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It’s not necessarily about CHANGING who you are as a person inside, it’s about being able to continue to be yourself and progress your life even if they aren’t there. You are untethered.
@@jahvonnewton5557 precisely, a lot of ppl get stuck on CHANGE, "I don't want to change you" , "ppl can't change" , etc. When in reality love, like many other things in life, is about IMPROVEMENT, GROWTH, PROGRESS. Once ppl realize and accept this, they'll be able to communicate their wants and needs, also be able to communicate in a healthy manner in general. Leading to being able to accept someone and love them. This is why it's important to practice self love and really accept who we are and work hard on improving who we are. How we love ourselves will directly translate to how we love others.
Thank you for this video. Very well taken points. Second marraige, now divorced after 20 years (First wife of 21 years died). My problem is that my ex is totally tethered to the past and terrified of the future. She tells me that she loves me but unless she can have a 100 percent guarantee that I will not repeat some past bad behavior that broke her trust in me, she cannot stand having to possibly go through the same thing again. I have done a great deal of work and have changed alot but it seems that she does not want to even look at my changes unless she feels that they are guaranteed to be permanent. SO my analogy is that I can bring her into my movie theater to see a movie of the new me, but she will not even look at the screen. That said, we do talk or text frequently on a friendly, not needy, basis, though most of it relates to the granchildren we have in common.
Thank you guys for this video. I'm too emotional and I guessed that was what caused the break up, please how can I change from that, I really want him back
my ex broke up with me because she thought she liked someone else, shes an unbelievably intemite woman. her dad was abusive and her mom is a drug addict but out of all of this she is the most kind a generous person ive ever met. she says she liked someone else, but i believe it was because i was extremely emotional when my dad lost custody of me. i was insecure and was scared of other men in her life and when she was with friends. im ready to make a crazy change. weve known each other since we were in elementry. shes always been the one. i cant let my fuck ups stop what could be.
Hi. My ex left me because she wanted “space & time” and since the BU, I was still going over to her place, hanging out and being mutual. That lasted about a month. Then she told me she couldn’t do it anymore, and blocked me on everything. 3 year relationship.
Shoulda pulled away and given her that space and time like she said give her that time and space away from you to miss you and let her emotions process
Happened the exact same to me however it was 6 month relationship , I discovered that she was on a rebound and was using me and wanted to be in love with me that worked for few months but then she felt out of love and moved on to find someone else to be "in love " with in my opinion also for distraction , so all this it is not about you
My baby momma said there was no chance of getting back that she loves me but no more relationship how do I fix that it's been a few months I worked on myself better since we broke up but she said there no relationship she wants to be friends I said I'd be friendly towards her for my daughter but I would like to get her back and I don't what steps to take I can't afford one on one with ye but a message on this would help me I love my girlfriend I'm nearly over her but I'm still holding onto hope
What do I do…. I got pregnant by my ex (we were just sleeping together not dating even tho I want to) and now here I am pregnant and he’s ignoring me and it’s pushed him away further?
Thank you for the comment and sharing your story, I am sorry that you are dealing with this, especially when you are pregnant. We would need to learn more about the situation and discuss possible scenarios with the action plan. Please book 1:1 session using link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thank you Coach Alex
she doesnt want to talk to me anymore the only way i can do so i giving her a letter telling her ive changed hoping for a second chance to talk to me again and let me prove that ive changed how should i write her the letter is it a good idea to say ive changed some part of stuff? I hope i can get a respond from you i dont really have much money to hire a coach
Guys my ex lost feeling to me because i was very rude to her, know im really hopeless and truly sorry i miss her and i love her, i want to give her the attention she deserves, what should i do
Hello,me and my ex had been together for 7 years till last year me n my kids moved out of town to start a better life after my ex husband finishes his probation but after 3 months after we moved he broke up with me.n he did the no contact wit me but recently said my step daughter wnts to see me but by myself.what does that mean
Hi, My girlfriend broken up with me bcz of my behaviour. She made her mind not to stay. But i forced her to stay and she dont want but at the end she conviced to observe me for the change in my behaviour and gave a time of 2 months. She is talking to me but completely in negative way. I cant meet her directly. can you help me how to change her now.
Alex what does it mean when she dating someone else and that man left her and she start tooking with you and try to ask about that man while you the fast to date her is their any way to get it back
Hello Hussein We would love to help you, but to answer your question in detail we need to know more. This type of analysis is usually done 1:1 in a coaching session. www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
Thank you Amisha This would be dependent on your personal growth and experience during no contact and where you stand emotionally and physically. Thank you Coach Alex
If you meet up with your ex' when had 4 hours of great happy conversation. He said he was going on a trip we had talked about. I said I could not believe he was going without me. I know I probably should not have said that. Do I apologize for it or just let it go?
