Blocking A Narcissist
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- Опубліковано 11 лис 2022
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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.
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Absolutely blocked them on everything. Sheer freaking bliss for my life. Give them nothing in spades.
Narcs hate losing control of you. That hurts them.
Well to bad for them, If they had atleast a Normal level of empathy and were trying to be helpful no problem.
Thank you, what I’m currently doing and this has encouraged me.
Yup....I blocked him and he walked away. Haven't heard from him in months....He didn't give AF
That is the best case scenario! Congrats!
Thank you for validating my experience. I caught him texting another woman & confronted him. He said he didn’t want to be in any relationship, so I left. He kept texting as if we were in a relationship still, so I blocked him. 6 months later he showed up to “check on me”. He told me he was going to start a relationship with the other woman. He then started playing the victim telling friends I abandoned him. He “officially” started the relationship 3 months later by telling his parents and kids. I continue to have him blocked, and I had to block his family also.
My Ex would say he was seeing this or that woman. I believe to mess with my head. I blocked him even though I left him because of his abuse and still wanted him because of the Trauma-Bonding, because of his mind games. There used to be a time when he'd beg and plead with notes, calls and texts etc, but not anymore (this I believe as Ben said he's got someone else). Even though I didn't read them or respond I ignored them for my own good and to make a statement telling him I'm standing my boundaries. 🍒
@@cherrybacon3319 I haven’t heard from my ex fir 5 months now as I continue to have him blocked. His daughter told me to keep him blocked as she sees him for what he is now. Stay strong!
So true when I blocked he don t care coz he went with another womans . He don t care . But I will move on ..
Ex Planned it all along.
I knew it.
Nothing I could do about it.
So. I don't care
What I care about is
He Shanked me three or four times.
I wanted to believe he wasn't a Narc.
But. My Love Ran out.
I had told him to leave several times.
Tried to help him several times
He can Go To Hell Now.
Living My Best Life.
Time for Me to Be Selfish
I blocked and went no contact. 👮♂️ and courts are now involved. Leaving isn’t logistically easy even when there are no feelings involved. I’m scared and have to flee my home.
Well 🤣🤣 mine can’t even see me anywhere! Unless he sends a pigeon out with a note! Because I’m moving from the address he knows I have zero social media and I changed my phone number so he can never find me anywhere. He cannot contact me, so he shit out of luck if he ever tried to come back again.
Saaaaame! The only way mine can contact me is though my lawyer. It’s so nice😂
Cleaning up his mess.
He can stay gone, my adult kids can stay gone
I love my Kids but.
I need to be alone on my own with just myself my pets.
Don't really desire to have a ball and chain
Dragging me under
Mine blocked me first. I'm guessing so I knew nothing of his new supply.
Never I don t open the door again
Ty Ben for explaining so well like always. Love your videos. Happy holidays to you and your family
Therapy doesn't make a narcissist better...you need deliverance film the jezebe spirit
I have blocked the narcissist. My only problem is that because of my job, I see him and I see that he is starting to circle around me nervously. Wanting to pull him back and unblock him, they entered the whole emotional rollercoaster again. And the truth is that they only care about their reputation so that no one finds out who they are. he is now afraid that I will spoil his image.
I can relate to all. Can you please talk about how they recreate the last by lying and trying to present themselves as a 'good' person.... Its a completely false version of eventsbut that's what they tell toehr and I think that's what they come to believe as true
My Ex has stopped contacting me because he's probably with new supply. He's blocked but knows where I live and has made no other attempt to contact me. 🍒
Thats great to hear,
Good for you. IMO - They find another 'supply' for sure. All those texts and emails and attention are now going to the next unfortunate person. But expect further contact.
Same situation here and the cycle repeated itself many times. When I've blocked him he came back to my door house all the time, the next day or some days after. The only time that didn't happened it was because he had another source ready. He came back after one month or so because the new source discard him though.
This makes me sick to my stomach, I have absolutely no advice to take from a narcissist itself. I'll go somewhere else!
First of all he's going to therapy. Second referring to him as an it it's beyond disgusting. He can't help that he has npd. At least he's giving advice and helping. If he's trying to change and isn't harming anyone good on him. By all means leave. You had enough time to leave such a hateful and ignorant comment.
For over a year now, there's a 54 year old woman that I don't even know. She calls me 3 to 4 times every day, mainly between 11:00pm and 3:30am. She always leaves a voicemail and hangs up after 20 to 40 seconds without saying anything.
