Mandatory DNA test in 30 days after the child is born. $250 insurance pays. $5 option within insurance. $50 deductible. Not for the mother or the father but for the child. The child must get the truth from the beggining.
This man is a Victim and should bring the Mother to court to PAY IT ALL BACK. Remember the State will do the same thing to you if you committed the fraud, not to mention file criminal charges on you on top of that to enforce the penalty and restitution.
He can't, he had 60 days after signing the VAP to challenge paternity, after the 60 days it's binding. The only way to end child support is to locate the biological father and prove that other man is the biological father.
@@SuzanneU because he was financially responsible for the child. You don't have to be the parent to claim a child on your taxes you only have to be financially responsible for them 6 months out of the year.
No, they don't. I've seen dozens of Family Court shows where grandmothers viciously attacked women as opportunists, only to be deflated by DNA evidence that their darling boychicks were indeed the daddies! I've also seen wannabe grandmothers have their hopes dashed when it turned out that the child was no relation.
These men that are not the father should be released from their legal obligations to the child or children. Some of these women ain't worth the headache .
I Love her energy 💚 so caring and educating. She is so relatable. I’d be skeptical cause she has her judge card. But she always wants the best for every person 🥰
Think you misunderstood what he said. He was the working parent so he claimed “his” son on his taxes & certain paperwork was needed. As he stated, he had no doubt the child was his so he signed the paternity acknowledgement form. The child’s mother is who actually put the doubt in his mind.
It's worse - in many states (most) it's PRECEDENT that if a boy is molested, and a child results, he has almost zero chance for custody, but he WILL be ordered to pay child support. A victim of molestation has to pay his rapist, and if he wants any relationship with his child, he has to cater to his rapist's feelings and whims.
Take justice into your own hands. If the system is unjust, get your own. I'd rather sit in jail for my actions, than sit in a prison created for me by the justice system, for another's actions.
Man I know society and women shame you for asking for a DNA test there is nothing wrong with you wanting to be certain and if your girlfriend shames you for it that's a huge red🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
I would do it, but I'd probably so crushed that he even suspected anything so low of me that I wouldn't be able to heal for quite some time. I feel like these women are out here giving good women a hard time they don't deserve either, just like the men they hurt.
@@laurengardella9524 yes I agree. I would do it too but it would really hurt and I would question whether I want to be with someone who thinks I coukd do that. I can also see the man's point of view. Its a tough one
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With a statement that he was your son no matter what that boy is lucky to have you. That states you had unconditional love for that child. That is very hard to come by at anytime.
People can have sex without producing a child. Instead they rather be irresponsible and bring a bunch of kids into these broken/dysfunctional ass homes don’t know “the baby daddy” and rely on government assistance! They think being a single mother is a badge of honor…It’s so disgusting and embarrassing to the ancestors how these clowns behave today.
If you find out you are not the father no way should you be legally responsible for paying child support whatever you had previously signed. I feel for these men caught up in this situation sometimes by women who absolutely know they are not the father.
Your a beautiful soul please just love all the children you can. We are in great need of love please don’t give up on loving them they need love just like you do and I need love to I didn’t have a daddy’s amen the men around me didn’t love me ether
And you know what I seen an incident like this on people's court and couldn't believe it cause not only the lady who put the dude on child support had a test and the kid wasn't his and knew it wasn't and still put him on child support but when the guy asked the judge to give him back his money cause obviously the woman was and committed fraud not only she said no and still made him pay as usual,and no lie that's when I stop watching people's court
@@JudgeVondaBthats good but it shouldnt happen at all. Love what you do, im not throwing shade. Thank you cause you're doing God's work with your honesty and fairness. Continue to inspire and serve justice please
It's obvious that he loves this little boy unconditionally. He may not be the biological father, but he is Daddy. This has more to do with emotions then it does with money. It's really hard for me as a woman to understand how men mentally handle situations like his. This is heartbreaking 💔, for both him and the little boy. I don't think I could just walk away if I were him, love isn't only about DNA. I do hope there is a happy ending to this.
I love you Judge Vonda B. I need to refer my cousins to your court. They’re great dads and takes care of their children and are being financially abused by the mothers of their children.
