At first I was afraid of blocking my Ex because I thought I'd lose him, so I faced the calls or text messages head on. It then came to a point where he'd love-bomb me then triangulate me with other women. It messed up my head so much. I couldn't function and decided I would keep him blocked and go no contact to not damage my mental state anymore and to try and heal. It was my Birthday today and I listened to music and danced ans cried in my Kitchen, but I didn't contact him. I missed him but I didn't contact him. I had some Wine and watched a film on my own in my house but I didn't contact him. I faced my feelings and remembered my truth and why I blocked him, and, I didn't contact him. We find strength to carry on. 🍒
I struggled for a long time about initiating the blocking. Yes, I thought it was rude and I didn’t want to hurt his feelings. But yet he had no problem with treating me with disrespect and hurting me. I just simply could not take it anymore, and in order to protect myself I finally blocked. No contact now for 4 months, and it was the best decision I could have made for my own well being.
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I struggled with blocking him but finally did after he went silent & I had to protect myself. Waiting/hoping to hear from him was making me cRaZy! It's been 10 months & counting. Getting stronger everyday. 💪
I was the exact same way as you were eight months was driving me crazy was waiting and hoping Now I know that was because of a trauma bond After the eight months he got through a crack in here he was texting and calling the wrong number by one digit all of those months I’m never going back Continue on your success I know exactly what you did and are going through❤️
@@AlwaysHope2019 TY for your comment. It helps to know I'm not the only one (although I wouldn’t wish this on anyone) & that I'm not crazy. Stay strong!
That’s the same reason I blocked. I wanted him to contact me so bad and when he didn’t I was crushed. So I blocked so the waiting doesn’t drive me insane. It really does help. I couldn’t give two shits now if he contacts me or not. I hope he doesn’t.
This struggle is real for many of us. I did not want to block my narc. I thought it wasn't necessary. I just ignored her messages for months. However, when she deleted me from the app we both use, I took it as an opportunity to finally block her. She later tried to readd me and was probably surprised/annoyed that she couldn't. They really do think they can come back at any time when they feel like it and that you will gladly accept them like nothing has happened.
No. It is the best thing to do for yourself, it helped me start my healing process, to learn how to love myself again. When you have a toxic person that you love telling you all this Negative stuff about you and blowing up your phone 100 time a day with calls and texts and love bombing you at the same time it is hard to start your healing process and start loving yourself. Blocking is the best thing to do for your self
Mine did that hung Up on me blocked me yelled and screamed at me at the top of his lungs pretty much called me everything under the sun And then when unblock me hours later or maybe the next day and if I didn’t respond to him he blew my phone up and then sent me a text messages with love bomb times 100
During the duration of our relationshit, I had him blocked more than he was unblocked due to his constant name calling that he just won't stop doing!! It's like it's the only form of communication he knows!
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It is the only way to heal. My ex told me I play good poker because he couldn't get through to me at all. I knew this because he resorted to making bogus email addresses. 6 months and no contact.
Although I still don’t understand what a Narcissist is but it sounds pretty accurate about my EX. I think I was being groomed but I was oblivious to it. I didn’t give up she said somethings that was pretty far out there and as usual I told myself to forgive and let go of things like that, but the last time she said something demeaning, I left it in her hands to think about it. Maybe this was a discard? when she decide to walk out, I told myself to respect her wishes and I let her go without any objections. I don’t know exactly why I did that but all I could think is if this is what you want I won’t get in your way. it’s hard but I’ll manage without you. Yeah, I care for her and love her but there are so many other people in my life that would appreciate me and the love I can give (family, friends, people that need to be heard). I guess I’m writing this because it’s nice to vent. Stay healthy and safe inside your body 😉🤙🏼
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I struggled at first with going No Contact/BLOCKED. I was tired of the bad relationship I was in with my ex narcissist boyfriend. He always made my head hurt. I just was done so I did it blocked them and don't look back! Stay strong 💪.
I don't have a problem blocking people. Especially if they seem like a scammer, which they are everywhere you turn. Even if I'm wrong about a person, I don't think I'm missing out on much. No skin of my nose.
Very well said and I agree 💯. My xnarc is spiraling recently and I’ve had to just to see where his mind is at. He has me blocked so that’s great actually. Thank you for teaching awareness about this disorder 💯
@@RawMotivations I'm trying to see if I can pursue legal action. They've been spreading lies about me. It's libel and slander trying to hurt my career and reputation. I've already gotten a protection order against him until 2090.
At first I was afraid of blocking my Ex because I thought I'd lose him, so I faced the calls or text messages head on. It then came to a point where he'd love-bomb me then triangulate me with other women. It messed up my head so much. I couldn't function and decided I would keep him blocked and go no contact to not damage my mental state anymore and to try and heal. It was my Birthday today and I listened to music and danced ans cried in my Kitchen, but I didn't contact him. I missed him but I didn't contact him. I had some Wine and watched a film on my own in my house but I didn't contact him. I faced my feelings and remembered my truth and why I blocked him, and, I didn't contact him. We find strength to carry on. 🍒
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I struggled for a long time about initiating the blocking. Yes, I thought it was rude and I didn’t want to hurt his feelings. But yet he had no problem with treating me with disrespect and hurting me. I just simply could not take it anymore, and in order to protect myself I finally blocked. No contact now for 4 months, and it was the best decision I could have made for my own well being.
