Shame On You, Dad

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  • Опубліковано 10 жов 2022
  • Brenda is bringing her son, Juan, to court for child support. Juan did not tell his mother that he already receives child support from the mother and he is not sharing the money either.
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  • @goatloops
    @goatloops Рік тому +7408

    The moment mom said she could have kept the family home if Juan was paying her the money she was owed, my heart broke. That's devastating.

    • @AllPaws_
      @AllPaws_ Рік тому +41

      Me too

    • @lovesupreme7868
      @lovesupreme7868 Рік тому +31

      Mine too

    • @giovannivicente4486
      @giovannivicente4486 Рік тому +22

      I screamed!!!

    • @tonyaduvall49
      @tonyaduvall49 Рік тому

      I was heart broken and wanted to give a good kick in A-$$ for her. I can't imagine raising such a worthless selfish child. I feel so sorry for his kod but happy at the same time that at least he has a wonderful grandma. ❤️

    • @christianramirez920
      @christianramirez920 Рік тому +33

      the way i wanted to sob over it

  • @fatemahelebiary6156
    @fatemahelebiary6156 8 місяців тому +2808

    letting your MOM struggle to live in a one bedroom with your SON while you’re barely occupying your huge house is diabolical

    • @richardgourdine2756
      @richardgourdine2756 5 місяців тому +15

      @fatemahelebiary6156 SOOOOOOOOOOOOO TRUE @ DIABO;ICAL

    • @mikeydoodle143
      @mikeydoodle143 4 місяці тому +29

      He is only thinking because he will bring diff girls

    • @joannadunegan8373
      @joannadunegan8373 4 місяці тому +22

      It's because he brings different women home every night.

    • @nikkiharrison5678
      @nikkiharrison5678 4 місяці тому +22

      Poor excuse for a mam!

    • @aya9981
      @aya9981 4 місяці тому +46

      Also he was stealing the mother's child support payments, he should be held accountable for back pay for that smdh

  • @whatsupdoc84
    @whatsupdoc84 3 місяці тому +711

    Honestly he should get charged with child support fraud.

    • @bianchinichester5896
      @bianchinichester5896 3 місяці тому +5

      Agreed 💯

    • @falseandugu6429
      @falseandugu6429 2 місяці тому +12

      You are right. It was fraud pure and simple.

    • @christinasantiago7098
      @christinasantiago7098 Місяць тому +7

      Yeah the 1,000 the mom pays he probably spent 900 at the mall of it and 100 on the son at Walmart

    • @NadiaElisa247
      @NadiaElisa247 Місяць тому +5

      Once the state finds out what’s been happening, they’ll go after him. The state doesn’t play with fraud

  • @ghostingsavage7590
    @ghostingsavage7590 4 місяці тому +746

    He def makes more than 48k . He was lying about everything . And smiling like it’s all a joke

    • @emlambiengyeu
      @emlambiengyeu 3 місяці тому +35

      I wonder if the judge would ask for income verification cause people lie all the time!

    • @Indy_rawr
      @Indy_rawr 3 місяці тому +16

      Such a slimeball smile

    • @susancregg472
      @susancregg472 3 місяці тому +9

      Why in the world did he lie about renting vs. owning?
      And he would have to be a really bad club promoter to only earn $48K a year. That is probably his base salary before his commissions and bonuses.

    • @NadiaElisa247
      @NadiaElisa247 Місяць тому +1

      In a real court they require income verification or the judge can decide what you make. It’s usually best to bring your income verification bc judges quote high if you force that on them.

    • @gaylewhauwhau3972
      @gaylewhauwhau3972 4 дні тому

      Poor woman gave birth to a scumbag for a Son. Hes got no shame pos.

  • @queenbelewi
    @queenbelewi 7 місяців тому +1958

    He should have paid back child support for the 3years

    • @dimplez7333
      @dimplez7333 4 місяці тому +50

      Yessss that's what I was saying as well as the 3 years of child support he was receiving from the mom.

    • @MissCourt88
      @MissCourt88 4 місяці тому +26

      Amen to that. What a sick man.

    • @Jc-gm8dr
      @Jc-gm8dr 4 місяці тому +28

      Yes! I was surprised the judge didn’t order that!

    • @carrina1006
      @carrina1006 4 місяці тому +15

      I think you might have to ask for back child support for it to be ordered

    • @closetgaming6659
      @closetgaming6659 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@carrina1006 it does have to be specifically requested, yes. At least in Texas, it does; idk if the law is different in that regard in other states or countries

  • @vichidaloeum2629
    @vichidaloeum2629 Рік тому +4650

    Telling his mom if she really needed money that bad she would’ve pawned her ring that her deceased husband gave her was insane

    • @Vigilant_Owl
      @Vigilant_Owl Рік тому +186

      Yep, that’s when I realized how despicable this guy is.

    • @hattieb_writin9484
      @hattieb_writin9484 Рік тому +37

      Hella crazy and sad

    • @lilac5890
      @lilac5890 Рік тому +1

      Then, when he was told to sell his necklace, he gave the excuse " I need it for promoting " 🙄 as if it's more important than his mother's ring. He's a piece of shi.

    • @9snaps
      @9snaps Рік тому +44

      So selfish as well

    • @cassiemerrick5803
      @cassiemerrick5803 Рік тому +1

      This made my blood boil, I cried. What scum he is. 😢

  • @louise2921
    @louise2921 4 місяці тому +401

    The Judge should of made him back pay his mom for medical. He got off faaaaarrrr to lightly....he's a dead bet dad!!!

    • @MemoriesOf2Mrw
      @MemoriesOf2Mrw 3 місяці тому +11

      That is actually something that can be submitted as back claims up to 1yr through the insurance

  • @christinasanchez2610
    @christinasanchez2610 3 місяці тому +169

    The AUDACITY, when he basically said she should sell the ring that her husband, HIS Father gave her, got me going, man!!

