Thanks for this Rubeauti. I'm actually retiring next week to Panglao Island. Leased a great home and will be sharing it with my beautiful filipina gf. More and more men are deciding to not marry in the US. It's become a very bad deal for men. Women in America could really learn a lesson from the wonderful women of the Philippines.
I studied the Philippine culture before I went there. The father is the tree trunk, the mother is the branches, the children are the leaves and flowers I married my Filipina 10 years ago after being engaged for a year. I went there 6 times. I met all her family and know them well. We have a 7 year old daughter now. My Filipina wife has a heart of gold. She is beautiful inside and out. We’re both happy and blessed. Living in USA She is loyal but most of all she appreciates everything I do for her ! I’m very blessed ❤️
I wish the present generations of pinays will continue to preserve the conservative culture , know the person first & not jump quickly to the bandwagon ..
@@jeffreyl.i.4207 I was married to an American woman for 13 years. She never showed appreciation for all things I’ve done for her also she wasn’t faithful . I divorced her snd said I would never marry again . I was alone for 9 years I came to the conclusion that I didn’t want live the rest of my life alone. A co- worker of mine was from the Philippines snd he advised me to learn about his culture and that I could find a good woman . A true heart ! So my journey began and now it’s 11 years later. I love my Filipina wife more and more everyday’ She gives my life meaning !
As a child of a Black man and Filipina woman, insulting western women when you most likely will give birth to one is not productive. Passport Bros need to go about their lives quietly AND be better men to ANY woman they are with. As a product of a passport bro and a Filipina woman, he treated my mom like a slave and disrespected her by flirting with other women. He treated her like ISH even though she took GREAT care of 6 kids. She was the oldest of 9 kids herself, so she knows how to take care of people since she’s done it her whole life out of necessity. My grandparents had to work. My dad also would threaten to send her back to poverty, if he was mad at her. My dad is only better with my mom because he got OLD and he knows she could (should) leave him. End of story! Passport Bros, Stop projecting your inadequacies onto western women. Be better men!! PS Your Filipina wives will become Western women. Ain’t that a pickle! 😊
Im a filipino (obviously) and must tell u never cheat, treat well ur filipino wife then u will be treated well even lile as king. Once u cheat u will be in danger...do what makes ur wife happy always, you'll enjoy life here in Philippines.
Hi Rubeuti. I would just like to point out that most of us westerners go to your country specifically to find a good woman to spend his life with. The ones who sleep around aren’t respected by most of us men. I really wish that the messed up dating culture we have here wouldn’t spread to other places. Thanks for the video
I decided sometime ago that I was done with western women. I had many friends and work colleagues who either suggested or were married to Filpina women, so I followed their advice. I tried a couple of Filipina dating sites first but found mostly scammers. Discussing this with a work colleague who was married to a Filipina lady, he decided to introduce me to his wifes sister. We've been chatting for sometime now through video calls, she and her daughter will be joining me in a few months. I can honestly say that Filipina women really are exactly what every man wants - kind, caring, loving, conservative and genuine. It's a pity most western women have lost what it means to be a real woman!
How can she be Conservative if she had sex out of wedlock? There is no divorce there in the Philippines. Im not trolling, its alarming that you call someone having sex outside of wedlock as Conservative man. I do wish you all the best though in your search for a forever partner. Everyone deserves to find their true love 🙂 Its just a shame that you'll settle for another man's sloppy seconds.
@@vegvisirphotography5632 maybe not conservative by your standards, but if a lady has a body count that is single digits at 39 - for a westerner that's conservative! Many women here are approaching triple digits by they are time they are 30 these days - lol
It wasn't always that way here in America. I was 17years of age when I first visited the Philippines and at that time I had no reason to compare America women to any other women from other countries. But as I've gotten older I watched the women and the world evolve. I'm 61 years of age now and have seen the difference. The kindness has a lot of the women in the US. Career has become the main thing in my country for women. I've got no issues with a woman wanting to farther her education and career, but the I don't need a man amongst other things is what caused me to begin to compare. The people of the Philippines and Thailand never mistreated me as a black man, I was looked at as a man. And if I'm not wanted in the US I will go somewhere where someone does care about me and wants me.
Your absolutely correct, I’m 70 now and still remember when women were women here. My grandparents were married 65 years. My aunts and uncles were married till they died. My mother and father were married 67 years Those days are gone in AMERICA I married a Filipina 10years ago , she is beautiful inside and out . We’re both very blessed ❤️
@@Rubeauti I'm doing a 2 month trip to Thailand in Feb and after that I'll be coming back to the Philippines on my next trip. In 3 years I will decide between the two countries to stay permanently. Men like me just want peace. You get none in the west.
Keep on believing what you believe. As long as you do not hurt anyone and just find love with someone, no matter who it is, the world will be a better place. Good luck on your search for the ONE!
@@Rubeauti I apologize for the ignorance and stupidity of fellow North American men and women! I myself am waiting to utilize my passport and leave the states myself. You have a beautiful culture and the people are very friendly.
How can we be strange and not the men make this make since pls maybe your different but that's questionable if all western men are ok and the wemon are all crazy obnoxious pls geniually asking make it make since something in water only affects wemon #im in a a happy relationship w a biracial man but i definitely have two stand up for these american wemon cause i had issues w the all blk men for years till i found my Boa!!!
They're not preserving their bodies in the West. It's normal to have a fresh high school grad with ten partners. After finishing college, 30+ partners is normal.
Do you make these "facts" up? The truth is so easy to find on Google. The average number of sexual partners for men and women in the United States is 7.2, reports a recent Superdrug survey. Observe that 7.2 partners are the average for men and women. Women are more conservative, so their average is less than 7.2.
The issue of passport bros goes deeper than your discussion, which I do appreciate. Here in the States, especially in the black community, modern women have all but pigeon holed men into certain categories. You have to be a certain height, you have to make a certain amount of money (the biggest issue on the topic, IMHO), and if your enter a relationship with them, they want you to pay all of the significant bills, without contributing to said household, as they continue to make their $100k/yr salary. Now, I do hold out hope that every Western woman doesn't think that way, however, much of social media would give you the impression that a great deal of them do. To put it simple, many modern women (not all) want a man with traditional values, but don't want to be traditional women to those men. In their eyes, the man is supposed to provide, protect, make sure all their needs are met, and in most of their minds, them just being there in the relationship should be good enough for the man. Meanwhile, they exude masculine traits, are uncooperative, and will tell you in a minute that you are not needed, as they are independent and have no need for a man. And that's one of THE MAIN outliers as to why a lot of men, especially Black men, are traveling to Asia and Africa to find someone who will match the "traditional" energy they exude. While I will admit that there are some guys who will travel abroad and look at women as sexual conquests, there are guys (such as myself) are genuinely looking for a wife/ life partner, etc. Besides, doesn't the Philippines have an issue with high birthrates amongst the indigenous population? It was either you, Rubeauti, or the Fillipino Pea that did a video on fillipinas that have multiple children, and the fathers don't stick around. I'm not trying to cause dissension or anything, I just think it's unfair to blame foreigners for something that is already prevalent in the country. Love your content, by the way!
I'll just comment on your last part... I'm here in Philippines... if I'm not going to date a American with 3-4 kids that never been married 😒 why would I travel 8k mile to date a filipina with kids that is separated or not ..besides the law is not on your side should the filipina plays the USA version on trap a simp... which is what American women want to see happen anyway 🤔
@mv4463 - Oh I agree with you, and I'm with you. I was merely commenting on the part of the video where it was said that some Western guys go to the Philippines just for a hook up ( which I imagine some do), and that Fillipinas are "conservative", yet they have a high birthrate there, with a lot of Filipino fathers making single mothers of the Filipinas there. Yes, I am aware that the Philippines are rather archaic when it comes to contraceptives, but someone's bumping uglies, lol ..Rubeauti pointed out that there were Fillipinas who have the mindset that Westerners are coming there to take advantage of them, but when I'm on various dating sites, there are a TON of Fillipinas already with kids, so who's taking advantage of who? That's all I was pointing out. Thanks for the reply 👍🏿
It's funny because I'm 41. And I remember being around 28, my boss at the time (white dude) was married to a Filipina. Of course I never asked him why, because it wasn't uncommon to see white men with Filipina wives. And when you think about American soldiers (White and Black), many of them did pair up with Asian wives over their Western counterparts. So this has been going on for some time now. It just never had a name, especially since it was pre-social media. But with Black men from America specifically, it not only has a name but also a full on opposition campaign. So much so, that Black and others have taken up the time and energy to publicly shame Black men for doing what white men have been doing for generations. Isn't that interesting....?
