WHY I DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE, WHO HURT ME⁉️
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
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It's a rigged game, Most men are waking up & turning off the console.
Facts 💯
Facts u gots to be a damn fool to get married these days
That's an excellent way to put it👍
Yup 😂
Absolutely right
Nothing like a peace of mind!!!
46 White, Blue Collar and from the UK, we all singing from the same song sheet out here Big Ward trust me. Wise words.
Big up from the uk
💯💪🏾
UK in da house. Bless up
Most of the time it be the women that leave the man
they destroy families and relationships. MOST of the time.
I rather it that way so we're not blamed anymore.
Thats the cold truth
@@mysticakhenaton1701wouldn't be because men cheat, and always have.
@@TheELEASYthey still gone blame us bruh, at least when it's fresh!
Nailed it. I can’t allow an unpredictable variable that operates on feelings flip everything I’ve built upside down.
What you just wrote should be a stoic quote.
That's exactly what they are a unpredictable variable You be a fool to go in to relationship a partnership or a friendship with somebody who base their logic on emotions And can flip at any moment.
You that Hella deep. I'm saving that quote 🙏
"Unpredictable variable".. Great chose of words. Gotta start using that
He said it. Been single for 5 years now. I tell this to every woman I come across that ask me “ why you don’t want a relationship “
Facts don’t do it brothers.. it’s all about money & your resources bro
SO TRUE…. Going through a Divorce now…. Might end up costing me $20,000…. So Basically that’s how much my freedom and me getting my piece of mind will cost me….. My first and last marriage… just turned 58
Times hard , I don’t want either , I’m budgeting tight like a mf
Big Facts 💯
As a 19 year old I’ve learned a lot from this channel, keep grinding big ward 😎
You’re lucky! I wish Big Ward was spittin this game back when I was 19, I’m 27 now
Love will defeat you like it did them so don’t fight it young man
@@Stormy867 but everyone who gets in to it seems miserable 😂, so what’s the point in trying to be in a relationship when you can strive to have peace on your own
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@@hasnogood6012just faking for instagram for some likes😂
Big ward is definitely top 5 smartest you tuber touching on different subjects. I truly appreciate you my brother for helping me throughout life especially "female nature"aka "succubus"
I agree that's why I subscribed he's the man.
@@Goddontloveme facts! I have never seen someone's channels grow that fast. He literally talked about everything which makes it even better.
💯 percent Agee, love his content.
who's the other 5 🤔
@@KevinJohnsonisunderrated 4*
Thanks
I really appreciate this
@@Bigward356 Ur knowledge makes me wiser bout female philosophy
@@Bigward356gave up d. Rigged game long ago, good learning more from u though
Preach bro! I remember the happiest day of my life when I was 23 years old and practiced semen retention (no sex or masterbation) for 6 weeks. I had so much energy and was extremely happy. I went for a walk and felt amazing! Happiness comes from within. Listen to this brotha because he is speaking the truth!
As a young woman myself, I'm guilty of this from what I was taught by my mom. She thinks that everything should be done a certain way, so now I don't tell her anything. I am guilty of this, but now I'm trying to break this way of thinking cause he's treats me very well.
You're right. You don't have to convince men because men have already woken up and realized this truth.
BABY SITTING HER FEELINGS! Absolutely unequivocally nailed it brother ! What peace a man gets when he’s NOT worried about a woman’s feelings is its weight in GOLD!
Truth. Don’t be a woman’s emotional tampon.
So true. Women think we have to do anything to make them happy. In the end they never are. One of the main reasons I've chosen to stay single and I'm at peace and I'm happy. Relationships today are a drag and set back. My father used to say a night time of fun can lead to a lifetime of misery.
It’s some women that feel the same way you do.
Anyone who doesn't know how to be happy on their own will never find happiness even if they're with the healthiest of partner
If I never hear that “who hurt you” crap from women again it will be too soon. I’ve found out that in all my time here on earth, this is no such thing as a happy and satisfied woman. Men need to know to stop trying to make a woman happy because you never will.
Im checking out of the serious dating market my wife want to leave because she got bored and unhappy with me so she cheated with another man ..but she say they only kissed like kissing aint got damn cheating im done with these simple minded women.
Also, congrats for 33k, big dawg 💯
Thanks 💯
Man I found your site for a reason. I was meant to be here
Happiness is an INDIVIDUAL'S JOURNEY OF SELF DISCOVERY, with their higher self, & SPIRIT ❤
A moment where you should use your
"FREE WILL"
to choose!!!
