How to tell if a guy is playing games by asking 3 questions!
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- Опубліковано 13 лип 2024
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3 questions will help you tell if a guy is playing games! You must ask before you catch feelings for a guy or start to expect anything out of him. You need to ask these questions to figure out if a guy likes you seriously or is playing games. Women always ask me what they should be asking the new guy in their life. The point usually being to get him to open up. The problem is women are trying to get a man to open up before you qualify him. There are many things you should be asking a man that have little to do with getting to know him. Questions meant to reveal intent and the purpose he’s pursuing you. Find out what a man wants before you start liking him or giving him your attention. Women are afraid to irrigate men or make men uncomfortable by asking too many questions. Stop this. You can only scare away men who aren’t serious with questions. I have outlined 10 questions you should ask a guy before catching feelings. I talk about the first three in this video.
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I@Kev Hick i haven't seen the other 2 vids.
@@Katrica670 look at my uploads page. They all came out the same week a month ago
@@KevHick thank you I just found them
@@KevHick That was a great explanation ..thank you for taking the time to educate..one of the best I've seen from you!!
Fourth question!! Are you married?? Yes, you will be surprised how many men are married trying to get with you🙄
Woooow
👏👏👏👏♥️
That's crazy and sad. Keep rejecting them
Except that he could still be lying when he says no.
@@mycinnamongirl LOVE this! Thank you for the tip.
1. How often to you make contact with a woman when you are serious about her?
2. How do you feel about titles?
3. How long does it take for you to decide to commit to a woman and make her your gf?
Thanks 🙏🏼 for this. Bc now I need to know the right and wrong answer
Allis Brett Thank you so much for listing these questions. I appreciate you for doing it. Now I can listen more to Kev teaching and list his key tips. 💕💕
I love how you've repeatedly said "before you decide to have feelings for him". Cause we need to be more intentional about it. As well as know that we at least have some say in having feelings for someone, by looking past the person's representative and qualifying.
Hallelujah ma'am
Man, I wish I would have seen before my last...situationship. But I will definitely be asking these questions when I'm ready to start dating again.
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Its okay the most important thing is that we get more knowledge and learn from our mistakes 🌹
I was about to say the EXACT same thing in the exact same way. Man, I wish…
That situation ship was also a huge awakening. It made me see this was a pattern since childhood stemming from the dynamic I had with my mother.
Me too!!!❤❤❤
I was going to say the same thing
If I had known to ask these questions before I got married, it would have saved me 15 years of heartache and divorce. I paid a heavy price for my ignorance but thank God it's never too late to learn and grow! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
We can only do better when we know better, like Maya Angelou says 💜 and the silver lining is the absolute and deep understanding of what not acting with ethical strategy/critical discernment & intuition can result in! 💗💜💗 Gems! 💎
Fellow sister same 15 years in august🤦🏻♀️
Never too late. The only thing important now is your knowledge and how you are going to use it for future purposes good luck
Wow
Also pay attention to a guy who says he's a free spirit he basically saying he don't like being tied down he will lie and make like that's not true
I'm okay with throwing caution to the wind, yet don't blame the next person for what the last person did to you. 💯
I agree1000%
I stand by this!
We all have choices and we need to learn from them.
I had an interest in a man that I had to except that he didn't feel the same way I did about him. This man was "busy". From work, gym, working out at home napping, watching TV (wrestling), even having to cut his grass, then maybe he could communicate with me. Naw man.
I found my self being the one starting conversations etc and getting dry one word answers. Bye 👋
Yea they love that I’m busy title . 2.5 second to text hi
Yeah that's true I had the same situation 😂😂 this man I was seeing started his pattern mad early. So I played along with it until he told himself. I asked him why don't he call me since he likes to talk to me over the phone. He replied said "You can call me when I'm off work " I replied " I do but your always quick to get off the phone" he didn't say anything 😂😂😂. Than I called him out and tried to twist things on me. I dropped him didn't talk to him. Than the living dead hit me back with a text. Asking me "U ok" I said to him I don't do inconsistency he said ok and stop texting me all together which I can careless.
This guy acts like he's interested, and I'm not into him all the way, and the word "ok" is all he says. So I do it back to him. He says he's not a talker. I said, "Me,either, so we both won't be talking. 😒
@@JB-vg7ri always treat them how they treat you!!
I promise you they don’t like it,…
I ask questions, so I can figure out what to do with the information and way he acts around the questioning. I just like being able to make an informed decision.
