I am a divorce lawyer. I've divorced thousands of people. One of the leading causes of divorce is when one party falls ill. Another is when the man becomes poor. Riches and health.
We can thank R. Reagan for inventing ( No Fault Divorce) for that when he signed the 1st bill for it in 1969 & made it go mainstream throughout the western world ...
Key word when the man becomes poor, not the woman 🤦🤦. I bet it's also when the man is sick, of the woman is sick and the man leaves people will ridicule him.
I'm 50 years young 6'9" 285 and married women has been chasing me since I was 15 years old. A couple of times when I got injured and had surgery,the women I loved left like a thief in the night. Men you're stronger than you can imagine. Keep GOD and yourself first!
How do men demonstrate that love? And why does that love culminate in infidelity and different types of abuse? I don’t think women appreciate that type of love/
@Johannah706 They demonstrate it by taking care of a woman financially and protecting her physically. They demonstrate it by sacrificing their own happiness for the good of their families. Women especially these modern ones are extremely self-absorbed and ungrateful, your comment is further proof of that. Not that any more proof was needed, there is plenty online.
Fr I asked the court officer if the windows on the 4th floor that we were on were solid (was getting ready to leap out ) he Said they’re bullet proof, but I wouldn’t be the first to make that attempt.
Facts. I love my kids so much, got to stick it out as I’m the only one working. Once these kids become adults. It’s a wrappppppppppppppppp. Can’t wait to be free. Properly evaluate these women b4 you get manipulated. Do not trust birth control. Stay strapped
@@YohannesMadeITjust here to remind you that it’s cheaper to keep her. You got a plan and stick to it. You definitely don’t want to divorce while having kids. Child support + Alimony will make you have to start over from scratch.
My ex-wife tried to come back many times after being ran through. Being married to her was exhausting. She wanted to keep up with the Jones. Nothing I did satisfied her. If I did something that she thought was wrong. She's holding on to it so she can can use it for ammunition. It doesn't matter if it was 5 or 10 years ago. She ain't forgiving you. She'll wear her goodie two shoe for a while fellas at the start. Then for whatever reason, she will become a different woman. I'm truly traumatized from all the crap I put up with.
All women are like that. I expirenced the same thing. They're all sweet and innocent at the start because it's new and they're excited but once the novelty wears off and the routine kicks in their true colors come out. They change! It happens every time. I learned from it and I will never get married because of it. Modern women are cold and calculating and only in it for their own financial gain.
@@saffylllama5609lol that’s your role. To be the help mate of your man. Most women want to be a mother and grandmother one day which she can’t do without a man. Feminism is based on satanic principals of do as thou wilt. It encourages you to not live a life of purpose, but to live a secular life where there’s no family, morals, religious principals...just I, I, I. If you really think about it, you wouldn’t be able to be a feminist unless a man gives you the choice. If men didn’t build grocery stores how do you eat? If it’s me vs you and we had to hunt for food instead, what are your chances of survival? Feminism is a 1st world illusion. All it takes is WW3 and poof feminism gone
That may be true. But men & women need to look inside themselves & see why they are choosing to marry a certain type of person. Some men marry Hoes/Instagram hoochies based on how she looks & never question why she is marrying him. Most of those type of women are marrying him for his money and then have the nerve to be mad when she takes him for everything. Some women marry bums just because they got some good meat but don't have a job. Then she wants others to help her or feel sorry for her when she struggling. It works both ways....
This is a classic OG...I've been in that same position with a wife that cheated,took my son and moved to another state..put me on child support and doesn't even let me talk to him, I thought I would try again but nahhh I don't think I could ever take that kind of L again.🤦🏾♂️💪🏾
I never thought about marriage like this. When my parents got divorced they were both making a lot of money on their own and my mother didn’t want any money from my father so it was a clean split. I will take note of this.
Same with mine.. my Mom didn't want anything from my Dad.. and my Dad didn't want anything from my Mom. Both of my parents have money. I don't need to take notes. If my mom didn't take anything from my Dad, why would I do that....
@@danadavis8333 Perhaps because it costs a quarter a million dollars to raise a child and why should the father be exempt from financially supporting his children? 🥴
Marriage is what gonna kill you before your time.... My friend wife put an insurance policy on him and he had no clue she did it and she was feeding him so much food he got overweight and sick. Once he found out about that insurance policy he found out what she was up to and once he questioned her - she said her mom told her to do it. He had everything and did everything for her and he got screwed twice by two marriages in his life and he had no children with either they had children from previous marriages that he even took care of and til today those kids never call him or see how he doing as if he never was in their life.
That's called being a step-dad. Nothing new here folks; she's right to have life insurance on everyone in the family. If she really wanted him out of here she'd og given him a pickled pig feet and a budweiser! That's a bomb waiting to happen.
