, and she walked out of the house without saying where she was going. So, I made the decision to take my daughter, and go to my mom's house to get away from the toxicity. Shortly after pulling into my mom's driveway, she tells me that my baby's mom had called the police stating that i had kidnapped my daughter. After which the police made me return my daughter to her mother.
good thing they didn't take u immediately to jail
cause that's what happens to women who routinely do the exact same thing
go to their mom w/ kids
/sarcasm
i bet she didn't even have to fake cry or any other theatrics
My Ex wife did this to me, I signed over my house and gave her everything in it, she told me that everything will be fine with my kids and seeing them, month later my best friend moves in, I'm in court for my kids and having a false sexual abuse allegation. Its honestly the worst thing I've been though. I'm so happy you speck up on this. Thank you !
Favorite thing a customer ever told me, "I been married 3 times, divorced 3 times, from now on, i'm sticking to hookers, cuz they only take what ya owe them at the end"
Yes there have been circumstances in my life where hookers were more honest
very few honest women , biggest percentage are hookers except some dress up thier trade as a marriage
You don't pay hookers for the "action", you pay them to leave.
If I didn't live in the middle of nowhere, that's the only type of lady I would ever be in contact with lol.
Hookers are the most honest women I've ever met
That Dr Phil clip boiled my blood. One of my friends from University was hospitalised on numerous occasions and nearly killed as a direct result of the domestic violence levelled against him by his wife. He just took it for fear of losing his children to her. Fortunately he's away from that situation now but the attitude which society has towards domestic abuse towards men is reprehensible.
Dr. Phil is as much an expert on the situations he presents as much as high fructose corn syrup is healthy for you (ie: quite the contrary). Many people flock to that guy because he’s charismatic and they’re stupid.
Imagine being depressed out of fear the government will let the mother just take the kids. I've told many exes that I can't get married. They always ask why and I have to say that I just don't want to go to prison. It makes them interested and I explain "if a woman ever tried to divorce me and take Mt kids and use them as weapons against me, I'll be doing 25 to life. "Daddy will explain when you're older why the world needed less evil in it." Simple. So, I just refuse to get married because the likelihood of this scenario happening is basically a guarantee now.
@@civilwildman I hope he goes home to a violent evil woman kicking the shit out him on the daily.
Couple months ago I found out that he’s not technically a doctor. He has a license but it’s not in the state that he is in. Which is why the show put up the disclaimer just so he can’t get sued. Not sure if he ever updated it or not.
@@renji90998 I had also heard the one license he did have lapsed and was not renewed
I'm so thankful for finding this channel because this girl is so damn beautiful and her adorable voice makes my days so much better.
We all need more women like you, there are to many men out there facing these problems without getting the help they deserve and only gets accused for it themselves, which makes them unfortunately take their own lives which is sad....
What hurts me most about these things is that the ONE thing I want in life.. is to have a family.
Honestly it’s really not worth it anymore. Been there, done that, wish I hadn’t.
same. ex put the idea of marriage and kids and family in my head only to say no when I asked her to marry me. turns out she had been sleeping with her professor for more than a year.
I understand this so much. I wanted a family more than anything. Now I am just happy with my miniature family, my daughter, stepson, and me.
Im very sorry for you, it's getting harder and harder to find a person you can trust, even harder to find a partner for life you can trust
Don't start one in the USA, these females are completely nuts.
I suffered for seven years from a female like this. I have a criminal record because of her and the great state of Ohio preferring to side with this evil female…. I cannot visit my mother or family any more. The female was 100 pounds bigger than me and physically abusive. My life has been totally ruined because of trying to love this person.
I love your videos Roma. You help peace together a broken man struggling to keep a broken heart together….
❤😢
Was your heart broken because she sat on it? Dude... remove her power. She's a troll and you are a motherf--king badass. Natures strongest most capable hunter. MAN! Screw her and erase her from your life like the last shit you took. FLUSH! 🚽🚽🧻🧻
Men needs to get togeand fight for their rights.
@@ROCKDIVA85 if we do we’re monsters it’s a double edged sword.
@@dogshltsniffer9933 Not to mention, barely anyone that matters will listen
Wow, your channel was suggested to me at some point, and I've caught a few things here and there. Commented too. I just wanted to say you're very good at what you do. Not just the message and the angle you're taking with the channel, but the approach and delivery is really something I am drawing from when in front of the camera. So keep doing what you're doing. You're on your way to the top!
And you named your cold sore. That's what I'm talking about. Do things in ways no one else is doing them, and do it with the air of "I don't care". it's a cold sore, it's here. 😆
I think what you do is awsome Roma. Thank you for your compassion insight and the talent you have for creating these videos! With all due respect, i think you are an incredibly beautiful and powerful woman.
I was that man. That was me 4 years ago. I left, with my children. Went to court with my savings and won sole custody. Moved half way across Canada, from the middle of the flatlands to Vancouver Island. Still working on divorce, but couldn't be happier knowing my children and I are free of the toxicity.
Jebus bro, she must have been a piece of work to get sole custody in Canada! Good luck!
Good luck on your new life. Hopefully things start looking up 😊
that was honestly somenof the scariest 💩 that ive ever seen...just glad youre okay!!
