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  • Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
  • Abel is bringing Monique to court for full custody and child support. Monique says she still has issues related to post partum such as depression and Abel was not there for her. The depression temporarily disappeared briefly so Monique could beat up Abel's new girlfriend.

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  • @kimberlysierra5840
    @kimberlysierra5840 3 роки тому +3106

    I just found out about this show this week. And I am ADDICTED lol. And the judges comments and the looks she gives i love it! Lol. You go judge Vonda!

  • @MissLinCee
    @MissLinCee 2 роки тому +510

    Thé judges commentary ”her sister bailed her out, you weren’t there for her but her sister was” 😂😂 SHE IS ADDING SEASONING TO THE FIRE AND I LOVE IT.

    • @ashleyunderwood4855
      @ashleyunderwood4855 2 роки тому +5

      That was one the best things I’ve ever seen in court😂😂😂.

  • @audz8219
    @audz8219 2 роки тому +1583

    I love when she says “You obviously came here to waste my time” 😂😂😂😂

  • @deezy181
    @deezy181 2 роки тому +192

    How do you feel obligated to receive child support when the child don’t even live with you 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @Carib6855
      @Carib6855 11 місяців тому +1

      Because she needs to contribute some money as well.

    • @Shukochan
      @Shukochan 7 місяців тому +6

      @@Carib6855 What expenses for the child does the father have if the mother is the only one taking care of it? Child support isn't about giving money to the mother or the father; it's about providing funds to care for the child.

    • @minxymoo2325
      @minxymoo2325 5 місяців тому +3

      ​@Carib6855 Does she not contribute when the child lives in HER house and lives off HER groceries and is taken care of full time by HER? Dad doesn't even pay child support... so right now mom and her sister are the only ones contributing time and money to this kid.

  • @kittycatcuties
    @kittycatcuties 2 роки тому +1357

    People need to stop calling it “helping with the child” when it’s their own child. It’s your responsibility. You shouldn’t be “helping” mom but raising the child together.

    • @danielhorton9161
      @danielhorton9161 2 роки тому +16

      no he's helping out the way he should you just don't like the way he said it

    • @gooberhoobin4658
      @gooberhoobin4658 2 роки тому +27

      @@danielhorton9161 she’s right, don’t act dumb

    • @danielhorton9161
      @danielhorton9161 2 роки тому +7

      @@gooberhoobin4658 no you're just mad that I'm right

    • @danielhorton9161
      @danielhorton9161 2 роки тому +3

      It's clear as day she don't respect him

    • @deeluv1000
      @deeluv1000 2 роки тому +16

      Women need to quit considering it their child until the child needs something then suddenly its his child. When it comes to custody and control its her child when it comes to support feeding and clothing its his child. Its women on this very same show haven't had their child in years but requesting that the father pay them child support even though the father has custody🙄🙄🙄

  • @rstrama64
    @rstrama64 2 роки тому +90

    The father is a hypocrite. I was 100% for the dad until he confessed he had a girlfriend. I commend the mother for her desire to keep the family together - with the exception of the assault charge. I hope the mother files for support and the father grows up and financially, emotionally and developmentally supports his son.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig Рік тому +2

      Honestly I am unsure if the kid deserves either of them.
      The mom seems like she is practicing self-care and using the kid to avoid the depression which most likely makes her a neglectful partner (so not trying to keep the family together) and more likely to turn that victim mentality violence she showed towards her kid if they start acting up.
      Meanwhile, I don't think the dad is much better as he seems to have quite the hands-off approach.
      It honestly seems like the best chance that child has is for both of them to commit to a licensed therapist, and perhaps couples therapy. That way, they can learn to communicate and she can actually work on that depression of hers.

    • @chestergriffin9370
      @chestergriffin9370 9 місяців тому

      I agree

    • @edwardfletcher7790
      @edwardfletcher7790 7 місяців тому +1

      He wouldn't be in court for child support if he was still with her you Genius....lol
      If he's no longer with her, of course he's dating ! 🙄

  • @wero7352
    @wero7352 2 роки тому +1654

    This judge cracks me up I love her 😂 she so interested in the story but she remembers she has to stay professional at the same time it’s hilarious 😂

  • @christinafletcher1112
    @christinafletcher1112 Рік тому +62

    I have been binge watching these for like 2 days now. She is such a fair judge. 🥰

  • @davidtucker2818
    @davidtucker2818 3 роки тому +845

    Please have her come in again and have her file for child support lol. I need to see that 😂

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +153

      I got you! Lol

    • @GrowinWithTheFlow
      @GrowinWithTheFlow 2 роки тому +22

      WE ALL NEED TO SEE THAT

    • @lilrace2017
      @lilrace2017 2 роки тому +18

      @@JudgeVondaB Girl i love how you put these moms who use child support as hair and nail support for them on blast. It's for the child not the mom.

    • @ericrivera8410
      @ericrivera8410 Рік тому

      Her eyebrows are intimidating

    • @serious2k12
      @serious2k12 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @Gonzalez_Hope
    @Gonzalez_Hope Рік тому +117

    I’m a mother of 4. With my last baby I got PPD she’s nine years old now and I’m still on meds. I absolutely hate that people assume PPD shouldn’t last that long.

    • @MsDenise83
      @MsDenise83 Рік тому +10

      It's amazing to me how men who have no idea what a woman's body goes through during and after pregnancy but have the nerve to comment. And make laws about it 🙄

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 Рік тому +4

      PPD does NOT last 9 years. You have depression.

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 Рік тому

      What a dirty old man!!!!! He should be with an old lady his own age. Perfect example of an old man dominating a young girl.

    • @pinktenshi100
      @pinktenshi100 Рік тому +4

      @@happycook6737 um no.....