Guys and Ladies. My ex has a new partner and it's not going well. When the new partner moved in I didn't take it well and for the past month have done everything wrong. He was getting ready to block me. But three days ago I was watching this and no contact is not an option because of business and agreements we decided to have a morning video call (his new partner hovering) and then only necessary business contact. Of course I couldn't keep that together. After I watched this video I reassessed everything including my intentions. Modified my behavior to less than agreed ....Two days later he's calling ME and we actually talked for an hour like real friends we both laughed! We did some sharing. I promised to keep my distance and give him and them space just like I have the previous two days. I got the opportunity to explain what changed and it was my valuing myself and loving myself and telling him with 100% sincerity that I want him to be happy even if it's not with me.... And I meant it. He even commented that he could tell in a very short time I had turned back into myself... Which he likes, and he knew I was sincere. We stayed in the present and when it drifted into future or past mode I redirected to the now. Yes our circumstances are different but I've fully embraced being his friend, which we've been since we broke up 4 years ago and he admitted that I am his soul mate and he's miserable in his current relationship. Told be over the past weeks he's thought about how much he fights with the new guy but how harmonious we were. But he has also stubborn and will stay in this relationship until it completely implodes...I give it maybe 6 more months. But I'm willing to wait and stay socially active and working on myself. I'm more determined than ever to do what is necessary to keep his interest piqued. I already lost 54lbs but I did it for me and my health but he's really helped me by pushing me to take better care of myself. So I give him a pay on the back for that. It only took 2 days for him to start seeing a difference and made him start coming my way.... I will keep you updated Timo Casas
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The advices are golden. Thank you both and please keep them coming.
Thank you so much for watching!
In all honesty, I hav never seen a person really change. But I know many people break over that fact. Love means you accept the other as he or she is.
It’s not necessarily about CHANGING who you are as a person inside, it’s about being able to continue to be yourself and progress your life even if they aren’t there. You are untethered.
@@jahvonnewton5557 precisely, a lot of ppl get stuck on CHANGE, "I don't want to change you" , "ppl can't change" , etc. When in reality love, like many other things in life, is about IMPROVEMENT, GROWTH, PROGRESS. Once ppl realize and accept this, they'll be able to communicate their wants and needs, also be able to communicate in a healthy manner in general. Leading to being able to accept someone and love them. This is why it's important to practice self love and really accept who we are and work hard on improving who we are. How we love ourselves will directly translate to how we love others.
Thank you for this video. Very well taken points. Second marraige, now divorced after 20 years (First wife of 21 years died). My problem is that my ex is totally tethered to the past and terrified of the future. She tells me that she loves me but unless she can have a 100 percent guarantee that I will not repeat some past bad behavior that broke her trust in me, she cannot stand having to possibly go through the same thing again. I have done a great deal of work and have changed alot but it seems that she does not want to even look at my changes unless she feels that they are guaranteed to be permanent. SO my analogy is that I can bring her into my movie theater to see a movie of the new me, but she will not even look at the screen. That said, we do talk or text frequently on a friendly, not needy, basis, though most of it relates to the granchildren we have in common.
Thank you guys for this video. I'm too emotional and I guessed that was what caused the break up, please how can I change from that, I really want him back
my ex broke up with me because she thought she liked someone else, shes an unbelievably intemite woman. her dad was abusive and her mom is a drug addict but out of all of this she is the most kind a generous person ive ever met. she says she liked someone else, but i believe it was because i was extremely emotional when my dad lost custody of me. i was insecure and was scared of other men in her life and when she was with friends. im ready to make a crazy change. weve known each other since we were in elementry. shes always been the one. i cant let my fuck ups stop what could be.
Any updates?
You guys are truly the best. I listen to you guys podcasts/episodes on youtube for keeping my faith in bringing this love back with me and my woman.
Did it work for you?
Amazing and actually useful advices❤️
Glad you like them!
Powerful video- Thank you💖
You are so welcome!
This was fantastic thank you
Thank you for watching and following!
Coach Alex
Happy new year bests coachs
Thanks for watching!
Happy New Year
Coach Alex
Hi. My ex left me because she wanted “space & time” and since the BU, I was still going over to her place, hanging out and being mutual. That lasted about a month. Then she told me she couldn’t do it anymore, and blocked me on everything. 3 year relationship.
Thank you
Have you considered booking 1:1 session? We might be able to help?
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
Shoulda pulled away and given her that space and time like she said give her that time and space away from you to miss you and let her emotions process
Happened the exact same to me however it was 6 month relationship , I discovered that she was on a rebound and was using me and wanted to be in love with me that worked for few months but then she felt out of love and moved on to find someone else to be "in love " with in my opinion also for distraction , so all this it is not about you
Happy new year 🥳 sir
Thanks for watching!
Happy New Year
Coach Alex
My baby momma said there was no chance of getting back that she loves me but no more relationship how do I fix that it's been a few months I worked on myself better since we broke up but she said there no relationship she wants to be friends I said I'd be friendly towards her for my daughter but I would like to get her back and I don't what steps to take I can't afford one on one with ye but a message on this would help me I love my girlfriend I'm nearly over her but I'm still holding onto hope
first 💋 I always wait for your videos. You guys are helpful.