Hello Mr B.
Thank you for letting us know
Well done bro. It’s funny how it’s not just me who fled to Vancouver island because of a woman. Unfortunately my ex still haunts me.
About to finally get off papers this year after false allegations which led me to being taken from my children, losing my job, my apartment, and being incarcerated. I’ve never, ever, ever previously got in trouble with the law, or with a woman, nothing. Anyone that knows me would describe me as a “good egg.” I was terrified of getting into trouble as a child and it still holds true to this day as an adult. I have incredibly high moral standards thankfully to my wonderful parents.
But because I’m a tall, physically built man, NOBODY wanted to even hear my side of the story.
I love myself, and am proud of the person I am. I know in my heart what the truth is and nobody can ever take that from me.
But she sure destroyed my life.
women are demons
I am so sorry 😢
Get a lawyer and sue her, you need to take some sort of actions against her
Iv actually been threatened like this, said if i dont move out that she will call the cops, hit her self and say i did it. And i was on the lease and only one paying the rent at the time. I was cool with this. she was crazy. I convinced the landlord its her deal. He was a true bro. At first he was like buy her flowers and in my mind im like ya not if shes f***ing around lol why else would she want me out the house so badly. Time went by and she was seeing 2 different dudes with the same name. How weird is that. I was so glad that drama is in the past.
Thank you for everything. Not that I need it, but if friends of mine had seen stuff like this. They may be better off. So thank you so much for being out here talking about these issues
That is absolutely horrible. I’ve seen his videos before. It breaks my heart. He’s enduring this for so long clearly. He’s complying to all of her narcissistic acts just so he can be left alone.
A lot of guys do this as they thibk they are the ones who need to put in all this work jist to feel some sort of love. Sadly 90% is pure stress with maybe like 5% love and 5% happiness sprinkled in
@@ToxicMothBoi This was almost me and my last first marriage, unfortunately... I left her after she finally failed to meet me 50/50 on many levels, I miss being loved (some of those times) but it is not worth the undeserved pain and stress (most of the time)...
He is getting ammo to use in court
Was in the same situation, only get to see my kids for 28hrs a week but IT'S worth it. I'm free, divorced pay child support and I'm not in Jail for beating the dog shit out of a woman. I'll score that as a win.
The best he can do is tell her he is going out for a pack of smokes, and then never come back. Trust me, I did it, and it works.
Your every man's dream woman seriously... I just left a 17 year marriage that my wife cheated on me 7 times with 7 different people. I was always trying to make it work for our son. Your videos gave me the strength to get a divorce and I've never been happier. Just sad I lost so many years of my youth to someone who didn't give two shits about me or my feelings.
Great subject rarely discussed truthfully. Good to see!
She doesn’t have to prove he did, he’s gotta prove he didn’t #FemalePrivilege #GuiltyUntilProvenInnocent
And if you ain't got the money . Your Phuked
massive proof he didn't,, even then he is still screwed ,
I really wish I could disagree with you on this but unfortunately you're very much correct even though he has proof she's an evil lying sack of sht for making up something like that as soon as she said those words most people will believe it's true
@@angelac141 Guys get screwed in courts more often,, even w/ proof, And try to find help for guys,, (women's help is all over).. If wrongly accused/convicted, Attorneys really don't care just mo $$$$ , and If they lie about sexual abuse,, courts are not interested in proving a female lied ,, been there living it
OMG…soooooo true, they can literally kill you and somehow its your fault!!
I dated a woman who acted a lot like the woman in this video, not when we first began dating, but as we went on. She became verbally and physically abusive. I was attempting to leave for good one day. On that day, she actually sexually assaulted me. This was before cell phones and way before smart phones. I struggled with how much force I could use to protect myself and held back quite a bit. I was able to get out of the situation without hurting her, and only being slightly injured myself. Before she assaulted me, she threatened to inform authorities that I had raped her. I was scared to death! Even though I had not struck her, there would almost certainly be bruising on her wrists from me trying to remover her hands from my body. Thankfully, it was a bluff, but I could easily have gone to jail for no reason. It affected me for many years. Many years late, I met a wonderful woman and have been happily married for about 24 years now. Be careful out there fellas! Thanks for your videos, you are very insightful.
You need to leave her
I’m glad you found happiness bro, keep your chin up and don’t ever be afraid to voice your story. I’m sorry you went through that but stay strong and I hope you live a happy life with your new partner!
@@souhaib7923 if you read until the end, it turns out he did... many years ago. Unless you're talking about the wife he is with now... In which case no, he definitely shouldn't 😅
@@JRTeller I didn't read to the end hhh and ur right I was talking about his first girl not his current wife
Damn man that’s crazy glad you found the right women later on down the road.
I’ve just found your channel, I want to say thank you for your views, I think you are a dying breed and we need more like minded people like you. Big love.
Thank you for saving me from ever making the foolish mistake of getting involved with another women to the point of marriage. Not happening. It's been 26 years since the divorce and wowzers does this bring back memories. In my case I became a single dad and she went to CA. Had ptsd symptoms for a couple years afterwards.