This is perfect reason as to why men need to be careful who they sleep with cause most hoes out there are worse than black holes they suck everything they come near My heart goes out to your cousins and I hope they get their situations fixed and those shitty waste of oxygen hoes are held accountable
My fiancé's ex claimed he was the father of her baby while she was cheating on him with atleast 2 different men. He is listed as the child's father but paternity is in question. He stopped paying her child support directly to her (outside of the state system) because she was denying him access to his supposed child while demanding money. She disappeared with the child. In Texas you can question paternity if you discover evidence that brings paternity in to question as any age up to 18. If she ever comes back looking for money, she will be slapped with a paternity suite. If your income is low enough Texas will cover the cost of the paternity test as part of the suit, but I don't know if they seek reimbursement from the proven parents after they're enrolled in the state run child support system.
i am just starting the video, but i remember hearing some cases where a man's name can just be put on the birth certificate of a child by the mother, without being inform in some states, and he has to pay child support? in some of those cases, the man already broke up with the woman long time before the woman got pregnant, one case where the man never even slept with the woman, and at least one of the case the man does not even know the woman, that's sounds insane
Now that the truth is out more than just money is at stake - relationships going forward will change all around - the mother now will pay the consequences because everyone wants to know who they’re a part of biologically if possible otherwise they will be left wondering and wanting what if - there’s obviously more going on based on his hesitation in his responses
If all Lawyers and politicians were like this Judge the 🌎 would be in a better place. N this is why all children should have a paternity test, is sad that so many females knows this and stay quiet.
Wait so how did my exhusband claim one of his nephews on his taxes if he allegedly wasn’t the father or on the birth certificate? Did he lie to me? Was he maybe the father?
@@marisawright2439 thank you for the response. My ex lived with his brother, brothers wife, and his brothers five kids. My ex told me he would claim one of his nephews because his brother couldnt because the government would only count so many kids for his brother and his brother couldnt get anymore more. Is this accurate?
@@anonymoususer4866 welll... so there is the additional child tax credit... which actually equals more money. Especially since covid. So then if they all lived together- then it would typically count for the breadwinner ( head of household)... i dont know the entire story. But some people, dont want to be garnished. If you owe back support, or other irs debt, it will be garnished. So that is one way to avoid that
And in addition to the child tax credit, every kid reduces your taxable income... meaning you dont have to pay as much in taxes. Then theres the earned income tax credit. Basically an added boost if you are "poor". So it would be another boost to the tax return payday
My husband and i have had 3 so far. They all look exactly the same when they pop out. If one comes out significantly different there will definitely be questions. 😂
How can I collect from a mother that walked away, leaving me with a 6 month old? He's 11 now and in 5th grade- I've seen $480 in 11 years. She's on SSI and had arrests for breast feeding on meth and had (3) other children taken away at birth.
Texas law does not consider SSI as income. Therefore, a parent will not have the obligation to pay monthly child support payments if they are receiving Supplemental Security Income (SSI) and it is their sole source of income.
DNA TESTING SHOULD BE A LEGAL REQUIREMENT WHEN CHILDREN ARE BORN WHETHER OR NOT THE PARENTS ARE MARRIED. THIS IS RIDICULOUS AND MEN SHOULDNT HAVE THEIR LIVES DESTROYED
I have a question me and my ex have 1 babe and we been broke up 2 year and I am trying to talk ot help my daughter and try to contact to ger always talk about her first and I always ask her if I can do anything for my daughter finally she tells me she is not my daughter but I know for sure she is my daughter she just say because i am merried she move 2 years ago I am tired to look for my daughter what should I do please give me some advice Thank you !
This is why I ALWAYS say that dudes need to make a 100% sure before they sign the BC!! In this situation they were just “f*ck buddies” so he should have gotten a paternity test and I feel bad he didn’t know that if you sign it it doesn’t matter if you’re the parent or not. Someone should have stood up and told him!! It’s such a sh*tty thing to do to a man!! Especially when he’s amazing and steps up to be the father!!
Once pay one penny to child, whether or not the child is yours, bam state says you are. And don't be married to her it's almost automatically yours in the eyes of the great state of Texas. Funny thing is reproductive organs don't care if you're married. 😂
@@deannapalmatier Why are you yelling? You right that it's ignorance trusting our woman and wanting to believe the child she is pregnant with is yours. But that doesn't negate the gaslighting females do
@@absolut_dre it's not a woman's job to make men step up and do theres but we have to force them sometimes he needed to use his brain and think about the consequences of his actions
@@deannapalmatier What the hell are you talking about "making men step up" and "consequences of his actions"? Are you dense? He wasn't the father. This guy wanted to be involved and she fucked him. Its women like this accusing the wrong man of being the father and then gaslighting them and pulling that "don't you trust me" card. She should be arrested and forced to pay back all the child support she stole from him. Your assessment is what allows women like this to get away with this nonsense and take zero accountability. You aren't defending someone who was wronged...you're defending someone who wronged another person and used female privilege to game the system.
