Huge Sign a Guy is Serious about Getting to Know You | Dating red flag that women need to watch for
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- Huge Sign a Guy is Serious about Getting to Know You | Dating red flag that women need to watch for
This is a huge sign a guy is serious about getting to know you or that he likes you. Pay close attention to how available a guy is to you. Is he willing to make time to see you and be flexible about when you hang out. A man who knows what he wants moves with purpose. He doesn’t have as much rigidity around when he wants to see you. His only requirement is that he sees you. He wants to be in your company. Unlike men who just try to booty call you at night. A man who is looking for more will spend non sexual time at anytime, even if that means getting breakfast instead of dinner
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"Not one day since I met her, have we not talked"...this pretty much says it all. I've heard other men say this happening when they met their wife. Men who want you keep in touch no matter the schedule. Thanks for this important message Kevin.
This type of men we want!🙌 I hope everyone finds him and the waiting is worth it 😬😃
That point struck me to the core also. Kev reminded me of my husband, who is no longer with us, from day one he made a point to either talk to me. When we got serious serious he then made a concerted effort to actually SEE me EVERY day!
I miss that guy!!❣😅
True, my husband and I talked on the phone/texted/saw eachother everyday when we first dated and we've been married for 10 years. He drives me crazy sometimes but I love him 🤷
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That and he said he would go to her house and nap, just to see her… That’s just….. damn….
Very true. When a guy is into you, especially early on, any free time he has, he’s trying to see you. Even if it’s for 30 minutes
Even for 15 minutes. And he will meet you even at 3 PM with his work uniform.
Well, if he has a low paying job, he has a lot more time to do that but if he has a higher paying job, he will be too busy.
“If he won’t meet you for tea time he don’t want your ass” Classic Kev I love it
You caught that too😂🤣😂😂 That was HILARIOUS 😂🤣🤣😂
What Kev is saying is real and makes complete sense. My husband and I, when we were dating, just wanted to be around each other. It didn't matter if we had the money for a sit-down dinner or enough to have two McDonald's burgers. Any moment or time we had we just wanted to be with each other.
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Men ask me where I want to go for our first date. I say Breakfast, not Lunch or Dinner. Breakfast is the first meal of the day.. I'll be ready at 9am for pancakes, bacon and eggs. Movie at 11am. Be home by 2pm. Second date lunch. Third date Dinner.
how does that work, when most people work in mornings?
@@zero1188 Weekends and/or days off work. Vacation day. Sick day. Holiday.
How the hell do you get men who even take you out? All I ever get are men trying to fuck me. IDEK why no one likes me for real.
Nice! I'm gonna try that too! ☺️
@@zero1188 So true Zero, people do work during morning hours, but not 24/7. Everyone takes a break sooner or later.
When he DOES for SURE you will know. If you’re CONFUSED he does NOT. PERIOD!
This video is so real! A man that likes you and that is interested in you is going to contact/ spend time with you every chance he get. N not just at night either. He gone make a way no matter what lol
He turns into a completely different person while talking about his wife…This is what I need right here.
My husband passed away 12 years ago. I’ve been dating now for over seven years. Most of the guys I met that is the first thing they will want is to go out during booty call hours. I just met someone recently. He is a security guard and he works nine hours and I work at home during the day Monday through Friday. The first date we had we went to Applebees after he took a nap and then went to play golf. The second date we had after he got off of work working a 12 hour shift. We went to Denny’s in the morning then went to the flea market. And he’s planning more dates. I can tell that he wants to get to know me. He has not made one sexual advances towards me. I am very flattered.
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Ladies please DONT confuse the two. Is he trying to get you sexually attracted to him , that’s temporary selfish on his part,lustful and superficial. . If he’s asking important questions, KEEPING his promises and dates, spending TIME with you even if it’s in small spurts, that means he’s looking for a deep meaningful long term relationship, maybe even marriage Ladies . Let’s get OUT of our emotions and look at his BEHAVIOR!
If a man does not value you during the daytime, teatime brunch-time under sunlight, he does not value you at all. Good word Kevin! Thank you.