@@BigMerkGee Wrong! You don't do that without letting the man know then she helping him getting sick on purpose! She not about no family cause she had no children with him plus he paying for everything she not paying nothing! She living off him he not living off her. Plus it's common law marriage at that.
@@BigMerkGee No it's not! There was no children in the first common law marriage! He was working taking care of her while she was getting him sick! The second common law marriage had children. The woman was cheating on him while he was at work taking care of her and her three kids from another marriage. He had to learn she was cheating on him by her own daughter! Cause the daughter thought it was wrong how she done him after he was taking care of the whole family by himself.
This why I tell women soon as we meet I don’t believe in marriage. The one question I ask them is what’s the benefit that I get from a marriage that I can’t get from a relationship they can’t never answer that.
@@jordanfauntleroy2013 Yep, but like he said, they fail to pitch to him the benefit he will get from said contract. The answer is nothing, so smart men will rightfully decline.
@jordanfauntleroy2013 marriage license equals extreme power over the man "Upper Hand" She can snap her finger at any day or time and watch a hurricane take your life away with it.
@@Emptytopfloor well kind of is not relevant. As the issue is they will file for divorce thus causing all the problems for the man. So technically marriage isn't the problem for either, the divorce is what is going to destroy the man and make him pay dearly
I listen to many so called UA-camrs and man you’re definitely most raw and real. Keep it up brother. I’m praying for you. The real voice of the black middle class man
@@bryanbrown8701 big ward processing ..........expresses gratitude for the question .................looks up menacingly and in deep thought .................................gather thoughts ....................advise . got it gat it good bye
You are helping me get through this because you telling the truth and you are a hard working truck driver . I had a wife cheat and I had to dissolve the marriage and she is now pregnant y the guy she was cheating on me with. She ficked me over just like you was saying. She burned my work contacts with false narratives and lies to make destruction. You are right!!!!
I have only been engaged once in the USA. Being a 52 year old man living abroad. I must say I am not interested in being married especially in the USA. Something innate within me always told me it's a scam for many men..
@@andrewevans7992Way better deal overseas. There are some scam women, but you have to do your homework. Even then, you’re at least getting femininity on a grand scale.
I agree. The system isn't designed to favor minority groups. In this case men are that minority group! As a woman, I will have a prenuptial agreement to protect the man I love from the system and he will do the same for me.
Women like the idea of marriage but don’t want to get married + resources. Marriage is only centered around women. Only reason why those old school marriages lasted is because that’s all they knew/know. Social media and having options at your fingertips didn’t exist. Modern marriages are doomed at the beginning.
@@bml2007 Yep, it is really like a high school graduation. Just something to take nice pics and enjoy the memory. Then afterwards they go on to their regular lives again.
My sister married her high school sweetheart in the 80s and they're still married. Sometimes I think that's kinda odd though. I mean seriously it's all either of them have ever known. There's no perspective. How can a person grow like that? Like you said it's all that they know. Her husband isn't the sharpest tool in.the box either. Pity.
Keep preaching Unc! I needed to hear this from a man when I was in my twenties. I feel for all the love BS, she just wanted a ring and a check, I was divorced by 26 and broke from CS. Now I’m 30 and I’ve recovered well, but I wish I never had to find out the hard way. It would have been a lot easier if I would have taken my time and chosen properly.
I FEEL U MAN BUT IT IS ALWAYS EASIER TO SAY THOSE THINGS AFTER IT HAS HAPPENED. THE QUESTION IS WOULD WE HAVE LISTENED WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER AND NOT DID IT JUST BECAUSE SOMEBODY TOLD US NOT TO?
Appreciate the free game Unc. The late Kevin Samuel’s had a video called “things your dad should have taught you”. Your channel is filled with advice our dads unfortunately didn’t teach us, especially as black men. Salute to you sir🫡
If we don't get a state license, we're not getting married. This is not negoitable. All women should require this and be firm about it. And do NOT have sex with that man before marriage, either.
Yes sir, figured this out 15 years ago that is why I never did it. Now, if a woman talks marriage to me I know she really don't like me and is planning to finish me off in the next 5 years. Time for the next one.
@@GothicRichard nothing really wrong with actual marriage, it's what they have turned it into with divorce and court that is the problem. Most of them just think of it as a process instead of a life long concept now
I'm scared for this brother. When you speak like this we don't be around long. This brother is a blessing to me but a curse to the program of this world.... God bless you thou brother may God forever bless and keep you.
He speaking facts was married 4 kids in court my ex was cool she knew I was on point not perfect she stayed at home I worked I’m 58 divorced bought me a home , stocks , nice car I still run a lil for exercise do my push-ups God is good Il have a live n if she contributes but No Marriage by man’s law ..
