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I finally found a good woman I'm injured and can't work at the moment and she is sticking it through with me with no complaints and she knows I would do the same for her
Same here. Mine works hard to support me and our 2 kids. I'm a stay homeschool dad.
Yes! Congrats my man it's amazing isn't it?
I also found one of these great women. Hope you heal my friend!
Happy for you. I'm 38 now and I can't find a woman who wants to be with me. I don't have a driver's license anymore, I can't work anymore, and I still live with my parents because I'm on disability from a serious car accident when I was 19.
Can't wait to go back to work doc says up to 2 more months left hopefully less thow can't keep affording to live my life style lol
I notice she is smiling as she destroys his car. Get police on her. NOW!
My mother forced me to break into my uncle’s locked room. When he returned, he called the police, and made an official legal battle about it.
She won. Thank the fuck Christ she’s dead now.
get her brain matter all over the car wheel. NOW!
"Smiling" is a kind way of putting it. She was psychotic with a look of a crazy person.
Women don't act like this in the middle east. Modern western women are ALL garbage.
What they gonna do? Send her to counselling? Drag HIM into couples therapy?!
chris rock said it best
"Women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. Men are loved under the condition they provide something"...smh
So basically not loved at all
If the man who owns the car wanted to sell this female's family a Pine Box... I'm not against it.
My daughters mother has gone with her family on a vacation doing basically a road trip from Ontario to Calgary to B.C well besides a few text messages I haven't heard anything in a month. Now if the tables were turned and I took my daughter for a month with not contacting her the mother the world would crush me it's sad how one sided things still are
All I can say, you’re awesome! Single dad, full custody. Going to the grocery store and anywhere is normal. Thank you for your support.
this woman is a grifter , she hates men but can make killing off her grift ,,, wake up dude
do some homework ,, and see how evil this woman is
who???=:O@@SirHumphrey498
When my (now) husband and I started dating, we had many heartfelt and vulnerable conversations about what we both wanted in life, a relationship, careers, family, etc.. We had both been hurt before, and both had the date to marry mindset. This stopped us from ever having to wonder where the other person stands. We understand eachothers needs and wants and do our best to make them a priority. We have now been together for almost 4 years and have been married a year since June. Don't be too proud to be vulnerable and open about what you want. It will save you a lot of heartache. Life is good 😊👍.
Celebrating my wife’s and my 20th year next month! We were BEST FRIENDS first, which I believe made all of the difference…😊
Its not how you look is secondary its it what you describe in your post we sees as really attractive and important.
You clearly are a keeper so I envy your husband 😊👍👍 and I haven't even meet you !
Unfortunately that is rare because 95 percent of women would rather play games and expect a man to read their mind and be their slave
It's all about chemistry and communication.
That didn't work for me! Both wives ended up cheating on me with my friends.
Thank you I have no problem with feminism but we women HAVE to realise that being pro woman does not have to equal being anti man. Women can do the wrong thing too and there are MANY good men out there❤❤
Thank you for saying that. You're correct for one group to succeed another doesn't have to lose. There isn't a finite amount of respect. We can all have it for eachother.
There are.
But men are ALSO the overwhelming majority perpetrators of violent and predatory crime. Including against other males.
IF you don't have the courage to accept that while thinking THIS content is critical?
Then you have no ethics or morals.
So you have no problem with them celebrate our STEEWWIE - SWYYDES! So we should do the same, get those numbers up so we can CELEBRATE JUST LIKE YOU. Same treatment.
As far as I'm concerned, Roma is an actual Feminist. The women she is criticizing are merely narcissists who use the term "Feminist" to try to justify their one-sided demands to be respected without giving any respect in return. I think it's important to understand that difference and not destroy the gains made by the Feminist movement by associating it to the bad behavior of some women.
@@RayyM2 define feminist
I was assaulted by my ex..Actually, two of my exes, one drunkenly and the other trying to show off to a dude that she was interested in after we broke up as she tried to play the victim card, even though she was the antagonistic one trying to fight me and insult me hoping for me to somehow do something in turn.
You should practice your red flag detection skills!
You should get a lawyer and go after both of them. And call the cops on her too
Grocery store segment had me cracking up😂 it's true a woman would be jealous of anything...keep up the good work Roma❤
I got stabbed in the head by a drunk woman three weeks ago. She was very surprised when the Alaska State Trooper tazed her.