Doctor Phil clearly has never been a victim before.
Dr Phil needs to be removed from TV. clearly a sexist, he thinks women are weak and aren't equal to men.
Dr.Phil is a simp and a fool.
He may as well marry Steve Harvey
I hope 🤔 he was playing lawyer Phil. I liked that guy
Thank you as always! Hope you are well, and you don’t know how real this hits.
so happy you are putting this out there
Roma this video hit me personally my ex made false allegations against me and the courts didn’t give me a fighting chance. Now I can only communicate with my kids thru supervised FaceTime. And I have to try to save money to travel to have supervised visitation. Thank you so much for advocating for men I always watch your UA-cam videos
I guess I got lucky. My ex only trashed me to friends, family, and coworkers. Once we got to court she calmed down.
She went on to do it again to husband #2, the guy she left me for. Except she openly made enough claims that he was able to sue her for slander.
Sorry dude, if its any consolation, know you are not alone, many share the same experience.
Thank you Johnny I truly appreciate it
Mine tried this and failed...however having to deal with this psychopath is gut wrenching. She blame shifted, made false allegations and gas lit...the list goes on and on. I had the special kind...the covert malignant Machiavellian flavor which of course I did not know until I got fed up and started to uncover it. bad mistake. they can act forever and you never see the mask fall until the discard you. Horrendous. they never change...so don't think they will get better. It might be for your protection at this point not hers. See it that way... you are being protected from further damage. I don't know why they let them get away with this junk. someone has to rewrite the laws here in a quick way.
Im right there with you bro.
Picking ip the pieces to my once life because I didnt want to partake is nasty sh***t
cops took away my evidence and instagram did more to protect my rights than the cops ever did.
That is why i support corporations having attorneys and protection bec they got the money to back it all up
I wish there were a lot more people like you on this planet. Your videos are a pleasure to watch.
💯
Her porn is pretty good too..
For sure. She looks like she might get fierce sometimes, but at least she can see things from a sensible point of view.
Agreed, with exception to this one as it touches on a topic so utterly uncomfortable to me that I'm having to start and stop multiple times through viewing. It is horrific what women like the ones examined today are able to inflict on others when they know how The Legal System works and are willing to go the extra ninety nine miles to villify anything standing in their way to get it. It's one reason why so many innocent men are thrown into situations they have no support system in dealing with, getting out of, or fighting through, as well as why so many were put into jail in the last fifty years.
Imagine your marriage falls apart and this lady is out to take the kid, the house, the business, the summer-home--anything and everything that supports the lifestyle she's become accustomed to having, you've worked (SEE: Slaved) your whole life from the time you were fifteen years old just fit your Daddy's Shoes--just to leave you with your name, and a destroyed reputation you'll never see restored during your lifetime or the NEXT! Let me ask you, who just "Heals" from this level of betrayal besides the thief who uses the string wrapped to her finger and attached to your whole WORLD like a freaking Garrote?!? Yeah. Yeah, that's exactly who "heals" from this. It's the one reason i'd rather get a lawyer to go into detail with me about how laws work for couples who elope, 'cause if this shit can happen WITHOUT a marriage then the idea of "Til Death Do us Part" was dead long, long ago....
Men need ro get together and fight for their rights.
Thank you for standing up for men Roma. You got a new subscriber. (Edit) and your open eyed view on reality, not just the systemic BS society spouts!
I love this!!! Thank you!!!
Hi, I'm new to your channel & I would love to say this to you....
"THANK YOU."
I'm a 50-year-old British Army veteran who HATES saying that there was mental & physical domestic violence in my marriage & she wasn't the victim.
The reason I hate saying it is because I don't feel like a man & people (especially women) don't believe me.
Thank you for sticking up for MENS rights. You're the first woman I've found that does.
💯 You are a God send, and I am so happy to have found your channel! 💕 seriously, thank you!
the fact that she mentioned rape sickened me not only for the child endanermnent all over a wifi passowrd. Keep up the good work and thank you.
My husband just showed me your page because he knew I would love you. I love an actual bad bitch. A woman who stands up and shuts shit down. You’re a hero. ❤ You’re doing the right thing. Keep it up and lmk if you need help!
We need women who see through delusional bullshit today :)
thanku
All I know is I will treat women with the same respect I am treated. Physically, verbally and mentally. I am to treat her with respect first, then adjust depending on her reaction. Order's from momma.
I have been divorced for 14 yrs and never dated a woman more than one date, and that just 2-4 times because like you said there is nothing in it for me.
Thanks for the videos. Thanks for making this known, I wish that 20+ years back this was being shown and talked about. I might not be as jaded and afraid of relationships as I am now. 20 + years now I have been basically single, afraid to get close to a woman for one reason, "What if ...........?" put what ever you like there. I paid my ticket for the ride when I was younger, I bought the t-shirt, and then stepped away from the said ride, after I realized that it was not a fun ride, but a true house of horrors.
Brilliant .. What a great person you are :) good on you for adding balance x
I used to be in a terribly abusive relationship. I remember she would say extremely terrible things to me, and threaten me with wild accusations, and every time I would follow my gut to record what she was saying, I would get called all the worst names. This was at least 10+ years ago, so it wasn’t acceptable for me to ever record anything apparently.