Mandatory DNA test in 30 days after the child is born. $250 insurance pays. $5 option within insurance. $50 deductible. Not for the mother or the father but for the child. The child must get the truth from the beggining.
Beginning* lol
@@doms.6701 that's assuming a man and his woman are at the hospital and everything is hunky dorey. Rules must be set fourth.
I agree! I believe that it should be mandatory at birth before the father can sign the birth certificate.
@@doms.6701 you proud of yourself for FINALLY learning to spell huh?
See I wish I known that when I was at the hospital. I know my daughter mine but knowing I have that option would help knock the question out the head
It should be mandatory to have a DNA test if you are not married before the mother & baby leave the hospital.
DNA all around. Even married guys are duped by cheating spouses.
@@cabledad65 You are right ✅️
Married or not it should be mandatory, married women cheat too
@@remonathomas1600 True true
This man is a Victim and should bring the Mother to court to PAY IT ALL BACK. Remember the State will do the same thing to you if you committed the fraud, not to mention file criminal charges on you on top of that to enforce the penalty and restitution.
He can't, he had 60 days after signing the VAP to challenge paternity, after the 60 days it's binding. The only way to end child support is to locate the biological father and prove that other man is the biological father.
He signed an acknowledgment of paternity and claimed the child on his tax returns. He should pay back every cent of tax credit that he got.
He's a victim of his own irresponsibility. He sleeps around and doesn't use condoms.
@@SuzanneU sounds like victim blaming to me
@@SuzanneU because he was financially responsible for the child. You don't have to be the parent to claim a child on your taxes you only have to be financially responsible for them 6 months out of the year.
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America was NEVER great stop it.
Brooo that gave me goosebumps, if all Lawyers and politicians were like this Judge the 🌎 would be in a better place
@@MrAlvarez23 Agreed , we need her over here in Britain.
A DNA test should be mandatory at birth and if not ,the woman must declare all potential fathers of her child at court.
I agree with the DNA at birth but I don't think a or all women would be honest enough to declare a or all potential fathers.
Grandma's always know what the truth is
Don’t they
So true!
No, they don't. I've seen dozens of Family Court shows where grandmothers viciously attacked women as opportunists, only to be deflated by DNA evidence that their darling boychicks were indeed the daddies! I've also seen wannabe grandmothers have their hopes dashed when it turned out that the child was no relation.
You’re so right!
Yep I'm a Grandma and I approve this comment! 🤣🤣🤣
These men that are not the father should be released from their legal obligations to the child or children. Some of these women ain't worth the headache .
I Love her energy 💚 so caring and educating. She is so relatable. I’d be skeptical cause she has her judge card. But she always wants the best for every person 🥰
Dna tests should be mandatory at birth. Can’t even move forward without one. And can’t refuse one.
Its how it should be yes....
This is soooo good. Thank you
You're so welcome!
He's stupid for signing the acknowledgement of paternity just for a tax return. You done until the boy is 18.
Think you misunderstood what he said. He was the working parent so he claimed “his” son on his taxes & certain paperwork was needed. As he stated, he had no doubt the child was his so he signed the paternity acknowledgement form. The child’s mother is who actually put the doubt in his mind.
It's worse - in many states (most) it's PRECEDENT that if a boy is molested, and a child results, he has almost zero chance for custody, but he WILL be ordered to pay child support. A victim of molestation has to pay his rapist, and if he wants any relationship with his child, he has to cater to his rapist's feelings and whims.
Wtf that's messed up
@@KiJiHoon
It's precedent in most states - the male victims pay their molesters or rapists child support.
ARE YOU SERIOUS???????? That is so freakin gross I cant even wrap my head around that. I can not believe that. Where can this POSSIBLY be ok
Take justice into your own hands. If the system is unjust, get your own. I'd rather sit in jail for my actions, than sit in a prison created for me by the justice system, for another's actions.
Thank you for sharing this information
Man I know society and women shame you for asking for a DNA test there is nothing wrong with you wanting to be certain and if your girlfriend shames you for it that's a huge red🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
I would do it, but I'd probably so crushed that he even suspected anything so low of me that I wouldn't be able to heal for quite some time. I feel like these women are out here giving good women a hard time they don't deserve either, just like the men they hurt.
@@laurengardella9524 yes I agree. I would do it too but it would really hurt and I would question whether I want to be with someone who thinks I coukd do that. I can also see the man's point of view. Its a tough one
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With a statement that he was your son no matter what that boy is lucky to have you. That states you had unconditional love for that child. That is very hard to come by at anytime.
