After working in Saudi and Qatar for the past 6 years I don’t really see an issue with it. The first time I heard one of my colleagues talk about his second mom so casually it kind of blew my mind, but after asking him some questions and getting his perspective I could see why he was so comfortable with it; same thing with the friends I have made here. In my opinion, after working here for so many years, if everyone is happy in that kind of relationship and taken care of then let them be 💁🏽♂️
At least 95% of all heterosexual men, in some point of his life, has wished he could sleep with more than one woman at one time. They may not have acted on it, but at some point in their life time they have definitely thought about it. That being said, getting together with 2 or more women together at one time is one thing if it is something that happens every so often. But to live in the same house together night after night??? My filipina can get jealous and mad at ME if another woman looks at me long enough. Why would I put myself through that with three of them?
@GlobalismoBlackman I did also hahaha... Philippines, Thailand and here in US. Some were great a few others not really. Main point though is we have all thought about it.
I lived with 2 women and we use to have 3 somes on a regular basis . I got tired of them and I slipped away from them I Lived in LA and moved to Nashville. I deleted my facebook and all social media accounts , I went back to LA 3 years later and my friend said one is homeless and the other one is staying with a 63 year old man 😂😂💀💀💀💀
Myself I've always been a one woman man because I don't want any kind of drama in my life. I have my Filipina and she has always made me very happy and has shown me just how bad the women in my past really destroyed my life and my mental stability.
My girls work as a team. There was a terrible flood in Misamis. You there in the PI, know the trouble and trauma. My little pinay band, take care of clean up, child care, shopping, rebuilding and meal prep. #1 gf manages the other two by assigning proper tasks etc. I’m always amazed at how they function as a unit.
Im one of those rare guys that can only handle 1 lady at a time. I see having more than 1 lady connected to my heart or more than 1 person in general gives me too much of a headache and I stop giving as much attention as I usually do. I'm best with just 1 person connected to me on a deep level. My lady didn't believe me at first but she found out I was pretty serious about tolerating only 1 person at a time.
I live in davao.. I am like you... I have no interest in multiple simultaneous relationships especially in my personal life... as well as not dating any woman that is still married to another man by law... its just my preference... the lack of the drama is priceless emotionally not to mention physically.
It comes down to what he can afford as a man. Many rich/celebrity men have multiple women. Sometimes they cohabitate or they come on different days. Based on the video you showed, he lives better than most Filipino. His house was large and very modern. The question is if he was poor/unpopular would he have this situation? Most likely not. 😉
I can see the allure for young people just starting out... What I want to see are stats of real, legally married arrangements like this about 10-20 years later, and see how they fared with the test of time... 😉
@@7294smk Are you saying polygyny is not Christian? Polygyny is a form of marriage that u can participate in within christianity. Another way to put it: God does not have a problem with it and Jesus doesn't have a problem with it.
I agree it's his life to choose. Be honest with yourself, does he TRULY look happy? If he was he wouldn't keep needing time ALONE. NOT once was he smiling, he's walking away from the women, he can't give any one of them his full attention. To me, he certainly does NOT look happy.
@@Rubeauti Yeah, he’s basically bragging and showing how overly sexual his entire lifestyle is. It really looks dumb. It would be different if he was showing that his wives are all well mannered, and that he takes good care of them. I would have no issue with that
One of the things you have to remember about youtube channels (especially relationship ones) is that things are not always as they seem. Considering that all of them have channels, it is possible that they are all monetized , all making money and all supporting each others channel for more money. Considering the lower cost of living in the Philippines, adsense is probably more than enough to live off comfortably. All this for acting for a short period of time. I see so many fake videos on youtube (especially the shorts) where the people have obviously set up the situation for the camera. One in particular I saw was pretending someone broke into the house while the wife was there. She didn't see the thief somehow. It was apparently caught on cctv (in portrait with no date / time stamp). Looking at their other videos the same type of things were happening. Strangely enough, the same people kept appearing in the videos (whether it be the robber or the girlfriend / boyfriend) Many "influencers" have been caught out faking stuff. Whether it is travelling to holiday spots or flying in first class, it happens. I know of a shop in a shopping centre I've visited where they have sets for selfie pictures. You pay a fee to enter and you can go taking heaps of photos. From outside, it looks like a massive store. I'm not sure how many sets there are but I could see plenty from the entrance. Of course I'm not going to pay to go in there and take selfies (waste of money and I'm not vain like that)
There is nothing wrong with this. I've seen filipinas with multiple boyfriends and vice versa. The only difference here is that the girls get along. Which I believe is better, no reason to hide it.
That’s where you are wrong. Soon they will be at each other’s throat. Specially when kids come out. And any man that allows a woman to have multiple men is not a real man.
@@louditalian1962 Say what you say. I'm just a realist. Most women don't want you, unless you have a gf. This scenario is more common than you think. It's not about your personal opinion. It is what it is.
@@Rubeauti Are you sure? Have you ever heard the name Raffy Tulfo? Maybe you should watch a couple of his videos. There's plenty of scenarios where men and women have more than one partner.
@@Rubeauti That's cap I know many Pinoys who have side gf or secret wife. I have been around Filipinos community in the UK and Ireland for almost 20 years. I have heard lots of crazy stories lol 😂. Yes it's frowned upon in The Philippines but it happens a lot more than you think.
This situation seems to work for now. Hopefully, they can make this work without conflict. I much prefer the simplicity of one woman with whom I can interact, but that is only my thought!
They are young and have money so its good for now, but this only looks like friends with benefits. It's a superficial love weather they know it or not. It will never be a deep love connection but some people will never know deep love anyway!
❤Wanna share my thoughts as well Mam pasensya na if its so long: 1. The issue with OUR culture & society is that we are obsessed "Monogamy" alot without even realizing that it dosen't apply to all eversince.
We know about this because of Mormon families. When the women break away from polygamist families day talk about the truth and how it is not good for the women or children.
In all honesty, if you can love each one equally, can devout your time to each ones needs, have enough money to support them all well, and can keep your bedroom stamina up, there really shouldn't be any reason why you can't have two or three wives. It's literally nobody's buissness since it's such a personal thing and doesn't affect society at large. If we are willing to "tolerate" all these truly crazy lifestyles in our modern age, why not "polygyny" as well? At least it's healthy. For myself, I know I can love more than one woman at a time. Other men might be zonked after dealing with just one. It's preference at the end, nothing more. No one is forced or anything weird like that. Just one man in love with three women, and three women in love with the same man. In this way, they don't have to fight over him, and he doesn't have to choose. No broken hearts. It's quite literally win-win for all involved. The only reason it's not done in the west is cause of religion, and lack of funds to do it in the first place. Men generally - and historically - were never designed to only be with one woman. Naturally, once more, this is entirely up to the man in question and the women he's involved with. Simple.