A player can hang out with you in the day time, leave and go hang out with his side chick the same day.
This man's wife is so blessed!!!!
Yes she is
“ I don’t care where we go, I don’t care what we do, I don’t care pretty girl, just take me with you”. By Prince. That’s your song Kev! My husband talked to me at home or called me from work single everyday. We were together 22 years.
I don’t Care if we spend the night at your mansion, I don’t care if we spend the night on the town. All I want is to spend the night together, all I want is to spend the night in your arms💜💜💜💜💜
@@theinfamousninapink Lol, I take it this is the other part to Prince's song!
Damn..
A man who truely cares about you he will give you his available hours 💛
A I think a good thing to do as a woman, would be to think of how you’d like your relationship to be on a daily basis, and then except dates that are closer match to what you’d be doing in that type of relationship anyway. The relationship is not gonna be going out at night and being excited all the time, you want to be with someone who can do that sometimes but also be a stable, dependable, person.
That's stupid. On a daily basis in an established relationship, I want to hang out on the couch and watch some TV together, but you bet your sweet ass I'm not accepting that for a date.
Balance is required. You have to be willing to have experiences beyond the mundane in dating and relationships. The thing is...the mundane will not be appreciated without the effort going beyond those things. I WILL NOT DATE A MAN WHO ONLY WANTS TO DO EVERYDAY THINGS TOGETHER. Red flag that novelty or attempts of novelty to keep a relationship gping will be less prioritized
@@analyticalchick3064 well, I don't think it's stupid though. Hanging out and doing the mundane things still gives you insight on how it would be to be with them. And then of course you still do nice things while dating as well. Idk. Makes perfect sense to me.
I think you’re taking me WAY to literally. I don’t mean ALL dates have to be “boring/mundane”. I’m just saying be smart about how the dates make you perceive a man. Maybe suggest chill dates (on occasion) that leave room for conversation, getting to know him on a real level, rather than him being in a space all the time where the expectation from him is to try to impress you. Guys want to be accepted for who they are too, not just what they provide. Because, trust me, there is pressure on the man’s side to feel like he has to be and do in order to get women to like us, or take us seriously, or even get basic attention. This pressure affects the way men show up on dates- which usually takes them away from themselves because they’re too worried about how his date will see, and perceive them.
That is correct
Once upon a time my feelings would be hurt when Kev speaks but I've learned the lessons over the yrs so it doesn't hurt anymore.
Don't know you but I'm proud of you Sis‼️💖🙌🏾
@@TaliWho9 thanks hun, greatly appreciated 💕🤗
So you learnt your lessons then? That's marvellous. X
That's a sign of growth Abundance 26. So many people need advice, and when we learn, we do Better. Good for you hon👍🏽
@@traceycolvin0504 thanks hun 🤗💕
I worked 2nd shift 6pm-5 am was moved to 1st shift for a few months a guy that worked on first shift was always around me an would always talk to me, asked if I was ever going back to 2nd. I said yes, later on I found out he was leaving his position on 1st shift to be with me, his friend asked him if he was serious now we work together ❤
That's awesome! He knew what he wanted!! All the best!
The availability is the key.. That he is there always when you need them, no matter if its in public or at home, if he really is interested he will be there. A good sign is if you texts you in the morning and late at night, you are his first and last thought. ❤️
U can only be a booty call if U allow yourself to be one. If he’s calling late at night talking about coming over....don’t answer the phone or say “no sir” and leave it at that and mean it.
"I've spoken to my wife everyday that I've known her..." 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
A man who wants to build a friendship with you is who Kev is describing in a nutshell
Hearing about your relationship is such an inspiration because I pray to have a genuine connection like that. I hope one day we get to meet your wife because she sounds amazing. If not, of course your privacy is respected. Thanks for the gems Kev! 🙏🏽💎
He did a q&a with her once!! Look up “kev hicks couples q&a.” She’s super adorable and smart, it was a good q&a.
“ under the cloak of darkness “ 👹luv it!