Just talk and observe. I have had guys actually tell me things by just talking. Like, one guy told me he asks women he likes questions. He wasn't asking me much of anything. He also told me his last gf and he started dating within a few months, we were already at that point, and no commitment. So, from his own words, I knew he wasn't interested or, at least, not interested enough. It let me know it was going to be a waste of time. And he wasn't a bad guy, at all, but I just knew that wasn't what I was looking for.
Question #4: Are you still hung up on an ex or another woman?
Constant pattern of men running back to their exes
I want a man with a clean slate, ready to date
Seriously!! The divorce paper doesn't matter if they still follow them on all social media and are communicating everyday.
that damn emotional attachment runs deep for some of these men.
Yeah and you're just a place holder while they're deadset on another girl who it didn't work out with
@@RU-zq2ip it's real girl. I told my ex, we have 4 offspring, grown children, together, "If you are going to find a gf how is she going to handle that you talk to me 5,6 times a week and sometimes 3 or 4 times in a day." Him, "She just gonna have to understand, that's how it is." Me: She'd be crazy to put up with that BS and when I'm seriously dating someone, I will no longer be talking to you!! Just so we are clear." Lol
🤣lot of men love drama !!!!
That Part
Yes, 50+ No time to waste!
I have cut through so much bull shit with guys since watching your channel. It’s almost comical the reactions I get . One guy I asked if he was still married because my intuition told me he was. He did the Scooby Doo on me and said Huh just like Scooby . He was visually shook , took a second to gather himself and then said no. Boy bye.
@VP🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 just like Scooby-Doo the dog! Also, from your wording I'm assuming this happened in person (visually shook). This is double comical!
@@Katrica670 😂 yes we were on our 2nd date. He tried to lie but his response gave him away.
@@VP-fr3cj good for you lady! 😊Glad you found out through his goofy word, and look on his face at that moment!
Thankyou for being the big brother I always needed.
I have a brother but he definitely a brother from another frfr
I NEEDED this. Actions do speak louder than words. And no words are LOUD!
I reached out to ask if we could communicate more to get to know each other....fucking crickets. Bye boi.
Yeah, kick his ass to the curb ma
😂😂😂😂 Hot Damn
This is gold!
Ladies, ASK! They might lie but if you detect discomfort jump off the boat.
Also ask about future plans and listen if they include you.
@Luna LU how quickly do you think a new male will include you in his future? 🤔
Love your perspective on these things, Kev. One thing I like to do that shows you a lot about a guy is to say "no" to him about a small thing or two in the very beginning, and see how he reacts. If he tries to persuade, negotiate, or overstep my boundaries, I'm outta there. And of course saying no to sex and seeing how a guy reacts will tell you everything you need to know about how much he really respects you and your bodily autonomy.
Communication is paramount. If he’s struggling just to answer questions, not capable of communicating, I’d be out. Game playing I don’t do.
I think before we start to wonder about how much he’s gonna call and all that we should see if we actually like the person. If he’s a stranger, we don’t even know if we like him yet why are we concerned if a stranger wants to see us everyday.
Definitely going to do this when I start dating again
"indefinite situationship" that alone says it all
Perfect questions to ask BEFORE getting intimate with someone!
Kev!!!! I wish I could give this video a Million likes!!!!!!!!!! This video is a definite eye opener and a great guide on what to look for. And not just listen to what is said. These are all great questions. Can't wait for the rest.
Don’t miss the next three question in today’s video
A question I like to ask is: are there any women that believe they're in a relationship with you? They may try to lie their way through it but their eyes and body language will give it away.
Love, love,love your advice! Your scenarios are spot on! You definitely know what's going on out here right down to the verbiage.
I think any man is gonna be nervous if you ask him these questions in the start of relationship. Also, some manipulative men might say what you want to hear to keep you until they are done.
I think he'll show me with his actions how he feels about me. I'll take the hint and decide for myself. 🤷♀️
Those are open ended questions so they are good.
But you can make the bed first.
You can introduce a topic like 'oh Celebrity X is getting married again. Celebrities love wedding parties..hum hum... what do you think about marriage?'
You need to pass the idea that you're cool about certain topic and you're likely getting an answer like 'oh marriage is just a piece of paper' and here's your answer. Sneaky guys will answer something 'i dont think it's important but i would might get married if i find that special one' (hes feeding you bs).
A man who wants to get married and is married oriented and sees himself in front of marriage material he would say he wants to get married.
This is the best episode of all UA-cam dating advice videos. There aren't better questions out there than these. These questions give results! This is like the five Cs for bank loans. These questions are reasons for investing your emotions. Excellent!!! 👍
You Are one of the best dating coaches EVER!!! TY for all your valuable tips & content! ✌️
Very insightful! Great thought provoking advice. Thanks Kev.