@@Rubeauti In my life I was always popular. At school, job, whatever. I was the nice dude who made everyone smile, and I still am. As a result I was always technically "taken" by several girls at a time. This worked quite well since there was an understanding that I didn't want to hurt anyone by choosing, and they all knew each other anyway, so we all just winged it with something similar to this here. I was a young, proper, western man at the time and the idea rocked my world haha! I encountered something similar again later on in my life, but the point is that it's actually not that complicated to do. So long as you make sure everyone is on the same page, make sure everyone are friends first, and you make sure the women in question are NOT Westernized as much as you can, it becomes a very natural relationship that a man is designed for. You may feel complete with one person; but one person can only fulfill so much of your heart. And to be honest, I truly did feel more complete with multiple partners instead of being "stuck" with just one. A man that has multiple partners probably won't have the need to cheat either haha I think the idea of polygyny is going to become more and more popular as time goes on, especially with the western man heading to other countries like the Philippines where it's a little more realistic and understanding :)
From personal experience I have seen people in such kind of relationship have the nasties fights and break ups usually in a 5 years or less. Specially when kids are involved, the mothers would want their own kids to revive the father attention and resources. This guy is full of bad choices like his haircut.
@@Rubeauti Well he got that bald pattern head that looks like a dropped balut. A relative I knew was living with two bi women, he was living the teenage boy dream, but those dreams don’t last. Eventually one of the girls got pregnant and once she gave birth the whole dynamic changed, there was a lot more tension on the household; the baby would cry at cry at night how they usually do by the woman who wants the mother would get irritated and pinch it, the man thought it was jealousy and gave her a baby which turned the heat up even more and now both women were literally fighting for their offsprings. Another thing is that there is always a favorite which leads to unnecessary drama and although a man having multiple wives tends to be unfair for the women, a woman having multiple boyfriends usually leads to violent physical clashes.
Responsibility is key here. As long as the man can support the ladies and provides them a better life, specially in the Philippines, then I don't see any issues with it. Its the so called passport bros who goes there to take advantage of the impoverished young girls, impregnates them, then leave them for the next one. That is problematic to a country who already have many single mothers raising kids on their own.
I REALLY LOVE THIS IDEA OF MORE THAN ONE WIFE BECAUSE I SEE THE VALUE IN IT PLUS IT HELPS MORE WOMEN IN THE LONG TERM 😂🎉 & SO WHY NOT GIVE THEM A HELPING HAND IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT!!!
That looks more like polyamory. They are just less discreet than in most common polyamory groups. I don't really mind about that if everybody feels fine in that kind of dynamic. The structure can be very different from one group to another, btw. Thanks for this great video.
Just let them do whatever they want. No harm no foul. If they do it for money, okay they have fun and make money good for them. If they do it out of love even better. I dont know why it matters if they are 4, 8 or 143 living together and sleeping with a schedule.
@@Rubeauti Well, but why is it a bad rolemodel? Who sais what is good or bad. If those 4 people do what makes them happy the rolemodel is: Live your life the way you like it. Regardless of what others say. (As long as you dont harm anyone) There is worse role models in my opinion. Everyone who drinks alcohol, smokes, does crime, beat their wife, cheat their husband and so on... all way worse than that
@@Rubeauti i dont know why it is harmful, it is always the thing since the beginning of time. Women only want men that are better than them, but with feminism, there aren't that many men that are so attractive, therefore you will have to share them. There is only two options: settle with a low value man and being unsatisfied with the rest of her life because deep down she knows she is settling, or, share a high value man and be happy and learn how to co-living with the other women.
Interesting Miss Rubeauti. Definitely this is a business. I’m married to a Filipina now for many years. There is no way I could handle more than one Filipina. Sometimes I am exhausted from the activities. Good luck if you have more than one but I am happy with just one.
As a Biblical Christian I have a higher standard given from God. Other religions do allow polygamy but the NT sets the ideal from creation when Jesus said "male and female he created them" it was just Adam and Eve not Adam, Eve, Sally, Sarah and Suzie. Paul set the standard that Church leaders must be "One woman men" 1Tim.3:2,12 & Tit.1:6. Examples of Polygamy in the OT almost always have bad results. My one wife is enough for me, my life is complete.
I have always been a one woman man, even while I have been married to women who who don’t always believe in that life, living in the US. I am a firm believer of the vows that I share at the ceremony, and I would rather be with someone who wants to be a one man woman. If someone wants a multi partner wife, they are good for them. Not my cup of tea!😊😊😊
Whether or not we feel if it's right or wrong, if no laws are violated, then it's not our place to judge. It's the same if we judge someone for their gender decisions.
3. So in easy words there is nothin wrong with polygamy / promiscuousity as long there is authenticity, honesty, boundaries, & consent. After all "humans carry the biological imprint of polygamy - so why r we monogamous?"
Thanks for sharing. I can recall having read that when Magellan and his crew arrived in what today is the Philippines, his friend Antonio Pigafetta wrote that polygamy or bigami seemed to be practiced among some of the locals. Anyway, this kind of lifestyle can probably be very difficult, unless all parties involved are genuinely happy about it and not jealous. Myself, I would try out with 2 women, ha ha. It should be enough at my age. But I am fine also with just one, of course. Better one than none. The more, the merriier, LOL.
If the women and man are being taken care of, protected and supported, this man is doing his job and the benefits are definitely more beneficial than just one. Now, I have to admit that this lifestyle is definitely not for everyone, especially if you're scared of people's opinions.
2. Coming from a fellow netizen named Prince Tajani: "Truly, polygamy vs. monogamy ends up being a CHOICE because you have the power to decide which one you will practice. If you know you are polygamous, you have the choice to not get involved in monogamous relationships & vice versa. That is a lifestyle choice. Being polygamous does not make anyone bad, & being monogamous does not make one a saint. The system is only for men who are morally sound & can be just among wives as long as he knows the religious conditions that apply to a man when he remarries & he is willing to fulfill them. He must also be a good husband to his first wife, treats her well & fulfills all her physical, emotional & financial rights, & he intends to continue doing so even after getting married to you. To the sympathetic ladies; do not waste your time trying to form a coalition of relationship police, to convince people who are fulfilled in their relationships that they are suffering because they are in a polygamous marriage or because they are living out an idea of relationship that is inconsistent with yours. Some of the champions of one man one wife, are actually secretly in polygamous affairs, but are just enjoying the controversy that generates followers & comments for social media revenue. Know the kind of man/woman you are & the relationship that suits you. There is no kind of marriage without challenges & the challenges in a marriage are a reflection of the people in it, not a sign that the marriage itself is bad. Marriage is not a forced thing & no kind of marriage is forced. Make your choice, live by it & live with it. "
Thank you for your thoughtful insight! 🤗 I appreciate the reminder that relationships are ultimately choices and that the challenges we face are reflections of ourselves.