She got charged with Interfering with an EMS official. The law in Alaska finally made it a crime to assault an EMS provider. The last time I was assaulted was with a 2x4. I have to deal with suicidal people all the time.
Most domestic scenes I go to are women aggressors.
I'M SORRY?! HOW ARE YOU ALIVE?!
@killswitchgaming7333 the angle was wrong. It skipped off my skull. The second strike almost took it my eye and the third went into my arm.
How was she not charged with attempted murder?
@@ashuranero5721 not sure.
This doubly enforces me not to get married every woman in my life has betrayed me at least once
Soul of woman was created below. (All that mythology about Adam and Eve comes from the masculine perception of feminine nature.) Unless a woman loves you, she cannot 'forgive and forget' any transgression on a man's part, or, for that matter, on another woman's part. Notably, most women hate other women. It's been said that, "Men are mean to each other, but don't mean it", whereas "women are nice to each other, but don't mean it."
Think about it my fellow: We men forgive each other for MOST transgressions; we forgive and forget. Women, in my experience, seem incapable of the same. There are evolutionary reason for this difference, namely, that men are less likely to have to engage in physical combat with each other, because one or the other may get killed. Still, women are...
I like to say, "no, I'm not talking about ALL women. I'm just talking about every woman I've ever known."
@@samr.england613I'm a woman and I'm not the kind of person you described btw
@@samr.england613 Don't call something a mythology just because you don't like it, also don't spread lies about it.
I love the longer form content like this, pointing out the ACTIONS women are taking in front of men, and away from men, and pointing it the fuck out. Lots of women want to pretend that actions like these are minor when they are not minor, there are lots of women who make these actions or choose to treat men this way whenever it benefits them, including a lot of my friends. Don't let this shit be normal guys, call your lady friends out, call your lady out, call your mother out, do it. "Effinism" has turned misandry into a normal thing, we need to do our due dilligence to make sure its reversed.
Modern feminism is a way for women to have it both ways. For example, if a woman cannot do the job you do (usually heavy lifting or other manly work), they will still demand the same pay as you're receiving, even though the average woman cannot do the described job. Likewise, they want to be treated as 'equals', but they (most) still expect us to pay for the movie and dinner and everything else.
I made the grocery store shopping with the kids. Never was told what a great dad I was. We always had fun and they were a handful. One of my favourite activities.
I was a stay at home dad for over a year, did all the errands with the kid, and some people in town thought I was a single father because they never saw my wife out with us. We got plenty of daddy/daughter time and I loved every second of it. My ex-wife never told me I was a good dad, never thanked me for taking care of literally everything to do with the kid, the house, bills, cars, shopping, etc. Just criticism. I let it roll off my back and made sure I did everything right for my little girl.
I'll bet it's one of the kids' favorite activities too
A while back (a couple of years actually) I saw this one video on UA-cam where there was a young couple and the boyfriend had gone in to have an audition of some kind; I don't remember if it was an acting gig or just something for a talent agency, but that didn't matter. anyway the receptionist at the place was actually kind of really cute and she was putting herself out there. The guy was being humble and kind and definitely made it known he was in a relationship. The receptionist starts phone stalking him and even goes so far as to admit that she'll do whatever it takes to break the couple up. So she gets the brilliant idea to tell the girlfriend that she had sex with her boyfriend. When the GF hears this she confronts him nd gets really physical with the hitting and slapping and refuses to believe that she was lied to BY THE IOTHER GIRL. Instead yelling at HIM that HE'S the one lying and that he's a dirty dog and a man-whore. And then after a a couple of minutes the other girl just casually admits that "yeah I was lying." at which point the GF gets shocked confused and THEN goes to "Well it's your own fault that I got mad. You need to pay more attention to me!"
I was like WHAT!?!?!? Really?? Blaming HIM because YOU have anger issues??
If the woman destroys the car, clearly she is crazy and it's reflects why the guy likely cheated. These same women would stalk and make the man's life a living hell if he divorced or broke up with the woman. If the woman has kids by the man, not only would she destroy property, she would lie about abusing the children and physical violence from the man.
Extreme case but yes that does happen
My mother was the one who was abusive to both Dad and myself. Dad divorced her when I was three. I’m the one who had to tolerate more of her shit since then.
