SIGN A GUY DOESN’T LIKE YOU | Dating red flag 🚩 you’re about to waste your time on a guy
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- Sign a guy doesn’t like you | dating red flag you are wasting your time on a guy
This video is about a huge dating red flag that a guy is about to string you along and waste your time. Women often ask me if the guy they. Don’t get strung along by a guy who always claims to be busy. No one is too busy for the person they want, or have chosen. If a man like you he will make time to see you and speak with you. He will prioritize growing your relationship and getting to know you. It’s a huge red flag when a guy is too busy to talk or visit or go on a date.
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Busy means texting, calling, seeing other women.
Or just not caring enough but wants you at his beck and call. They don’t always have someone else or even want someone else.
@@j-tenn226 true that was my situation at first but he still was( and still is) a F boy
Or taken lmao ffs
“When a man wants you, he is never to busy”
Love this
💣❤️🔥
If he’s that busy he shouldnt be dating.
He’s not dating, he f*cking🤷🏽♂️
@@KevHick 😞
@@KevHick he should be up front then
The men on dating sites are allegedly the busiest. Then ninja why you on a dating site?
Thank you absolutely!!!!!
A man never has the chance to tell me he’s “busy” because I never reach out first.
That’s how you can tell who likes you, ladies. Don’t initiate with men.
💯💯💯💯
Right....I never do any type of pursuing....plez ✌
Can you confirm this Kev?
I NEVER do
Some, even though they will reach out, he's always too busy for a date.
‘ busy ‘ is the word I use on relatives i avoid spending time with.
I just bol 😂😂😂
LOL that's funny 😂👍
Keep your guard up ladies! Lots of broken men out there trying to steal your light.Protect your energy
A whole word!
That part, sis!
Word
@@clapyourhands8056 Sad but so true!
Amen. Destroyers.
100% correct. Everyone has things to do, that’s part of being an adult. A man that’s truly interested in you will MAKE time for you.
Yes. Because if an acquaintance of mine, not even full out friend, can take time to catch up with me for 20 minutes at Starbucks to see how I’m doing when she has 4 small kids and a full time job and a spouse, then no man is too busy to hang with a woman he’s trying to get to know.
@@j-tenn226 facts and it’s nice to see you in the comments I have seen you on Elliot Scott and tony gaskins videos I love watching both of them
Good reminder
When someone is too busy to be around me. I just let him go on with his busy life without me.
Excately
I was told many years ago that "people always do what they want to do."
Yes!
Yep when men say they were so called busy, I got BUSY with that BLOCK AND DELETE BUTTON
😂😂😂🎯💀 love this
I know that's right🤣🤣
Not gonna lie I LAUGHED A LIL😂😂😭😭
Period!
I let a guy say he’s busy once and after that, I get it. If he says he’s busy a 2nd time, I tell him everyone’s busy shit we’re adults who isn’t. I got tired of hearing that and breaking my own heart. I’m a single mom, work full time, go to school, the list goes on..I’m busy. But I make time for people I care about.
That’s right, you said it!! I do the same thing. Two times and I’m out, because they should be able to structure their time and make time. Women do it nonstop. We always are juggling different things. It’s about effort.
This new guy I barely hear from him he only called me yesterday because it was mlk day and he only texts me when the machines at his job break down I’m cool he got mad I deleted his number the next step will be to block him
Facts ✊🏽
Just say that it’s too bad I thought we were going to be intimate that day. I bet you he will reschedule so quickly. when he wants to see you another time and expecting sex, just tell him that you have a migraine that day and you’re on your period.
@@IVvOOvVI lol I haven’t talked to him in months. I’m over it. But thanks that’s funny lol
If there’s one thing I know about men is that they’re never too busy for a woman they’re into. They may get off late, they’ll squeeze in a call or two throughout their day, even lunchtime. Plus early morning text. They’ll want to know your schedule so they can work around it. If they know you go to sleep at a certain time, they want you to be the last person they talk to for the night. It’s like a 30-minute “good night” call asking how your day/evening was. What you ate, etc.
