I feel I have changed, big time. Now I'm wondering whether I want my ex back. She needs to change too, and I only see she is still having an affair and not doing what i think is right moving forwards. I'm not sure she is worth it any more.
One of the best parts of most of both of your videos is that your voices are very soothing, and easy to relax while listening to. Thank you for your content!
I really like your videos straight to the point and on point all the time. I like the point where you say making a mistake doesn't define you as a human being, for as long as we are not repeating the same mistakes
You talk regularly about co depency but what about an ex who leaves you because you have a past of co decency and so you decided to be more independent and rely more on your passions, making him breaking up with you?
Wow this video helped me reduce my distress. And I have hope now that maybe I can mend things. And if not that's ok. As long as she feels safe and happy now.
How long after a breakup should communication take place? We broke up last week after she said she needed time to heal. No infidelity or disrespect involved. Truly miscommunication. I try to not communicate much but I know I can’t go cold turkey either.
So my husband hasn’t talked to me for 5 months and we don’t see each other. So I called to see if he was ok and he seemed so happy and out with friends. We have been together for almost ten years and he just cut it off. I guess I just figure he will come back or he won’t.
Thank you Stephanie We would love to help you and understand more about the situation and circumstance, please consider booking 1:1 session with us www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Alex
Today I tried talking to my boyfriend and I've apologized for making a big argument that caused our relationship to dissolve. I've apologized , but he does not want to try again but wants to remain friends. He says he still loves me, but is not willing to budge on getting back together again. What should I do?
It could be they did not do the growth, and it could be it couldn't work for reason we may not know. I understand the thought, it creeps up on me even though I am doing the work for my own genuine desire to simply be a better man. To some level, a prerequisite for the our own growth lies in acceptance to engage in unconditional love. For me it became spiritual, we reject God everyday yet His love remains unchanged... Hope this helps
Only hard thing for me is that she’s gonna do the things we did with someone else but at least I was her first and we both had a good time it’s just hard to accept
What if we weren’t married but we separated ourselves from all joint account like cellphone, bills, insurance and etc? Does that mean it’s all over for good? Like separating all these things, seems like it’s a permanent decision. And I believe she is talking to someone while she was with me.
I think one of the hardest things is letting go what you guys were and showing her your still looking out for her best interest to show genuine support, I think the more they see your okay with this they might coming back and the feeling of man he’s getting over me he looks happy might come back . But the talking to someone else thing happened to me too , she claimed him as a friend which in that moment you need to believe her non matter what because soon as you accuse it’s going down hill broths
They always are talking to someone They always have their parachute packed and ready to go when they suddenly without warning jump off the plane you thought you were piloting
The problem is he doesn’t want to hear anything. I apologies no explanations. I’ve told him I would like to talk because it’s the only way he can get a clear understanding and explain myself and he keeps saying he doesn’t need any explanations that he clearly understands and knows how to read text and I tell him texting is not the best way to talk because often times they’re misunderstood and no emotions behind them and he would get upset if it’s long message but these situations are not to be discussed over text because he doesn’t want to be bothered. We have a 7 year old daughter married for 6 years together 10 years
My ex told me to reach out if I ever changed my mind, which I did. She said she never expected me to come back and said she thinks we aren't right for each other. I opened up to her and when we said goodbye bye she hugged me tightly, kissed me on the cheek first, then kissed me on the lips. I told her I disagree that we can't make it work, but I respect her decision. Haven't talked to her since. We are facebook friends and she still likes my photos, but I don't want to push her away with constant contact. I miss her. I'm confused, but I'm also glad that I told her everything that I wanted to say when I saw her last
My ex called me last week his asking me to get back to him it's been four months now we were not talking to each other...but there's an isue here I can see that he's still in the past behavior what he was doing is still doing it even now that he wants to get back so what will do yes I love him but am confused
My ex broke up with me, i made alot of mistakes that was mentioned here. She keeps on telling me she does not know what the future holds. I really want to be with her? What can i do?
