No Contact Makes Your Ex Think Everyone Wants You

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @CoachCraigKenneth
    @CoachCraigKenneth  7 місяців тому +27

    The harder you work while in No Contact, the more confident you will become! Do The Knowledge Workbooks or Creative Healing Course 30 minutes a day and you’ll see payoffs!

    • @Croy617
      @Croy617 7 місяців тому

      Hey Craig, just wanted to let you know I bought the first volume one through five and printed it out, but it only printed out number five and four not the rest. What should I do?

    • @matthewray5343
      @matthewray5343 7 місяців тому +1

      What is the difference between the knowledge and creative healing course?

    • @romanofranci7835
      @romanofranci7835 7 місяців тому

      ok, does no contact work even if 2 months after the separation she got together with someone else?....

    • @JimNewman-cc5gh
      @JimNewman-cc5gh 7 місяців тому

      Help Craig! My ex started seeing a new therapist 2 mos ago the dsy after she broke it off. I did a couple mild text reach outs after 1 week of NC after. She responded to one and said she cared and still does are but needed some time to work on her(she lost a child last year) but didn’t understand why i perceived she needed space. Then out of no where she blocked me. I left one nice message a week later from another phone and nothing since i have been in NC about 6 weeks now. Feel pretty good & doing well professionally etc but it’s a definite challenge maintaining NC Im a fixer.

    • @JimNewman-cc5gh
      @JimNewman-cc5gh 7 місяців тому

      Need some advice asap!!!!

  • @moisesreyes4933
    @moisesreyes4933 7 місяців тому +150

    I been in contact for 4 months today. I didnt get my ex back but I honestly feel good. No contact is not for you to get your ex back, it's for you to get yourself back. Good luck yall.

    • @Halopunk90
      @Halopunk90 7 місяців тому +4

      No contact is for attraction during the dating phase. It does not create the necessary feeling of safety, quite the opposite, for long term serious relationships

    • @moisesreyes4933
      @moisesreyes4933 6 місяців тому +15

      @Nicole-yz7bo update on my situation. My ex texted me to say happy birthday and that week she came and stayed the night but the next day I realized it wasn't meant to be. She tried to talk to me a few times after that but I just kept it short so she got the clue. She deleted her social media and I haven't talked to her since and honestly I feel good now.

    • @azoz158
      @azoz158 3 місяці тому

      So happy for you ❤️​@@moisesreyes4933

    • @jurgenwehner3607
      @jurgenwehner3607 3 місяці тому +3

      But then after 42 days she came back, just when I had moved on emotionally the week before and the whole rollercoaster continued until yesterday and today with several ‚come be with me‘ ‚go away‘ (and blocking) in each day. I start to understand after 7 years of this that comments say ‚run,‘

  • @cebondlela1293
    @cebondlela1293 7 місяців тому +62

    Starting no contact was the craziest idea to me, but I ended up healing and my ex has tried getting back together 3 times now which Iv happily declined 😊 #content

  • @brandonrobertkersjes
    @brandonrobertkersjes 2 місяці тому +17

    I shouldn’t even be in this position. I just made the mistake of dating the wrong person. Red flags since day one. My fault.

  • @Croy617
    @Croy617 7 місяців тому +50

    Lmaoooo Craig took a jab at that guy in the ad that says “stop wasting time in no contact” lmfaoooo Craig with the accent!

  • @flowerfromdecember
    @flowerfromdecember 7 місяців тому +44

    Rip coach Margaret 💗

    • @Baggio10520
      @Baggio10520 4 місяці тому +1

      You’re beautiful 😍

  • @Supsup7777
    @Supsup7777 4 місяці тому +10

    I won’t go back. After a month of avoidant behavior… next. Not that I wasn’t hurt. I felt very rejected. I walked away of the situationship he wanted me in. So no. I want a husband and not some dude who wants to keep me in his back pocket. I showed up. He didn’t. Nothing more to it.

    • @Wizard-Girl9
      @Wizard-Girl9 3 місяці тому +2

      I like the way you put that!
      So damn true 🧐

    • @riverbilly64
      @riverbilly64 2 місяці тому +2

      I feel you. Truth. Let them go be avoidant, hang with their mommies, and earn their lonely old age. I feel for people like that but I have never seen one work on his or herself. They can’t take “the mirror” and can only cause pain to others and themselves. No more compassion, despite the love.

