I broke with my ex 6 months ago, and in the meantime I figured out I miss her and truley love her. She found a new one a monh later, I tried to get in contact few times but I have been ghosted. The last time was yesterday, it was a desparate comment on her story. I am desparate but on other side happy to figure out I need to make turn, and not trying to come back anymore. I gave my best.
The new studio is awesome🤩 thanks for your advices, without them I will be struggling, feeling depressed and destroying my chances for getting my wife back. Instead in being in a destructive loop, I become calm, more confident and happier. And there is some progression in contact with my wife. Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
To be honest I love watching your videos, you guys are the best!, so far I'm still on it but the way time is moving I'm doing good on focusing on myself, and watching your videos keeps me calm and helps me get ready for any outcome❤❤❤
I'm here hopefully this channel will help me, been in long distance relationship and waited more than two years to find out my partner will be back on March 31 this year but not with me. Been destructive lately and hoping this will help me.
This is happening for me presently, as I have shown that I’m happy in my life without him and move forward. My Ex is starting to show interest again. We work together so that added in has made is very challenging. Your validating what I have been doing on my own so it is interesting to be hearing this video. ❤
Can definitely relate to this! My ex and I work together as well and this has led to several challenges, but also several opportunities for growth. One of my core values is growth and I am grateful for this chance to better myself through personal transformation and we will see how our interactions improve over time.
Thank you for your video. It came at the right time at my life. My ex said that he will never be back to his ex but after listening to this, there is hope.
Thank you for helping understand everything I went through and being a better person for myself is the best feeling in the world help me with a lot thanks 🎉
What to do when your ex has too many options to fill in as in with women and other activities and don’t have any opportunity or time to miss you. Can he still come back?
But what if they left because of their lack of self worth? He told me it was nothing to do with me, I was open to talk and he initially was too when I tried to leave a month before. But we never talked, I didn’t chase but I kept asking him to just open up to me. I hate the you deserve better statement, if you really feel that then be better or TALK about what you’re feeling so we can make a decision together. Don’t just run. It’s cowardly and unattractive. That’s all I was or am holding on to.. the fact that he was to immature to just talk to me.
They wonderful guys thanks alot for these precious lessons.Its been about 80 days he stopped texting and talking to me and I just accepted this no contact and didn't do anything although I suffered hard. Do you think after such a long time he still comes back? We didn't even say a word all this time
We broke up 3 month ago, 5.5 years done in an instant, she writes i write, we have met up, we have slept together, we still talk a little about the past here and there, but we laugh and have fun , she says she needs to get in her new apartment and find herself, she lives a stressfull life and i was in a bad place when we broke up, she says we might get back together but it will tale time, i really love her like a deep connection i took for granted, i am seeing a therapist now even thou she told me to over a year ago. Do you think there is a chance in this?
My Ex told me 11 months ago that she loves me as a friend, not as a husband anymore. We have been together for almost 18 years. We have been living in the same house for 13 years and still did lived in the same house since she told me, it has been very amicable, without any violence involved. She told me the other night that she is now moving out. I would like to try and work “us” out. I have done a lot of things to try and improve myself, but it has all been for nothing. We have no common children. Where do I go now?
You've mentioned several times to post new activities on social media. I feel as though this slightly contradicts the no contact / radio silence rule. I've already deactivated all of my social media. Should I reactivate my social media, archive the photos of us together on Instagram and start new?
I av started applying them & its working cos am getting. More patience as u av said. I av now detached myself but d children sch is really affecting it cos we av to pick them up together but am still managing it
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity My husband blocked me for 3 months, I tried for one sided marriage rebuild, he then unblock me I asked some questions he answered and told me that you will have to leave your Dentistry career forever, I asked him do you want khula( divorce from girl side in court) he screenshot that text mags and send to his family, now he has kept me unblocked but doesn’t want to talk to me, and told me to wait for my parents, he has blocked my calls but only text msgs aren’t blocked. he warns me if you did more msgs I will block you.He had applied Spouse visa for me but now he doesn’t want me to sponsor to USA even if I go home back, He said I don’t trust you now.