This is true. My longest ex-til this day-tries to go out his way to spend time with me. We are friends now but he still has that urge to make room somewhere. I’ve found the same with other guys I’ve dated. It’s yet another reason why I firmly believe sex is not necessary to determine genuine interest. There are a number of other ways a genuine man will show it.
"We have NOT, not talk" UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. I love it!
This is good news for me. The guy that I’m dating is so sweet . We’ve had lunch and hangs out during the day with me. Not once had he disrespected me or even insinuated sexual conversations with me. We did an early hike on our second date … thank you 🙏 for your wisdom. I’m impressed on how young you are and giving words of wisdom to women.
Exactly kev that’s real I agree that has happen to me men want to meet me for breakfast tea or during lunchtime I like that it shows the realness in the person 💜🙏🏾
I agree, Just like us women if i guy is really trying to get to know you or is developing feelings for you he MAKES TIME to see you, talk to you ect...and it doesn't matter what time of day it is.
One guy on a dating app wrote "I'm not looking for someone to spend Friday night with. I'm looking for someone to spend all day Saturday and Sunday with."
I have purposely began turning my phone OFF or putting it on SILENT after 10 pm. Boy beh...
I love that you used you & your wife as an example 💗 I can hear the sincerity in your voice and see the seriousness in your eyes. I now know what signs to look for. Much gratitude Kev!
“When You Know Better, You Do Better,” Maya Angelou
Thank You
It’s so tricky though. Navigating men and honestly having to fight with them to get them to respect us can be challenging but in learning which guys want what. And I’m getting much better at protecting my space, time and energy and not wasting it on men who don’t want more than just sex.
It should never be challenging or a fight, love, to be respected, ever. If it is, I would suggest re-evaluation of that relationship or any potential ones reflecting the same (with anyone).
I'm glad you're learning to protect yourself more and more.👌🏾
Thank you 😊
@@kaleefstarks495 anytime! 🤗
@@Tkconnie Relationships are hard work. I don't care how easy people think it should be. It requires doing more than just showing up. If that's all you think you need to do than you'll be single for a very long time. No man wants a woman who merely just shows up. He wants a woman who matches his energy and effort. This idea that there is no effort to relationships is really entitled to be honest. Ladies, you got to work for it as much as us men have to as well. If you're not being challenged to do better, you're not mature enough to handle anything at all.
@@erikwelch18 you're not a dating coach and relationships are not that hard. Basically be mind, be loyal, don't be an abusive bum. I haven't been married a century but am on the way with multiple previous offers and long term relationships as well.
If a man won't meet you at tea time he don't want your ***. Thank is hardcore...LOL. Well said and so true. I honestly can not stop laughing. Briliant and thank you!
What he's saying is so true, my husband and I talked everyday when we were dating, I'm pretty sure our first "date" was jack in the box or something by my house but I didn't care I just wanted to be around him.
Hope you have not have kids with him because he won’t have enough money to pay for child support if he text you on your first date to Jack-in-the-Box.
Yeah, I don't do evening meet ups anymore... Especially in this "online" world... Meet me at Starbucks, where I can gulp down this coffee & escape to the nonexistent " zoom meeting" I have.... And if he is cool & we're enjoying each other, a quick glance at my phone let's me know my meeting has been "cancelled" if he wants to grab lunch. Yeah, I always have somewhere to be, I'm meeting friends for bday dinner, or my friend from college is in town, & I can't stay...ALL made up, so you can Squeeze me in for an afternoon stroll but you get me for just a small window of time... It's non-sexual & gives you an escape if things get weird.
This video is not just to the point, but so sweet!! Just to be around the person :)
I honestly thought this was me and something was wrong on my part but I just think alot of men have it too easy these days
As I've always told males and females, "A man/ woman will make time for what he/she truly wants".
I don't think talk every day means texting every day.
Am 30yrs and single,and after listening to this video😢 I wonder when a guy like you gine come along.... 😭😭
I recently just turned down 3 six pack abs guys who wanted to only meet me for a date at night or only at their time frame availability.
I said to all of them.
I'll meet you for a coffee at 1pm on a Sunday while the sun is out. How's that?
They got upset... LoL 🤣
You ain't getting in my pants that easy boy...