  • @brandonrobertkersjes
    @brandonrobertkersjes 2 місяці тому +8

    If you’re truly and honestly a catch, never take them back. Either they’re unrealistic, unappreciative, immature, promiscuous, mentally ill, or insecure.

  • @OlderWomenRock
    @OlderWomenRock 7 місяців тому +18

    This only matters if they felt love or deep feelings for You
    Think about when You’ve left somebody You knew wasn’t the one You really wanted
    You probably didn’t look back

    • @bria2luv305
      @bria2luv305 7 місяців тому +2

      Agree! I walked away from my boyfriend he was the most verbally abusive guy Ive ever dated. His anger and mouth got worse and worse. I never grew deep feelings. He was so abrasive and miserable. I have to say Im at peace. My health is better too. I'm 69, I hope to make it to 70-yrs-old now! I do not want to date right now! I'm good.

    • @johnrevelation37
      @johnrevelation37 7 місяців тому

      So true

    • @cfnaround1585
      @cfnaround1585 7 місяців тому +1

      Women need to learn to connect too. In my experience the women expect men to do everything and give nothing

    • @riverbilly64
      @riverbilly64 2 місяці тому

      @@cfnaround1585I have only found the opposite to be true, IME. But messed up people come in all genders.

  • @rwvanveen
    @rwvanveen 6 місяців тому +8

    I don't have contact for almost 3 years. It's sad but I found my way.

  • @greenstatic9286
    @greenstatic9286 7 місяців тому +8

    Oh wow, I've never been able to see one of these live. Looking forward to this one!

  • @michaelalday182
    @michaelalday182 7 місяців тому +4

    no contact really works, I did no contact as he asked for some space and then after only 5 days he emailed me today!, and yet today is his birthday and he said he can’t last his birthday without me!
    it’s important to let your partner to miss you during no contact. thanks Craig!

  • @brandonrobertkersjes
    @brandonrobertkersjes 2 місяці тому +4

    My problem is that idk if my GF was asking for too much and being unreasonable, or if I really did get “lazy”. Idk she’s got my mind all f’ed up.

    • @jamie-r2034
      @jamie-r2034 21 день тому

      ha! Funny enough I was doing 99% of everything at home and my gf also said I never did anything. Looking back now, she was just projecting herself onto me. Now that I don't live with her anymore, it's so nice to have a ton of free time

  • @riverbilly64
    @riverbilly64 2 місяці тому +2

    I don’t think anyone should consider going “no contact” with someone who dumped them, as a way to get that person back? Have years passed? Have they gone to therapy? What has changed? Maybe age will make someone mature but, in general, unless someone has done “the work,” they have NOT changed and are not worth working for. Ask yourself why you even want them back and work on you!

  • @brandonrobertkersjes
    @brandonrobertkersjes 2 місяці тому +3

    This feels A LOT like my scenario…

  • @MrTnoiuk
    @MrTnoiuk 7 місяців тому +15

    My ex left me and dated around loads, I was in a really bad situation. I half hearted follow these advices. I started watching lots of these youtube. FROM my experiences find a channel that give sound advice (this one is good) cos if you watch multi channel sometime it can be conflicting and you be mess up. I did No contact and she did come back. However, I was so happy that i worship her instead of holding her accountable. OF course she left.😅
    Anyway after 6 year i study and learn and heal. Now ina relationships with a woman i couldn't ever dream off and no my eyes is still.open and not wearing rose glasses.
    Keep it up guys if you are going thru a break up. They is always hope and both in that you ex could come back and if not it is still possible to find someone else better.
    But CRAIG Right. You do need to work on yourself.

  • @cindyd3769
    @cindyd3769 5 місяців тому

    Craig, brilliant video. Looking good w/ the lighting and softer hair. I enjoy seeing you alone in your expertise and real practice experience. Best out there people.

  • @parkermedarb
    @parkermedarb 7 місяців тому +3

    To reiterate what I read on another video..."This guy is brilliant"! So helpful!

