Bill Burr is a gem. One of the last old school comedians. I’m glad that he’s willing to question societal norms and (most importantly) start a discussion.
@@cjboyer4355 u are right. BUT Bill's genius is that he knows how to walk the perfect line in this very PC climate that no one tries to CANCEL him. He is vulgar and honest but does it in a way that both left and right may want to find something to complain about....but they just cant put their finger on it so they all laugh together! That is pure GENIUS! He is hysterical!
@@daymondcenteno6066 No one tries to cancel him? 😂 You must not know the history behind Bill Burr. They’ve tried to cancel him multiple times, but like Dave Chappell they both just don’t care. 😂 So cancel culture has given up. They’ll always pop up and give a useless attempt every time either two drops a special but like usual, they’ll fail. Dave and Bill are untouchable because they don’t care about being cancelled. 😂
As an abused ex-husband, she pulled a knife on me and tried to kill me because she was drunk and I was being nice, I agree with Mr. Burr and his solution is bang on. I'm still alive because my ex-wife didn't realize what serving in the Canadian Army had done for me. My present wife is a wonderful woman who would never resort to violence.
I'm in a wheelchair and my ex would hit me when she didn't get her way and I'd cover up then roll away. One night she started hitting me and backed me in the corner where I couldn't get away. I covered up but she just kept punching me so I half strength punched her in the stomach to get her off me. Needless to say she never hit me again.
@Darkstar it goes both ways... if men knew what they were getting into, then abused women are also knew what they were getting into.... You just ignored the red flags for some dicks and they reaped what they sowed.
@Darkstar Not true, I've personally witnessed relationships that start off great, and at a point one of them becomes abusive. It's more common then you think. People can hide things, its not that hard to do. There isn't always red flags right away.
@@MrSkullHead1250 yeah...even relationship with same gender takes time to know who truely is...people can hide their true personality even for years...and people who hide their personalities so well, they manage to hide till the extreme situation comes out.
Nobody speaks more truth than Bill Burr, they sound like jokes because he frames them humorously and delivers truth with top tier comedic skill. Make no mistake, the man has a lot to say and gets his points across masterfully on very touchy subjects that the majority are afraid to talk about.
She also misses that injury and illness are different things. Basically when we are sick with something that MIGHT be infectious, we take it more seriously since it can impact the people around us. If we know it's an injury or something that can't spread to other people, we try to tough it out as best we can.
Just as a note, bill burr is 100% supportive of reaction videos so long as it’s not his most recent standup that’s out right now. So you don’t need to cut it up too much with his stuff. Just appeal the strike! :)
@@Lurch685what? He still is making bank on it with the platforms his specials are on and him touring/selling merch. We're not talking reacting to the whole special but bits from it
He is so spot on with almost everything he says. It's sad that abuse to one degree or another is so present in so many relationships. And women are ruthless when arguing, another thing they do when their position is weak is to trot out every last thing you've ever done wrong even though they may have said in the past that they've forgiven it. They have an incredibly long memory, I can't imagine the level of abuse that they can spill out after 40 or 50 years in a marriage.
It’s so fucking crazy this unhealthy, emotionally immature shit is so prevalent and normalized. Not how you conduct a relationship. But we just say “oh it’s a women thing”, or “oh that’s just a man thing”. Shit like this makes me very hesitant on trusting a women to get into a relationship with. I do my best to be as conscientious, and selective when dating, which I know is what one should do, I just wish there was more of a wider net to cast
My relationship don't last long for this reason. I was raised by women exclusively, and I've got a feminine mentality and memory, I argue the same way they do, plus I add in facts and evidence. I have NEVER lost an argument, but I will say, I've had plenty of break ups for that reason alone. Women I've met can't stand having their tactics turned on them. If they consistently lose arguments, they run from the relationship.
"Is it typical?" I waited three days before going to the doctor with what turned out to be a broken wrist because I didn't think it hurt that bad. It wasn't until I couldn't get the swelling to go down that I saw the doctor.
I had to heal a broken wrist on my own because I couldn't afford to have a pin put in it. Glad it turned out that way because I'd have a piece of metal in me now.
Had the open end of a cattle gate (round tube construction) come down on my knee as I fell while carrying it. My knee was screaming but I walked it off since there was no blood. Toughed it out. For two weeks. The swelling finally went down and I could feel two little pieces of bone sliding around under the skin and had a chip out of my kneecap where they came from. Guys can walk off stuff that makes women faint, but a mother will clean up absolutely anything.
I remember a joke about how the Irish are extremely liberal. " I have been to Ireland, those guys are so far to the left they drive their cars on the wrong side of the road." You might get this joke, but I wouldn't bet on it.
I find him funny... but also, looking at the relationships around me, find him to be telling the truth. So many men I know went from happy, active men... to just getting their job done and dragging through life, after getting married. Also, I haven't seen a doctor in years because usually the issue goes away before I get in for my appointment. And for more immediate issues, I have to think it will last longer than half a day to consider the emergency room. Nail in my hand, emergency room. Possibly ankle sprain, just rest, and hope it isn't a sprain. Strange, sharp pain in my gut... hope it is indigestion, and not my appendix exploding. (I hear it is very painful, but I won't know how much until it happens to me. But it might not happen.) But yeah, he has a point with the 'ask questions'. I've seen the footage of a social experiment. They had a man yelling at a woman, and people would look concerned or even step in. But, when they reversed it, and had the woman hitting the man, passersby just carried on or encouraged it. Their explanation as to why they thought she was right, was that they figured he probably did something to deserve it. So basically, women can full on beat men with near impunity... where men will be shamed and ostracized, or even treated as criminals, by raising their voice (or even, just because a woman claims he did something).
Same here , haven’t seen a doctor in years . Whatever pain I feel it will eventually go away . Maybe the way I was raised , maybe I’m gen x , I don’t know I just feel like going to a doc it’s a pain in the neck and I don’t feel like , unless and off course , there are some red flags pointing at my heart or brain . Then it’s just a survival thing . However I do know men who would make an scene out of a cold . But really not that many .
@@gabrielclements69 I think people in general as a whole avoid the doctor as much as possible, men definitely more so. She is definitely used to being around a much younger generation though who are completely different people.
@@SSchithFoo Who cares that you didn't read it? If you don't read something because it is too long for you, just move on. No need to waste time mentioning it. TS;DL
I have been watching Bill Burr and I've been enjoying his comedy. He's kind of telling jokes in the same vein that Dave Chappelle has. He's very unapologetic and I think that's why both men and women are actually listening and laughing at his jokes. You should hear his rant on women and Feminists failing the WNBA, it's pretty good.
There are some similarities in their comedic style, in that they both claim to be telling something true that people don't talk about. But there is a huge difference now. Bill Burr knows that what he's saying might come across as defending domestic violence, so he cuts that off at every single point. He also self-deprecates. And if you listen to him in interviews, he never gets upset if someone finds his comedy offensive. And he does actually apologize when he realizes he didn't get across what he wanted. Dave Chappelle knows that several of his jokes have come across as transphobic. He doubles down and makes a whole special on that. He brings up every single hateful stereotype about trans people, and even says he's "pro-TERF" (which is like saying he's pro-KKK). And then, when the majority of the LGBT community finds him offensive, he goes on about how he's the real victim. And do remember that bigotry is not just offensiveness. It's genuinely harmful. If you're pushing the idea that your comedy is uncomfortable truths and push all the stereotypes, you are making the world worse for those people. Saying I'm offended by bigotry is like saying I'm offended by murder or rape or theft or whatever. Yeah, I am, but that's not the reason I oppose it.
@@turkeypedal you missed the mark completely on Chappelle. I assume it's because you don't understand comedy at all. Dave Chappelle isn't on stage telling lies at the expense of trans people. he is on stage telling jokes that are based on truth. they are jokes! trans people are not levitating above the rest of us to the point that they are free from criticism or the ability to joke about them. when he says he is terf, it's a joke LOL trans people came at him hard so he went right back at them. they couldn't take one joke so now they're going to take a million. the dude is bulletproof. get over it
I also like Daniel Tosh's joke about this stuff. "There is NO reason? What if you come home from a long day at work and your wife has drowned two of your kids? She's about to dunk the third one in, can you run over and pop her then? 'Unfortunately, no. There's no excuse. Gonna have to let her drown that third one.' What if you ask her to DVR the game but she forgets to record the half-hour show afterwards just in case it goes into overtime? The POINT is there's a grey area!"
@@maciek8159 it's not about sports.. it's about these overpaid glorified assholes who contribute nothing to society being treated like saviors of the world.
Lmao, i think people missed the part where this whole post is the full joke from tosh and the sports part. I remember this joke from him and it was how I thought about the whole "no reason for domestic violence."
Diane, my wife and I have been married nearly 29 years. We've never hit or yelled at one another. As a consequence our daughters grew up never seeing us fight. Neither one of drinks or likes confrontation, which may be part of it.
In my experience men do not seek medical assistance unless it could-possibly-maybe-might be life threatening. I can't tell you how many times I finally went to a doctor and they said, "Why didn't you come in earlier?" What, you never met a MAN before? 😄
In my experience men treat injuries VERY differently to an unknown illness. Because the unknown illness could be contagious so we are more likely to make a bigger deal of it.
I’ve actually seen this routine before and found it hilarious. It’s way too accurate 🤣🤣. I truly appreciate you Diane. Hope you and the crew have a wonderful week.
Yes, men not getting some injury looked at is a typical guy thing. There are a few instances where this isn't true but with most physical injuries a guy is going to be inclined to shrug it off and maybe take some aspirin.
@@edwardofgreene That's a part of it for some guys, but I think just being tough is most of it honestly. That and not wanting to use time on it. Even if I thought someone would PAY me money to go to the doctor it would be difficult to convince me to do so unless it's an actual substantial amount.
the 2 worst kinds of pain humans can experience is pain in the spine, or pain in the intestines. the body is specifically designed to NOT shut down or shut off pain receptors for those 2 types of pain. intestinal death is considered much worse than child birth because you can actually survive for a few days with it happening. but you will be in immense pain for it. the body will not shut down pain receptors or really allow you to pass out for it because it cant, the majority of your intestines are actually blood vessles, so if it shuts down, your circulatory system does, which of course kills you, thats why your body wont.