If you cannot make yourself happy, no one else can. Just like if you don't love yourself, you can't love anyone.
Real Grown Men Don't Ask Other Men Questions About Who Hurt Them. I'm With You Bro!
Honestly, this is probably the most important and best content thus far.. He's speaking exactly what I'm going through with my relationship right now... but soon, no more. Very relatable content Big Ward.
Be strong my guy. Never too late to start over but there is nothing better than a peace of mind
REAL MEN ARE THE MOST HATED!!
I don't agree with that.
Not true, so many guys think that they are the real ones.😂😂😂 The real men are the most loved and respected not the most hated.
My ex- wife left me for a married man! He lied to her saying that he’s in the process of divorce and his wife. Now my ex-wife is struggling to raise two of his kids by her self.
She got pregnant by him too? Wow
@@DriversOfLife Yes, she has two boys by him! She fail for his lies
@@NWNKNP that is a shame and she’s gonna have to live with that. What I don’t understand is on the other side why these Chads and Tyrones make them believe these stupid lies
Access to the wamp wamp. @@DriversOfLife
She set herself up for that
Big Ward you have so much love for people you don't know... you deserve to be loved 💯❤The right woman for you will come along and it will happen naturally.
I agree with what you're saying 100%. Its good to hear someone speak what I've experienced.
Be married to your first love that's Jesus Christ GOD almighty❤
I’m sharing your page every man need to listen too this
You got ta preaching the str8 truth at the end! That was perfectly said "as far as the reason" Ward..🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
I was thinking within my own self the other night and I came to the realization the reason why I would never get married or can never be married because I don’t have patience and I’m not built mentally emotionally to be a husband real talk
Right everybody doesn’t have to be a husband
Yes sir with all do respect, I thought possibly you been through some type of life changing event. No judgement from me though. I love my hubby and i help pay bills,clean,cook,wash his clothes,keep in shape,know when to keep quiet and most of all he is the man of the house. Anybody coming in better show him respect or get out including myself😊🇵🇦
There are good women out here who feel the same why that you feel. I haven't dated in three years because the quality of men here in West Tennessee (MPHS) sucks. I was married for 24 years, and my ex-husband asked for a divorce stating that our season has ended. I will probably never marry again, because I was that Proverbs 31 woman. I don't need a man to make me happy, I would like to have a man who can enhance my happiness.
A man cant make a woman Happy or vice versa. We are here in each other lives to enhance our happiness add to it. You must find that within yourself nobody can give that to you😊🇵🇦
You can't make a woman happy
Ever. And they are more miserable than ever these days due to society
Only she can make herself happy 🌹.
You can't make no one happy.
Just coming across this/ you. Interesting.. I’m a young women, & I’m here just to listen to the views of a man. If ide ever asked a question, I tell the person to think like we’re on a podcast & im just asking for that persons perspective. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for the video Big Ward ❤❤
I’ve learned that too Ward happiness comes from within.. ❤❤❤❤
That men are wise and women an smart quote was deep
Smart and wise, are 2 different things = heavy weight.
You're hitting celeb status. I over hear 2 women, I don't know. Mention you as I was in line in a fast food store. I'm in NYC!
This one hit home for me. Thank you❤
I get to work turn yo video on throw the phone in my pocket and all I here my self saying is. Mmhmm. Great advice everytime💯
This the one right here Big Ward! This should go viral!!!
Ward with another One ☝🏾
Welcome back
Hey bro how are you doing I am well watching replay great advice wisdom I don't blame you loving single life almost at 35k I don't blame you thanks for sharing blessings ❤️🙏
@lindalewis8001 hello my friend 🧡
@@Bigward356 hello glad to see you catching up on vlogs smile
I live single and I think I will be like that till I leave this earth. It’s better that way less headaches 😂
Awesome episode, keep grindin' out content Big Ward. Cheers!
I agree with you Big Ward. I just wish I knew this relationship was rigged in my 20s. I would have never gotten married or had kids but I am grateful for the life experience, I love my children and I understand that men were dupped in the relationship dream just like we were. I just want peace at this point. I don't wish any harm on anyone. Its called life lessons and now I know. Be happy alone and still communicate with everyone to understand how we all ended up here. Love to all.....we all need our own self care and self support.
To allow hurt from a significant other or wife to keep you from a true love, is allowing the one who hurt you to win. My ex husband left me for his mistress and I applauded him because I was free of all the hurts and adultery he took me through. However, I will not allow what he did to keep me from ever expeeiencing love. I love my self too much for that. Lastly, we all have our perspectives on love, relationships and marriage. And no man Or woman makes the other happy.