The correct term for this is a Polyamorous relationship. I've had a short one in the Philippines. Me and two girls, it was nice for all 3 of us. Especially for a masculine man and very feminine girls like that. There are hardly any masculine me in the philippines (just walk down any street in any city, any island, count how many men have facial hair), and tons of pretty girls most attracted to masculine, so yea many many of them are okay with this type of relationship. There's also the fact there's a massive amount of trans girls there, and hardly any trans men which further unbalances the sexes. But yea for it to really work the best, the man also has to be the provider and rich enough to support both / all 3. I think this guy would be happier with just two, 3 is a lot to handle, thus why he needs so much alone time.
Majority of women in philippines have a love affair with Filipino dramas and Korean drams... Knowing this will give you an idea of what Majority of philippine women will choose... you ended up with low value women ,who are probably rejected by the local men....LOL
@@pinoysarisari7374I’m Hispanic and traveled to the Philippines. Most older foreigners end up with left over Filipinas. Younger guys do better but if they’re not aware of the culture and immersed, most Filipinas actually seem to be scared of younger foreign guys. As to the local dating scene within Filipinos themselves, it’s like in the west. The majority of the Filipinas aren’t dating anyone, the ones that are dating are only dating a select few of the Filipino guys. It seems to me that if a Filipino or Filipina that’s older than 21 and isn’t married or in a long term relationship by then, they’re usually left over, men or women.
I draw the line at 2 female partners, but the three of us have a more intimate, and perhaps less business-centric relationship. We just love being together, sleep, eat and play together, for the most part, although each of us has some occasional alone time. My two girls are both bisexual, and love each other as much as they love me. It's worked well for many years. I don't wish for more girls, simply because, for me, satisfying, and attending to the needs of my girls is the most important thing, and two is the most I can handle, and give each one the attention and love they need. I believe that, as long as all are happy, safe, and fulfilled, there should be no rules or boundaries that stand in the way of having the kind of family you choose to have.
I have been wondering about this. I knew it was legal for Muslims, but I wasn't sure about other religions. See, my wife and I are Pagan, and there isn't a definite definition in paganism in marriage. Some Pagans practice monogamy, and some practice polygamy. Now my wife wants me to take on a sister wife or two (notice, I said this is her idea), but here in the states it isn't legal. So I had thought about the Philippines. See, I want the other woman to be protected, and to have some security. Here in the States if a polychute falls apart, then the extra person not actually married to one of the other are simply out on their own. I don't like this. I feel that all involved should have some security. Most guys would think it's lucky to have multiple partners, but they fail to take in account that all must be treated equally. Each one deserves the same time and energy. This is difficult to do. Not to mention, that in arguments you can't really take sides. You have to be un the middle, and help them to work it out.
Caring is sharing! In traditional Filipino culture, many men had multiple wives. The Spanish wrote about it, but the Catholic Church put an end to it, except for the Muslims. Most cultures around the world had polygamy at one time. Also, men and women roles are different in a relationship. Men are not to be a second mother.
Thank you for your interesting insight! It's fascinating to learn about the traditional Filipino culture and different roles that men and women have in relationships. I appreciate your thoughtful comment! 🙏
To be honest i would not mind to experience that in my life time three cute Philliphino serving me. I think I might consider moving to Philliphines really fast. However I can understand it might be very very tiring, cause I know if I do some business one day I don’t think I can do until few days to recover. Otherwise I will get sick.
I totally agree with you, this is just like a business arrangements. Their just using each other for the contents of their vlogs No morals values and it degrades woman’s values.
Hha I think more than two would be a headache. But I am not surprised...wealth and status motivates women to do all kinds of things. Outside of that, they will follow the trends of society such as monogamy, wearing makeup and heels, smoking cigarettes etc.
He's a rapper, so of course he will go on video to show off relationships w/ multiple women. And the ladies are just enjoying the lifestyle and everything that comes w/ it.
Not from the Philippines but I have two partners, our relationship is a very strong one (6 years) However we put a huge amount of thought into how our relationship works, I'm straight my partners are bi sexual (equal opportunity) . It's a triangular relationship everyone is everyone else's partner committed to only the 3 of us, everyone supports everyone else mentally, emotionally, Physically. If someone wants time alone with the other then we allow it (usually its me everyone wants because im home the least). Work, chores, child raising are shared and split ensuring one parent is always at home with the children. That being said as the guy it is absolutely exhausting, I lead the household, I work the most, getting time for just me is rare but it was already rare thanks to the modern Western work culture (i actually have a little more time now then i used now that there's an extra person dividing other chores and time with). Then satisfying two females on top but its not all threesomes and high fives those are actually few and far between time alone with someone is time alone including s@x (its good they are also with each other because if im to tired i can tell them to play with each other until im rested 🤣) . Issues of jealousy or insecurity are rectified by the group. Communication & effort is paramount . As the dad I have double the child responsibilities. I'm the voice of reason in the house. I lead the household but also have two different opinions to consider (which strangely has been incredibly beneficial if not a little tiring as 3 different opinions and perspectives leads to better decisions). But at the end of the day as tiring as it is as long as my family thrives I'm happy to bust my ass for all of them. It's not what I wanted I was always a monogamous dude our relationship was more a way to adapt to the changing times in the west. Many households now have two working parents that are rarely ever home and everything is more expensive especially now with fake shortages to drive prices up, our news media did a story recently about potatoe shortages when theres a potato farm 45min drive away throwing out the their harvest because the companies want to buy said stock below market value and farmers wont sell for less i digress and two parent families are struggling we don't have this issue now everyone works but now everyone gets time at home to be parents and to spend time together. 3 to work, 3 to do chores, 3 to raise children, 3 to build the home. Though funny story a woman at my work was trying to initiate an office affair and wouldn't take no for an answer so she started spreading rumours. I was eventually approached by HR and I'll never forget the look on the that bloated woman's face when I told her my side then said "I have to women at home to satisfy why would I waste my precious energy on someone else? My dude tube is already over worked, much like i am here!"
I would hate to use the word "influencer" and him in the same sentence. This isn't the type of "influence" young adults need. They need proper family values, work ethics, taking pride in what they do. I think you're wrong on one thing, they may all be sitting at the same table eating, but they're not TOGETHER, they're all on their own phones in their own little world doing their own thing. I think he thought he would enjoy having 3 women around, but now it's not as much fun as he thought it was going to be. You can see from his reactions, body language, and what he says, he's not into it any more, and feels trapped and doesn't know how to get out of it. If you can't make 1 woman happy, why would ever think you will keep 3 happy, and remain happy yourself. You can't devote any time and energy to any one of them. His time has to be split between them all, and he realized he had no time for himself, which is why he's constantly on the couch and eating alone. It is his life to choose what he does with it. Me personally, 1 woman is all I want and need, someone to focus on and give all of my attention to.