As for guys and pain, it depends on the guy. Absolute true story: I hit my arm with a chainsaw once. Miraculously, I did not hit any bone or major blood vessels. And shockingly, it did not hurt immediately, probably the combination of shock and adrenaline. The only reason I called the ambulance was because I knew for a fact I could not close that wound up competently by myself and I knew a wound that large would likely develop a nasty (and medically very serious) infection. I clenched my teeth all the way through the 2 layers of stitches just fine. Although I nearly punched the EMT when they doused my wound with saline. That freaking HURT!
It's important to know the difference between being tough and straight up stupid... even though most guys would "walk off" minor injuries they know to seek medical attention if it's actually necessary.
There's a huge difference between injury and illness for a guy as well. Most guys will act tough about an injury but fewer bother to do so with some unknown illness that may or may not be contagious.
Great video Diane. On the topic of men and doctors: men really hate being ill and will whine and cry about it because there’s really nothing that can make them feel better except sympathy. Injuries however, they will struggle through past the point of rational thinking. Example: I had a cyst inside of my spine pressing on the spinal cord for 2 years. The doctor said he was surprised that I could still walk
Bill Burr says things that everyone thinks, but people are afraid to say. I love it. That is what a stand-up comedian should be. People with senses of humor will always understand, and for those without senses of humor, well... Also, E.D. getting extra saucy this week! Awesome!
Respectfully, I don’t agree it’s accurate to say “people with a sense of humour”. Humour is very subjective and the world would be a very dull place if we all liked the same things.
@@DianeJennings I see your point, and I do agree that humor is subjective. There are certain comedians some of my friends find funny that I do not. Dane Cook for example. I guess what I mean when I say, "People with a sense of humor," is more towards this fairly new impetus to "cancel" comedians with whom you may disagree or don't find funny. Even if I don't think Dane Cook is funny, I'd never try to cancel the man. I simply don't pay him any mind, either way. That's the way it used to be in the world, and not just for stand-up comedians. I'm hopeful we return to that relative homeostasis soon.
Bill Burr always gives me a good laugh. I’ve been in some bad situations and sometimes get triggered but the way he does it makes you laugh and think. It is an awesome way to look at life situations with a twist of dark humour
You have to differentiate between being sick and being injured. Yes. We do tend to absolutely _hate_ being SICK. But _physical_ injuries are another matter. I once went back to bed after breaking my toe while letting the dog out in the dark at 3 am.. I went right back to sleep after only a few minutes. Went to the nearby medical center the _next day_ to have the broken toe set.
I only found out that I had broken my toes years later when I went to the doctor for something else and foot x-rays showed that both big toes had been broken at some point.
@@DianeJennings not with good ol’ Billy boy. A video Once a month and you’ll see more clicks I bet you. One of my favorites if not favorite comedians. I’m not alone. He’s one of the best out there now.
I'm an American and I don't know a single man that goes to a doctor even when it's obvious they need to. I have a broken thumb right now. I haven't gone to the doctor nor will I. It will heal itself. This is likely one of the reasons why women live longer. BTW Bill is one of the best comedians alive.
Loved that reaction Diane! Never argued with an Irish woman before but if it's anything like arguing with an American woman you do not drop the C-word unless you are prepared for war beacuse she is coming for your soul like a banshee from Irish folklore. 💀☘
A reaction video from the Dating beyond borders channel might fun. Would be interesting if you agree with the channel's assessment, "You know you're dating an Irish Man/ woman..."
On that doctor thing, I have a ridiculously high pain tolerance. I could be screaming and swearing in pain, or breaking down in tears from how bad it is and /still/ refuse to see a doctor in case it wasn't anything serious. It took having my necks range of motion limited by pain and stiff muscles to even consider making a doctors appointment.
"She's banging the next door neighbour, hands you divorce papers. You have to sleep ona futon while still paying for the house that she stays in." "A traditional marriage" Yep, I agree. 😁
To be honest, I'd rather they actually did complain instead of dishing out the emotional abuse that they do. "If I'm miserable, you have to be miserable." At least if they complained, you could sympathize and express some supportive feelings instead of having to keep your cool through monster time.👿
There is an unspoken fact in one of his statement's that really needs to be said, because it's the true core of the problem. "When they are wrong, they go rogue." What is left unsaid there is a truth so bad it cannot be spoken, yet that heckler said it out loud and was misunderstood: "It's her right [as to why you can't ask questions about these situations]." Why not? Very simple: in the mind of modern feminism, even for the more moderate or conservative, in a woman vs man scenario THE WOMAN CANNOT BE WRONG. EVER. How can we ever hope to have a stable society with such an imbalance? We can't, that's why we're falling apart so fast. Only in fires of harsh reality where we have to depend on each other honestly or die will we start to recover the man and woman relationship as its meant to be. Until then, men will have to stay away or study their hopeful brides to the point of insanity to ensure they aren't compromised like that. I pray its not too late, because I am lonely, but not that lonely.
Bill Burr is hilarious. Men tend to be one extreme or the other re injury and sickness, depending on how they were raised. My mom was a pediatric nurse, so we were never allowed to be sick. She spent 8 hours a day taking care of sick kids so she'd be damned if she was going to take care of me too. Once in a blue moon I would go to school with the flu, the school would send me home, and Mom would get mad at me.
I remember asking my mom please can I go to the doctor; my friends all say my finger looks green and broken? On the way there: "You better hope it's broken because if I pay for this doctor visit and it's not, I'm gonna break it FOR you!" Ah, the good old days lol
He's right about the argumentative tactics, it isn't fair, but fair isn't the point. People should not become violent as a result of a relationship conflict, but men are held accountable for doing it, and typically women are not. Women are just as fallible capable of being in the wrong as men, but there are no limitations to how far they can push things whether they are right or wrong in the context of the arguement. I was in an arguement once where I was being verbally badgered to say the exact words that she wanted me to say when they weren't true, and the conflict was becoming so heated that all I wanted to do was take a walk to cool off and return to address the points of contention with a level head, but I think she didn't want me to be able to make a case for my perspective, she wanted submission to her correctness even though she knew she was wrong, right then and there. We each had our own work rooms, and this fight began in mine. There was only one doorway out and it was on the 3rd floor. When I moved to step out, she stepped in front of the doorway, knowing that If I moved her out of the way to get to safety, the patriarchy and society would rain fire on me. I asked to move, she said no. I told her to move, she said or what? I then backed up into the corner of the room and leaned my back against the wall, put my head down and stopped responding. I went into a fortress in my head to lock the situation down so it couldn't escalate any further and ruin my life.. She berrated me for 5-10 minutes and told me to just say it, and eventually she went into her work room and slammed the door. A woman can fight as dirty as she wants with no real limitation to maintain the illusion of their infallible correctness, and we can do nothing but leave, and sometimes, we cannot leave. Imagine if I had jumped out of the window? I still would've been viewed as the dangerous, unstable, and unhinged one.
You bring up a great point but you handled a really tough situation well. I had a girlfriend punch me in the ear while I was sleeping defenselessly on the floor at her parent's house. I guess she wanted to talk and I was asleep at 4am. She also hit a guy once at my apartment but all I saw was him hitting her back, so I punched the guy and threw him out the door. I broke off our engagement and left altogether soon after. Women can definitely be totally in the wrong and even violent, and it may not be fair, but sometimes what you did is our only choice.
When I was younger, I got really drunk, fell down a bunch of stairs and fractured both my legs. I thought I had really bad leg cramps, so I self medicated with Mr. Daniels. The next day went to medical when my legs looked terrible and the corpsmen were like are you stupid? LOL!
Well, weren't your legs still fractured in the morning? So what was the rush? When I was a kid (about 8) I was racing dogs with a neighbor. But since our dog tended to run off if he ever got off the leash, we kept a leash on 'em while racing. I got pulled off my feet and fell, hitting my forearm an iron locator cap for a residential waterline. Sure, my arm was sore, but it didn't feel that bad. Mom, though, had to freak out about it and take me to the hospital. I'd fractured a bone in my forearm, so I got stuck wearing a cast for a couple months.
@@flatebo1 I was in 8th grade and I fractured my wrist playing football before swim practice. I thought I was just sore so I kept practicing the whole rest of the week. I finally realized when we were doing push-ups and my arm physically wouldn’t support my weight
Injury and illness are two VERY different things, as any guy will tell you. When it comes to injury, yes guys act tough. When it comes to illness, we don't. Partly because if it's infectious you can actually impact other people with it, and that's something worth taking seriously. Still we often don't actually go to the hospital oftentimes we just sleep all day and be lazy to let the illness pass.
Swear there was a study a while back that showed "man flu" is actually a real thing lol. Something about the differences in our bodies that makes flu hit men harder.
Whenever I had a fight with my ex, while she went out, I would go around a torque down all the food jars (as a soldier and construction worker my grip strength is pretty good). I also have a fairly good memory, so if the argument got really nasty, I would bring up every single time she made a complete ass of herself (e.g., vomiting everywhere because she got drunk at reunion). It was also handy to have her family on my side most times. I remember hearing her father chastise her for her behavior on several occasions. The moment she got that ring, a demon took over. I was smart enough to insist a prenup, so when she left she got no more than the agreement.
@@donshifty I was the one who officially broke it off, as I caught her with another guy. I had suspicions, so I hired a private investigator to track her movements while I was gone working on a pipeline for a few months. He got a ton of pictures.
John "Bonzo" Bonham was the drummer for Led Zeppelin. He is easily in the top five best drummers of all time according to many, many musicians. And many of them consider him to be the GOAT ( Greatest Of All Time) of Rock and Roll/Blues drummers. Often imitated, never duplicated.