    • @thaloblue
      @thaloblue 3 місяці тому +1

      Just pawn four decades of memories. NBD. (Sarcasm)

  • @halloumi420
    @halloumi420 Рік тому +4832

    Him smiling while his mother is pouring her heart out is sickening. He knows he doesn't care and isn't afraid to show it

    • @mellow_pellow22
      @mellow_pellow22 Рік тому +1

      Ik I wanted to punch the dude

    • @Somarpar1
      @Somarpar1 Рік тому +1

      You know damn well Judge Judy would of had this pathetic loser set straight & cleared that smug look off his face quick.

    • @Mop222
      @Mop222 Рік тому +92

      True, and he will be a hustler all his life, and if that child makes something of himself when he grows up and he has money, this smiling fool will be coming around cup in hand, and I pray Julian makes it big and never looks at this excuse of a father.

    • @lindseyrasmusson3237
      @lindseyrasmusson3237 8 місяців тому

      It seems like a disrespectful piece of s***of a dad you can tell that you're a tool cuz you only think about. You just sitting there while your mom's pouring her heart out.

    • @kammarahperry9793
      @kammarahperry9793 6 місяців тому +9

      Sorry but he would need to come and get his son....I've lost my house and your are OK with my struggle and smiling? Come get your son!

  • @kathleenattrill8309
    @kathleenattrill8309 Рік тому +4751

    He said 'if only she managed her money better...' What money?! He has been stealing over $1600 from her every month! What a sad excuse for a son.

    • @Steff-js8xq
      @Steff-js8xq Рік тому +189

      That's just over $57,000 over that 3 year period. I don't know how his mother didn't get up off her seat, walk over, and give him a good slap. I know I would have. When the mother said she could have kept the family home if she had been in receipt of that money, I could have cried for her. Bless her.

    • @kathleenattrill8309
      @kathleenattrill8309 Рік тому +77

      @@Steff-js8xq Couldn't agree more. I wish Judge Vonda had taken that into account and had him pay her $250 a month for the money he stole from his mother and son.

    • @carolemiller6385
      @carolemiller6385 Рік тому +71

      I wanted to pop him for saying if she managed her money better. I don't know what they did to raised a son like that . He is Heartless 😕

    • @Coffee.and.antibiotics
      @Coffee.and.antibiotics Рік тому +1

      He is the epitome of a POS.

    • @dorothycherino-duran6251
      @dorothycherino-duran6251 Рік тому +33

      @@Steff-js8xq She should have asked for back pay and sued him in family court for her losing her house. I have one son and I'm not a grandma who doesn't want children . My siblings grandchildren are my grandchildren....

  • @sarakay668
    @sarakay668 4 місяці тому +191

    His mom is sleeping on a couch in a one bedroom after selling her home...I can't imagine how hurt she must feel, heartbreaking.

    • @lauramathews8165
      @lauramathews8165 3 місяці тому +5

      She said she has the bedroom, that the boy is small enough to be on the couch without too much difficulty.

    • @florencex1467
      @florencex1467 Місяць тому

      @@lauramathews8165a couch is no suitable place for a small child to be permanently sleeping on

  • @phoephernelia
    @phoephernelia 4 місяці тому +113

    Every times he smiled it send shivers down my spine. what a revolting person, probably narcissistic

  • @joannafacey1104
    @joannafacey1104 5 місяців тому +898

    He's so dishonest. He even lied about his income. He's very HEARTLESS, no wonder the child's mother left without a trace

    • @janicewolk6492
      @janicewolk6492 4 місяці тому +30

      He should be in jail.

    • @cheaplandcontract2092
      @cheaplandcontract2092 4 місяці тому

      He didn't lie..

    • @Shukochan
      @Shukochan 4 місяці тому +19

      @@cheaplandcontract2092 Lies by omission are still lies.

    • @xhaltsalute
      @xhaltsalute 4 місяці тому +10

      He is a narcissistic pretty boy.

    • @neshacruz6574
      @neshacruz6574 4 місяці тому +4

      I am just curious why he had custody over the kid than the mom? And the mom is probably paying 1k+

  • @violawilliamson49
    @violawilliamson49 Рік тому +2408

    He's what you call a dead beat dad and a low down dirty son. It makes me feel sick to my stomach to think he let his mother sell her home because of a $1000.

    • @ally203katt
      @ally203katt Рік тому +75

      Outrageous, and the jerk smirking, throughout proceedings 🤨

    • @GobindaDotel
      @GobindaDotel Рік тому

      If this person was my son he would have been kicked on his face... May be a chair on his back

    • @cheyennetellington3135
      @cheyennetellington3135 Рік тому +66

      Not only that….He petitioned his ex for child support know full well that he was not taking care of the child. He pawned his son off to his mom. If I was the grandmother I would find the ex and ger child support from her directly. I bet he is getting more than 1K per month and he is probably making more than 48K. He is a poor excuse for a man, son, and human being. This makes me so 😡

    • @thepurrrfect10_01
      @thepurrrfect10_01 Рік тому +1

      APPARENTLY, HIS SON'S MOTHER IS A DEADBEAT AS WELL. IF SHE KEPT UP WITH HER SON, SHE WOULD KNOW THAT HE IS AT GRANDMA'S 99% OF THE TIME. SO SHE SHOULD HAVE MADE ARRANGEMENTS WITH THE COURTS, TO SEE THAT THE $1G WENT TO WHERE HER SON WAS!!!

    • @LotsofLisa
      @LotsofLisa Рік тому +14

      I wouldn’t have asked to stay in the “big house” I would’ve just been in it! Damn, I thought my son was a leech.

  • @beavadakkoot
    @beavadakkoot 4 місяці тому +70

    What a disgraceful man... Using all the money for himself.... Not giving any help to his mom and child. Horrible. He should have to pay back the 3 years!

  • @CharismaInPandaland
    @CharismaInPandaland 3 місяці тому +43

    Guy does NOT love his son or his mother.