    • @tojis1glazer
      @tojis1glazer Рік тому +4

      @@happycook6737i’m glad you think you can tell other people about themselves

  • @lynzyrisingsun
    @lynzyrisingsun 3 роки тому +888

    How dude gunna file for child support when THE KID DONT EVEN LIVE WITH HIM!!! Wtf is wrong with him. Smh I got a feeling he wants his family back.

    • @thatmdguy4557
      @thatmdguy4557 3 роки тому +53

      He filed for full custody first then child support so he wanted the child to live with him he has more stability than she does and she is sounding like she may be incarcerated soon so he may get his shot at being a better dad sooner than later

    • @tricejenkins6573
      @tricejenkins6573 3 роки тому +21

      She gave the child to him when she fought the other women. The only thing the court will see is she's unstable period. If you can't deal with your emotions the court will lock u up.

    • @maliciousconspiracy1448
      @maliciousconspiracy1448 3 роки тому +12

      He is so manipulative.

    • @andrewvelonis5940
      @andrewvelonis5940 3 роки тому +3

      @@thatmdguy4557 Okay, assuming that you are right that he filed for full custody first, then once custody is granted, then you file for child support, or, if the courts in that jurisdiction allow it, file for both at the same time, and once custody is decided upon, support follows.

    • @Rman89782
      @Rman89782 3 роки тому +5

      There are many people who are collecting child support while the other parent is taking care of the kids.

  • @dawnjohnston8954
    @dawnjohnston8954 2 роки тому +71

    Postpartum is real. It lasts years sometimes.

    • @pattilemonhouse7911
      @pattilemonhouse7911 5 місяців тому

      Best learn how to deal with it, then. Surely you don't suggest it's an excuse to check out?

  • @chvsdee
    @chvsdee 3 роки тому +556

    “That’s a lil ratchet 🥴” I am crying 😭

  • @goddessparis5264
    @goddessparis5264 2 роки тому +19

    Not a judge with butterfly locs. Absolutely beautiful and I'm here for it!

  • @cecelove2821
    @cecelove2821 3 роки тому +73

    It annoys me when men try to tell women how long postpartum depression actually last… postpartum can last yearssss! It doesn’t just stop when you want it too.

    • @JayBelafonte
      @JayBelafonte 2 роки тому +4

      So what exactly is he to do? He’s also going to sink into depression. How long do you sit around and wait especially if the person refuses to seek help?

  • @iamveeOxcalifa
    @iamveeOxcalifa 2 роки тому +45

    I completely love how the judge acknowledges everybody that leaves nice comment in her videos love her for that!!

  • @oneandonly1990
    @oneandonly1990 3 роки тому +666

    Any man who's jealous of a baby/child doesn't like children. He doesn't want the child because he thinks she/he are in danger, he wants the child to get back at the mother AND to not pay child support.

    • @CeltycSparrow
      @CeltycSparrow 3 роки тому +34

      I agree. I think his story is ABSOLUTE bull. I think the TRUTH is, he saw a beautiful woman, they were having unprotected sex and suddenly she's pregnant and having to focus on taking care of the child rather than him and now he's jealous and bitter and the ONLY reason he wants child support is to get back at her out of pure spite. He has NO interest in being a real Dad. He just knows if he doesn't do it, she WILL and then HE will have to pay to support this child he finds so annoying. This child is 6 yrs old now. He's probably in school. He can play by himself some. He's not a baby anymore. But like any good Mom, she's tired and stressed and dealing with post partum depression and taking care of this baby and according to her, HE'S not supporting her needs....so WHY THEN should she support him?

    • @Janthony1977
      @Janthony1977 3 роки тому +22

      Sounds like women protecting other women, she not even working.

    • @CeltycSparrow
      @CeltycSparrow 3 роки тому +5

      @@Janthony1977 Sometimes women HAVE to protect other women....especially when men are acting a FOOL and being narcissistic, perfidious, vile ding-dongs. Do you REALLY condone this man's behavior, given what his testimony is? I listened to him....his concern was NEVER for his child. Not even a little bit. It was all about me, me, me. "Poor me, Judge. I'm not getting nookie anymore. She's always focused on the child." GROW UP, you brat. He has sex with this woman...gets her pregnant....and EVEN WHEN this child is 6, he is JEALOUS of a CHILD because the child is now taking his ex girlfriend's attention (because UNLIKE HIM, she is being a GOOD PARENT and taking care of her baby) and he's pissed because he's not getting anymore nookie. AND he's stepping out on her as well while she's raising his child (pretty much ON HER OWN, it sounds like) AND dealing with depression as well. Speaking as a woman who also struggles with depression, I KNOW how this feels. And he has ABSOLUTELY NO empathy for her either. He just wants to get out of doing his duty and have sex. That's it. He doesn't really WANT to be a full-time parent to his son. He just thinks that if HE gets full custody, she will have sex with him again and he won't have to pay child support. And I DO hope she heeds Judge Vonda's advice and comes back again and petitions Judge Vonda for HIM to pay her child support. It certainly sounds like he can afford it. SHAME on him. And JUST for your information, being a parent (ESPECIALLY a single Mom) IS INDEED a full-time job. You don't get to clock out at 5:00. Its 24/7 when you have a baby. They don't know that Mom is exhausted and depressed. They need Mommy. And he claims he is this famous producer....I haven't heard of him. And I'm a MUSIC CRITIC.

    • @jorii385
      @jorii385 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly

    • @cbrown6848
      @cbrown6848 3 роки тому +8

      Well neither of them seem to be a real treasure

  • @eka1fw0n5
    @eka1fw0n5 2 роки тому +16

    I can not go to bed because I can't stop watching. My goodness, you leave me speechless every time.