Yes!!!!
Absolutely
If a man is truly busy and she calls him, he will tell her he is busy at the moment and will make sure to call back when he's done. He will plan dates to make up missed time and make sure to return her calls. That is a very good sign. Any man who takes action to make sure to call or see her is a very good sign. If she has to wait for him to initiate a conversation for days or weeks that is a very bad sign.
Ladies, if a man claims he’s “too busy “ ( which he’s not) quietly release him into the world without questioning him. It’s so good to hear this from an established man. I had a guy ghost me then come back months later saying he got busy with work. I blocked him
A man has ONE☝🏿time to play with me, after that, the playground he thought he had, is gone!
He wanted to “humble” you.
He was too busy for me and I got interested in someone else.
A guy told me on a first date he’s going to be busy the next 2-3 weekends. I took that as a sign of rejection since he doesn’t work on weekends - he text me the next day just wanting to chat then he randomly said “Do you expect guys to chase you?” I blocked him instead of replying 😂 like where the he’ll did that dumb ass question come from…?
“busy is a cuss word” i love this. and it’s mad facts
Soooooo true
The word busy is communicated in different ways too. “Oh I fell asleep” “I gotta help so and so” or some even make up tragic events.
Ommmmmm my god YES ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
I fell asleep classic,............🕰️🕰️🕰️ Classic of all time
Do I seem that desperate to you.
I get the fell asleep thing too!!
Long-distance flirtation.
Tragic events...had major car accident around NYE and no contact. I didnt reach out at all and he said he was so hurt cuz I didnt even try to find out what happened. I've been hearing about his injuries ever since.
Am I a fool?
@@ladyofspa I'm a fool 😥
I fell for “I fell asleep” though I think it was true haha, but I said nothing and never responded
I recently had one disappear for a whole week then his excuse was a part was stolen from his car, so he was trying to get that sorted out. So I told him about himself & put him in his place; friend zone lol
I just cut a man off for this VERY reason...so glad I didn't waste anymore of my time. Great advice! I straight up told him " you're just not into me" and let him go! That felt so good!
I’d rather they just said that themselves!
Next time say nothing.. you’re busy 😘
I know that's right. It sucks but hold on to your dignity
@@PhanRegSop nah we gone be our authentic selves and just say what needs to be said and STILL BE BUSY. We calling people out on their billshit 😎
I'm in same situation but I'm done
Even busy men can find time for priorities. Busy is no excuse
110 percent. Busy also means unavailable. Who wants someone that isnt available?
Just met an interesting guy, but he's definitely not interested enough. Buy boy.
💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
What I heard many times was “no matter how hard I try I can never do anything right”. Men who talk a lot and make promises are not men any woman should deal with. Real men DO while others TALK. Be with a man that is quiet but BUSY in action doing a lot for you!
Nah I want both… that’s my love language ❤️
That’s real talk Kev 💯😂, I died laughing wen you said “busy” Is a curse word 🤣🤣you are so freakin right ❤️❤️
Finally ended an almost year long situationship with a guy who was constantly “busy”, seemed to only make time for me when it was convenient for him & I’m so embarrassed. I wish I would’ve realized sooner. I definitely liked him more than he liked me.
I hear you, sister. I was there, too. You are a 👑 and I am a 👑. We are greater than each of them. ❤️❤️
Don't be embarrassed. Just learn from it. Recognize the game.
I been there twice I feel embarrassed also just be thankful you didn’t have a kid by him cause to me that’s much harder to move on
Good Night Shyann Leah! Don't feel any type of way because at the end of it all you are a Queen and Keep standing tall. I have been there and I decided that My Value and Self Respect was worth more at any given Day👑. Keep on loving you and one Day Mr. Right will come along💯
This is why it’s so critical to find a guy who likes (and/or loves) you WAAAAYYY MORE than you like (or love) him!