Hi there! We're sorry to hear about this and thank you for sharing this with us. I know our coaches would love to help you with this so I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with one of our coaches so they can help you through your situation. www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
Biggest point u hv made getting back to ua x really doesnt mean he/or she is ready n so its a procces to follow...hv tried this joke out coz of the love i had for him n for keeping my fmly going but this is the most messy thing i did coz the dude was not ready to change n was thrice evil than there b4...now i understand coz now he is chasing a person who is totally not ready for it n i now understand clearly abt ua point
Me n my ex recently broke up I been wanting to be with him he says he confused he can’t trust me again I love him so much I hope we can get back togther I messed up by pleading n begging but now I give up
Don't give up Latoya! We have a video on our channel that talks about how to regain trust from an ex. I hope you find the time to check it out. ua-cam.com/video/5S4a8Q562xs/v-deo.html -LATV Team
Thank you Sometimes for these instances you have to allow the individual to go through their personal issues and growth, otherwise the issues will continue Does this make sense? Thanks Coach Alex
Thank you for the comment and following. We can certainly help you, please consider booking 1:1 session! Use link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Alex
18 yrs married and going through a difficult time because of his repeated infidelity. He wanted a divorce to be free and be with his girlfriend. I said OK and told him I'll leave the house. But its confusing because he doesn't want me to leave. He is a narcissist, by the way.
I've been watching your videos very recently and I find them really helpful, the one scenario I cannot seem to find is when my ex (dumper) still follows me on every social media, we still have our relationship set on fb and she haven't even deleted our pics on ig even tho she was the one that broke up with me, it's been almost a week of no contact from my part and she still watches my ig stories, can someone tell me what may be going on?
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After 21 years of love and togatherness with three children, she fall for guy in just short term of comunication and almost 2 years togatherness and demand for divorce to get married that guy. Now we are separated and by divorce protocol to attend counceling at government office which was comoleted but not sure she file the case at court to get divorce. We are separated now for 9 months and stop seeing her and children for 3 month's . Not sure she will realised she will come back? not sure they both in contact as condition set by him to get divorce 😢 , Can advice further any chance to be togather again? Thanks
Hello i love your advice that goes for both of you 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I am in a relationship crisis I’ll tell you what happened and give me your advice. I was at my gf house and it was cold outside so they had heater running so when i left her house got home to call her that i mad it safe she didn’t answer the call 20 minutes later i called back again she again didn’t answer 5 minutes later she called and she said did you make it i said yes and i said i tried calling you but you didn’t answer that’s when i felt she was lying to me she said oh i was closing the windows and my cat was jumping all over the place so that’s when i said why are you lying? And she said ok there you go i am going to hang up the phone then i said you want to do that go a head. And she did so its been 4 days that we have not talked to each others. So what is your advice? Thank you
how about my situation i din't do anything wrong he broke to me because he said he is gay but i dont believe it but my mistake is i beg to him and now he block me😭😭
Hi there, I know our coaches would love to help you with this! You can book a coaching session with us using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/ -LATV Team
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity I would love to book it, but I'm in the financial difficulty right now and can't afford it. I really know it would benefit me from the testimonials I've read. I'm really in a bad situation. I'm learning from your videos as much as I can.
Acctually u said we must not talk abt the past but that past is the one made us a part...now here is the thing when my x approaches me my main goal is to know if he realizes his mistake but instead of admitting he did n changed...he never accept n always blew up n claims me am part of his tears....haa do u think this person has changed or do u think he isvready again for a hpply marriage..mto me is just avwaistage of time geting back to a person u never apologize neither accept he messed instend laying a finger on me blaming me....surely we need to here person accepting his mistake thats when u know he has really changed by realizing his mistake ....otherwise moving forward with my life is much health than geting back to the sane mess ....