Studies have demonstrated that INTELLIGENT people have the ability to separate issues from irony and the humorous dynamic of a joke/bit based on some controversial or socially unacceptable situation. Those who focus on the visceral hatred and anger coming from the emotionally offensive or disgusting environment of a joke instead of seeing the bigger picture humor in it are what create the "easily offended Karens" of the world. A very good example of this concept can be found THROUGHOUT Mel Brooks' production of BLAZING SADDLES. Intelligent people love the humor in the movie. Others are offended by the language and situations throughout that movie.
I had appendicitis for a very long time, and I would get severe pain in my lower abdomen. I would just shrug it off and think I'm constipated or something AHAH. It wasn't until the third episode that I realized maybe something is wrong XD. Found out that I was mere moments from my appendix busting. So I don't think I fall under the ''complain about everything'' category lol.
I had a small fracture in my shoulder, just some of that athletic tape so it wouldn’t move and continued with my 16 hr/7days per week shift. She’s talking about Irish guys, she’s right they hella dramatic 😂
That was a good reaction video I can relate to what he says about how women act when losing an argument. My first wife would come up with the argument that because I was wrong about something totally unrelated years ago, I am, therefore, wrong now.
Times I have gone to the hospital: - Allergic reactions - After a grand mal seizure - For severe abdominal pains, resulting in gallbladder removal - Food poisoning (with nausea and vomiting lasting more than a week) That's it. Times I didn't go to the hospital, but probably should have: - Fell off a 14 foot wall and injured my ankle (hurt for about a week or so) - Broke a rib play wrestling with a friend (pretty sure I broke it anyway, it took like a month to stop hurting) - Got bit on the butt by a pit bull - Got bit on the calf by the same pit bull on a different occasion (part of this wound bled on and off for about two weeks, I obviously should have gotten stitches) - Got hit by a car while jay walking and nearly blacked out There's more, most of it embarrassing, so I'll leave it there. Point is: the guys you've been around are clearly pansies, because don't for one second think I'm some macho alpha male. I'm not. I'm a scrawny, 5'5" (that's about 165cm), barely 100 lbs. (45kg) manlet. Being physically tough and resilient is normal for guys. At least that's how it was when I was growing up, and obviously when Bill Burr was growing up as well, and I'm like 13 years younger than him. I don't know what to say about your experience. It is what it is, but it's not in alignment with mine. Pansies, I say.
Its not pansies just rich or cheap healtcare i guess, as some one like me who is poor and live where getting 1st aid treatment in hospital mean paying 1/2 of your monthly salary, i better rub some ointment put a band aid and shake it off....lol
@@fahmiluthfi7991 Money was never even a consideration in my decisions whether I decided to go to the hospital or not. That sucks that it has been for you though.
The ultimate 'walk it off' was performed by Theodore Roosevelt: In 1912, he was about to give a speech when a crazy man came up and shot him in the chest. First Roosevelt stopped the crowd from beating the man to death then, after the police took the man away, went on to give his 90-minute speech.
Canada: C*nt is overrated in the 'extremely frowned upon' category. Diane: "Irish men throw that word out too much" Australia: It's a brand name and it's an official everyday normal word.
"Typical guy thing" is FOR SURE to sleep it off. I once broke both feet and a rib while cliff diving and waited till the next day to go to the hospital.... (maybe it's and American thing though)
Not just American, same applies to most men in England and it doesn't cost us anything to go to A&E. It's really not a good trait though, ends up being detrimental to your health..
@@donnaroberts281 Definitely not a rule set in stone, seems to be more common with men though. Most of the women I know are much more sensible when it comes to their health lol.
Years ago, Chris Rock did a comedy special (Don't recall which one) where he did his own version of this exact topic... He stated, correctly, that there is a reason to kick an old man down a flight of stairs, YOU JUST DON'T DO IT!!!
Sickness is different than injury. It's been proven that illnesses tend to hit men a good bit harder than women. I've broken a hand and a foot on the job (basically construction) and kept working without taking time off. Hand one time and foot another. But the flu? It's almost killed me a couple times. Couldn't get off the floor for days straight. I didn't even have it that bad. Just could not function with a fever. I think it has to do with temperature regulation and women being more susceptible to being hot or cold with environment.
This is true. I've been hurt at work (firefighter) several times, to varying degrees. If at all possible, I just deal with it and go on as usual. But a virus will knock me on my ass and keep me there for days, where my wife will get the same bug with the same symptoms and just go about her business. Admittedly, I usually try to hide my injuries from my wife because of her tendency to lose her mind when I get hurt (and she's bilingual, so she stops speaking English altogether when she's really pissed).
I've heard that woman are more resistant to symptoms of sickness due to their bodies being different and stronger immune systems for carrying children, kinda made sense to me that women would've been less effected Because of that, but I only heard it I'm not sure if it's something that's been proven
Growing up, my mom's near-universal reaction to any ailment my sister and I had was "let it go a few more days, and if it's not better by then, we'll see a doctor". Wasn't a financial decision; it was more just an acknowledgement that sometimes our bodies do dumb things that go away in a day or two.
In my experience it depends on what is the cause of the uncomfortability in a man that determines whether or not he goes to a hospital. If it is pain, generally speaking, no. If it is general illness like the flu, then yeah, he just falls apart. Apparently though, there is some genetic difference between men and women where women handle illness better but injury worse and vice versa.
Its because women genetically generally have a better immune system. If memory serves its because of the female reproduction system that gives that boost to the immune system.
Seriously? I've been in pain and saying nothing about it for much of my life. Why? Well, when I was younger it was usually because I did something dumb or because an accident happened. But I wasn't going to make a big deal about it because I didn't want to be seen as weak, which society hates you for being. For example, I broke a bone in my foot at martial arts in college and walked the two and a half miles to the car on it because I was expected to be tough. So I was tough. I still do my best to be tough because I'm tired of being called names and belittled when I'm not tough and I even mention being in pain and someone tells me I don't know what pain is. No? I've got an untreated lower spinal injury that makes walking and climbing stairs painful and difficult, but I do it as best as I can so no one knows. Both my wrists got crunched in a bad fall so my wrists and the first three fingers of each hand are a combination of numb AND in pain most of the time. Plus, I can barely use my left thumb at all because of the damage and my right thumb isn't much better. But I generally say nothing about it because if I mention that I'm hurting even in passing I usually get told by some woman that I'm being a baby. Even without knowing what's wrong, I'm just being a baby. And here we have Diane, who I adore (for the most part) classifying me and others like me with the men who maybe are too quick to be dramatic over something minor. That does bother me. And I think it's reasonable to be bothered by this.
And as the guy who is going to be what Bill Burr fears and hates (as much I do) I'm thinking it's worth it rather than being in an abusive relationship (which I was but I can't have been because I'm a straight guy and they're the abusers not the abused) or with a woman who diminishes and demeans me if I'm human. I'm just hoping I can afford a nice basement.
Diane, your experience with men in pain is my experience with women in pain. Women I've known complain when: 1) that time of the month comes around, and the complaints last for the better part of a week, one time lasted 2 weeks (the complaints and attendant attitude, not the actual event) 2) an injury occurs, complaints and talk of needing to go to the ER or see a doctor start up Now, when I had cracked my right kneecap, the doctor said to stay off of it as much as possible. My ex was there when it was said and told the doctor that she would help with this. We got home and any sympathy evaporated. Guess what I didn't do. Complain. Once I realized she wasn't helping, I got up and did what needed doing for myself (drinks, eating, etc...) She's an ex for a reason. My experience is that women cry about things way more often and for way lesser reasons than I've experienced men doing.
That was really funny! I actually hadn't seen him before. Thanks for reacting to it. Also, hopefully by now, you've turned the Air Con back on so Chewie doesn't melt into a poodle. 😁
Your comment about women being better than men at dealing with pain reminded me of a comment I once heard. "Women, given that the pain of childbirth is so intense, then you can almost imagine what a man goes through when he has a cold."
I'm a guy so perhaps biased but in my experience most of us won't willingly go to a doctor until we are about to keel over. Going over some ache or pain suggests a lack of mental toughness and fitness. You don't want to work with someone like that or depend on them to back you up. They might leave you hanging just because they got banged up a little or they're uncomfortable.
Out of 32 foster homes I lived in, abuse was the most common thing between them. I remember 18 of them the dads and granddads would just come in yelling and swinging. Those ones the mom and older kids used us foster kids as the release for them and WAY too much drinking and using Christian religion as a reason to hurt us. First time I ran away I was 8 with a sister who was 6. Some the fights were mom and dad at each other, a few BIG scary ones were dad agaisnt elder sons. This seems to be built on traditional relationships but I didnt get to see much of what is peddled as"normal or common." I think the abusive, authoritative ones are the more common, just behind closed doors.
Damn. That's rough. I had a tumultuous childhood with alcoholic parents but when I count my blessings, I always acknowledge that so many people had it way worse. Hope your life is much better now, my friend.
@@johnn.2017 its a struggle but who's isn't? I'm a married mom of 3 kids that are the absolute light of my existence. I am, because of them. They have saved my life more times than they will ever know. I work hard to be better then what I grew up with. Thank you for hoping and I hope the same for you.
I love the way you look at things. It’s all about perception, and not everyone is going to like something. Like you said, it’s subjective. It’s a good thing too, otherwise life would be pretty boring. Love what you do. Keep up the great work Diane!
I found it funny. I was taught to never hit a woman. Made it hard when I had to wrestle one back in middle school. I do know a couple of guys that need the ever lovin crap beat out of them for what they did to their now ex wives/girlfriends.
Diane! We all know that humor cannot exist without a kernel of truth. Burr goes there brilliantly, and he does it in today's world of thinnnn skin. And there's nothing mean-spirited at all about Burr's humor. His eyes twinkle when he provokes people, and he never goes over the line. It's pretty clear that he's got a lifetime of "anger issues" behind him but he's also got a ton of self-awareness about them, and he draws wit and wisdom from that self-awareness.