You Are Not The Father...But Pay Anyway could be enough to make a man go off himself smh
People can have sex without producing a child. Instead they rather be irresponsible and bring a bunch of kids into these broken/dysfunctional ass homes don’t know “the baby daddy” and rely on government assistance! They think being a single mother is a badge of honor…It’s so disgusting and embarrassing to the ancestors how these clowns behave today.
If you find out you are not the father no way should you be legally responsible for paying child support whatever you had previously signed. I feel for these men caught up in this situation sometimes by women who absolutely know they are not the father.
Love this
That’s was good!!🤗🙌🏾
He did great here
Love it!
maam you are a blessing
Your a beautiful soul please just love all the children you can. We are in great need of love please don’t give up on loving them they need love just like you do and I need love to I didn’t have a daddy’s amen the men around me didn’t love me ether
"A men cannot truly be free unless he has the power to enslave himself."
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Thank you!
@@JudgeVondaB Keep up the great work.... have a blessed and wonderful day....
I love how she sips the tea is there a cup with your saying you came here to waist my time
Go judge go!
And you know what I seen an incident like this on people's court and couldn't believe it cause not only the lady who put the dude on child support had a test and the kid wasn't his and knew it wasn't and still put him on child support but when the guy asked the judge to give him back his money cause obviously the woman was and committed fraud not only she said no and still made him pay as usual,and no lie that's when I stop watching people's court
I can honestly say I haven’t heard it occurring as much in recent years.
@@JudgeVondaBthats good but it shouldnt happen at all. Love what you do, im not throwing shade. Thank you cause you're doing God's work with your honesty and fairness. Continue to inspire and serve justice please
Same thing happen to my husband here in NC paid until he turned 18 let the courts put u on support,don't volunteer
It's obvious that he loves this little boy unconditionally. He may not be the biological father, but he is Daddy. This has more to do with emotions then it does with money. It's really hard for me as a woman to understand how men mentally handle situations like his. This is heartbreaking 💔, for both him and the little boy. I don't think I could just walk away if I were him, love isn't only about DNA. I do hope there is a happy ending to this.
We call that kind of friendship/relationship " friends with benefits"
OH Wow !!!!
I love you Judge Vonda B. I need to refer my cousins to your court. They’re great dads and takes care of their children and are being financially abused by the mothers of their children.
This is perfect reason as to why men need to be careful who they sleep with cause most hoes out there are worse than black holes they suck everything they come near
My heart goes out to your cousins and I hope they get their situations fixed and those shitty waste of oxygen hoes are held accountable
My fiancé's ex claimed he was the father of her baby while she was cheating on him with atleast 2 different men. He is listed as the child's father but paternity is in question. He stopped paying her child support directly to her (outside of the state system) because she was denying him access to his supposed child while demanding money. She disappeared with the child. In Texas you can question paternity if you discover evidence that brings paternity in to question as any age up to 18. If she ever comes back looking for money, she will be slapped with a paternity suite. If your income is low enough Texas will cover the cost of the paternity test as part of the suit, but I don't know if they seek reimbursement from the proven parents after they're enrolled in the state run child support system.
my question is why are you with them if they were cheating on their ex??? sorry i’m nosey lmao
i am just starting the video, but i remember hearing some cases where a man's name can just be put on the birth certificate of a child by the mother, without being inform in some states, and he has to pay child support? in some of those cases, the man already broke up with the woman long time before the woman got pregnant, one case where the man never even slept with the woman, and at least one of the case the man does not even know the woman, that's sounds insane
Now that the truth is out more than just money is at stake - relationships going forward will change all around - the mother now will pay the consequences because everyone wants to know who they’re a part of biologically if possible otherwise they will be left wondering and wanting what if - there’s obviously more going on based on his hesitation in his responses
I wish he could have talked straight forward about having sex. Not making it kinda this and uhhh kinda that …
It’s time to just be honest.
💙💙💙
Don't mess around
This happened to me!
If all Lawyers and politicians were like this Judge the 🌎 would be in a better place.
N this is why all children should have a paternity test, is sad that so many females knows this and stay quiet.
Me and my boyfriend did that they usually do it in the hospital after the birth of the child
Wait so how did my exhusband claim one of his nephews on his taxes if he allegedly wasn’t the father or on the birth certificate? Did he lie to me? Was he maybe the father?
Ouch!!!
If they lived with him over half the year- they would be an elligible dependent
@@marisawright2439 thank you for the response. My ex lived with his brother, brothers wife, and his brothers five kids. My ex told me he would claim one of his nephews because his brother couldnt because the government would only count so many kids for his brother and his brother couldnt get anymore more. Is this accurate?