Gotta be careful recording. In some states recording someone may be illegal.
Absolutely amazing how often this happens. Went through a year of court and not seeing my son just to find out she was the one that actually harmed my boy.
I’m sorry mate.
Our country is run by horny simps and capitalist meat puppets absent of even the slightest honor nor objectivity.
This was the first video I watched that got me hooked on your channel. I make a conscious effort to only watch one or two a day depending on my mood so I don’t binge watch I would like to add that men are just as guilty as being petty and abusive and I personally put my woman on a pedestal and have no problem making sacrifices for her happiness. I just simply expect the same in return. I’m in a good relationship currently. But o would still like to find the one that I’d like to marry. Have you ever considered being a life coach for men and or women? I seriously think you offer an amazing outlook and point of view and can deliver it in articulate fashion. It’s a gift I hope you take full advantage of and in turn help others even further.
I've been through all this shit. Thank you for caring.
I've been in an abusive relationship. It is absolutely horrible how an abused male is treated when he seeks help.... things need to change!
MGTOW is the Way
I just threw her out. Waited a couple months for her to get a new man, and I beat the dog shit out of him 😂😂. Cant hit her, and she had no dad to beat up so 🤷♂️
@@uvveshlurvvesh6515 Machine Gun, Tube-launched, Optically tracked, Wireless-guided?
@@maxthibodeau3627 Yes 😂👍
First off, thank you SO much for doing what you’re doing.❤
This is almost too much to tell here, but I’ll try to keep it as short I can. Back in 1991, when I was 23 years old, I began a relationship with a woman 3+ years my senior, who had approached me at a local bar, as I was having a beer with a friend, on my night off from work (Oh, WHY didn’t I stay home that night? 😕). She and I moved in together almost immediately and things seemed great, even fun at first. We both worked, but because neither of us could afford a place on our own, the relationship quickly became very codependent. It wasn’t long before she started becoming verbally abusive toward me, whenever she didn’t get her way (Her favorite thing to say/yell was: "I thought I HAD a man!”). Soon, we stopped going out to shoot pool, etc., because she would constantly flirt with other men, whenever we went out drinking. The physical attacks and threatening to call the police then soon started to happen. Not once did I ever lay a hand on her, even when she broke my nose at one point. Although I was always the one who’d been assaulted, I was also the one who had to leave the scene, to avoid the possibility of being arrested (who’re they going to believe?.. A 5'11", 200 pound man, or a 4'11”, 130 pound woman?). The police WERE called by the neighbors on two occasions, one of which I stood talking to them, attempting to diffuse the situation, while hiding my bloody hand that she’d clawed the skin from the back of. Thankfully, I was never arrested, mainly because I would leave every time I was injured. As I mentioned before, this was a very (unhealthily) codependent relationship and this sort of thing went on constantly. I felt trapped but I THOUGHT I was in love with her.. I didn’t see any way out and I wasn’t sure that I even WANTED out. It finally ended one day after 12 years, when out of the clear, blue sky, she told me that she "Loves me", but isn’t "IN love" with me, breaking off the relationship and moving out of state with another man, leaving me alone to be evicted from our apartment. Needless to say, my trust in women was severely shaken by the whole ordeal, so much so, that it was six years before I began another relationship. This new woman turned out to be a verbal abuser, who I later found out had been smoking crack behind my back. That relationship ended one morning after 7 months, when I woke up to discover that she and the contents of my wallet were both gone. Also gone, was the last shred of trust that I had left. That was 14 years ago and mainly because of my severe fear of betrayal (both women cheated on me as well), I haven’t been in a relationship since. As I discovered in both instances, there is very little, if any sympathy or understanding for men who are abused by women, especially from other men, it seems. I actually had a police officer laugh at me once and tell me that someone was going to jail if he had to come back (gee, I wonder who? 🤔). I’m now 55 years old and worried I may die alone, but have been so emotionally damaged by what’s happened in the past, that I actually fear another relationship almost just as much. It may be too late for me at this point, but I applaud and appreciate your advocacy and understanding for/toward men in abusive relationships. There were precisely ZERO of those things available to me during the '90s, when I could really have used some support and it’s comforting to know that you and people like you are now attempting to make things better. With help and understanding such as yours, maybe men in similar situations will have available the help they need, so that they won’t be forced to go it silently and alone, in the same way that I was. Kudos to you! Keep up the great work (please). 🙂
Best wishes for you my friend. I can relate to your story, I have been through a similar hell with my ex. I am out of it now but we have a daughter together, so I am in some way tied to her abuse. It is very hard to trust another woman enough to even become friends let alone find a new relationship. I feel like I see red flags in every woman now. If I didn't have my daughter I would have moved from the UK to start a new life in a different country where the women have traditional values. Maybe I will when my daughter is grown up. Anyways take care mate
Never attach to cars, real estate or women.
Ever.
