Listen to these men! Every single thing they said would happened has happened, the only problem I'm having is that now that I'm learning new things and becoming my best self , I don't think she deserves me , but i still love her , it's a strange predicament
I just told my wife thank you. She said your welcome and walked away. The next time she walked by our room we shared in her mom's home I said don't you want to know why I said thank you? She said sure why did you. For all this that has happened in the last few weeks. Need to break up at all and the boyfriend and his kids staying at the house in the living room for the last week. She had a dazed and confused look on her face and said okay I guess I don't know why though. Because you helped me find me again I asked you for help and you helped me find me seeing what I was missing myself. I left it at that and she walked away confused. Did I mention she had a smile on her face at the same time. I've watched the videos and I'm going to stick with it good advice fellas. William igl Wisconsin
Funny enough I didn’t think I needed this, haven't watch your videos in a while. It has been 1 year and let me count..... 7 months since we and my now, for now friend. I wouldn't say ex anymore. More a friend I previously had a life with. But now something has change. She is now reaching out quite a lot, randomly vame over to my house.... twice and last week went for a walk at the park with her...... it's absolutely crazy. And I am at a point where I have been considering other women. Totally ready to move on. Still working on changing habits for myself and doing what I want to do. But now..... we are ralking once or twice a week. Its crazy absolutely crazy and now I am here again watching you guys reinforcing the wisdom on manuvering through whatever this is.
My husband cheated on me after 30 years together. He has started a relationship with a very bad person. I found myself telling him what she was all about. I felt like the other woman and that’s wrong. I came home from visiting our daughter and he was gone. I didn’t even know we were in such a bad way. He hasn’t even told me what happen for him to have done this. He has cut all of us off. He don’t talk to any of us. He has lost at least 50lbs and he is not nice with me. We miss him and need him but he don’t care. I find myself full of hate in my heart and I don’t want to feel like this.
Well sometimes it really doesn’t matter what you say even if you love her deeply she still not going to wanna be with you even after your mistakes & apologizing for the hurt that you caused her she’ll still move on respectfully
Thank you very, very much. You are an imcredible source of force, hope, support and joy. You make me want to be and to become better. Thank you for everything you give us, from your time to invaluable tipps.💛
my ex wife just reach out today after no contact for 15 days, she invite me to thanksgiving at the house, but i'm to going to keep my guards up, just in case.
The best way to get your ex back is to be your true self. Stop the people blessing and codependency. Focus on you bro show her you don’t need her but you wanted her.
He said he isn't ready when I asked him if we just let it flow with time.. but before that, he said there isn't any negativity when I approached... because our break up was very rational. There were no begging or anything like that, just accepted it because we loved each other, but had fights. I don't really know if I should go to NC again or should go on with small steps...
Hey I fucked up my relationship and I’ve been trying since last 3 months but it’s not working there was ups and downs in last 3 months but lastly I got blocked 5 days ago and I can’t contact her in any way now but I miss her and I really want her to forgive me and make it forever no idea what should I do but yeah I love her…
As a watcher of these videos, it pains me to consider how much "life experience" it takes to mature into the man/woman who is emotionally attractive to women, without posture games. As Jordan Peterson shows in his videos, we men have to be certain of our maleness, in face of the "Societal Push" to be some "blended man". Thanks.
Hello everybody.... Davey here, and I'm living in Taiwan. Originally from San Diego, California. Nie meeting everyone... Question: What happens if we say what coach Alex said (Tip #2)... I think it was something like... Mmmm well for me(not blocked), I said, "Thank you for breakingup with me, I was too much and there's no negativity on my side.." Something like that... What if we say that, and now they say, "That'sgood to hear, but mmmmmm I have a new bf now "..... What then?
What if we have already said something via text that triggered our ex's sore spot about the relationship need that they wanted but didn't receive from us, in other words where we have said something that came across too strongly in that moment that it touched on a sore spot that the ex was not wanting to feel and therefore out of consequence the ex is now punishing us by setting in a boundary with us out of anger by withholding interest and communication from us and also taking us for granted and ignoring us because the ex said they think we are playing games and they said they don't have time for games--- what do we do in a case like this because what if we did try to assert ourselves in that moment the situation occured but in that moment we weren't effective enough in standing up for ourself to that punishment the ex was putting on us-- should we bring up the topic again just in order to try to assert ourself properly or would that be a bit too late to really try to stand up for ourself now after the moment has already occured or should we just give space and distance now and show the ex what they've lost ?