Never heard of these influencers before. I am not worried about polyamorous relationships becoming a trend. Who'd want to deal with more than one set of in-laws?? 😆
If he can support them and the ensuing children I do not see a problem with it. This form of family arrangement has been part of human culture for tens of thousands of years.
Group marriage is not actually Polygamy. It falls under Polyfidelity; which is similar, but not the same. There are three Poly groups within the Poly Community; Polygamy, Polyfidelity, and Polyamory. Polygamy is maybe more conservative, Polyamory is more liberal; Polyfidelity is somewhere in between. The third "Polygamous" relationship is what we call "a Bisexual Polygamist". "Polygamy" is where one person has more then one spouse. The spouse's are not intimate with one another, only the head of the house. So a Bisexual Polygamist would have a husband and a wife; but those two would not have "relations" with one another, only the head of household. Hope that makes since. Now... If the spouse's in the "Bisexual Polygamist" relationship become intimate and everyone is ok with this, they are no longer Polygamists; the are now Polyfidelity. Group marriage's are almost always Polyfidelity. I'm not Poly anymore, but I use to be a leader in the Poly Community. So I'm fairly up on things when it comes to that subject.
Wow 🫣I really hope the young Filipinas don’t start to be influenced by this garbage. Love is between 2 people end of story. Happy or not is not their problems this guy is plainly stroking his own ego with this nonsense flexing.
i'm suprised you didnt include David Bond in this video, he's doing the same thing but with up to 5 girls at a time. Everyone in the Philippines is talking about it
This is a polyamorous relationship, not polygamy, and it is every man's dream. But few are insane enough to want to marry, because then it turns into a nightmare.
He likes that phone more than the girls… even sneaks off to a separate room to be alone with his true love (phone). He’d rather do a zoom mtg for more time with that phone instead of being at the hospital. If that thing makes the smallest noise he is all over it. I’m just saying… he should drop the chicks and just marry the phone 😂
If a man can fully support each woman emotionally and financially AND all of the women get along without jealousy and drama, then I really don't see anything wrong with it. It amazes me that more people are okay with same sex marriages but have a problem with polygamy. Make it make sense.
The guy is just a pimp. Polygamy is good for those for whom it works. It's kind of like saying homosexual people should marry people of the opposite sex its not going to work. It doesn't work. Likewise, there are structures that work monogamy or polygamy. I was brought up by two women my mother and her sister. They shared this kid with no problems, but it psychologically predisposed me to having two wives. I had a philippino wife who left me for another man. She cheated on me and fixed me up with another woman. I resisted this, turning down five of them and the final on seemed to have a closer relationship with my wife. That was the trigger I fell in love with her. 48 hours later, all hell breaks loose. Anyway, that woman had a kid who never had a father because my wife, who brought her in, rejected her. For all of these women abandoned with kids, it seems like a good idea. Regarding Christianity, there is no prohibition. There just isn't.
My father had 4 wives, and my uncle had 2 wives. I liked it when I was a child, I had 4 mothers who love me. My father bought a home for each wife, and he had his own house, too. The husband has to be rich, and wives can't be selfish. There are more women than men, so if every woman wanted to get married, that would be impossible.
It's a very ancient practice, maybe because so many children died very young in ancient times? Maybe because it was seen as a way of showing off wealth, the fact that a man can support so many women in the days when women were treated as property? If everyone is happy and all the people are willing participants, its up to them I feel? Not for me personally, I prefer to have one heart next to mine 😊 ❤😘
Idk why it would be controversial. I know I would enjoy this and I fully intend on it as an American who will be traveling. 🤷🏾♂️ I personally think the people should mind their business. It’s their life to choose whatever they want to do with it.
What if the girls choose? If the primary brought the sisters, what is the issue? The girls I know, share kids, duties, care of Tatay and Nanay. They take care of each other.
@Rubeauti From my experience I know Filipinas are fiercely competitive and jealous even dating one Filipina. Dating 3 Filipinas at the same time wow this is unthinkable a few decades ago. So are young generation of Filipinas now becoming liberated like western matrix women? Hmmmm 🤔🤔🤔. This looks like a business with benefits set up arrangements lol 🤣😂🤣. More power to Pinoy King 👑 Casanova 😁😂
Polygamy is only a possibility if a man has lots of money... and patience.
After working in Saudi and Qatar for the past 6 years I don’t really see an issue with it. The first time I heard one of my colleagues talk about his second mom so casually it kind of blew my mind, but after asking him some questions and getting his perspective I could see why he was so comfortable with it; same thing with the friends I have made here. In my opinion, after working here for so many years, if everyone is happy in that kind of relationship and taken care of then let them be 💁🏽♂️
At least 95% of all heterosexual men, in some point of his life, has wished he could sleep with more than one woman at one time. They may not have acted on it, but at some point in their life time they have definitely thought about it. That being said, getting together with 2 or more women together at one time is one thing if it is something that happens every so often. But to live in the same house together night after night??? My filipina can get jealous and mad at ME if another woman looks at me long enough. Why would I put myself through that with three of them?
Yeah during my wild days in PH I did lol 🤣😂
@GlobalismoBlackman I did also hahaha... Philippines, Thailand and here in US. Some were great a few others not really. Main point though is we have all thought about it.
Because you are submissive.
@@Frivals Ooo, look someone knows the word submissive. Want a cookie?
I lived with 2 women and we use to have 3 somes on a regular basis . I got tired of them and I slipped away from them I Lived in LA and moved to Nashville. I deleted my facebook and all social media accounts , I went back to LA 3 years later and my friend said one is homeless and the other one is staying with a 63 year old man 😂😂💀💀💀💀
Myself I've always been a one woman man because I don't want any kind of drama in my life. I have my Filipina and she has always made me very happy and has shown me just how bad the women in my past really destroyed my life and my mental stability.
My girls work as a team. There was a terrible flood in Misamis. You there in the PI, know the trouble and trauma. My little pinay band, take care of clean up, child care, shopping, rebuilding and meal prep. #1 gf manages the other two by assigning proper tasks etc. I’m always amazed at how they function as a unit.
Good man!
Lol 🤣😂😂
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I can't even have 1!!!! This is BS good for him
Im one of those rare guys that can only handle 1 lady at a time. I see having more than 1 lady connected to my heart or more than 1 person in general gives me too much of a headache and I stop giving as much attention as I usually do. I'm best with just 1 person connected to me on a deep level. My lady didn't believe me at first but she found out I was pretty serious about tolerating only 1 person at a time.
I can barely love myself
I live in davao.. I am like you... I have no interest in multiple simultaneous relationships especially in my personal life... as well as not dating any woman that is still married to another man by law... its just my preference... the lack of the drama is priceless emotionally not to mention physically.