I know very few married men in the usa who are happy . in fact several weeks ago my great neighbor , went into his garage & shot himself . due to his wife always starting problem's , several times a day . day in , day out , for 30 years ?
Ask a passport bro how many sexual partners he has had in his life. If he is from the city you will not get the truth. The reason is he has no idea as the number for many is that high. The same now is true for many young Filipinas with access from the Internet for many years who have had many sexual partners already. Once this occurs the concept of live becomes distorted. So foreigners must be very careful as all Filipinas are not traditional and conservative.
9:44 No, we do not. The dating companies have already figured out through the data what is going on. The old 80/20 rule has become just that....old. It's already changed into 90/10 and in some situations it's as bad as 97.5/2.5 These women complaining are complaining about the same 10-15% of men. The rest of the men are in committed relationships or they're alone. They're not sleeping with anyone.
I learned it’s best (as a man) to be honest about your situation, what you are looking, for and the parameters. The woman ought to do the same, and then you each decide if you want a relationship or situationship. Remember women are also vetting multiple men for the one , or the more, depending on what the woman is looking for. Trust issues tend to stem from not being honest in the first place.
I've come to find many Filipinas who will treat a foreign man differently than a Filipino man when it comes to courting . A foreign man will get preferred treatment, and I think that stems from a Filipina wanting to lock the man in knowing he has more security and stability than most Filipinos can offer . I hate to say this, but the preferable features the Filipinas are looking for are European and not mongaloid but will go that way for the security and stability factor. Everyone is different and has different tastes, and I'm only reflecting on your statements in your conversation. I would hope that men are coming to the philippines for other priorities than just a good woman, which they should be if they plan on living there forever. Fall in love with the philippines first and then find your soul mate .
The attitudes of these social media commentators is quite racist. To say that the entire country of the Philippines is uneducated, submissive and old-fashioned. I think it says more about their insecurity than it does about men seeking relationships. Where someone chooses to look for a partner is their business alone! ❤
Tangentially relevant post on my Facebook today. A guy was asking if he was out of line, for being upset when his common law wife (in the U.S.), said she wanted him to pay her 1/2 her annual salary ($50,000 US), if she got pregnant, since that is what she would lose from her income. I will guesstimate that 90% of the women posters were cheering the woman on and saying she is "entitled" to at least that much. If western women want to know why western men are going overseas to find a partner? They need only look in the mirror to see the reason. I said he needed to leave her. They are not married, they have no kids, and there is no legal obligation. If she wants him to actually PAY her for getting pregnant, then he would be a fool to stay with her. For my part, I would say I am about 90% self convinced, to prepare to move to the Philippines in either late 2023, or early 2024. I am halves on a business lease until October of 2023, and will need to sell my home and liquidate material things before making the move.
Hello Rubeauti, I love your vids and contents of topics but really love your new podcast of behind the scenes. I just wanted to touch on two things you spoke about here; 1. you said beauty fades which I (just me) disagree with. to have that someone who loves you for you, nothing more and nothing less is very rare. I was lucky enough to see that kind of love with my parents. to see my father look at my mom as though she was still that teenager he chased after when they met I will always believe there is someone in this world who would look at me that way even when we're old and grey haired. 2. please, please, please don't take this the wrong way and I pray I don't get backlash and hate from your other viewers here but fact is fact and to be totally honest and transparent with people that you are sharing your life and culture with is very important to me... you talked about the foreigners coming there and sleeping around with different girls/women and not being honest in their intentions but the filipino guys/men do it as well. I'm a Trinidadian girl who has dated a filipino girl and has visited the Philippines 4 times in the past and have seen first hand how the guys there are, and I'm not saying all the guys there but yes guys there have that same mentality of being dishonest with their own women. I'm not condoning, in agreement, or saying in anyway, fashion or form any of them are right or should get a pass, I'm just saying hold all accountable for their actions not just one or two. I love your work and pray much much success to you Rubeauti. 🤗🤗🤗
funny story - I wasn't looking for a wife & I found my filipina partner here in Canada when she was visiting her family, I am friends with her family here & they introduced us :)
We still get the "I went looking for a submissive wife" or "She was gold digging & wanted passport" type of comments. She's educated, has her own passport, makes a good living on her own regardless of me. & that entire submissive thing? maybe if you don't know filipinas you might think that but they really are not submissive
I’m a Passport Bro and I want to live in the Philippines 🇵🇭 and marry a Filipina. I’m looking for a Traditional Loyal Good Filipina for marriage. I love the culture and the friendly Filipino people, they’re so family oriented etc.
About Education. Who cares how much education you have if you are a terrible person to be around (regardless of how physically beautiful a woman is). I think there is a kind of wisdom to being: soft, warm and sweet. UNFORTUNATELY, many educated (even beautiful) Western Women don't carry this kind of "wisdom". This wisdom is what makes many (so called) "uneducated" women INTOXICATING!
You would look so good with straight hair. My old girlfriend had waist length hair and she used a hair straightener on it every day and it looked so good! :)
My brother has a Filipina wife and she is the best wife I have seen here in the States. She is faithful, loyal, and works with him in their daily lives. They are both happy. I have a foreign gf and will never have a Western woman as my woman ever again.
Filipinas are not uneducated. Most I have met in a social gathering are very intelligent. It’s a great mixture of book education and life education. If you don’t have both, you run the risk of being extremely lacking in many important areas.
#Rubeauti .. In the West, the Hook Up Culture is really between the Modern Women and about 20% of all the men in the west... Most of those that are Passport Bros or Expat are in the 80% that were ignored by this Hook up Culture... They are either to Short, Not Cool enough or don't make 100,000 US Dollars per year... Also these men that are visiting to meet Filipina's know that casual dating is not what you are looking for; and they are not looking for it either... Most people that just want to have sex usually go to other nations that advertise for that interaction... Now I am not a Traveler and I am already Happily Married; But I love to hear about people finding love all over the World... I hope to see some great vlogs of weddings and new born babies... :D
it's not even about submissiveness as much as just most women in the US being off the dating market in general, or looking for the 0.5% of the good looking or younger men, they say they want rich men but they are really looking for young studs, they get used by them but it doesn't sill expand their acceptable criteria. Lot of women are out of market due to lack of fitness and some are addicted to marijuana and are at peace in their homes getting stoned on the couch.
I enjoy watching your shows, Submission simply means to put the needs and wants of the other before your own. So when a woman submits to a man, it means to be willing to allow him to lead when there is a disagreement, provided that his leadership is reasonable and just. This is submission. At 2:00 am who gets up to check a noise, the man does. If it cold the man will offer his coat. If it’s raining the man will give her his coat to cover her head. He will carry her over puddles or even wade across streams to keep her dry. We open the doors of a buildings or on a car so she may enter first, separating her from the street and danger. Who run to see why the other let out an uncommon yelp? Who chase out the mice, rats, spiders, snakes, big bugs? So who is being submissive? Submission is a two way street. I plan to move/retire to the Philippines in the next 2 years. As for not wanting kids most want a career, with power or fame, and by the time they rich their goal they are in their late 30's to 50's without man or child. If you listen to the women they say that the Passport Bros are the unwanted, dusty, broke, the men that they don't date. I don't have an issue getting a date and I was married for 27yr to a blue eyed blond women that never got about 130 lb at 5ft 3in, I'm 5ft 5in 140lb.
