I failed every May goal I set & I’m feeling lost AF
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- Опубліковано 30 тра 2024
- The weekly-ish check in isn’t really what I had in mind but ya, I failed every goal I set for the month whew! I’m feeling a bit unmotivated trying to make old things and routines work, but feeling hopeful about what is to come!
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Hey Dyana, me too, now let's crush these goals in June!!
New month I am ready as well
Right cause Mayhem May whipped my tale
What's wrong with being comfortable? Why is there the need to thrive for more? It's like always chasing the wheel.
I think some people are happiest by consistency and routine and some are really inspired to push for more. I also think throughout our lives we ebb and flow through these two conditions-wanting more, pulling back, etc.
Hey ! To answer your question, I don’t think there’s inherently anything wrong with being “comfortable” per say. However, when you become complacent and hide laziness behind the idea of being “comfortable” it becomes problematic 😅
@@leahmanderson298beautifully said 💕
@@celineelumelu9922I agree! 🤣👏🏾
There is nothing wrong with comfortability, if you are happy of where you are in life. Some people are ambitious and want to achieve higher goals
When my kids were younger, I was always on the hunt for free activities. The library had free classes and events for kids during the summer. Our city had free family events at the public parks. And we rotated the different restaurants where kids ate free. Doing free activities kept the cost down during the summer.
My mom always had us in the library. Luckily the librarians at our small local library were very invested in youth outreach.
The positives ALWAYS outweigh the negatives! This too will pass! It will get better! If you can pay off 35K, you can get through this! You are AWESOME!
Sis we all go through a readjustment period periodically. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I had to readjust my goals because I found out that my husband and I are expecting our first baby. So while we are still determined to get to debts paid off the timeline has been extended because we have to save for that. Also, thank you for saying that you want to be a 9-5 baddie. Sometimes I feel like our culture says if you’re not an entrepreneur you aren’t a baddie, but I’ve never wanted to do that. I’m proud to hustle my 9-5 😂😂😂😂
Congratulations 🎊 🎉
I agree and same here! My job is supporting my goal to be debt-free while I work at this UA-cam thing. ❤❤
WE ARE NOT PERFECT!!!! NOW DUST IT OFF AND TRY IT AGAIN!!!! THAT'S WHY WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR THE NEXT DAY TO TRY IT AGAIN!!! IT'S NOT FAILURE IT'S A LESSON!!!
Amen! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Please don’t feel bad, because you got right back on it
I’m just going to go with the flow in June lol
You are not alone. May was a bummer. I'm a Sr. BizA wanting to promote by EOY to PM. I've completed my PMP cert and am working on CCMP cert.
You’ve got this. Continue to give yourself grace & mercy. Remember, it's all about the climb, not the mountain top. You’ll get there!! Your content is valuable.
Girl same… I went crazy on spending in May. So I made a goal to do a no spend month for June and stick to a spending budget for our seaworld trip in June.
Sweetheart, it's ok. Do what you do with the best intention. We believe in you. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I messed up in May too. It was my birthday month. I ready for June though! We will reset together! 😊
We fall down , but we get back up.
I sang this when I read it lol (if you know the song) but that we do!
@DyanaMariie I hope that helped you and thanks 😊 now keep pushing! You didn't come this far just to come this far.. get back up and keep pushing..
@@DyanaMariie and whats the name of the song?
@Mrdonny908 search for We Fall Down and We get Up, it's a gospel song.
@@Mrdonny908We fall down by Donnie McClurkin
Well, my March April and May goals failed because ummm life was lifeing. But in June, I"m jumping back in the ring. I am indeed experiencing savings/budgeting fatigue.
I must say I’m in the same boat but I plan on sitting down and getting it together 😊👍🏽👍🏽
Sameeee. I just got a better job and this is reinvigorating my dedication. Feeling like I have a bit more control finally!
Same
@@Astrid-cc3mgthis is what i am in the midst of doing too but pivoting career
oh i feel fatigue from being on this financial journey. This month I spent and had no regret bcuz it was worked into my spending budget but what was not budgeted I had come up with a plan to pay it off before I am charged interest.
Same feeling sis every 2 weeks I say this or that and ends up failing
I think I have to find something outside of goals cause whew 😅
Sis do not be down on yourself- we all mess up - but you and others - us fall a bit but WE CAN AND WILL JUMP BACK ON IT👍🏽👍🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾! I failed if lot of goals too- life was lifing!! I had college graduations, work obligations, school, home issues. But I know We Gonna Do BETTER💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾! I’m at the threshold of paying my car off - then I got them dang cc to pay- but we gonna do !!!
I love my 9-5. It’s guaranteed pay and I still feel bossy when I meet my goals. We will rock June all the way out. We got this girl 💪🏼
I am sorry to hear about the failures. Always remember the mind is all. You are still and always will be a Beautiful Champion.
I was able to pay my SL off yesterday, and today’s my birthday. I had some near delays this month, but I made it.