Congratulations and I wish you the best
Your a strong person with a good heart Best thing you could’ve done
It was hard for me to block as well, but if I didn’t do it the cycle would never end. Glad you put yourself first!
@@MsBalanced1 and the cycle is exhausting!!
Not blocking them is being rude to yourself! I love this.
Absolutely! Protecting your peace is essential, and setting boundaries is a crucial part of that.
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I struggled with blocking him but finally did after he went silent & I had to protect myself. Waiting/hoping to hear from him was making me cRaZy! It's been 10 months & counting. Getting stronger everyday. 💪
I was the exact same way as you were eight months was driving me crazy was waiting and hoping Now I know that was because of a trauma bond
After the eight months he got through a crack in here he was texting and calling the wrong number by one digit all of those months
I’m never going back
Continue on your success I know exactly what you did and are going through❤️
@@AlwaysHope2019 TY for your comment. It helps to know I'm not the only one (although I wouldn’t wish this on anyone) & that I'm not crazy. Stay strong!
@@tickety-bootoyou1850 you’re welcome ❤️
That’s the same reason I blocked. I wanted him to contact me so bad and when he didn’t I was crushed. So I blocked so the waiting doesn’t drive me insane. It really does help. I couldn’t give two shits now if he contacts me or not. I hope he doesn’t.
You’re not rude or mean or cruel, you’re protecting yourself from someone who will harm you. It’s being a grown up
This struggle is real for many of us. I did not want to block my narc. I thought it wasn't necessary. I just ignored her messages for months. However, when she deleted me from the app we both use, I took it as an opportunity to finally block her. She later tried to readd me and was probably surprised/annoyed that she couldn't.
They really do think they can come back at any time when they feel like it and that you will gladly accept them like nothing has happened.
Thank you, I struggled with this and was even a little depressed about it because I felt like I abandoned him.
It’s because you have a big heart. Use that heart continue with the block and don’t abandon yourself stay strong I wish you the best
@@AlwaysHope2019 thank you!! 🙏🏽❤
@@nicjoy80 ♥️
No. It is the best thing to do for yourself, it helped me start my healing process, to learn how to love myself again. When you have a toxic person that you love telling you all this Negative stuff about you and blowing up your phone 100 time a day with calls and texts and love bombing you at the same time it is hard to start your healing process and start loving yourself. Blocking is the best thing to do for your self
Mine did that hung Up on me blocked me yelled and screamed at me at the top of his lungs pretty much called me everything under the sun
And then when unblock me hours later or maybe the next day and if I didn’t respond to him he blew my phone up and then sent me a text messages with love bomb times 100
He told me both of his exes cheated on him. He actually was the one that did that to them.🙄👈🏻
During the duration of our relationshit, I had him blocked more than he was unblocked due to his constant name calling that he just won't stop doing!! It's like it's the only form of communication he knows!
We're here to support your healing journey. Come join us in this free masterclass to learn about the secret methods on breaking free from the toxic, break the bond and empower yourself once more. Just head over to www.rawmotivations.com/masterclass.
It is the only way to heal. My ex told me I play good poker because he couldn't get through to me at all. I knew this because he resorted to making bogus email addresses. 6 months and no contact.
Although I still don’t understand what a Narcissist is but it sounds pretty accurate about my EX. I think I was being groomed but I was oblivious to it. I didn’t give up she said somethings that was pretty far out there and as usual I told myself to forgive and let go of things like that, but the last time she said something demeaning, I left it in her hands to think about it. Maybe this was a discard? when she decide to walk out, I told myself to respect her wishes and I let her go without any objections. I don’t know exactly why I did that but all I could think is if this is what you want I won’t get in your way. it’s hard but I’ll manage without you. Yeah, I care for her and love her but there are so many other people in my life that would appreciate me and the love I can give (family, friends, people that need to be heard). I guess I’m writing this because it’s nice to vent. Stay healthy and safe inside your body 😉🤙🏼
The toaster is such a great analogy. It's a punch in the gut, but such an eye opener to realize how they see us. Thank you!
You are so welcome! More coming on that next week
This is such a helpful explanation - thank you
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I struggled at first with going No Contact/BLOCKED. I was tired of the bad relationship I was in with my ex narcissist boyfriend. He always made my head hurt. I just was done so I did it blocked them and don't look back!
Stay strong 💪.
There’s always that moment when you know you’re just done! Congratulations and best of luck on your new journey
I don't have a problem blocking people. Especially if they seem like a scammer, which they are everywhere you turn. Even if I'm wrong about a person, I don't think I'm missing out on much. No skin of my nose.
This is so true, an sad I'm glad to get clarity on this!
Very well said and I agree 💯. My xnarc is spiraling recently and I’ve had to just to see where his mind is at. He has me blocked so that’s great actually. Thank you for teaching awareness about this disorder 💯
Thank you Ben
Excellent truth of this situation ....
I went no contact 7 months ago. He kept telling me about all his other women. Ick.
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The narc and his friends are slandering me online. How do I make it stop?
Block and ignore. You can't really do much but live your life regardless of what they say in truth.
@@RawMotivations I'm trying to see if I can pursue legal action. They've been spreading lies about me. It's libel and slander trying to hurt my career and reputation. I've already gotten a protection order against him until 2090.
@@weruleyoudrool possibly. Anything you can do legally go for it!
@@RawMotivations Thank you. I
So.. I have a car note with my ex. The insurance and cell bill too.
So… how do I block him but only contact about the financial things?
Third party
thanks hey Ben can we chat plz? I have so many questions