  • @lucyluna3361
    @lucyluna3361 4 місяці тому +853

    This guy really pissed me off 😡... How dare he tell them that "if she's really that broke, look at that big ring on her finger !"

    • @wendywebster5920
      @wendywebster5920 4 місяці тому +32

      Typical child-like response from the son. He has been caught lying and doing wrong, and he is trying very clumsily to move the attention from him to the mother. I wouldn't trust him with anything. And he is not fit to look after his son either. I wouldn't be surprised if the son suffers from some sort of personality disorder, because he doesn't care much about his mother or his son at all. And is very happy just to lie about everything. Not to mention he smiles at the wrong points. Could be psychopathic?

    • @RMBOLVL4
      @RMBOLVL4 4 місяці тому +19

      Mannnn I feel u 😡...if I could be outside that courthouse waiting for him...

    • @erik1836
      @erik1836 4 місяці тому

      Rats think everyone thinks like a rat. What a disgusting person.

    • @CharismaInPandaland
      @CharismaInPandaland 3 місяці тому +10

      Or if she had managed her money better

    • @thaloblue
      @thaloblue 3 місяці тому +25

      As if she should be forced to sell the symbol of her enduring and unending love for her late husband!!! He is disgusting.

  • @iaintgonnaremember
    @iaintgonnaremember Рік тому +1589

    He is a jerk. He was collecting child support for a child that he gave to his parents to raise, and did not give them a dime of the child support money to help with his son's expenses. And on top of that, he had medical insurance this whole time knowing his mother was taking his son the the doctor. Not once did he tell his mother the child was covered under his insurance. That "if you had managed your money better" comment to his mother, who has been taking care of his responsibilities for over 3 years, had me livid.

    • @lawandarussell4821
      @lawandarussell4821 Рік тому +25

      I agree with you. It upset me as well.

    • @calyoffhaus5282
      @calyoffhaus5282 Рік тому +29

      She was just so kind to him still.... Breaks my heart to see a good mother be treated like that.... Not everyone has parents that great he should have cherished her and helped her all he could

    • @isolatedrose9583
      @isolatedrose9583 Рік тому

      He’s a piece of 💩 who doesn’t deserve a child, a mother that loving or a life…

    • @MszzDee
      @MszzDee Рік тому +21

      I wouldn't have been able to hold my composure if I was his mother. It would have taken the entire court room to pull me off of him...smh

    • @margaretvargas1209
      @margaretvargas1209 Рік тому

      I wanted to reach inside the TV and knock his head off. Making excuses he lives in a big house and his mom and son live in a 1bdrm apartment. Shameful 😮😮😮

  • @amandastandley9403
    @amandastandley9403 4 місяці тому +91

    He should have had to back pay her every child support payment he received and kept from the mom.

    • @LeeMitchell-dz2cy
      @LeeMitchell-dz2cy 3 місяці тому

      That Is Really Truly Sad SMH !

    • @thaloblue
      @thaloblue 3 місяці тому +3

      Abuela would need to formally sue him. I think she should. She might feel conflicted.

  • @aliassmithandjones08
    @aliassmithandjones08 4 місяці тому +44

    She should have made him pay the 3 years of back child support that he received! What a low-life son.

  • @tarabeeton9292
    @tarabeeton9292 7 місяців тому +633

    The smirk on his face and his attitude is revolting

    • @nwilady1867
      @nwilady1867 4 місяці тому +15

      He's disgusting. Stealing from his child and Mother.

    • @Sylvia-ly2qe
      @Sylvia-ly2qe 4 місяці тому +1

      It’s an actor

    • @jesclifford88
      @jesclifford88 4 місяці тому +4

      @@Sylvia-ly2qebased on a real person and how they acted in the court

    • @anaysdearmas3680
      @anaysdearmas3680 4 місяці тому

      It honestly boils my blood.

    • @Rank-hc3ko
      @Rank-hc3ko 3 місяці тому

      ​@@jesclifford88 There's no judge that would take his word on his income he has to provide proof.

  • @mind_over_ms
    @mind_over_ms 4 місяці тому +518

    The judge should garnish his wages. He doesn't look like he'll pay even if the judge rules for the grandma. Deadbeat Dad.

    • @annemcintosh2568
      @annemcintosh2568 4 місяці тому +6

      Yep!!! ❤

    • @jessicastone7329
      @jessicastone7329 3 місяці тому +8

      You can't do that in Texas but we do have a lot of things we can do like send them to jail or have their drivers license and ability to leave the country revoked.

    • @emilyhess222
      @emilyhess222 3 місяці тому +1

      I’m previous videos she said the state automatically takes the money out of his checks so I think they do.

  • @TheFiown
    @TheFiown 4 місяці тому +56

    HE is living in a big house and his mother and son are living in a one bedroom apartment ?

  • @Sisterbling
    @Sisterbling 3 місяці тому +27

    He should have been made to pay back the 3 years he received child support from the mother. His a very selfish man. And I hope when his son grows up and see this video and he ever needs help walk way from him. Grandma your doing a great job 💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @PurpleGirlB2UTY
    @PurpleGirlB2UTY 8 місяців тому +296

    That son has the face you just wanna punch…the fact that he was smiling throughout the whole thing was disgusting. I’m glad the judge was having none of it.

    • @cathipalmer8217
      @cathipalmer8217 4 місяці тому

      The reason he was smiling like that is because he learned *from his parents* that if you smile and make cute face, you can get away with everything. I feel really sorry for her, and even more for her grandchild who she is probably perpetuating the same mistakes on, but....yeah.

    • @Outnumberedbykidsandcats
      @Outnumberedbykidsandcats 4 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely. I don’t think I’ve ever been as angry with any of these episodes as I was with this one. It’s bad enough that he clearly has a lot of money and owns his own huge home (which he lied about) and allows his mum to go without. However, on top of that he was claiming a grand a month (if you trust him on that which I do not) that the mother pays him for the kid and steals it. I absolutely loathe this ugly disgusting waste of space excuse for a man!!

