WARNING: MEN HIT THE WALL TOO, AND MUCH WORSE THAN WOMEN ‼️
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
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My dad, was a preacher and a psychologist who also owned a business and got the key to the city. He is now 72, lonely, bitter, mild health issues, and a slowly deteriating mind. He has been like this for about 2 decades. He mistreated my mom and his first wife. Mishandled me and my 3 other siblings. No one wants him around and no one cares about his well being except me, his youngest daughter. But soon I will have to cut off contact For my own mental health period. He has all his materialistic desires, cars and a huge home. But i watch him become more and more unhappy as the days go by.......and he often expresses his loneliness. Alcohol is his best friend. I understand if you men decide not to marry, But at least take care of yourself and be kind to those who are kind to you.
It is not good for a man to be alone. I see so many older men who are estranged from their families. They put their career over their family, then they are lonely after retirement.
I agree with you. Although I think men should avoid getting married. They should build strong relationships and friendship and even be part of a strong community. As humans are social animals. Hard to be happy isolated. It's possible, but not easy.
Thanks for sharing, well said
@anthonythewitness thank you. It's been hard to walk away....I needed to hear that.
IF A MAN HAS LED a Evil and Wicked life then of course, he is going to receive back what he gave out. But that has NOTHING to do with Hitting A Wall Somewhere, That's just You reaping what You Sowed.
My dad is 73 and his wife is 53 and been together for a decade and he told me this,.... He said son, "it's not how old you are or how much money you have,it's how you mentality and physically feel everyday that you open your eyes and be the best version of yourself and don't mingle your soul 💯💯💯
And that motion in the ocean, too!
See if they're still together in a couple of years. I have seen sooo many 20 year age gap marriages, the wife leaves in her mid 50s for a man her own age or younger, and the older man is just broken by it. He can't get another just as young, but he can't let go of the thought that's what he should have, so he just gets lonelier and sadder
A lot of men are not going to like this and won’t thumbs up 👍🏼 because they are in denial also.
We have 25 year olds dropping dead. If you even make 60 these days, consider yourself blessed.
Facts
Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul
I say the same thing. Young athletes dropping dead on court from massive heart attacks. Things have changed and ppl worried about dying alone or a wall
I’m just tryna make it to an age to see a wall.
@@YungsteppaMelhope you are trolling. If you are okay with dying at 30 you must be a serious underachiever
Preach it‼️‼️💯💯🫱🏾🫲🏽
The fact is fellas, we aren't in a position to slack off in life. We always need to be "On" at all times . We don't have back up plans with other people taking care of us, or even caring about our problems. Bottom line, you need to strive to be a "Man Of Value" not just for success with the ladies, but for life success in general. Always believe!
You are right
a man with no worth,is worthless
Facts brother
Dumb.
Man of Value…..this was invented, made up by parrots…repeated by parrots all over the place.
Absolutely! Finally , a man that gets it
Agreed. Be broke as a 40 year old man. Let me know who wants you lol
a 20-year-old too...men can ALWAYS bounce back quicker than fe-fails can. at just about any age. and can still get married and have children. 60's and 70's. let me see a fe-fail do that.
but money can be attained, nobody wants a broke 20 year old either, whats your point?
@@23293 if you referring to me...nature gave men a much longer shelf life than fe-fails. a man is in his prime from 30 years old to his early 60's. a fe-fail. 18-30. 3 times longer. all a man has to do, is take care of himself with exercise. no smoking, and drinking. he can LOOK GOOD at 80. and still have children. fe-fails can NOT.
@@23293 men have a much LONGER expiration date. 30-60 in his prime. a fe-fail 18-30. 3 times longer. being in our prime much LONGER we have time to get more accomplished. and bounce back quicker, if we get knocked down by life...men always win in the end/always. and we can still do physical labor jobs into our 70's.