I wish you hadn’t cut so much of the vid. Felt a bit over edited. Part of what makes a lot of Bill Burr clips so good is how he uses silence to let the point sink in for a bit. Otherwise, good reaction and you’re really funny. Will be watching more👌🏻
The last time I went to the emergency room, I spoke with three different women and described my suffering, the third of which came in with a laptop and asked for my insurance and billing information (which I had already provided the first two). "Did you want to find out what's wrong with me before you start taking my money please?" When the fourth woman came in and asked what was wrong, I told her I was in intense pain due to a back injury, as I'd told the others. "What did your doctor say," she asked. "I haven't F*cking SEEN one! DO you people not speak to each other? Are there any doctors here, or just you people?" She says, "I can give you some Ibuprofen for now." I put my clothes back on, drove to the local Walgreens for a bottle of Ibuprofen ($2.99, by the way, and it only took 3 minutes), and haven't been back to the hospital in ten years. I still have back pain, but I'm not enduring THAT shit again.
I think women do win the argument in relationships. Your reactions are always the best. Bill Burr is entertaining. Making a video with no a/c in the summer is tough not to sweat. I find a quiet mini fan helps not to sweat. I hope you turned the a/c back on after the video. Happy Wednesday, Diane and Chewie.
@@DianeJennings No complaints from me, You do such a great job, Diane! The majority I am sure agrees with me. You put a lot of effort in your videos and it shows. Glad You turned the a/c back on. Anytime I make a video I do the same thing turning off the a/c.
Kind of a general sweeping statement don't you think? A woman has never been wrong in an argument? I'm only 21, most arguments I've had with many women has already been enough for a lifetime. They'd rather roll over and die before they admit that they're wrong.
I think I can give some insight into the "Typical guy thing" of not going to the doctor. Most of the guys in my family, and most of my Male friends (and myself included in all of these people tallied up) have a HORRIBLE habit of just assuming with enough rest it'll get better. I uh, nearly died of Pneumonia after months of a REALLY bad cough and even at times coughing up blood, just figuring it'd eventually get better. No need to go see a doctor about it if I can just rest and sleep it off. It took that uh, near death incident to course correct that but around here it's definitely a common occurrence for guys lol!
Yeah I'm not sure what guys she's hanging around with, not sure how old she is though. I'm in my 30s and all of the men in my family have a terrible habit of just trying to "sleep it off". Along with the vast majority of my male friends. And when I say sleep it off, I mean over the course of months if not a year until the problem starts escalating. Even if there's no improvement people just tend to assume that it's going to be okay in the end lol... Can't even count the amount of injuries I've had that I regret not going to hospital for early on.
I've broken bones and not gone to A&E for days, the only time I actually went immediately was when one of the bones in my hand was sticking out and almost breaking through the skin. The most recent case of terrible judgement was waiting a year to get my elbow scanned after having a really loud and painful snap while doing tricep dips. Kept thinking it would improve and just lived with the discomfort (and the cringe inducing crunches when I bend my arm) until I started getting major nerve pain shooting down my arm a year later. Got it checked out recently and it turns out I snapped a ligament in my elbow and dislocated the ulnar nerve....
I've had plenty, PLENTY of days when my leg, head, eyes, ears, heart hurt like hell, sometimes for days. And it went away. Out of curiosity(and I saved some money), for my 30th birthday I did a complete A-Z doctors physical appointment, blood tests, x-rays etc. IT WAS ALL FINE. Imagine if we as guys went to the doctor for every single headache or pinkie ache. Jesus, we'd be bankrupt by the time we're 40.
Just keep your hands to yourself, period. Don't put ur hands on me(regardless if it's a man or woman) and I won't put my hands on you. Bill Burr is best comic out there
My equivalent to Bill Burr's "you've already won -- take a knee, and run out the clock" is to agree with my wife. It doesn't matter whether she's right or not. If she's wrong, sooner or later she'll come to the right conclusion. When she does that, the key is to NEVER say "See? I was right all along!" Because saying that sends the victory spinning downward in flames. I have to win silently.
but how do you fight and argue? coz cant always use this, be dead inside, or in worst cases, she thinks she is so much better than you(ego pump can happen to anyone like this).
@@effexon Read every word I wrote thoughtfully. It's about the relationship being more important than your ego. That's the only path to long-term compatibility.
@@effexon I don't get it either. Sure, you don't have to blow everything out of proportion and a "see? I was right" is unnecessary, but to simply agree no matter what, only to avoid a discussion or dispute? Those tend to be the guys you don't want to be too close to when all that bottled up stuff breaks free. This gives me serious "Neighbors say he was always a nice and quiet guy" - vibes
The “men being babies when they’re sick” thing is a stereotype, but based on a certain type of guy. Mostly it’s guys who were babied by their mother. Personally I don’t want to be babied when I’m sick. I have to be bed ridden to accept any help. I’m rarely sick enough to need help and I never want sympathy. Most of the time I just want to be left alone so I can rest.
My mother never babied me, if I wasn't bleeding then I was fine. So, I would like to be babied... but I know it won't happen. Even if a woman did want to spend time with me (I don't make enough money for that), I probably wouldn't tell her about any issues I'm having... for fear of her telling me that a nail in my hand is nothing compared to child birth, just like my mother used to say.
@@ROArecords2 So, you never had to pay for everything on the date? Even the women getting paid more than me expect me to pay for everything, so if I can't afford what they want then they don't want to be around me. I haven't yet found a woman I get along with that isn't already married. Board games, hikes, camping... all those women are already married. Parties, dating apps... those women want me to pay for everything, and won't give me a handshake, never mind a hug. I know that good women exists, it's just that all the ones I meet are married. I can't find any good, unmarried women in my age range. However, if I was making six figures and willing to spend three figures every date night, then I could easily get one of the available women. However, many of them it looks like gifts would have to be in the four figure range... and even if I could afford that, that stuff isn't to my taste.
You’re mistaking “external” pain with internal pain. Men more often handle and ignore “external” pain, like bones, muscles and skin better than women do, while women handle “internal” pain much better, like sickness, flu, cold, pms, stomach aches, etc. I think this is intentional design or if you believe in evolution. Women have to deal with childbirth so are more equipped to handle internal pain, while men have to deal with injury from work, war, hunting, and are more equipped to deal with broken bones, cuts, muscle tears.
Bill Burr is a gem. One of the last old school comedians. I’m glad that he’s willing to question societal norms and (most importantly) start a discussion.
My toothpaste is hard ! I have to go to the store and get some more ...
Old school? Plenty of modern comedians push back against society.
@@cjboyer4355 u are right. BUT Bill's genius is that he knows how to walk the perfect line in this very PC climate that no one tries to CANCEL him. He is vulgar and honest but does it in a way that both left and right may want to find something to complain about....but they just cant put their finger on it so they all laugh together! That is pure GENIUS! He is hysterical!
@@daymondcenteno6066 Dave Chappelle got the alphabet crew after him
@@daymondcenteno6066 No one tries to cancel him? 😂 You must not know the history behind Bill Burr. They’ve tried to cancel him multiple times, but like Dave Chappell they both just don’t care. 😂 So cancel culture has given up. They’ll always pop up and give a useless attempt every time either two drops a special but like usual, they’ll fail. Dave and Bill are untouchable because they don’t care about being cancelled. 😂
As an abused ex-husband, she pulled a knife on me and tried to kill me because she was drunk and I was being nice, I agree with Mr. Burr and his solution is bang on.
I'm still alive because my ex-wife didn't realize what serving in the Canadian Army had done for me.
My present wife is a wonderful woman who would never resort to violence.
I'm in a wheelchair and my ex would hit me when she didn't get her way and I'd cover up then roll away. One night she started hitting me and backed me in the corner where I couldn't get away. I covered up but she just kept punching me so I half strength punched her in the stomach to get her off me. Needless to say she never hit me again.
@Darkstar it goes both ways... if men knew what they were getting into, then abused women are also knew what they were getting into.... You just ignored the red flags for some dicks and they reaped what they sowed.
@Darkstar Not true, I've personally witnessed relationships that start off great, and at a point one of them becomes abusive. It's more common then you think. People can hide things, its not that hard to do. There isn't always red flags right away.
@@MrSkullHead1250 yeah...even relationship with same gender takes time to know who truely is...people can hide their true personality even for years...and people who hide their personalities so well, they manage to hide till the extreme situation comes out.
@Darkstar Oh look, victim blaming, haven't heard that before.
Nobody speaks more truth than Bill Burr, they sound like jokes because he frames them humorously and delivers truth with top tier comedic skill. Make no mistake, the man has a lot to say and gets his points across masterfully on very touchy subjects that the majority are afraid to talk about.
As guy.. I was literally dying of kidney failure, puking daily and going blind in my left eye before I thought "yeah.. probably should see a doctor"
you american too ?
yup - that was me and my burst appendix... it's just a side ache...I can wait it out
She also misses that injury and illness are different things. Basically when we are sick with something that MIGHT be infectious, we take it more seriously since it can impact the people around us. If we know it's an injury or something that can't spread to other people, we try to tough it out as best we can.
Just as a note, bill burr is 100% supportive of reaction videos so long as it’s not his most recent standup that’s out right now. So you don’t need to cut it up too much with his stuff. Just appeal the strike! :)
Bill himself is. The issue is that he doesn’t own the majority of his stuff. Netflix and HBO do…and they are savages with copyright.
I always wondered. There's channels that basically just play his stand-up with little commentary.
Wait, why can't people react to his most recent stand up?
@@NYC_Goody cuz it’s the newest material and the artist wants to make money on it
@@Lurch685what? He still is making bank on it with the platforms his specials are on and him touring/selling merch. We're not talking reacting to the whole special but bits from it
He is so spot on with almost everything he says. It's sad that abuse to one degree or another is so present in so many relationships. And women are ruthless when arguing, another thing they do when their position is weak is to trot out every last thing you've ever done wrong even though they may have said in the past that they've forgiven it. They have an incredibly long memory, I can't imagine the level of abuse that they can spill out after 40 or 50 years in a marriage.