Silent viewer here. You triggered me when you spoke about the cost of summer camp. 🤦🏾♀️The cost is ridiculous! My kids and I are doing it on our own too. I just add in some workbooks to the mix to keep their brains engaged, along with the free-ish events. Thanks for sharing!
Hey lady! Unfortunately we miss a month but theres always the next month. I did fully fund a small sinking fund goal,5 more to go 😂🙏
This is my first time watching your content. I feel like Im always thinking about money and budgeting. I have a problem to shop for myself I feel guilty. Even though I never eat out. Im single in my mid 40s. I love my job and love giving to other’s.I like to run and cycle, and get to the gym when I can. May I did pay off 2300 in medical bulls took me over a year. Ten had to dip into my savings for a big car repair. So June 1st I’m treading water and looking for an improvement 25:25 . Keep smiling my friend!
Love your videos lil sis. Best part of the video was when you said that your goals are to be present with/for your kids!❤ Same over here and I’m so glad my daughters getting out of school soon too. We need and will appreciate the break. Being present with/for her is one of my only summer goals and well doing weekly learning curriculums that I make up at home based on work from her school. Wishing you all a great “family” summer of fun experiences!
Hey Dyana. This too shall pass. Sounds like burnout and just consider May as a forced pause for a time out. But it’s a new month so let’s have a renewed mindset. Let’s get it!
The problem might be the way you view and do your finances. Example, why do you have savings and buffer? When you can easily accomplish the same thing by simply putting the money into the Citi card. When you put money into the credit card, IS THE MONEY GONE? or is it in your control? A: Not only is the money not gone but it lowers the average daily balance. Which means you pay less interest. Start by directing that 150 every payday to the credit card. (If paid weekly) That means 600 pay down of your citi card. Look at it like 600 + 30% (if the rate on the card goes to 30%). So the citi card is your emergency fund, a checking account, inflation beater, beating stock market. Hope this helps, have a great day.
You know sis...I didn't think of the credit card as the emergency fund. 😮
Vann tastic!!
I can relate with you. My first quarter of the year has been just going with flow and just enjoying life and I loved it but time to accomplish some goals I set at the beginning of the year. Cheers!
I want to share something with you, setting goals is a good thing it prepares the body for everything that is going on, dont ever allow your goals hurt you, they are only a list to keep you on track..is it ok to stray from your list? Of course you can. Your the best at sharing all this info with us, its really helped me personally, if you ever want to work on getting healthy the easy way, reach out I know I can help..❤
Girl same here...may wasn't the best budget month
Loosen the straps gf. I promise you that it’ll be worth it. Uncomfortable is so good because that’s what lights our fire! 😊 What are you looking for in life? What are you looking for, for today? I am 39 and I told myself that I will find a bra that fits… and gf… at 39, I finally found one. Doing something for yourself - even if it is so little - can make the biggest difference today. Make sure to nurture your health and your love for life. You are a solid, smart, and ambitious woman. When you look in the mirror don’t forget to tell yourself what an amazing person you are! 😊
Thank you for sharing your journey; including the ups and downs of life. And yes 👏 it’s OK to be a 9-5 girly and doing what you love is OK whatever path that is.
I’ve think we’ve all hit that plateau when it comes to financial goals. I’ve have at least 5 money goals that I want to accomplish by August but I know it’s gonna take me longer than that. I realized that’s it’s okay. As long as your 4 walls are paid for and there’s food and shelter for you and your children, you’re already winning. I’m currently studying for my CAPM and that has definitely gotten me out of my comfort zone when it comes to business and business management. It’s definitely a challenge and I will pass this exam this year!
This resonates, thank you for sharing with us 💜
Wow that is scary girl😮 $100 to play with till pay day. America we are in trouble
You’re fine! I’m just now starting my goals from January. It is now June 1st. Allow your self time!! Allow your body to flow!! I’m greatful that I’m allowing my body to overcome mental depression on its own and not forcing change. And I feel good!!
I love your honesty, don’t give up, give yourself grace and believe in the knowledge u already have, it’s very possible to accomplish things u have already accomplished. You’ve done it once u can do it again!
I’m in the same boat, Im having to believe in God and myself sooooo hard lately. I wanna meet my goals but I have obstacles in the way and that is discouraging but I’m silly enough to believe I can do it no matter what. I went through a crazy custody battle and won, but am being dragged though the courts on appeals 🙄 so I’m drowning in legal fees and feeling financially stuck because I’m constantly waiting on the other shoe to drop. But I won’t give up and I’m pulling faith out of my tail bone 😂 but u got this and so do I!
I love you and I’m supporting u from across the bridge (Memphis)
16:12 the cost of summer camp!!! In Jamaica, were not into summer break til July.
Love your content, Queen!
💕💕 great video!
Show yourself some grace. You've done well. You've also taught us well. I'm in my worst season ever, and (taking on a sick parent and trying to align our budgets #MedicalBill) along with major budget cuts on my job. I'm just gone keep P.U.S.H.ing ❤
You will get through this. I’ll pray for you
Thank you!!
