Don't Panic: Here's how to Handle Your Ex Dating Again

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  • Опубліковано 10 лют 2025

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  • @kimberlywood7783
    @kimberlywood7783 Рік тому +59

    I wouldn't want anyone back after they "tried" someone else out for size.

  • @sounddrivemusic
    @sounddrivemusic 10 місяців тому +13

    100% , we both have a history of quick rebounds but after she left me im not comfortable with any one else..i tried

  • @mariamjackson2994
    @mariamjackson2994 10 місяців тому +3

    Omg...great advice. This is very informative.

  • @piumiperera5717
    @piumiperera5717 3 місяці тому

    such a relief and thanks for this video

  • @Diana-li4rn
    @Diana-li4rn 15 днів тому

    If you’re separated, and still living under the same roof, and are suspicious they are seeing someone else…is it a bad idea to ask if they are seeing someone else or do I just tell him I’m moving out and let that piece of information go?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  12 днів тому

      Hello, at this stage, the rebound relationship doesn't need to be brought up. As I mentioned, the biggest fear that human beings face is the fear of losing something dear to them, so if you are moving out, your ex's attention will become locked on you.
      Wishing you much success,
      Coach Alex

  • @ginadiodati1965
    @ginadiodati1965 Рік тому +8

    I made the mistake of staying friends 😢 and we were great friends actually and a mature and appropriate platonic relationship until he met someone recently and I can't ever talk to him again now. I didn't realize how bad I'd take it when he finally found someone. The sad part, we remained such good platonic friends 10 months after our breakup and when I tried to date and move on a few months ago, he got very hurt and said he couldn't see me with another man and would end the friendship, so I stopped going on dates because I valued his friendship and had no idea he still had feelings....now he's in a relationship and begged to stay friends with me. Nope.

    • @danny9guzz
      @danny9guzz 11 місяців тому +2

      I’m going through the exact same thing. So heartbroken and lonely while they are out having a great time

    • @deiseguimaraes7832
      @deiseguimaraes7832 7 місяців тому

      Let them go!!!

  • @CherryLC161
    @CherryLC161 Рік тому +4

    He left me for her but Why do they downgrade he’s with someone who is not all that or all there . If she was in a different class to me I could understand but he has downgraded quite badly .

  • @OBOHJOSEPHINEEBIREDELU
    @OBOHJOSEPHINEEBIREDELU Рік тому +3

    In a long distance relationship where the guy promise to come and take his partner but few days to the time he just pulled away . Alex, is he coming back?or will that relationship work?

  • @pualo9263
    @pualo9263 9 днів тому

    A leopard doesnt loe their spots. Where they really putting in an effort? Was it all about their emotional support and attention? Where they really invested in you or just needed you for validation?
    Its hard to move on.
    Theyre seeing someone very quick and chatting to them in the relationship??
    Over...

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  6 днів тому

      Hi there and thank you for sharing your opinion. We're happy to have you here!
      Coach Adrian

  • @gerardohernndez6839
    @gerardohernndez6839 Рік тому +5

    So if she is dating someone else and having intimacy with them. I should wait until she realizes that she still loves me. Can you guys do a video on this topic. Thank you!

    • @yuujisakai2397
      @yuujisakai2397 Рік тому +3

      Just go no contact and update yourself on social media. Let she see your change. Future if she is broke up, she will remember you first.

    • @jmceballos6777
      @jmceballos6777 Рік тому +4

      Move on

  • @leizelcabalsi3937
    @leizelcabalsi3937 Рік тому +2

    Me and my bf we never broke up but i now that he is avoiding me getting cold,i give him space and time no contact at all after 24 days of no contact he reach out to me is it okay that i respoce his mesage?

  • @Octavia-iw3ky
    @Octavia-iw3ky 7 місяців тому +1

    Mmy husband had multiple relationships and did not even wait for the divorce to finalize, he went to be with one of the women he was cheating with. Did this man ever love me?

  • @thtdiamondd3597
    @thtdiamondd3597 Місяць тому

    Why he tells me tht he not ready and put me out just
    to find out that he talking to someone else

  • @dianedoud5406
    @dianedoud5406 Рік тому +1

    Is it the same if we were together after a breakup, trying again and he sneeked off dating someone new,

  • @hayleychapman9392
    @hayleychapman9392 Рік тому +3

    Hi coach alex and adrian, i would love a video on how to get your ex back if you have kids and he doesn't. Its hard to make a guy think about commiting to me when i have kids with someone else. I havent found so far anything that talks about this.
    There are videos about if you have children together. But for me, i have 6 kids and his excuse was that he doesnt think he can commit to that. Despite an amazing relationship:-( no begging etc, did everything right post breakup but am still feeling like i might lose him now. Feeling a bit hopeless.

  • @luwiz4168
    @luwiz4168 Рік тому +3

    Hi coach, why should I feel more hopeful of my chances after a second breakup? and why is it easier than the first??