  • @rosannarosesrosie
    @rosannarosesrosie 3 роки тому +404

    She definitely should’ve placed him on child support. She needs to protect her child financially by all means necessary.

    • @contractkilla11
      @contractkilla11 3 роки тому +18

      But she’s about to go to jail for that assault most likely and he’ll have the kid living with him, kinda pointless

    • @rosannarosesrosie
      @rosannarosesrosie 3 роки тому +5

      @@contractkilla11 not necessarily, she stated that her sister helps her with the child so the child could stay with her sister while she’s in jail if she’s convicted so she could still eventually request the child support once the case is resolved

    • @beatriceaba8851
      @beatriceaba8851 3 роки тому +14

      @rosannabello why would the court allow an aunt to take care of a child than the own parent?

    • @rosannarosesrosie
      @rosannarosesrosie 3 роки тому +2

      @@beatriceaba8851 I mean he’s already not taking care of the child, idk I’m not a judge or anything I’m just speculating. This is a theoretical situation

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому +8

      She's likely getting more from him now than she would if he were on Child Support, a lot of women avoid putting their baby daddy on Child Support for that reason.

  • @Supra_Na96
    @Supra_Na96 Рік тому +35

    I completely understand where she is coming from. HOWEVER- my personal feeling from experience of having a child, if you don’t ask for help, or vocalize what you need, your partner isn’t going to understand what they should try to do to help you. The partners often don’t understand that new mothers get overstimulated with being grabbed at non stop by the child, the loud crying and loud vocals of a child, constantly being needed, that will absolutely over stimulate your senses making you feel like don’t touch me when your partner wants physical attention. My husband also felt this way, left behind bc a new mom is so hyper focused on her offspring it’s hard to understand how to balance the relationships as a whole.

    • @lissab2055
      @lissab2055 Рік тому +2

      Facts this is true 100% I had twins first go round and I’m still dealing with postpartum 3 years later

    • @Supra_Na96
      @Supra_Na96 Рік тому +1

      @@lissab2055 you and me both. I still have some postpartum left and my daughter will be 4 in January. Thank you for replying. It hurts and helps knowing other’s experience this.

  • @TrigTrag24
    @TrigTrag24 3 роки тому +390

    This show makes my day every day I love how fair and no nonsense the judge is

  • @wabidee8875
    @wabidee8875 2 роки тому +24

    Him: “Im in the entertainment business”
    Judge: “What does that mean?” 😑😒
    🤣

  • @patriciapike6795
    @patriciapike6795 3 роки тому +378

    My mother went through 18 years post partum depression. My entire childhood! Yes it's serious! It damn near destroyed my relationship with her.
    What did my dad do? Stuck. By. Her. Side. No matter what! That's a real man.

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому +67

      By definition that isn't postpartum depression anymore though.

    • @TheHOU713
      @TheHOU713 2 роки тому +22

      Your dad sounds like a beta

    • @RanGer-498
      @RanGer-498 2 роки тому +5

      Did your mom go for mental help?

    • @yellawalker4147
      @yellawalker4147 2 роки тому +51

      Funny how a real man is always someone doing exactly what women want them to do 🤣 And PPD don't last 18yrs, that's something else. Women be talking about baby fat and they got teenagers. Naw, that's just fat sweetheart

    • @mincraftarmy5631
      @mincraftarmy5631 2 роки тому +37

      Post Partum doesn't last that long, that's depression.

  • @Scratchingforcash
    @Scratchingforcash 2 роки тому +142

    I hope they never stop making these shows.

    • @giovannigriffin5227
      @giovannigriffin5227 2 роки тому +2

      I know right!! So hard to walk away from!!

    • @jeylenlevy857
      @jeylenlevy857 Рік тому +1

      Well this aged well. 😢😢😢 although i’m
      very happy for her.

    • @Kaelioscope92
      @Kaelioscope92 Рік тому

      With all these hood rats procreating with other hood rats and other irresponsible parents it will go on like judge Judy.

  • @annabellawr
    @annabellawr 2 роки тому +166

    Judge: “That’s a lil ratchet” I HOLLERED 😭😭
    This whole situation is RACHET AF, holy cow.

    • @ravenmckinnon5526
      @ravenmckinnon5526 2 роки тому

      What’s Rachet mean

    • @barbarajordan3145
      @barbarajordan3145 3 місяці тому

      Heated and often violent reaction to events and having attitude; almost 'gangsta'.

    • @cadyjhamaxine8707
      @cadyjhamaxine8707 Місяць тому

      The way she said it like it's so scandalous 😂

  • @crystalhenry5137
    @crystalhenry5137 2 роки тому +178

    I absolutely love this judge. Fair, but also doesn’t care if she hurts anyone’s feelings 😂

    • @gaelablake2692
      @gaelablake2692 2 місяці тому

      He admitted to them being together for six years but he treats her like she was a one night stand

  • @theavrgjoe8656
    @theavrgjoe8656 3 роки тому +363

    Man I almost died laughing when he asked “what happen to the depression?” After she went to girlfriends job to beat her up. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @__justangie5872
      @__justangie5872 2 роки тому +4

      Lmaoooo yesssss

    • @user-kw4bk
      @user-kw4bk 2 роки тому +4

      😭😭😭😭

    • @aaronnava6939
      @aaronnava6939 2 роки тому +4

      Yo fr I just rewinded that part like 50 times 😂😂 The way she spun around in the chair right after he said that 😂😂