  • @nicowings8736
    @nicowings8736 Рік тому +892

    Can we start a go fund me for this woman?
    Deadly serious she deserves to live a comfortable life for being such a wonderful soul!

    • @starjlekelly1587
      @starjlekelly1587 Рік тому +118

      I wonder if the son handled the sale of her home and screwed her over with that also. I hope the judge ordered an independent evaluation of his financials. SMH

    • @brendahennesseereger8609
      @brendahennesseereger8609 9 місяців тому

      She raised that jerk.

    • @BrandyPowell77
      @BrandyPowell77 8 місяців тому +30

      This is not a real case, its based on one, but these are actors. Google it. In fact ‘judge Vonda B’ is not a judge. She’s a lawyer.

    • @micheallucas5328
      @micheallucas5328 7 місяців тому

      @@BrandyPowell77she’s a real judge now lol

    • @synthoify
      @synthoify 5 місяців тому

      I wondered if this is real or not because it's such an abomination.@@BrandyPowell77

  • @zoedunn2140
    @zoedunn2140 4 місяці тому +34

    He knew he was lying smirking like that while talking about the “rent” he pays

  • @elizabethchase8725
    @elizabethchase8725 4 місяці тому +26

    He is the real definition of deadbeat father!! He assumed that's what grandparents do. SONNY LIVE LONG ENOUGH CUZE ITS ALL GONNA COME BACK ON YOU ITS CALLED KARMA.

  • @jshlyrad
    @jshlyrad Рік тому +1653

    This is what I love about her. She is the type of judge that emulates fairness no matter who you are.

    • @ODIZZLE
      @ODIZZLE Рік тому +11

      Mr. 💩 makes me look like a super father.

    • @nicoleguzman2846
      @nicoleguzman2846 Рік тому

      Abt time since she’s always on the man side

    • @librnx1988
      @librnx1988 Рік тому +6

      Yes the judge is Amazing on her ruling and swag🤭

    • @TimothyAlexzander
      @TimothyAlexzander Рік тому +7

      @@nicoleguzman2846 since when? Cuz she's gate to both parties

    • @jshlyrad
      @jshlyrad Рік тому +1

      @@TimothyAlexzander 💯

  • @Idc.350
    @Idc.350 Рік тому +987

    I can’t believe the complete disregard this man has for his mother and son, what a joke 🤦‍♂️

    • @kayshawnsimmons5585
      @kayshawnsimmons5585 Рік тому +7

      Shameful 👹🤛🏿

    • @jamarvinb6252
      @jamarvinb6252 Рік тому

      He need his ass whooped by a man I ain’t lie

    • @Rachel-wh3pc
      @Rachel-wh3pc Рік тому +15

      What man? Lol i see none 😂😂

    • @candancebailey9095
      @candancebailey9095 Рік тому +14

      I can see why his wife left him.

    • @maggiebaxter610
      @maggiebaxter610 Рік тому +5

      I just don’t understand this guy (can’t call him a “man” because he doesn’t act like one) is freaking unreal. Shame on him on so many levels and shame on Julian’s mother as well.

  • @ls-kk4pq
    @ls-kk4pq Місяць тому +3

    The saddest part is this son will never ever ever ever change.

  • @tinaphillips1491
    @tinaphillips1491 4 місяці тому +8

    He sure is a class act! How, sad that he had stolen from his mother and child by not helping them.

  • @PippiOnePointOh
    @PippiOnePointOh Рік тому +798

    I’m a little disappointed she didn’t order him to:
    1. Pay grandma all the child support money he had been given by the child’s mother
    2. Pay retroactive child support
    This dude is a thief, and there is not a word to encapsulate how terrible of a son he is.

    • @anny1_232
      @anny1_232 Рік тому +33

      Yes, and he is also a liar! He smiles charmingly and thinks he can fool the Judge. No chance!

    • @josecorpuz1791
      @josecorpuz1791 Рік тому +14

      You have to ask that in the complaint before you go to court.

    • @ramonalexander9702
      @ramonalexander9702 Рік тому +23

      Would of been paying back all the child support he collect, with what he should of been paying and reimburse all the out of pocket medical bills mom payed unnecessarily. The part about her ring was a disrespect and should of earn him a few to the face, SICKHEAD! One time judge disappoint me and his true earning need to be investigated and his mom need to sue him for having to sell her house.

    • @lg8365
      @lg8365 Рік тому +17

      @@ramonalexander9702 I gotta agree with ya.....the judge should have investigated his earnings!!

    • @ScatteredKisses
      @ScatteredKisses Рік тому +12

      She did.. that’s why he’s paying an extra 1k a month which brings it to 1600.. she’s making him pay what he owes.. but he is def a piece of crap.. and he’s here in the dfw?? I hope I don’t ever see him… he’s disgusting

  • @meettherodgers1374
    @meettherodgers1374 4 місяці тому +244

    Think about the fact that that grandma thought that her grandson's mother just deserted them but she's in fact paying child support and health insurance and it's not even going to her son. So even though she abandoned her son, she still is supporting her son but not even knowing that it's not even going to her son. That is evil

    • @user-uw1de3in3g
      @user-uw1de3in3g 4 місяці тому +8

      "Somebody stealing big time 🤣!"

    • @highhoper1143
      @highhoper1143 Місяць тому +3

      honestly, she should've take the son and the grandma with her, leave him behind to never see his kid, his mom, let him be alone and be aggroant alone. and if she ever to see this video or our comments she now knows who and where the money will be going

    • @meettherodgers1374
      @meettherodgers1374 Місяць тому +2

      @@highhoper1143 he's a narcissist, he would probably not care if his mother and child left. As for the money stealing because of this video the grandmother has proof of what he did and can take him to court and get all the back pay. Plus the money she had to pay for all the doctor bills.