Never move her in, never maker her a priority, never be afraid to walk away, just listen, pay attention and time will reveal her true intentons! Great content Big Ward!
Been married 14 years...he who finds a wife finds a good thing and it's the quickest way to wealth and my wife has gotten better with age...Most men can't pick a WIFE that's the problem..
My best friend came down with an illness. he has been married for 35 years & his wife told him " I am not sitting around here taking care of you, I am going to be traveling & enjoying my life". So much for better or worse?.
Thank you for the game OG! You’re definitely making a change out here. My big brother is in prison and my pops isn’t in my life. With no older men around me I really appreciate the advice you give and it’s been getting me through this phase I my life.
Rampant fornication isn't the answer either. I believe monogamy and periods of abstinence outside of an exclusive relationship is the moral way to go about sexual relationships .
@@univuniveral9713 yes. You can deny it all you want, but more men are beginning to explore this option -- and they shouldn't give a damn what people like you think. If traveling overseas and finding a woman who meets one's needs gives them peace of mind, why would you be against it? If they are traveling for "extra curricular activities," why is that your concern?
@@patrickprendergast9589 I think I was in my late 20s when I realized that. Never been married, but from what I’ve seen, I can tell, it don’t benefit us.
My momma told me she basically made my dad marry her. She never once mentioned it was because she was in love. She didnt want to keep having kids by someone she wasn't married to, they divorced when i was 13 and he was put on child support...Now that im older i realized it was for stability.
I’m new to your platform. Speak on it my brother, since living in Alabama I have learned more about relationships than while living in California born and raised and no one spoke on relationship’s even talking about marriage. I was born in a broken home and my mom was bitter about how the divorce wasn’t what she expected I only heard bad things about our dad. I’m a better person nowadays with family.
I had to watch this video twice big Ward, just don't fall for the get you got you man. Even if you both broke the court system will make the man go out and get the money to give her. Good luck on that
BUT REMEMBER THAT SOME WOMEN HAVE THEIR OWN MONEY- AND THEY DON'T REALLY NEED A HUSBAND FOR HIS money. She doesn't have to BE rich - but she can have enough to live,pay bills,get food,clothes,etc. But regardless- A GOOD HEARTED WOMAN is gonna WANT a good hearted caring, loving, sincere man!
The Holy Scriptures says, "God created marriage to bring forth a holy seed." Sex is only for the married. Outside of that is fornication. God said adulters and fornicators will not enter The Kingdom. This world (satan) is diametrically opposed of The Most High. That's why you see all the madness. satan is the god of this world. We either follow The Creator or satan (world). It's Heaven or hell. No in betweens The choice is ours.
The Holy Scriptures says God hates divorce. If man or woman divorces, God calls it a separation. They either reconcile or remain unmarried. Marriage is a covenant. That can only be broken by death. If you have a living spouse and you remarry or have sex with another you commit adultery. People say "God didn't put us together" or they not a believers." But you used his institution of marriage and used God's name. That's your spouse at that point. It's vow to each other and God. Breaking a vow with God is a sin. And unless you repent, the wages of sin is death. Lake of fire, outer darkness and everlasting torment.
@@gnice1465I noticed that your question went unanswered. This is why talking to so-called "Christians" is a waste of time because they operate ideally and not in reality. They act as if the problems in the world only impact nonbelievers but not them. I would try to get to the root of why she's withholding sex. If she still has the mindset that she does not want to fulfill her wifely obligation to have sex, then leave her. You did not get married to be celibate.
"Bring forth a holy seed." Honestly why bring a child into this messed up world. They will grow up a slave working a 9 to 5. Straight suffering for 45 years plus. I see it's not worth it. Even past 3 generations ago. Wake up.
This is why being a virg1n more so for the women was good bc you wouldn’t have all those “experiences” that make you unintentionally compare to your current partner.. since they go based off what “feels” good
19:50 Deontay Wilder lost a few fights he on a decline and wife left em, he a world champion and they made a statue of him, imagine that, you can never impress a woman no matter
Big ward I considered my uncle rip a player growing up. He always laced me with game, and I asked him what do men get out of marriage? He said the only thing men get is the respect of being married. THAT'S IT.
I know it may have seemed that way. But if you are talking about back in the days, then you were looking through a child's eye. If it was working so well for all parties it would still be working. Think on that perspective!!
I noticed that a lot of REAL "high value women" (mentality wise) often end up with "average men"(financial wise). Ironic, bcuz it seems that those women are the ones who actually deserve the good life because their focus isn't on the money like that. It's like they can see the bigger picture. I pray for those families continued success in ALL areas. Funny how that plays out so often tho. But I love and respect those types of women so much more.