At 39, I know well enough now... my time is way too precious to try & have someone waste it. What was once allowed I no longer allow it.
“Falling in love with a character that you have created of them in your mind”
I’m guilty of this!
Brilliant and informative video as usual.
OMG Kev! Needed to hear this ( coz I am about to let go of some guys who said they're "busy" for me) and your video is right on time. You are such a protector, amazing coach to all ladies out there.
I got absolutely nothing going on lol
@@GreyRock100 girl same
Same
Yes girl!
Just dealt with this, he was pissed when I checked him on it, had the nerve to tell me that my thinking, was to the left.. Glad that mess is over
Doesn't it feel great!☺
Haha I love the ones who try to gaslight you when you call them out. NEXT.
Just put this dude back at his place.... anywhere but my side, that is... 3 weeks ago. All in a mature, calm and respectable manner. He was so pissed for the rejection. That turned me off even harder. I'm sure he is the right one.... just not my right one. Sorry, not sorry!
just had to ghost a guy for this reason. gave him plenty of chances. even told him to his face that if he continued to be inconsistent then i would leave. welp the nonsense continued and i was hurting myself trying over and over again. so i just stopped responding with no explanation. too old for the games.
That's right, sis! The stress and anxiety just ain't worth it.
@@shalalala868 that part. my anxiety was through the roof. not even worth it.
So many times we want to believe because it feels good. People dread rejection, and the pain that comes with it, don't want to see that they're setting themselves up. It's hard to see at that moment that someone else will come along, save your dignity and self respect.
Don't forget "Tired"!! That one is frequent too. "I was too tired to..." 🙄🙄🙄 byeeeee
Yup! The second cuss word is, "soon". 🙄 #🚩
I used to say “in due time”
@@KevHick Ugh! 🙄 That's even worse! 😂 #🚩
For realzies, I’ve seen a man in love and he definitely didn’t act distant.
Like what man that really likes a girl turn down opportunities to talk to her or see her? If he wants you, you would never be confused about how he’s moving!
That’s why I watch how they treat other people because it lets me know what I shouldn’t settle for.
If he goes out of his way for other women or people close to him, but doesn’t do that for you but claims to be interested in you, it’s a red flag.
Excellent point. I foolishly ventured into a FWB situation with an ex who used to be madly in love with me so when I left my husband, we started the FWB. Months into it, he told me he loved me and had feelings for me, unsolicited. I noticed that he had no qualms talking to friends for a while, and would make plans in advance with his homies, yet most of our plans were initiated by me and oftentimes last minute.
Neither one of us remember why we broke up since it was over a decade ago so couldn't have been that bad, but I didn't like feeling like a toy a man picks up and puts down at his leisure. Answered my texts when he felt like, if he felt like. Said he'd call me back but half the time didn't. Alluded to being together again in the future (unsolicited), but being commitment-phobic. Confused AF. Inconsistent AF.
This was the total opposite experience of when he was in love w/ me and I dumped him and he'd call me begging for a year to get back together. Maybe he just wanted to get me back? Dunno. I told myself I'd NEVER be an FWB when I was younger but I figured since the ex and I had chemistry and my marriage was sexless, it would be a good idea. WRONG. I dumped the FWB and told him I'm moving on to intentional men who are commitment-minded, meet my standard, and are able to accommodate my wants and needs. He was radio silent.
@@shalalala868 definitely, when it’s the opposite sex, it’s black and white. Either we’re strictly platonic or you’re pursuing me to be my husband. Friendships shouldn’t be sexualized in the first place, that’s how I know a guy invented that arrangement lol because it doesn’t benefit us at all. Not only do we come smelling good, hair done, lingerie, But we take on the emotional labor as well while they just come with their penises, sweatpants, and their problems.
But to them it’s an equal exchange because of an orgasm. Please! We barely get that😭
My time is currency and worth more than anything else. If I see my time is being wasted I put them in the friend zone and move on.