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  Рік тому +1

      It can vary from situation to situation, it depends on the circumstances
      Thanks
      Coach Adrian

  • @joshsaundh4851
    @joshsaundh4851 Рік тому +3

    Hi love advice what should I do because I have not seen my girlfriend in 8 months and I really miss my girlfriend so much so should I take my girlfriend on a date

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  Рік тому

      Thank you
      Although you and her have not seen each other what other communication have you had thus far?
      Thanks
      Coach Alex

    • @joshsaundh4851
      @joshsaundh4851 Рік тому

      @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity well me and my girlfriend are texting and my girlfriend sends me a heart emoji

    • @namakaukonala5431
      @namakaukonala5431 Рік тому

      What. If he has. Impregnated the rebound

  • @jelloj1987
    @jelloj1987 Рік тому +1

    How do you handle this when you have kids involved and your not divorce yet but she’s seeing someone else already?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  Рік тому +3

      Thank you
      You would only communicate for the kids at this time.
      And do no contact otherwise.
      Thanks
      Coach Adrian

  • @fossostv
    @fossostv Рік тому +1

    why would i want her back?

    • @SAVINASAYS44
      @SAVINASAYS44 10 місяців тому

      If you don't then this doesn't apply to you obviously.

  • @lucarvajalll
    @lucarvajalll Рік тому +1

    Is it possible to get anything possitive out of a relationship since my ex has left about 3 times already?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  Рік тому +5

      Hello
      Thank you for the comment and post
      If your partner leaving has become a pattern you might want to consider why the patterns continue. This might further lead you to another direction and not take them back.
      Thanks
      Coach Adrian

  • @kyliestone588
    @kyliestone588 Рік тому

    10 months later he’s still dating who i think is the rebound. our second breakup and they’re FBO

    • @senatorarmstrong9459
      @senatorarmstrong9459 Рік тому

      Me and my ex dated for almost a year and weren't Facebook official. But the funny thing was, she is now dating a guy after we broke up, little over a month, she made it fb official and that was only after a month. Don't tolerate that bs. They are afraid to be alone and using the new person as a bandaid to bandage their baggage which will 100% be in the new relationship and they will realize they had issues and realize their mistake. But by then for you and I hopefully,it will be to damn late for our ex to realize we were good for them truly. And when that happens, it's your life to make the choice, same as mine.

    • @devankurmitra4118
      @devankurmitra4118 Рік тому

      going through exactly this , she thinks she is healed becuz she got "saved" as a Christian after 2 weeks of breakup and made it official with a Christian guy a month later , she says that "he will make a great father for his christian kids" already hopefully she reaps what she sows , it hurts but i am using this time to self improve @@senatorarmstrong9459

  • @michaelclaycomb8273
    @michaelclaycomb8273 Рік тому +2

    Is it ok for us to date too if our ex started dating again

    • @paulsell2438
      @paulsell2438 Рік тому +5

      Absolutely, be sure to heal yourself first so you are in a good place mentally and not just using someone else to mask the pain.

    • @adenizenabroad9593
      @adenizenabroad9593 Рік тому +1

      Give yourself time to heal and harness your full potential that way you’re ready for something real as opposed to their rebound.

  • @terrodar19
    @terrodar19 Рік тому +6

    Ex wife of two months started talking to a guy a month after we split. We share 3 kids. The guy makes way less $ than me and im better looking.. plus she’s struggling financially already even with child support. Worst mistake of her life, the dude is her second worst mistake…. i want to win her back but shes gonna have to show me true desire, otherwise forget it

    • @douglaslawhorn5563
      @douglaslawhorn5563 Рік тому +3

      I'm running into something somewhere, my ex of 7 years we split last year in March and I pursued her until I found no contact videos 10 months in. Reached out for my first time the other day my dog got attacked by another dog and needed help she's in the pet industry. She was cold and I'm interested. Her and her new guy are struggling financially. Just let them fail on their own

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Antonio for sharing your story and thoughts!
      I am sorry this has happened to you but it also seems like you are in a good space and working on yourself and goals!
      Thanks
      Coach Adrian

    • @mamacitaa1049
      @mamacitaa1049 Рік тому +1

      You only want her back because she’s now with someone else.
      Men don’t appreciate what they babe until someone else has her.

    • @terrodar19
      @terrodar19 Рік тому

      @@mamacitaa1049 she treated me horribly too, zero respect. In reality that is my fault for not setting boundaries in the beginning… turning her around will be next to impossible

    • @gregepps1669
      @gregepps1669 Рік тому

      My ex and I have been split over 14 months and she has dating this new guy for about a year. I'm also dating someone.
      However my ex and I still communicate but I still have feelings for her. However I don't think she feels the same way about me.
      I'm considering blocking my ex and just close the book permanently.

  • @DannyLorrd
    @DannyLorrd Рік тому

    Hi coach Alex, me and my girlfriend had a misunderstanding, and she said is over between us, i keep on begging and pleading for another chance, i even asked the family and friends begg her for another chance for me but she said in a voice recording today with her friends that she is not coming back so should move on, doing the no contact, can i get back with her?? Or what should I do to get her back

  • @andersonsooma6960
    @andersonsooma6960 10 місяців тому +2

    My girlfriend loves me but she said our age difference is too much. Am 52 and she's 23. How do I convince her to stay with me. I really love her

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  10 місяців тому +2

      You might want to book a coaching session in order to create a plan because we need more details.

  • @autismcureisaprocess1549
    @autismcureisaprocess1549 Рік тому +2

    How can I get personal coaching