    • @highhoper1143
      @highhoper1143 Місяць тому

      @@meettherodgers1374 she should squeeze him all the money she can

  • @Sic_Semper_Tyrannis_
    @Sic_Semper_Tyrannis_ 26 днів тому +3

    Having to take your child to Support Court must be heartbreaking. Knowing you raised an absolute waste of skin must be soul-crushing.

  • @ntrope2090
    @ntrope2090 3 місяці тому +7

    This guy is a total waste of space. Glad his son thinks so too.

  • @carmenjawwaad5639
    @carmenjawwaad5639 8 місяців тому +204

    Him smiling is sickening.

  • @876homegirl9
    @876homegirl9 Рік тому +668

    What a horrible disgusting excuse for a son. He should be ashamed of himself, treating his mun and children in that way.

    • @pleasedontfeedthe6235
      @pleasedontfeedthe6235 9 місяців тому +2

      Are these shows doctored for the purpose of filming? I just cannot believe or rather, don't want to believe, that the disgusting humans I see in these cases are actually real. I really hope there is some level of staging. If not, God help us.

    • @keahithefieryone8513
      @keahithefieryone8513 8 місяців тому

      @@pleasedontfeedthe6235 Oh, there are sons and daughters worse than what you see here, my 54 yr old sister is a prime example, convinced parents me and brother are out to take their home, cars etc, when she took it all to fuel her drugs, brother and I work and bought our own homes, cars etc., we didn't need nor did we try to take anything from our parents, it was all her, mom finally passed 2 yrs ago and sister got the house and cars, I am told the home looks like a homeless encampment with various people going in and out and the house inside looks like a landfill, that is what Meth does, if you don't have addicts in your family, be glad, you can't help them and you're only good as the next fix they need.

    • @pleasedontfeedthe6235
      @pleasedontfeedthe6235 6 місяців тому +2

      @chip6152 yeah I sort of concluded that these were dramatized versions of real cases. Guess it's always wise to check channel descriptions! Thanks for the info 😊

  • @idalewis7169
    @idalewis7169 3 місяці тому +10

    The Judge should have made him pay, for some of the three years that he paid nothing.
    How dare the son say she should have managed her money better.
    What a Horrible, Horrible man.
    I am Scandalised for the Mother and her Grandchild.
    He is NO Father to that Boy.

  • @rogersgirl10
    @rogersgirl10 3 місяці тому +6

    If I'm the little boy's mom, I would take him to court and use this video as proof to sue him for the CHILD support that she has been providing and have him cough that amount up straight to his own mom.

  • @anonymous.hippopotamus
    @anonymous.hippopotamus Рік тому +935

    When she said she had to move from her home, I broke down for her... She has such a huge heart to take care of her grandson. That man is a waste of space. Well done Judge, and well said - shame on him! I wish the best to the grandmother and the kid. They don't deserve that.

    • @debipearson8762
      @debipearson8762 Рік тому +24

      No good will come to him in the long run. His face is in tv, UA-cam, etc. If we've seen it, so have others.

    • @user-fn2qh9jp1g
      @user-fn2qh9jp1g 10 місяців тому +6

      Shame on dad not taking responsibility for his child.just saying.😮

    • @BrandyWilliams24
      @BrandyWilliams24 9 місяців тому

      Right?! Why not give your mom and YOUR son the right to stay in the house that's so big and you go live in the one-bedroom apartment since you're a single man and like he said he's rarely ever at home anyway.. he's a piece of garbage

    • @ArlisaATT
      @ArlisaATT 6 місяців тому +7

      I wanted her to ask them to come back with his tax return records because he's lying about his income, and I bet the mom is paying for the insurance!

    • @gadebs
      @gadebs 5 місяців тому +1

      I thought the judge would ask him for his taxes too.

  • @addisonhoover2955
    @addisonhoover2955 9 місяців тому +659

    I honestly was brought to tears over this. How can you just abandon your child and then do this to your Mother?! Deviating this is so common!!!

    • @ammar3094
      @ammar3094 4 місяці тому +2

      Just like the childs mother did

    • @naomiemoore5725
      @naomiemoore5725 4 місяці тому

      I never say hate, but this guy, makes my blood boil.

    • @VisibleNoises
      @VisibleNoises 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@ammar3094The mom pays child support to him. He likely was lying about her just running out of his life, more likely she just couldn't handle his lies anymore.

  • @JohannaBarnard-sl4jb
    @JohannaBarnard-sl4jb 4 місяці тому +7

    Wow.... this kid just makes me feel so grateful for the children we have in our life ...

  • @KW-jn4lk
    @KW-jn4lk 2 місяці тому +5

    What a terrible person he is, lying even under the oath.

  • @peggybaby0894
    @peggybaby0894 Рік тому +513

    Grandma needs child support from BOTH mom AND dad. She needs to get legal guardianship. This beautiful lady stepped up when the parents stepped away, her husband died and her own son is allowing her to struggle. So disgusting!! I hope everyone this dad knows sees this and what kind of person he really is. Anyone taking from their mom like that is a disgrace and he should be so ashamed.😢

    • @gsmith5140
      @gsmith5140 9 місяців тому +30

      The judge gave her both parents' child support, $1k from mom, and $656 from dad. She took his word for it that his annual salary is $48k. I don't believe him.

    • @lildurk3004
      @lildurk3004 9 місяців тому +3

      Thats what alot of people do. They have children and let momma take care of it. My cousin was the same way.

    • @kellis5178
      @kellis5178 9 місяців тому

      my sister too @@lildurk3004

    • @susanwright3635
      @susanwright3635 9 місяців тому +13

      Grandma needs to dig around and find how much he really earns and take him back to court,also sue for 3 years back payment of child allowance or put a lean on his house for that amount if possible...
      Should wipe the smile of his face son or not..I'm from the UK so not sure if that's at all possible

    • @alisonhenderson9839
      @alisonhenderson9839 9 місяців тому +11

      ​@@gsmith5140I don't believe him either. She should have given him an appointment at the tax office and see how quickly that horrible smirk dropped off his face. Plus Grandma should have been given back payments. What a slimy son!