  • @lilywashere_
    @lilywashere_ 7 місяців тому +13

    Going into six months of radio silence. He hooked up with his neighbour three weeks post breakup. He’s severily avoidant. I became anxious in our connection. I miss him deeply and still suffer immensely at how things ended out of the blue. It feels like he ended it because he caught feelings, not because of the reasons he gave. Should I just let go and move on for good? This is the most painful breakup I’ve ever been through.

    • @justintrades7851
      @justintrades7851 7 місяців тому

      go to the health store any buy ashwagandha, mix teaspoon in water, this powder relieves strees aniexty and helps get over ex makes numb just flat lined fully fuctional its amzing

    • @devonways1657
      @devonways1657 7 місяців тому +14

      Throw him off the pedestal and climb on up there and be the queen you are! Put yourself first. Think about all the dreams/goals you’ve had for yourself and put one or some into action. You deserve better. You’ll get better. Feel the feels. Cry as you need. And trust in the mystery that life can be and believe you’ll be the best version of you and one day you’ll find someone more worthy of the new and improved version that’s coming 💕

    • @oOOoOphidian
      @oOOoOphidian 7 місяців тому +9

      It's only worth getting back together if you both worked through your issues for real. Otherwise it's just round 2 of the same mess.

    • @sadiqua7
      @sadiqua7 6 місяців тому

      It’s the most painful experience, I’ve been there. When I finally went completely no contact I felt so much stronger. You may always miss them but after a while you realize you miss the potential of them, because the reality is they are not capable of being the partner you need or else they never would rip the cord the way they did. It hurts until it doesn’t, and that’s when you realize you deserve better and can get better. We live in a state of lack when discarded the way avoidants do it. Take your power back. My ex is also avoidant as hell. He just text me yesterday after almost 3 months. He discarded me almost a year ago but wanted to maintain friendship. I tried it for a few months until I realized I’m not really moving on and text him that I need to detach from him and explained how much hurt he caused me throughout the relationship with his hot and cold nonsense. He had pursued me for 2yrs, I finally decided to give him a chance and he was inconsistent, gradually decreased communication and every time I told him this isn’t for me, he acted all upset and convinced me to stay, then ended it after a pregnancy scare. He was insecure about his finances but instead of admitting that, just said I deserve better, and I deserve a family. No discussion, no let’s game plan our future, just, bye, let’s be friends. Smh. Avoidants are going to avoid.

    • @Wizard-Girl9
      @Wizard-Girl9 3 місяці тому +1

      Lily let it go & God brings you peace

  • @theLupeXperience
    @theLupeXperience 7 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for this video Craig. Ive been good in no contact, doing the work on myself, moving forward.
    But i feel like ive had a relapse over rhe past few days.
    This video is helping steel my resolve and optimism!
    Onward

  • @dmitryisaev5955
    @dmitryisaev5955 7 місяців тому +2

    Your work helped me a lot to become secure and stronger! Thanks a lot!

    • @dmitryisaev5955
      @dmitryisaev5955 7 місяців тому

      @@Wildanimal864.She sent two texts in 9 months from two fake accounts on Instagram saying: you are looking great. Do you remember me? It was this Jan. I didn’t react. Silence now. She is a severe DA.

  • @glynnellis5050
    @glynnellis5050 2 місяці тому

    Good video Craig, thank you…

  • @jamalforrest2737
    @jamalforrest2737 7 місяців тому +2

    No contact wont work on my ex, she left family members and best friend's alone, she said she will take no contact to the grave. The day of the breakup she told me she was gone help me get over her, and yelled and caused a scene where the neighbors was looking. It was very embarrassing. Its been two months a reached out once a month ago no response

    • @gotchamocha
      @gotchamocha 7 місяців тому +2

      then let her eat her words and take it to the grave.. show her that you are colder than her.

  • @ericbizier6293
    @ericbizier6293 7 місяців тому +3

    PREACH!!! Craig Kenneth is the man!
    thank you, kind sir! 🤘

  • @jennykilley6762
    @jennykilley6762 7 місяців тому +9

    I think breakfast as a date is awesome. I'm female. Life is not always romance at night.
    I could fall in love over hashbrowns any day.

  • @heatherhanson704
    @heatherhanson704 7 днів тому

    But if you work with them that's hard to be in no contact. Especially when you see them and want to talk to them.

  • @io100x100
    @io100x100 7 місяців тому +2

    Could you make videos about the dating phase as well?