I am divorced man I wouldn't have never this broad she got me good. But never again even though I thought about getting married again but hell no never again. If she rich then yes . Keep speaking the truth brother the court system is on all women's side. If she is a storm trooper and she stuck with me when I was broke then maybe yes other then that he'll no
I am a divorce lawyer. I've divorced thousands of people. One of the leading causes of divorce is when one party falls ill. Another is when the man becomes poor. Riches and health.
Sounds like true love
@@DOOR.DASH.TYRONE marriage is good for economic consumerism. The government could give a 💩 about men
We can thank R. Reagan for inventing ( No Fault Divorce) for that when he signed the 1st bill for it in 1969 & made it go mainstream throughout the western world ...
For richer or for poorer ,sickness and in health .smh.
Key word when the man becomes poor, not the woman 🤦🤦. I bet it's also when the man is sick, of the woman is sick and the man leaves people will ridicule him.
I'm 50 years young 6'9" 285 and married women has been chasing me since I was 15 years old. A couple of times when I got injured and had surgery,the women I loved left like a thief in the night. Men you're stronger than you can imagine. Keep GOD and yourself first!
Men be in love,women be in business!!!!
Coach Greg Adams said it best!
How do men demonstrate that love? And why does that love culminate in infidelity and different types of abuse? I don’t think women appreciate that type of love/
Coach Gang in the building 🫡
@Johannah706 They demonstrate it by taking care of a woman financially and protecting her physically. They demonstrate it by sacrificing their own happiness for the good of their families. Women especially these modern ones are extremely self-absorbed and ungrateful, your comment is further proof of that. Not that any more proof was needed, there is plenty online.
#Coach Gang
I've NEVER seen a man smiling as he's leaving Family Court.
Unless it went in his favor.
@@2Tall03XXso like 0.0001 % of them?
@@williamjoseph98 yep
Fr I asked the court officer if the windows on the 4th floor that we were on were solid (was getting ready to leap out ) he Said they’re bullet proof, but I wouldn’t be the first to make that attempt.
Me either
Damn Big Ward, where were you before I got married. Lol 🤦🏾♂️
Lol
Facts. I love my kids so much, got to stick it out as I’m the only one working. Once these kids become adults. It’s a wrappppppppppppppppp. Can’t wait to be free. Properly evaluate these women b4 you get manipulated. Do not trust birth control. Stay strapped
@@YohannesMadeITjust here to remind you that it’s cheaper to keep her. You got a plan and stick to it. You definitely don’t want to divorce while having kids. Child support + Alimony will make you have to start over from scratch.
Me too
Always hit it. Today getting married is not worth it.
My ex-wife tried to come back many times after being ran through. Being married to her was exhausting. She wanted to keep up with the Jones. Nothing I did satisfied her. If I did something that she thought was wrong. She's holding on to it so she can can use it for ammunition. It doesn't matter if it was 5 or 10 years ago. She ain't forgiving you. She'll wear her goodie two shoe for a while fellas at the start. Then for whatever reason, she will become a different woman. I'm truly traumatized from all the crap I put up with.
All women are like that. I expirenced the same thing. They're all sweet and innocent at the start because it's new and they're excited but once the novelty wears off and the routine kicks in their true colors come out. They change! It happens every time. I learned from it and I will never get married because of it. Modern women are cold and calculating and only in it for their own financial gain.
These women are cold as ice
This reply may not help now but most of us go through this. It is traumatizing but in time you will be able to move forward. Best
Same here, crazy
Feminism has poisoned these women!
Always remember that male chauvinist laid the groundwork for so called "feminism". Let that soak a little before rinsing!
No it hasn't. It exposed what they really like
@@KallusGarnetthat part
@@2Tall03XX Yep. We are no longer yours to use and exploit without recourse.
@@saffylllama5609lol that’s your role. To be the help mate of your man. Most women want to be a mother and grandmother one day which she can’t do without a man. Feminism is based on satanic principals of do as thou wilt. It encourages you to not live a life of purpose, but to live a secular life where there’s no family, morals, religious principals...just I, I, I. If you really think about it, you wouldn’t be able to be a feminist unless a man gives you the choice. If men didn’t build grocery stores how do you eat? If it’s me vs you and we had to hunt for food instead, what are your chances of survival? Feminism is a 1st world illusion. All it takes is WW3 and poof feminism gone
It seems like a lot of woman these days want the wedding(a glorified Cinderella day)but not the marriage.
Especially if she on social media she got to have that wedding for gratification and likes.
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Big facts OG
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That may be true. But men & women need to look inside themselves & see why they are choosing to marry a certain type of person.