  • @scarletwolf4476
    @scarletwolf4476 4 місяці тому +11

    And make sure you give your mother the health insurance information!! Smh.. he knew she was paying out of pocket

  • @HRH242
    @HRH242 4 місяці тому +7

    Ugh! How heartbreaking! I can’t imagine how awful grandma feels, knowing how tremendously selfish her son is 😢

  • @explosivecar
    @explosivecar Рік тому +301

    "You obviously came here to waste my time” or “I’m not about to do this with you”. Is this judge’s quote of death.

  • @chastitydavis2261
    @chastitydavis2261 Рік тому +388

    This case need a part two. He's lying, and he need to pay back child support as well. As a mother, I feel her pain and disbelief that your own child would do something like he doesn't have a heart to do his part as a dad. I'm praying that God continue to bless her, and I'm praying that God teach him a lesson sooner than later, just ridiculous on his part.

    • @joanjohnson8874
      @joanjohnson8874 Рік тому +3

      It's time for some tough love, be the grandmother. Let him take care of his child.

    • @Witchybitch420
      @Witchybitch420 Рік тому

      @@joanjohnson8874 that’s not necessarily what’s best for the child.

    • @derpyappleshy1597
      @derpyappleshy1597 Рік тому +13

      Honestly. I think he needs to bring proof to back up what's he's saying so they can get the REAL numbers for the mother. She does not deserve that when she is literally raising his son 😂 Bless her.

    • @terryperry4160
      @terryperry4160 Рік тому +4

      Me too, he is a sacrosanct and cares nothing about anyone but himself. A narcissistic brat.
      How could he do that to his mother and his son? He should serve time for what he has done. He withheld support and medical care for his son and broke his mother's heart.

    • @marieparrott7944
      @marieparrott7944 Рік тому +4

      I agree we need to hear from the mom here!! How much child support she paid Mr I am more important than my son and mom….
      All of that money should go to his Mother!!

  • @ginatembo8003
    @ginatembo8003 Місяць тому +2

    I am crying. I am neither a mother nor a grandmother. What Brenda and Julian are going through is tragic. Juan seated there and smiling through out this hearing is heartbreaking.

  • @dracogirl33
    @dracogirl33 19 днів тому +1

    Asking about her ring really got under my skin. God bless grandmas

  • @SpaceKittyPrincess
    @SpaceKittyPrincess 4 місяці тому +80

    The look on his face when she said $1600 was priceless 🤣🤣 that smirk was wiped right off his face

  • @CalvinMac
    @CalvinMac Рік тому +266

    I hope whoever he does business with sees this and sees what type of person he is. I personally wouldn’t wanna do business with anyone who would do their own mother like that

    • @debipearson8762
      @debipearson8762 Рік тому +8

      And especially his own child.

    • @curiousorange8232
      @curiousorange8232 Рік тому +5

      These are based on real court cases , it says the show is scripted though . I wonder if the defendants are too ashamed of their foolishness ??

    • @terimiddleton736
      @terimiddleton736 4 місяці тому +1

      But we want him to keep making money so his mom gets some of it!! As much as I'd like to see him living in rags!!

  • @skyedouglas7109
    @skyedouglas7109 Місяць тому +3

    Shouldn’t he get charged with child support fraud and back payment if he was my son and he treated me like that I would take him to the cleaners

  • @pedroortiz5980
    @pedroortiz5980 3 місяці тому +2

    To grant his beautiful hearted mom. The righteous favor she is deserving of.

  • @Jello836
    @Jello836 Рік тому +411

    That’s the most selfish self centred person I have come across. How could he let his mother move knowing he was stealing 850 a month from her. Sad and unbelievable.

    • @charlenewatson3848
      @charlenewatson3848 Рік тому +18

      This is pure Greed and Selfish, in the end he will need his mother.

    • @amberhensley7668
      @amberhensley7668 Рік тому

      Stealing more than than 850! The absent mother paid 1000.00 a month and he was ordered to pay for medical expenses as a part of the child support agreement. He didn't have his son, signed over rights to his mom, and was not only taking the mothers child support, but also not paying his own support for his child! Hes a prime example of what is wrong with his generation. Hes a elf entitled a**hat who thinks the sun rises and sets on his a**. We are doomed if this is a example of the product of this generation of young adults.

    • @mobutter2879
      @mobutter2879 Рік тому

      These are the kind of children that try and kill you, for money.

  • @maddynavarro77
    @maddynavarro77 Рік тому +329

    Incredible how kids treat their parents. Woe unto them!
    My mother is 84 and has 9 children. After my father passed she wanted for nothing. Those (brothers & sisters) who received raises on their jobs said "mom will also receive more money monthly".
    We're supposed to take care of the widow and honor our parents.

    • @JackieOwl94
      @JackieOwl94 Рік тому +17

      It truly depends on the parent. My mother robbed me of my college fund and spent it on cigarettes, and she immediately tried to mooch money off of me when I got married. Used child support from my father to pay for designer bags while I was struggling. Most parents are indeed worthy of respect. Some don’t.

    • @laurairene4883
      @laurairene4883 Рік тому +8

      @Jackie I'm so sorry that your mother did that to you. However, unfortunately, this will not be a worldly view, you cannot "punish" her by not helping her should she need it. There is a God who will hold her accountable for what she has done and that God is not you. You must honor your mother and father because that is what you're supposed to do and it doesn't matter that she was a lousy mother, she will get her judgment in due time and you will be allowed to see it. God is good and fair and if you think otherwise, the enemy has lied to you. I promise you, you will be justified and you are probably already seeing the blessings coming your way that you wonder, "what did I do to deserve this?" Those are your rewards for your suffering. I really hope you don't think I'm condemning you in any way...I am truly sorry that happened to you and I do think your mother should pay but not at your hands. Peace be with you always and may you be given the serenity you deserve.