@@anonymoususer4866 welll... so there is the additional child tax credit... which actually equals more money. Especially since covid. So then if they all lived together- then it would typically count for the breadwinner ( head of household)... i dont know the entire story. But some people, dont want to be garnished. If you owe back support, or other irs debt, it will be garnished. So that is one way to avoid that
And in addition to the child tax credit, every kid reduces your taxable income... meaning you dont have to pay as much in taxes. Then theres the earned income tax credit. Basically an added boost if you are "poor". So it would be another boost to the tax return payday
My husband and i have had 3 so far. They all look exactly the same when they pop out. If one comes out significantly different there will definitely be questions. 😂
How can I collect from a mother that walked away, leaving me with a 6 month old?
He's 11 now and in 5th grade- I've seen $480 in 11 years.
She's on SSI and had arrests for breast feeding on meth and had (3) other children taken away at birth.
In some states ssi can’t be taken for child support , alimony or taxed. You need to check with your state if child support can be given based off that
@@remiolanipekun5628
In all as far as I know...
Hopefully, our Lady Of Justice can give me off the cuff advice- I need it!
You will not get any back payments. Contact SS. If you start running into problems contact your representative's office.
@@ShowdogTiger won't ever get anything- I'm a solo father..
Roles reversed and it's there.
Texas law does not consider SSI as income. Therefore, a parent will not have the obligation to pay monthly child support payments if they are receiving Supplemental Security Income (SSI) and it is their sole source of income.
DNA TESTING SHOULD BE A LEGAL REQUIREMENT WHEN CHILDREN ARE BORN WHETHER OR NOT THE PARENTS ARE MARRIED. THIS IS RIDICULOUS AND MEN SHOULDNT HAVE THEIR LIVES DESTROYED
I act like it didn't matter.
I have a question me and my ex have 1 babe and we been broke up 2 year and I am trying to talk ot help my daughter and try to contact to ger always talk about her first and I always ask her if I can do anything for my daughter finally she tells me she is not my daughter but I know for sure she is my daughter she just say because i am merried she move 2 years ago I am tired to look for my daughter what should I do please give me some advice Thank you !
I'm ready lol
I love your glasses 😍
Thank you!🥰
Judge Vonda so 😍
Why thank you!!
You welcome 🤗
Vonda what message are you trying to send with your intro music song saying F*ck It, F*ck It, F*ck It???
I think it's saying "funk"😅
Judge has sweet hair!
Thank you!
@@JudgeVondaB
Thank you for your effort- nice hair never goes unnoticed.
I enjoy your videos but could you please find a better opening song?
Thank you for enjoying the videos!
They have to be related 😶
Went to fast.
This is why I ALWAYS say that dudes need to make a 100% sure before they sign the BC!! In this situation they were just “f*ck buddies” so he should have gotten a paternity test and I feel bad he didn’t know that if you sign it it doesn’t matter if you’re the parent or not. Someone should have stood up and told him!! It’s such a sh*tty thing to do to a man!! Especially when he’s amazing and steps up to be the father!!
Why didn't you get into what the woman's/mother input was on it??? Did she come forward and say she slept around or lied about it.
How do you know it hasn’t happened?😊
LOL......he pkayed himself.
He knew he wasn’t the daddy bc he needed that extra! $1300 added to his income tax return per child.
Once pay one penny to child, whether or not the child is yours, bam state says you are. And don't be married to her it's almost automatically yours in the eyes of the great state of Texas. Funny thing is reproductive organs don't care if you're married. 😂
I'm sorry I didn't feel sorry for the man U NEVER SIGN ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF PATERNITY UNLESS U TAKE DNA
Really? You gonna take that stance, knowing that women pull attitude when guys ask for paternity?
@@absolut_dre YES IGNORANCE IS NO EXCUSE
@@deannapalmatier Why are you yelling? You right that it's ignorance trusting our woman and wanting to believe the child she is pregnant with is yours. But that doesn't negate the gaslighting females do
@@absolut_dre it's not a woman's job to make men step up and do theres but we have to force them sometimes he needed to use his brain and think about the consequences of his actions
@@deannapalmatier What the hell are you talking about "making men step up" and "consequences of his actions"? Are you dense? He wasn't the father. This guy wanted to be involved and she fucked him. Its women like this accusing the wrong man of being the father and then gaslighting them and pulling that "don't you trust me" card. She should be arrested and forced to pay back all the child support she stole from him. Your assessment is what allows women like this to get away with this nonsense and take zero accountability. You aren't defending someone who was wronged...you're defending someone who wronged another person and used female privilege to game the system.
I am not a big fan of hearing one side of the story.
Why was it so difficult listening to the guy, his layback attitude is annoying 😒