Dad always said "Men forget, but never forgive. Women forgive, but never forget."
It’s so fucking crazy this unhealthy, emotionally immature shit is so prevalent and normalized. Not how you conduct a relationship. But we just say “oh it’s a women thing”, or “oh that’s just a man thing”. Shit like this makes me very hesitant on trusting a women to get into a relationship with. I do my best to be as conscientious, and selective when dating, which I know is what one should do, I just wish there was more of a wider net to cast
My relationship don't last long for this reason. I was raised by women exclusively, and I've got a feminine mentality and memory, I argue the same way they do, plus I add in facts and evidence. I have NEVER lost an argument, but I will say, I've had plenty of break ups for that reason alone. Women I've met can't stand having their tactics turned on them. If they consistently lose arguments, they run from the relationship.
"Is it typical?" I waited three days before going to the doctor with what turned out to be a broken wrist because I didn't think it hurt that bad. It wasn't until I couldn't get the swelling to go down that I saw the doctor.
Maybe Irish men go more readily because they won't need to mortgage their home to pay for medical care.
I had to heal a broken wrist on my own because I couldn't afford to have a pin put in it. Glad it turned out that way because I'd have a piece of metal in me now.
Had the open end of a cattle gate (round tube construction) come down on my knee as I fell while carrying it. My knee was screaming but I walked it off since there was no blood. Toughed it out. For two weeks. The swelling finally went down and I could feel two little pieces of bone sliding around under the skin and had a chip out of my kneecap where they came from. Guys can walk off stuff that makes women faint, but a mother will clean up absolutely anything.
Not that deep
Yeah, American culture is much more "walk it off" than "see a doctor" when it comes to guys.
Champagne of victory lmao 😂
I remember a joke about how the Irish are extremely liberal. " I have been to Ireland, those guys are so far to the left they drive their cars on the wrong side of the road." You might get this joke, but I wouldn't bet on it.
I find him funny... but also, looking at the relationships around me, find him to be telling the truth. So many men I know went from happy, active men... to just getting their job done and dragging through life, after getting married.
Also, I haven't seen a doctor in years because usually the issue goes away before I get in for my appointment. And for more immediate issues, I have to think it will last longer than half a day to consider the emergency room. Nail in my hand, emergency room. Possibly ankle sprain, just rest, and hope it isn't a sprain. Strange, sharp pain in my gut... hope it is indigestion, and not my appendix exploding. (I hear it is very painful, but I won't know how much until it happens to me. But it might not happen.)
But yeah, he has a point with the 'ask questions'. I've seen the footage of a social experiment. They had a man yelling at a woman, and people would look concerned or even step in. But, when they reversed it, and had the woman hitting the man, passersby just carried on or encouraged it. Their explanation as to why they thought she was right, was that they figured he probably did something to deserve it. So basically, women can full on beat men with near impunity... where men will be shamed and ostracized, or even treated as criminals, by raising their voice (or even, just because a woman claims he did something).
Same here , haven’t seen a doctor in years . Whatever pain I feel it will eventually go away . Maybe the way I was raised , maybe I’m gen x , I don’t know I just feel like going to a doc it’s a pain in the neck and I don’t feel like , unless and off course , there are some red flags pointing at my heart or brain . Then it’s just a survival thing . However I do know men who would make an scene out of a cold . But really not that many .
@@gabrielclements69 I think people in general as a whole avoid the doctor as much as possible, men definitely more so. She is definitely used to being around a much younger generation though who are completely different people.
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I have been watching Bill Burr and I've been enjoying his comedy. He's kind of telling jokes in the same vein that Dave Chappelle has. He's very unapologetic and I think that's why both men and women are actually listening and laughing at his jokes. You should hear his rant on women and Feminists failing the WNBA, it's pretty good.
But Chappell kinda a dick
Chappelle and Burr make me miss Carlin even more.
There are some similarities in their comedic style, in that they both claim to be telling something true that people don't talk about. But there is a huge difference now.
Bill Burr knows that what he's saying might come across as defending domestic violence, so he cuts that off at every single point. He also self-deprecates. And if you listen to him in interviews, he never gets upset if someone finds his comedy offensive. And he does actually apologize when he realizes he didn't get across what he wanted.
Dave Chappelle knows that several of his jokes have come across as transphobic. He doubles down and makes a whole special on that. He brings up every single hateful stereotype about trans people, and even says he's "pro-TERF" (which is like saying he's pro-KKK). And then, when the majority of the LGBT community finds him offensive, he goes on about how he's the real victim.
And do remember that bigotry is not just offensiveness. It's genuinely harmful. If you're pushing the idea that your comedy is uncomfortable truths and push all the stereotypes, you are making the world worse for those people.
Saying I'm offended by bigotry is like saying I'm offended by murder or rape or theft or whatever. Yeah, I am, but that's not the reason I oppose it.
@@turkeypedal you missed the mark completely on Chappelle. I assume it's because you don't understand comedy at all. Dave Chappelle isn't on stage telling lies at the expense of trans people. he is on stage telling jokes that are based on truth. they are jokes! trans people are not levitating above the rest of us to the point that they are free from criticism or the ability to joke about them. when he says he is terf, it's a joke LOL trans people came at him hard so he went right back at them. they couldn't take one joke so now they're going to take a million. the dude is bulletproof. get over it
@@claytonberg721 Carlin became too full of himself towards the end. I don't need him (or anyone else) lecturing me.
I also like Daniel Tosh's joke about this stuff.
"There is NO reason? What if you come home from a long day at work and your wife has drowned two of your kids? She's about to dunk the third one in, can you run over and pop her then? 'Unfortunately, no. There's no excuse. Gonna have to let her drown that third one.'
What if you ask her to DVR the game but she forgets to record the half-hour show afterwards just in case it goes into overtime? The POINT is there's a grey area!"
"the game" i laugh at sports people
So just because you’re not into sports that makes it stupid? I don’t watch sports but I don’t judge people on what they do and don’t like.
@@maciek8159 it's not about sports.. it's about these overpaid glorified assholes who contribute nothing to society being treated like saviors of the world.
Lmao, i think people missed the part where this whole post is the full joke from tosh and the sports part.
I remember this joke from him and it was how I thought about the whole "no reason for domestic violence."
@@MildarValsik You'd think the fact that I had it in quotations would help people, but here we are.
I find this bit extremely funny and 100% accurate.
Thanks, Diane. Loved your reaction.
Diane, my wife and I have been married nearly 29 years. We've never hit or yelled at one another. As a consequence our daughters grew up never seeing us fight. Neither one of drinks or likes confrontation, which may be part of it.
In my experience men do not seek medical assistance unless it could-possibly-maybe-might be life threatening. I can't tell you how many times I finally went to a doctor and they said, "Why didn't you come in earlier?" What, you never met a MAN before? 😄
In my experience men treat injuries VERY differently to an unknown illness. Because the unknown illness could be contagious so we are more likely to make a bigger deal of it.
"Rarely complain"
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I’ve actually seen this routine before and found it hilarious. It’s way too accurate 🤣🤣.
I truly appreciate you Diane. Hope you and the crew have a wonderful week.
Luv to ya Trudes 🥰
"Rarely complain" that's a good one.
Yes, men not getting some injury looked at is a typical guy thing. There are a few instances where this isn't true but with most physical injuries a guy is going to be inclined to shrug it off and maybe take some aspirin.
As an American man it's less about being tough. More about avoiding financial ruin. There is a serious incentive to shrug it off.
Get hurt at work, get it checked. Chronic pain? Ehhh... it's not that bad yet.
She's not making a distinction between injury and illness. There is a BIG difference between the two for men.
@@edwardofgreene That's a part of it for some guys, but I think just being tough is most of it honestly. That and not wanting to use time on it. Even if I thought someone would PAY me money to go to the doctor it would be difficult to convince me to do so unless it's an actual substantial amount.
the 2 worst kinds of pain humans can experience is pain in the spine, or pain in the intestines. the body is specifically designed to NOT shut down or shut off pain receptors for those 2 types of pain. intestinal death is considered much worse than child birth because you can actually survive for a few days with it happening. but you will be in immense pain for it. the body will not shut down pain receptors or really allow you to pass out for it because it cant, the majority of your intestines are actually blood vessles, so if it shuts down, your circulatory system does, which of course kills you, thats why your body wont.
As for guys and pain, it depends on the guy. Absolute true story: I hit my arm with a chainsaw once. Miraculously, I did not hit any bone or major blood vessels. And shockingly, it did not hurt immediately, probably the combination of shock and adrenaline. The only reason I called the ambulance was because I knew for a fact I could not close that wound up competently by myself and I knew a wound that large would likely develop a nasty (and medically very serious) infection. I clenched my teeth all the way through the 2 layers of stitches just fine. Although I nearly punched the EMT when they doused my wound with saline. That freaking HURT!
It's important to know the difference between being tough and straight up stupid... even though most guys would "walk off" minor injuries they know to seek medical attention if it's actually necessary.
@@talictdf4757 You'd be surprised
There's a huge difference between injury and illness for a guy as well. Most guys will act tough about an injury but fewer bother to do so with some unknown illness that may or may not be contagious.
Great video Diane. On the topic of men and doctors: men really hate being ill and will whine and cry about it because there’s really nothing that can make them feel better except sympathy. Injuries however, they will struggle through past the point of rational thinking. Example: I had a cyst inside of my spine pressing on the spinal cord for 2 years. The doctor said he was surprised that I could still walk
Diane this is great! Your reaction when he started talking about how women argue almost had me in tears hahahahaha. Thank you so much for this
I saw that to😅😂🤣
Honestly, guys are selfish. Not saying women aren't, just saying guys forget that we are and that is the basis for most fights.
Women don't complain ABOUT their time of the month. They just complain about EVERYTHING at their time of the month.