Some men marry Hoes/Instagram hoochies based on how she looks & never question why she is marrying him. Most of those type of women are marrying him for his money and then have the nerve to be mad when she takes him for everything.
Some women marry bums just because they got some good meat but don't have a job. Then she wants others to help her or feel sorry for her when she struggling.
It works both ways....
Your videos be therapeutic for me man and its a reality check
A lot of misery, despair, loss of freedom, loss of peace and loss of financial stability.
Big Ward, keep doing what you are doing. Ignore the haters and critics.
You are doing a great job.
Cheers !!
This is a classic OG...I've been in that same position with a wife that cheated,took my son and moved to another state..put me on child support and doesn't even let me talk to him, I thought I would try again but nahhh I don't think I could ever take that kind of L again.🤦🏾♂️💪🏾
Damn that sucks
Sign a prenup, a post nub, a trust fund, etc
Ngl massive L
Sorry to hear that. It’s so important for a father to be in his sons life
You gettin it on credit! LOL classic, well said. 🤣
The connection between wise black men and black community is low especially in a broad open way. Much needed older black male insight.
Women either love the way you make them feel, or they don't even like you. Men love what and they think a woman is.
I never thought about marriage like this. When my parents got divorced they were both making a lot of money on their own and my mother didn’t want any money from my father so it was a clean split. I will take note of this.
Same with mine.. my Mom didn't want anything from my Dad.. and my Dad didn't want anything from my Mom. Both of my parents have money. I don't need to take notes. If my mom didn't take anything from my Dad, why would I do that....
@@danadavis8333 Perhaps because it costs a quarter a million dollars to raise a child and why should the father be exempt from financially supporting his children? 🥴
Marriage is what gonna kill you before your time.... My friend wife put an insurance policy on him and he had no clue she did it and she was feeding him so much food he got overweight and sick. Once he found out about that insurance policy he found out what she was up to and once he questioned her - she said her mom told her to do it.
He had everything and did everything for her and he got screwed twice by two marriages in his life and he had no children with either they had children from previous marriages that he even took care of and til today those kids never call him or see how he doing as if he never was in their life.
@@gobucs20Yea, he should’ve learned after the first marriage.
That's called being a step-dad. Nothing new here folks; she's right to have life insurance on everyone in the family. If she really wanted him out of here she'd og given him a pickled pig feet and a budweiser! That's a bomb waiting to happen.
@@BigMerkGee Wrong! You don't do that without letting the man know then she helping him getting sick on purpose! She not about no family cause she had no children with him plus he paying for everything she not paying nothing! She living off him he not living off her. Plus it's common law marriage at that.
@@johnjames2817 He a simp! He felt sorry for women until they burned him twice like that.
@@BigMerkGee No it's not! There was no children in the first common law marriage! He was working taking care of her while she was getting him sick!
The second common law marriage had children. The woman was cheating on him while he was at work taking care of her and her three kids from another marriage. He had to learn she was cheating on him by her own daughter! Cause the daughter thought it was wrong how she done him after he was taking care of the whole family by himself.
I've seen people live together for year's and it works For them Keeping the Government out your business is Key to happiness and Freedom
This be therapy for you and everyone listening.....we know your heart in it ❤️🙏
Young ogs please take notes... This brother is cooking.
This why I tell women soon as we meet I don’t believe in marriage. The one question I ask them is what’s the benefit that I get from a marriage that I can’t get from a relationship they can’t never answer that.
They want to leave with half and they want the upper hand. That is why women still want it.
@@jordanfauntleroy2013 Yep, but like he said, they fail to pitch to him the benefit he will get from said contract. The answer is nothing, so smart men will rightfully decline.
@jordanfauntleroy2013 marriage license equals extreme power over the man "Upper Hand"
She can snap her finger at any day or time and watch a hurricane take your life away with it.
What do women gain from marriage? Not divorce, but from marriage.
@@Emptytopfloor well kind of is not relevant. As the issue is they will file for divorce thus causing all the problems for the man. So technically marriage isn't the problem for either, the divorce is what is going to destroy the man and make him pay dearly
I listen to many so called UA-camrs and man you’re definitely most raw and real. Keep it up brother. I’m praying for you. The real voice of the black middle class man
Why can’t we get married, Big Ward?
“I’m glad you asked.”
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@@bryanbrown8701 big ward processing ..........expresses gratitude for the question .................looks up menacingly and in deep thought .................................gather thoughts ....................advise . got it gat it good bye
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You are helping me get through this because you telling the truth and you are a hard working truck driver . I had a wife cheat and I had to dissolve the marriage and she is now pregnant y the guy she was cheating on me with. She ficked me over just like you was saying. She burned my work contacts with false narratives and lies to make destruction. You are right!!!!