And here I am trying to clear all the misunderstandings and willing to do whatever it takes to prove him but he doesn’t wanna listen probably because I begged and pleaded him countless times to give me a second chance. I’m blocked from everywhere. Somedays I feel like he would come back and somedays I just feel hopeless. A part of me has accepted that he won’t come back. Let’s see what happens :)
your topic is about ex ,i always watch your video but your most topic is ex on my situation why i need to impress my ex i dont like him because he is a womanizer why i need to let him back
I know your content is geared for the younger generation. Could have used this decades ago. How I lost the man of my dreams is still beyond me. Throughout our time together, which was decades, I don't know how it was possible, but I felt our souls intertwining as one every time we connected. Yet, we still broke apart. I felt that death, wasn't pretty. After being celibate for way too long, that is the only thing I miss and want. I lived the fairytaled love life which I enjoyed immensely. I just hate the fact, I feel like this man was guided to me when were 6 and 8. Met in our teens, and was inseparable for many decades. Then it was over. It didn't help that b4 meeting him love interests, either moved or died. Then also after we split the same scenario. Why this guy? I can't even work a word search without seeing his first or last name. Thanks for the clip though. 😊
@FurryLewds It didn't. After giving me the feeling of a genuine true love story, he became a ghost. He does all he can to avoid me but yet moved 2x close to me when I moved. He was forgiven ages ago. Do I want him back? Not really, I just miss his touch.
My ex-wife and I split for 1 year now. She has reached out "for the kids" to me 6 times already, and I blow it every time because i couldn't control my emotions, I have made every mistake possible. 4 months ago, she started dating someone, this person has also gotten divorced around the same time. But it seems to me the have skipped dating and gone straight back into "married life" would you say this is a rebound relationship and have I blown it for good.
No, we can help all relationships beyond heterosexual relationships :-) If you would like to book a coaching session with us. You can find more information using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
8:54 , When Coach Adrin said even if you've done all these mistakes and you think omg that's me, i was actually thinking that. Then he gave me a hope❤
I feel I have changed, big time.
Now I'm wondering whether I want my ex back.
She needs to change too, and I only see she is still having an affair and not doing what i think is right moving forwards.
I'm not sure she is worth it any more.
These two guys have beautiful souls!
One of the best parts of most of both of your videos is that your voices are very soothing, and easy to relax while listening to. Thank you for your content!
Thanks for the advice. Especially about not continuing to talk about the past.
This format is much better and has some substance.
Thank you Neil for following and watching!
Coach Alex
I love that I’m already on the right path. She just shit tested this last week and I believe I passed.
Im getting closer to being ready, this video showed me I still have a ways to go...feeling positive
Love you guys! Thank you for all that you do and for your passion for helping hurting people.
I’m glad I looked up this channel. This content gives me hope 🙏🏿
how did it go? did you get her/him back?
This is authentic advice that doesn't promote manipulative behavior or power games in order to win someone back.
Good video
Thanks a lot.
I really like your videos straight to the point and on point all the time. I like the point where you say making a mistake doesn't define you as a human being, for as long as we are not repeating the same mistakes
Now this humility I need to learn
This was meant for me ..I made these mistakes...but thanks so much. Am learning alot
What happened
You talk regularly about co depency but what about an ex who leaves you because you have a past of co decency and so you decided to be more independent and rely more on your passions, making him breaking up with you?
I should have saw this months ago. I made absolutely every mistake
Wow this video helped me reduce my distress. And I have hope now that maybe I can mend things. And if not that's ok. As long as she feels safe and happy now.
Thanks for your comment!
I love you both. Completely direct and to the point but kind in your delivery ❤ Thank you 😊
How long after a breakup should communication take place? We broke up last week after she said she needed time to heal. No infidelity or disrespect involved. Truly miscommunication. I try to not communicate much but I know I can’t go cold turkey either.
Going through same thing, but with the child involved.
Thank you amazing video, I’m not ready yet to try and ask for forgiveness
So my husband hasn’t talked to me for 5 months and we don’t see each other. So I called to see if he was ok and he seemed so happy and out with friends. We have been together for almost ten years and he just cut it off. I guess I just figure he will come back or he won’t.
Thank you Stephanie
We would love to help you and understand more about the situation and circumstance, please consider booking 1:1 session with us
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thank you
Coach Alex
Today I tried talking to my boyfriend and I've apologized for making a big argument that caused our relationship to dissolve. I've apologized , but he does not want to try again but wants to remain friends. He says he still loves me, but is not willing to budge on getting back together again. What should I do?