I'm new here and my problems are we have be apart for about three years plus I hit her I didn't mean to her mom hate me but we have two boys she's lovable I still miss her after this year's even though she went around spreading bad information about me I can't get into another relationship without thinking about her madly she's always bitter, blocked me I've tried making amend but she froze me from seeing our kids what do I do I still miss her too much and I need her back help
We were in good terms for awhile then I found out he was cheating with me and his current so i sent him an angry text, blocked him so i did not read his reply but he still has not blocked me-dunno if i still have the chance to fix it, i am in no contact with him for 2 months now, I still feel the resentment though I have done a lot of things to improve myself like doing activities to face my fears, traveling and reading- I still miss him but it seems like i cannot let go of his betrayal and i dont know what to say when i reach out to him because of that
Been 6 months since I broke up w her, right after the breakup couldn’t control my emotions and said so stuff I didn’t mean but I’m the one trying to get us back together. I was n nc for 3 months reached out and it was a disaster. She was emotional and said some hurtful things and I just said I love u and went back into nc. A mutual friend recently talked to her and said she has no interest in getting back together at all. So I’m still madly in love w her miss her like crazy but I’m lost in how or if we could ever get back together. We don’t have each other on sm nor live closely where we would even bump into on another. Need help
You need to move on probably. Maybe you overwhelmed her with words idk. She obviously still mad, there’s a thin line between love and hate. That however does not mean she wants you back at this moment. If you told her you’re sorry and took accountability for your actions or the break up I’d say the ball is in her court, you can not force her to be with you. Give it time.
Thank you William We would need to learn more about the situation to give the best advice, consider 1:1 session www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Alex
At tha moment maa girlfriend said shi need time for her self and i was cool with it brof then i made her to tell mi why and what was wrong and shi told mi that shi just want time so since then i haven't call or message her and is four dais but shi kees popping ma status which i only pop on hers ones.. dont know what to do plss need an advice. Thanks
I have american boyfriend but suddenly he break up with me without nothing he said to me he will come back to his ex giirlfriend but for me its very hard and hurt for me.
I met someone, we talk and chat and after he wanted to go fast , I mean intimate , I said no not coming to met for that . After he get distant.. and told ignore me and was harsh nose up with me , as I was nicer and nicer .. so he take the game hard very hard . My question is , will he regret his behavior? Just ask for curios . Not because I crave for his relationship. Will he ever regret his behavior so harsh ? Please answe me I want to know .
Thank you for the post and sharing your story. In some instances partners can begin to regret their actions however it is case by case situation and we have to really understand the partners and the issues that are underneath to determine the over arching issues. We are here to help and can work with you on this. Thanks Coach Alex
So I should trust your advice why? You say men go through certain phases after a breakup & act like it makes it ok...it doesn't & I won't give a guy another chance after behaving that way because he's immature & untrustworthy w/ my heart or there wouldn't have been a breakup to begin w/...good guys don't take their anger out on people nor bad mouth anyone
She was probably second guessing herself. It happens a lot. We have so much we want to say but when we see our ex partner… we get afraid of rejection or want you to reach out first. Like give us a green flag.
Hi Juliet Thank you for sharing your comment. If your ex leaves you for another woman and tell you to leave his house, you would need to consider your options and also possible no contact for a bit. I know this can feel difficult but sometimes our partners need to feel the pain of losing you to understand the loss. Thanks Coach Alex
No contact. Time will heal. But don’t ignore her/him if they reach out. And instead of bringing up the past, just talk to the person like you are dating them for the first time. If she brings anything up, take accountability but don’t take pity on yourself or her. Just explain that you felt so strongly about the relationship but realize that maybe you aren’t right for each other. It’s not really reverse psychology, it’s just detaching from the relationship.
I was sleeping with Teo women at thr same time,The one girl I really want to be with told me I will never ever forgive you or I will never take you back!Is there still a chance?And I have been doing the no contact with her too....
Hii she was mad at me befor cause i was being so needy and always wanted to prove my self... But i left her some time and later texted and sent a gift across she accepted them and posted them on her status saying thank you so much sweetheart..... Pls so i still hv the chance of getting her back?