I met a guy at an event. That evening after the event he thought I should come hang out with him…no sir we just met. I don’t know you! I already knew what was on his mind. They try. I just hope enough of us turn them down during situations as this.
Oh Wow. Truth. I never saw it this way. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
I appreciate every video you make your helping me to continue to avoid men WHO are NOT serious. It's someone upsetting but at least I KNOW the signs
I know this unattractive player dude that I work with sometimes. And he's Always hollering at women. I'm like Damn bruh. This dude is relentless. SMH!
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Some where down the line someone gave him a shot , and now he feels he can get any woman. Let him have his ego.😉
@@traceycolvin0504 exactly 😂
Thank you for this ‘💪🏾 this guy only hung out with me after his work hours around 3am-5am then he would kick me out smh 🤦🏽♀️ I’m so done and I’m upset at myself
Agree with everything you said here 🙌🏼
Mr Hick, you are an awesome person. I love your "old soul". God bless you for your realness. Love your channel.❤️👍
Love this advice - straight to the point zero sugar coating !!! Thank you!!!
Thank you for this beautiful Video. I feel like you met your twinflame. So happy for you guys. My Divine Masculine is acting the right way, the way you said. First day we hung out we spend 30 hours together! Its like he didn't want to let me go 😂♥️🙏🌹 Time for texting doesnt matter to him, before work, during work, after work. 🔥🥺☺️
This summed up my entire ex relationship. I want to be valued.
You said that...💯% facts
Yes 🙌🏽
Attraction and genuinely interested… this is very critical. He will make time… this is a red flag 🚩
Spot on as usual Kev. Keep them coming!
This was REAL TALK. Thank you for saying the truth. You're a 100% right. Never again with these low standards.
This video bring the tears every time!
Thank you, Kev for the information and sharing your beautiful experience of how made time for your then girlfriend and now wife. In every relationship, especially in dating sacrificing time to be with your potential mate is important and both parties have to share that responsibility. 😊
Talk every day since they met, but today, if you reach out to a guy every day or every two days, - suddenly every man thinks you're too thirsty or too available all the time.
Not exactly the vibes you want to give off. Very very rare for a guy to reach out to a woman every day today because there's social media and distractions. Instagram is new. half of this generation met their interest before instagram exploded and they are solid relationships.
Today, if you so much respond too much to a guy too much 2 weeks in a row, consistently, he'll think you're too available and have no options.
Its the " its not what we do while we together, but the time that we are together" for me 👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻
“The cloche of darkness” tickled me! 😂😂
It’s weird how my man and me met lol it was closing time at the bar and he came up to me and ever since we have been around each other and he isn’t just for booty he likes going to breakfast and loves the time we spend together.
Kevin, I love your advice even if sometimes it is hard to hear! Could you make a video for women 35 (+) that had to learn these lessons and now are losing hope that it’s too late and that nobody wants them due to their age?
A young wealthy guy said he would commit to Jada Pinkett Smith's mom! Happily. Do not worry about your age. Work out an hour a day, wear dresses, smile at men or make eye contact. Let them be right about things the first few weeks, like if they say the sky is orange. Learn that you are attractive and kind. You'll pull someone well.
A 56 year old married a man 18 years her junior. Do not worry, just he cute and kind and not naive even if you pretend to be to them. So no sex til commitment. Marriage if ya want. Men have married women within a day or month. They often know within 6 to 12 months. All it takes is going down to the courthouse. .... 🧡🧡🧡
Look a little girly. A little friendly sometimes. Eye contact may feel electric yet really works if you can hold it that second. Then maybe shy smile and look away and he will likely come up to you and speak if he's available.
All TRUTH. Sadly, I have NEVER EVER met a man like that who wants to "know me and grow with me"
This is great content I’m here for it… it helps out a lot Everytime been here with Kev speak him not knowing he dealing with all the headaches just by telling the truth and not sugar coating anything not trying to go for one particular human being but speaking for women and men I think that we sometimes needs that and this is my outlet I listen to the video and critique what’s going on in my life to match what I need and what’s good for Jess thanks Kev and that’s a fact!!!