Thank you for watching and following!
Coach Adrian
What do I do…. I got pregnant by my ex (we were just sleeping together not dating even tho I want to) and now here I am pregnant and he’s ignoring me and it’s pushed him away further?
Thank you for the comment and sharing your story, I am sorry that you are dealing with this, especially when you are pregnant.
We would need to learn more about the situation and discuss possible scenarios with the action plan. Please book 1:1 session using link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thank you
Coach Alex
she doesnt want to talk to me anymore the only way i can do so i giving her a letter telling her ive changed hoping for a second chance to talk to me again and let me prove that ive changed how should i write her the letter is it a good idea to say ive changed some part of stuff? I hope i can get a respond from you i dont really have much money to hire a coach
Guys my ex lost feeling to me because i was very rude to her, know im really hopeless and truly sorry i miss her and i love her, i want to give her the attention she deserves, what should i do
I’m going through the same thing, what did you do?
update?
I'm also going through the same..
Pray he call
The interesting part is that she do not care at all whether I change or not. She do not care about anything about me whether bad or good.
Hello,me and my ex had been together for 7 years till last year me n my kids moved out of town to start a better life after my ex husband finishes his probation but after 3 months after we moved he broke up with me.n he did the no contact wit me but recently said my step daughter wnts to see me but by myself.what does that mean
In no contact he does not call me back still 3 days after so what can I do
I’m interested in personal advice
I have been investing in our relationship but she says I wasn’t investing in our future. Or the important things. Can you help me please?
I answered your comment you posted on the other video, you should check it :-)
How do you apply the no contact method when you are separated from your wife and want them back but you have kids?
You give it time. But she can’t keep your children from you… just be a better version of yourself, and you never know, you might not want this anymore
❤
Hi,
My girlfriend broken up with me bcz of my behaviour.
She made her mind not to stay.
But i forced her to stay and she dont want but at the end she conviced to observe me for the change in my behaviour and gave a time of 2 months.
She is talking to me but completely in negative way. I cant meet her directly. can you help me how to change her now.
What if u have kids together
It has been 2years that he didnot contact me over call but he is in contact with msgs. Will it work?
First comment ❤️❤️
Thanks for watching Aakash
Happy New Year
Coach Alex
Alex what does it mean when she dating someone else and that man left her and she start tooking with you and try to ask about that man while you the fast to date her is their any way to get it back
Hello Hussein
We would love to help you, but to answer your question in detail we need to know more. This type of analysis is usually done 1:1 in a coaching session.
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
How to Know that this is the right time to Connect with Ex?
Thank you Amisha
This would be dependent on your personal growth and experience during no contact and where you stand emotionally and physically.
Thank you
Coach Alex
If you meet up with your ex' when had 4 hours of great happy conversation. He said he was going on a trip we had talked about. I said I could not believe he was going without me. I know I probably should not have said that. Do I apologize for it or just let it go?
Let it go
Hi
I’m Muslim from india and I’m very very sad I’m in USA and I got divorced from my husband and then my b f left me too
Grab your gift
Please do a video on monkey-branching
Thank you,
We will take this back to the team and certainly consider
Thanks
Coach Alex
2018 my and dad die
Guys and Ladies. My ex has a new partner and it's not going well. When the new partner moved in I didn't take it well and for the past month have done everything wrong. He was getting ready to block me. But three days ago I was watching this and no contact is not an option because of business and agreements we decided to have a morning video call (his new partner hovering) and then only necessary business contact. Of course I couldn't keep that together. After I watched this video I reassessed everything including my intentions. Modified my behavior to less than agreed ....Two days later he's calling ME and we actually talked for an hour like real friends we both laughed! We did some sharing. I promised to keep my distance and give him and them space just like I have the previous two days. I got the opportunity to explain what changed and it was my valuing myself and loving myself and telling him with 100% sincerity that I want him to be happy even if it's not with me.... And I meant it. He even commented that he could tell in a very short time I had turned back into myself... Which he likes, and he knew I was sincere. We stayed in the present and when it drifted into future or past mode I redirected to the now.
Yes our circumstances are different but I've fully embraced being his friend, which we've been since we broke up 4 years ago and he admitted that I am his soul mate and he's miserable in his current relationship. Told be over the past weeks he's thought about how much he fights with the new guy but how harmonious we were. But he has also stubborn and will stay in this relationship until it completely implodes...I give it maybe 6 more months. But I'm willing to wait and stay socially active and working on myself. I'm more determined than ever to do what is necessary to keep his interest piqued. I already lost 54lbs but I did it for me and my health but he's really helped me by pushing me to take better care of myself.
So I give him a pay on the back for that. It only took 2 days for him to start seeing a difference and made him start coming my way....
I will keep you updated
Timo Casas