We passport brothers want simple. A genuine woman that isn't corrupted/broken. This pass port brothers buzz has increased in the past month, and will continue to grow. Others are witnessing the differences of women, subjective of their cultural influences, and its eye opening difference. To us it's like seeing thousands of unicorns. A relationship that is built w/ trust & respect is worthy of our time
Glad yall understand our arguments over here in America.. i understand the passport bros argument i just hope they looking for love and not just to smash and dash Philippine women..
Thanks for this video Rubeauti. You are very careful not to say it, but much of the criticism you hear from western women - and many western men share their views btw - is rooted in racism and ignorance. And these closed-minded attitudes are aimed at other countries as well, not just the Philippines. Hopefully your videos will help share the news about what a beautiful, welcoming culture you have.
@@wren23_bass-synths but then would need girls who get experience with such passport bros and how they just use them and not girls who dream about get married with forreigner and move to another country.
Rubeauti, thank you for for the content. Those of us who have been traveling for a long time knows how to conduct ourselves accordingly and as a gentleman. However, keep in mind that there is a distinct difference between a Passport Bro and a Passport Pookie or RayRay. Which I think that this particular content is geared/directed more towards the Pookie and Ray Ray.
I fear our least I hope that the ladies of the Philippines are the Southeast Asian women do not adapt to that Western mentality of the women. The sensibility of the women in the Philippines and Thailand or anywhere in the southeast Asia is what has me drawn to them. Because even though I came back home to the US I never forgot how I was treated by the people and the women in those countries.
3:07 For country rural Americans, being submissive is being humble, loyal, and uplifting to whoever is head of the family 💪🫰 Should both partners be needed to provide financial needs, they’re both dominant/submissive for each other depending on the situation. 🫣 If the head of the family isn’t a provider, their shouldn’t be a submissive partner 😬
OK, I'm married to a wonderful Filipina 7 years already. I can say she is one of the smartest and incite full person I've ever met. When my ex decided to try to ruin my life after 23yr marriage (i'll just leave it at that cuz way too much that she did to cover). Anyway I was left raising my 3 kids everything was finally peaceful. But when I married a Filipina I was also judged that I somehow bought a mail order bride 🙄couldn't be further from the truth. I had to work hard to prove to her that I was a good man and I wanted a life partner. On the point that any foreign man is going to move to PH and abuse his wife um I'm pretty sure if the police didn't get me first I would face a village uprising and be hacked with the coconut chopper.😅 Anyway there are so DOM but my experience it that the Filipina can see right through them already.
New Channel here... But I can say my Amazing Filipina wife is such a blessing. My wife is submissive in the way you describe. I do not control her. She definitely has her own opinions and we are an equal team. But my Filipina wife loves having a masculine husband who leads with love and is responsible and we both strive toward the same goals. I feel so lucky!! Thanks for this one. So many Western women complain about submitting to their husbands, but they are fine going to their job and submitting to their boss. See, it's just a BAD ATTITUDE about men, especially as it pertains to their relationships. Thank you, Rebeauti. Great video.
I can’t agree with that totally about adapting to the dating culture in the Philippines. Because that lets any existence of my culture out. My Wife and I do not believe this is right. It must be a mixture of the two. We think it’s important to have both cultures involved, but what is different and important is what parts of the culture you are teaching the kids. Also, to be fair, not everything in Filipino culture is better. Our kids have the advantage of knowing their mother’s culture, with some of the values from mine. We are a good blend of the two cultures. If they choose one or the other then that’s their choice. We do give both though
I’ve really had no issue dating in the west, however I can understand some of the frustrations that some men have here. But regarding men looking out East for wives. Searching there because you believe these women are easy or submissive is a red flag. Hopefully more go there with the intent to treat the women as equals.
If they looking for submissive women who will just say yes to them. They will be for a rude awakening. Asian women r not that kind of submissive. Asian women r traditional. Meaning in general they still adheres to the traditional gender role. And most Asian is not combative they just want ✌ in the relationship. They have there own mind and opinion. For example if u made a decision without asking their opinion u will get it
Sidenote, I dislike the term "traditional" to describe non-western women. It implies that they have somehow stagnated in the dark ages while western women have progressed forward. In fact, western women have stepped crazy-ass sideways, not forward. The so-called "traditional" women HAVE advanced, without the toxic mistakes in direction. Personally, I prefer the term "grounded". Speaks to the actual intended meaning, better.
6:20 it's not our dating culture. It's modern western culture/feminism. And we don't have to bring it. Your women are slowly adopting it. This isn't something men spread. It's something corporations spread for profitability. Women not only consume more than men, they encourage male consumption that otherwise would not occur. It's up to you guys to hold true to your culture, and not adopt modern western culture.
I agree with wha you said. I believe most men who go to the Philippines aren’t looking to just sleep around. The majority of men are looking for real relationships and marriage. There’s always a few who bring nonsense but the majority are not. Love your channel, salamat po
Its exactly the opposite. Just a handful is searching future Partner. Majority search the fast fun. Just look around Angeles or Manila red light. And i know a few filipinas as friends. Mothers and dad s foreiger and was a short time fun and hes gone.
@@sebs.3917 that’s your experience not mines. I have been going to Manila and Cebu on a regular basis for years and that’s not the case with the men that I know.
They're saying filipina women are uneducated bcuz They're ignorant to who filipina women are. They have no idea most filipina women are college educated.
Great video and she is so right the women here in the USA especially the younger ones are getting ridiculous and for an older guy like me the young ones won't even look at you 🙏💖💋
The main reason that I want to date a Filipina, aside from their stunning beauty, is that a man making a good salary of over $40000 in the United States is not respected. I make a lot more than that but even I cannot compete with the unrealistic checklist that many western women have. I can buy a 6 bedroom house in Cebu City or Davao City for under 5 million pesos (about $100000 US) and live quite comfortably. If I choose a Filipina from a province her wildest dreams will come true. That's all that good men want to do. Fulfill their woman's dreams. Filipinas don't require a 6 bedroom mini mansion. That's just an example of how a regular guy like can compete in the Philippines where in the US we just fade out of sight. It's not anyone's fault. It's just hard economic reality. Maybe more American couples should consider leaving the US for the Philippines together to live best lives
But not allowed to work there in the Philippines. So how earn the 40k yearly still? And not allowed buy land.. Only. Rent house or then house on the Land.
@@sebs.3917 I can work remotely in the Philippines for any company in the world. And if I marry a Filipina I can own land through her. Get your facts straight my friend 😁
I hate this trend because their fights involve another (asian women). Actually they just need to be apreciated by each other. The american men just need a validation and the american women just need an apreciation.
How many "Passport Bros" do you actually see in the Philippines? The majority I see are old "Retiree Bros" in the Philippines. It is rare to see forgeinors under 40 in the Philippines that are not vloggers or UA-camrs. Even rarer to see a forgeinor under 40 actually moving to the Philippines permanently. The majority are old retirees.
If a guy does intend to only "hook-up" with a Filipina and tells her at the start that he only wants a physical relationship, is that frowned upon? I take it the cities are the places to find these women.
Honestly most women I know in person don’t care. This is only a social media phenomenon so please do not pay attention to tik tok. U should know some real western women as well.
Funny that you mention!... 😃...You need nothing more to expose the hypocrisy of the Western feminist than to consider the popularity of "Fifty Shades of Grey" against the backdrop of the feminist movement itself. So what that says on her part is that, if you're a Chad, you can do anything you want to me, and I'll consider it "hot". But if you're an Average Joe, you don't deserve me, and I should be able to take money from you just for looking at me (whether that is a lawsuit, and assault charge, or OnlyFans). I'm okay with women having whatever standards they want for men, whether that benefits me or not. That's their perogative. But where the big problem starts is when the feminist tries to commodify her own opinion of men into a market advantage, outright extortion, or even simple mistreatment. Hollywood has spun this generation of Western women out of control with "glass slipper delusion". Hence, here cometh the Passport Bros...Well done, Rubi...