@@mysticakhenaton1701why would u wanna have kids at 70 and wtf is a fefail
Last year in my 30s..ive been going super hard in the gym. Im trying to go into 40 at tip top shape. Been feeling great. Thanks for the motivation unc
Keep it up man !!
Keep going!!!!!
It’s definitely doable because I’m a woman at 43 and I eat healthy and stay active and I feel amazing and I feel more beautiful and confident than ever! I’m very humble because I work hard to stay fit but I am flattered because no one believes I am 43. Getting older it is also important to keep a positive youthful mindset as well as healthy diet and exercise. I have always tried to eat healthy and stay active my whole life and it has paid off immensely but unfortunately I see a lot of people in their 30s and older and their bad eating and lack of physical activity is catching up with them. We got one body for life we have to do our best for ourselves so we age well!
This message needed to come from a man. Hopefully it hits home.
@Linkin-qb7fy 🤦🏾♀️ a response filled with pure assumption.
ACTUALLY, sir, I think women should address women, too, and there are some women that do. Maybe next time before you blindly respond, check the temperature to see who you’re addressing… a grown woman who can take accountability or a grown girl who thinks men are to blame for everything. We are not one size fits all.
🎉55yr. Old m. had the audacity to say wm hit the wall 🧱 when he clearly 🙄 doesn't look a day under 80! the nerve!!!
I hit my wall at 30. I got chubby. Drank. I’m down a couple pant sizes. Best shape I’ve ever been in. 37 in august. I was in DENIAL about how much I was letting myself go. I still enjoy beer and food, but I’ve gotten real about where i have been the last 6.5 years. Sad and stressed. Letting my parents divorce get to me. Letting other stuff get to me. I’ll never go back.
Now you gotha stop letting things get to you rise up bro you're still young
I was a little skeptical when i saw the title of the video but you hit the nail on the head! Good advice 👍
Thank you
Some of us hit the wall a long time ago, broke it down and kept going, either way, life goes on.
And these are the Factz no one else on UA-cam is talking about💯
I been on youtube 15 years. I never seen this title. Big Ward the truth!
That's because it isn't true and Big Ward just made it up for content and views
Black pillers have been saying this. They speak the truth but y'all look at us as haters.
@@MCLottotv it is TRUE us men need to diet workout and do push ups. This can be VERY TRUE.
Telling the truth. I've seen my older cousins go through this first hand. They had no problems pulling women when they were younger but now they fell off and are past 50 and broke. You always have to work on yourself.
Deep thoughts every body gets older but sometimes in these days it's better to be alone 👍
Don't let yourself fall off or else the wall is waiting
😂😂😂
Grind, be kind, and stay on your square at all times. Take care of yourself. This is true. I see my dad going through this simply because of how he treated people. He’s got the money and houses but he constantly wishes he did a better job as a husband and father. He constantly apologizes for everything to the point it’s annoying. I can tell he’s definitely feeling the effects of his own decisions.
My stepdad was absolutely horrible to us growing up. Always cheated on my mom. Now he’s all alone with nobody to help him. Even his friends stopped hanging out with him because he’s 60, and would try to hit on all the young waitresses at the restaurants. He truly thinks he is still attractive and it’s so embarrassing. So they stopped inviting him out with them.
Lmfaooooo I swear every video I watch of Unc he be speaking that real talk and be having me laughing at the same time you Gotta Love this OG they don't make em like him anymore
Men, weightlifting is the fountain of youth!if nothing else if you hit that gym twice a week and gain a decent amount of muscle mass and keep that up until you die, outside of cancer and accidents not under our control you’ll stay looking and feeling good!
"Weightlifting," No! Calisthenics YES!! Weightlifting is so bad on your joints regardless of what anyone tries to tell you.
@@mcqueeninvestments5191🤦🏾False, weight training and proper diet is most definitely the fountain of youth, still can’t believe in 2024 we have clueless people saying weight training is bad for your joints, it’s only bad if you don’t know what the hell you’re doing and you have poor form.