Sounds like graduation and that softball tournament goals were hit👍
With prom and graduations . May was a bust. I'm resetting in June and leaving it in God's hands.
I would be a squeaky wheel. They owe you that money. 💴💴💴 keep emailing them. You got it!!!
Probably because you’re a little tired and need a reset 💯🙏🏼 not everything is just focusing on paying bills fast. We need some me time and fun ❤
I agree! Whew I am burnt out
Then you really need to rest because stuff will still be here ❤️I know because I take care of my 87 year young mom and my sister and it’s not easy but at times I need me time. I have my friends over and everyone is broke but we make fun into anything we do. My friends help me re-group. You need adult fun and time. These bills will still be here and I’m 59 and I’m tired of this work life. I’m trying to enjoy me 🩷🩷🩷 Put your bills on auto pay and sit down for a minute 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Girl I'm laughing cause I thought I was the only one. I lay real low in May....let's see if I can pop out in June.
I love iced coffee too. Have you thought about making some in advance then storing it in the fridge? I have no idea if this is ok or not lol but maybe it would be easier. Im getting ready for a summer low-buy, last month was crazy too
I love your content and seing your growth! It is so amazing and inspirational! Thank You and God bless. Camille from Montreal :)
Thank you so much!
Thank you!
Girl me too 😂 I think I might’ve completed 1 May goal
Maybe it’s a burnout… you’re enjoying life right and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that
Sometimes comfort can be a form of stuck because we are keeping ourselves from growth because we don't know what's on the other side of that growth.
My May goals were successful and still in progress. I have had 2 rounds of edits for my book and I am working on the final round for review so it can have its final edits and be sent for copyrighting 🥰. The dream is coming and it happened because I stepped beyond my comfort zone. If God puts it on your heart and won't let you shake it you have to move towards it.
Goal for June submit my story for copyright
Good luck all!
Same 😢
Hey, things happen. May was not good to me either. I got hit with a new bill thats $500+ for the next 10 months. Vehicle problems. Part of my side hustle got shut down. And a tax bill (which i pay to my wife) so theres flexibility with that. But that will be done in a week.
You will someday be a successful real estate investor. I have faith in you. If I can do it with all of my mistakes, I know you can do it.
You'll crush it next time
A couple reasons why you may not have the motivation financially is because of your debt amount- when you were in $35k debt it was literally a monkey on your back that made you feel trapped and you were able to overcome and pay it off, now your debt is much lower and honestly manageable so you can handle it differently so the rush is not worth it… and I agree about the 9-5 however if you look at it your business is also UA-cam
I agree with this, and I was also very much in my workaholic era lol. I see YT as like my little side hustle but it def is like a business!
Meeeeee tooooo girlie!
It’s hard girl!! But the seasons change so we will get it together!
I feel the same way.
I’m glad I’m not alone, I was honestly beginning to feel crazy
Definitely not crazy! Many people feeling like this❤@@DyanaMariie
I want to be a 9-5 baddie so bad but my current (only ever) full time job literally pays 50% of the market. So I'm plotting to be back in my own business (100%) soon.
I fell down hard last month.
When did you get a student loan? Have I been out of the loop that long lol?
I feel you on the goals sis. Im struggling with my fitness goals because of school, I had to buy a "new to me car" which took a lot of my savings because I plan to pay it off this year, and I also had a set back to my graduation date. June is my month to reset and rebalance my life!
Girl mayhem may whipped my tail after 2 unplanned car repairs a week from each other 😭😭😭😭 $2100
Just get 3 million subscribers and you’ll be good 👍
Nice but where's the credit to the Ramsey plan 🤔
Good Evening 😊, so what happened
Probably because you’re a little tired and need a reset 💯🙏🏼
Love this video. I’m about to graduate & just ready for change. I want more from my 9-5 and to pay my debt off faster. I’ll be getting a second job but I gotta stop being so hard on myself and just be patient. Like you said we gotta keep having discipline and keep going. Things will get better and fall into place.
I wonder if you're experiencing some sort of budget/money burnout?
I am…BAD. Being a money content creator burnt me to a crisp and I’m just trying to crawl back out the hole
Do you ever think you spend too money on beauty products ?
No one wants to blame the house purchase?! Sheesh
Blame?
@@BeautifulEarthJa the stress & pressure she is going thru
If she didn’t have a house, she would have an apartment with two young children, with a high ass payment, I’m all for all of us doing what’s best, but long term, her and her babies will always have a home and if they needed to, they could sell it, but I’m open to hear how you would do it differently if you were in that position
Another Last Place Club member. 😂
Crown me 😅
I love hearing that SCRUM is lighting someone up. Growth is a lifelong job. Failing at your initially planned goals isn’t always a bad thing. The learnings from that “failure” is where you find growth and clarity. 🫶🏾