With the woke ideology and equality, a diploma here is for participating in school. Grade doesn't matter anymore. You will get a degree. But in the Philippines, you have to work hard to get a degree. I would not be surprise to see Filipino kids read, write, and be able to do math better than the ones on the West in the same age group. There is a family value in the Philippines. In the West, it is something that is disappearing.
ive been listening to you what you say is tradition is no more than scams poeple loke you deserve filipinos i have never been to asia but i have been out with filipinas the filipinos CHEAT if thats what you want great but dont say we lok for it i have pocked one lady but could have had 50 there are still some beautiful ladies in Philippines so im happy
Thank you for your videos, they're done well. My wife (Filipina) & I (African American) have been married for over 33years and have know each other for over 34. One of the best decisisons I've made. 7 other of my friends did the same and only 2 had big problems but the rest we are intact:) Filipino culture and African American culture have a lot in common and the struggles we both have faced are similiar. Sice the time of the late 1500's ( both involved with Spanish Rule) to the time of the Philippine/American War 1899-1902 etc to Watsonville riots in L.A. to present and much more. Have a Great day and continue the good work. Sige:)
Submission is an act that is expressed mutually and voluntarily. Being submissive helps us to be less self-centered and allows us to consider the desires of others. Submission has nothing to do with being weak, but allows us to be strong enough to open our hearts to others. Western women is full of insults and bitter comments.that goes to show how sad they are.my filipina girlfriend has only ever been with one man in her whole life.you say that about western women’s. By the time they 18 they sleep with almost ten men already
Filipinas are well-educated and much more beautiful than western women, both physically and emotionally. Filipinas are grateful for the roles and blessings God bestowed upon them, such as the ability to carry and give birth to their beautiful children and to nurture them and teach them to be healthy, smart, and well-mannered. Unlike western women, Filipinas don’t view children as a burden or a curse. They usually become very excited whenever a baby is brought into the room. Their motherly instincts are so much stronger than that of western women. They truly embrace their roles of tending to the needs of the home and family. Also, unlike western women, Filipinas appreciate men who embrace the roles that God gave us, such as providing for the family’s needs, making repairs around the home, protecting the family from harm, and taking responsibility for leading the family through the difficult trials of life. Because of this, Filipinas encourage us to be better men. Western culture is often dysfunctional and toxic. Please remain true to your beautiful Filipino culture and be vigilant in protecting it. God bless you always!
Excellent video but I think us men especially older men especially older black men know better than to "sleep around" with marriagable Filipinas. There's Filipinas who like to have fun and them are the ones we look for. If a man wants to eventually marry one he knows how and where to find one.
Pls do a video on the men from your culture we would like to know as well how they or because it seems your safe and there going to invade your territory w this toxic lifestyle .
9:00 While I agree with what you mean here, it should be said that you are expressing it in the exact same way that these western women are. It's totally devoid of accountability, as if it's happening to you and you don't have a say. It's childish. Solve your own problem, and don't sleep with these men that you don't know. If you are sleeping with them, the you're making the exact same choice that they and the western women are making.
Hello from America, the problem here is most women who were in a bad relationship don't take time to heal thier mind body and soul, they jump from one to another and treat the next guy as if it was their fault. And if you don't pay for something the argument is on. I for one am scared of these women they just want to take what you have worked so hard for, True story guy meets girl, she moved in. One day they had argument. Next day she goes to court house got P.F.A against him, he got kicked out of his own house, now homeless and lost his job. This is what the American court system does to men. These women just want to make men pay for them any way they can. They are vicious. This is how bad it has become in my country. I stay by myself 10 yrs now because of this mentality of these women.we have no chance because the courts believe them. If you have a child with a woman 40 to 50% of pay goes for child support. Another 25 to 30% for taxes, that leaves a man with 25% of his pay to live on. That's for eighteen yrs. Some states your paying thru college. The American dream is dead, has been for a long time, that's why we are coming there. Just keep being the way you are and we as men will gladly take care of all the wants and needs. Let these American women see what they have done to us. They had their chance, oh my wedding has to be a hundred thousand dollars, my engagement ring should be ten thousand dollars, I want a ten thousand dollar vacation. My vehicle should be a Lexus 80 to 100.000 I'm not lying, house 200 to 400 hundred thousand. We are done with this. And these princess.
Filipinas be careful. Half these men just go there for fun and aren't serious. Take your time and get to know each other and look out for red flags. I went to the Philippines and put a ring on my ladies finger and married her and proved my love and commitment to my wife but have seen many Filipina heartbroken by men who are players and jerks
Are all you vloggers following the same script? Don't follow the crowd, they are usually wrong. "Passport Bros" is beyond juvenile. It might get attention until common sense kicks in. Bashing wester women in hopes of making yourself look good never works. And that's putting it nicely.
Ladies I will visit the Phillipines one day soon hopefully. I admire the beauty of you beautiful dark skinned Islanders. Not as much the ones trying to look more European. I appreciate your traditions and conservative attitudes. The women here in the USA are not like our grandmothers and mothers who were more traditional also. That is one reason I am leaving. The attitude is too much and it is ungodly to me as a believer. I hope I don't come there to learn that you all act like the lost sheep here so stay sweet.
One might hope to get away from modern Western broken women for an hour or two here. 🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂 I ❤ your vlogs, you know I love to tease 🤭 I´m such a child...
Good advice about the Filipino woman I learned a little something about your video yes I have been to Philippines many times love the women there they let the man be a man and they are submissive to the man unlike these American women
Hello Rubeauti, I really hope that Western men do not import our dating culture to the Philippines. I think that if you are not happy with your (Western) dating culture, why would you want to import it into another country.
In the future passport bro and asian movie fight find love their own country like happened to the asian american men in america what happened to the filipino men hard to find a date to . Like in the asian american in the USA hard to find a date to you are asian men in america
Oh my,all the Tawnshonkwa`s and Loquacias and Shaniquas will be hating on you.....long time. How dare you be feminine,bright,charming and desirable!!!! Stop it!
Thanks for this Rubeauti. I'm actually retiring next week to Panglao Island. Leased a great home and will be sharing it with my beautiful filipina gf. More and more men are deciding to not marry in the US. It's become a very bad deal for men. Women in America could really learn a lesson from the wonderful women of the Philippines.
Sige sige po
I also treat my Philipina wife like a queen. She has given me a new beginning.
I studied the Philippine culture before I went there. The father is the tree trunk, the mother is the branches, the children are the leaves and flowers
I married my Filipina 10 years ago after being engaged for a year. I went there 6 times. I met all her family and know them well.
We have a 7 year old daughter now. My Filipina wife has a heart of gold. She is beautiful inside and out. We’re both happy and blessed. Living in USA
She is loyal but most of all she appreciates everything I do for her !
I’m very blessed ❤️
I wish the present generations of pinays will continue to preserve the conservative culture , know the person first & not jump quickly to the bandwagon ..
@@SummerBliss-wi5mr most pinays are, but things are slowly changing , just as it did here
I am happy to hear that you are happy with your pinay wife. Can you tell me why you chose a pinay over a Western woman?
@@jeffreyl.i.4207 I was married to an American woman for 13 years. She never showed appreciation for all things I’ve done for her also she wasn’t faithful . I divorced her snd said I would never marry again . I was alone for 9 years I came to the conclusion that I didn’t want live the rest of my life alone. A co- worker of mine was from the Philippines snd he advised me to learn about his culture and that I could find a good woman . A true heart !
So my journey began and now it’s 11 years later.
I love my Filipina wife more and more everyday’
She gives my life meaning !
@@michaelbowden7695 Great. Happy to hear that.
As a child of a Black man and Filipina woman, insulting western women when you most likely will give birth to one is not productive. Passport Bros need to go about their lives quietly AND be better men to ANY woman they are with. As a product of a passport bro and a Filipina woman, he treated my mom like a slave and disrespected her by flirting with other women. He treated her like ISH even though she took GREAT care of 6 kids. She was the oldest of 9 kids herself, so she knows how to take care of people since she’s done it her whole life out of necessity. My grandparents had to work. My dad also would threaten to send her back to poverty, if he was mad at her. My dad is only better with my mom because he got OLD and he knows she could (should) leave him. End of story! Passport Bros, Stop projecting your inadequacies onto western women. Be better men!! PS Your Filipina wives will become Western women. Ain’t that a pickle! 😊
I just married a Philipina and I have never been treated so good. I love my wife because she is so amazing and she treats me like a king.