Jeeze bruh
I'm sorry that you had to go through that
Big Ward to 100k 🔥
Big bro eff them haters! Stand up in the mfn gas don't let up
I’ve always said it and I will always say it. Marriage favors women more than men these days especially in the Western world.
Facts! I’ve said it myself. Marriage is for women.
@@echooscar1914 If being married to u was so favourable to women they wouldn't leave you at such a rampant rate.
Great video, thats why I always tell people before you say I do check with God first.
That's the best way checking with God first
Very very true I agree
I have only been engaged once in the USA. Being a 52 year old man living abroad. I must say I am not interested in being married especially in the USA. Something innate within me always told me it's a scam for many men..
So its not a scam overseas? Genuinely asking
@@andrewevans7992Way better deal overseas. There are some scam women, but you have to do your homework. Even then, you’re at least getting femininity on a grand scale.
@@andrewevans7992 It's less of a scam overseas depending on the marriage/divorce laws..
😂Family Courts Are Designed to Strip the Man of all ASSETS 😢.
I agree. The system isn't designed to favor minority groups. In this case men are that minority group! As a woman, I will have a prenuptial agreement to protect the man I love from the system and he will do the same for me.
Blk men don’t have anything 😂
Women like the idea of marriage but don’t want to get married + resources. Marriage is only centered around women. Only reason why those old school marriages lasted is because that’s all they knew/know. Social media and having options at your fingertips didn’t exist. Modern marriages are doomed at the beginning.
How they say it….marriage is the finish line to a lot of them. They don’t want anything after. All they want is the wedding day.
@@DreadBoi504 Facts. The glistening ring and the photos for the book and the gram lol
@@bml2007 Yep, it is really like a high school graduation. Just something to take nice pics and enjoy the memory. Then afterwards they go on to their regular lives again.
bm2007 exactly 💯 I was reading a couple that was married for 73 years. He was 100 and she was 93 those days are over.
My sister married her high school sweetheart in the 80s and they're still married. Sometimes I think that's kinda odd though. I mean seriously it's all either of them have ever known. There's no perspective. How can a person grow like that? Like you said it's all that they know. Her husband isn't the sharpest tool in.the box either. Pity.
Keep preaching Unc! I needed to hear this from a man when I was in my twenties. I feel for all the love BS, she just wanted a ring and a check, I was divorced by 26 and broke from CS. Now I’m 30 and I’ve recovered well, but I wish I never had to find out the hard way. It would have been a lot easier if I would have taken my time and chosen properly.
I FEEL U MAN BUT IT IS ALWAYS EASIER TO SAY THOSE THINGS AFTER IT HAS HAPPENED. THE QUESTION IS WOULD WE HAVE LISTENED WHEN WE WERE YOUNGER AND NOT DID IT JUST BECAUSE SOMEBODY TOLD US NOT TO?
Appreciate the free game Unc. The late Kevin Samuel’s had a video called “things your dad should have taught you”. Your channel is filled with advice our dads unfortunately didn’t teach us, especially as black men. Salute to you sir🫡
I would get married only under god not the court system.
I agree with you @yourfeedYT only under God facts see what the women say then .
If we don't get a state license, we're not getting married. This is not negoitable. All women should require this and be firm about it. And do NOT have sex with that man before marriage, either.
U want a long term gf..not a wife. Marriage isn't fine but make sure you get a good lawyer and have a ironclad prenup.
@@shayemoorelol that’s part of the problem , women are having sex with evebody except who they want to marry
I've been screaming this; under God and not under man.
Yes sir, figured this out 15 years ago that is why I never did it. Now, if a woman talks marriage to me I know she really don't like me and is planning to finish me off in the next 5 years. Time for the next one.
Marriage is beautiful in my head. Only in my head.
@@GothicRichard nothing really wrong with actual marriage, it's what they have turned it into with divorce and court that is the problem. Most of them just think of it as a process instead of a life long concept now
OMG I am sorry for your experience but not all women are like that
You are so right!! Been there three times with the same result. Listen to this man. I have lived it!! Old Marine.
I'm scared for this brother. When you speak like this we don't be around long. This brother is a blessing to me but a curse to the program of this world.... God bless you thou brother may God forever bless and keep you.
This is what’s wrong with the worlds not following Christ just doing what they want
Yep. It's just like the beginning of Judges:
"Every man did what was right in his own eyes."
Big Ward you are so true in every word you say in this video
He speaking facts was married 4 kids in court my ex was cool she knew I was on point not perfect she stayed at home I worked I’m 58 divorced bought me a home , stocks , nice car I still run a lil for exercise do my push-ups God is good Il have a live n if she contributes but No Marriage by man’s law ..