4:35 ... she metioned Military Spousal Support... AHAAAAA.... She's a DEPENDA! She knows that not only can she ruin this man with one word but she cal also ruin his career and subject him to the Uniform Code of Miltary Justice and the Military legal system. I was a Ssgt when I left the Air Force and I seen no less than 3 of my airmen have their careers ruined by crazy dependas... Guys ended up tangled up in the UCMJ and ended up with not only criminal records... FEDERAL criminal records at that but also dishonarable discharges as well.
Honestly I’m afraid to be in a relationship at all because of all the crazy women out there and because they get away with so much because society favors them. I would say it’s all about sex anymore but even that scares me these days. Society needs to straighten up and be more adult. Thank you for advocating for men Roma!
"Be more adult"???? It needs to be destroyed! This is EVIL!
@@itzakehrenberg3449it's about the feminist movement that has destroyed things
Don't worry about it, most people aren't like this.
Just stay clear of them. I'm 52 & can tell you, they're all bad news
It’s sad that there are even thoughts like this 😢
When I discovered my ex’s cheating she yelled at me demanding that I hit her - supposedly because of the overwhelming guilt. As angry as I was, it never crossed my mind to hurt her. I later realised that she actually wanted me to strike her as it would have been beneficial to her during the divorce. Goes without saying how messed up that is.
Thank you for this
Hey, just found your channel. You deliver awesome content, thank you!
Greetings from Switzerland✌️
You’re a goddess for addressing this subject.
Unless a guy’s lived it, he doesn’t know the daily soul-destroying hell that it is.
And to all the “knights in shining armor” out there, please keep this in mind….
You’re not gonna rescue somebody who doesn’t really want rescued.
And there's the obvious fact she was following him and he was trying to get away from her.
And he would still guilty because he refused to leave
Or guilty for any physical reason
I can appreciate a woman like you honestly sticking up for us men yeah we not perfect by all means but at the end of the day people make mistakes and I went through this kind of BS with my ex she trying to accuse me of a lot of things and just watching videos like this make me appreciate women like you we need more women like this ❤️❤️❤️
I've been single for /checks watch...11 years or more now. Got so tired of it all. They said, take some time for yourself and find your happiness. Well, I did. Now, in my 40's, I don't even want to think about dating or doing any other toxic activities that would jeopardies my own little tentative peace. I enjoy your videos Roma. It's not that guys aren't and can't be toxic or abusive also, but the issues you highlight really don't get discussed enough.
I just want to say thank you for voicing that you care about the well-being of men. I don’t always agree with everything you say but it’s obvious that it comes from a place of respect for men and you’re one of the few people we ever encounter that express anything like that. So yeah. Thank you
Thanks for speaking up for men. I've been divorced for over 9 years and my ex still holds all the power when it comes to our kids. We are supposed to have 50/50 custody, but she still holds the power. Keeps them on my days and makes it difficult for me to get them. She always threatens me with take her to court. The sad thing is she knows she will win any case in court because they are so Bias towards the fathers. And in this society even with 50/50 custody I owe her child support. This Justice systems is so against fathers, even good ones that are always there for their children. And the sad thing is the marriage ended because I caught her in an affair. Did the court care about that in the custody hearing? NOPE.
Same, except I did go through court, I pay 650 a month even though I'm supposed to have my son 50% of the time...but she has completely isolated him from me for years, lies about who his father is to him amd everything. I've taken her to court numerous times for contempt, as she refuses to follow the court ordered parenting plan....and they won't do anything except shake their finger at her and "award me more time" that I never see because she just doesn't let me see him at all
Child support is such bs sometimes. My mother claimed me and my older brother on child support. She kicked me out when I was 8, so back in 2011. My older brother passed away back in 2002 before I was born. She's an absolutely vicious and vindictive woman, and she genuinely wonders why I don't talk to her.
My ex girlfriend and I were in love. I was.
I think she was.
But, she got pregnant. And I was soooo happy!
Then... she made it clear, that I have no say in anything to do with the baby. And that she was gonna have it aborted. My heart broke and it killed me inside that I had ZERO say😢
15 years later, I cannot get over that. We broke up back then. But it destroyed me internally/mentally
I no longer want a family now.
My family is my reptiles I have
Sounds like a better replacement
So very sorry 😢
I hate that but atleast she didn't pull a divorce then made you pay child support, I have seen so many cases where the partner (usually women) take custody of the child for child support from the other partner.
I feel you're pain I'm sorry for you , but let's keep a little door open for the chance at least if you can, made me cry this statement I hope one day you gonna recover a little bit ...... I know 15 years is passed and you feel never gonna happen but who know......
@@katt8391 thank you
Roma. Thanks for your support!!!! Its beautiful!
you are amazing and thank you!
She's insane. My ex girlfriend use to act like this. It's such a horrible situation to be in. She's just evil.
I love how men are just expected to take physical and psychological abuse. Idc who you are. You hit me, expect to get hit back.
Facts... Equal rights!
@@VIRGILSHELTONII Equal rights, equal fights. Women all over the world fell on the floor nose first with this movement.
Girl you're so lost, there's no saving you 💀
@@ayofrtho7014 so youre telling someone theyre wrong. but wont say why theyre wrong, or bring up a valid argument/debate on why theyre wrong. rick n morty fan i bet.