@@UTP504 Okay Mr. Know it ALL! Lifting that heavy ass weight will definitely damage your joints the older you get and you become sore in a lot of spots in your body especially the elbows but if you're working out doing calisthenics that's all you need bc you are simply working w YOUR OWN weight. I've worked out for years just to add. 😉
@@mcqueeninvestments5191 Touchy😂, Ok Ms McQueen, anybody lifting weights that’s too heavy for them and without proper form, is STUPID, that’s on them. You’re whining about weight training being back for your joints, when we have actual data 📈 that weight training protects your joints, by building stronger muscles it reduces pressure on your joints and makes your joints more stable protecting them from inflammation which exacerbates arthritis aka joint pain/inflammation. Weight training also strengthens your bones and preserves cartilage, I can go on and on, but you get the point. Also, yes, Calisthenics are great too, but they also need to be done with the proper form.
@@UTP504 😂 Okay, I get it, PROPER FORM FACE ASS GOTDAMN 🤦🏾😆😂
He speaking facts . Thank you sir for saying these things
You spoke Truth and Facts in this Video 💯 Men should stop 🛑 being delusional. Everyone knows a Man's Best Years are when he is under 50 years young. It doesn't mean he won't have good years but the very best years are 50 and younger 💯
This video deserves to go viral! Men hit the wall too, and it's about time someone spoke up about it-especially from a man's perspective! 🙌🏼🙌🏼👈
This is true you the first guy i heard speak on men hitting the wall we all get old it can happen to anyone you just have to take care of your self best as you can
*Self reflection is the best mirror image from past to present*
Hell nah ion wanna be like that Unc you really opened my eyes real game spitter salute to you Unc 💯💯
Women have it better then men .
Yes
Simp, shut up. Blue pilled clown.
Somebody had to. We are different
There are only 2 reasons a man hit the wall, and that's usually drugs or alcohol.
or THREE/a woman.
FACT!
You forgot Horrible diet and obese
No. 3 is Divorce, the women took his house :(
@@aransatu that's what I was saying/or meaning. with #3. fe-fails ruin men.
Divorce will make a man go thru the wall
Facts
Great commentary and insight. I'm taking heed to your message.
My dad is close to 70 and barely looking a day over 55. Been an advid gym goer since he was in his 20's, no smoking, only a beer here and there and NEVER any hard liquor. He's healthier than some of the 20 year old guys who live on fast food that I see walking all slow like they have no goals in life lol
This is so true! Women hit slowly men run right into the wall when they start to age. When those eyes start getting puffy their belly start to swell and their ankles start getting swollen there is nothing you can do to change that. Your age starts showing immediately. That's why I don't understand why they want to wait till they get to that point to want to settle down
Nothing but cold hard facts bruh I’m 47 trying not to fall off the cliff now 🤜🏿
Come to AFRICA 😅
This is so true it is mind blowing...I am coming up on that....I have some of it covered very very well...but I must admit I can be in better shape...I am not that bad but not to my liking physically...the rest I have planned for and I have succeeded ...and I am OK..but this is great advice for older guys for sure....I mean so damn great of advice they better listen up...or they are going to have a sad lonely boring older life....
Don't wait until it's too late
@@Bigward356 For sure...
The quality of women we have these days trust me fellas we not missing out on anything know that if you happen to find a good woman count your blessing an u better thank God everyday he allows you to rise
Man you done scared tf outta me...let put these Black n Milds down😂😂😂
This needs to go viral
This only applies to those older men who are seeking companionship I guess. I know plenty older guys who had all their fun when they were younger and really don't need a woman for nothing now
Agree
That’s a lie
@suazanngoslin5403 why do you disagree?