A few of my friends are married and the level of disrespect they but up with is unreal 😊😊😊😊😊
Never move her in, never maker her a priority, never be afraid to walk away, just listen, pay attention and time will reveal her true intentons! Great content Big Ward!
Facts
“…she’s giving it to you on credit…” - I had just started drinking some juice and damn near chocked. I wasn’t ready! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That 180 is real! Been there done that! Preach!
OG YOU PREACHING
Nothing but the Truth, Bro!!! Men had better WAKE UP!!!!
Keep em coming bruh we need em
We rocking with ya
Been married 14 years...he who finds a wife finds a good thing and it's the quickest way to wealth and my wife has gotten better with age...Most men can't pick a WIFE that's the problem..
True we have to vet women
Nope, most women ain't wives...
We really just be wanting sex
My husband and I have been married for 34 wonderful years. Yes, men and women must carefully vet a person before actually getting married.
My best friend came down with an illness. he has been married for 35 years & his wife told him " I am not sitting around here taking care of you, I am going to be traveling & enjoying my life". So much for better or worse?.
If only men would wake up and see the game for what it is
Thank you for the game OG! You’re definitely making a change out here. My big brother is in prison and my pops isn’t in my life. With no older men around me I really appreciate the advice you give and it’s been getting me through this phase I my life.
Big Ward, your videos have helped to save my life!! Thanks!!
This vid deserves over 1M views.
They won’t be Women tho lol
Don't listen to those keyboard gangsters'big Ward.. let's keep pushing 💪🏽💪🏽
He gotta realize we're in the era of trolling now. You can post and 8mth old baby saying ABC's and ppl still gonna be negative in the comments
Needed to hear this thank you 💯💯💯
I say F marriage.. Passport and Peace of mind
No.
Rampant fornication isn't the answer either. I believe monogamy and periods of abstinence outside of an exclusive relationship is the moral way to go about sexual relationships .
@@GothicRichard Sex is overrated. Jesus died not because he didn't have sex, but because he was killed.
@@GothicRichard but getting married (or in a monogamous relationship), and not getting much sex at all, is not any better.
@@univuniveral9713 yes.
You can deny it all you want, but more men are beginning to explore this option -- and they shouldn't give a damn what people like you think.
If traveling overseas and finding a woman who meets one's needs gives them peace of mind, why would you be against it? If they are traveling for "extra curricular activities," why is that your concern?
Facts bro✔️.. a lotta women wanna get married but not be married
They just want a WEDDING not a MARRIAGE.
Exactly
You’re a good guy Big Ward!! Thank you and please keep up your good work.
Whether anyone watching this guy agrees with him or not, he's 1000% right.
Big dog you make an impact out this world I thank God for your videos og. From louisiana
Marriage doesn’t benefit a man at all.
how old were u when u realized that
@@patrickprendergast9589 I think I was in my late 20s when I realized that. Never been married, but from what I’ve seen, I can tell, it don’t benefit us.
Spiritual God said to be the head and that he will leave his mother and father to cleave to his wife just gotta have a real relationship with Christ
My momma told me she basically made my dad marry her. She never once mentioned it was because she was in love. She didnt want to keep having kids by someone she wasn't married to, they divorced when i was 13 and he was put on child support...Now that im older i realized it was for stability.
Love DON'T Love NOBODY
On God
I’m new to your platform. Speak on it my brother, since living in Alabama I have learned more about relationships than while living in California born and raised and no one spoke on relationship’s even talking about marriage. I was born in a broken home and my mom was bitter about how the divorce wasn’t what she expected I only heard bad things about our dad. I’m a better person nowadays with family.
I had to watch this video twice big Ward, just don't fall for the get you got you man.
Even if you both broke the court system will make the man go out and get the money to give her. Good luck on that
Alimony and child support will destroy you.
@@Donnell-m5x We were fooled by this system of love in America, good luck ladies for ur son's and daughter 🙏 future.
BUT REMEMBER THAT SOME WOMEN HAVE THEIR OWN MONEY- AND THEY DON'T REALLY NEED A HUSBAND FOR HIS money. She doesn't have to BE rich - but she can have enough to live,pay bills,get food,clothes,etc. But regardless- A GOOD HEARTED WOMAN is gonna WANT a good hearted caring, loving, sincere man!
Exactly!
You are 100% on point, new subscriber here, Hi from Serbian fan.
I love your videos bro. A lot of wisdom, it’s honest and very genuine. Keep grinding bro 👑
I'm so happy. I was never dumb enough to marry. What a sham. 😂
Big facts here!
Facts! Great content my brother!
The only woman that will ever love a man unconditionally is his mother.
Even then, some mothers despise their sons.