I have blocked a lot of people in my life easy and fast yet If I love and value and truly care about someone I can never be that cold or harsh . Not a drain that I block and unblock. I have blocked many and never think about them again yet for those I truly care for have a soft heart and soft spot will never be so cold and cruel .
@@truecrimejungle No why . On these platforms you can have one or two traits of Narcissism then your automatically labeled as a Narcissist.
@@truecrimejungle I have a lot of sympathy and empathy as well and all my work colleagues I ever worked with for years will tell you I am a sweetheart. Everyone has a good and bad side
@@truecrimejungle You also have a good and bad side everyone has that does not make you a narcissist. I prefer a few close friends that I love dearly give them my number and are willing to share personal info and will never be harsh and cruel. I can be cold to those I don't really care for cut them off yet most people do that anyway. If I love someone it will be clear have time for them want to talk to the person give more personal info ect.
@@truecrimejungle Thank you very much 🙂
I tried blocking him I thought its fine because its been a week thats hes quiet. But one he saw a post in my story that he didn't like ang walahh. He became angry and sent me disreatpectful.messages.. he also got angry if I block him . They still want to control you whether you are in a relationship with them or not.
He tell me Mrs blocked . Yes he is rubbish . . I have 2 courts . With him insulting lier . In me
From what i know, my exgf collapsed after i left her. Excessive drinking, sleeping around with low lifes. Im curious what does it mean.
They are bottom feeders, it means that the world would be a MUCH better place with them in a coma. Desease spreading demons, good for nothing but the streets. Rotten to the core
My ex discarded me the last time, 2 years ago. He went back to the new supply (he called “easy and convenient”) then married her several months later after being diagnosed with colon cancer. I was so emotionally beaten down i reacted with begging. Fast forward 1 1/2 years later and out of the blue, he unfriended me on fb. I let it go without contacting him. Then, a few weeks ago, i get a friend request from him. I reluctantly accepted it (shouldn’t have). But through all this, i have yet to hear from him so I’m wandering what he’s up to and should i take this opportunity to get my power back (for me)and block him?
You already know what you should and shouldn't do. You are wanting confirmation when you've already had more than enough confirmation to help warrant your decisions. I would advise you to start looking into getting therapy.
I’m in therapy. You don’t have to be so rude about it!
This is a support network. If you can’t manage that, maybe you need to look at yourself
Block him forever
Block him. At least you have no kids involved (Like me) 😢
I watched many of your videos, also about your wife leaving, and you having therapy independently of that --> did your wife's leaving trigger something (in terms of a more solid and quicker decision to heal and improve faster, also to be with her), that otherwise would only happen later down the road? How did your wife's leaving affect you (after the initial being content with "free house"). Did the "caring" for her started then or would it happen anyway? Would it happen if she didn't leave?
Thank you for the question and also for watching the videos. I'd love to answer this in a new video.
@@RawMotivations IL be happy to watch. 😀 🙏
Maybe one more Q: I realised m
that my ex has narcissistic traits. Not to the max but almost all of them. (maybe except envy, Xtreme hovering and pushiness)
He doesn't see it that way. He mentioned a couple of times he's "just a functioning sociopath".
What are the major differences - not by the book (have those) , but if you have any personal experience/opinion on it.
Thank you! 🙏
@@avgonyma1 end of the day abuse is abuse. If he isn’t honest, vulnerable or showing change then run. The things you listed above aren’t characteristics of narcissist. Check out my video talking about DSM-V or 9 traits of narcissism.
@@RawMotivations he's lying and future faking and he's so convincing at times that it looks real, so that - despite mentally i don't believe it for a second,- i tend to believe him. Because it's so hard to believe that someone would be ready to destroy your life, as "collateral damage", just for keeping you as a backup in life.
I've been in this for 12 years, 11 long distance on and off.
Now he's retired and the last obstacles fell to him moving to me, 2 months ago he was asking me when to come, now it's not even happening.
He can be brutally honest, and I did see sone change in him. More patience, more sharing. But ultimately, it's 1 step forward, 2 steps back. After this time were back to square one.
Thanks for your support!🙏
@@avgonyma1 Would love to help you on your healing journey. If I can be of help feel free to grab a time here at rawmotivations.com/one-on-ones
Your hand gestures are very distracting!