You can always tell when a women settle for you based on how she treat you. She hates the fact waking up and seeing that you’re not the guy that she really wanted.
Most of us gone settle period. I had HELLA baddies in my life time and most of em was no good on the inside. The better u look, the more ppl u pull and the less u rely on being a good person because other ppls lust will blind them and let u get away with a lot of shit. So most of them baddies men have don’t measure up to being wife material, and most women won’t be happy with the men they’re attracted to so everybody tends to step down a level for peace and compatibility and legacy sake.
No truer words have been spoken. I look at my friends and their spouses, male and female. You can tell who was second choice. Although they may be living a good life, I don’t think a lot of us truly ever get “the one”. Truth hurts.
Most women got who they could actually obtain who actually wants them back to build a life with because most women can’t get the man they wanted to marry them and build a life with.
If they can’t get their ideal by mid 30s its a wrap they going to settle for the dude they had in they back pocket incase and all that is going to cause is a nasty bitter marriage
I have to admit you’re right. Hard pill for me to swallow. I put myself first until I’m not the one the next settles for. Til then I enjoy my single existence
Women be posting Chris brown new instagram picture on they page talking bout “ my baby “ but never post their actual boyfriends they been with for years , I’ve seen this smh lol
@@dwayneperson-ol1fe usually when a man finds a woman he wants to marry.. on average he’s pretty content as long as she’s keeping herself up and treating the man well. With a woman.. u can do everything right and be a Chad at the same time and it won’t matter. I read a study about 5 yrs ago. It said most women get bored with their man within 3 years of marriage. Pair that with most marriages end in 5 yrs filed by the wife. My ex wife started acting out at yr 5, by yr 7 I was divorced. If you asked her today why she did it she’ll more than likely dodge the question just like she did 3 yrs ago.
Most likely whatever guy that gave her butterflies in her season of 20s, by the time she 35, she is somewhere thanking God that it did not work out, and maturity helped her chose a better quality man to be with for the rest of her life.
I went to school with this girl who always said Chris brown was her husband. She’s married now with kids and in her bio she has Mrs. Brown with his name on the bio 🤦🏽♂️
Gotta watch that damn not all police big Ward. Always keep Cletus and Rosco with you at all time as the young folks say you can be caught out here lacking. Lol
Big Ward tell me the truth. Is Roscoe covered with rust? Don't lie to me. For some reason I have the hunch that gun would explode in your hands if you went to use it. lol
This is actually very common. Men ate the gatekeepers of relationships. So men get to be with their dream woman. This is a privallege women dont have . Women have to chose the man who will commit and want us the most. The Male dating strategy of chosing the woman of his dreams instead of chosong the woman that wants him the most means hes going to be SETTLED FOR. Problem is men cant take the harsh truth, what if the woman that wants him the most and won't leave no matter is a wakeup 4 make up 6, while the dream woman is a 8 What if that woman has a small booty, but his dream woman has a big booty?
This is it exactly, its why so many married men dont even touch their wives vjj. I realized this game a while now, better be with that butter face that loves you as close to unconditionally as possible and learn to love her or let her go honestly. Its also why I never understood chasing women, she has like 10 men who are also after her and she picks the one who makes the most effort, how the hell will a woman love you in that dynamic? But men in this generations thinks that rubbish makes sense. Something wrong with them for sure.
I stopped believing in the system of marriage back in 2011 or probably earlier. Nothing but a European institution at this point. I admit it meant something at one point. I even understand what it's supposed to represent. But it's not something I blindly believe in. My views are the same for things like religion, education, government, and so on.
Hey bro people are sick i people i agree with you makes no sense i had Guy talks about everyone else business except his own he don't know me he's mad because I won't give him time of day thanks for sharing blessings ❤️
You’re absolutely correct. My wife told me that she had love at first sight when she met her ex. So should I divorce her and just be single, or suffer the rest of my life? It’s really depressing hearing this out loud, because no matter what your qualities are, you’re still not good enough. So what should we do as men in this situation?
That’s crazy how she told you she had love at first sight with her ex but not with you 🤦♂️ That’s a got damn slap 👋 in the face from a disrespectful woman
😂lol Big ward u read my mind today I said this to my self i settled for you husband stop the cap 😂crazy. Some men nice at first then act crazy down the years like they settled no bro I settled the least u can do is act like it cause you know what’s up. Yep I didn’t marry the engaged man in my 20s i married my now husband.