I Fell asleep (I overslept)
I dont feel good I can't make it
Let me call you back
I gotta work late
Something came up
I gotta go out of town
I got a family thing
I get the "I fell asleep" a lot w this long-distance guy when a last text goes unanswered or when he fails to say goodnight. Is it BS or do ppl fall asleep?
Then long delays in responses sometimes cuz he took a nap or his allergies are acting up.
Then other times we text all day and most days i get a goodnight and good morning.
Idk wtf is going on.
@@morningglory9318 mixed behaviour/inconsistency. If you have to question it, you already have your answer.
@@neverregret8992 Thanks. Well its long distance so it's not for sex. He was all about me when we first started texting. Maybe hes just trying to be nice now and is chatting w others. 😥
@@morningglory9318 girl long distance relationships are not real lmao
@@Celti_ actually a connection can be real in any context. Not sure why you're laughing and shaming. I'm just here relating on this cuz I'm hurting.
Best advice ever! The “I’m busy” excuse translates to “I like you but I’m not that into you, so I want to keep you on the back burner if something better doesn’t come up.” As soon as I hear that excuse, I ignore him and move on to the next guy. Even if someone really is busy, they’ll find a way to talk to you or spend time with you if they want you. I dated an extremely successful businessman who truly was really busy with traveling around the world for business, and even though we couldn’t see each other as often as we’d like, he made it a point to call me during his free moments as a way to spend time with me.
Before you get pressed in some couch cushions lol My biggest downfall in dating again is waiting out for “potential” and not believing a man’s actions when he first shows me. It’s only been 3 months and i have learned my lesson. He’s getting cut loose today! I’m fed up with handing him the answers to the test and his ass still failing. Thanks again for the awesome video.
Yesssss I know that's right queen! 🙌🏾🗣💯 I'm right there with you! My "time passer" is getting cut off *TODAY!* 🚫⛔🥲
PERIODTTT I love this comment
Busy🚩🚩? Boy Bye✌🏾 Great advice Kev as always
So true. I definitely can tell the difference between a man who is truly interested vs not. My fiance from jump has been up my butt (which I don't mind at all). He made it known he wanted me. We spend all of time together even if it's just in silence. There are times we even called out together lol 😆 just to lay in bed and joke all day. Totally different energy from the F boys I use to give my time too. I'm glad I don't have to worry about dating those types anymore. 😌 I've found my forever man. ♥️
Good for you
@@readingbooks6545 😁
As Tony Gaskins said, “ When a man wants you, you will start to get tired of him.”
😍🤩❤
Congrats!!
I remember I used to do throw that “busy” line out when I was in my early 20s. It was super immature. Simple communication is the best and most effective way to create distance. Now, I just tell them straight up when I’m not interested or have lost interest.
Busy is an excuse
People who don't have the level of success that let's them claim busy , be claiming busy ....thank you Kev this is real talk and great content, you are such a blessing
When they are in pursuit of you, they are never busy. The lovebombing makes you feel so wonderful. Then it changes to, "I am busy" out of nowhere. When you are not aware of what's happening, you think you are going crazy. If you do not know the game, you invest your time, energy, and emotions, it's such a let down. Love when you said, " Let I'm busy" be the first curse word- back up and go away. Find another place for you to put your time and energy.
Well said. I'm talking to someone who just had a car accident on NYE and now has pneumonia and that's the excuse for reaching out via text once per day (as opposed to the beginning when we went back and forth throughout the day and ALWAYS said goodnight and good morning). Not sure why he keeps reaching out if he isnt interested. I'm not saying anything. Just sending my replies hours later and pretending this isnt totally different.
@@morningglory9318 That's exactly what happened to me too. First, it was many times throughout the day. Then it was once a day. Then it was once a week. I would act like I didn't care or respond hours later. When I did inquire as to why, I was responded with, "I'm working, I'm busy", and shamed for asking. After a few months, I just had to end it and the response was, "Omg, OK". Worst feeling ever and I put up with emotional abuse and neglect for what reason? I have no idea.