Bill Burr says things that everyone thinks, but people are afraid to say. I love it. That is what a stand-up comedian should be. People with senses of humor will always understand, and for those without senses of humor, well...
Also, E.D. getting extra saucy this week! Awesome!
Respectfully, I don’t agree it’s accurate to say “people with a sense of humour”. Humour is very subjective and the world would be a very dull place if we all liked the same things.
@@DianeJennings I see your point, and I do agree that humor is subjective. There are certain comedians some of my friends find funny that I do not. Dane Cook for example. I guess what I mean when I say, "People with a sense of humor," is more towards this fairly new impetus to "cancel" comedians with whom you may disagree or don't find funny. Even if I don't think Dane Cook is funny, I'd never try to cancel the man. I simply don't pay him any mind, either way. That's the way it used to be in the world, and not just for stand-up comedians. I'm hopeful we return to that relative homeostasis soon.
@@MattLovesVinyl agreed
Bill Burr always gives me a good laugh. I’ve been in some bad situations and sometimes get triggered but the way he does it makes you laugh and think. It is an awesome way to look at life situations with a twist of dark humour
You have to differentiate between being sick and being injured. Yes. We do tend to absolutely _hate_ being SICK. But _physical_ injuries are another matter.
I once went back to bed after breaking my toe while letting the dog out in the dark at 3 am.. I went right back to sleep after only a few minutes. Went to the nearby medical center the _next day_ to have the broken toe set.
Yep, I wrote a comment about it too (which can basically be summarized as: "severe illness: go; injury: walk it off").
I only found out that I had broken my toes years later when I went to the doctor for something else and foot x-rays showed that both big toes had been broken at some point.
Exactly. Guys make a BIG difference between an injury and an unknown illness that we don't even know if it's contagious or not.
Comedy is not subjective, what makes you laugh is subjective. That's really my only issue but good reaction.
Can Wednesday just be the official Bill Burr reaction video day? We could all use a good laugh mid week.
Haha I think it’d get old fast though
@@DianeJennings Nah, not with Bill.
@@DianeJennings maybe just a comedy in general day then? Like mix in different comics?
@@DianeJennings oh it would take a few months for us, not sure about you of course.
@@DianeJennings not with good ol’ Billy boy. A video Once a month and you’ll see more clicks I bet you. One of my favorites if not favorite comedians. I’m not alone. He’s one of the best out there now.
I'm an American and I don't know a single man that goes to a doctor even when it's obvious they need to. I have a broken thumb right now. I haven't gone to the doctor nor will I. It will heal itself. This is likely one of the reasons why women live longer. BTW Bill is one of the best comedians alive.
Loved that reaction Diane!
Never argued with an Irish woman before but if it's anything like arguing with an American woman you do not drop the C-word unless you are prepared for war beacuse she is coming for your soul like a banshee from Irish folklore. 💀☘
A reaction video from the Dating beyond borders channel might fun. Would be interesting if you agree with the channel's assessment, "You know you're dating an Irish Man/ woman..."
Over there it isn't a gendered word, so there is much less of a sexist tone when using it.
(you could use it equally for a man or woman)
@@coast2coast00 You CAN use it for a man or a woman but the woman is going to take it so much more personal and very likely with great violence.
Dating beyond border about this Irish girl would be very interesting.!
@@coast2coast00 Is the word "bitch" the same way? I know here in the US it's very demasculinizing.
Your opinion of the view secured my sub 😊
I love Bill Burr! He's ever person's comedian...for the most part. I'm glad you did this video!
F em lmao, YOU RULE!🤣
I love the look on Chewie's face after you asked him if he farted. He looked up at you with a face like "ah cha cha cha." 😏
He really did 🤣
Jokes on you I only use hard toothpaste.
On that doctor thing, I have a ridiculously high pain tolerance. I could be screaming and swearing in pain, or breaking down in tears from how bad it is and /still/ refuse to see a doctor in case it wasn't anything serious. It took having my necks range of motion limited by pain and stiff muscles to even consider making a doctors appointment.
"She's banging the next door neighbour, hands you divorce papers. You have to sleep ona futon while still paying for the house that she stays in."
"A traditional marriage"
Yep, I agree. 😁
Oh boy, that “women rarely complain” during that time of the month nearly got me. 😂😂😂
To be honest, I'd rather they actually did complain instead of dishing out the emotional abuse that they do. "If I'm miserable, you have to be miserable."
At least if they complained, you could sympathize and express some supportive feelings instead of having to keep your cool through monster time.👿
my sister has been fired from pretty much every job because she takes pain pills and lays in bed for 4 days every time she get's her period.
There is an unspoken fact in one of his statement's that really needs to be said, because it's the true core of the problem. "When they are wrong, they go rogue." What is left unsaid there is a truth so bad it cannot be spoken, yet that heckler said it out loud and was misunderstood: "It's her right [as to why you can't ask questions about these situations]." Why not? Very simple: in the mind of modern feminism, even for the more moderate or conservative, in a woman vs man scenario THE WOMAN CANNOT BE WRONG. EVER. How can we ever hope to have a stable society with such an imbalance? We can't, that's why we're falling apart so fast. Only in fires of harsh reality where we have to depend on each other honestly or die will we start to recover the man and woman relationship as its meant to be. Until then, men will have to stay away or study their hopeful brides to the point of insanity to ensure they aren't compromised like that. I pray its not too late, because I am lonely, but not that lonely.
Bill Burr is hilarious.
Men tend to be one extreme or the other re injury and sickness, depending on how they were raised. My mom was a pediatric nurse, so we were never allowed to be sick. She spent 8 hours a day taking care of sick kids so she'd be damned if she was going to take care of me too. Once in a blue moon I would go to school with the flu, the school would send me home, and Mom would get mad at me.
Yep, i am the type that dont go to a doctor or take any medicine, my motto is "it will go as it came", i also know men that will break for whareva
yeah my husband can break his finger and he'll stay at work. when he gets a head cold he'll swear to God he's dying though LOL
My habits were learned. As I said above I've spent a fair number of years in restaurants, where injuries were normal.
I remember asking my mom please can I go to the doctor; my friends all say my finger looks green and broken? On the way there: "You better hope it's broken because if I pay for this doctor visit and it's not, I'm gonna break it FOR you!" Ah, the good old days lol
Yes!! I had the same mom. I worked for 20 years before I had ever called out sick.
He's right about the argumentative tactics, it isn't fair, but fair isn't the point. People should not become violent as a result of a relationship conflict, but men are held accountable for doing it, and typically women are not. Women are just as fallible capable of being in the wrong as men, but there are no limitations to how far they can push things whether they are right or wrong in the context of the arguement. I was in an arguement once where I was being verbally badgered to say the exact words that she wanted me to say when they weren't true, and the conflict was becoming so heated that all I wanted to do was take a walk to cool off and return to address the points of contention with a level head, but I think she didn't want me to be able to make a case for my perspective, she wanted submission to her correctness even though she knew she was wrong, right then and there. We each had our own work rooms, and this fight began in mine. There was only one doorway out and it was on the 3rd floor. When I moved to step out, she stepped in front of the doorway, knowing that If I moved her out of the way to get to safety, the patriarchy and society would rain fire on me. I asked to move, she said no. I told her to move, she said or what? I then backed up into the corner of the room and leaned my back against the wall, put my head down and stopped responding. I went into a fortress in my head to lock the situation down so it couldn't escalate any further and ruin my life.. She berrated me for 5-10 minutes and told me to just say it, and eventually she went into her work room and slammed the door. A woman can fight as dirty as she wants with no real limitation to maintain the illusion of their infallible correctness, and we can do nothing but leave, and sometimes, we cannot leave. Imagine if I had jumped out of the window? I still would've been viewed as the dangerous, unstable, and unhinged one.
You bring up a great point but you handled a really tough situation well. I had a girlfriend punch me in the ear while I was sleeping defenselessly on the floor at her parent's house. I guess she wanted to talk and I was asleep at 4am. She also hit a guy once at my apartment but all I saw was him hitting her back, so I punched the guy and threw him out the door. I broke off our engagement and left altogether soon after. Women can definitely be totally in the wrong and even violent, and it may not be fair, but sometimes what you did is our only choice.
When I was younger, I got really drunk, fell down a bunch of stairs and fractured both my legs. I thought I had really bad leg cramps, so I self medicated with Mr. Daniels. The next day went to medical when my legs looked terrible and the corpsmen were like are you stupid? LOL!
Well, weren't your legs still fractured in the morning? So what was the rush?
When I was a kid (about 8) I was racing dogs with a neighbor. But since our dog tended to run off if he ever got off the leash, we kept a leash on 'em while racing. I got pulled off my feet and fell, hitting my forearm an iron locator cap for a residential waterline. Sure, my arm was sore, but it didn't feel that bad. Mom, though, had to freak out about it and take me to the hospital. I'd fractured a bone in my forearm, so I got stuck wearing a cast for a couple months.
@@flatebo1 I was in 8th grade and I fractured my wrist playing football before swim practice. I thought I was just sore so I kept practicing the whole rest of the week. I finally realized when we were doing push-ups and my arm physically wouldn’t support my weight
Injury and illness are two VERY different things, as any guy will tell you. When it comes to injury, yes guys act tough. When it comes to illness, we don't. Partly because if it's infectious you can actually impact other people with it, and that's something worth taking seriously. Still we often don't actually go to the hospital oftentimes we just sleep all day and be lazy to let the illness pass.
There is a big difference between a man injuring himself (we try to man through it and hope for the best) and "the man cold."
Swear there was a study a while back that showed "man flu" is actually a real thing lol. Something about the differences in our bodies that makes flu hit men harder.
Whenever I had a fight with my ex, while she went out, I would go around a torque down all the food jars (as a soldier and construction worker my grip strength is pretty good). I also have a fairly good memory, so if the argument got really nasty, I would bring up every single time she made a complete ass of herself (e.g., vomiting everywhere because she got drunk at reunion). It was also handy to have her family on my side most times. I remember hearing her father chastise her for her behavior on several occasions. The moment she got that ring, a demon took over. I was smart enough to insist a prenup, so when she left she got no more than the agreement.