My ex divorced me 3 months ago. he let me stay in his house (he paid the rent but he stayed in other place) but he can kicked me out anytime he wants. He acts very distance… i have been begging to him to come back to me but he said he wont remarry me… Is there still hope?
OK yes me and my ex has been split up now for over a year. We've been conversating with each other here and she calls me on yesterday. She is having a little health issue and she knows that I goes to the gym. She asks me if she can go with me when I go to the gym because she does not want to get a membership. Should I let her go with me or how should I approach it
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Listen to these men! Every single thing they said would happened has happened, the only problem I'm having is that now that I'm learning new things and becoming my best self , I don't think she deserves me , but i still love her , it's a strange predicament
I just told my wife thank you. She said your welcome and walked away. The next time she walked by our room we shared in her mom's home I said don't you want to know why I said thank you? She said sure why did you. For all this that has happened in the last few weeks. Need to break up at all and the boyfriend and his kids staying at the house in the living room for the last week. She had a dazed and confused look on her face and said okay I guess I don't know why though. Because you helped me find me again I asked you for help and you helped me find me seeing what I was missing myself. I left it at that and she walked away confused. Did I mention she had a smile on her face at the same time. I've watched the videos and I'm going to stick with it good advice fellas. William igl Wisconsin
Funny enough I didn’t think I needed this, haven't watch your videos in a while. It has been 1 year and let me count..... 7 months since we and my now, for now friend. I wouldn't say ex anymore. More a friend I previously had a life with. But now something has change. She is now reaching out quite a lot, randomly vame over to my house.... twice and last week went for a walk at the park with her...... it's absolutely crazy. And I am at a point where I have been considering other women. Totally ready to move on. Still working on changing habits for myself and doing what I want to do. But now..... we are ralking once or twice a week. Its crazy absolutely crazy and now I am here again watching you guys reinforcing the wisdom on manuvering through whatever this is.
Hey, so it’s been a year since you posted this. Any update?
My husband cheated on me after 30 years together. He has started a relationship with a very bad person. I found myself telling him what she was all about. I felt like the other woman and that’s wrong. I came home from visiting our daughter and he was gone. I didn’t even know we were in such a bad way. He hasn’t even told me what happen for him to have done this. He has cut all of us off. He don’t talk to any of us. He has lost at least 50lbs and he is not nice with me. We miss him and need him but he don’t care. I find myself full of hate in my heart and I don’t want to feel like this.
I'm so sorry you feel like this are you okay now?
Well sometimes it really doesn’t matter what you say even if you love her deeply she still not going to wanna be with you even after your mistakes & apologizing for the hurt that you caused her she’ll still move on respectfully
As wise and clear as your information is, can we PLEASE get testimonials or receipts, please.
You guys have completely changed how I look a my situation. Thanks a ton!
Thank you very, very much. You are an imcredible source of force, hope, support and joy. You make me want to be and to become better. Thank you for everything you give us, from your time to invaluable tipps.💛
Thank you Lilia for your comment
I am glad we are helpful and resourceful to you.
Glad we can help!
Thanks
Coach Alex
I did lots of mistakes and after all that mistakes I started watching u guys
Now what
I don’t know what to do
Same bruh same. I arrived here late after everything that was not supposed to do and i had done it all.
Btw what's update on your situation?
She said don’t contact me anymore and after her rebound was gone she reached out to let me know in a round about way
I haven't spoken to my ex but I feel like we will get back ...
my ex wife just reach out today after no contact for 15 days, she invite me to thanksgiving at the house, but i'm to going to keep my guards up, just in case.
The best way to get your ex back is to be your true self. Stop the people blessing and codependency. Focus on you bro show her you don’t need her but you wanted her.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
He said he isn't ready when I asked him if we just let it flow with time.. but before that, he said there isn't any negativity when I approached... because our break up was very rational. There were no begging or anything like that, just accepted it because we loved each other, but had fights.
I don't really know if I should go to NC again or should go on with small steps...
Thank you so much
Cut to the chase and get to the points quicker
excellent advice
Glad it was helpful!
thanks
You're welcome!
awesome content and info, very positive msg ( again) thank you for sharing with us and making us better !
My pleasure!!
But I’m not happier
Baby mama sometimes she shows love me but she doesn't admit
Great advice as always. He has messaged to come and collect some unnecessary bits from mine. I'm not sure how to respond. Any video to help with this.