Do not continue on as his friend. Move on to continue improving yourself.
Hi guys, brilliant video once again. Could you make content on how to contact your ex after 3/4 months no contact? Thank you
Great suggestion!
I love watching the two of you.
What happened to old videos with coach Natalie ?? they are all gone .
What do you do if they are already seeing other people? Just give up and walk away?
It could be they did not do the growth, and it could be it couldn't work for reason we may not know. I understand the thought, it creeps up on me even though I am doing the work for my own genuine desire to simply be a better man.
To some level, a prerequisite for the our own growth lies in acceptance to engage in unconditional love. For me it became spiritual, we reject God everyday yet His love remains unchanged... Hope this helps
I know not to bring up the past but what do I do if she brings it up
Only hard thing for me is that she’s gonna do the things we did with someone else but at least I was her first and we both had a good time it’s just hard to accept
It’s actually a complement. They want to replicate what they had with you, with someone else. But the thing is, it doesn’t work.
@@skyewhitlock2479it is a little bit but it’s a really hard thing to deal with. I miss her a lot.
What if we weren’t married but we separated ourselves from all joint account like cellphone, bills, insurance and etc? Does that mean it’s all over for good? Like separating all these things, seems like it’s a permanent decision. And I believe she is talking to someone while she was with me.
I think one of the hardest things is letting go what you guys were and showing her your still looking out for her best interest to show genuine support, I think the more they see your okay with this they might coming back and the feeling of man he’s getting over me he looks happy might come back . But the talking to someone else thing happened to me too , she claimed him as a friend which in that moment you need to believe her non matter what because soon as you accuse it’s going down hill broths
They always are talking to someone
They always have their parachute packed and ready to go when they suddenly without warning jump off the plane you thought you were piloting
The problem is he doesn’t want to hear anything. I apologies no explanations. I’ve told him I would like to talk because it’s the only way he can get a clear understanding and explain myself and he keeps saying he doesn’t need any explanations that he clearly understands and knows how to read text and I tell him texting is not the best way to talk because often times they’re misunderstood and no emotions behind them and he would get upset if it’s long message but these situations are not to be discussed over text because he doesn’t want to be bothered. We have a 7 year old daughter married for 6 years together 10 years
Thank you for increasing my knowledge.
That's me, my mistakes
She called while I was watching this video, we up
These videos are great, awesome advice. Also provides clarity and closure to an uncertain time.
Glad you like them!
Just curious did u get bqxk with ur ex?
A very thanks to you both
Really great video, thank you 🙏🏼
My ex told me to reach out if I ever changed my mind, which I did. She said she never expected me to come back and said she thinks we aren't right for each other. I opened up to her and when we said goodbye bye she hugged me tightly, kissed me on the cheek first, then kissed me on the lips. I told her I disagree that we can't make it work, but I respect her decision. Haven't talked to her since. We are facebook friends and she still likes my photos, but I don't want to push her away with constant contact. I miss her. I'm confused, but I'm also glad that I told her everything that I wanted to say when I saw her last
What if she reaches out to you? A brief text but very personal
Thank God for you guys. Thank you for what your doing.
My ex called me last week his asking me to get back to him it's been four months now we were not talking to each other...but there's an isue here I can see that he's still in the past behavior what he was doing is still doing it even now that he wants to get back so what will do yes I love him but am confused
thanks. we didn't break up but other woman discovered me. so suddenly stop our communication.
How do I get her yo take the steps with me I don't want to mess this up
My ex broke up with me, i made alot of mistakes that was mentioned here. She keeps on telling me she does not know what the future holds. I really want to be with her? What can i do?
Hi there! We're sorry to hear about this and thank you for sharing this with us. I know our coaches would love to help you with this so I would highly suggest you book a coaching call with one of our coaches so they can help you through your situation.
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
-LATV Team
you guys are really on point! great content and keep up the great work!
This video is amazing and beautiful!....
How do I lay the foundation
Thanks for the good advice
You're welcome!