It comes down to what he can afford as a man. Many rich/celebrity men have multiple women. Sometimes they cohabitate or they come on different days. Based on the video you showed, he lives better than most Filipino. His house was large and very modern. The question is if he was poor/unpopular would he have this situation? Most likely not. 😉
I can see the allure for young people just starting out... What I want to see are stats of real, legally married arrangements like this about 10-20 years later, and see how they fared with the test of time... 😉
What’s foresights??? 😂
@@nickgustin Where did I say that here? 🤔
@@Rubeauti This is gross. Its not Christian.
@@7294smk Are you saying polygyny is not Christian? Polygyny is a form of marriage that u can participate in within christianity. Another way to put it: God does not have a problem with it and Jesus doesn't have a problem with it.
Different strokes for different folks. As long as they’re happy.
Facts
I agree it's his life to choose. Be honest with yourself, does he TRULY look happy? If he was he wouldn't keep needing time ALONE. NOT once was he smiling, he's walking away from the women, he can't give any one of them his full attention. To me, he certainly does NOT look happy.
Anytime someone does stuff like this (posting about 3 wives) for social media, it’s always clownish behavior
@@Rubeauti Yeah, he’s basically bragging and showing how overly sexual his entire lifestyle is. It really looks dumb. It would be different if he was showing that his wives are all well mannered, and that he takes good care of them. I would have no issue with that
One of the things you have to remember about youtube channels (especially relationship ones) is that things are not always as they seem. Considering that all of them have channels, it is possible that they are all monetized , all making money and all supporting each others channel for more money. Considering the lower cost of living in the Philippines, adsense is probably more than enough to live off comfortably. All this for acting for a short period of time.
I see so many fake videos on youtube (especially the shorts) where the people have obviously set up the situation for the camera. One in particular I saw was pretending someone broke into the house while the wife was there. She didn't see the thief somehow. It was apparently caught on cctv (in portrait with no date / time stamp). Looking at their other videos the same type of things were happening. Strangely enough, the same people kept appearing in the videos (whether it be the robber or the girlfriend / boyfriend)
Many "influencers" have been caught out faking stuff. Whether it is travelling to holiday spots or flying in first class, it happens. I know of a shop in a shopping centre I've visited where they have sets for selfie pictures. You pay a fee to enter and you can go taking heaps of photos. From outside, it looks like a massive store. I'm not sure how many sets there are but I could see plenty from the entrance. Of course I'm not going to pay to go in there and take selfies (waste of money and I'm not vain like that)
There is nothing wrong with this. I've seen filipinas with multiple boyfriends and vice versa. The only difference here is that the girls get along. Which I believe is better, no reason to hide it.
That’s where you are wrong. Soon they will be at each other’s throat. Specially when kids come out. And any man that allows a woman to have multiple men is not a real man.
@@louditalian1962 Say what you say. I'm just a realist. Most women don't want you, unless you have a gf. This scenario is more common than you think. It's not about your personal opinion. It is what it is.
@@Rubeauti Are you sure? Have you ever heard the name Raffy Tulfo? Maybe you should watch a couple of his videos. There's plenty of scenarios where men and women have more than one partner.
@@Rubeauti That's cap I know many Pinoys who have side gf or secret wife. I have been around Filipinos community in the UK and Ireland for almost 20 years. I have heard lots of crazy stories lol 😂. Yes it's frowned upon in The Philippines but it happens a lot more than you think.
This situation seems to work for now. Hopefully, they can make this work without conflict. I much
prefer the simplicity of one woman with whom I can interact, but that is only my thought!
Double the fun, quadruple the headache.
If you in vest a gate be fore the Spanish came to the Philippines you will find out it was comman too have more than one partner..
This part.
Wow that's crazy it's all good for now when you're young when you're older that's what the s*** hits the fan
They are young and have money so its good for now, but this only looks like friends with benefits. It's a superficial love weather they know it or not. It will never be a deep love connection but some people will never know deep love anyway!
They're happy on the outside. We don't know how they feel on the inside.
For sure the dude is ssoo happy..
❤Wanna share my thoughts as well Mam pasensya na if its so long:
1. The issue with OUR culture & society is that we are obsessed "Monogamy" alot without even realizing that it dosen't apply to all eversince.
Thanks for bringing this up! I appreciate your perspective and understand why this is important to consider. 🤔
@@RubeautiI Appreciate ur understanding as well❤ more power to you🎉
The guy seems a bit weird and he loves himself too much.
If they're not married, it's called polyamory
No way more than one partner for me. Who needs that stress and for what? WHY?????
@@Rubeauti Yes, that is for sure. But it is a very dear commitment to love a woman.
He’s a smart businessman with a good business model. Same as many other people making money from social media and trending businesses.
We know about this because of Mormon families. When the women break away from polygamist families day talk about the truth and how it is not good for the women or children.
In all honesty, if you can love each one equally, can devout your time to each ones needs, have enough money to support them all well, and can keep your bedroom stamina up, there really shouldn't be any reason why you can't have two or three wives. It's literally nobody's buissness since it's such a personal thing and doesn't affect society at large. If we are willing to "tolerate" all these truly crazy lifestyles in our modern age, why not "polygyny" as well? At least it's healthy.
For myself, I know I can love more than one woman at a time. Other men might be zonked after dealing with just one. It's preference at the end, nothing more. No one is forced or anything weird like that. Just one man in love with three women, and three women in love with the same man. In this way, they don't have to fight over him, and he doesn't have to choose. No broken hearts. It's quite literally win-win for all involved.
The only reason it's not done in the west is cause of religion, and lack of funds to do it in the first place. Men generally - and historically - were never designed to only be with one woman. Naturally, once more, this is entirely up to the man in question and the women he's involved with. Simple.
@@Rubeauti In my life I was always popular. At school, job, whatever. I was the nice dude who made everyone smile, and I still am. As a result I was always technically "taken" by several girls at a time. This worked quite well since there was an understanding that I didn't want to hurt anyone by choosing, and they all knew each other anyway, so we all just winged it with something similar to this here. I was a young, proper, western man at the time and the idea rocked my world haha!
I encountered something similar again later on in my life, but the point is that it's actually not that complicated to do. So long as you make sure everyone is on the same page, make sure everyone are friends first, and you make sure the women in question are NOT Westernized as much as you can, it becomes a very natural relationship that a man is designed for. You may feel complete with one person; but one person can only fulfill so much of your heart. And to be honest, I truly did feel more complete with multiple partners instead of being "stuck" with just one. A man that has multiple partners probably won't have the need to cheat either haha
I think the idea of polygyny is going to become more and more popular as time goes on, especially with the western man heading to other countries like the Philippines where it's a little more realistic and understanding :)
From personal experience I have seen people in such kind of relationship have the nasties fights and break ups usually in a 5 years or less. Specially when kids are involved, the mothers would want their own kids to revive the father attention and resources.