I was actually proposed to by my wife. I was blown away and so happy. I say, at least in my experience and opinion, if she feels like the relationship can go to the next level, then she can and should absolutely propose to her man (or domestic partner). Tradition be damned. Culture evolves and so too should we. If your pride is getting in the way, perhaps you should ask yourself if your pride is more important than your partner's or your happiness.
My first gf walked up to me at the end of 5th grade and said, "You wanna be my boyfriend?" I real quick looked her up and down, saw that she was pretty, and said: Sure! We dated til 8th grade, til she went to another high school. She was a beautiful tom girl. We built dams in the creeks, caught salamanders together, and, later on, she helped build me and my buddies' treeforts, among other "boyish" projects. If America wasn't so effed up about everybody 'moving away", I probably would've married that gal.
Simp
I’m sorry but my ex did that. Turns out she was a covert narcissist. Wants to control the narrative. I hope she is different and I know it feels good to be wanted.
I have found my peace after ten years of abuse. It almost did kill me. I cannot, and will not be in a relationship again...shit I don't even know what reaction trauma I have...I refuse to be a monster even if I know my heart is good because the pain of it is too much to risk. I have accepted being 30 and being alone. Some days it is tough, I do want a mate, but...what I went through, ...I have been free 3 years and I still have vivid nightmares of what that woman did to me mentally, physically, and spiritually. Thank you, for what you do. I wouldn't wish this ultimatum on any human being.
This is why we need you Roma keep up being you! We need you and more like you to help up men who are constantly being pushed around and down!
We need to stand up, and say no more! (Especially White men!) Hate to racialize it, but it's true!
She is a p”rn star grifter who I guarantee has/does treat men in the exact way she “advocates” against. She personality shows she is guilty of what she accuses other of doing.
I have seen her ridiculing girls who post racy videos of themselves when she herself has legit p”rn videos online.
She is a grifter. Nothing more.
I have witnessed a man beat up my girlfriend at the time.... I STEPEED IN, BEAT THE HELL OUT OF THE MAN and dont regret it at all, GOT ARRESTED and almost did 7 yesrs cuz of it. The DOC said i belong behind bars cuz I DIDNT SHOW REMORSE FOR MY ACTIONS, cuz im not and i wont.....i am proud of myself i protected my girl.....he didnt get any charges after he broke her cheek bone with a steel pipe......... i was raised to not allow this to happen
You are so necessary in these times. Men are beat on relentlessly for everything! They can drink a cup of coffee without getting put down. All of us who have sons are scared about what the world is going to do to them. Thank you for you
I was a single dad from my sons third birthday to his being an adult, his mother didn’t pay anything including attention to him!
Marriage, never again.
Never attach to cars, real estate or women.😊
I love you Roma. I really do. Just cause you’re a special a warrior for us destroyed guys. You are the Modern day Joan of Arc.💪❤️
Did anyone else notice how that psycho took a few seconds from destroying the car to look up at whoever was recording her actions and she actually laughed it off as though it's perfectly normal?
😳
I do know that if the cops came immediately to the scene, the woman would act as though she was justified and within her rights, but the cops would disagree.
"When the wind blows it SHAKES EVERYTHING that is INSECURE whether without or within"
The idea of street interviews is awesome. It's needed and brings reality to an issue above stats.
This was a good commentary.❤
I chuckled when you said "I'm not going to be pulling a Pearl Davis" :D
Really well said, I agree with all the points you’ve made here! It’s so great that you speak so powerfully for men’s rights. 🔥
And it’s awesome to see you back making longer videos again, they’re always so expressive and well done 😊❤
Ptthhankyou! 🙂🙌
Thank you!!!! Thank you!!!! My ex wife filed a claim with DCS because I'd rather take care of my Mother that is sick with Cancer and might have 13 months to live rather than work 50 to 60 hours a week just to pay child support.... By the way I'm still paying most of my child support but it's not enough!!!!!
Way back when my kids were small, I'd take them out and women, usually older, would thank me for spending time with my kids and giving mom a break. At first I was just like "thank you(?)" but the more I thought about it the sadder I got because their kids didn't get as much dad time as they wanted and I'm willing to bet that the dads of those kids are looking back at life just wishing they had worked less and gotten to know their kids better. It also meant that those women felt overburdened raising the kids and the men had to work really hard just to keep everything afloat because of gender roles and what was considered "normal." That's heartbreaking to think about all the time they lost trying to conform to a standard that we're slowly replacing with more co-parenting (which makes me happy.)