    • @MandarQT
      @MandarQT Рік тому +8

      @@JackieOwl94 you’re doing the right thing and screw anyone who tells you you have to forgive anyone that hurt you

    • @lizzylinks04
      @lizzylinks04 Рік тому +2

      AMEN

    • @atedogs
      @atedogs 11 місяців тому +5

      Regardless of what she chooses to do God will love her.

  • @reginamiavasquez9813
    @reginamiavasquez9813 Місяць тому +2

    The fact that this is her son treating her this way and his own blood is wrong of him!!! Then smileing at that so disrespectful.

  • @carolmccullough-kuchar4782
    @carolmccullough-kuchar4782 9 місяців тому +132

    This young man is a jerk. He's smiling all through this case, his mom is pouring her heart out, asking him for help, and he's admitting that he gets child support from his son's mother, and he never told his mom that he has medical coverage for his son and was making her pay cash when she takes his son to the doctor's office. He is unbelievable.

    • @NickanM
      @NickanM 4 місяці тому

      Sociopath. Seriously, something is wrong with him. I suspect Sociopath or anti social personality disorder.

  • @PARTSUNKNOWN8
    @PARTSUNKNOWN8 Рік тому +540

    The Judge had me rolling when she rolled her eyes saying okay. I love this woman. Put her on national television. I bet you she will win a daytime Emmy award!

    • @amberhensley7668
      @amberhensley7668 Рік тому +7

      I believe she is on national TV, but I could be mistaken.

    • @SA-Bean-Bean
      @SA-Bean-Bean Рік тому +7

      She is and these are all actors. Check her Bio! She makes these shows based off of real cases she tries. ❤

  • @jozitawilliams2096
    @jozitawilliams2096 Місяць тому +4

    The Mother has some blame too. The relstionship is over. To turn ur back on your Child emotionally is wrong. The Son to emotionally inflict hurt on his Son with that Walmart stunt is shameful. 🙏 for Juilian & Grandma

  • @Hawksbebe96792
    @Hawksbebe96792 4 місяці тому +17

    FOUL!! To use your mother the way he did. He's so lucky that his child didn't end up in the system. SHAME

  • @traceyduckett7440
    @traceyduckett7440 Рік тому +280

    The moment when the grandmother said she would've have had to sell there family home with all her life memories especially the ones with the love her life I literally broke down in tears.

  • @BeccasaurousRex270
    @BeccasaurousRex270 Рік тому +110

    I’m in the military and my mom kept my dog for me while I was on sea duty and I sent my mom money every month, in addition to paying for her food. The money was for my dog and for my mom to use on whatever she wanted. I have my dog but I still send my mom money so she can get stuff for herself. Same with my dad. When I go home I always treat my parents to dinner, purchase their groceries if we go shopping. Try and pay a bill. They didn’t have to keep and take care of my dog. Like how is this guy not grateful that his mom is caring for his son?

    • @coraraines3425
      @coraraines3425 6 місяців тому +2

      Exactly! Like families are supposed to support each other as much as they are able!

  • @dannysimion
    @dannysimion 2 місяці тому +2

    I give mom the ultimate props for being very patient and under control and composure while finding out all about these things about her son in court. I cannot believe what a shameful despicable and irresponsible son would do that to his mother. I felt so sad for her when she already lost her husband but to also lose the home that made all these memories in - that is such a betrayal. He should give his house to his mom and Julian. Let him rent an apartment instead. Ugh. Awful.

  • @user-jg3oh7rq7j
    @user-jg3oh7rq7j 3 місяці тому +6

    That fool actually said his mother to "sell" her ring if they can't afford..... He's lucky that his mom is not from Asia 😂

    • @ghanshyamsingh3653
      @ghanshyamsingh3653 15 днів тому

      Facts...ohhh the flying slippers, would have been the flying gavels lmaooooo

  • @brendawilkins9649
    @brendawilkins9649 9 місяців тому +41

    The judge can order a financial inquiry from his job and find out EXACTLY how much he makes!

  • @martywestcott1536
    @martywestcott1536 Рік тому +33

    THAT MAN NEEDS TO BE AUDITED!!!! THERE IS NO WAY HE IS ONLY EARNING $48K A YEAR

    • @BuzziRus
      @BuzziRus 3 місяці тому

      No he's using child support too that was supposed to be for his son....

    • @martywestcott1536
      @martywestcott1536 3 місяці тому

      @@BuzziRus Thank you so much for disagreeing with something I had written over a year ago. This is why people can't have opinions anymore, because in the future, someone will disagree with your comment, & you have no idea what the subject was about....because its insignificant. Some people just want to disagree, & it is only their opinion that counts

  • @marlenevave6838
    @marlenevave6838 4 місяці тому +3

    I cannot fathom how disrespectful this child is to his mother after everything she has done. I pray the mother receives all the blessings that she deserves along with her grandson. Her Son is str8 up FRAUD!

  • @kathybarnett7941
    @kathybarnett7941 22 дні тому +1

    This POS for a father, should have to raise and support his own child. He needs to learn a very hard lesson, all by himself. She should be able to live her own life.

  • @kimetsu834
    @kimetsu834 Рік тому +173

    Genuinely disgraceful that he would treat his mother in such a way. I never would have imagined anybody treat their mom like that

  • @missromiea
    @missromiea 5 місяців тому +58

    The entitlement and disrespect he has...🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @emmalinCaproni
    @emmalinCaproni 14 днів тому +1

    i hope she takes him to court and gets full custody of this child she is the ONLY person who cares about that child. he should be ashamed .

  • @carlosbeemon8807
    @carlosbeemon8807 Місяць тому +1

    that was horrible, for a man to treat his child and mother that way...

  • @Sweetpence
    @Sweetpence Рік тому +84

    What a horrible son and father. I can't imagine letting my mother go through all of that. Through the whole thing he had a smirk on his face like it was all so hilarious. No shame at all.