  • @chrislim7976
    @chrislim7976 5 місяців тому +2

    Just do your best to move forward. Some people are ridicolous dont be part of the trainwreck.
    Take care everyone

  • @MrManulund
    @MrManulund 2 місяці тому

    9 months of NC... i m desesperate....

  • @CK51515
    @CK51515 7 місяців тому +2

    Is this pre-recorded?

  • @Yodadrummer321
    @Yodadrummer321 7 місяців тому +1

    What do you do when no contact brings them back, you have a nice conversation, make plans, but they don’t prioritize you and make you feel rejected all over again? Go back to no contact I assume? I stuck up for myself, said how I felt, and now I’m not contacting her. It’s still very hurtful though. I’m not sure if her intentions were genuine or if it was solely an ego boost that I responded to her. She seems like she doesn’t care now. Whether she does or doesn’t, I don’t know.

    • @joejohnson5870
      @joejohnson5870 6 місяців тому +1

      She cares but you came on too strong too quick. You need to attract her. This is exactly what coach Craig talks about. When they reach back out you aren’t ready and emotions take over. Play it cool.

    • @Yodadrummer321
      @Yodadrummer321 6 місяців тому

      @@joejohnson5870 Thanks man. She offered a friendship, but I didn’t feel that was right after a year and a half of being together and discussing marriage. I put up a boundary respectfully and said it’s best we go our separate ways. We have been in no contact a month. It’s hard and I miss her, but i’m doing the best I can. I don’t want to be an option and it sucks because I could be for her at this point. Maybe she really needs time and I understand she has been through bad traumas, but it feels like I’ve been put on the side while she lives her life. Saying no if she comes back will be difficult for me. I get you have to value yourself, but the whole thing stinks. I could take her back because I love her or not take her back because I value yourself and lose our relationship and life together anyway. It feels like a lose lose. Maybe I’m looking at it wrong.

    • @riverbilly64
      @riverbilly64 2 місяці тому

      Walk. Away.

  • @proudmasculine
    @proudmasculine 6 місяців тому +2

    If you take her for granted and do no court her another man will. BELIEVE what I say on this one men. It’s a hard realization when she leaves

    • @Wizard-Girl9
      @Wizard-Girl9 3 місяці тому

      Yes it is that way for me!

  • @VanlifeNoonan77
    @VanlifeNoonan77 7 місяців тому +3

    when my divorced 55 year old mom of three girls tried to
    put me in the friend zone after 4 years of a very fun and reasonable relationship. I told her she was a jerk and wasted 4 years of my time . After one year of being solo I do miss her but will not put up with bull .

    • @Wizard-Girl9
      @Wizard-Girl9 3 місяці тому +1

      Exactly! Especially when she used you up as another babysitter

  • @meatmuncher123-j6x
    @meatmuncher123-j6x 5 місяців тому

    I initially went no contact after my ex of 4 year broke up with me and I have broken it in 3 days and beg her to stay with me. She told me me to never call her again and unfortunately my anxiety got the best of me in less than 2 weeks after that and I called again. This time she was very angry at me and blocked me every where. Do no contact still work in my case? I am anxious and she is avoidant.

  • @SuperGem1979
    @SuperGem1979 7 місяців тому

    It doesn’t work when you’re both practicing no contact. It’s been over 2 years and he found someone else in less than 4 months because he took my no contact as not being interested in resolving and reuniting. I regret everything that I could’ve have done differently.

    • @Lifeisapartydresslikeit
      @Lifeisapartydresslikeit 3 місяці тому +1

      Then he never cared in the first place. Be thankful and keep working on yourself and I can guarantee you if he’s mean to come back he will. When he does, and he will, you won’t want him anyway!! 💪🏽

    • @Daily_VIP
      @Daily_VIP 2 місяці тому +1

      @SuperGem1979 you dodged a bullet, you should instead be happy

  • @laurengalinato8365
    @laurengalinato8365 4 місяці тому

    I get confused because I hear no contact but what if they reach out? they don’t want to get back together but just want to keep you around ? do we respond?

  • @Teegee1387
    @Teegee1387 7 місяців тому +3

    How does this work in a relationship as a woman with a woman!? I feel like this topic isn’t discussed much. But being in a relationship with another woman can be hard because both want to be chased and can be stubborn or is it the same!?