Meanwhile, the men are working so much because she expects bank
Back then the men worked hard when they didn’t need to work as hard, now days you have to get a PHD and work 3 jobs just to support two kids and a wife and still have time to spend with your kids.
i was beaten by a women, i called the cops, they laughed at me and the following day a sheriff came to my house for a court summons, i had kept detailed documents of every interaction with her.. so she started lieing and i got a 3 year restraining order... even after i showed my bruises on my face and body caused by her
7:25 I'd totally be down to be proposed to by a woman. I would probably even tear up and disbelieve it.
Especially after my ex-fiancé who accepted the ring before going away to finish college cheated on me within two months, especially on Valentine's day. I found out the week later.
Now, this is years ago now, but having someone I love also love and care about me enough to break gender norms to propose would be one of my brightest and happiest memories.
Welcome back. On point, I decided one Sat morn to insist my spouse leave the house, find a coffee shop with a newspaper and enjoy some you time-I got the house. Next came the suggestion that she go to the gym and enjoy herself. For the next six months she was able to solidify a relationship that lasted over two years.
I used to work in one of those Escape Rooms. During one game a girl got frustrated and slapped her boyfriend across the face. I told her she needed to leave. Both she AND the man she slapped tried arguing with me and I explained that domestic violence is domestic violence no matter the gender. He ended up leaving with her out of solidarity and the remaining group was pissed at me for kicking them out, saying it “obviously wasn’t a big deal”. 💀
Hello Dadvocate!!! Thats absolutely insane. I feel bad for the guy bc it sounds like he doesn't understand that what she did was abusive and like many victims will be on the abusers side bc they have been gaslit into thinking its normal. And the fact people said its "not a big deal" If a man did that he would've been on the ground 2 seconds flat. The double standards need to end. Hope you have a great day and happy late anniversary ❤
The worst thing about every time, a girlfriend destroys a guy’s property usually his car a lot of the time. The only thing that happens is a restraining order against her. No criminal charges. She’s not liable for the damages and he hast to fix his car out of his own pocket, because the insurance won’t cover it I know that because it happened to a friend.
I'm glad you are back. I thought UA-cam finally got you. Thank goodness they didn't. I'm sorry you are having mental issues and I hope they don't get on top of you. Seriously, keep fighting.
Thank you for all you do Rona! I am a single dad bringing up my 6 year old girl, and I love every minute of it.😂
I have some trouble reading social cues, I've gotten better at it with age and practice. If women were more willing to be open about what they wanted, I believe they and I would have had an easier time. I would be THRILLED, to be proposed to, that would be the kind of story to tell grandkids. 😀
When my old man would take me to the store at a young age he would buy a large bag of grapes and feed them to me in the cart while shopping to shut me to fuck up and get me to eat something. I never realized how much of a great father my old man was until i turned like 18 and i was out on my own making money from the skills and knowledge he passed on to me.
"poor mental health" should be the title of my autobiography
Now you know why I've given up My abusive X and I got into an argument back in the early 1990s. I said it's getting us nowhere I'm Going Out for a smoke. It's February tembolo, Zeno. I'm wearing shorts a T-shirt in Tennis shoes She locks me out of the house.
I'm pounding on the door to get back in cause I'm freezing. The cops get called. I'm the one pay in the rent. I'm the only one on lease Me cops made me leave.
After 8 years of abuse. Physical and mental She broke off the engagement. Because I smoked a joint at work in the parking lot away from home. Said she'd call the cops if I didn't leave.
So I said Goodbye, She beat on me a lothru stuff at me. Torched me in any way you know why? I because I told her I was raised that real men don't beat women so she took advantage of it. If I can't find someone like you chloe Roma I'm going to stay single
I've never been about those gender roles and expectations, I've never believed men should be the ones to do the asking, if my partner had proposed to me it would've been just as special, every relationship is different, all parents do things differently, it's amazing that we've come so far yet our society is still basically functioning off of stereotypes and gender roles and requirements, there's a reason I hate leaving the house too much 😂
How many women have you known, personally, that asked a man to marry them?
Simp
Yeah people confuse gender roles with healthy relationships. All it takes is common sense and decency to have a good relationship. Same sex male couples have the lowest rates of divorce and DV, so gender roles aren't the magic answer.