Is it a must to meet face to face to create attraction before get back together if it is a long distance relationship.( we broke up bcz he said that he doesnt have feelings for me)
I know you always say " do not use your feelings or talk about your feelings and how much you love your Ex when you are working on getting them back... but if my Ex and I have Never shared how we feel about each other during our relationship would it then be OK share my feelings with him? If he knew how I felt, would it help him decide to come back?
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and and experiences with us. This Video help me understand the meaning of excepting the break up in order to open open the new chapter of life. It motivates me 👏💯💯
Also he claimed to me that he doesn't get on social media like Facebook. I am really working on detachment and living myself again and working on myself confidance and my energy.
Please how do I take charge of myself each time i cross his path 2ndly how do I come out of the feeling of 'what will people say' since they have always seen us around for a very long time now we no longer together
Would about the third break up it was their decision. Seeing me at a low, but now bouncing back. I over reacted in the beginning, and a bit afterwards trying to make contact I panicked. 2 1/2 months later still won't say a word via text. Both Whatsapp accounts she has is still active I think, but last seen not shown.
Hi, my ex broke up with me after 5 years. She told me that our relationship stopped on 1 year in and doesn’t see future with me, I admit, I didn’t treat her like I should, prioritised work over our feelings, didn’t really take her out for dates or buy gifts unless it was her birthday or christmas. Is there any way to prove her I have changed? I’m not completely different person but for sure I’ve learned my lesson and became better.
Is it over for me & her. I know how she gets when she says she's over something. We are long distant, but only 3 1/2 hours away. Was supposed to meet in one more month, but no longer being patient ended things
Regrettably these videos miss the fact that some people are married for years. It's not just about someone not calling back. In some cases, the other person is breaking a marriage. Sadly we won't get them back. We have to let go and go into a new phase of our life alone. I am in shock but thank God. As perhaps God is removing something that would be even worst when we get older. It's lonely but there is no solution except faith in yourself and a higher power in order to believe you will get through this.
Hi there, We're sorry to hear what you're going through.I know our coaches would love to help you with this situation. I hope you can book a coaching session with a coach using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
How about we still talk almost everyday but she still don't want to be with me I know my emotions are everywhere but I'm trying to change. I just think I need to pull away for a while 😢
Hey! I wanted to ask that if it’s just been 1 and half months since our breakup, should I wish her happy birthday coz we both have an exam that day. So I would just say “happy birthday and all the best”. Nothing else. Nothing more
Post photos on social media of the improved version of you. If you started a new hobbie, spending time with friends etc but make sure he/she can see you are having fun and confident and comfortable in yourself.
Ok so im confused you tell us post you tell us change the clothes and post you guys clearly know alot of us are in pain doing this stuff so when do we post i’m so confused
Post when you’re ready. I know you want to get your ex attention, but post when you’re actually genuinely happy and enjoying instead of posting just for validation. It’s hard and I’m still in the process of accepting the break up so just trust the process and do what’s best for you. You got this 🙏
Wife want me out of house she said it five years ago ...we are still living together now she saying she finished with me and stop talking to me...what can do ..or czn I speak with you one to one
If I am the one leaving my Ex and starting the no contact. What if my Ex contacts me? Do I ignore him and for how long? What if I ignore and then he stops reaching out?
If they are stopping from reaching out then they’re most likely going to move on with their life without you. If they tried multiple times getting in contact with no luck, they will assume you are done with them.
She unblocked me on one of the social media and I am in Reattraction phase but she is so stubborn - only see the messages, no answer. I am so motivated but is it normal in some moments to feel sad and to not feel progress in a reattraction phase?
Thank you. And you are correct better to accept the break up rather than changing yourself because of your ex. First you should accept and love yourself before others will love you.
Good advice. Thanks! But coach Adrian sounds Like He Is A Robot. He pauses so randomly mid sentence and delays his speech so awkwardly that I could hardly concentrate.
Is it over for me & her. I know how she gets when she says she's over something. We are long distant, but only 3 1/2 hours away. Was supposed to meet in one more month, but no longer being patient ended things
Hi there! I know our coaches would love to help you with this situation but they would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with us using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -LATV Team
I gave up and let it go! After ten years (🎉😮) he came back. Now we are restoring our relationship and are engaged to remarry.
Congrats!