Happiness is an inside job for the particular individual. The Lord is Who get my joy, peace and happiness from.
Always thinking it’s something wrong with the man cause he chooses to go his own way
I subscribed I love your channel and your content keep grinding UNC💪💯
It's so true that most women think man should make them happy and manage their feelings. Marriage used to be that "we are here together".
I thought I saw You're the best video with the message couple days ago but nah, The message that you delivered on this video is infinitely valuable.. this is real Talk 💯 >>>>
Keep grinding, big man, don't listen to the haters 💯
Strong video bro 👌 Really makes sence what you are saying.
The way these women move an how transactional relationships are I don't blame you I'm a young man and I pretty much checked out and I don't hate women either
Man you always speak the truth we love you like crazy big Ward
Classic video...... Keep pumping out these gems big ward
I'm a woman. I understand. I don't want relationship or marriage either. Nobody hurts me. I just feel like I would waste my time on a human being and i do not want to spend my whole life with that person. There are so mannnnny things to do... I haven't been to Grand Canyon yet. I haven't been to Yellowstone. I haven't been to Mexico City or other places. I don't even know how to swim. And I have never been in the ocean as well. Just my feet touching the Ocean doesn't count. I'm not going to waste my time pleasing a human being. If his eyes are on the other woman, I'll be like, yeah go be with her, bye.
Right. Men are burdens MOST of the time. It's better to not have anything interrupt your peace. If he's not making your life easier, then he's a waste.
@@shayemoorewho hurt you?
@@ricarellanlol 😂
Ward! Those exact words came out of my wife ( now X ) she Said " You made me not love you any more, I'm not happy " it hit me like a tone of bricks because I took my marriage vous seriously. I knew there would be ups and downs. Woman do not take marriage or anything seriously. Their Pea brains can not understand its their choice to be happy with this or that. They destroy a man who loved them for what??? It's an absolute shame and worry. Woman need to know their place and should be put their asap somehow.
Glad I found your channel big dawg 💯 you the truth
Great video and I see both point of views of what your friend was saying and from what you said, not every man or woman desire is to be married I get it some people love being single , there's nothing wrong with that I respect your truth. HOWEVER THERE IS ANOTHER SIDE TO MARRIAGE, there are worldly marriages that we put together and there are godly marriages that God has ordained and put together. I will type another paragraph.
I came in alone and I'm leaving alone, no need for marriage. I still have love for woman just not for marriage
I truly overstand every word 100% percent...many don't overstand that just because you're alone doesn't mean you're lonely and happiness start within very few overstand this as well as what it truly means to be in a relationship let alone a marriage, kudos to you exactly no one is hurt or bitter just because they choose not to be in a relationship, many get in relationships for all the wrong reasons and when it's over even have hard time co parenting anyways thank you for sharing many need to hear and overstand
Bingo!! Sing it!! Amen, because she wasn’t happy, one day….seven years, GONE!!
Just found your page today.. also on the road trucking & let me tell u bro, i found your page while going through & thinking the same exact shit your saying…. I been around the block 200 times & i can hear you definitely have as well…..feel like i wish i could call you sometime to vent bro, im going through it! 😂 😡
I had a conversation with a female friend the other day and told her basically the same thing. I don't want to be responsible for another person's happiness.
I don't mind if I make a woman happy, but its not my job nor responsibility.
She's a 40 something year old never married woman who wants to get married. She told me that she wouldn't stay in a marriage if she was "unhappy". .... Even if the guy was a good guy...... She says life is too short to be unhappy.
I'm like "well, there you go".
Staying single is the only way a man wins in today's environment.
Fellas, id even suggest staying away from sex. Her body count can hurt you! The juice is not worth the squeeze!
1. Work on your relationship with God.
2. Work on yourself. Learn some skills and stack ya chips!
3. Try to eat right. Stay in the gym, and get some sleep.
4. Stay away from drugs ans alcohol.
Follow this, and you will win😤😤
Happiness starts from within, and women don't want to accept that fact about life, some women are seeing how hard life has become, and they feel like it's a man's responsibility to come into their lives and straighten it out, so they can be happy,most of the BW that BM run into in there life time, won't do anything but BS all your life.
Facts
SOME WOMEN DON'T WANT TO GET MARRIED AGAIN EITHER, ME BEING ONE OF THEM.