I have a truck load of comments made to me in shops, conventions, festivals... when I'm out with my daughter.
The most infuriating 5 being. "STOP! Don't go anywhere I'm calling the police right now." They ignored me when I asked questions like why? When the police arrived it turns out that these people assumed I was either a p*do or a child abductor. Just because I'm a father involved in my daughter's life.
You know people give you a hard time only because they are threatened by you right? Your makeup is very tasteful by the way Ms Roma
You ole smoothie! :)
Roma your video about mental health and being there for people showed up on my phone at the perfect time.
Yes an ex of mine "sold" me her car. I bought it because I knew she was in a difficult position and needed the money. To prove my stupidity I bought it on trust. It needed more repairs than the vehicle was worth. So i ended up thousands out of pocket. Of course when I mentioned this to her I got crickets and tumble weed I was trying to help her out but she knowingly screwed me anyaway.
Bro that's hurt but I feel you. My ex has used me for 2 cars, took $12,430.43 out of my account while I wasn't working and focusing on school all in the meantime for the last 3 years I've been the main supporter to her and 3 kids two of which I'm the step dad and our shared daughter. There's much more moral of the story it could be way worse!
This platform is genius.... she's saying everything (us men) and I wanna hear.. She's a great debater..I wish there were more women like this..
I have been praised for taking my kids to the store. Then when the lady find out im a single father, she told me that I can't raise kids solo and shamed.
I hope that lovely woman who trashed that car not only went to jail but had to pay for all of the damage.
I’m a father of a special needs child. I’m the custodial parent and for years I watched as his mother ignored my child’s challenges. I have experience many women and several professionals talk down to me as if I had no idea how to parent my child. I have spent the last 14 years going from doctor to doctor and from school to school trying to get my child the help he needs. I have not had a proper vacation for the last 14 years due to my attempts to find help. My child is high functioning and interfaces well with people. I’m my attempts to date I went out with single mothers, college professors to attorneys. I am reasonably cultured and I’m emotionally intelligent. As soon as these women learn that I have a child, not even that the child is special needs, they bolt. I have traveled a large portion of the world before my child was born. I remember in the 1980s the feminist of that time said they would respect and longed to be with a man who put their children first. That is not what I see in women today. They have little desire to be part of a family and their humorous knows no bounds. If you his is more white noise for you. I will quote Shakespeare.
If we shadows have offended,
Think but this, and all is mended-
That you have but slumbered here
While these visions did appear.
And this weak and idle theme,
No more yielding but a dream,
Gentles, do not reprehend.
If you pardon, we will mend.
And, as I am an honest Puck,
If we have unearnèd luck
Now to ’scape the serpent’s tongue,
We will make amends ere long.
Else the Puck a liar call.
So good night unto you all.
Give me your hands if we be friends,
And Robin shall restore amends.
I don't need any recognition for being a Dad... I see the praises on my children's faces..
to quote Drax's song "It's not about how you feel, it's what you provide inside that home"
After a year and a half my wife mostly proposed to me. We were walking down the street and passed a jewellery store and we went in and my aunt worked there. We bought an engagement ring and wedding bands and she paid the down payment. Casual almost like a business deal. That was 52 years ago today. Life is too complicated today.
A couple of weeks ago, I witnessed a really interesting situation in school. A girl had a heated argument with a male friend of mine. He won the argument with something she couldn’t deny. As a result, completely out of nowhere, she slaps him with full force and he slapped back and she fell so fast, it was beautiful. And what happened…2 white knights jumped in and attacked my friend (he does professional taekwondo, so he could have beat them both up at the same time…but he didn’t)
He got suspended and she got away without any punishment whatsoever….it’s an unfair world we live in.
yup, my male neighbor was breaking up with a woman and she started hitting him, biting him, and all around just being violent towards the dude because he didn't want to be with her anymore
I probably waited a little longer than I should have to intervene but when I did and was talking about how the dude wasn't worth the chance of going to jail she said flat out the cops wouldn't believe he wasn't hitting her and she would press charges against him if someone called the cops, I hinted that I was there as a witness and ole boy only held her to keep her from hitting him any more. She got herself together and left shortly after that and my neighbor said thank you
Been married twice. Cheaters both times. I will NOT purpose again.