@@kimberlyfeliciano4375 Wtf?? Why do they keep it going?? Its not like im initiating !
I'm sorry you went through that. 😥
@@morningglory9318 I appreciate that. I am so sorry that you experienced this as well. It's really crazy making when you don't know what you don't know.
I guess you can say when it comes to me, I am perfectly fine! with not being wanted by any man. That man can stay busy. After dealing with so many headaches & pain I can honestly say I'm not even worried about it.
You are difently right though...about everything you stated. A man who genuinely is into a woman comes with no excuses
Most if not all time wasters are eliminated by not having interc. Taking cookie off table keep options open till tested and proven. 99% bullshyt eliminated. Period.
Preach!!!
100%
When he says busy .dump him....
You ain't NEVER lied!! You hit the target with the BS that men put out there and it's ALWAYS at the very beginning of communicating. Social Media has given the dating world lousy non purpose shady dishonest people. It's a challenge for decent people to find our twin flame. Thanks for sharing your knowledge.
Dude I was getting to know told me he was bUsY after disappearing off the face of the earth for 2 days after a weeks of consistent daily communication - must have been busy with the other ladies he was talking too 🤡 he was dropped real quick 🚩🚩🚩🚩 NO red flags in 2022
yeah same here - 2 months of everyday communication, initial interest, he initiating things, and now came to - oh I got so much bigger priorities right now, finishing my university doctorate la la sorry not your fault. Well I told him that those who want to make time will find time, it's not like I stalked him and acted crazy for him lol, told him that I am good, normal and smart woman but that I don't see effort from his side, and personally it's off putting for me. Bye, all the best. - And I meant it. Felt good saying that to him, I made my stand.
Excately sis
So, "I'm busy" = "I'm a bitch". Thanks Kevin.
I just meant treat it like an insult if it’s repeated or consistent
@@KevHick I understood. And I meant women should hear it as him saying, "I am a bitch", which he is if he's consistently flakey.
I got what you meant.
Thank you, Kevin. I really needed this in my life right now. Been ghosted twice by two different men and I’m sick of it. From now on, I’m raising my standards.
How does raising standards prevent ghosting though? LMAO. It doesn’t. They will still ghost you regardless of how high your standards are. 🤷🏼♀️
Damn. I’m literally dealing w. A guy who pops up here n there makes plans then goes ghost n the next day apologizing saying he got busy or something came up. I literally feel like an option not a priority to hun anymore. When he was overseas he was alllllll about me txt, calls, FaceTime but as soon as he got bk to the states it’s “ oh I’m just super busy getting stuff bk together etc” it’s always an apology w him. I hate I’m about to let him do him and watch outta no where he sees me and think oh shoot let me try and get her now I forgot about her. 🤦🏾♀️🚩sir I don’t want it cuz when I wanted u you didn’t want me is going to be my energy now. And it’s sucks but oh well. I need to see this video thanks Kev!!👌🏾☺️
The way I know this is the absolute truth, is the fact that I always use the “busy” excuse when I’m not so interested in a guy 😅
I know that's right Kev. If there's 1 thing I know is that a man MAKES time for what n WHO he wants
Amen ❗❗
People only waste your time when allowed
Just ended a 2 year relationship....guy was with me nearly everyday, but I noticed his pattern was he wanted to go everywhere I went including where I took my son. However, he would distance himself from me once there. He was never emotionally connected, make himself available to drive me wherever I needed to go and wanted to.lwaen as much as he could from me. He was just looking for a hangout spot and qays to level up. We're both 50 yrs old...I learned the gard way.
Kenny Lattimore said it best. Never to busy!!!
Too often women don't get out in time. They fall into the addiction of allowing the man to give them Goodies now and then and that's what they wait for cause it feels so good when it comes and they can enjoy the expectation of that goodie while they wait for it to come. Then the goodies get farther apart or missing all together. That's when anxiety increases and panic sets in and the gal now has to cope with Withdrawal. This can happen very fast so you know what you're dealing with at the start. Going along with it is the problem.