    • @SunShine-tr5cw
      @SunShine-tr5cw 2 роки тому

      They are both childish asf. He wants support for their child that doesn't live w him & she goes & assaults the woman he stepped out on her with instead of being grown & dealing with or leaving him. Now she caught a case. And she doesn't work, using the child as an excuse. He is 6 mam, that's means he's in school all day, she can go get her a "little" job, just like she said he has a "little " job, & both need to learn to be adults & coparent that child, because all that bickering & childishness is just going to confuse the child & that's going to end up making him resentful & angry. SMH at these fools

    • @andrefreeman8643
      @andrefreeman8643 2 роки тому

      Bruhhhhh

  • @KimOfDrac
    @KimOfDrac 2 роки тому +16

    I found this channel a few days ago and it's fullfilling my coffee breaks❤ Love from Sweden🇸🇪

  • @KRey112
    @KRey112 3 роки тому +159

    “The kid lives with me “
    “My sister helps me with the kid”
    “I quit my job, was taking care of the kid”
    “She stopped paying attention to dad, so I want custody”
    “She can’t keep a job, but I want child support…”
    Are these two for real?

    • @garyneither5
      @garyneither5 2 роки тому +9

      He crazy.the child come first!!!!!

    • @tonyboomin5231
      @tonyboomin5231 2 роки тому

      @@garyneither5 yes but don’t forget about your significant other

    • @savannahellis8888
      @savannahellis8888 2 роки тому +1

      No. Theyre actors...

    • @GodIsMyRockInHimWillITrust
      @GodIsMyRockInHimWillITrust 2 роки тому +7

      That bothered me hearing her refer to her son as "the kid."

    • @oliviadevoe993
      @oliviadevoe993 2 роки тому +2

      @@savannahellis8888 that's the only way this makes any sense 🤣😂🤣it has to be fake...I swear I gotta headache 🤯

  • @bigmontana2838
    @bigmontana2838 2 роки тому +18

    This need to be on a major television network. This will be awesome show to watch

  • @Tonnnnia
    @Tonnnnia 3 роки тому +57

    Neither of them sound like they are connected to this child the way they keep referring to him as the the kid, the baby and the child. This woman is hurt right you can see it in her eyes and hear it in her voice.

    • @lacybeckett164
      @lacybeckett164 2 роки тому +7

      And when asked the child’s age they said “bout 6(ish)” like….you don’t know your kids age??

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому

      They're actors this show is all reenactments for educational purposes.

    • @Tonnnnia
      @Tonnnnia 2 роки тому +1

      @@Casper-Ghost But it's a reenactment of real events. So that language is that of the real case which means the only part of my statement that probably doesn't stand is my assessment of the emotion the woman was conveying. And that isn't completely true because any decent actor is supposed to be able to convey the emotions of the character they are/were portraying so if they read the transcripts from the case it wouldn't be to hard to tell.

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому

      @@Tonnnnia These reenactments are of "scenarios" based on real cases and not real cases themselves though, so its not like the actors are reading from a court transcript but are instead given a script that is based on several cases but is arranged in such a way as to be both educational and entertaining.
      Also these guys are actors but that doesn't mean they're good or even decent as they're all amateur actors that haven't even done anything as big as a local commercial, so you can't put too much faith in their acting abilities since this is in many cases their first and last gig as an actor with lines. That said though most of them do a great job.

  • @debratownsend5495
    @debratownsend5495 2 роки тому +11

    I love Judge Vonda so much!!! When she's serious ,she's tough, but when she is funny 🤣 she's is soooo funny in a good comical way 🤣🙂😂💕😘

  • @dondreedashawnwoods3851
    @dondreedashawnwoods3851 3 роки тому +295

    I wait for this everyday.

  • @AmRose-pr4wn
    @AmRose-pr4wn 2 роки тому +5

    I just found this show last week too and I'm addicted!

  • @cynb5865
    @cynb5865 3 роки тому +90

    He is soooo trifling.. how did he really think this would turn out... he's selfish ,dismissing & not knowing PPD & the cycles of the depression of it all.. claims 2b a producer with SEVERAL artist..then exactly when would he b the better parent..

    • @maxinegonzales6474
      @maxinegonzales6474 3 роки тому +2

      Right!??? He seems so concerned with getting his rocks off than being a dad and partner

    • @shannonsharpe7695
      @shannonsharpe7695 3 роки тому +8

      Yea because PPD can last for 5 years.😂😂 Smh if ur bf was suffering from depression would u be cool with him not working for 5 years? And how is he selfish? He just wants attention plain and simple. Just like if a guy was working hard paying all the bills he prolly wouldn’t spend a lot of time with his girl. Obviously his girl would be upset and might cheat on him because he isn’t spending time with her. She should spend time with him especially since she’s a stay at home mom with one kid.🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @hiddenprofits216
      @hiddenprofits216 3 роки тому +2

      @@maxinegonzales6474 I can’t imagine how difficult it is to be a good husband to women like this.
      No matter what he does is not enough

    • @sonicthehedgehog8348
      @sonicthehedgehog8348 3 роки тому +2

      @@maxinegonzales6474 : I am going through the same thing this Man is going through. Women don't want their partner looking at others, well help the Man out and do your duty.

    • @MrBlack-wt5er
      @MrBlack-wt5er 2 роки тому +2

      If she has psychological problems including depression he should get the kids! Anyway she is unemployed so she is (financially incompetent) she is also morbidly obese and was convicted of a crime (assault)

  • @lovelymissy4628
    @lovelymissy4628 2 роки тому +10

    He came in there for some child support and found out this is a whole entanglement I love the judge sitting back there sipping on her tea getting all information about their shenanigans🤣😂🤣

  • @aaronbankston5702
    @aaronbankston5702 2 роки тому +30

    She said “That’s a lil ratchet” yo I’m dead ☠️☠️☠️🤣!!!