@@alucardnolifeking789 equal rights, equal fights is the dumbest thing ive heard/read since the movie newest dumber n dumber
after the nightmare that was my ex im not dating anymore. its just not worth it. im only 36 friggin years old and I've already realized its just not worth it. peace of mind is the most blessed thing a man can have.
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Best to figure that one out as soon as possible. More life ahead that way
@@JackDesert I have figured it out. I'm done dating. its so much more quiet and peaceful and I don't have to spend my money on anyone but me.
I wanna just say you are incredibly brave for the cold sore. That's not a dig, sarcasm or a joke. I applaud you.
Please subscribe to the two individuals I tagged in the description.
Thanks for covering my brother's story I know hes free from that nutter now but still sending some love his way always helps with the aftermath and telling his story like he has may save a brother of ares in the future
Thanks so much for your work Roma. ❤
@@fox0yeah410 give him hugs
Luckily my ex text me the threat. So I went to police. Took weeks to clear it up socially though .
@@valeforedark no need for hugs mate we got his back for life lol and evil bitchs always go public and even with proof people still believe them have you seen my mans other videos this one was tame next to the one shes banging her head into the door saying I'm going to call the police he was in the shower yet still had his phones tells you everything right there 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The Dr Phil segment broke my heart. The abuse victim must've felt terrible hearing all of the crowd laugh and cheer.
If I had been abused like that, opened up about it on television (which I wouldn't in the first place) and then Dr. Phil bad-mouthed me for clout while pretending to be a therapist I would have thrown my mic in his face and left that studio immediately. That is appalling behavior.
Dr.Phil was always a Clown Show i could never understand what People find in watching other People suffer.
Dr. Phil is a joke.
That is a Man's reality; no sympathy for the man. Only GOD cares how much pain a man endures.
Dr Phil should be ashamed of himself
Thank you!!
9:26 I almost cried at the fact that a women thinks im worth being kept safe. Thank you Roma
I made a statement on the last video, and yeah this is triggering. I went through the blocking the door so I couldn't walk away from her wanting to fight, and my silence. Which just made her angrier. For me this was just the past few months ago. 3 1/2 months of that shit. Now I'm free.
Oh I bet you sleep a lot better at night brother.
I went through the same thing she would follow me no matter where I was and wanted to keep fighting I didnt
King, keep your head up otherwise your clown will fall ♡
Sucks you had to go thru something like that, i hope youre doing much better now. Went thru something like this too and its frustrating and just feels horrible
My ex did the same thing
Same things for me almost 30 years ago. 3½ years with her. I learned a lot with that psycho bitch.
I asked my husband the question you asked at about 4:08 - about why men would want to get married in this day and age. He said he wanted to get married because he found his best friend and he was so happy that he wanted to spend every day of his life with me and he didn’t want to lose me. He also said that he has peace because he knows that he can trust me to not cheat and I support him when he needs it. I am very blessed that God gave me a man who thinks of me like this.
May u 2 have forever bliss and happiness 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🖤❤️
That's what many men want, her wife to be also their best friend, their partner in life and the mother of their kids. But it rarely happens. Best luck to you and your husband.
He has peace because you are not his burden. A man can take on the world and Hell itself as long as his soulmate has his back. Unfortunately such women are a rare as flying jellyfish. Modern women come into the marriage with one foot out of the door and eyes searching the web for their next vict - I mean, hookup. I don't even know a man who has peace in the home.
This is usually how it starts for men. Doesn't always stay that way though
@@morganjohnson539 i lowkey wish i wasnt an incel so i could see wat erryones on about with this whole sex and love shit
Just recently started watching your vids. Your Awesome.
Though I may end up losing myself relatively soon, please keep up your amazing service.
I know you resonate with so many, and even though I can't make sense of really ANYTHING- but MOST OF ALL how EVIL people treat each other... keep up the good fight, sister- and THANK YOU.
The story in this video is an almost one-to-one replica of something I went through with my ex, 22 years ago. She hit, scratched, and bit me until I was bleeding. But of course I was raised to NEVER put my hands on a woman, so I tried to leave, so of course she blocked the door. But she was only 4'11" so I just picked her up and set her, gently, on the couch and left. No cell phones back then, unfortunately, so I couldn't record it. But when I called the sheriff's dept from a neighbor's house, they told me that I should hang up the phone because if they came out for DV, I was going to jail.
Every married man, every baby-daddy, every man in any kind of relationship, needs to understand that there is a figurative gun pointed at their head, at all times, and act accordingly. Thanks for listening to my TED talk.
It is so sad that I am 22 and always thought I had it hard as a woman because NOBODY talked about the other side of men and the struggles and hardships they had to go through. Oh my god, thank you Roma for opening my eyes and THANK GOODNESS I found your channel.
It's been said but like most other women you probably shrugged it off. Not trying to be mean but I bet you have heard something about it but ignored it as rumor
@@rickregister9424 I don't know, I don't recall any period of time in my life so far where anyone brought up anything to do with a man having issues in any way. It was always "be tough, be a man" and all that nonsense. We weren't supposed to show emotion or that we cared. I have had a fractured relationship with my father for 25 years because he didn't understand how to talk to me or reach me in any meaningful way. I am not saying my experience is atypical of people my age, but I think if you ask men in my age bracket about their childhood, far more than you think(if they were being honest)would tell you how bad of a childhood they had at certain times and how they had no one to go to. I think she even said it on this channel; at one point there were like 2000 women's shelters in the US and only one men's shelter. One. It's definitely been brushed aside more than most people realize.