The best info i received untill now!! Thank you. ❤
Thanks to you!
how do you get to a place where you stop pinning and realize that, why work for an ex back who didn't want to work for me in the first place?
One of the hardest things to accept for me
He did try to test me and I bummed. Again... Is there any chance... I'm hopeful...
How do I set up a one on one session with you guys? How much would it cost?
Hi, here's the link : www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Biggest point u hv made getting back to ua x really doesnt mean he/or she is ready n so its a procces to follow...hv tried this joke out coz of the love i had for him n for keeping my fmly going but this is the most messy thing i did coz the dude was not ready to change n was thrice evil than there b4...now i understand coz now he is chasing a person who is totally not ready for it n i now understand clearly abt ua point
Me n my ex recently broke up I been wanting to be with him he says he confused he can’t trust me again I love him so much I hope we can get back togther I messed up by pleading n begging but now I give up
Don't give up Latoya! We have a video on our channel that talks about how to regain trust from an ex. I hope you find the time to check it out. ua-cam.com/video/5S4a8Q562xs/v-deo.html
-LATV Team
He loves to talk and chat all girls that he's saying they're just friends and it's hurts me so much.
I understand
What to do if the divorce with my ex wife is due to her midlife crisis
Thank you
Sometimes for these instances you have to allow the individual to go through their personal issues and growth, otherwise the issues will continue
Does this make sense?
Thanks
Coach Alex
After a year of separate my ex wanted to have something to discuss with me so what do I do please help
Thank you for the comment and following.
We can certainly help you, please consider booking 1:1 session! Use link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thank you
Coach Alex
Now I’m trying to move on without him
What if the ex moved on months ago and feel they are doing well. Does this process work on someone who already moved on
probably not
Thank you guys for the great advised 💖
Our pleasure!
18 yrs married and going through a difficult time because of his repeated infidelity. He wanted a divorce to be free and be with his girlfriend. I said OK and told him I'll leave the house. But its confusing because he doesn't want me to leave. He is a narcissist, by the way.
I've been watching your videos very recently and I find them really helpful, the one scenario I cannot seem to find is when my ex (dumper) still follows me on every social media, we still have our relationship set on fb and she haven't even deleted our pics on ig even tho she was the one that broke up with me, it's been almost a week of no contact from my part and she still watches my ig stories, can someone tell me what may be going on?
how is it going now mate?
How can i speak with one of you ?
You can book a coaching session here : www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
That’s me, my mistakes
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After 21 years of love and togatherness with three children, she fall for guy in just short term of comunication and almost 2 years togatherness and demand for divorce to get married that guy. Now we are separated and by divorce protocol to attend counceling at government office which was comoleted but not sure she file the case at court to get divorce. We are separated now for 9 months and stop seeing her and children for 3 month's . Not sure she will realised she will come back? not sure they both in contact as condition set by him to get divorce 😢 , Can advice further any chance to be togather again? Thanks
Hi , how can I get one on one coaching
Hi Evangelina! You can book a coaching session as well as view our coaching rates using this link: ua-cam.com/video/5S4a8Q562xs/v-deo.html
-LATV Team
Hello i love your advice that goes for both of you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am in a relationship crisis I’ll tell you what happened and give me your advice.
I was at my gf house and it was cold outside so they had heater running so when i left her house got home to call her that i mad it safe she didn’t answer the call 20 minutes later i called back again she again didn’t answer 5 minutes later she called and she said did you make it i said yes and i said i tried calling you but you didn’t answer that’s when i felt she was lying to me she said oh i was closing the windows and my cat was jumping all over the place so that’s when i said why are you lying? And she said ok there you go i am going to hang up the phone then i said you want to do that go a head. And she did so its been 4 days that we have not talked to each others.
So what is your advice? Thank you
You guys make me cry at 3:00
Great advice from you both! 29:59
Thank you for following!
Thank you
Coach Adrian
I’m just having a hard time not reaching out I miss her so much
It's tough but you can do it!
Yes it’s true the more I want him the more his away from me and it made me feel so very bad about it.