Women lie, they ruined the relationships and.....they take no accountability. They're a risk and can be dangerous to men today.
😂😂😂I LOVE BEING THE INSPIRATION TO THIS VIDEO😂😂😂
When it comes to surviving I think feelings should be restricted for the bedroom (pillow talk) only ,not while making moves while she's huffing and puffing about everymove you make during the hustlin process
Damn! This was a powerful message!
✌🏾 U kept it 💯.
👍🏾🌎💪🏾
I love this, because I don’t want no man as well. I love that we’re finally getting it. We don’t need each other we just need ourselves!
You’re right! As a woman that’s why i will not get married because i know I’m just going to disappoint a man at the end. If there’s modern women there’s also modern men. I couldn’t press on men what i look for in a man and recent him at the end. So staying single is a personal choice
Who rolls your bean?
My ex-wife wife left me because she wasn't happy anymore. I wasn't abusive or running around on her. I have been divorced now for two years. I have so much peace in my life. I'm definitely not in a hurry to date or be in a relationship. If I meet a female the only thing on my mind is sex.
Facts. Going thru the same thing now
WE ALL HURT AND WE ALL HEAL SIR.
Every relationship I've been has financially sunk me .They all end the same coming down to how much I have in the bank account.These bz just get online and find a richer man after syphoning my last penny.My wife recently left me to move straight into another man's house.She took all my savings and my car l.Also ransacked my house of all valuables while I was at work.
Smdh….Sorry to hear that…They’re always able to just jump to the next man,while we have to rebuild
Bro thats everybody because women dont invest financially like the man
My ex gf cleaned my crib out completely all because I cheated back on her. Happened when I was 23.
Bro. My live in x actually did the same exact thing. They aren't that complicated. F us...
GET IT GOT IT AINT NOBODY HURT ME BYE🤣🤣🤣🤣👍👍
It takes hard work and effort to keep a relationship and marriage together just like with anything else. We all take chances on love because its human nature. Nothing is promised to us. Love is the most powerful thing on the planet and the enemy will do everything in it's power to keep it from forming and will destroy it and your mindset. There has been unclean spirits unleashed on the earth. Continue to look and search for that special someone who is equally yoked is key. Love, Big Ward!
Totally Agree. It's sad that this is what Black Love has come too. We on Both ends MUST get it together SOON
Exactly Big Ward,knock me off and leave,I have to hit that clock in the a.m.
Its called progression 💯💪
I want personally thank my ex-wife for all of the red pill shit she taught me in life. One of the greatest gifts in life.
Anyone can be wise! All can learn from their mistakes and gain wisdom
im 50 somthing,,,, and i can dig Bro and his commentary,,,at the same time , i relate , im cool with my ex wife , childrens Mother , and my love of my life that left , im cool with them all,,,,,keep it going Brother you inspire the hidden truths and overlooked so called tabu issues,, thanks for your truth !!!!! and what you said at ts 730,,,,that helps, the understanding of this is so relavent
Not ALL women are like this. I been holding my man down for years- going to work with the benefits, etc. I encourage, empower and support my black king. I’ve never cheated or disrespected him. He has cheated in the past - I forgave him cause he did the work to get me back. We are. Engaged.
It’s too hard out here and if you find someone that will support you, respect you, empower and encourage you and conduct themselves respectful go for it.
Amen brother!!!
Well big ward you mentioned god so let me just say this…you said you believe in having sex with them and just leaving but thats fornication. Boyfriend and girlfriend doesn’t exist. Only marriage. I was led to your channel for a reason big ward because i be saying the same thing that you said in this video on why i choose to be single. But at the same time big ward deep down i do really want something serious with a woman and when i watch your videos i see the same thing with you big ward that you really want something serious with someone. Not every woman is like that bro you just gotta find that right one cause she definitely out there. She might be right under your nose💯🙏🏼
My new favourite youtuber, appreciate the game OG !!!
No one should depend on anyone to make them happy. I've found happiness with being in my own company. People who constantly need validation and to be around other people all the time need to self-reflect. There are some things in life that you have to do alone and one of them is to be alone and figure out what you like, and dislike, and how you can contribute to a healthy relationship with another person. A lot of people are just selfish these days.
33k to the champ!
The greatest trick that the devil ever pulled was convincing people that he did not exist. Kaiser Sosa.
I'm convinced I'm giving them the game through the "WhO hUrT yOu"/ "what was your ex like" question.
the smartest man on UA-cam💯
Man alive preach brother nothing but facts