@George N I'm almost 45 and have 0 relationship with my dad. Im sorry you went through that. I work in the mental health field and am working on a project to bring mens mental health to light. It's difficult finding any good sources for articles not written by a woman on mens mental health. I hope my project works
@George N what's an even bigger tell is that after they opened more mens shelters some were attacked and shut down by feminists.
It's because nobody gives a fuck about us, even other men don't care about other us but themselves, that's what the guys don't tell you about tho, how backstabbing and slimy these mfs are, just like some females, dudes need to stop acting like we're all together bc we're not, we always fight each other about something small, I've been betrayed by so many of my guy friends it's crazy, all because I was honest and real about shii and grew up didn't want to hit licks nomore and didn't want to go back to jail and get in trouble anymore, they all betrayed me after I wanted to be a better person, so now add that with women who barely care about us as it is when you have nothing, you know what that makes? a hole
I love this episode on your channel you are inspiring me.
My first girlfriend tried to falsely accuse me of rape, luckily the only people that believed her were her close friends. Ever since then, relationships never felt the same. I find myself unable to fully trust people and let them in all the way because I am reminded from this that some people can and will ruin your life out of spite. Even the people closest to your heart.
I can contest to this. I'm a black man and I have been sitting here trying not to cry. I will never forget the abuse I suffered at the hands of a woman. Going to jail for absolutely nothing physically and mentally abused. All along I just wanted to make her happy. That is the reason I'm so tucking sad. I believe that my life is not worth sharing with anyone else but I'm not Gonna give up .There is a woman who is right now at this very moment in looking for me and my love ❤.
I'm so sorry man. My ex accused me of sexual abuse. Thank God I had a good support system. I drank myself to sleep most nights because of the pain she caused.
And because of her, I don't trust any females besides my mom and sister.
Fuck I'm so sorry bro, I know your pain. It's brought tears to my face. Try to stay strong ❤
@@schecter7elite801 because of my mom and my sister and my daughter, I don't trust any women. I thank them daily!
Sorry man. I hope you have peace now.
Thank you for everything!! I have a son, and you’re helping to build a better world for him!
I’m a female who’s had tantrums too. But I’ve cried like a petulant child. But to accuse a man of two of the the three most heinous acts in the in the world, child abuse and rape (third being murder), is INSANE! Absolutely insane. I know women who have fights like this, and I cut them off without any explanation. None is needed! I can’t imagine getting this 🦇💩 crazy! And I admit I’m far from perfect. But to accuse a man of something he didn’t do, especially something unfathomable is downright chilling. Please keep up the great work!! 💚🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
She is NOT "insane"; she is EVIL!!!
Thank you for sharing, it's good you've grown and learned from your actions as we all should ❤️ much love
@@grinnifer 💚 sending love and positive vibes back
This is just one of the many reason men opt out of life and I wouldn't trust an effing word coming out of her mouth. Thank you Roma for being a advocate for men's rights you are absolutely the badass you call yourself. Mad respect to you from NZ.
they don't just opt outta life they also refuse to get married because some women will play this game just to fuck up someone's life I've had this happen to me twice and it causes tons of problems I know that from 1st hand experience
I mean, why wouldn't a man opt out of life? Just hearing these stories, raises my blood pressure
I've made it to 42 without ever getting married. The reasoning has been because, for some reason, I attract women like this. When they get upset, they get petty and ridiculous. I've even had a woman I dated 5 years, towards the end, when we would argue would just start screaming and crying and screaming "hit me" over and over when she was losing the debate. Neither of us ever put a hand on the other in anger or anything like that. No threats ever made. However, she'd put on the show to try to get the attention and "witness" through audio of the neighbors. I'm glad in this video you showed the door block. This is the most common tactic I've experienced in these situations. They block the door and then scream "don't touch me" as you try to leave. Hell one time I went out a window because of it.
It is so refreshing to hear a woman who understands and can see things from a man's point of view. Women are scary . I have been hit, cheated on and mentally abused by females in the past. I class myself as a good kind and loyal person so please can anyone explain to me why women seem to think or see this as a weakness and an excuse to treat men like myself as if we are dog shit and yet say they want a decent men. I'm 51 yo I work hear and do my best I've only had 5 sexual partners in my life 4 of wich cheated 2was also violent but all must with my head in one way or another. I know there is good and bad on both sides and I may or may not ever find my soul mate but I can live in hope..
Seeing this happen to friends and family members IRL made me super hesitant to get into serious relationships until I was much older. And also, I had 6 sisters who learned me the warning signs of the crazy ones so no relationships progressed once they were discovered. No I am engaged to a wonderful woman I have known for almost 25 years and all of our children are grown, and I am loving life. Be patient my friends and keep up the good fight!
Great advice!!