With how things are these days damned if we do damned if we dont.. shoot your shot for a potential win or a potential sexual harassment accusation
yep as a father of 2, with 2 seperate women in which both women made the executive choice of having the child, and i SHOULD get out there and work, my first relationship my ex hadnt worked in 14 years (I had), i decided i didnt want to work and wanted take care of my first child which i have 50% custody of, my second relationship my partner, stalked my ex, held me accountable for her posts and was financially abusive, my phone costs per month $40 her mobile & table $110 per month, Private Hearth Covers for me $50 per month while she had the full works hospital & ambulance $270 per month... Why do I as a man "HAVE TO WORK" when "YOU" made the executive choice to have the child without an inch of discussion or consideration let alone the ability to make sacrifices is absolute fkn crazy!!!
I most certainly have witnessed a woman beating a man and 💯 absolutely YES I INTERVENED
Divorcee here, my ex-wife had 0 problems hitting me, or yelling at me, calling me names, etcetera. But if I pushed back or even held her wrists to stop her, she would call the cops. I was never arrested, and the final visit by the cops, they told her one more call and they would call CPS. She never called them on me again. Didn't stop her from hitting me.
Going to our church leader and explaining my point of view that I wanted my wife to stop this behaviour, he asked her why she did this. She said, "I only do it when he makes me angry." He turns to me and says, "Well quit making your wife angry." When I called him out on his bullsh*t and that he would never say that to a woman in the same situation. He Tried to deny the bias.
Men and Women are treated vastly different. And men either take it, stoically or the take themselves out. Because society doesn't give a damn about men or their problems. Like the headline says, "200 men died, Women most affected."
Been cheated on here...
Not once did i ever damage their property..
My ex husband cheated... Obviously indivirced him, when in court the judge legit said i could take whatever i wanted from the house... I took my clothes and personal belongings, and my kids clothes and personal belongings... No furniture, no money, nothing but our clothes and personal belongins...
I didnt destroy his things or his life... I divorced him took what was mine my kids and am so happy now 12 years later .. hes a thing of the past...
Why is that so hard...?
Some times,the worst things are hidden from us I hide nothing It's a dangerous place,my (creed)does not allow it.!
😂😂😂😂 I get a lot of back lash because when my husband and I separated when our children were very young I was in court fighting for him to NOT pay child support!!! Why???? Because regardless of our situation my husband is now and always has been a great father to his children!! Medicaid was actually forcing me to try to get child support from him, we were both very confident in each others parenting skills to know that if one parent couldn’t provide for them, the other would we were separated for almost a year not one time Did we fight over our children! Our children seen their father as much as they wanted, our children seen their mother as much as they wanted!
No one proposed in my marriage. We just talked about if we might want to get married.
We made a Pros & Cons list. After a while and talking we both said yes.
It's not hard just communication.
A man should never get down on his knees to propose marriage. That was a bad practice that should have never caught on.
I agree. The only right times for a man to be on his knees is when doing manual labor set low to the ground, when instructed by the military, or when in Catholic church as others do.
At least in my experience. Might be missing a few other times to.
The lady who shot at the guys car should have been charged with attempted murder. That’s insane! Even if he was cheating on her, she could have just kicked him out or walked away from the relationship. She put some peoples lives in danger for no reason.
Got home from a business trip. Opened the door to find a trail of roses leading to my room. Went inside on on the bed sat my now wife with a ring and a big card reading "will you marry me" 3 years married now and have been together for 8 and our daughter turned 3 a month ago. From a male perspective I did feel like I was robbed of something cause I didn't get to ask but 4 years down the line, WHO CARES! I'm happy, shes happy and in the end that's all that matters.
You know it is so good to hear somebody tell it the way it is. I loved being the "cool" dad when my girs were growing up. My fondest memory is at an elementary school field day I was able to spend an entire day with them and their classmates. The one daughter when she was in about 4th grade told her friends that "his name is Dave. He's my step dad but I just call him daddy. " they are both 27 now and have promoted me to PAPA 3 time. I am the luckiest man I know. Thank God I met my wife.
My ex, who I wasn’t ever married to, flipped out when my oldest child called my husband “Daddy” when he was 4. Told him I’m your only father and you can’t call him that. My little boy said but “I call you Dad and him Daddy. I love you both.” My ex said no you will not and he even took his iPad he used to call my husband on and wrote “Stepdad”. My little boy came back from visiting his father crying and said I can’t call you Daddy my dad said he’s my only dad.