🙏 thank god
He told me it's unfair that he can't meet my needs and I must find someone else. I know must walk away but I'm hurt, I've been with him for 5 years
I broke with my ex 6 months ago, and in the meantime I figured out I miss her and truley love her. She found a new one a monh later, I tried to get in contact few times but I have been ghosted. The last time was yesterday, it was a desparate comment on her story. I am desparate but on other side happy to figure out I need to make turn, and not trying to come back anymore. I gave my best.
You stopped my tears, thank you
The new studio is awesome🤩 thanks for your advices, without them I will be struggling, feeling depressed and destroying my chances for getting my wife back. Instead in being in a destructive loop, I become calm, more confident and happier. And there is some progression in contact with my wife. Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏
Hey! Any updates ? Wishing you all the best sir
To be honest I love watching your videos, you guys are the best!, so far I'm still on it but the way time is moving I'm doing good on focusing on myself, and watching your videos keeps me calm and helps me get ready for any outcome❤❤❤
Thanks a lot!
I'm here hopefully this channel will help me, been in long distance relationship and waited more than two years to find out my partner will be back on March 31 this year but not with me. Been destructive lately and hoping this will help me.
Move forward sweetie and believe in yourself 🥺 don’t settle for someone that doesn’t value you!!!
This is happening for me presently, as I have shown that I’m happy in my life without him and move forward. My Ex is starting to show interest again. We work together so that added in has made is very challenging.
Your validating what I have been doing on my own so it is interesting to be hearing this video. ❤
Can definitely relate to this! My ex and I work together as well and this has led to several challenges, but also several opportunities for growth. One of my core values is growth and I am grateful for this chance to better myself through personal transformation and we will see how our interactions improve over time.
This is beautiful, gentlemen. Thank you for your generous offerings. ❤️
Thank you for your video. It came at the right time at my life. My ex said that he will never be back to his ex but after listening to this, there is hope.
Happy to help you!
Thank you for helping understand everything I went through and being a better person for myself is the best feeling in the world help me with a lot thanks 🎉
You are the best duo👏🏼
What to do when your ex has too many options to fill in as in with women and other activities and don’t have any opportunity or time to miss you. Can he still come back?
I have the same question
I like you guys' hones transparency and humility
But what if they left because of their lack of self worth? He told me it was nothing to do with me, I was open to talk and he initially was too when I tried to leave a month before. But we never talked, I didn’t chase but I kept asking him to just open up to me. I hate the you deserve better statement, if you really feel that then be better or TALK about what you’re feeling so we can make a decision together. Don’t just run. It’s cowardly and unattractive. That’s all I was or am holding on to.. the fact that he was to immature to just talk to me.
Look into anxious attachment vs avoidance attachment style. You might be engulfing him with trying to problem solve too much.
Thank you for this video..much needed advice for all of us going through a breakup
Thank you, I like watching your videos it makes me feel calm, and to have faith in myself
Thanks a lot!
This is one of your best videos you guys are truly amazing!
Words of wisdom
Appreciate you guys, and so thankful I’ve come across this channel!
Thank you for all your videos. it is very helpful and hopefull.
You guys are amazing
They wonderful guys thanks alot for these precious lessons.Its been about 80 days he stopped texting and talking to me and I just accepted this no contact and didn't do anything although I suffered hard. Do you think after such a long time he still comes back? We didn't even say a word all this time
Hi good evening coach .. just love advice
Thank you Alex ,thank you Adrian
We broke up 3 month ago, 5.5 years done in an instant, she writes i write, we have met up, we have slept together, we still talk a little about the past here and there, but we laugh and have fun , she says she needs to get in her new apartment and find herself, she lives a stressfull life and i was in a bad place when we broke up, she says we might get back together but it will tale time, i really love her like a deep connection i took for granted, i am seeing a therapist now even thou she told me to over a year ago. Do you think there is a chance in this?
My Ex told me 11 months ago that she loves me as a friend, not as a husband anymore. We have been together for almost 18 years. We have been living in the same house for 13 years and still did lived in the same house since she told me, it has been very amicable, without any violence involved. She told me the other night that she is now moving out. I would like to try and work “us” out. I have done a lot of things to try and improve myself, but it has all been for nothing. We have no common children. Where do I go now?