Hey I fucked up my relationship and I’ve been trying since last 3 months but it’s not working there was ups and downs in last 3 months but lastly I got blocked 5 days ago and I can’t contact her in any way now but I miss her and I really want her to forgive me and make it forever no idea what should I do but yeah I love her…
Can you guys help me ? I’m late 40’s she is very stubborn it’s been 6 months??
But I told him before even how hurt it is I what makes him happy I’m happy for him.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
We are here to help strategize on the next steps, consider 1:1 session!
Thanks
Coach Alex
Very good ❤ healthy
How can I ask you questions or talk about something?
Do you have exemple of a good accountability letter...not easy to say the perfect things...thx
As a watcher of these videos, it pains me to consider how much "life experience" it takes to mature into the man/woman who is emotionally attractive to women, without posture games. As Jordan Peterson shows in his videos, we men have to be certain of our maleness, in face of the "Societal Push" to be some "blended man". Thanks.
My ex tells he loves me I told him he doesn’t love me was that the right thing to say to him?
I and my ex don't talk with one another I don't know if he still loves me but he is married and I really love him I don't know what to do
Hello everybody.... Davey here, and I'm living in Taiwan. Originally from San Diego, California. Nie meeting everyone... Question: What happens if we say what coach Alex said (Tip #2)... I think it was something like... Mmmm well for me(not blocked), I said, "Thank you for breakingup with me, I was too much and there's no negativity on my side.."
Something like that... What if we say that, and now they say, "That'sgood to hear, but mmmmmm I have a new bf now "..... What then?
How can I talk with one of you privately
What if we have already said something via text that triggered our ex's sore spot about the relationship need that they wanted but didn't receive from us, in other words where we have said something that came across too strongly in that moment that it touched on a sore spot that the ex was not wanting to feel and therefore out of consequence the ex is now punishing us by setting in a boundary with us out of anger by withholding interest and communication from us and also taking us for granted and ignoring us because the ex said they think we are playing games and they said they don't have time for games--- what do we do in a case like this because what if we did try to assert ourselves in that moment the situation occured but in that moment we weren't effective enough in standing up for ourself to that punishment the ex was putting on us-- should we bring up the topic again just in order to try to assert ourself properly or would that be a bit too late to really try to stand up for ourself now after the moment has already occured or should we just give space and distance now and show the ex what they've lost ?
Exactly i need to know the answer too.
Thank you ! This is very great advice ❤🙏🏻
Thanks for watching!
Coach Alex
I'm new here and my problems are we have be apart for about three years plus I hit her I didn't mean to her mom hate me but we have two boys she's lovable I still miss her after this year's even though she went around spreading bad information about me I can't get into another relationship without thinking about her madly she's always bitter, blocked me I've tried making amend but she froze me from seeing our kids what do I do I still miss her too much and I need her back help
We were in good terms for awhile then I found out he was cheating with me and his current so i sent him an angry text, blocked him so i did not read his reply but he still has not blocked me-dunno if i still have the chance to fix it, i am in no contact with him for 2 months now, I still feel the resentment though I have done a lot of things to improve myself like doing activities to face my fears, traveling and reading- I still miss him but it seems like i cannot let go of his betrayal and i dont know what to say when i reach out to him because of that
For how Long am I going to Wait because this is the 4th month being blocked and there is no communication
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and story, please consider 1:1 session using link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
Been 6 months since I broke up w her, right after the breakup couldn’t control my emotions and said so stuff I didn’t mean but I’m the one trying to get us back together. I was n nc for 3 months reached out and it was a disaster. She was emotional and said some hurtful things and I just said I love u and went back into nc. A mutual friend recently talked to her and said she has no interest in getting back together at all. So I’m still madly in love w her miss her like crazy but I’m lost in how or if we could ever get back together. We don’t have each other on sm nor live closely where we would even bump into on another. Need help
You need to move on probably. Maybe you overwhelmed her with words idk. She obviously still mad, there’s a thin line between love and hate. That however does not mean she wants you back at this moment. If you told her you’re sorry and took accountability for your actions or the break up I’d say the ball is in her court, you can not force her to be with you. Give it time.
Time will heal this move forward
Hey what should I do if she said there are things she can’t get over. And I have no chance of getting her back
Thank you William
We would need to learn more about the situation to give the best advice, consider 1:1 session
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Coach Alex
I did all of the wrong things with my ex and it did just make it worse. I talked about my feelings and it really made him very angry.