  • @jgale2590
    @jgale2590 5 місяців тому +2

    I can't stop watching Judge Vonda! She's hilarious and professional at the same time.

  • @pajewa
    @pajewa 3 роки тому +144

    She is fighting the other woman, that is crazy. Going to jail for foolishness.

    • @Redd.Ro1
      @Redd.Ro1 3 роки тому +1

      Right

    • @jairoherrera4040
      @jairoherrera4040 3 роки тому +8

      I don't know why they're mad at the wrong person she is as clueless to whats going on.

    • @carolinebarnett9848
      @carolinebarnett9848 2 роки тому +1

      She got mad with her Pimp, what did she expect?? Bout PRODUCER.... producing TRICKS.

    • @bumbledouche3323
      @bumbledouche3323 2 роки тому

      Yeah, she should have grabbed her man & beat *his* ass for cheating!

  • @cynthiastyner163
    @cynthiastyner163 2 роки тому +6

    Love your show and I'm learning so much from different cases to help with my husband's situation with his ex wife and child

  • @kamaolson8859
    @kamaolson8859 2 роки тому +7

    I also just discovered this show this week, & I can't get enough.

  • @IBeAzazel
    @IBeAzazel 2 місяці тому +3

    "Did y'all come here to waste my time?"🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @shayalexander8296
    @shayalexander8296 3 роки тому +79

    “What happened to the depression?” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @anissaince3494
    @anissaince3494 2 роки тому +6

    "how you want full custody but don't take care of the kid" HOW OTIS? Just calling him a baby a minute ago LOL

  • @seanconnors9912
    @seanconnors9912 3 роки тому +100

    9:34 their reaction upon hearing he might have to pay was priceless

    • @augarethomas4605
      @augarethomas4605 Рік тому

      Wasn't it, though? Forgot about any and all of her attention then.....😏🤣

  • @chantecampbell6776
    @chantecampbell6776 2 роки тому +5

    When he said "well what happened to the Depression" 🤣🤣😂😂

  • @TyraNicole.
    @TyraNicole. 3 роки тому +30

    neither one of them said “my child” “my baby” “my mini me” Lord Bless that child’s heart 🥺

  • @gymandi-dc4hl
    @gymandi-dc4hl 6 місяців тому +1

    “That’s a bit ratchet” Judge, don’t change.EVER. 😂

  • @t.y.5565
    @t.y.5565 2 роки тому +20

    If the mother is still dealing with postpartum she needs counseling. Probably a lot more to this issue.

  • @Jaycee42023
    @Jaycee42023 7 місяців тому +1

    Judge: can you stop referring the 6yr old as a baby..
    Man: ok my 72 month old toddler lol😂

  • @gregstore_x5186
    @gregstore_x5186 3 роки тому +179

    No matter how you look at it she's a Good hearted woman - I hope she finds peace in the near future

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому +12

      How is that a good hearted woman? All she did was make excuses for her bad behaviour.

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому +2

      @@batboy0707 No, I was thinking assault.

    • @Rain-oq7vh
      @Rain-oq7vh 2 роки тому

      @@Casper-Ghost you are clearly a dick thinker rather than using your head post partum is not being sad actually depression leads to aggression and hormones don't get balance until at least a year after. Also a bad behavior is not a sign of evil anything. I can't imagine what you think about kids doing something bad cause it's a reflection of your actual thoughts

    • @3chodabs195
      @3chodabs195 2 роки тому +9

      @@Rain-oq7vh ….she’s lazy entitled and has 0 accountability simply stated she’s the perfect role model 😂

  • @thatgirlPAIGE94
    @thatgirlPAIGE94 2 роки тому +16

    “You forgot about Daddy” 😂😂😂

    • @thekey1000
      @thekey1000 2 роки тому +2

      He just miss that good loving. Bitter ass, and I'm a man & think he was wrong for that. People have to much time. Wasting that judge time like that. He should be ashamed of himself.

  • @soul.searching611
    @soul.searching611 3 роки тому +33

    I’m always waiting for the “what you do living” when they pausing u know it’s not no retail job 😂😂😂

  • @amandamcnickle4371
    @amandamcnickle4371 2 роки тому +1

    Already addicted to the show. Just recently found out about the show. And I had to look for it. Glad to find it on UA-cam. Should be on TV but glad to see cases on the tube. Passes time when little one is down for a nap

  • @kaykay2432
    @kaykay2432 3 роки тому +113

    I have been binge watching since I’ve discovered you! I’m really learning new stuff I’ve never knew! Thank you so much❤️ I need a scenario on child support and claiming children on their taxes when they’re not suppose to. He thinks he can claim them because he pays child’s support.

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +12

      You’re welcome!!! You got it!

    • @gringa978
      @gringa978 2 роки тому +2

      It’s actually up to you and the father to decide unless it’s written into the court order. He can claim any moneys he pays in child support.

    • @tiakibble7439
      @tiakibble7439 2 роки тому +1

      Yes if it's in order he can my ex can claim my every other year bc he pays support. My husband can claim his daughter every other year bc he pays support. If dad paying and helping why shouldn't he hey to claim child sometimes

    • @Probity100
      @Probity100 2 роки тому

      @@JudgeVondaB My Child’s father moved to the US before our baby was born. He has never paid child support, nor seen the child and the child is in her 20s. Am I able to file for back payments for child support as a struggling single mother please Judge Vonda B? I intend to give the entire amount to my child.