Im a filipino (obviously) and must tell u never cheat, treat well ur filipino wife then u will be treated well even lile as king. Once u cheat u will be in danger...do what makes ur wife happy always, you'll enjoy life here in Philippines.
Hi Rubeuti. I would just like to point out that most of us westerners go to your country specifically to find a good woman to spend his life with. The ones who sleep around aren’t respected by most of us men. I really wish that the messed up dating culture we have here wouldn’t spread to other places. Thanks for the video
I decided sometime ago that I was done with western women. I had many friends and work colleagues who either suggested or were married to Filpina women, so I followed their advice. I tried a couple of Filipina dating sites first but found mostly scammers. Discussing this with a work colleague who was married to a Filipina lady, he decided to introduce me to his wifes sister. We've been chatting for sometime now through video calls, she and her daughter will be joining me in a few months. I can honestly say that Filipina women really are exactly what every man wants - kind, caring, loving, conservative and genuine. It's a pity most western women have lost what it means to be a real woman!
How can she be Conservative if she had sex out of wedlock? There is no divorce there in the Philippines.
Im not trolling, its alarming that you call someone having sex outside of wedlock as Conservative man. I do wish you all the best though in your search for a forever partner. Everyone deserves to find their true love 🙂
Its just a shame that you'll settle for another man's sloppy seconds.
@@vegvisirphotography5632 maybe not conservative by your standards, but if a lady has a body count that is single digits at 39 - for a westerner that's conservative! Many women here are approaching triple digits by they are time they are 30 these days - lol
It wasn't always that way here in America. I was 17years of age when I first visited the Philippines and at that time I had no reason to compare America women to any other women from other countries. But as I've gotten older I watched the women and the world evolve. I'm 61 years of age now and have seen the difference. The kindness has a lot of the women in the US. Career has become the main thing in my country for women. I've got no issues with a woman wanting to farther her education and career, but the I don't need a man amongst other things is what caused me to begin to compare. The people of the Philippines and Thailand never mistreated me as a black man, I was looked at as a man. And if I'm not wanted in the US I will go somewhere where someone does care about me and wants me.
Your absolutely correct, I’m 70 now and still remember when women were women here. My grandparents were married 65 years. My aunts and uncles were married till they died. My mother and father were married 67 years
Those days are gone in AMERICA
I married a Filipina 10years ago , she is beautiful inside and out . We’re both very blessed ❤️
Always informative thanks for posting
We love you rebeauti. As a passport bro I get attacked repeatedly on TikTok it's sad really. Western women are very strange.
@@Rubeauti I'm doing a 2 month trip to Thailand in Feb and after that I'll be coming back to the Philippines on my next trip. In 3 years I will decide between the two countries to stay permanently. Men like me just want peace. You get none in the west.
@@theescapetrix it depends how you structure your life if you want peace mate
Keep on believing what you believe. As long as you do not hurt anyone and just find love with someone, no matter who it is, the world will be a better place. Good luck on your search for the ONE!
@@Rubeauti I apologize for the ignorance and stupidity of fellow North American men and women! I myself am waiting to utilize my passport and leave the states myself. You have a beautiful culture and the people are very friendly.
How can we be strange and not the men make this make since pls maybe your different but that's questionable if all western men are ok and the wemon are all crazy obnoxious pls geniually asking make it make since something in water only affects wemon #im in a a happy relationship w a biracial man but i definitely have two stand up for these american wemon cause i had issues w the all blk men for years till i found my Boa!!!
They're not preserving their bodies in the West. It's normal to have a fresh high school grad with ten partners. After finishing college, 30+ partners is normal.
Do you make these "facts" up? The truth is so easy to find on Google.
The average number of sexual partners for men and women in the United States is 7.2, reports a recent Superdrug survey. Observe that 7.2 partners are the average for men and women. Women are more conservative, so their average is less than 7.2.
yup
The type of woman who even though you've got a huge, girthy 10 incher? She asks if it's in yet.
Do you know what i mean boys? 😅💪😭
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I have seen few of them like that. I know they exist but I have seen few, it’s not even a majority.
The issue of passport bros goes deeper than your discussion, which I do appreciate. Here in the States, especially in the black community, modern women have all but pigeon holed men into certain categories. You have to be a certain height, you have to make a certain amount of money (the biggest issue on the topic, IMHO), and if your enter a relationship with them, they want you to pay all of the significant bills, without contributing to said household, as they continue to make their $100k/yr salary. Now, I do hold out hope that every Western woman doesn't think that way, however, much of social media would give you the impression that a great deal of them do.
To put it simple, many modern women (not all) want a man with traditional values, but don't want to be traditional women to those men. In their eyes, the man is supposed to provide, protect, make sure all their needs are met, and in most of their minds, them just being there in the relationship should be good enough for the man. Meanwhile, they exude masculine traits, are uncooperative, and will tell you in a minute that you are not needed, as they are independent and have no need for a man.
And that's one of THE MAIN outliers as to why a lot of men, especially Black men, are traveling to Asia and Africa to find someone who will match the "traditional" energy they exude.
While I will admit that there are some guys who will travel abroad and look at women as sexual conquests, there are guys (such as myself) are genuinely looking for a wife/ life partner, etc. Besides, doesn't the Philippines have an issue with high birthrates amongst the indigenous population? It was either you, Rubeauti, or the Fillipino Pea that did a video on fillipinas that have multiple children, and the fathers don't stick around. I'm not trying to cause dissension or anything, I just think it's unfair to blame foreigners for something that is already prevalent in the country.
Love your content, by the way!
I'll just comment on your last part... I'm here in Philippines... if I'm not going to date a American with 3-4 kids that never been married 😒 why would I travel 8k mile to date a filipina with kids that is separated or not ..besides the law is not on your side should the filipina plays the USA version on trap a simp... which is what American women want to see happen anyway 🤔
@mv4463 - Oh I agree with you, and I'm with you. I was merely commenting on the part of the video where it was said that some Western guys go to the Philippines just for a hook up ( which I imagine some do), and that Fillipinas are "conservative", yet they have a high birthrate there, with a lot of Filipino fathers making single mothers of the Filipinas there. Yes, I am aware that the Philippines are rather archaic when it comes to contraceptives, but someone's bumping uglies, lol ..Rubeauti pointed out that there were Fillipinas who have the mindset that Westerners are coming there to take advantage of them, but when I'm on various dating sites, there are a TON of Fillipinas already with kids, so who's taking advantage of who? That's all I was pointing out. Thanks for the reply 👍🏿
@@limelight58able agreed 👍 👌
It's funny because I'm 41. And I remember being around 28, my boss at the time (white dude) was married to a Filipina. Of course I never asked him why, because it wasn't uncommon to see white men with Filipina wives. And when you think about American soldiers (White and Black), many of them did pair up with Asian wives over their Western counterparts. So this has been going on for some time now. It just never had a name, especially since it was pre-social media. But with Black men from America specifically, it not only has a name but also a full on opposition campaign. So much so, that Black and others have taken up the time and energy to publicly shame Black men for doing what white men have been doing for generations. Isn't that interesting....?
and these whyte boyz are trying to coin the phrase now passport bros...this has nothing to do with them
@@Kandiplaces Exactly, the men really don't have to say much or anything at all. The world can see exactly why they have decided to be passport bros.
Nothing in this video should have triggered your racist comment.
@@Bogie6588 Racist?
Hi Ms. Rubeauti Thanks for educated me. I would like to come to the Filipinas very soon. I like listening.To your Channel.
I know very few married men in the usa who are happy . in fact several weeks ago my great neighbor , went into his garage & shot himself . due to his wife always starting problem's , several times a day . day in , day out , for 30 years ?