What happens when an ex comes to a relationship where another party is already involved with another woman and have had children?
Omg , 17:30 this is wild.
how about my situation i din't do anything wrong he broke to me because he said he is gay but i dont believe it but my mistake is i beg to him and now he block me😭😭
23:00 great ideas
So ever think I write he can see it.
I already made this mistake 😢I don’t see how I can take it back …
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❤❤ facts on facts
Is there any problem during no contact period to see her daily??
I need your help 😞
Hi there,
I know our coaches would love to help you with this! You can book a coaching session with us using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/
-LATV Team
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity I would love to book it, but I'm in the financial difficulty right now and can't afford it. I really know it would benefit me from the testimonials I've read. I'm really in a bad situation. I'm learning from your videos as much as I can.
Acctually u said we must not talk abt the past but that past is the one made us a part...now here is the thing when my x approaches me my main goal is to know if he realizes his mistake but instead of admitting he did n changed...he never accept n always blew up n claims me am part of his tears....haa do u think this person has changed or do u think he isvready again for a hpply marriage..mto me is just avwaistage of time geting back to a person u never apologize neither accept he messed instend laying a finger on me blaming me....surely we need to here person accepting his mistake thats when u know he has really changed by realizing his mistake ....otherwise moving forward with my life is much health than geting back to the sane mess ....
And here I am trying to clear all the misunderstandings and willing to do whatever it takes to prove him but he doesn’t wanna listen probably because I begged and pleaded him countless times to give me a second chance. I’m blocked from everywhere. Somedays I feel like he would come back and somedays I just feel hopeless. A part of me has accepted that he won’t come back. Let’s see what happens :)
your topic is about ex ,i always watch your video but your most topic is ex on my situation why i need to impress my ex i dont like him because he is a womanizer why i need to let him back
I know your content is geared for the younger generation. Could have used this decades ago. How I lost the man of my dreams is still beyond me. Throughout our time together, which was decades, I don't know how it was possible, but I felt our souls intertwining as one every time we connected. Yet, we still broke apart. I felt that death, wasn't pretty. After being celibate for way too long, that is the only thing I miss and want. I lived the fairytaled love life which I enjoyed immensely. I just hate the fact, I feel like this man was guided to me when were 6 and 8. Met in our teens, and was inseparable for many decades. Then it was over. It didn't help that b4 meeting him love interests, either moved or died. Then also after we split the same scenario. Why this guy? I can't even work a word search without seeing his first or last name. Thanks for the clip though. 😊
@FurryLewds It didn't. After giving me the feeling of a genuine true love story, he became a ghost. He does all he can to avoid me but yet moved 2x close to me when I moved. He was forgiven ages ago. Do I want him back? Not really, I just miss his touch.
What if she is going to marry someone early😢😢😢
I fear this one Soo much, I hope by the time it happens to me I would have moved on and having the best woman for me.
That's me I have done that
❤🎉😊
What’s the email ?
I'd love for a 1 on 1
❤❤❤
My ex-wife and I split for 1 year now. She has reached out "for the kids" to me 6 times already, and I blow it every time because i couldn't control my emotions, I have made every mistake possible. 4 months ago, she started dating someone, this person has also gotten divorced around the same time. But it seems to me the have skipped dating and gone straight back into "married life" would you say this is a rebound relationship and have I blown it for good.
U really would take your wife back after knowing she probably had kissed, touched or had sex with an another dude ?? Bro that’s fucked up.
I hope things worked out for you.
I love my ex so much 😢❤
Is the coaching dedicated only for the heterosexual relationship?
No, we can help all relationships beyond heterosexual relationships :-)
If you would like to book a coaching session with us. You can find more information using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
-LATV Team
I hope i get him back 🙁🤞 im following your tips
Thank you Pearl
Please book 1:1 session
Use link below
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Thanks,
Coach Alex
Adrian seems a bit dim and uneconomical with his speech . Not worthy of payed counselling. Alex on the other hand appears a lot more sharper.
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Thank you @soundofsilence1483 for watching!
Coach Alex
The biggest mistake is wanting an ex back.