It’s difficult but left her walk. You’re never feel secure with her. I know it’s hard. Most of us go through this. Hang in there
My husband of 21 years is leaving me and already has a girlfriend 💔 I don't know how to cope. I hope u are in a better place. Life is so hard
This is so good 🙌
No tricks, no gimmicks, no shortcuts.
That is the actual point.
Be authentic
You've mentioned several times to post new activities on social media. I feel as though this slightly contradicts the no contact / radio silence rule. I've already deactivated all of my social media. Should I reactivate my social media, archive the photos of us together on Instagram and start new?
yes
I don't think so. At least not for the reason to show off how great your life is now. I think that would be counter productive.
Great Advice!
Superb ❤
I av started applying them & its working cos am getting. More patience as u av said. I av now detached myself but d children sch is really affecting it cos we av to pick them up together but am still managing it
Thank u both !!! Trully good advices
Our pleasure!
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity My husband blocked me for 3 months, I tried for one sided marriage rebuild, he then unblock me I asked some questions he answered and told me that you will have to leave your Dentistry career forever, I asked him do you want khula( divorce from girl side in court) he screenshot that text mags and send to his family, now he has kept me unblocked but doesn’t want to talk to me, and told me to wait for my parents, he has blocked my calls but only text msgs aren’t blocked. he warns me if you did more msgs I will block you.He had applied Spouse visa for me but now he doesn’t want me to sponsor to USA even if I go home back, He said I don’t trust you now.
Is it a must to meet face to face to create attraction before get back together if it is a long distance relationship.( we broke up bcz he said that he doesnt have feelings for me)
Wow l really appreciate you are the best guys
Thanks for the energy and positive strength 😘
You are so welcome!
Thanks i love you ❣️
How do you tell them and make them believe you’ve accepting the breakup but you don’t want to lose them but gain them back?
You go complete No Contact!
Is it possible to bounce back after making the horrible mistake of falling back into bad habits?
Thank you for this video
Hope you can sending back how or what i can do if we work same company. We see each other everyday in a same place?
Great video. It makes sense.
Thank you
Love you guys. 💪
Love it
I know you always say " do not use your feelings or talk about your feelings and how much you love your Ex when you are working on getting them back... but if my Ex and I have Never shared how we feel about each other during our relationship would it then be OK share my feelings with him? If he knew how I felt, would it help him decide to come back?
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and and experiences with us. This Video help me understand the meaning of excepting the break up in order to open open the new chapter of life. It motivates me 👏💯💯
Thanks so much guys
Thank you so much for watching!
my ex left because she changed her mind about being ready for a longterm relation and says its her not me and i did nothing wrong
Always
Alex & Adrian what if my ex will continue to think that we can never have a relationship again because of my family's and outside noise interference?
Also he claimed to me that he doesn't get on social media like Facebook. I am really working on detachment and living myself again and working on myself confidance and my energy.
Simple answer: Outgrow them.
My ex gone mad with me because of her toxic friend. Any ideas how to get her back?
Please how do I take charge of myself each time i cross his path
2ndly how do I come out of the feeling of 'what will people say' since they have always seen us around for a very long time now we no longer together
Would about the third break up it was their decision. Seeing me at a low, but now bouncing back. I over reacted in the beginning, and a bit afterwards trying to make contact I panicked. 2 1/2 months later still won't say a word via text. Both Whatsapp accounts she has is still active I think, but last seen not shown.
Hi, my ex broke up with me after 5 years. She told me that our relationship stopped on 1 year in and doesn’t see future with me, I admit, I didn’t treat her like I should, prioritised work over our feelings, didn’t really take her out for dates or buy gifts unless it was her birthday or christmas. Is there any way to prove her I have changed? I’m not completely different person but for sure I’ve learned my lesson and became better.
Is it over for me & her. I know how she gets when she says she's over something. We are long distant, but only 3 1/2 hours away. Was supposed to meet in one more month, but no longer being patient ended things
What if you’re in the retirement stage of your life?
Regrettably these videos miss the fact that some people are married for years. It's not just about someone not calling back. In some cases, the other person is breaking a marriage. Sadly we won't get them back. We have to let go and go into a new phase of our life alone. I am in shock but thank God. As perhaps God is removing something that would be even worst when we get older. It's lonely but there is no solution except faith in yourself and a higher power in order to believe you will get through this.