"tourqe down all the food jars." Lol!
why she left?
@@donshifty I was the one who officially broke it off, as I caught her with another guy. I had suspicions, so I hired a private investigator to track her movements while I was gone working on a pipeline for a few months. He got a ton of pictures.
@@meltedplasticarmyguy how long were ya together
@@donshifty Just shy of 6 years.
John "Bonzo" Bonham was the drummer for Led Zeppelin. He is easily in the top five best drummers of all time according to many, many musicians. And many of them consider him to be the GOAT ( Greatest Of All Time) of Rock and Roll/Blues drummers. Often imitated, never duplicated.
OK thanks. i was thinking, does Bono play drums?
You'll find many who disagree with you; there have been many great drummers. It's like arguing about who's the best guitarist.
Studies have demonstrated that INTELLIGENT people have the ability to separate issues from irony and the humorous dynamic of a joke/bit based on some controversial or socially unacceptable situation. Those who focus on the visceral hatred and anger coming from the emotionally offensive or disgusting environment of a joke instead of seeing the bigger picture humor in it are what create the "easily offended Karens" of the world. A very good example of this concept can be found THROUGHOUT Mel Brooks' production of BLAZING SADDLES. Intelligent people love the humor in the movie. Others are offended by the language and situations throughout that movie.
I had chest pains for three days before I finally listened to my wife and went to the hospital. I figured “Ah, it’ll get better.”
I had appendicitis for a very long time, and I would get severe pain in my lower abdomen. I would just shrug it off and think I'm constipated or something AHAH. It wasn't until the third episode that I realized maybe something is wrong XD. Found out that I was mere moments from my appendix busting. So I don't think I fall under the ''complain about everything'' category lol.
I had a small fracture in my shoulder, just some of that athletic tape so it wouldn’t move and continued with my 16 hr/7days per week shift. She’s talking about Irish guys, she’s right they hella dramatic 😂
One of my favorite Bill Burr bits. I love all his stuff.
That was a good reaction video
I can relate to what he says about how women act when losing an argument. My first wife would come up with the argument that because I was wrong about something totally unrelated years ago, I am, therefore, wrong now.
ROFL See? It's in your NATURE to be wrong! You've been incorrect your whole life! Don't try to change it now.
“We rarely complain” 🤣🤣🤣
Hands down my favorite reaction video of this clip!
Hahaha 1:27 "Fuck 'em. What have they done for you lately?"
Pure gold...
Times I have gone to the hospital:
- Allergic reactions
- After a grand mal seizure
- For severe abdominal pains, resulting in gallbladder removal
- Food poisoning (with nausea and vomiting lasting more than a week)
That's it.
Times I didn't go to the hospital, but probably should have:
- Fell off a 14 foot wall and injured my ankle (hurt for about a week or so)
- Broke a rib play wrestling with a friend (pretty sure I broke it anyway, it took like a month to stop hurting)
- Got bit on the butt by a pit bull
- Got bit on the calf by the same pit bull on a different occasion (part of this wound bled on and off for about two weeks, I obviously should have gotten stitches)
- Got hit by a car while jay walking and nearly blacked out
There's more, most of it embarrassing, so I'll leave it there. Point is: the guys you've been around are clearly pansies, because don't for one second think I'm some macho alpha male. I'm not. I'm a scrawny, 5'5" (that's about 165cm), barely 100 lbs. (45kg) manlet. Being physically tough and resilient is normal for guys. At least that's how it was when I was growing up, and obviously when Bill Burr was growing up as well, and I'm like 13 years younger than him. I don't know what to say about your experience. It is what it is, but it's not in alignment with mine. Pansies, I say.
Its not pansies just rich or cheap healtcare i guess, as some one like me who is poor and live where getting 1st aid treatment in hospital mean paying 1/2 of your monthly salary, i better rub some ointment put a band aid and shake it off....lol
@@fahmiluthfi7991 Money was never even a consideration in my decisions whether I decided to go to the hospital or not. That sucks that it has been for you though.
Why am I always so enamored, and breathless by Editor Diane, and her breaking that 4th wall? Thanks for the cardiac flutter/beat/crush! LMAO
The ultimate 'walk it off' was performed by Theodore Roosevelt: In 1912, he was about to give a speech when a crazy man came up and shot him in the chest. First Roosevelt stopped the crowd from beating the man to death then, after the police took the man away, went on to give his 90-minute speech.
Canada: C*nt is overrated in the 'extremely frowned upon' category.
Diane: "Irish men throw that word out too much"
Australia: It's a brand name and it's an official everyday normal word.
"Typical guy thing" is FOR SURE to sleep it off. I once broke both feet and a rib while cliff diving and waited till the next day to go to the hospital.... (maybe it's and American thing though)
Not just American, same applies to most men in England and it doesn't cost us anything to go to A&E. It's really not a good trait though, ends up being detrimental to your health..
I guess I’m a “typical guy” which is weird since I’m a woman. I am much more in the “sleep/walk it off” camp.
@@donnaroberts281 Definitely not a rule set in stone, seems to be more common with men though. Most of the women I know are much more sensible when it comes to their health lol.
"And we rarely complain..." Lololol
That is good stuff.
Years ago, Chris Rock did a comedy special (Don't recall which one) where he did his own version of this exact topic... He stated, correctly, that there is a reason to kick an old man down a flight of stairs, YOU JUST DON'T DO IT!!!
She said rarely complain?? 🤣
Sickness is different than injury. It's been proven that illnesses tend to hit men a good bit harder than women. I've broken a hand and a foot on the job (basically construction) and kept working without taking time off. Hand one time and foot another. But the flu? It's almost killed me a couple times. Couldn't get off the floor for days straight. I didn't even have it that bad. Just could not function with a fever. I think it has to do with temperature regulation and women being more susceptible to being hot or cold with environment.
This is true. I've been hurt at work (firefighter) several times, to varying degrees. If at all possible, I just deal with it and go on as usual. But a virus will knock me on my ass and keep me there for days, where my wife will get the same bug with the same symptoms and just go about her business. Admittedly, I usually try to hide my injuries from my wife because of her tendency to lose her mind when I get hurt (and she's bilingual, so she stops speaking English altogether when she's really pissed).
I've heard that woman are more resistant to symptoms of sickness due to their bodies being different and stronger immune systems for carrying children, kinda made sense to me that women would've been less effected Because of that, but I only heard it I'm not sure if it's something that's been proven
"fuck em.." 🤣💀
Bill Burr had a comedian friend named Patrice O'neal that had alot of interesting thoughts on relationships. He was a very funny guy as well.
"Take a knee, run out the clock" American Football reference (you looked confused 😉)
Growing up, my mom's near-universal reaction to any ailment my sister and I had was "let it go a few more days, and if it's not better by then, we'll see a doctor". Wasn't a financial decision; it was more just an acknowledgement that sometimes our bodies do dumb things that go away in a day or two.
"We rarely complain?"
I gotta get over to Ireland...
In my experience it depends on what is the cause of the uncomfortability in a man that determines whether or not he goes to a hospital. If it is pain, generally speaking, no. If it is general illness like the flu, then yeah, he just falls apart. Apparently though, there is some genetic difference between men and women where women handle illness better but injury worse and vice versa.
Its because women genetically generally have a better immune system. If memory serves its because of the female reproduction system that gives that boost to the immune system.
@@bunnygirlerika9489 Something along those lines, yes.
Seriously? I've been in pain and saying nothing about it for much of my life. Why? Well, when I was younger it was usually because I did something dumb or because an accident happened. But I wasn't going to make a big deal about it because I didn't want to be seen as weak, which society hates you for being. For example, I broke a bone in my foot at martial arts in college and walked the two and a half miles to the car on it because I was expected to be tough. So I was tough. I still do my best to be tough because I'm tired of being called names and belittled when I'm not tough and I even mention being in pain and someone tells me I don't know what pain is. No? I've got an untreated lower spinal injury that makes walking and climbing stairs painful and difficult, but I do it as best as I can so no one knows. Both my wrists got crunched in a bad fall so my wrists and the first three fingers of each hand are a combination of numb AND in pain most of the time. Plus, I can barely use my left thumb at all because of the damage and my right thumb isn't much better. But I generally say nothing about it because if I mention that I'm hurting even in passing I usually get told by some woman that I'm being a baby. Even without knowing what's wrong, I'm just being a baby. And here we have Diane, who I adore (for the most part) classifying me and others like me with the men who maybe are too quick to be dramatic over something minor. That does bother me. And I think it's reasonable to be bothered by this.
And as the guy who is going to be what Bill Burr fears and hates (as much I do) I'm thinking it's worth it rather than being in an abusive relationship (which I was but I can't have been because I'm a straight guy and they're the abusers not the abused) or with a woman who diminishes and demeans me if I'm human. I'm just hoping I can afford a nice basement.
Diane, your experience with men in pain is my experience with women in pain.
Women I've known complain when:
1) that time of the month comes around, and the complaints last for the better part of a week, one time lasted 2 weeks (the complaints and attendant attitude, not the actual event)
2) an injury occurs, complaints and talk of needing to go to the ER or see a doctor start up
Now, when I had cracked my right kneecap, the doctor said to stay off of it as much as possible. My ex was there when it was said and told the doctor that she would help with this. We got home and any sympathy evaporated. Guess what I didn't do. Complain. Once I realized she wasn't helping, I got up and did what needed doing for myself (drinks, eating, etc...) She's an ex for a reason.
My experience is that women cry about things way more often and for way lesser reasons than I've experienced men doing.
Nah we’ll be in a lot of pain and act like we’re completely fine. Unless there’s something we don’t wanna do, then we’re dying😂😂
This guy nailed it in every single way. He was right about everything
Those threats in the beginning keep getting funnier🤣🤣🤣
That was really funny! I actually hadn't seen him before. Thanks for reacting to it. Also, hopefully by now, you've turned the Air Con back on so Chewie doesn't melt into a poodle. 😁
We’re outside now tis evening here! Yay!!