    • @MsDilemma
      @MsDilemma 6 місяців тому +1

      Yeah that’s what I’m going through right now

    • @Teegee1387
      @Teegee1387 6 місяців тому

      @@MsDilemma How are you coping!? What strategies are you using?

  • @thebirima91
    @thebirima91 6 місяців тому

    If you live together with kids. Is offering my wife tea a form of contact that I shouldn’t do? I am not chasing her btw.

  • @DarinDmarkovic1
    @DarinDmarkovic1 6 місяців тому

    This is good

  • @ApostleThe344
    @ApostleThe344 7 місяців тому +2

    I don't see how this applies if they blocked you 2 days after. I didn't beg or plead, she left randomly saying she needed to be single and never healed from past traumas, relationships. She also has BP and BPD. Don't think this one is coming back

    • @Raadestdude
      @Raadestdude 7 місяців тому +1

      My ex blocked me and unblocked me before too. So there’s always a chance. Just work on yourself in the meantime

    • @gotchamocha
      @gotchamocha 7 місяців тому +2

      Shes not for you then. Why do you want someone back who clearly told they rather be single ( aka legs are open for multiple others)..
      go to the gentleman’s club because thats the caliber of women you fall for my brotha.

    • @russellcameronthomas2116
      @russellcameronthomas2116 6 місяців тому +1

      If she has BP and BPD, and hasn't healed from past traumas, then count yourself very lucky that the relationship ended and you are still in one peace. What ever pain you experienced in the breakup is minor compared to what you'd experience had you stayed with her. Wish her well (silently) and move on.

  • @goranhajduk1992
    @goranhajduk1992 7 місяців тому +11

    9 months of NC. All quiet on the western front...

    • @azoz158
      @azoz158 3 місяці тому

      Any update?

  • @lelandpaul6773
    @lelandpaul6773 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for all that you do ❤

  • @rborecki222
    @rborecki222 3 місяці тому

    She was at his house and he didn't hook up with her. He messed up.

  • @Zemohc
    @Zemohc 7 місяців тому

    Theres alot here that i can tell what im doing is pretty good. But still exes dont come back.

    • @carlfreiermuth5424
      @carlfreiermuth5424 7 місяців тому +3

      wrong.. ex's come back when you no longer long for them.. in my experience more times than I can count.. that was before I delved into doing the work.. now women try to get me to take them out, they even try to trick me into going out with them.. just wake tf up and do the work

    • @Zemohc
      @Zemohc 7 місяців тому +1

      @@carlfreiermuth5424 What do you mean by "wake tf up"? I mean sure I can see that women are subtle and you missed some things. I see them too. But I don't want to engage because I'm not feeling that vibe.

    • @matthewisthebest8152
      @matthewisthebest8152 7 місяців тому +2

      They do you have to shift your energy

    • @Zemohc
      @Zemohc 7 місяців тому

      @@matthewisthebest8152 What do you think I did?

    • @Zemohc
      @Zemohc 7 місяців тому

      @@matthewisthebest8152 Ya. What do you think I did?

  • @leona9482
    @leona9482 7 місяців тому

    Me and my ex broke up just a few days ago. I'm doing no contact rn. But his birthday is in a few days... Should i graduate him or not? He could think that I forgot about it or care so less that he doesn't even want me back in a few months..?

    • @russellcameronthomas2116
      @russellcameronthomas2116 6 місяців тому +2

      "No contact" means don't initiate contact for any reason. No birthdays, no holidays, no anniversaries. Also no indirect messages via social media posts. It doesn't matter what he thinks or feels. He has to experience the consequences of the breakup, including not knowing what you are doing, what you are feeling, etc.

    • @verarobinson6759
      @verarobinson6759 2 місяці тому

      No don’t keep no contact

  • @neodistinct
    @neodistinct 7 місяців тому +6

    11 month no contact. They don't care when they monkey branch.

  • @candicepaiz3937
    @candicepaiz3937 7 місяців тому

    Why do you advise no morning dates?

    • @rwentfordable
      @rwentfordable 7 місяців тому +1

      It's not romantic. it's what friends do.