  • @BrownSugarBeautyRetta
    @BrownSugarBeautyRetta 2 роки тому +4

    “You ain’t had to jump on haar!” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @nashywil93
    @nashywil93 3 роки тому +41

    We gonna ignore that Judge Vonda is slaying in this episode, I mean she slays everyday lol😂😍

  • @sicdav1d0ff
    @sicdav1d0ff 4 місяці тому +1

    "Im in enterntainment business"
    "what does that mean?"
    "I produce" "yeah he producin alright"
    I'm dying 😂😂

  • @sharonsimmons7824
    @sharonsimmons7824 3 роки тому +27

    One of my favorite judges show. Passion for our children . Much love always.

    • @kayshawnsimmons6822
      @kayshawnsimmons6822 3 роки тому

      Yes, Judge Vonda and Judge Lake are jewels of the courtroom 👩‍⚖️👩‍⚖️❤

  • @latriceclark5091
    @latriceclark5091 2 роки тому +2

    This is my first day watching this channel and I AM HERE FOR IT ALL. JUDGE Vonda B. Does NOT come to play ! I love it 😍

  • @quintonclark5684
    @quintonclark5684 3 роки тому +34

    Ain’t nothing like justice being served. Thank you.

  • @scabessa123
    @scabessa123 Рік тому +6

    I just came across this show and I cannot stop watching it!!! Love it and I love Jude Vonda! So cute and sweet! Love how she tells it like it is! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hassanmcleod103
    @hassanmcleod103 3 роки тому +55

    Love your content Miss Vonda B an intelligent black queen and you're not bias call it straight down the middle you're a real judge need more like you 🖤🖤🖤🖤❤❤❤❤

    • @JustinSmith-vi9ek
      @JustinSmith-vi9ek 3 роки тому +3

      She is real on her judgment! but she’s not a real judge, but she definitely needs to be!

    • @JudgeVondaB
      @JudgeVondaB  3 роки тому +6

      Stay tuned.😎

    • @JustinSmith-vi9ek
      @JustinSmith-vi9ek 3 роки тому +1

      @@JudgeVondaB we know u will be! You are to smart not to be!! An not to mention the Prettiest Judge in all the United States!!!

    • @itumelengmakgobatlou5439
      @itumelengmakgobatlou5439 3 роки тому +2

      She is very bias.... or ain't we watching the same thing?

    • @RemainNameless614
      @RemainNameless614 2 роки тому +1

      She's not bias?! Wow! 🤦🏾

  • @jonsquirrel3661
    @jonsquirrel3661 8 місяців тому +1

    I love it everytime after she sips her tea and then get down to business and say these iconic words: "Obviously you came here to waste my time!." 😅😅😅

  • @codenameqb
    @codenameqb 3 роки тому +75

    I do not believe he should’ve been jealous of the child as much as he was. He clearly showed that he was not as attentive as he should’ve been to the mother which is sad. But the man was right when he said that he is not a mind reader. If you know the type of person that he is then it should be one of the first things on your mind to tell them how you are feeling. They are both completely at fault and how this relationship turns out. Personally I am not sure if one or the other can take more of the blame.

    • @dabsanyone3752
      @dabsanyone3752 3 роки тому +3

      Sounds like she was doing the same not being attentive to her husband

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому +2

      Except he clearly stated that he comes to her and does things for her to try and take some stress off to help her relax and get back to normal and she just nodded and agreed, whereas she does nothing for him as a significant other/spouse.
      That's not being "jealous" of the child, that's a man having physical and emotional needs within a relationship and him trying to do what's necessary to have those needs met without stepping out of the relationship.

    • @AnonyMous-rr1rv
      @AnonyMous-rr1rv Рік тому

      Wife dried up and stopped banging

  • @ddhaiti213
    @ddhaiti213 2 роки тому +5

    I tuned out as soon as I heard “mental health”. My dude is country as hell lol 😂

  • @sheriefleming8117
    @sheriefleming8117 3 роки тому +58

    Ladies, ladies…from one female to another….when your significant other steps out on you it is not the other person fault…ITS YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER FAULT!! He is the one in the relationship with you not the other person, put the claim/charge where it should go. Also, why belittle yourself and be out there fighting? You can’t force a person to not cheat or do the right thing..Girl, move on and take care of yourself and your child.

    • @annfranklin3626
      @annfranklin3626 3 роки тому +1

      I agree 💯💯💯

    • @birchnugget4723
      @birchnugget4723 3 роки тому +2

      The mistress owes the wife nothing. And vice versa.

    • @shannonsharpe7695
      @shannonsharpe7695 3 роки тому +2

      In this case it’s her fault tho. If ur not gonna give ur man attention for like 5 years wth u want him to do? Dude was actually trying to make time for them to spend together.

    • @tameshabaptiste8397
      @tameshabaptiste8397 3 роки тому +6

      @@shannonsharpe7695 what he should have done was LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP not keep her there like an appliance

    • @andrewvelonis5940
      @andrewvelonis5940 3 роки тому

      It's both their faults.

  • @RobinZK67
    @RobinZK67 2 роки тому +2

    I just found this show. I love how Judge Vonda explains her ruling after the show. Love the show.

  • @blackqueenmelanin1449
    @blackqueenmelanin1449 3 роки тому +61

    So, you go and beat up the other woman and gave your MAN a pass and didn't whoop his butt? Interesting! 😳

    • @msredd8886
      @msredd8886 3 роки тому

      Right

    • @shonwoodland7200
      @shonwoodland7200 3 роки тому +5

      People are so immature what the hell is she fighting anybody for she's not paying him attention she's not taking care of him right who the hell is she to fight anybody she need to get it together we're all adults here if you're not taking care of your man or woman they're going to stray common sense
      And furthermore if it takes you 5 years to resolve PPD then you should have had counseling he shouldn't have to worry about you not doing what you're supposed to do for 5 years that's ridiculous that's ridiculous on anyone's level so anybody defending her saying what she should have done with putting her hands on him I wish she would have and she's not doing what she supposed to do

    • @kimberlywatson95
      @kimberlywatson95 4 місяці тому

      That part!