Ask a passport bro how many sexual partners he has had in his life. If he is from the city you will not get the truth. The reason is he has no idea as the number for many is that high. The same now is true for many young Filipinas with access from the Internet for many years who have had many sexual partners already. Once this occurs the concept of live becomes distorted. So foreigners must be very careful as all Filipinas are not traditional and conservative.
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No, we do not. The dating companies have already figured out through the data what is going on. The old 80/20 rule has become just that....old. It's already changed into 90/10 and in some situations it's as bad as 97.5/2.5
These women complaining are complaining about the same 10-15% of men. The rest of the men are in committed relationships or they're alone. They're not sleeping with anyone.
I learned it’s best (as a man) to be honest about your situation, what you are looking, for and the parameters. The woman ought to do the same, and then you each decide if you want a relationship or situationship.
Remember women are also vetting multiple men for the one , or the more, depending on what the woman is looking for.
Trust issues tend to stem from not being honest in the first place.
They are broken Rubeauti, and when they figure that out they will not like who they are.
I've come to find many Filipinas who will treat a foreign man differently than a Filipino man when it comes to courting . A foreign man will get preferred treatment, and I think that stems from a Filipina wanting to lock the man in knowing he has more security and stability than most Filipinos can offer . I hate to say this, but the preferable features the Filipinas are looking for are European and not mongaloid but will go that way for the security and stability factor. Everyone is different and has different tastes, and I'm only reflecting on your statements in your conversation. I would hope that men are coming to the philippines for other priorities than just a good woman, which they should be if they plan on living there forever. Fall in love with the philippines first and then find your soul mate .
💯 agree... Most of our women here are broken because of hook up culture. Shouldn't go and spread that to cultures where the women aren't destroyed.
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Yes ateRube is probably the most gwapa woman ever
Two beautiful feminine females, so calm and soft spoken. 😘👍👌🛬✈🛩🛬
The attitudes of these social media commentators is quite racist. To say that the entire country of the Philippines is uneducated, submissive and old-fashioned. I think it says more about their insecurity than it does about men seeking relationships. Where someone chooses to look for a partner is their business alone! ❤
Tangentially relevant post on my Facebook today. A guy was asking if he was out of line, for being upset when his common law wife (in the U.S.), said she wanted him to pay her 1/2 her annual salary ($50,000 US), if she got pregnant, since that is what she would lose from her income. I will guesstimate that 90% of the women posters were cheering the woman on and saying she is "entitled" to at least that much. If western women want to know why western men are going overseas to find a partner? They need only look in the mirror to see the reason. I said he needed to leave her. They are not married, they have no kids, and there is no legal obligation. If she wants him to actually PAY her for getting pregnant, then he would be a fool to stay with her. For my part, I would say I am about 90% self convinced, to prepare to move to the Philippines in either late 2023, or early 2024. I am halves on a business lease until October of 2023, and will need to sell my home and liquidate material things before making the move.
Hello Rubeauti, I love your vids and contents of topics but really love your new podcast of behind the scenes. I just wanted to touch on two things you spoke about here; 1. you said beauty fades which I (just me) disagree with. to have that someone who loves you for you, nothing more and nothing less is very rare. I was lucky enough to see that kind of love with my parents. to see my father look at my mom as though she was still that teenager he chased after when they met I will always believe there is someone in this world who would look at me that way even when we're old and grey haired. 2. please, please, please don't take this the wrong way and I pray I don't get backlash and hate from your other viewers here but fact is fact and to be totally honest and transparent with people that you are sharing your life and culture with is very important to me... you talked about the foreigners coming there and sleeping around with different girls/women and not being honest in their intentions but the filipino guys/men do it as well. I'm a Trinidadian girl who has dated a filipino girl and has visited the Philippines 4 times in the past and have seen first hand how the guys there are, and I'm not saying all the guys there but yes guys there have that same mentality of being dishonest with their own women. I'm not condoning, in agreement, or saying in anyway, fashion or form any of them are right or should get a pass, I'm just saying hold all accountable for their actions not just one or two. I love your work and pray much much success to you Rubeauti. 🤗🤗🤗
funny story - I wasn't looking for a wife & I found my filipina partner here in Canada when she was visiting her family, I am friends with her family here & they introduced us :)
We still get the "I went looking for a submissive wife" or "She was gold digging & wanted passport" type of comments.
She's educated, has her own passport, makes a good living on her own regardless of me.
& that entire submissive thing? maybe if you don't know filipinas you might think that but they really are not submissive
I’m a Passport Bro and I want to live in the Philippines 🇵🇭 and marry a Filipina. I’m looking for a Traditional Loyal Good Filipina for marriage. I love the culture and the friendly Filipino people, they’re so family oriented etc.
If you want them have them, don’t know why you have to put down other women, compete and insult.
If you want them go for it. We support you 👍🏿
Good discussion rubeauti keep up the good work 😎
About Education. Who cares how much education you have if you are a terrible person to be around (regardless of how physically beautiful a woman is). I think there is a kind of wisdom to being: soft, warm and sweet. UNFORTUNATELY, many educated (even beautiful) Western Women don't carry this kind of "wisdom". This wisdom is what makes many (so called) "uneducated" women INTOXICATING!
You would look so good with straight hair. My old girlfriend had waist length hair and she used a hair straightener on it every day and it looked so good! :)
My brother has a Filipina wife and she is the best wife I have seen here in the States. She is faithful, loyal, and works with him in their daily lives. They are both happy. I have a foreign gf and will never have a Western woman as my woman ever again.
I see many overseas women online with college educations...Asians, Europeans, Africans, Latin Americans, etc.
Filipinas are not uneducated. Most I have met in a social gathering are very intelligent. It’s a great mixture of book education and life education. If you don’t have both, you run the risk of being extremely lacking in many important areas.
#Rubeauti .. In the West, the Hook Up Culture is really between the Modern Women and about 20% of all the men in the west... Most of those that are Passport Bros or Expat are in the 80% that were ignored by this Hook up Culture... They are either to Short, Not Cool enough or don't make 100,000 US Dollars per year...
Also these men that are visiting to meet Filipina's know that casual dating is not what you are looking for; and they are not looking for it either... Most people that just want to have sex usually go to other nations that advertise for that interaction...
Now I am not a Traveler and I am already Happily Married; But I love to hear about people finding love all over the World... I hope to see some great vlogs of weddings and new born babies...
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Rubeauti, thank for not generalizing this issue and stating that guys and girls can be 'players'.
@ᴛᴇʟᴇɢʀᴀᴍ ᴍᴇ @Rubeauti not sure what you are referring to. Please explain.
it's not even about submissiveness as much as just most women in the US being off the dating market in general, or looking for the 0.5% of the good looking or younger men, they say they want rich men but they are really looking for young studs, they get used by them but it doesn't sill expand their acceptable criteria. Lot of women are out of market due to lack of fitness and some are addicted to marijuana and are at peace in their homes getting stoned on the couch.
I enjoy watching your shows,
Submission simply means to put the needs and wants of the other before your own. So when a woman submits to a man, it means to be willing to allow him to lead when there is a disagreement, provided that his leadership is reasonable and just. This is submission.
At 2:00 am who gets up to check a noise, the man does.
If it cold the man will offer his coat.
If it’s raining the man will give her his coat to cover her head.
He will carry her over puddles or even wade across streams to keep her dry.
We open the doors of a buildings or on a car so she may
enter first, separating her from the street and danger.
Who run to see why the other let out an uncommon yelp?
Who chase out the mice, rats, spiders, snakes, big bugs?
So who is being submissive?
Submission is a two way street.
I plan to move/retire to the Philippines in the next 2 years. As for not wanting kids most want a career, with power or fame, and by the time they rich their goal they are in their late 30's to 50's without man or child. If you listen to the women they say that the Passport Bros are the unwanted, dusty, broke, the men that they don't date. I don't have an issue getting a date and I was married for 27yr to a blue eyed blond women that never got about 130 lb at 5ft 3in, I'm 5ft 5in 140lb.
We passport brothers want simple. A genuine woman that isn't corrupted/broken.