  • @Meshee64
    @Meshee64 Рік тому +81

    "If you would manage your money better..." I wanted to jump through the screen and give him a piece of my mind! So disrespectful! I've never been so angry watching the videos until now. He had the nerve to tell her that while receiving child support from ex, and not even giving it to his mom to help her raise his son!

  • @kennethastyles233
    @kennethastyles233 16 днів тому +1

    He was taking her kindness for weakness. Too entitled!

  • @nilsalugo1649
    @nilsalugo1649 Місяць тому +1

    ALL HIS PARENT DID FOR HIM, FOR HIM TO TURN AROUND AND NOT ONLY ABUSE HIS MOTHER BUT TREAT HIS SON AS AN INCONVIENCE, PROVING HE CARES MORE FOR HIMSELF AND MONEY IS BEYOND DUCKY UP!!!THE JUDGE SHOULD HAVE IN A KIND GESTURE ADVISED THE MOTHER TO TAKE FURTHER LEGAL ACTIONS AGAINT THAT ROTTEN SON OF HERS. ALSO, THERE SHOULD HAVE BEEN A DEMAND TO SEE THE SO-CALLED PAPERWORK ON THE NUMBERS HE WAS CLAIMING TO PAY FOR ALL THAT WAS MENTIONED IN ORDER FOR THE JUDGE TO COM TO A "PROPER CONCLUSION." WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND!!!

  • @carmeng101
    @carmeng101 Рік тому +77

    Just the way he was chuckling and smiling like he does not believe he doing wrong is so gross and shameful 😫🥺

    • @mistermysteryman107
      @mistermysteryman107 Рік тому +3

      That’s what upset me the most. That’s his OWN MAMA and he does her this way.

  • @mariecoston199
    @mariecoston199 Рік тому +122

    The judge facial expressions got me rolling!😂😂😂 I love her!

  • @bndeltoro
    @bndeltoro 15 днів тому +1

    How can be in your courtroom your honor? I raised my 4 children alone the for 12 years. I'm still raising 2 alone. Got a support order in Tarrant County many years ago and never received a dime. Their mother has been absent for a decade and didn't even show up to court. I need this help. 🙏🏽

  • @pedroortiz5980
    @pedroortiz5980 3 місяці тому

    I'm also grateful of you and feel honored that you saw through His sneaky smiling demeanor

  • @skunksspray
    @skunksspray 7 місяців тому +71

    wow she loves her grandson so much clearly. she’s an amazing grandmother

  • @enwongopatrick
    @enwongopatrick Рік тому +47

    This boy is a curse to his mum.. watching his mum sell away her memories with her husband is making me cry.

    • @BuzziRus
      @BuzziRus 3 місяці тому

      And then tells his mother she wouldn't have needed to sell her house if she had handled money better! Disgraceful!! She sold the house because he WASN'T paying HR child support and she was payed Ng for the child. I felt the judge was too soft on him!

  • @pedroortiz5980
    @pedroortiz5980 3 місяці тому

    I thank you, and I pray that you daily be blessed.

  • @louissaunders912
    @louissaunders912 3 місяці тому +1

    This is a financial and terrible crisis. He’s a failure by ever extension of the word. If someone is taking care of your child, the least you can do is pay her!

  • @calislots4312
    @calislots4312 Рік тому +75

    This broke my heart..what a self absorbed person..

  • @elsievetack7884
    @elsievetack7884 Рік тому +119

    It broke my heart to know this grandma sold her home, because she needed her son’s support. 💔 May GOD blessing be on grandma & grandson.

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 3 місяці тому

    Judge Vonda, you're great!! I'm sitting here on the other side of the world watching your series knowing that you're back home in DFW keeping things straight!

  • @timelabs2957
    @timelabs2957 Місяць тому

    God bless her and the many grandmothers that look after there families❤

  • @myducks911
    @myducks911 7 місяців тому +58

    What a disgusting person, and it’s appalling to know he’s doing that to his MOTHER!!! Not only that, not telling her his SON has health insurance?? What would’ve happened if Julian had a major accident which led to a hospital stay that grandma couldn’t afford? He’d just let his mom who houses HIS SON go into debt and inevitably become homeless with HIS SON? This dude is a narcissist and just a scummy human. Props to the judge for keeping it as professional as she did because it couldn’t have been me.

  • @darlenec2812
    @darlenec2812 Рік тому +53

    Mom needs to contact ex daughter in law and find out howmuch she is paying support. Bet its more than $1000 and he makes more than $48000. Judge needs to demand a W2

  • @RoxyOnDaRocks
    @RoxyOnDaRocks 3 місяці тому +1

    I got no words to describe this dad. Just heartless 😢

  • @modialsubaie1127
    @modialsubaie1127 Місяць тому +1

    I cant believe this! How can someone be this low !!!!!!!!

  • @emilyyingst8859
    @emilyyingst8859 Рік тому +98

    I just want to give his mama a hug, she deserves so much better!!! She’s busting her butt for her grandchild and her son is not only Not paying child support but STEALING IT FROM HER?!?! Ugh that’s disgusting.

  • @Olovoll
    @Olovoll 4 місяці тому +1

    I just love this the grandmother she’s smart and sharp!

  • @christinaleal3008
    @christinaleal3008 2 місяці тому +2

    What a jerk of a son..
    He takes the child support from the mom and doesn't give his mom the $..He should be ashamed of himself...Sad😢

  • @rengopiojoso2544
    @rengopiojoso2544 8 місяців тому +23

    Grandma deserved backpay too!
    I mean 3 years!

  • @keishaspecht7218
    @keishaspecht7218 Рік тому +27

    I’m really upset he gets away with pocketing 3 years of moms child support. That’s $36,000. He’s disgusting.

  • @KarenJohnson-l9c
    @KarenJohnson-l9c 5 днів тому

    My heart just aches to watch such a sorry son like that 😢