@@2Tall03XX💯💯💯💯
Cap. Mine ain ever really cared about me. Closest thing to that is my daughter.
My mother never cared this is false!!!
@@tyrellcombs3807 my point made.
Hey Big Ward. I just wanna drop some words of encouragement. Keep going bruh because you’re dropping knowledge. Stay strong and stay true. Peace.
This the realest video I ever seen
Preach...... Brother...... Preach ✊🏿
Yeah we love you Ward👊🏽
The Holy Scriptures says, "God created marriage to bring forth a holy seed." Sex is only for the married. Outside of that is fornication. God said adulters and fornicators will not enter The Kingdom. This world (satan) is diametrically opposed of The Most High. That's why you see all the madness. satan is the god of this world. We either follow The Creator or satan (world). It's Heaven or hell. No in betweens The choice is ours.
I agree with you and I'm not being funny when I ask,what if the wife stood having sex with you? What does the man do in this situation?
The Holy Scriptures says God hates divorce. If man or woman divorces, God calls it a separation. They either reconcile or remain unmarried. Marriage is a covenant. That can only be broken by death. If you have a living spouse and you remarry or have sex with another you commit adultery. People say "God didn't put us together" or they not a believers." But you used his institution of marriage and used God's name. That's your spouse at that point. It's vow to each other and God. Breaking a vow with God is a sin. And unless you repent, the wages of sin is death. Lake of fire, outer darkness and everlasting torment.
@@gnice1465I noticed that your question went unanswered.
This is why talking to so-called "Christians" is a waste of time because they operate ideally and not in reality. They act as if the problems in the world only impact nonbelievers but not them.
I would try to get to the root of why she's withholding sex. If she still has the mindset that she does not want to fulfill her wifely obligation to have sex, then leave her. You did not get married to be celibate.
@@thelearner7554 Amen I agree with you and the scriptures but divorce is mostly initiated by the women. If they want to go we can't stop them.
"Bring forth a holy seed." Honestly why bring a child into this messed up world. They will grow up a slave working a 9 to 5. Straight suffering for 45 years plus. I see it's not worth it. Even past 3 generations ago. Wake up.
I #Support this #Message
You are Correct brother! You get hurt and misguided. The women are looking for 💯 % stability..
This is why being a virg1n more so for the women was good bc you wouldn’t have all those “experiences” that make you unintentionally compare to your current partner.. since they go based off what “feels” good
It’s actually all bad bc with the rise of social media being more temptation, Men and women have the grass is greener syndrome more than ever today
My grandfather is married to my grandmother and he said let me tell you something I said what never get married and he said yes
19:50 Deontay Wilder lost a few fights he on a decline and wife left em, he a world champion and they made a statue of him, imagine that, you can never impress a woman no matter
Feels so good to not have to share the 💰💰💰💰 with anybody. Marriage is so mundane.....Let's board a flight to Dubai and sip on some Dom P.💯💯💯
Bid Ward! Hitting a home run sir. Make it plan so those who hear and understand can run. Truth is the only thing that will save one’s pathway.
100% true facts!
Your funny I love this
Thanks bro
Preach !,ya speaking nothing but facts!
Big ward I considered my uncle rip a player growing up. He always laced me with game, and I asked him what do men get out of marriage? He said the only thing men get is the respect of being married. THAT'S IT.
What's sad is it wasn't always like this in my opinion. Way back in the day couples went hard for each other.
I know it may have seemed that way. But if you are talking about back in the days, then you were looking through a child's eye. If it was working so well for all parties it would still be working. Think on that perspective!!
@@alimahxeon8054 I'm sure that had challenges but stuck together and as they got older you tell they glad they did.
Real talk!!! We get it credit
Angel to a demon. Lose your home, cars, friends, family and pets. You wanna lose???
This is a great truth.
One and done for me.
Tell it like it T I IS my brother!🤟🏿😎💯
Appreciate u big dog
I figured this out 12 years ago!! Since then I never had an another serious relationship!!
I noticed that a lot of REAL "high value women" (mentality wise) often end up with "average men"(financial wise).
Ironic, bcuz it seems that those women are the ones who actually deserve the good life because their focus isn't on the money like that. It's like they can see the bigger picture. I pray for those families continued success in ALL areas.
Funny how that plays out so often tho. But I love and respect those types of women so much more.
You're right. I've seen it.
I am divorced man I wouldn't have never this broad she got me good. But never again even though I thought about getting married again but hell no never again. If she rich then yes . Keep speaking the truth brother the court system is on all women's side. If she is a storm trooper and she stuck with me when I was broke then maybe yes other then that he'll no
Big ward I been subbed since 20k, please get a mic so the videos are louder for my drive to work☝🏽