  • @flower_7890
    @flower_7890 2 місяці тому

    Hasn't his girlfriend pull away because he wasn't pay any attention to her?!,
    🤔 Looks like she did it to get his attention, him going no contact and making no effort shows her he still doesn't care... that's how I feel about this situation 😢

  • @izdark8733
    @izdark8733 2 місяці тому

    3:55

  • @izdark8733
    @izdark8733 2 місяці тому

    13:50

  • @kheicee
    @kheicee 7 місяців тому +3

    i dont care if he thinks everyone wants me. i just want him back :(
    its 3 months since he broke up with me and since our last contact. a part of me still cant let him go. 😩
    i wish he knew he is still the one i want.

    • @Halopunk90
      @Halopunk90 7 місяців тому

      Communicate and stop taking advice for your unique relationship from UA-cam videos

    • @Supersleuth0987
      @Supersleuth0987 7 місяців тому

      Same situation exactly 😕

    • @archangelelmo
      @archangelelmo 4 місяці тому

      Did your ex ever reach out to you??

  • @izdark8733
    @izdark8733 2 місяці тому

    6:28

  • @mint_soup9743
    @mint_soup9743 7 місяців тому +1

    If I was her I'd be moving on because it all started from his apparent lack of interest in her. I'm not saying she will but I'd certainly be like, wow, he still doesnt seem enthusiastic about me. But hey that's why I'm not a coach, I just know how I'd react because I'm going through similar.

  • @benjaminnielsen4288
    @benjaminnielsen4288 7 місяців тому +3

    STOP WASTING TIME IN NO CONTECT! Lol. I know exactly who you're talking about...I always skip that ad quickly.😄

  • @CK51515
    @CK51515 7 місяців тому

    Hey y'all

  • @1life2life
    @1life2life 7 місяців тому +1

    I don’t know about this. But she seems like she couldn’t give a rats a$$ about the break up. Been in NC for 3 months. I guess we have to wait and see.

    • @sreach93
      @sreach93 7 місяців тому

      I agree, all fingers seem to be pointed at him.

  • @RCT479
    @RCT479 7 місяців тому +4

    First to watch like and comment

  • @youtubeuser5102
    @youtubeuser5102 7 місяців тому

    Does no contact work on a girl that you're coming out of the friendzone with but pulls back again after hooking up?

  • @ajantameitei4156
    @ajantameitei4156 7 місяців тому

    What if it is long distance?

    • @annemarie7203
      @annemarie7203 7 місяців тому

      I have this question as well

    • @Wizard-Girl9
      @Wizard-Girl9 3 місяці тому

      It’s same… no contact !

  • @zaidosal5189
    @zaidosal5189 4 місяці тому

    This story makes me mad, it happens in relationships people disconnect but love is a choice why would she allow another guy in her life…. This story is wild to me

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo 7 місяців тому

    I have question.is it cheating in relationship if they got austim and down syndrome or is it different after dreams i had about morgan me and Stephen?

  • @sreach93
    @sreach93 7 місяців тому

    Her going through his draws is ok....it means she cares, but if he went through her draws it would be untrusting behaviour.

  • @Stop_please_
    @Stop_please_ 7 місяців тому

    Two weeks no contact :(
    If she liked me she would of texted me by now

  • @lionelt7882
    @lionelt7882 6 місяців тому +2

    The hand written letter sounds so cringe 😂

  • @Julianm-hw8pg
    @Julianm-hw8pg 3 місяці тому

    I just hate it how they meet other people, like im doing my Entrepreneur stuff and she could find anpther one while im, trying to get money for the upcoming familiy. This is so wrong. Fuck social media and these "modern day women"

  • @kevabentura4692
    @kevabentura4692 7 місяців тому +2

    My sneaky link dump me. Gah! Now stuck with the wifdy😮

  • @brego12317
    @brego12317 7 місяців тому +1

    Lol. Stop wasting your time in no contact!

  • @proudmasculine
    @proudmasculine 6 місяців тому +6

    If you take her for granted and do no court her another man will. BELIEVE what I say on this one men. It’s a hard realization when she leaves a hard one to watch…

    • @Carla-ku7es
      @Carla-ku7es 5 місяців тому

      Did you break up with her?

    • @Wizard-Girl9
      @Wizard-Girl9 3 місяці тому

      Exactly sir! Us gals need proper courting