As a woman I can confidently say that any woman who does anything like this is not worth your time. More people need to stop upholding this stereotype that women can’t be dangerous or cause harm. This is horrible to see, and I hope that poor man was able to safely make it out of that situation. And for any man who has experienced a similar situation I am so sorry.
Roma thank you for another wonderful video, and for never stopping your advocacy for men’s rights❤
As a man that has traveled the world. I can confidently say it will come back 1k fold once civility is removed. It's coming. And men that have witnessed this. Giving motivation to never have tried to enforce civility. Are awaiting their moment with glee. Will be a bad time for women alone with just Girl Power.
Fortunately there are quite a few women like yourself that get it and understand from another viewpoint. Not every woman is like this one in the video but some of the loudest most bitter ones on social media can be.. Unfortunately 😑 I'm not sure what leads to this type of entitled attitude 🤷🏻♂️ maybe being raised as a spoiled brat or maybe they've been abused and traumatized so they think that's what love is 🤷🏻♂️
@@bjpalomo3225 This is a result of feminism. What did you think would happen when we're constantly being taught about "the patriarchy" and how "men are the oppressors with all the power and women are the oppressed." A poor helpless woman could never possibly injure or abuse a man, she's too weak and feeble and he holds all the power in this patriarchy, doesn't matter if she chops your finger off and ruins your entire life... You could've just stopped or overpowered her or left if it was really bad and as a man you clearly did something to provoke her, it's impossible for a woman to be the abuser because of the power dynamics with men holding it all, at least according to modern feminism... 🤷♂
that man should immediately have called 911 and showed the cops that video. immediate restraining order and bye felicia live in a hotel where wifi pass will be given to u. w/ the false accusations which btw r a crime in most places. ofc she won't be actually sentenced in any court for those. but will get her out of the house maybe at least? and next call she even tries to make to 911 claiming anything will be "oh u r the abusive wife? okay.. we'll send cops to pick u up!"
also that woman has never been told no in her life and used to manipulate her way always. no accountability at all.
I ended up on one of your video... Thank you, it does feels great even just hearing you say this truth...
I've lived this 😔 thank you for bringing this situation to light. Standing in front of a man trying to leave his OWN house is NOT okay. Long live ROMA
Yup
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I wish you much love and commiseration ❤ There are some crazy people out there and crazy women can most definitely ruin a life!
Much love for that response. It's difficult navigating the right and wrong thing to do when there seems to be no accountability for putting men in that situation. But I'm very close to getting my Daughter back, and hopefully I can separate from her ill mother. Wish her the best though
My dad was sent to jail multiple times over abuse allegations from my mom. Their marriage ended in murder. After one final, particularly bad verbal altercation, he snapped. Months before my dad had tried to get legal intervention and the judge sided with my mom. Granted, there are some extremes in this story (mental health issues, addiction), but try to recognize a lit stick of dynamite before it's too late.
Damn, I hate to hear that. I’ve been there myself and ended up doing 20 1/2 years so I completely understand and feel for your dad. The biggest problem is the legal system failed you and your brother completely because a judge didn’t have the balls to do the right thing. It’s sickening and I have nothing good to say about police, lawyers and the courts in this country as a matter of fact I can’t stand any of them.
Yup my GF went nuts in my house the cops turned up arrested me I nearly got 2 yrs luckily I got bail n she knew it was all her fault so she never turned up at court at my trial so my case was thrown out. She was on vodka n fake benzos which she has never touched again coz of what happened.
back in 94, a girl was datign went nuts adn stabbed me. when the cops showed up guess who went to jail. me cause " she wouldnt have stabbed me" if it wasn't self defense. I had not laid a finger on her. ( i was 14 at the time)
@@ithiriaderitan1745 The cops always take us men away, even if you have the stab wound n the girl is fine. At least you learned very early that the cops are always sexist when it comes to domestic violence. Hope u got a nice girl who is not into 🗡 🤞👍
Finally a good ending
New sub, thank you for being you, a near lone voice in a morass of madness.
love ur videos ty
They’ll always do it because they can… they’ll even spend the entire relationship planning the ruin of another person to prove to themselves they’re powerful.
You know, watching this video, I can see the genuine sadness in your face and in your voice and I relate to it. There is a reason that at 54 I live alone and trust no one. My life was ruined but never again.
I noticed that as well
I hear you, me too, definitely better to be by myself now and there's very few that I know I can trust.
I'm sorry you've had your life ruined. It's bullshit that a woman can just decide one day to ruin your life and there isn't a fucking thing you can do to stop it. TRUST NO ONE!!
I’m sorry mate.
@@Robbie1075 Destroy this culture through violent revolution.
Thank you from my heart
As far as domestic violence, my mom told me to never hit a female first, and if I can, wait till she leaves a mark. When/ if she did, teach her a lesson.
Man I know this situation to well. My ex fiance pulled this on me. She started doing drugs and when I confronted her she told her friends and family I "r" worded her. I felt hopeless and was subservient to her. When I had enough and confronted her about the lies she then told friends and family I "r" worded her daughter. I was part of that little girls life longer then her bio dad and was destroyed. That's when I left
Good for you man, you didn’t deserve that crap