  • @Scratchingforcash
    @Scratchingforcash 2 роки тому +5

    Why do people need to quit their jobs to “take care of the kid” lol, I always found that hilarious and lazy at the same time.

  • @MsTyying
    @MsTyying 3 роки тому +74

    Been waiting on this. Need my dose of Judge Vonda B

  • @Dinapus_Olsen
    @Dinapus_Olsen 2 роки тому +8

    Just found this channel yesterday, and I cannot stop watching!!!
    I love it!
    I like this mom, not the dad too much... but I really feel for her💚
    Thanks for video🙃
    Happy Easter 🐣🐤🐥
    Greetings from Norway 🇳🇴 😀

    • @amandamcnickle4371
      @amandamcnickle4371 2 роки тому

      I just found out about the show recently too.
      Addicted already.
      Love it.
      Greetings from Ontario. Canada

  • @rachelhollar4419
    @rachelhollar4419 3 роки тому +13

    Judge sitting back drinking her tea while their spilling theirs. 🍵😆

  • @hazelnut5849
    @hazelnut5849 2 роки тому +1

    Never heard someone call someone ratchet in such an professional way 🤣🤣

  • @standground7956
    @standground7956 3 роки тому +9

    I vote that Judge Vonda B should be in charge of all child support cases in the USA… Period!

  • @TheLilDeyDey
    @TheLilDeyDey 2 роки тому +11

    I like how this show tends to show favorable fathers and dishonest mothers too. It's important to provide visibility between both gender parenting issues. Because fathers too, have to deal with deadbeat mothers.

    • @christophercathcart881
      @christophercathcart881 2 роки тому +1

      There was an episode of Judy Justice that showed a good dad and dead beat mom I loved that episode well parts of it anyway.

  • @Redd.Ro1
    @Redd.Ro1 3 роки тому +14

    I don't understand some women when YOUR man is cheating. You want to go after the other woman. And she probably don't even know you exist.

    • @jairoherrera4040
      @jairoherrera4040 3 роки тому +2

      I feel more bad on the other women because she is a victim from the man who she had no knowledge that he had a baby momma or a wife.

    • @jairoherrera4040
      @jairoherrera4040 3 роки тому +4

      Imagine if u were dating someone after a long day at work, assuming he is single, and all of the sudden a woman comes in and assaults you while ur doing ur job.

    • @BlessedToBeSaved333
      @BlessedToBeSaved333 3 роки тому

      @@jairoherrera4040 You are not wrong, I couldn't imagine a stranger coming to fight me at my place of employment. That's psycho, who fights someone at their job????
      *Aptly titled video*

    • @msredd8886
      @msredd8886 3 роки тому +2

      Right I got jumped behind some mess like this I knew nothing about her! I met the guy a week before nothing happen between us thank God then his child's mother found out about me seen me at the park I didnt even know who she was or nothing I find out before they jumped me who she was smh! Sad part is they weren't together she just didnt want him with anyone else she said she's gonna fight any female he talks to!

    • @Redd.Ro1
      @Redd.Ro1 3 роки тому +2

      @@msredd8886 That's so sad women need to think before they react especially of a man. Because he'll talk to another woman and won't tell her nothing about his wife or his woman.

  • @jessicacortez8571
    @jessicacortez8571 2 роки тому +5

    Judge..."ooh,that's a little ratchet"🤣🤣🤣

  • @AyyItsMeee
    @AyyItsMeee 2 роки тому +12

    She kills me when she *sips tea*

  • @aqhasassy
    @aqhasassy Рік тому +1

    Mom: “The Kid” like it’s just the dog.
    Poor child, not much of a future.

  • @jalynnburns1912
    @jalynnburns1912 3 роки тому +8

    Sounds like they need therapy separately and couples … he acting like a old sugar daddy 😂😂😂

  • @destinydiaz7043
    @destinydiaz7043 2 роки тому +3

    Finding this UA-cam channel has made my whole life better ❤️😂

  • @DjSpeccs
    @DjSpeccs 3 роки тому +10

    Old Playa got cut off from that young good 😂😂😂

  • @akimmynedinawheeler3188
    @akimmynedinawheeler3188 7 місяців тому +1

    He said “What happened to the depression?” 😩😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @maribrunson4464
    @maribrunson4464 3 роки тому +20

    I had to watch this case twice. The father is begging for "me" time and left the mother because his needs were not being met. Judge V definitely made the right call because the child is with the mother and she deserves support if she should ever decide to file. However, the violence against another woman is not acceptable. What happens to the child if/when the mother goes to jail? Surely, the father will get custody while the mother serves time.

    • @TheSobieskiukas
      @TheSobieskiukas 3 роки тому +1

      And what if the mother goes too jail for assaulting another human? Plus notice she doesn't want child support she knows she is gone and will have too pay it back. The dad is also delusional child support when the kid is not living full time with him. Hope this happens too you your ex assault's your new gf/bf and then goes after child support( this is an old story). You know what happened to her she was granted child support for 2 week's and then went too jail guess who has the child? The father and who pays the child support ? The mother.

  • @dianab8008
    @dianab8008 Рік тому +2

    I love seeing what hairstyle the Judge has. Beautiful styles.