Men settle too. Most of the 9s and 10s we pulled and freaked on was fine as hell and did all the tricks in bed but weren’t loyal or of good character so we settle to marry a good hearted, less attractive woman.
Hey bro how are you doing I am well watching replay love your channel and spirit we love you got your back almost at 35k topics always om point your channel will continue grow keep vedios coming thanks for sharing blessings 🙏
My ex wife said that the other way around. One time she said that she wanted me, but didn’t need me. I then replied, “Don’t ever say that to me again. That’s something a feminist would say.” And I walked away.
I thought that why they say find a person to settle down with both panties probably arent with their ideal match, lol ... dudes bout to start dropping the bait now
Bragging in the bangers isn't wise.. most people have bangers.. you're not the only one.. some just don't like it make them.. incognito is best ...keep them guessing until its to late
I mean, if you think about it how could a guy ever be her dream guy if he did the approaching? If he was really her dream guy she would've approached him.
All women are Chad Brad and Tyrone Chasers there's not that many Chad Brad's and Tyrone's around so the women don't get the guy that they want years later the woman has to marry someone she doesn't want only to divorce the husband the beta Billie provider provisioner type man in about 9 years and destroy the family the guy has no clue what is going on and his hit with a curveball
And this is another reason why men are more attracted to younger women. Older women that find themselves single after a certain age will usually “settle” for a man. Younger women have less life experience and usually have never been in love before. So when they do meet an older man they want to be with, they’re more genuinely in love with him.
@@Emptytopfloor of course every woman wants that from a man, old or young. But at least with a younger woman she can be molded by the man she’s with and she has had less baggage than an older woman.!
@@malikhunt9367 it’s better to do deal with young problems than old problems. Younger women can be molded more than an older woman that’s more set in her ways and carries more baggage. Now a man shouldn’t want them too young because then you’re more of a father figure than a partner to her.
I’m a woman and you’re speaking straight facts!
You can always tell when a women settle for you based on how she treat you. She hates the fact waking up and seeing that you’re not the guy that she really wanted.
What made her settle was the fact you may have provided her financial security fellas gotta stop that simpin
I ain’t with my dream girl either 😂
😂
Most of us gone settle period. I had HELLA baddies in my life time and most of em was no good on the inside. The better u look, the more ppl u pull and the less u rely on being a good person because other ppls lust will blind them and let u get away with a lot of shit. So most of them baddies men have don’t measure up to being wife material, and most women won’t be happy with the men they’re attracted to so everybody tends to step down a level for peace and compatibility and legacy sake.
@@thehotboywalkingand then they cheat 😂
Facts😂
No cappp💯😂get with the program ladies
No truer words have been spoken. I look at my friends and their spouses, male and female. You can tell who was second choice. Although they may be living a good life, I don’t think a lot of us truly ever get “the one”. Truth hurts.
A wise man once said, you were never her first choice.
Chris Rock: Your wife is always mad at you because she settled
I watch you big homie cause You keep it real and speak from the heart. Keep going forward Sir. Blessings multiplied unto You
Wow correct
Your wife still has the picture of her ex in her wallet. She checks his facebook page out regularly.
It’s a cold world 😢
Most women got who they could actually obtain who actually wants them back to build a life with because most women can’t get the man they wanted to marry them and build a life with.
If they can’t get their ideal by mid 30s its a wrap they going to settle for the dude they had in they back pocket incase and all that is going to cause is a nasty bitter marriage
I got married at 24 and still married 😂
Some people online are definitely beyond weird af. It’ll be haters having you live rent free in their messed up heads non-stop.
Guys…..stay single 🤟🏿😂
Big Ward, those haters could be A. I. 🤷♂️ You never know.
Time to settle down girl......some guy thinks he hit the jackpot. Even Tom Brady had Leonardo's hand me down. It is messed up.
I have to admit you’re right. Hard pill for me to swallow. I put myself first until I’m not the one the next settles for. Til then I enjoy my single existence
Women be posting Chris brown new instagram picture on they page talking bout “ my baby “ but never post their actual boyfriends they been with for years , I’ve seen this smh lol
Chris Brown yikes
When she wake up one day feeling like she coulda done much better… that’s the beginning of the end for you my friend.
But don't most guys feel like that too? That's why we are always looking at baddies ?