@@DianeJennings wow, sorry about my brain lapse... I think I just need a nice nap. Have a great evening!
Great Post. Keep them coming.
Diane savagely bashing The View made my day 😂
Your comment about women being better than men at dealing with pain reminded me of a comment I once heard.
"Women, given that the pain of childbirth is so intense, then you can almost imagine what a man goes through when he has a cold."
I'm a guy so perhaps biased but in my experience most of us won't willingly go to a doctor until we are about to keel over. Going over some ache or pain suggests a lack of mental toughness and fitness. You don't want to work with someone like that or depend on them to back you up. They might leave you hanging just because they got banged up a little or they're uncomfortable.
I said it before and I'll say it again, check out The Helicopter Story.
"..And we rarely complain" 🤣
Out of 32 foster homes I lived in, abuse was the most common thing between them. I remember 18 of them the dads and granddads would just come in yelling and swinging. Those ones the mom and older kids used us foster kids as the release for them and WAY too much drinking and using Christian religion as a reason to hurt us. First time I ran away I was 8 with a sister who was 6. Some the fights were mom and dad at each other, a few BIG scary ones were dad agaisnt elder sons. This seems to be built on traditional relationships but I didnt get to see much of what is peddled as"normal or common." I think the abusive, authoritative ones are the more common, just behind closed doors.
Damn. That's rough. I had a tumultuous childhood with alcoholic parents but when I count my blessings, I always acknowledge that so many people had it way worse. Hope your life is much better now, my friend.
Nah, that's a foster system issue. The abusers are also the most likely to use the foster system for their personal benefit.
@@johnn.2017 its a struggle but who's isn't? I'm a married mom of 3 kids that are the absolute light of my existence. I am, because of them. They have saved my life more times than they will ever know. I work hard to be better then what I grew up with. Thank you for hoping and I hope the same for you.
I love the way you look at things. It’s all about perception, and not everyone is going to like something. Like you said, it’s subjective. It’s a good thing too, otherwise life would be pretty boring.
Love what you do. Keep up the great work Diane!
Rarely complain my ass.
Never hit a woman, gets a man put in jail just as fast as hitting a woman. But equality right?
There are two types of people in this world, those that think Bill Burr is hilarious, and those that haven't seen him yet 😁
thx for this reaction, gave me a laugh when i really needed one x
I found it funny. I was taught to never hit a woman. Made it hard when I had to wrestle one back in middle school.
I do know a couple of guys that need the ever lovin crap beat out of them for what they did to their now ex wives/girlfriends.
You’re the type of person who thinks they are saying something good.
@@memyselfandeye8773 you don't know me well enough to say that, but you be you.
Diane!
We all know that humor cannot exist without a kernel of truth. Burr goes there brilliantly, and he does it in today's world of thinnnn skin.
And there's nothing mean-spirited at all about Burr's humor. His eyes twinkle when he provokes people, and he never goes over the line. It's pretty clear that he's got a lifetime of "anger issues" behind him but he's also got a ton of self-awareness about them, and he draws wit and wisdom from that self-awareness.
I wish you hadn’t cut so much of the vid. Felt a bit over edited. Part of what makes a lot of Bill Burr clips so good is how he uses silence to let the point sink in for a bit. Otherwise, good reaction and you’re really funny. Will be watching more👌🏻
The last time I went to the emergency room, I spoke with three different women and described my suffering, the third of which came in with a laptop and asked for my insurance and billing information (which I had already provided the first two). "Did you want to find out what's wrong with me before you start taking my money please?" When the fourth woman came in and asked what was wrong, I told her I was in intense pain due to a back injury, as I'd told the others. "What did your doctor say," she asked. "I haven't F*cking SEEN one! DO you people not speak to each other? Are there any doctors here, or just you people?" She says, "I can give you some Ibuprofen for now." I put my clothes back on, drove to the local Walgreens for a bottle of Ibuprofen ($2.99, by the way, and it only took 3 minutes), and haven't been back to the hospital in ten years. I still have back pain, but I'm not enduring THAT shit again.
I think women do win the argument in relationships. Your reactions are always the best. Bill Burr is entertaining. Making a video with no a/c in the summer is tough not to sweat. I find a quiet mini fan helps not to sweat. I hope you turned the a/c back on after the video. Happy Wednesday, Diane and Chewie.
I sure did! There were too many comments complaining about the hum when I left it on 😔
@@DianeJennings No complaints from me, You do such a great job, Diane! The majority I am sure agrees with me. You put a lot of effort in your videos and it shows. Glad You turned the a/c back on. Anytime I make a video I do the same thing turning off the a/c.
Kind of a general sweeping statement don't you think? A woman has never been wrong in an argument? I'm only 21, most arguments I've had with many women has already been enough for a lifetime. They'd rather roll over and die before they admit that they're wrong.
"and women never compline" lmao ok honey
I think I can give some insight into the "Typical guy thing" of not going to the doctor. Most of the guys in my family, and most of my Male friends (and myself included in all of these people tallied up) have a HORRIBLE habit of just assuming with enough rest it'll get better. I uh, nearly died of Pneumonia after months of a REALLY bad cough and even at times coughing up blood, just figuring it'd eventually get better. No need to go see a doctor about it if I can just rest and sleep it off. It took that uh, near death incident to course correct that but around here it's definitely a common occurrence for guys lol!
Yeah I'm not sure what guys she's hanging around with, not sure how old she is though. I'm in my 30s and all of the men in my family have a terrible habit of just trying to "sleep it off". Along with the vast majority of my male friends. And when I say sleep it off, I mean over the course of months if not a year until the problem starts escalating. Even if there's no improvement people just tend to assume that it's going to be okay in the end lol... Can't even count the amount of injuries I've had that I regret not going to hospital for early on.
I've broken bones and not gone to A&E for days, the only time I actually went immediately was when one of the bones in my hand was sticking out and almost breaking through the skin. The most recent case of terrible judgement was waiting a year to get my elbow scanned after having a really loud and painful snap while doing tricep dips. Kept thinking it would improve and just lived with the discomfort (and the cringe inducing crunches when I bend my arm) until I started getting major nerve pain shooting down my arm a year later. Got it checked out recently and it turns out I snapped a ligament in my elbow and dislocated the ulnar nerve....
I've had plenty, PLENTY of days when my leg, head, eyes, ears, heart hurt like hell, sometimes for days. And it went away. Out of curiosity(and I saved some money), for my 30th birthday I did a complete A-Z doctors physical appointment, blood tests, x-rays etc. IT WAS ALL FINE. Imagine if we as guys went to the doctor for every single headache or pinkie ache. Jesus, we'd be bankrupt by the time we're 40.
Just keep your hands to yourself, period. Don't put ur hands on me(regardless if it's a man or woman) and I won't put my hands on you. Bill Burr is best comic out there
My equivalent to Bill Burr's "you've already won -- take a knee, and run out the clock" is to agree with my wife. It doesn't matter whether she's right or not. If she's wrong, sooner or later she'll come to the right conclusion. When she does that, the key is to NEVER say "See? I was right all along!" Because saying that sends the victory spinning downward in flames. I have to win silently.
but how do you fight and argue? coz cant always use this, be dead inside, or in worst cases, she thinks she is so much better than you(ego pump can happen to anyone like this).
@@effexon Read every word I wrote thoughtfully. It's about the relationship being more important than your ego. That's the only path to long-term compatibility.
@@effexon I don't get it either. Sure, you don't have to blow everything out of proportion and a "see? I was right" is unnecessary, but to simply agree no matter what, only to avoid a discussion or dispute?
Those tend to be the guys you don't want to be too close to when all that bottled up stuff breaks free.
This gives me serious "Neighbors say he was always a nice and quiet guy" - vibes
some of the funniest parts you paused through and then skipped but you're totally rocking it keep up the good work
The “men being babies when they’re sick” thing is a stereotype, but based on a certain type of guy. Mostly it’s guys who were babied by their mother. Personally I don’t want to be babied when I’m sick. I have to be bed ridden to accept any help. I’m rarely sick enough to need help and I never want sympathy. Most of the time I just want to be left alone so I can rest.
No shit. When I'm sick I want to be left the fuck alone.
My mother never babied me, if I wasn't bleeding then I was fine. So, I would like to be babied... but I know it won't happen. Even if a woman did want to spend time with me (I don't make enough money for that), I probably wouldn't tell her about any issues I'm having... for fear of her telling me that a nail in my hand is nothing compared to child birth, just like my mother used to say.
@@hermanphilips4617 Dude, money is no excuse. I've gone from poor to comfortable and it never affected my ability to date.
@@ROArecords2 So, you never had to pay for everything on the date? Even the women getting paid more than me expect me to pay for everything, so if I can't afford what they want then they don't want to be around me. I haven't yet found a woman I get along with that isn't already married. Board games, hikes, camping... all those women are already married. Parties, dating apps... those women want me to pay for everything, and won't give me a handshake, never mind a hug.
I know that good women exists, it's just that all the ones I meet are married. I can't find any good, unmarried women in my age range.
However, if I was making six figures and willing to spend three figures every date night, then I could easily get one of the available women. However, many of them it looks like gifts would have to be in the four figure range... and even if I could afford that, that stuff isn't to my taste.
4:06 when we’re sick?? Yes.
But injuries?? We tend to brush it off until we have no choice lmao
You’re mistaking “external” pain with internal pain. Men more often handle and ignore “external” pain, like bones, muscles and skin better than women do, while women handle “internal” pain much better, like sickness, flu, cold, pms, stomach aches, etc.
I think this is intentional design or if you believe in evolution. Women have to deal with childbirth so are more equipped to handle internal pain, while men have to deal with injury from work, war, hunting, and are more equipped to deal with broken bones, cuts, muscle tears.