Funny because I can't even get them for the coffee lol
Exactly same here!
@@julianamendez7311 Lets have coffee then lol
1. flexible with your schedule. no need to meet next to bed time
Also be careful about those that only talk during the day and never at night. If you’re unavailable after 6 consistently then you might be married or already seeing someone. My motto is if your single especially single with no kids you should be available pretty much anytime 🤷🏽♀️
Hi, Kev! Would you discuss genuine love vs. love bombing?
I know you and your wife have a healthy relationship, but there are a lot of conmen and narcissists out here who use constant contact to manipulate you.
How can we tell which one is which?
He did a video on it. Search for the topic KEV HICK LOVE BOMBING EXPLAINED a 6:58 min long video
And also 3 love bombing statements to ignore
@@certifiedslay2469 which ones are they?
@@IVvOOvVI I am not sure what you are referring to when you said "which ones are they?"
Thank you Kev as always great content! I needed this message
Thank you
Thanks a lot Kev this is exactly what I needed to hear. This gent that I was with only called me whenever he wanted to hit it & we always met at night, (his reason being he's working during the day). We would go weeks without speaking but when we did he would tell me he loves me & I feel so stupid for believing him. I recently blocked him & he didn't even notice until I confronted him about it.
“Hanky panky “ hahaha That reminded me of something Mr Roper would say.
I know. That was cute! 😂😂😂
Wonderful channel 👏 ❤ 😀 🙌
‘Not just your orifices’. LOL. Sad but true. Love your wise words. Quality coaching. Thank you.
Or say if her mom is going in for surgery and you call him crying saying can you come to sit with me, and you drop everything just to be by her side. I would think that is a serious sign. As long as I was with her.
Thank you Big brother for your advice.❤️❤️
100% Correct I totally concur.
I had a man doing this.. calling me everyday and wanting to hang out EVERY DAY.. doing anything or nothing at all. And I still couldn't trust it. Idk what's wrong with me.. smh
Funny how women distrust focus and select indifference. Then wonder how their self esteem got so shaky. Not you per say but this is common. Chasing the guy who takes a whole day to return a text and distrusting the guy waiting on theirs. 🤦🏽♂️
@@KevHick yes, it is so sad. We hung out every day practically and I've been so hurt by others that I still asked myself if he really did care. Was this just an act? It's just a shame.
Sounds like you have a low self-esteem and some issues yourself
" You're so crazy." 😁
So true! 😻 Thank you Kevin 💕
Where do we find men like you
Yes! Absolutely Correct! Thank you! Amen!
Thank you Kevin🙏🏽👏🏽excellent advice ❤
He’s got 2jobs, but I wanna see him still put in the effort.
I needed to hear this!
I believe it’s true,I found out that my boss whos also my friend likes me,we have mutual work friends and he’s been trying to get to know me if I’m waiting on my ride to pick me up,he will stay as long as it takes for it to get there (the longest it took was 40min) and he told me that if it was anybody else,I wouldve been like bye and leave and he looked at me and said that and he asked questions to know me and more recently he’s been trying to be near me even more
when a guy likes you hell get to know u as a friend which later will become a love partner
thank you Kev
Kev thanks for this great advice I’m developing much more self respect blessings from Emma in the UK 🇬🇧
Thank you Kev for this message 😊
However, many are judging through a damaged lens. There’s no such thing as perfection and most people in this world are recovering over something. An unwillingness to have patience and properly communicate can lead a person down a long and lonely road, so take heed at the way you weed out those that The Lord has put in your path.
StraightupFacts and on point my brother!! Loving this education!!🙌
Excellent post. Thank you
This is the never get swing again channel ❤
Pow Wow!!!! Lovingly honest!🙌🏾💯💯💯
That,s ur calling brother ,u are good teacher .
You are the brother I never had. Thank you Kev!
This happened to me and I cut him off, he even tried to contact me when his partner was 7 mths pregnant. I didn't respond.
The big brother I never had: Kev! ❤
How nice what a beautiful story Thank you for sharing.🥰💕
Yes, a mans voice sounds more tempting at night.