So basically breadcrumbing
A guy I was seeing waited to do this around month 3 then started to ghost lol
If they wanted to, they would.
Thank you Kev ✨
Talk about perfect timing ! Needed this one. Thank you Kev.
1. Always busy # Huge red flag.
I had a grown man over 45 inboxing me for months. He finally asked me for my cell number. I gv it to him then instead of calling me he sent me his cell number. It’s been over a year now and he hasn’t called me yet! 😂
Guess he just wanted my number for entertainment value
@Sara Bee exactly!
O wow 😯
Lmbo
Yass Kevin.
When a Person is too busy GoAway. Disappear..
WITH NO WARNING!
*Maaaaan if this message wasn't ON TIME!* 🤦🏾♀️ *I'm going through this right now (well, I WAS going through this because his ass is officially CUT OFF)* ✂️🚫⛔
*Thanks Big Bro Kev. I almost wasted more of my time had it not been for this video. I mean, I'm not naive or anything but he was GREAT at texting, offering "business advice", giving compliments, texting first and Last every day, etc. I actually wanted to believe him when he said he was busy with his business which is why we couldn't meet up the first time but after the 3rd time, I figured "It ain't THAT much business in the world to the point where he is ALWAYS busy." We've been talking HEAVY for a month now and we haven't even met up in person yet and here's the kicker: WE STAY VERY CLOSE IN THE SAME CITY! He's a PERFECT "texter" and "apologist" when he can't make it or has to reschedule and I'm tired of being sucked back in by his sweet nothings and "perfect friend" act* 🙄🙄🙄😒😒😒
In the exact same situation, we've been texting for close to a month. He has never called me, we are just texting warriors. He's never asked me out on a date or for a meet up. We not only live in the same city but same suburb. He once told me he was in my neighborhood earlier that day I jokingly asked him why he didn't tell me and he said he was afraid to tell me cause it would be short notice but he'd still be around the following day. I told him I was joking and that I don't do street meetups it has to be a formal meet-up. He joked about how I wanted him to come wearing a suit and tie and that was the last time we spoke about it. I feel like I'm wasting my time, I initially liked him but now I'm bored and he takes forever to reply to my texts so I'm over the whole thing.
Can I be the only guy you talk to? I want you to need me. Breakup, divorce? No that's never an option, we're together until eternity if we love each other. Can you promise you'll be kind and never let me go? If i express my desires I'd be labeled weak. I want to be 100% certain the love of my life thinks the same about me.
This is a beautiful mindset, rare to find.
I love how articulate Kev is, he explains things effortlessly.
" You have to create them and make them up in between texting and phones calls. Falling in love with a caracter of them that you created in your own mind" this one got me divorced now, 2 children later
Please tell them Kev!! Ladies stop wasting time on these types
He's busy for you because you are not contributing to his ambitions. He doesn't see you as a stepping stone towards his goal and part of his future.
And the same apply to the women that’s also ‘busy’ ….. ain’t no one stunting the ‘busy’ guy. Stay busy while the woman is off to someone else being interested in them . ✌🏽
@@aleayh you are right. A woman can be as busy as the man but the question is who neglected whom first??
@@galinaioffe2250 it doesn’t matter who neglected whom first… fact is that it’s a problem in a relationship or interest regardless . So whomever is the so-called ‘busy party can stay busy while the other can get busy with someone who values their time and presence , simple as that. 🤷🏽♀️
If that is true, then the proper thing would be to be upfront from the beginning. The problem is leading a woman on. If you’re not feeling it with a particular person just cut them loose.