This pass port brothers buzz has increased in the past month, and will continue to grow. Others are witnessing the differences of women, subjective of their cultural influences, and its eye opening difference. To us it's like seeing thousands of unicorns.
A relationship that is built w/ trust & respect is worthy of our time
Glad yall understand our arguments over here in America.. i understand the passport bros argument i just hope they looking for love and not just to smash and dash Philippine women..
Thanks for this video Rubeauti. You are very careful not to say it, but much of the criticism you hear from western women - and many western men share their views btw - is rooted in racism and ignorance. And these closed-minded attitudes are aimed at other countries as well, not just the Philippines. Hopefully your videos will help share the news about what a beautiful, welcoming culture you have.
This is just one filipina's perspective. Would like to see what women in the streets think.
You should watch the Filipina Pea channel. She has interviews with different Filipina women who like western men.
@@wren23_bass-synths but then would need girls who get experience with such passport bros and how they just use them and not girls who dream about get married with forreigner and move to another country.
Rubeauti, thank you for for the content. Those of us who have been traveling for a long time knows how to conduct ourselves accordingly and as a gentleman. However, keep in mind that there is a distinct difference between a Passport Bro and a Passport Pookie or RayRay. Which I think that this particular content is geared/directed more towards the Pookie and Ray Ray.
I fear our least I hope that the ladies of the Philippines are the Southeast Asian women do not adapt to that Western mentality of the women. The sensibility of the women in the Philippines and Thailand or anywhere in the southeast Asia is what has me drawn to them. Because even though I came back home to the US I never forgot how I was treated by the people and the women in those countries.
3:07 For country rural Americans, being submissive is being humble, loyal, and uplifting to whoever is head of the family 💪🫰
Should both partners be needed to provide financial needs, they’re both dominant/submissive for each other depending on the situation.
🫣 If the head of the family isn’t a provider, their shouldn’t be a submissive partner 😬
OK, I'm married to a wonderful Filipina 7 years already. I can say she is one of the smartest and incite full person I've ever met. When my ex decided to try to ruin my life after 23yr marriage (i'll just leave it at that cuz way too much that she did to cover). Anyway I was left raising my 3 kids everything was finally peaceful. But when I married a Filipina I was also judged that I somehow bought a mail order bride 🙄couldn't be further from the truth. I had to work hard to prove to her that I was a good man and I wanted a life partner. On the point that any foreign man is going to move to PH and abuse his wife um I'm pretty sure if the police didn't get me first I would face a village uprising and be hacked with the coconut chopper.😅 Anyway there are so DOM but my experience it that the Filipina can see right through them already.
The woman with the pink pillow is so beautiful and feminine.
New Channel here... But I can say my Amazing Filipina wife is such a blessing. My wife is submissive in the way you describe. I do not control her. She definitely has her own opinions and we are an equal team. But my Filipina wife loves having a masculine husband who leads with love and is responsible and we both strive toward the same goals. I feel so lucky!!
Thanks for this one. So many Western women complain about submitting to their husbands, but they are fine going to their job and submitting to their boss. See, it's just a BAD ATTITUDE about men, especially as it pertains to their relationships.
Thank you, Rebeauti. Great video.
I can’t agree with that totally about adapting to the dating culture in the Philippines. Because that lets any existence of my culture out. My Wife and I do not believe this is right. It must be a mixture of the two. We think it’s important to have both cultures involved, but what is different and important is what parts of the culture you are teaching the kids. Also, to be fair, not everything in Filipino culture is better. Our kids have the advantage of knowing their mother’s culture, with some of the values from mine. We are a good blend of the two cultures. If they choose one or the other then that’s their choice. We do give both though
I’ve really had no issue dating in the west, however I can understand some of the frustrations that some men have here. But regarding men looking out East for wives. Searching there because you believe these women are easy or submissive is a red flag. Hopefully more go there with the intent to treat the women as equals.
If they looking for submissive women who will just say yes to them. They will be for a rude awakening. Asian women r not that kind of submissive. Asian women r traditional. Meaning in general they still adheres to the traditional gender role. And most Asian is not combative they just want ✌ in the relationship. They have there own mind and opinion. For example if u made a decision without asking their opinion u will get it
I agree with Rubeauti. No bringing that hookup culture here. If you want to sleep around please stay in America.
Remember, ladies, passport bros are of all races and nationalities...
Sidenote, I dislike the term "traditional" to describe non-western women. It implies that they have somehow stagnated in the dark ages while western women have progressed forward. In fact, western women have stepped crazy-ass sideways, not forward. The so-called "traditional" women HAVE advanced, without the toxic mistakes in direction. Personally, I prefer the term "grounded". Speaks to the actual intended meaning, better.
6:20 it's not our dating culture. It's modern western culture/feminism. And we don't have to bring it. Your women are slowly adopting it. This isn't something men spread. It's something corporations spread for profitability. Women not only consume more than men, they encourage male consumption that otherwise would not occur. It's up to you guys to hold true to your culture, and not adopt modern western culture.
I agree with wha you said. I believe most men who go to the Philippines aren’t looking to just sleep around. The majority of men are looking for real relationships and marriage. There’s always a few who bring nonsense but the majority are not. Love your channel, salamat po
Its exactly the opposite. Just a handful is searching future Partner. Majority search the fast fun. Just look around Angeles or Manila red light. And i know a few filipinas as friends. Mothers and dad s foreiger and was a short time fun and hes gone.
@@sebs.3917 that’s your experience not mines. I have been going to Manila and Cebu on a regular basis for years and that’s not the case with the men that I know.
They're saying filipina women are uneducated bcuz They're ignorant to who filipina women are. They have no idea most filipina women are college educated.
Thank you for everything i will be there in May and i am looking for a serious relationship.
Great video and she is so right the women here in the USA especially the younger ones are getting ridiculous and for an older guy like me the young ones won't even look at you 🙏💖💋
*I agree! Western men don't complain about the West, but bring the bad habits.* Leave it over there!
The main reason that I want to date a Filipina, aside from their stunning beauty, is that a man making a good salary of over $40000 in the United States is not respected. I make a lot more than that but even I cannot compete with the unrealistic checklist that many western women have.
I can buy a 6 bedroom house in Cebu City or Davao City for under 5 million pesos (about $100000 US) and live quite comfortably. If I choose a Filipina from a province her wildest dreams will come true. That's all that good men want to do. Fulfill their woman's dreams. Filipinas don't require a 6 bedroom mini mansion. That's just an example of how a regular guy like can compete in the Philippines where in the US we just fade out of sight.
It's not anyone's fault. It's just hard economic reality. Maybe more American couples should consider leaving the US for the Philippines together to live best lives
But not allowed to work there in the Philippines. So how earn the 40k yearly still? And not allowed buy land.. Only. Rent house or then house on the Land.
@@sebs.3917 I can work remotely in the Philippines for any company in the world. And if I marry a Filipina I can own land through her. Get your facts straight my friend 😁
Thanks!
The Philippines provides hundreds of thousands of seafarers , and hundreds of thousands of nurses around the world
Both pillows you use has a nice color but I prefer green anyway :)
Thanks for your opinion! I'm glad you like the colors I chose. I'm personally partial to greens too, it's a great color for any home. 💚
@@Rubeauti oh, what a nice green, vege heart ;)
I hate this trend because their fights involve another (asian women). Actually they just need to be apreciated by each other. The american men just need a validation and the american women just need an apreciation.
lol, the one who called western women hyenas is now trying to send them back.. lol No, no, no. No returns.🤣
Nooooo!!!!! Don't sleep with them if there is no Ring on your Finger! nonono!!
This talk is a two way street. Mainly for Hebrew American (“Black”) American men…
How many "Passport Bros" do you actually see in the Philippines? The majority I see are old "Retiree Bros" in the Philippines. It is rare to see forgeinors under 40 in the Philippines that are not vloggers or UA-camrs. Even rarer to see a forgeinor under 40 actually moving to the Philippines permanently. The majority are old retirees.
As Filipina Living here so many foreigner here old and young women and men
Americans are often using "submitted" instead of “devoted”.