I have a vacation this weekend with the wife. How do I go about her back when she has a new boy friend
I did not mention that I have a bad back for years and a bad knee ..and this make me look negative
He unblocked after 22 days but without reaching out
What do you do when there’s a child involved? She cheated? Lied? And now we are parents. How do you fix this disaster?
Hi there,
We're sorry to hear what you're going through.I know our coaches would love to help you with this situation. I hope you can book a coaching session with a coach using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
-LATV Team
Hello I kindly need some advice
I want ask a question now my question is this if have a child with her what are you na going to do
I am curious to know how to make my ex want me again so I can decline him when he comes back like always. He will then want what he can't have.
I'm on my way to Hawaii 🌊🩵⚡
My thing is when is the right time to start posting because clearly we are all wanting to get they’re attention so i’m confused
Hey guys I'm asking for help he blocked me n worse thing I see him daily since we are staying in same location
How about we still talk almost everyday but she still don't want to be with me I know my emotions are everywhere but I'm trying to change. I just think I need to pull away for a while 😢
Hey! I wanted to ask that if it’s just been 1 and half months since our breakup, should I wish her happy birthday coz we both have an exam that day. So I would just say “happy birthday and all the best”. Nothing else. Nothing more
What if it takes months for this to work (3 , 6 , 9 or 12 months) ?
Are you ready to be patient?
How do I let my ex know that I've been working on myself? It was a long distance relationship. I have been making changes.
Post photos on social media of the improved version of you. If you started a new hobbie, spending time with friends etc but make sure he/she can see you are having fun and confident and comfortable in yourself.
My partner dont love me anymore but he said he care about me wha i am going to do we still leave together pls help me Ruth from Norway
I think that 2 weeks is nothing,in many cases much more time needs to pass
Agreed
what about after 3-4 months,
Ok so im confused you tell us post you tell us change the clothes and post you guys clearly know alot of us are in pain doing this stuff so when do we post i’m so confused
Post when you’re ready. I know you want to get your ex attention, but post when you’re actually genuinely happy and enjoying instead of posting just for validation. It’s hard and I’m still in the process of accepting the break up so just trust the process and do what’s best for you. You got this 🙏
He don't talk with me still 34 days so what can I do
Wife want me out of house she said it five years ago ...we are still living together now she saying she finished with me and stop talking to me...what can do ..or czn I speak with you one to one
If I am the one leaving my Ex and starting the no contact. What if my Ex contacts me? Do I ignore him and for how long? What if I ignore and then he stops reaching out?
If they are stopping from reaching out then they’re most likely going to move on with their life without you. If they tried multiple times getting in contact with no luck, they will assume you are done with them.
Coach Adrian your first name is "coach"?
She unblocked me on one of the social media and I am in Reattraction phase but she is so stubborn - only see the messages, no answer.
I am so motivated but is it normal in some moments to feel sad and to not feel progress in a reattraction phase?
Stop messaging her or she knows she still has you and she’ll never message you. Let her miss you that’s when you’ll get the message.
Good afternoon,
Please help me with a way to reach out regarding a personal coaching session I purchased but can't seem to book. Thank you
Please where to call you? Emails?
32 year relationship its painful
I'm sorry to hear that. Breakups are never easy, especially after such a long relationship.
Hi
Thank you. And you are correct better to accept the break up rather than changing yourself because of your ex. First you should accept and love yourself before others will love you.
My wife is seeing another man. I think it's too late
Its sound easy but its not
This is too long just to say that we need to move forward…
Ugh. Stuff like this gives me a headache.
#StopBeingSadAndStartBeingAwesome
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❤
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Good advice. Thanks! But coach Adrian sounds
Like
He
Is
A
Robot.
He pauses so randomly mid sentence and delays his speech so awkwardly that I could hardly concentrate.
Thanks, this video helped me a lot
Is it over for me & her. I know how she gets when she says she's over something. We are long distant, but only 3 1/2 hours away. Was supposed to meet in one more month, but no longer being patient ended things
Hi there!
I know our coaches would love to help you with this situation but they would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with us using this link:
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
-LATV Team