@theleafandtheelm I also see older woman without men and doing just fine honestly. We live in the type of world now as long as you are financially stable and have somewhat of a normal social life you should be ok by yourself
Lies you feel old bitter and useless
The average black man lives to be 57. Y’all need to be HUMBLE
the men in my family look terrible after 30 black don't crack but obesity and type 2 diabetes does the trick
My grandfather died at 53 but my dad is 70 and looks Excellent
I’m working on humbleness no doubt….. and working on being better than average to get past 57. The every day grind and daily maintenance and some to a lot of extra grind of course 😊
I’ve been paying attention to the red pill and manosphere community and this is the first I’m hearing about the man’s wall. I needed this 🙏
That's because there's no such thing as a "man's wall"!
@MCLottotv you must not live in reality 😂 men hit the wall in their 40s. Hell...many hit in in their late 20s.
@@MCLottotvthere is believe me
@@MCLottotvYes there is you are delusional
Im surprised to hear a man saying this so thank you brother...❤
There's no such thing as a wall for a man this dude doesn't know what he's talking about. You need to listen to men like me who really knows what's going on.
Thank you Big Ward, it is all sooo true. And these men don't get it. They've had a heart attack, and they still want a younger woman. They're not getting them though
Dam im 26 and i been bullshitting. Cant even lie. This motivating as hell.
Some hard truth that needed to be said.
Thank you for this video. Big eye opener and reality check. You earned a sub
That stuff done been amplified. You can smell it from across the bridge 😅😂😅😂😅😂
"580 mph head first, with no helmet" 🤣
Fluffy around the waist😂😂😂😂im dead
No lies detected!! Keep dropping the knowledge Big Ward!!❤❤
A men will hit the wall if he lets himself go.
A lot of ya'll still delusional in these comments. Yes men can hit the wall. Ya'll better stay on it! Ya'll keep talking about as long as I keep improving and stay in shape. All of that is subjective to who you desire. A lot of cats are behind especially my brothers. 40-50 years old just starting a 401k with a high school wage job. Stay positive but dont be foolish. Be logical like the brother in the video.
I am weak with the Fluffy😅
Fellas all his saying is take care of our self mind , body spirit and finances as we young.
Big unk is giving out some real wisdom 💯
"That wall finna' beat em' to da ground!!"😂😂😂
Very good advice big ward much love bro look at you almost 100k now i subbed u were at 15k not long ago
keep dropping that content
A lot of them are delusional enough to think that they don’t though, and not all women care about a man having a lot of money. We are also visual creatures.
I guess I've hit a wall then. I'd prefer to remain alone and be at total peace of mind. Stress is detrimental to my emotional, mental, & spiritual well being. Definitely not lonely either, that's the difference.
This had me dying laughing... Content is definitely getting better
Thanks for the advice frfr
Big Ward preach!
🤔🤔A real man speaking truth of value😅😂 a lot of viewers are not going to like this 😂
I said the same thing 😂…look how many views he got compared to the likes. Denial girl 😅.
They will not. They are so delusional, that they were made from something else. And some will blame women but don't see woman putting up with men as a reason for hitting the wall.
A man speaking truth about men......can we expect the same from women to do so about women???? Not likely
@@bryan_737 there is plenty of them. You just haven’t watched them.
@@bryan_737there are many women doing it but they get called ‘pick me’
i sgree man once that door is shut there aint no opening it thank you my friend
Awesome advice, and even better if [you] act upon it. Cheers!
For anyone that plans to get older alone please make sure your money is right and your retirement savings are on track. With the cost of living constantly increasing, you will almost need two incomes as an elderly person to survive, or your money better be all the way right.
Big Ward is speaking truth. I am 40 years old and make $150K a year. I don't drink or smoke and kill it in the gym. I am consistently told I look ten years younger than I am. If a woman is within ten years of my age than she is too old for me. It's good to have options and abundance. Gentlemen, make your choice how your future will look.
Unc said I can smell that shit across the bridge!!🤣🤣🤣
Finally a real man that tells the truth.