  • @celestefawn1941
    @celestefawn1941 2 роки тому +18

    I am a single mom of an autistic boy. Had him day one . The audacity of some of these women infuriated me lol. I know it’s re-enactments but I also know people act like this . My sons father pays the bare min and refuses to adjust every year after taxes . And even though it’s court order to adjust ( which in reality would protect the person paying if income lowers and keeps it fair if the income increases ) but I can’t bring myself to fight in court . I’m on disability , work and make sure my boy has everything he needs . I can’t wrap my mind around some of these “parents”

    • @jacintagordon2537
      @jacintagordon2537 Рік тому

      So these aren't real episodes? They're reenactments? What the hell 🤯😭

    • @brandiecrisp8385
      @brandiecrisp8385 9 місяців тому

      @celestefawn1941 I feel the same way! My little guy has down syndrome and autism, and I can't wrap my head around some of this!

  • @dianaglover7749
    @dianaglover7749 2 роки тому +2

    I just found out about you. You are a breath of fresh air!!! I must say you are very fair. I wish you even more success in your career and your UA-cam channel.

  • @jroberson8912
    @jroberson8912 3 роки тому +8

    I'm waiting on that explanation too... (sips tea) 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @hollystauffer1889
    @hollystauffer1889 2 роки тому +2

    I've been watching this ALL day.. I'm obsessed!!!!

  • @keithgraham1457
    @keithgraham1457 3 роки тому +14

    He brought this case out of spike. She need to focus on herself and child and stop getting herself into trouble by assaulting another woman over a man who don't mean her any good. She should place him on child support. It takes money to financially raise a child. Judge Vonda B. God Bless you

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому +1

      She's likely getting more from him now than she would if he were on Child Support, a lot of women avoid putting their baby daddy on Child Support for that reason.
      How in the world is it spiteful to want his child to live with him when she's getting into trouble assaulting people, can't hold down a job, and is living with an enabler? He's been helping her with the child and taking care of her but she's not providing a decent environment or role model for the child so no decent father would leave their kid in that situation. Limiting her ability to ruin their child's early years is his job as a father in this scenario and getting custody is the first step in that.

  • @lifeofsemya7976
    @lifeofsemya7976 2 роки тому +2

    “Did you two come here to waste my time” they need therapy not support court😂😂😂😂

  • @blackqueenmelanin1449
    @blackqueenmelanin1449 3 роки тому +4

    Please please please upload more videos. I'm rewatching all your videos that I really loved and yep, that's all of them from years ago to present. I'm addicted...lol

  • @_lovekristan
    @_lovekristan 2 роки тому +2

    Omg!! You should be the newest judge on Divorce Court!! Idk if they’ll renew the show, but if they do, I would LOVE to see you up there!

  • @micqouafranklin9273
    @micqouafranklin9273 3 роки тому +7

    My sister is going through it right now with her child's father.HE is getting child support but my niece stays with my sister and her husband. Make makes it sense 🙄

    • @shonwoodland7200
      @shonwoodland7200 3 роки тому

      No difference it's like the majority of kids is with the grandparents more than they're with the mother that's a fact but the mother still gets child support it happens every day it could be a woman living with her parents and the kids he said that is obviously with the grandparents more than they going to be with the mother but she still gets child support right so if it's good to do that for a woman no matter who the child is with why wouldn't it be okay for the same thing for the man to get away with I don't understand

    • @Casper-Ghost
      @Casper-Ghost 2 роки тому

      @@shonwoodland7200 That makes sense if he's providing more in insurance or other benefits than the Child Support for him would be so they have to reimburse him for that which is pretty reasonable in my opinion.

  • @patriciamartinez5836
    @patriciamartinez5836 2 роки тому +4

    Love this judge. She is fair. She listens to both sides and makes the best decision possible.

    • @captainkeyboard1007
      @captainkeyboard1007 2 роки тому

      Her patience with both litigants makes her job more effective. The decisions that Judge Vonda B. are very effective.

  • @BlackBusyBody
    @BlackBusyBody 3 роки тому +25

    I hate the stigma of CPs thinking they’re being “malicious” if they file for the other parent to financially support their child. It’s just silly.

    • @theglammomcorner.3465
      @theglammomcorner.3465 3 роки тому +1

      It’s really because they still have unfinished business feelings wise.

    • @shonwoodland7200
      @shonwoodland7200 3 роки тому +4

      Well use common sense if you have a man he's taking care of his child it would be malicious to say I'm going to take him to child support what are you talking about that's common sense
      If you have a man and no matter what you're going through he's taking care of his responsibilities and you have no issues on that complaint it is malicious to say I'm just going to take you down with child support still and for you to even endorse that you must don't understand the ramifications in that train of thought

  • @friedawhite5981
    @friedawhite5981 Рік тому +4

    !!! CHILD SUPPORT IS NOT FOR FAILED RELATIONSHIPS, ITS FOR ABSENT PARENT !!!

  • @ancientparadox2084
    @ancientparadox2084 3 роки тому +12

    When the man says he feels neglected she tells him that he is an adult and needs to deal with it.
    When the woman says she feels neglected she gets sympathy and he is told to be more supportive.
    Word?

    • @EDocWatson
      @EDocWatson 3 роки тому +2

      Did you notice how the child was her child when she needed to be and his child other times.

    • @ancientparadox2084
      @ancientparadox2084 3 роки тому +2

      @@EDocWatson Yeah I dont like when people say that. When you are talking to the other parent, you should say "Our child"

    • @shayalexander8296
      @shayalexander8296 3 роки тому

      💯💯💯💯

    • @irmacastaneda1646
      @irmacastaneda1646 3 роки тому

      A grown man or a child??? Hmmmmm yes men need to get over it

  • @ieatpotatosalad535
    @ieatpotatosalad535 2 роки тому +7

    I like how at the start he said he basically wants attention from his women and stuff too and she managed to flip it back on him not giving her attention or asking her about her problems clearly both of them need to start giving a lot more