This guy is full of bad choices like his haircut.
@@Rubeauti Well he got that bald pattern head that looks like a dropped balut. A relative I knew was living with two bi women, he was living the teenage boy dream, but those dreams don’t last. Eventually one of the girls got pregnant and once she gave birth the whole dynamic changed, there was a lot more tension on the household; the baby would cry at cry at night how they usually do by the woman who wants the mother would get irritated and pinch it, the man thought it was jealousy and gave her a baby which turned the heat up even more and now both women were literally fighting for their offsprings. Another thing is that there is always a favorite which leads to unnecessary drama and although a man having multiple wives tends to be unfair for the women, a woman having multiple boyfriends usually leads to violent physical clashes.
Responsibility is key here. As long as the man can support the ladies and provides them a better life, specially in the Philippines, then I don't see any issues with it. Its the so called passport bros who goes there to take advantage of the impoverished young girls, impregnates them, then leave them for the next one. That is problematic to a country who already have many single mothers raising kids on their own.
I REALLY LOVE THIS IDEA OF MORE THAN ONE WIFE BECAUSE I SEE THE VALUE IN IT PLUS IT HELPS MORE WOMEN IN THE LONG TERM 😂🎉 & SO WHY NOT GIVE THEM A HELPING HAND IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT!!!
Lets see how things work out for him in a Decade...
9 years to go
That looks more like polyamory. They are just less discreet than in most common polyamory groups. I don't really mind about that if everybody feels fine in that kind of dynamic. The structure can be very different from one group to another, btw. Thanks for this great video.
This is polygyny, not polyamory.
@@hondosolomon They aren't married, so that is polyamory.
I’m not into the polygamy. The main reason is one woman is enough trouble as is.
Polygamy is illegal
But multiple sexual partners is not!
Oh Rebueti. It's so nice to see you in the morning.
Just let them do whatever they want. No harm no foul.
If they do it for money, okay they have fun and make money good for them.
If they do it out of love even better.
I dont know why it matters if they are 4, 8 or 143 living together and sleeping with a schedule.
@@Rubeauti Well, but why is it a bad rolemodel?
Who sais what is good or bad. If those 4 people do what makes them happy the rolemodel is:
Live your life the way you like it. Regardless of what others say. (As long as you dont harm anyone)
There is worse role models in my opinion. Everyone who drinks alcohol, smokes, does crime, beat their wife, cheat their husband and so on... all way worse than that
@@Rubeauti i dont know why it is harmful, it is always the thing since the beginning of time.
Women only want men that are better than them, but with feminism, there aren't that many men that are so attractive, therefore you will have to share them.
There is only two options: settle with a low value man and being unsatisfied with the rest of her life because deep down she knows she is settling, or, share a high value man and be happy and learn how to co-living with the other women.
Interesting Miss Rubeauti. Definitely this is a business. I’m married to a Filipina now for many years. There is no way I could handle more than one Filipina. Sometimes I am exhausted from the activities. Good luck if you have more than one but I am happy with just one.
@@Rubeauti😀😀😀
This one was interesting. I hope that these people come to their senses
As a Biblical Christian I have a higher standard given from God. Other religions do allow polygamy but the NT sets the ideal from creation when Jesus said "male and female he created them" it was just Adam and Eve not Adam, Eve, Sally, Sarah and Suzie. Paul set the standard that Church leaders must be "One woman men" 1Tim.3:2,12 & Tit.1:6. Examples of Polygamy in the OT almost always have bad results. My one wife is enough for me, my life is complete.
Its sad that many man from where I come(Germany), expect to live like this in Asians countries
He could be just cheating on them and not knowing about each other.
I have always been a one woman man, even while I have been married to women who who don’t always believe in that life, living in the US. I am a firm believer of the vows that I share at the ceremony, and I would rather be with someone who wants to be a one man woman. If someone wants a multi partner wife, they are good for them. Not my cup of tea!😊😊😊
Are you sure this is not just for attention? He is an influencer, and that's all about getting attention.
Once the children come = problems follow
@@Rubeauti He better be rich to feed all of them and the children or else there will be civil war lol 😂🤣😂
It is still wrong and very sinful for a man to have more than one wife😕 no matter what culture or religion he is.
Whether or not we feel if it's right or wrong, if no laws are violated, then it's not our place to judge. It's the same if we judge someone for their gender decisions.
3. So in easy words there is nothin wrong with polygamy / promiscuousity as long there is authenticity, honesty, boundaries, & consent. After all "humans carry the biological imprint of polygamy - so why r we monogamous?"
Thanks for your thoughtful comment! I appreciate your insight and respect that everyone has their own beliefs around relationships and monogamy. 🤔
Thanks as well for ur broad mentality ❤🎉
Thanks for sharing. I can recall having read that when Magellan and his crew arrived in what today is the Philippines, his friend Antonio Pigafetta wrote that polygamy or bigami seemed to be practiced among some of the locals.
Anyway, this kind of lifestyle can probably be very difficult, unless all parties involved are genuinely happy about it and not jealous. Myself, I would try out with 2 women, ha ha. It should be enough at my age. But I am fine also with just one, of course. Better one than none.
The more, the merriier, LOL.
what about David Bond & overstay road
Well, money can’t buy you love but it can rent it.
They have a very interesting relationship. It looks like the 3 women have gotten past the Filipino women are very jealous stage.
Overstay road channel
3 lady's
A boy
A girl
A man
He is on vacation in Thailand
the rest are in the Philippines.
I also only want 3 wives. One named Ru, one named Beau and the last named Ti 😃
In reality, they're probably competing for his attention.
If the women and man are being taken care of, protected and supported, this man is doing his job and the benefits are definitely more beneficial than just one. Now, I have to admit that this lifestyle is definitely not for everyone, especially if you're scared of people's opinions.
2. Coming from a fellow netizen named Prince Tajani: "Truly, polygamy vs. monogamy ends up being a CHOICE because you have the power to decide which one you will practice. If you know you are polygamous, you have the choice to not get involved in monogamous relationships & vice versa. That is a lifestyle choice.
Being polygamous does not make anyone bad, & being monogamous does not make one a saint.
The system is only for men who are morally sound & can be just among wives as long as he knows the religious conditions that apply to a man when he remarries & he is willing to fulfill them.
He must also be a good husband to his first wife, treats her well & fulfills all her physical, emotional & financial rights, & he intends to continue doing so even after getting married to you.
To the sympathetic ladies; do not waste your time trying to form a coalition of relationship police, to convince people who are fulfilled in their relationships that they are suffering because they are in a polygamous marriage or because they are living out an idea of relationship that is inconsistent with yours.
Some of the champions of one man one wife, are actually secretly in polygamous affairs, but are just enjoying the controversy that generates followers & comments for social media revenue.