Thank you for speaking truth!
Good points sir! Im trying to get back to my weight in 12th grade. Im almost 50!
Big Ward the Genius! I have been observing your content from a distance and each video have a factual life solution. The content that you are revealing is from experience and favor. If the viewer absorbs the solutions to the real-life application the viewer will be able to navigate life with more touch downs opposed to penalties. Continue share your thoughts because it is valved!
🎯💯
on point Unc big Ward
Health and wealth.
Real OG talk 💯
Im 45 years old
And for first time in my life
Im fat
Lol
I was skinny as a kid teen 20s and 30s
I gained 80 lbs in my 40s
Thru alcoholism and trash diet
Been sober 4 years now used to drink a bottle of whiskey a day
Going thru weight loss journey
I got a scale in my bathroom
Scale dont lie
Keep grinding. You stay on your path and improve yourself 🔥💪🏿
Me too bruh. No alcohol or anything. Had a car accident in 2018 broke my whole leg. I been in pain but mostly just lazy. I make good money 6 figures. I have multiple cars and home. I really just have to lose weight and I'm in the game. My diet was trash too. I try to fast eat every other day. Cut put fast food.
A lot of guys. Super handsome as a young adult, and the beer gut hits later.
@@MRWONDERFUL-kk4dbWhyyyyy da fuk u gotta type in all caps????
I've been seeing some fine old ladies
PREACH!
I have read through a lot the comments of his view on this topic. Some of you aren't understanding his message. He has a valid point. It's not that you make it to your older age. How you feel and look should be very important to you. I will be 60 years of age this year, and I am not on any type of medication. I have a moderate workout schedule that I have maintained throughout my life. I eat whatever I want in MODERATION. What we eat is about 75% of your maintenance. Please take care of yourself & get your yearly physicals.
Gosh darn it brother you on 🎯
Balance is key 🔐
GOOD ONE WARD! TELL IT!
Most men are average. Even Ks said this lol.
This video make laugh soooooooo hard 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just love your video you make me toooo much
Hitting the wall is called being unattractive to the opposite sex. Aka ugly or unattractive. Some people hit the wall at 18 lol there's things you can do. I.e working out, dentistry, plastic surgery, financial gain.
When u got money you should never b lonely as a man.
You are becoming famous! Keep going!
Appreciate it, Big Unk
Some men still ain't going to listen they gone take their pride to the grave. 😢
Yes, me In their 50s ,/56 mid-life crisis, afraid commitment, thinking ur 25
I'm a 60 year old woman and I never liked the term "hit the wall" for either women or men. I think it's hateful, ungodly and unholy. Humans age. Love has no age limits. There are elderly women in rest homes who have men their own ages attracted to them and proposing marriage. An older man who is in love with a woman will find her beautiful regardless of age. An older woman who is in love with an older man will find him desirable even if he can no longer perform sexually. Because love is about two hearts that find each other. It's not about age and it's not about being as hot as you were when you were young. That ship has sailed for both sexes when they reach a certain age. They WILL both have grey hair. They WILL have mottled skin and age spots. They both WILL have shrunken about 2 or three inches and may even be using a walker or a cane. Yet, it's about companionship and a meeting of the minds. It's like a rose that blooms in the snow.
You be killing me with the phrase “WHAT HAVE YOU” is that old school?
Iam a 54 year old man: You are absolutely correct. You are the only one that has addressed this much needed topic. Other content creators are afraid to address this topic.🕍🕌👍🏽
Great wisdom. Thanks.
💯 TRUE FACT$
Facts when i saw you title was going to debate you but your spot on
Life changing video. Heed taken
Preach there men in 40 it's not working because weed smoking and other substances viagara etc😅😅
Sad but true
My Dad is 60 and looks 39.....im 33 and look 25....My Dad was pulling 21 year olds at 52,im still pulling 18 year olds....what are you talking about? Lol