If a guy does intend to only "hook-up" with a Filipina and tells her at the start that he only wants a physical relationship, is that frowned upon? I take it the cities are the places to find these women.
Honestly most women I know in person don’t care. This is only a social media phenomenon so please do not pay attention to tik tok. U should know some real western women as well.
Submissive: If you watch Rose Campbell of the Campbell, she is ANYTHING but "submissive!" But then, I guess she is not a "traditional" Filipina!
Funny that you mention!... 😃...You need nothing more to expose the hypocrisy of the Western feminist than to consider the popularity of "Fifty Shades of Grey" against the backdrop of the feminist movement itself. So what that says on her part is that, if you're a Chad, you can do anything you want to me, and I'll consider it "hot". But if you're an Average Joe, you don't deserve me, and I should be able to take money from you just for looking at me (whether that is a lawsuit, and assault charge, or OnlyFans). I'm okay with women having whatever standards they want for men, whether that benefits me or not. That's their perogative. But where the big problem starts is when the feminist tries to commodify her own opinion of men into a market advantage, outright extortion, or even simple mistreatment. Hollywood has spun this generation of Western women out of control with "glass slipper delusion". Hence, here cometh the Passport Bros...Well done, Rubi...
With the woke ideology and equality, a diploma here is for participating in school. Grade doesn't matter anymore. You will get a degree. But in the Philippines, you have to work hard to get a degree. I would not be surprise to see Filipino kids read, write, and be able to do math better than the ones on the West in the same age group. There is a family value in the Philippines. In the West, it is something that is disappearing.
ive been listening to you what you say is tradition is no more than scams poeple loke you deserve filipinos i have never been to asia but i have been out with filipinas the filipinos CHEAT if thats what you want great but dont say we lok for it i have pocked one lady but could have had 50 there are still some beautiful ladies in Philippines so im happy
Thank you for your videos, they're done well. My wife (Filipina) & I (African American) have been married for over 33years and have know each other for over 34. One of the best decisisons I've made. 7 other of my friends did the same and only 2 had big problems but the rest we are intact:) Filipino culture and African American culture have a lot in common and the struggles we both have faced are similiar. Sice the time of the late 1500's ( both involved with Spanish Rule) to the time of the Philippine/American War 1899-1902 etc to Watsonville riots in L.A. to present and much more. Have a Great day and continue the good work. Sige:)
Submission is an act that is expressed mutually and voluntarily. Being submissive helps us to be less self-centered and allows us to consider the desires of others. Submission has nothing to do with being weak, but allows us to be strong enough to open our hearts to others.
Western women is full of insults and bitter comments.that goes to show how sad they are.my filipina girlfriend has only ever been with one man in her whole life.you say that about western women’s. By the time they 18 they sleep with almost ten men already
Filipinas are well-educated and much more beautiful than western women, both physically and emotionally. Filipinas are grateful for the roles and blessings God bestowed upon them, such as the ability to carry and give birth to their beautiful children and to nurture them and teach them to be healthy, smart, and well-mannered. Unlike western women, Filipinas don’t view children as a burden or a curse. They usually become very excited whenever a baby is brought into the room. Their motherly instincts are so much stronger than that of western women. They truly embrace their roles of tending to the needs of the home and family. Also, unlike western women, Filipinas appreciate men who embrace the roles that God gave us, such as providing for the family’s needs, making repairs around the home, protecting the family from harm, and taking responsibility for leading the family through the difficult trials of life. Because of this, Filipinas encourage us to be better men. Western culture is often dysfunctional and toxic. Please remain true to your beautiful Filipino culture and be vigilant in protecting it. God bless you always!
Excellent video but I think us men especially older men especially older black men know better than to "sleep around" with marriagable Filipinas. There's Filipinas who like to have fun and them are the ones we look for. If a man wants to eventually marry one he knows how and where to find one.
Pls do a video on the men from your culture we would like to know as well how they or because it seems your safe and there going to invade your territory w this toxic lifestyle .
Please read, Proverbs 31:10-31 in the Bible.
It's a great example of what a wife should be and in my opinion defines the Filipina babae.
Great video
Really? Now close that book and let a woman do what a woman want do.
@@sebs.3917 read that book
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While I agree with what you mean here, it should be said that you are expressing it in the exact same way that these western women are. It's totally devoid of accountability, as if it's happening to you and you don't have a say. It's childish.
Solve your own problem, and don't sleep with these men that you don't know. If you are sleeping with them, the you're making the exact same choice that they and the western women are making.
Hello from America, the problem here is most women who were in a bad relationship don't take time to heal thier mind body and soul, they jump from one to another and treat the next guy as if it was their fault. And if you don't pay for something the argument is on. I for one am scared of these women they just want to take what you have worked so hard for, True story guy meets girl, she moved in. One day they had argument. Next day she goes to court house got P.F.A against him, he got kicked out of his own house, now homeless and lost his job. This is what the American court system does to men. These women just want to make men pay for them any way they can. They are vicious. This is how bad it has become in my country. I stay by myself 10 yrs now because of this mentality of these women.we have no chance because the courts believe them. If you have a child with a woman 40 to 50% of pay goes for child support. Another 25 to 30% for taxes, that leaves a man with 25% of his pay to live on. That's for eighteen yrs. Some states your paying thru college. The American dream is dead, has been for a long time, that's why we are coming there. Just keep being the way you are and we as men will gladly take care of all the wants and needs. Let these American women see what they have done to us. They had their chance, oh my wedding has to be a hundred thousand dollars, my engagement ring should be ten thousand dollars, I want a ten thousand dollar vacation. My vehicle should be a Lexus 80 to 100.000 I'm not lying, house 200 to 400 hundred thousand. We are done with this. And these princess.
Filipinas be careful. Half these men just go there for fun and aren't serious. Take your time and get to know each other and look out for red flags. I went to the Philippines and put a ring on my ladies finger and married her and proved my love and commitment to my wife but have seen many Filipina heartbroken by men who are players and jerks
Hi Rebeauti
Are all you vloggers following the same script? Don't follow the crowd, they are usually wrong. "Passport Bros" is beyond juvenile. It might get attention until common sense kicks in. Bashing wester women in hopes of making yourself look good never works. And that's putting it nicely.
Ladies I will visit the Phillipines one day soon hopefully. I admire the beauty of you beautiful dark skinned Islanders. Not as much the ones trying to look more European. I appreciate your traditions and conservative attitudes. The women here in the USA are not like our grandmothers and mothers who were more traditional also. That is one reason I am leaving. The attitude is too much and it is ungodly to me as a believer. I hope I don't come there to learn that you all act like the lost sheep here so stay sweet.
One might hope to get away from modern Western broken women for an hour or two here. 🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂 I ❤ your vlogs, you know I love to tease 🤭 I´m such a child...
Passport bro, here! Single & Ready to Mingle'
Lol.
Good advice about the Filipino woman I learned a little something about your video yes I have been to Philippines many times love the women there they let the man be a man and they are submissive to the man unlike these American women
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Good video until "... especially if it's mixed you know it's beautiful..."
Can you explain what you meant by that?
@@johnclark8637 that I get, but feel this was an overt expression of colorism.
Hello Rubeauti, I really hope that Western men do not import our dating culture to the Philippines. I think that if you are not happy with your (Western) dating culture, why would you want to import it into another country.
I'm a Passport Bro and I love Filipino women, the best women in the world. I want a wife from the Philippines.
We think the Passport bros are coming to take advantage of Filipina because some of the men that do sometimes have narcissistic qualities
The Passport Bros now have an alliance hahaha
GOOD POINTS BUT STILL POOR......EVEN WITH DEGREE....
MOGUL..
You guys have a cute accent. Very cute. Lol.
In the future passport bro and asian movie fight find love their own country like happened to the asian american men in america what happened to the filipino men hard to find a date to . Like in the asian american in the USA hard to find a date to you are asian men in america
Oh my,all the Tawnshonkwa`s and Loquacias and Shaniquas will be hating on you.....long time. How dare you be feminine,bright,charming and desirable!!!! Stop it!