@@dwayneperson-ol1fe usually when a man finds a woman he wants to marry.. on average he’s pretty content as long as she’s keeping herself up and treating the man well. With a woman.. u can do everything right and be a Chad at the same time and it won’t matter. I read a study about 5 yrs ago. It said most women get bored with their man within 3 years of marriage. Pair that with most marriages end in 5 yrs filed by the wife. My ex wife started acting out at yr 5, by yr 7 I was divorced. If you asked her today why she did it she’ll more than likely dodge the question just like she did 3 yrs ago.
Most likely whatever guy that gave her butterflies in her season of 20s, by the time she 35, she is somewhere thanking God that it did not work out, and maturity helped her chose a better quality man to be with for the rest of her life.
All Praise to the Most High! 👐🏾 Protective energy & peace to you! 👑✨✨✨
Them ninjas were supervisors in the chicken plants. The women were crazy about him because he had a white hat on his head. 😂
😂
I went to school with this girl who always said Chris brown was her husband. She’s married now with kids and in her bio she has Mrs. Brown with his name on the bio 🤦🏽♂️
Thank you for the video Big Ward
They not gonna like this one OG
JADEA SETTLED FOR WILL GOT IT GOOD BYE DROPS MIC DONT BE A WILL BE YOUR WOMAN 2 PAC
Thx u Ward , great channel
The cold hard truth!💯
I settle bc my dream girl doesn't exist
Gotta watch that damn not all police big Ward. Always keep Cletus and Rosco with you at all time as the young folks say you can be caught out here lacking. Lol
Big Ward tell me the truth. Is Roscoe covered with rust? Don't lie to me. For some reason I have the hunch that gun would explode in your hands if you went to use it. lol
Nah unc dont do em like that 😂😂😂😂😂
This is actually very common.
Men ate the gatekeepers of relationships. So men get to be with their dream woman. This is a privallege women dont have . Women have to chose the man who will commit and want us the most.
The Male dating strategy of chosing the woman of his dreams instead of chosong the woman that wants him the most means hes going to be SETTLED FOR.
Problem is men cant take the harsh truth, what if the woman that wants him the most and won't leave no matter is a wakeup 4 make up 6, while the dream woman is a 8
What if that woman has a small booty, but his dream woman has a big booty?
This is it exactly, its why so many married men dont even touch their wives vjj. I realized this game a while now, better be with that butter face that loves you as close to unconditionally as possible and learn to love her or let her go honestly. Its also why I never understood chasing women, she has like 10 men who are also after her and she picks the one who makes the most effort, how the hell will a woman love you in that dynamic? But men in this generations thinks that rubbish makes sense. Something wrong with them for sure.
Wipe that steering wheel and get a cover my Dude😂
And headliner.
😂😂😂
You’re a fool lol
I stopped believing in the system of marriage back in 2011 or probably earlier. Nothing but a European institution at this point. I admit it meant something at one point. I even understand what it's supposed to represent. But it's not something I blindly believe in. My views are the same for things like religion, education, government, and so on.
Hey bro people are sick i people i agree with you makes no sense i had Guy talks about everyone else business except his own he don't know me he's mad because I won't give him time of day thanks for sharing blessings ❤️
Her dream guy addicted to percocets now.😂
Agree 💯.
Big Ward you are very sensitive 😂
With that voice you should be a singer
Last time I checked! Women date up! Men date down! So who's really settling?
You’re absolutely correct. My wife told me that she had love at first sight when she met her ex. So should I divorce her and just be single, or suffer the rest of my life?
It’s really depressing hearing this out loud, because no matter what your qualities are, you’re still not good enough. So what should we do as men in this situation?
Yes, you should leave her
That’s crazy how she told you she had love at first sight with her ex but not with you 🤦♂️
That’s a got damn slap 👋 in the face from a disrespectful woman
@@gnice1465 we have kids and a family. Do you still think that
@MyBrooklynLife718 yeah she told me like we was ordering coffee lol
@@DeaconChriss well sir if she treats you right and you're happy I guess you stay
That steering wheel puts in work. You try cleaning it or that things worn out lol
Tells you how many real losers we have out in this world
God, Rosco and Cletus ✊🏾
My kids mom choose me then left cause i wasnt shit. Im not married.