I still get mad and sad he did that to him.
However, one time my husband showed up in his full military dress uniform and his little friends said “Is that your Dad? I didn’t know your dad was in the military. He looks so cool!” My little boy said “Yes! This is my Daddy!” Lol it was so sweet. They’re still super close and my son tells him you’re the best stepdad so even though my ex tried to put a wedge between them, it never did work. My son will be 12 in October. He loves my husband so much. There’s something so amazing about people who love their step kids like their own ❤
I have been hit / punched by 6 women in my life. I have never once lifted my hand let alone actually hit another woman ever, including those 6 that hit me, not saying that each and every one of them did not deserve to get punched in the face, but in my opinion did not buy a man. Never once did I deserve any of these punches / assaults or whatever you want to call them, however I did allow the behavior to continue to result in this behavior. My biggest advice to anyone in the similar situation is to check that behavior as soon as it happens so that it doesn't get to this point. It apparently took me awhile to figure this out, but I will never let this happen again!
As a man who was abused and exploited a lot by women, I can tell, that a womans proposal to a man is something very beautiful because it is an open "I never want to leave your side, thats how much I love you"message, which would bring back very much hope back into the women in general. Men want to see also such signs in a deep relationships, not only women.
Thank you for standing up for men I wished that I was able to meet you and thank you in person but Al the same thank you
Hi, Roma. I love every inch of you. As your such a nice person. And I'm glad you got out the other side of what your adoptive mum did to you. Stay stroong my queen. Stay safe to you and all your loved ones. God bless you.
My ex's friend mocked me for not taking care of my kid, who i'd been primarily taking care of most of his life and was in custody court because my ex stopped letting me see him. But, I wasn't handing out money.
Thanks so much for realising that men need help more then women
I have poured myself into every relationship of my life, including my two failed marriages. I will never propose again. If a woman wants me, she will have to pursue me!
Only just stumbled across this page … I like the fact you just say it how it is and are literally and simply correct … my favourite part is you say it with a smile and unfortunately a smile these days is becoming a rare thing
My wife proposed to me. I was going to wait until we were done with college. I knew I was hers and so did she. She just wanted to make sure I knew she was mine. Been together almost 30 years. Love you Wife!
You are da best. always about equality and doing what's right. Keep it up.
I just wanted to know. This applies across the board to everyone. No one is being singled out.
What happened to a thing called respect for everyone?
Like it’s a sad world we live in. I find this world and people that are in it are all for the me, myself and I. I don’t understand it.
I may sound like a hippie here but…. Why can’t we all just get along? Spread the love! Support one another! Enjoy life and live it like it’s your last!
Anyways, I got some wrenchin to do on the rat rod I am building. I hope y’all have a good one and taker easy! 🤘😝
Regarding your proposal question. My other half proposed to me out of the blue. We were having a great date/weekend get away. We had talked about marriage and our future together prior to this. We were in a stunning environment and both very wrapped up in each others company and just good vibes. They didn’t get on one knee and between courses popped the question. No prep just because it felt right. We then later went to get rings for one another as we are equals and both wanted to be able to show the commitment we were making to one another. It was right for us and looking back on it Iv never felt that an opportunity to propose myself was taken away from me or that it made me less of a man. A great moment in our life together. I think if you look back on something like that and believe it’s robbed something from you because someone else has expressed a level of commitment and you didn’t get to you probably need to look inwards as opposed to breaking down the show of love and adoration by someone else.
If anyone man or women takes shots at me, they had better have brought their bag. They will need it to leave in.
My ex punched me in the face at the Speedway (car racing) and everyone just laughed at me. A few women came up after and asked if I was okay.
My ex cut the top off my convertible! Saying “you love that car more than me”! It was a brand new 2003 Mitsubishi spyder
FINALLY!!! Someone said it!! I ABSOLUTELY HATE when society praises woman that have children for paying their own bills and rent!! And this is why… It’s cause MEN are expected to do all that when they have children with a woman he’s no longer with, but that makes ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE cause these are things a woman has to pay even if she had no children like rent, utilities, car insurance, car payments, food, and on and on so why give praise to someone who’s going to have to be doing it anyway… Just sayin… Oh, and anyone who hates on this shows me you’re one of those who want and or expect handouts!!!
My husband and I just had our third. She was a preemie so she spent time in the nicu.
