Did She Feel Like You Weren't Enough?
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- Опубліковано 27 лют 2024
- Did She Feel Like You Weren't Enough? Oftentimes, we can feel like we were not enough for our Ex. But that often is not the case! Sometimes, an Ex puts the blame on you when you did not do anything wrong. It's important to take a step back from your situation and re-evaluate how truthful your Ex may be. Exes are often not truthful about the reasons for the breakup, and blame you (when you may have been a good partner).
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'Women are expected to get away with bad behaviour more than men' Yes, telling facts Coach Craig. I bring this up men and women go nuts. But facts don't care about people's feelings.
wtf, substance abuse, delusional, kid from a random dude, no responsibility, no accountability. run!!!
Apart from the important topic, I absolutely adore Craig's staring at the camera with discontent from 13:57 to 14:15😂hilarious
Nostradamus here. My avoidant ex was the same except for the alcohol and substances. When she moved on to something shiny and exciting,she got friend zoned. I left the job I met her at and never heard from her again.
Now imagine dating someone for 8 years, being married for 2, and finding out she was cheating on you for all of them, and was escorting/being a sugar baby for rich older men the whole time. Yeah…f my life.
This video hits very close to home... my ex and I met as seniors in highschool back in 2009, we dated for 4.5 years and had a kid together before she left me for another guy. We tried several times to fix things at first before she ultimately moved to a new city and got into drugs and started living out her party phase that she didn't get to experience.
I got full custody of our son and over the first few years grew to resent her because i had to sacrifice my 20s to be a single parent while she lived the life a single girl, partying every night and going to festivals. We started talking again a few years ago even tho she was with another guy (cant even tell you how many she hooked up with). But we became close again because we always were best friends even in our relationship.
Fast forward to this past Christmas and she says she wants to bring our son a gift. But she didnt bring a gift, instead she showed up and said she needed to stay at my place and detox off opiates... she broke up with her bf and told me it was a bad relationship and all she wanted was to get back to me and our son. Against my best judgement, she knew all the cards to play to break down my walls. She stayed with me for a month and we had a great time, she thanked me for saving her life and told me how happy she was to finally be home. But i noticed she had been posting more on social media and seeking validation and was getting hit on by a lot of guys. Next thing i know shes telling me she wants space to work on herself and doesnt want to destroy our "one chance" at making things work.
At first this made perfect sense, i mean she did just detox and get out of a toxic relationship... but it doesnt change the fact that i feel thrown away AGAIN for a another guy who shes clearly been hanging out with since she moved out at the end of January... i feel used 😞
I know i should just cut it off at this point.. but it sucks because i really do love this person and see her potential, even though she keeps wasting it. But how many times can I allow myself to be the second option before i say enough is enough?
I feel this bruh. That sounds absolutely miserable.
Potential is just what we would do in someone else’s position. You’ve been a consistent beacon of positivity and a prime good example of love and commitment. She needs you because you embody it and she doesn’t have it. That’s where the attraction comes from; just like your resent comes from a place of attraction to irresponsibility and a life you wish you had at times. Opposites attract. Leave it alone. She doesn’t deserve you and she knows it; that’s why she is acting it out. You also don’t deserve the cycle of hurt and confusion she constantly lives in and you know it. That’s why you are acting out the heartbreak. There is no way in hell it works (why would you want it to work in hell anyways?) unless both of you heal; She may never because she is deepening the wound and so are you. Focus on yourself and find someone who can at least return 80% of the love you’ve given. They are out there working on themselves wondering when the payoff is coming just as you are.
@iEcksy I know this isn't to me.... But, thank you. 🙏🏻
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I ruined my relationship, with my amazing ex, i got fat, lazy and insecure because i lost myself in the relationship, got complacent , jelous and hated my body and thought she saw other guys, i really messed up! Like really, i am in a better place mentally, i did a lot of work, i am getting confident, social as never before, i am not ready for women yet, and I do miss her and all the great things from the relationship, i dont see her comming back, i was a mess before she broke up, but my depression and anxiety is better, i am getting much better at self soothing, i dont think she will ever come back, but the breakup just feels wrong, like we are meant to be. I know i can do better for me and my relationships in the future, never stop growing and evolve, i believe everything happens for a reason, and this hurts a lot! But i needed it to work on traumas and anxieties, people pleasing and boundries, never thought of this before
The opposite. I think he felt I was too much at times. 🥺
An insecure man who doesn’t know what he wants and is always looking for “a better fit” rather than knowing what he wants and that he wants you/me is a hurtful turn off.
I'm 100% convinced that my ex or whatever he was from Firestone 7 Eleven in South Gate California near my house will never get back with me !!! He drop me last year in 2023
I was left because I wasn't enough. I was stressed and overworked for some months but I still were there for her when she needed me. At a party with her friends I was tired, stressed and irritated and I acted rude. A week later she left me and Monkey branched to another dude she had known for a while 🙃
At first she just told me she didn't want to risk my health and that she didn't want to feel alone in the relationship. I found out about her new partner a few weeks after
Welcome to the club. I am in exact same situation. Sacrifice my self for work so we could move back to our home town. Became negative, ju 1:23 dging and grudging person. I do distanced myself from her and I admitted that. Before I was always there for her. Regardless of what was happening. She monkey branched to a guy she met when we were on holiday. Guy was still married.
Good morning!
Love some advice and opinions. I have been in no contact for over a month. My ex has a two year old that I was there for since she was 6 months. Her dad wasn’t in her life for the most part. I asked if I could at least see her daughter at her grandmas when my ex was working. My ex lives with her grandma. I never got an answer. So grandma has texted out of the blue and asked if I wanted to come visit my exes daughter. Of course I said me and my son would be there on the date we decided on . My and grandma make these decisions together. I mean she could of completely walked out of my life. Obviously she still cares to let us see her daughter. Do you guys think she is having second thoughts?
I dont think i was reliable or responsible enough for her
I appreciate your work through the years and of course Margaret’s (God bless her soul) but I think you should also take into account the issues with feminism and forced unnatural roles of men and women which is all profoundly affecting our relationships and families.
This guy needs to leave this lady and build his own character and self-belief 😮
So devastating. I'm going through a similar situation and so I emphasize with you. My special person had lost her spouse due to him passing. I came back home to be with her and take care of her, she said she wasn't ready for any relationship (and I totally understood and believed her) and then I later found out she was seeing someone else. Not even a year had passed since her loss. And it killed me inside. Still does. I'm so sorry brother. Keep your head up and move forward. ❤🩹
he shouldn't even be doing a video about this guy because he's still on level 1 here. If he really improved himself in dating he would realize she's a joke.
If she left once doesn’t it mean they can leave again, Im struggling to know whether I should give her another chance
My ex left me more than once… but she would do it in a cold way like ghosting… the third time she did it, it hurt me but not as much as before… now I won’t give her another try. All she did was hurt me. If they leave you, they can do it again
can people have emotional and physical affair without having no sex
Yes