😂lol Big ward u read my mind today I said this to my self i settled for you husband stop the cap 😂crazy. Some men nice at first then act crazy down the years like they settled no bro I settled the least u can do is act like it cause you know what’s up. Yep I didn’t marry the engaged man in my 20s i married my now husband.
Men settle too. Most of the 9s and 10s we pulled and freaked on was fine as hell and did all the tricks in bed but weren’t loyal or of good character so we settle to marry a good hearted, less attractive woman.
Hey bro how are you doing I am well watching replay love your channel and spirit we love you got your back almost at 35k topics always om point your channel will continue grow keep vedios coming thanks for sharing blessings 🙏
You a menace for that car
😂😂😂😂😂
My ex wife said that the other way around. One time she said that she wanted me, but didn’t need me. I then replied, “Don’t ever say that to me again. That’s something a feminist would say.” And I walked away.
Good for you glad you didn’t settle
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 BIG WARD GO
Ward! 🙌🏽
Marriage is a joke now
Word!!!!
Lock and Load! 🙏
I thought that why they say find a person to settle down with both panties probably arent with their ideal match, lol ... dudes bout to start dropping the bait now
7:41 the face a man makes when he just doesn't have a single frick to give no more to anyone or anything.
And I settled for her as too
Man you need to settle with the dictionary 😂
@@Abilesimothis mf ward spelled it “Setled” so I don’t even think that shit matter
Big Ward YO WIFE LEFT YOU! Now talk about that! !! l😂
You lame
Why you all up in this mans business 😂
@HoodthoughtsTV You think dissin is going to help your channel grow 😂😂
@@oaktown6508he did on one of his videos and took accountability for wat he did wrng
Smh head a man in another man's business smh.
I have been settled for as well......not in marriage....but in general...I was only married once very young and I am older than you....
Bragging in the bangers isn't wise.. most people have bangers.. you're not the only one.. some just don't like it make them.. incognito is best ...keep them guessing until its to late
WHATUUUPP!!!! 💪💪💪
U look like the stereo typical dad tht no teenage boy wud wanna meet when he is the bf of ur daughter 😂😂😂 my dad was like tht too
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😂😂😅 @9:22 LMAO!
I mean, if you think about it how could a guy ever be her dream guy if he did the approaching? If he was really her dream guy she would've approached him.
N mop I'm m.
So v.😅x. Mm I'll
Mm.
Waddup Ward
Wonder what roscoe and cleats look like
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So if Chris brown gets married to someone today...he's not their dream choice?
Nah, they only with him cuz he rich
@@Mindyobidnessfr how do you miss the logic so badly lol
Nah they marrying him for his pocketbook. They not marrying him for who he is 😂
@@Abilesimo so you're saying money and status wouldn't be a woman's dream man?
You're gonna have a hard life lol
@@ftf4908oh I see what you saying but they are right tho
You should make a video speaking about ego people today have a big ego
FIRST
Big ward, if you’re such a genius why can’t you spell correctly?
All women are Chad Brad and Tyrone Chasers there's not that many Chad Brad's and Tyrone's around so the women don't get the guy that they want years later the woman has to marry someone she doesn't want only to divorce the husband the beta Billie provider provisioner type man in about 9 years and destroy the family the guy has no clue what is going on and his hit with a curveball
And this is another reason why men are more attracted to younger women. Older women that find themselves single after a certain age will usually “settle” for a man. Younger women have less life experience and usually have never been in love before. So when they do meet an older man they want to be with, they’re more genuinely in love with him.
🧢 she just after the money and stability
The young ones become older ones sooooo they're all gonna end up the same.
@@Emptytopfloor of course every woman wants that from a man, old or young. But at least with a younger woman she can be molded by the man she’s with and she has had less baggage than an older woman.!
@@Emptytopfloorthank you. Idk why people thinking younger women are the best. This generation of young women give you the most problems
@@malikhunt9367 it’s better to do deal with young problems than old problems. Younger women can be molded more than an older woman that’s more set in her ways and carries more baggage. Now a man shouldn’t want them too young because then you’re more of a father figure than a partner to her.
What about if Im in my mid 30’s and dating an early 20s girl 😁🤪
She may stay, she may leave you, I've learned it really doesn't matter if you have your so called "crap together" girls will still leave you.
Just enjoy the experience bro. You may have now, but sooner or later she’ll be gone. Love is not going to keep her