Are you gay? Serious question
Great advice, but if he says essence, 1 more time. 😅
So what if we live together with our 3 children..
At tha moment maa girlfriend said shi need time for her self and i was cool with it brof then i made her to tell mi why and what was wrong and shi told mi that shi just want time so since then i haven't call or message her and is four dais but shi kees popping ma status which i only pop on hers ones.. dont know what to do plss need an advice. Thanks
I have american boyfriend but suddenly he break up with me without nothing he said to me he will come back to his ex giirlfriend but for me its very hard and hurt for me.
Pls what of if he's asking weither I love him how shd I respond cos he's d one dat asked me this question in a chat
I met someone, we talk and chat and after he wanted to go fast , I mean intimate , I said no not coming to met for that . After he get distant.. and told ignore me and was harsh nose up with me , as I was nicer and nicer .. so he take the game hard very hard . My question is , will he regret his behavior? Just ask for curios . Not because I crave for his relationship. Will he ever regret his behavior so harsh ? Please answe me I want to know .
Thank you for the post and sharing your story.
In some instances partners can begin to regret their actions however it is case by case situation and we have to really understand the partners and the issues that are underneath to determine the over arching issues.
We are here to help and can work with you on this.
Thanks
Coach Alex
So I should trust your advice why? You say men go through certain phases after a breakup & act like it makes it ok...it doesn't & I won't give a guy another chance after behaving that way because he's immature & untrustworthy w/ my heart or there wouldn't have been a breakup to begin w/...good guys don't take their anger out on people nor bad mouth anyone
My ex reached out saying she wanted to talk to me next time she saw me and when we did see eachother she never came up what does that mean?
She was probably second guessing herself. It happens a lot. We have so much we want to say but when we see our ex partner… we get afraid of rejection or want you to reach out first. Like give us a green flag.
She didn’t want to revisit those feelings. It’s actually a good thing.
What if your ex left you for a another woman and tell you leave his house
Hi Juliet
Thank you for sharing your comment. If your ex leaves you for another woman and tell you to leave his house, you would need to consider your options and also possible no contact for a bit. I know this can feel difficult but sometimes our partners need to feel the pain of losing you to understand the loss.
Thanks
Coach Alex
Ughh i feel so hopeless. I have done everything that we are not supposed to do. I found these Coaches late. Idk what to do now.
No contact. Time will heal. But don’t ignore her/him if they reach out. And instead of bringing up the past, just talk to the person like you are dating them for the first time. If she brings anything up, take accountability but don’t take pity on yourself or her. Just explain that you felt so strongly about the relationship but realize that maybe you aren’t right for each other. It’s not really reverse psychology, it’s just detaching from the relationship.
Made all mistakes
This video can help you now!
My ex keep reaching out through my WhatsApp status only like commenting but never chat me directly
Thank you
Sometimes ignoring can help, so it shows your partner you are not always available.
Thanks
Coach Alex
My ex does not talk with me
Mijn ex was voor mij 20 jaar alleen is passief nu ook hij plan niks Apple mij bijna nooit meer zit er niet in zo ben ik zei hij wat nu
please help me
I was sleeping with Teo women at thr same time,The one girl I really want to be with told me I will never ever forgive you or I will never take you back!Is there still a chance?And I have been doing the no contact with her too....
I sent my ex pics with me and other guy. What that going to happen. I wanted to make him jealous
Hii she was mad at me befor cause i was being so needy and always wanted to prove my self...
But i left her some time and later texted and sent a gift across she accepted them and posted them on her status saying thank you so much sweetheart.....
Pls so i still hv the chance of getting her back?
They don't get to the point.
My ex divorced me 3 months ago. he let me stay in his house (he paid the rent but he stayed in other place) but he can kicked me out anytime he wants.
He acts very distance… i have been begging to him to come back to me but he said he wont remarry me…
Is there still hope?
Adrian doesn't have energy 🥴
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OK yes me and my ex has been split up now for over a year. We've been conversating with each other here and she calls me on yesterday. She is having a little health issue and she knows that I goes to the gym. She asks me if she can go with me when I go to the gym because she does not want to get a membership. Should I let her go with me or how should I approach it
Curious what your choice was? Did it work out ? I'm in a similar situation.
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