Know the kind of man/woman you are & the relationship that suits you. There is no kind of marriage without challenges & the challenges in a marriage are a reflection of the people in it, not a sign that the marriage itself is bad. Marriage is not a forced thing & no kind of marriage is forced. Make your choice, live by it & live with it. "
Thank you for your thoughtful insight! 🤗 I appreciate the reminder that relationships are ultimately choices and that the challenges we face are reflections of ourselves.
@@Rubeauti Thanks for ur deep understanding as well❤ more power to you🎉
The correct term for this is a Polyamorous relationship. I've had a short one in the Philippines. Me and two girls, it was nice for all 3 of us. Especially for a masculine man and very feminine girls like that. There are hardly any masculine me in the philippines (just walk down any street in any city, any island, count how many men have facial hair), and tons of pretty girls most attracted to masculine, so yea many many of them are okay with this type of relationship. There's also the fact there's a massive amount of trans girls there, and hardly any trans men which further unbalances the sexes.
But yea for it to really work the best, the man also has to be the provider and rich enough to support both / all 3.
I think this guy would be happier with just two, 3 is a lot to handle, thus why he needs so much alone time.
Majority of women in philippines have a love affair with Filipino dramas and Korean drams... Knowing this will give you an idea of what Majority of philippine women will choose... you ended up with low value women ,who are probably rejected by the local men....LOL
@@pinoysarisari7374I’m
Hispanic and traveled to the Philippines. Most older foreigners end up with left over Filipinas. Younger guys do better but if they’re not aware of the culture and immersed, most Filipinas actually seem to be scared of younger foreign guys. As to the local dating scene within Filipinos themselves, it’s like in the west. The majority of the Filipinas aren’t dating anyone, the ones that are dating are only dating a select few of the Filipino guys. It seems to me that if a Filipino or Filipina that’s older than 21 and isn’t married or in a long term relationship by then, they’re usually left over, men or women.
Wow so
Muslim is definitely different to Christianity, definitely!
I draw the line at 2 female partners, but the three of us have a more intimate, and perhaps less business-centric relationship. We just love being together, sleep, eat and play together, for the most part, although each of us has some occasional alone time. My two girls are both bisexual, and love each other as much as they love me. It's worked well for many years. I don't wish for more girls, simply because, for me, satisfying, and attending to the needs of my girls is the most important thing, and two is the most I can handle, and give each one the attention and love they need.
I believe that, as long as all are happy, safe, and fulfilled, there should be no rules or boundaries that stand in the way of having the kind of family you choose to have.
It has taken over 25 years to train one wife 50% of the way needed. I would hate to have to train 3 wives.
I have been wondering about this. I knew it was legal for Muslims, but I wasn't sure about other religions. See, my wife and I are Pagan, and there isn't a definite definition in paganism in marriage. Some Pagans practice monogamy, and some practice polygamy. Now my wife wants me to take on a sister wife or two (notice, I said this is her idea), but here in the states it isn't legal. So I had thought about the Philippines. See, I want the other woman to be protected, and to have some security. Here in the States if a polychute falls apart, then the extra person not actually married to one of the other are simply out on their own. I don't like this. I feel that all involved should have some security. Most guys would think it's lucky to have multiple partners, but they fail to take in account that all must be treated equally. Each one deserves the same time and energy. This is difficult to do. Not to mention, that in arguments you can't really take sides. You have to be un the middle, and help them to work it out.
How did it work out
i couldn't handle one tampo imagine three tampo
But… imagine 1 tampo & 2 non-tampo 🤔🤔😄🤣👍👍
Caring is sharing! In traditional Filipino culture, many men had multiple wives. The Spanish wrote about it, but the Catholic Church put an end to it, except for the Muslims. Most cultures around the world had polygamy at one time. Also, men and women roles are different in a relationship. Men are not to be a second mother.
Thank you for your interesting insight! It's fascinating to learn about the traditional Filipino culture and different roles that men and women have in relationships. I appreciate your thoughtful comment! 🙏
To be honest i would not mind to experience that in my life time three cute Philliphino serving me. I think I might consider moving to Philliphines really fast. However I can understand it might be very very tiring, cause I know if I do some business one day I don’t think I can do until few days to recover. Otherwise I will get sick.
I totally agree with you, this is just like a business arrangements. Their just using each other for the contents of their vlogs No morals values and it degrades woman’s values.
Hha I think more than two would be a headache. But I am not surprised...wealth and status motivates women to do all kinds of things. Outside of that, they will follow the trends of society such as monogamy, wearing makeup and heels, smoking cigarettes etc.
This is simply a well thought-out small business plan only possible since & through the existence of the world-wide web.
He's a rapper, so of course he will go on video to show off relationships w/ multiple women. And the ladies are just enjoying the lifestyle and everything that comes w/ it.
there's a dude doing this named David Bond too, you should watch his videos
Don't be fooled. There's jealousy and possibly even hatred.
@@Rubeauti well of course, you would know how a woman thinks better than I do.🤓
Not from the Philippines but I have two partners, our relationship is a very strong one (6 years) However we put a huge amount of thought into how our relationship works, I'm straight my partners are bi sexual (equal opportunity) . It's a triangular relationship everyone is everyone else's partner committed to only the 3 of us, everyone supports everyone else mentally, emotionally, Physically. If someone wants time alone with the other then we allow it (usually its me everyone wants because im home the least). Work, chores, child raising are shared and split ensuring one parent is always at home with the children. That being said as the guy it is absolutely exhausting, I lead the household, I work the most, getting time for just me is rare but it was already rare thanks to the modern Western work culture (i actually have a little more time now then i used now that there's an extra person dividing other chores and time with). Then satisfying two females on top but its not all threesomes and high fives those are actually few and far between time alone with someone is time alone including s@x (its good they are also with each other because if im to tired i can tell them to play with each other until im rested 🤣) . Issues of jealousy or insecurity are rectified by the group. Communication & effort is paramount . As the dad I have double the child responsibilities. I'm the voice of reason in the house. I lead the household but also have two different opinions to consider (which strangely has been incredibly beneficial if not a little tiring as 3 different opinions and perspectives leads to better decisions). But at the end of the day as tiring as it is as long as my family thrives I'm happy to bust my ass for all of them. It's not what I wanted I was always a monogamous dude our relationship was more a way to adapt to the changing times in the west. Many households now have two working parents that are rarely ever home and everything is more expensive especially now with fake shortages to drive prices up, our news media did a story recently about potatoe shortages when theres a potato farm 45min drive away throwing out the their harvest because the companies want to buy said stock below market value and farmers wont sell for less i digress and two parent families are struggling we don't have this issue now everyone works but now everyone gets time at home to be parents and to spend time together. 3 to work, 3 to do chores, 3 to raise children, 3 to build the home.