Thank you for making these videos! You’ve helped me so much 🙏
Thanks Kev for sharing part 2. I'm looking forward to part 3. I appreciate you for for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. You will be blessed for it.
Thank you kev for all your motivation and advice
Thank you for sharing I appreciate you and I appreciate your videos. Sending Love and Positive Vibes to you and all the beautiful souls out there. 🧡🌟💙🌟🙏
I truly appreciate your content.
I think your at the top of the "advice" game!!
Thank you.
Very nice. I like clearly and directness. Thanks Kev🤗👏🏾👏🏾
This was 1 of the best and most informative videos. Thank you so much!
You're doing some great work. Your msg about con men is ON POINT
This is a really good one Kev.
You're right up there with RC Blake's & Tony Gaskins Jr. 😁👍God Bless You Kev!✝️❤️✊
As a 32yr old woman you are right. Good advice I wish didn't learn on my own. I went through this in my 20's took three years to let go I'm still healing myself 😶 ladies don't ignore red flags...
Great advice! Thank you, as always, for helping us to get past the charm and see through the bullshit!
Insightful and poignant video! I appreciate the straight forward content 🙌🏾
Thank you for the great content Mr.Hicks .
Dang I truly wish I had this information about 10 months ago!! I will be moving differently going forward!! Thank you
You just earned a new loyal subscriber with this one ❤👏🏽 thank you!
The Presssurre from these questions.... I'm loving it.
Thank you boo boo more great stuff 💪💪💪 keep it coming
This video is perfect timing. 🙏🏽
We speak 🗣️ daily and communication is the key 🗝️
Great question Kevin!! I need this😅🙏💯
Whoah this is so great!!! thank you so much!!😇😊😇
It's about how he's handling the moment 💯
That first question is GOLD
This is gold
These questions I wished I knew before 😢 better late than never and I’m going to save this video so I can refer back to it. Thank you 😊
Thank you so much for this wisdom 🙌
I can really appreciate this video 👏🏾
Great info. Thank you.
Yes sir👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽i wish i knew about this a few years ago.
Great advice. Thank you
Uuuuuh Kev is always on point! I should have seen this video 4months ago damn!
Love the advice!!!
Okey.. This is so good that I'm actually taking notes/transcripts 😂
This is sooooo brilliant Kev! Wow
Thank u for this video!
Thank you so much, Kev.
Very good questions,imma start using 💯
This is Gold
That's some damned good advice. Thanks.
Fantastically talented in your analytics and alanhsis.
Kev, why are you so good and just?
Be blessed!
The minute you ask what you are to a Man, I think that's when you've lost your value. Cause WHY, at the first place should you ask him what you are to him, what is that "PICK ME" dynamic ?😓 Cause I really don't get it. He the one that should come to you, and then, it will be up to YOU now to accept or not.
Ladies, you should behave yourself according to the type of relation you guys are having, you set the boundaries.
You can't Kiss or hook up with him while you're only friends honestly🤷♀️.
Please🙏🏽, behave as a Lady, cause men know only what they want and don't care about the reste.
So you should respect yourself and everyone else will.
That wasn't the question in any of the three questions that Kevin suggested. Rewind. It's all good.
@@DrMargoLomaxD RIGHT !!!!!🤣🤣❤️💯
@Sweet Lady please tell me what part if the vid this is. Also, when you said women can't be kissing and hooking up if they're just friends. Does this mean if ladies just met a guy, or ???? 🤔
Great questions and advice, Kev! 👍🏿👍🏿
Great information thank you!!
Thank you Kev I truly appreciate it
Omg the first question off rip is a game changer wow!!!!!
He's the one asking all the serious questions and when he can commit to a relationship is the one, while sharing you to everyone that's important to him like his family/friends. Period.
Thank you for the word God bless you AMEN
Best advice yet dude
10:04👌...
"use observation as your, discernment"
Very Good Tips here
Taking notes 🧐 📝
These questions are awesome.
Gold questions- thank you so much. Look forward to the next videos :)
Don’t mis the next 3. It gets increasingly hard to answer.
Damn Kev, catching up on your videos after being M.I.A for school, I needed this! Will use this now I plan on dating again.
I love your videos!
Good questions!
Love the Leo in the back! I'm a Leo!💋🥰❤
I love your contents Kev. You're dope.
Thank you kev
Great words.
very informative🙏
Thank you so much!
WORD!!!!!!
Right on TIME Kev thanks😂*insert Birdmans hands*
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Excellent!
Great tip
Haha, communication chemistry. ❤️
Wow thank you!
Very helpful