They refused to let my husband get updates. Even though he was the one who’s phone number the nicu had.
They had a social worker every time he was there to tell him how to be a dad. But never once when I was there.
The difference between how I was treated vs him pissed me off.
He’s an amazing dad. He does everything he can for us. And he does everything he can for our girls.
I hate that he was treated as the “dumb dad” while at nicu.
Only raised my own hand to a woman, once ever,. She was getting a beat down by her other half/ arsehole. I went and gave him a tune up about not hitting women. She punched me in the face and told me to mind my own business, I reflexive backhanded her, then said that you deserve what you get with that attitude. 30 years ago.
Had an ex pull the "waiting to exhale" and burned all my items 4 years ago. Wasn't cheating in fact I gave up my apartment to help her so she can have extra money to help with her cbd business. Buying and building my gaming pc last year made me feel so accomplished and at the same time almost brought to years cause I still have to buy living room furniture, and currently working on rebuilding my business and hopefully get my motorcycle by Christmas. Fingers crossed.
In the “have you seen a woman beating a man” question, I answered “yes but I didn’t intervene” because I was 12 when I saw it and I was freaked out 😭
Why can't I find someone like you? You are to be appreciated and loved. I really hope that you are.
The only reason I haven't is because men have the most to lose if things don't work out in the end. Men need to know that you also won't leave them just because a piece of paper isn't signed as well. 6+ years and still going strong, he is an amazing man and father, there is nothing I wouldn't do to make him happy, he has always loved and supported me and I will do the same for him.❤
As for the gentleman that texted that he would cook a styrofoam mattress and eat it. Should tell you that it is a HELL NO.
Roma, thank you. I really needed to hear all of that. You’re awesome! Sorry that you’re struggling mentally and emotionally right now. I hear you and and feel you. I am wishing and hoping for your best.
Time to bring back Charles Bronson and Death Wish🤗
Thanks Sis! Love you too!
My Dad took us everywhere and loved taking us. My Dad would be going somewhere and we would ask if we can come. He would say "The bus is leaving if we wanted to come" forcing us to quickly find our own shoes and coats and get in the truck. My Mom would yell at us to be good before we even got into the store when she was forced to take us.
I’ve said it once and il say it again , you’re doing a great job . Keep posting mate
My wife proposed to me after she graduated from college. I graduated 4yrs before her, and we decided we weren't going to marry till she was finished with her degree. She did it after her ceremony took me & everyone by surprise. She said because you supported me through college I knew I had the MAN that I needed and wanted. 20 yrs later we are still strong.on the flip side my girlfriend before my wife thought I was cheating on her when I started a new Job and my trainer was a lady (lesbian I may add) so she burnt all my pictures family heirlooms and clothes and threw rocks at my truck. Police did nothing.
It feels so good when my wife or friends tell me I am a great dad and husband , I feel so honored . most of all I feel I am doing something right that will help my kids grow up to be good people , my single father raised me and my brothers and sister while slaving at work and to me he was the greatest man ever , he gave his life of nice cars and motorcycles up so us kids would have he died years ago a loved and respected Dad ,I put miles on my motorcycle today and I feel as though h is with me seeing some of the things he may have missed , and thank him for the tool he gave me to raise my kids , people that don't understand the important's of positive things about them self's will never understand the need to pass that to their kids or other loved ones , Peace
There is one truth/piece of advice that is integral for both male and female:
The only thing you will ever truly control in this world is your reaction to what happens to you and around you.
This one thing is what shows the world who you are. I bet that if people kept that forefront in their minds, there would be a lot less violence and a lot more walking away, a lot less judgement and a lot more acceptance, a lot less exclusion and a lot more inclusion.
People need to stop focusing on what everyone else is doing or getting and start taking a look at themselves.
44 years old, single and definitely NOT looking. I've never been happier and I'd rather die than be in any kind of a relationship.
Watched a couple friends start fighting in front of me. She wanted out of the car, he wouldn't stop. Whe, he did, he pinned her to the passenger window by her neck and held a gun to her head, thankfully he didn't fire, but he still hit her open hand and closed fists. He was a mean drunk and misunderstood a lot of things she told him. She got away from him. Years later, and he got the help he needed. I was too terrified to do anything
I was listening to this in the background until I heard, "she shot at my car". We need the police now, that is attempted murder.