@@readingbooks6545 exactly 🙄. Thank you. I knew it was gone be one trying to justify this bullshit in kev comments
"Just like you're getting now but you don't know that"
Being "busy" is the biggest cop out
I recently reconnected with a guy from the past and he told me he was fresh out of a relationship and couldn't quit talking to me for a few days seemed to really like me then all of a sudden said he wouldn't be able to talk to me for 2 days bc he was switching phone plans 🙃 well I noticed he was still logging into his fb messenger he said yeah but the phone wouldn't let him do anything he contacted me a week later and is apologizing and asking me to talk to him I told him it was fine lol 😆 which it is I won't be responding to him tommorow I'll be unreachable 😊
He’s still in said relationship
@@laurenlocd3180 exactly and that's what I told him but he's denying it he's already begun messaging me this morning but I'm ignoring it
Just block and move on.
Gurlll..🖐🏿wave bye bye to that loser!
@@QIKWIA I did he's been messaging me all day saying how much he misses talking to me he created the situation not me I deserve better
Finally clicked after my last situation. Chasing, trying, and remodeling my life around for him not realizing he was just around for the sex and attention and nothing more. Wasn’t my first go round but it definitely was my last. Cut him and all the others off that just wanted to play. All of your videos have helped me. It didn’t click right away but now it has and I’m finally happy that I got it. Thanks Kev!
This is so true I was doing this with a guy who kept telling me he was too busy I never got the hint just saw him last week out with a new girl I guess he wasn’t to busy for her I wasted so much time never again
Danm the TRUTH hurts. I'm in that boat right now I need to book a appointment because i don't know what to do but I thank you so much for keeping it str8 💯 with us. Thank you
Unfortunately, busy came later for me 😕 once I was already in a relationship and invested, he started getting “busy”… like at 5:28 🤦🏾♀️
Busy issa cuss word
I've actually had a girlfriend use "busy" with me...she's working all seven days a week! You are right, Kev, it's a swear word. If you are important to a guy, he'll make some time for you. You should be one of his top priorities.
Busy and not ready are BS words
Or when he flat out ignores your texts and calls and he’s posting on social media. I’m tired of these POS men.
I have spent Saturday nights on science fair project. Some parents are hands on. Cooking food from scratch. Helping with homework. It's not good to ignore your kids either. How can you always be available for another adult. People need time for themselves. And multiple children especially big they have health issues. No adult should expect another human being to always be there for you. That's why we all need a strong relationship with The Most High.
THANK YOU!!! I RESENT THE WORD BUSY!!!
I have NEVER needed to use the word "busy" with ppl I care about. It is too generic and ambiguous. The word says "I don't owe you an explanation" and it's a way to put you on the defense because if you question him he'll play you as "needy".
EVERYBODY IS BUSY..... that is NO EXCUSE for not making time. I no longer even argue the point. These days....I'm just OUT!
Absolutely !! The person I’m talking to right now is a prison officer works almost 7 days a week and he STILL finds a way to spend time with me AND ask about me and I’m like whattttt this actually exists hahahaha!! Stay safe out there y’all
Omg yassssss Facts 💯. This applies to friendships too. People use the term busy a little too lightly. There's a difference between being busy and just not giving a F...
Thank you so much Kev I really needed 😀😀 to hear this!
“you are candy crush” 😭😭😭😭😭
As always, great advice! Thank you!
Wow this is truth..thank you for this ☮& blessings
I broke up the "busy" guy and he was upset about it haha. Complete joke
Kev is always on point
Very well said. All makes sense. Thank you.
Thank you. This is so perfect
This msg came right on time 👏🏾 Thanks Kev! 💖
Its 2022 they got some 🔥 stuff out nowadays on your phone called block then use the one called delete...that way you won't be bothered with his "Busy" ass and won't remember his phone number and him..Who remembers phone numbers nowadays anyway...?
Thank you Kevin for your time and advice.
I love coming back to this channel! You are keeping it real, no BS just tell it like it is. 💯
Love your channel king!
Blessings to you ..as well as to your family🙂
Best advice ladies!!!!
Thank you for this! These red flags can’t be ignored 💯
Pressed into couch cushions 😂 Really enjoy listening to you. Thank you for your honesty ❤️