Though funny story a woman at my work was trying to initiate an office affair and wouldn't take no for an answer so she started spreading rumours. I was eventually approached by HR and I'll never forget the look on the that bloated woman's face when I told her my side then said "I have to women at home to satisfy why would I waste my precious energy on someone else? My dude tube is already over worked, much like i am here!"
Truth brother. It's a lot of work, but when you love someone, it really doesn't seem like a lot of work.
@@jimmoca2182 exactly I don't even notice it most days
I would hate to use the word "influencer" and him in the same sentence. This isn't the type of "influence" young adults need. They need proper family values, work ethics, taking pride in what they do. I think you're wrong on one thing, they may all be sitting at the same table eating, but they're not TOGETHER, they're all on their own phones in their own little world doing their own thing. I think he thought he would enjoy having 3 women around, but now it's not as much fun as he thought it was going to be. You can see from his reactions, body language, and what he says, he's not into it any more, and feels trapped and doesn't know how to get out of it. If you can't make 1 woman happy, why would ever think you will keep 3 happy, and remain happy yourself. You can't devote any time and energy to any one of them. His time has to be split between them all, and he realized he had no time for himself, which is why he's constantly on the couch and eating alone. It is his life to choose what he does with it. Me personally, 1 woman is all I want and need, someone to focus on and give all of my attention to.
Never heard of these influencers before. I am not worried about polyamorous relationships becoming a trend. Who'd want to deal with more than one set of in-laws?? 😆
3 women, oh no i'm content with 2 Pinays, i'm not GREEDY😅
Those 3 girls😮 will grow up..... they are really Young...
If he can support them and the ensuing children I do not see a problem with it. This form of family arrangement has been part of human culture for tens of thousands of years.
Group marriage is not actually Polygamy. It falls under Polyfidelity; which is similar, but not the same.
There are three Poly groups within the Poly Community; Polygamy, Polyfidelity, and Polyamory.
Polygamy is maybe more conservative, Polyamory is more liberal; Polyfidelity is somewhere in between.
The third "Polygamous" relationship is what we call "a Bisexual Polygamist".
"Polygamy" is where one person has more then one spouse. The spouse's are not intimate with one another, only the head of the house. So a Bisexual Polygamist would have a husband and a wife; but those two would not have "relations" with one another, only the head of household. Hope that makes since.
Now... If the spouse's in the "Bisexual Polygamist" relationship become intimate and everyone is ok with this, they are no longer Polygamists; the are now Polyfidelity. Group marriage's are almost always Polyfidelity.
I'm not Poly anymore, but I use to be a leader in the Poly Community. So I'm fairly up on things when it comes to that subject.
Why would I want to put myself through multiple spouses? No thanks. Find someone else to destroy.
It's ridiculous.. clearly has no connection with any of them
Being married is like being trapped in a small cabin with an angry bee. Why would you want more bees?
Whats more surprising is not that he has three girlfriends it’s that someone can look at a situation of four happy people and say that it’s wrong.
Malaking problema na nga ang isang asawa. Tatlo pa kaya. 😂
Wow 🫣I really hope the young Filipinas don’t start to be influenced by this garbage. Love is between 2 people end of story. Happy or not is not their problems this guy is plainly stroking his own ego with this nonsense flexing.
i'm suprised you didnt include David Bond in this video, he's doing the same thing but with up to 5 girls at a time. Everyone in the Philippines is talking about it
You can tell he’s tired lol he’s sleeping in the living room alone.
LOL Polygamy? - My hands are more than full enough with just one wonderful Filipina in my life. I could never handle more than 1 Filipina 😀
Definitely agree, 1 good Filipino lady/ gitl is definitely enough :-)
@@Rubeauti yeah if she is good, definitely not sure how to handle more than 1,
1 is definitely enough if cute etc :-)
Good post :-)
This is a polyamorous relationship, not polygamy, and it is every man's dream. But few are insane enough to want to marry, because then it turns into a nightmare.
The problem with enforced monogamy for all is where are you going to get all the suitable men from jails are primarily full of men. Etc Etc
He likes that phone more than the girls… even sneaks off to a separate room to be alone with his true love (phone).
He’d rather do a zoom mtg for more time with that phone instead of being at the hospital.
If that thing makes the smallest noise he is all over it.
I’m just saying… he should drop the chicks and just marry the phone 😂
If a man can fully support each woman emotionally and financially AND all of the women get along without jealousy and drama, then I really don't see anything wrong with it. It amazes me that more people are okay with same sex marriages but have a problem with polygamy. Make it make sense.
I wonder where they will be in 5 years from now
The guy is just a pimp. Polygamy is good for those for whom it works. It's kind of like saying homosexual people should marry people of the opposite sex its not going to work. It doesn't work. Likewise, there are structures that work monogamy or polygamy. I was brought up by two women my mother and her sister. They shared this kid with no problems, but it psychologically predisposed me to having two wives. I had a philippino wife who left me for another man. She cheated on me and fixed me up with another woman. I resisted this, turning down five of them and the final on seemed to have a closer relationship with my wife. That was the trigger I fell in love with her. 48 hours later, all hell breaks loose. Anyway, that woman had a kid who never had a father because my wife, who brought her in, rejected her. For all of these women abandoned with kids, it seems like a good idea. Regarding Christianity, there is no prohibition. There just isn't.
It's pretty well known that women are willing to share a high value man, weather it's if he is wealth or status\clout.
My father had 4 wives, and my uncle had 2 wives. I liked it when I was a child, I had 4 mothers who love me. My father bought a home for each wife, and he had his own house, too. The husband has to be rich, and wives can't be selfish. There are more women than men, so if every woman wanted to get married, that would be impossible.
Crazy
Will never last
It's a very ancient practice, maybe because so many children died very young in ancient times? Maybe because it was seen as a way of showing off wealth, the fact that a man can support so many women in the days when women were treated as property? If everyone is happy and all the people are willing participants, its up to them I feel? Not for me personally, I prefer to have one heart next to mine 😊 ❤😘
@@Rubeauti True and it does look like the women are more in love than the guy? 😘
The Dot's on her forehead looks scary 🙄
Idk why it would be controversial. I know I would enjoy this and I fully intend on it as an American who will be traveling. 🤷🏾♂️ I personally think the people should mind their business. It’s their life to choose whatever they want to do with it.
What if the girls choose? If the primary brought the sisters, what is the issue? The girls I know, share kids, duties, care of Tatay and Nanay. They take care of each other.
wish them the best and the tripple pregnancy :D
@Rubeauti From my experience I know Filipinas are fiercely competitive and jealous even dating one Filipina. Dating 3 Filipinas at the same time wow this is unthinkable a few decades ago. So are young generation of Filipinas now becoming liberated like western matrix women? Hmmmm 🤔🤔🤔. This looks like a business with benefits set up arrangements lol 🤣😂🤣. More power to Pinoy King 👑 Casanova 😁😂